Short "Ask ganjiswags" are great. But you can add 2 short question in one video. 1 long question is also fine. And daily video is not necessary you can make it one in 2 days.
In my view this guys could be a narcissistic. ‘Words best husband’ ‘she was madly in love with me’ never loved her but got married coz she checked all the boxes. He stripped her from her basic right of feeling loved and secure, when the foundation was set on such grounds how is he even expecting any different outcome. Now that she is giving back the same vibes (work wise and emotion wise), now he’s bothered but pehlay sub theek tha. This woman is just responding how she’s been trained/treated in the last 10 years. Even she needs love, validation, appreciation, and security. No emotional bonding, even today he’s talking about ‘healthy flirting’ and possibly cheating on her? I’m surprised you didn’t pick on a lot of small to big things in this email. Start to finish it’s all BS from the guy.
This is a very judgemental post , you need to sympathize with men specially when it is common for men to not share their feelings and this guy is very open in communication with his wife . Communication is key ! You should focus on the fact that despite relaying his concerns his wife goes back to doing the same thing . I don't recommend cheating and as Junaid said that they should be separated or get counseling. But gaslighting a victim is not okay ! You definitely wouldn't have said this if the roles were reversed and the wife said that the husband isn't focusing on the child ,providing supplies , not making time for love etc. people would have burnt the guy alive .
25:25 I believe the wife is stressed out they both need to go on a vacation alone. Stress is the major cause she’s doing way too much work she’s brunt out. Mentally and physically if she’s physically and mentally tired she can’t make him happy. Men need to think about this. Stress SIRF mardo ko nahi hota aurto ko bhi hota hai.
This guy started the relationship when he was heart broken and had no interest in his wife...the wife started the relationship when she was madly in love with him saying he is best husband in the world....what happened in between that changed both of them...this information is missing from this email.
His "business" happened. She started handling one of his 2 running businesses and now she's involved in it to such an extent that it's affecting their personal life. You just ignored that part. Very convenient.
All throughout the “episode” I was actually looking at the painting. It is going so well with the wall colour theme that it is looking like mirror image of room. Beautiful setup and layout.
I'm glad to know you are working on promoting other sports as well. Personally I am a huge fan of Esports and I would love to see that content. It's a huge industry and growing bigger. It'd be wonderful to know Pakistani Esports players getting more recognition and opportunities
Being from Lyari, I could feel every word you said about sports. People have no idea what kind of talent has been wasted here in lyari, International level Football players turning into drug addicts and Alcohics. There was a time when Football was not just a game but emotion, me, my cousins , friends infact every other guy here celebrated Football. One of my classmate in school was a player of Karachi United and he part of the team that went to Qatar and won them at there home ground, He met players like Inesta (Spain's Legendary Caption) and after all this when I talked to him (been while) He still didn't see Football as a carreer. It shows the lack of scop and infrastructure here, International level players travel in a jam-packed suzuki. We need more people like you and we have got to something for all the sports, Really appreciate what your doing 🙌.
No victim blaming here but this is just one side of the story. He openly says that he was never in love with her and is still not sure if he is. They never registered their marriage. And she claims that he is her first love. Getting your feelings reciprocated is the mother of all basic needs. Maybe she married him in hopes that he might fall in love with her after their wedding and they will have that spark for the rest of their lives where you're constantly finding ways to express your love to your partner and make them feel special. But that's missing here. So, it might be one of the factors that plunged her into the pit of this obsession where she has started gaining satisfaction thru work. It's sad, yes but it also sounds like a trauma response. It's not just her who needs therapy. They both need to go into one and sort things out because if you treat someone like a way to just fulfill your desires, there comes a point that they will retaliate and maybe that's what's happening here.
But what the man is saying should not entirely be discredited as well This is the problem with these email reach outs. Either both parties should send emails, or just go to therapy together.So messed up!
@@misbasattar2988 of course.. What he's going thru is abuse. I'm not denying that. But getting his wife to be aroused by him is not the right goal to optimise for. I think the underlying issue needs to be fixed and so the associated problems will be resolved on their own. Just my opinion haha
@@amnaurooj yeah I was just sharing my opinion in general. Baki girl I gotchyuu!! What a weird world where people are unable to please others but still expect them to get aroused like a switch lol
I will suggest this man, to watch a movie with his wife. That is Sex and the City. In which a character namer Miranda was living the same life. That triggered his mam to cheat on her. And then he confess it to her, out of guilt. So the lesson is, what's the point of doing so much work when you are not feeling love n life with your better half.
Junaid you didn't answer the first part that she was madly in love at the start and the guy wasn't isn't that weird if he hadn't felt that love what was the reason for marriage? don't you think one night used he used to do were better than a relationship like this like arrange marraige?Thats why arrange marriages suck and are worst!
To the person who wrote this question. A piece of advice. Do experiences together that cost money. The more the better. Take a trip to Dubai. Go to the most expensive restaurant in town. Go on a expensive staycation That way when you guys do things that cost money, she will be getting a break while doing something that that reinforces that belief that you guys are financially stable and will help ease her anxiety which will in turn luckily reduce her work obsession. Try to fix the root of your problem which in this case would be her obsession with work. Why does she feel anxious about financially stability? Try to fix those. Like maybe she still feel anxious about the future because all the assets are on your name (Just speculating). Good luck, I hope you guys are able to work it out.
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Honestly the women sounds like a superwoman if she manages to do all that with only 3 days off in the whole year. I mean she is managing so many things and all she is working for (business) is not hers so how can you be so selfish and ignore the efforts she put in cooking, laundry and cleaning and work. The passion she has for money now ,you introduced it to her in the 1st place, you were never emotionally attached to her then everything crumbles when it comes to intimacy, I mean you never had your heart in the relationship to start with then you are at fault big time yaar. Instead of blaming her try to get her to take some days off for vacation and set a limit on work hours and days for THE BOTH OF YOU. Usually men try to limit women's working hours and instead of spending time together they start spending time outside even more and are satisfied that the woman is taking care of my home and kids so I can be free now with whoever
With all due respect Junaid Bhai, Iam surprised you didn't mention couple's counseling, and made it a priority as it's clear that this couple needs professional intervention to break both of their toxic habits and cycles. Date nights are not going help at all at this stage when apparently something more complex is going on with the wife which sheis masking with work obsession. Even though the email is pretty long but some very key details are missing or looks very one sides, for instance, what happened in between to make his wife go from all lovey dovey to a toxic workaholic. And the dude is failing to grasp at the whole context leading up to his current problems, that is, failing to look at or dismissing his own toxic behaviour in the past which he has written as a broken hearted person who wasnt in love with his wife at all, theek he wo perfect he but he kept saying he didn't love her, and money has been more dear to him as he says that without it he wouldn't have access to past relationships and network. Clearly he himself has been insecure and materialistic in the past. And apparently he has projected that insecurity to his wife making her feel she isn't good enough since he has access to such high fi, gorgeous clientele ; and her insecurity compounded with the fact that their marriage is not registered(which is so strange), she doesn't have a fair share because everything is in his name etc, hence her insecurity has gone to such extreme that she must just work and earn to make herself worthy, she has had enough of her husband giving off materialistic vibes, and has shut him out completely. This is why this couple needs couple's therapy instead of date nights.
This is what you have made her by your attitude mentality and concepts you had earlier when you were dating and got married with her .. didn’t you get married to her without any feeling? But now if she is becoming what you expected..? You wanted to make hell of money and buy things ..! Now complaining people think that their mentality attitude and vibes can’t change or make other person choices ??
True that. He taught her the importance of money and now she is helping around. You see, he is the sole owner of the wealth she is earning. It means she us very sincere and she doesn't deserve cheating. He should Try to convey his point with love, some gifts, surprises, watching movies together , holding her hand and gradually convince her. It seems she is a very nice lady.Rather than pressurising her move on gradually and first start with romance rather than s*x.
@4:45 I love you Junaid bhai! Kya sochna hai apka.. and the support you are willing to offer in you capacity ❤️. Khush rahain .. abad rahain! Lots of prayer for you.
A lot of women live their lives with husbands who are workaholics,overly ambitious, extremely worried abt finances, work night shifts, but women mostly are flexible and know how to seduce the guy! When it comes to the guy, on the other side of the table, he can't take it.. i know he is miserable but the truth is he was obsessed with work n now he doesn't like it that she is and that he is not the only apple of her eyes..
Are you aware of the common law in western countries? As long as the couple lives under the same roof, incase of separation, same laws as a divorce is applicable. The husband will (as usual) loose custody of his daughter, his house, his business, savings, and any other investments. Let me ask you another question. Why exactly is she so “overly ambitious” or “workaholic”? Is her husband an irresponsible gambler or an alcoholic who is financially unstable? Does she have the responsibility to make ends meet?
@@zeeshanshaikh4508 Firstly let's address your 2nd point! WHY EXACTLY IS SHE OVERLY AMBITIOUS? so, you're saying that women don't have the right to be overly ambitious? Roti mil rahi hai tau apna koi career na banaye? Koi ambitions na rakhey?? While on the other hand, agar husband is overly ambitious that is okay kyunki uss ko apnai ambitions poorai karnai chahiye?? Kyunki uss k ambitions sai roti aye tau it's okay lekin biwi k ambitions aye tau khao piyo urao aur phir namak haram ban k zubaan chalao?? Aur shikwai karo.. Bhai yeh bola hai na desi mard 👏🏼 Ab rahee baat western world ki tau mujhey nahi pata k yeh aap ka kaunsa western world hai? Lekin US mai 50 states hai aur her state ka apnai laws hai.. aap farmaa rahey hai k western world mai the women gets the custody, the property etc etc.. bhai ki duniya mai ho??? Men and women mostly share custody, expenses, visitations everything.. Jo ziada kamata hai woh ziada deta hai.. so if a woman earns more, she ends up paying the man!! THE GIRL in this case is working in their household business, registered in his name, making it grow and elevating the family's living status... I have no idea k aap ka kaunsa western world hai.. there is a reason people marry late, put prenuptials with their wedding contracts etc etc because only marriage is accountable.. nothing else... He can go to court, put up a whole story k we met, she is an employee at my work, needed a place so i gave her, we f*** up a few times, had a daughter but no real relationship, the woman can't do anything abt it.. and men do that all the time to their second and third wives in western world.. Plz mind na karein but apna damgh kholai aur.sochai k aap waqai aurat ko kitna inferior samjhtai hain k aap chahtey hai uss ki zindagi ka maqsad sirf mard ko khush karnai k illawa kuch na ho?
Yes because woman and man want different things from each other. Be honest because no woman wants an unambitious beta male whose job is to look good and take care of the kids. If u get husband like that u wouldn’t very much like it either and a lot of men put up with it (prefer that). Similarly no man wants a woman who is just a masculine ambitious executive working 18hrs per day constantly thinking about how to climb the corporate ladder. Maybe there are some exceptions but when u equate the role and expectations of men and women then there is not much they r giving each other and probably should live their own separate lives.
@@desininja1015 Jo ziada kamata hai woh ziada deta hai.. so if a woman earns more, she ends up paying the man!! You really needs to look at western world again.
i know my comment is a bit LATE but one solution i had in my mind : might be unethical but better than cheating: since you are the single owner and she is only managing and the marriage is not legalized in the country so what you can do is talk to go to divorce. and if you go for divorce i dont know about regulations in your countrhy as u did not mention about it the whole business still is yours and she does not get a half for it. u might only have to pay for child support if the kid is not with you, the second option is a bit risky and as u have told u have several clinics you can sell one and invest it in real estate . this would lessen her burden and make it easier for her.
If it's his own business, why not hire someone for wife's official position? Go for couples therapy. As for "leave business out of bedroom like I do", men compartmentalise their lives in boxes and women have a hundred browsers open at any given time, even when asleep. So that is difficult. Try writing a letter to her. Good old paper & pen. Write to her your feelings, without being rude. Ask her to reply via letter or email. This way, conversation will be balanced, and without any sudden outburst that damages a relationship
@@ahmadtariq4573 excuse me, but I am totally with the man here. He is in a problem, he needs a way out & talking it out is the best thing. Incase of divorce, he would have to leave his daughter with his wife. You can't pick & choose. In a happy marriage, both need to understand each other. So be it your mother, wife, daughter, sister, female colleagues.... They all have 100 browsers open😅
@@binteyousuf1701 by your logic I have to divorce you in the first place you can have your work with you and die with it don't Matter to me but islam allowed 4 wives too so if I'm not getting anything from you why should I bound myself to you and deal with your shit all the time making me mentally insane I can have 4 wives I'm not obligated to fulfill your hell world
This is werid not to register their marriage. His daughter life is already werid . The parents aren't involved in her life as they should be . Hey should not have more kids. His wife should chill out a bit . Money isn't everything family should comes first. He should have gotten pre nup. He should never cheat .
If he for example leave her for a week or 2 and dont make any contact, them maybe she will understand the seriousness of the problem. Or If he fire her from her position in the company. I personally would involve her family, talk to them in order to solve this problem.
Olympic medal - firstly there were no Olympics held in 1962 -they were held in 1960 (Rome) and 1964 (Tokyo). Secondly Pakistan won its last medal in 1988 when Hussain Shah won a bronze in boxing.
Sir. Pakistan main Esports ka bohot talent hai. Specially Fighting games jismein 1. Tekken 2. Dragonball Fighterz 3. King of Fighters 4. Street Fighter shamil hain. Tekken main to already Pakistan best region hai lekin sirf visa na milne ki wajha se international tournaments khel nahi patay. baki games main bhi champians ban sakhte hain
This isn't a simple case of a a wife or a husband being too obsessed with work the thing is having no interest in the house and family life. Whether man or woman, the interest is a requirement for a healthy relationship. She needs to be given a wake up call. A straight question whether she wants out of marriage or want things to change in the relationship for the better.
Junaid you hit the nail, I always say the same. I train Jiu Jitsu & Kick Boxing. Pakistan focus on only 1 sport which is cricket, I don't wanna talk shit about cricket but why Pakistanis dont watch/play any other sport. Pakistan used to produce world class wrestlers.... Who plays cricket on world stage? 4-5 major countries, and that's it. TBH, among those major countries only 2-3 nations really cares about the game which is Pakistan/India... Nobody cares about cricket apart from those nations, how many nations play in cricket Worldcup?...I lived in Australia for years, every day Aussie dont give a shit about cricket, if you go to MCG and IndiavAus is going on, you will find that more Indians will be in the crowd than Australians, in AUSTRALIA'S home ground.
yes that is so true sex is also a need but no one understands this .. getting married is not easy now a days.. alot of demands .. its very frustrating but who cares .. no one
A couple of observations in this case. 1) The wife is not the same person he married. In the early marriage days, he mentions her being a good housewife which is the trait he was looking for, and not a women with a profession. 2) It would help to know the age gap between them because this factor plays a huge role in this regard. He did mention her being quite young. A young mind, still developing, still discovering itself gets married. And that too a marriage where there aren't too many burdens. Let's just admit, wealth assists you a lot. So she has the resources, and he being the 'best husband in the world' provides her with everything. Either she really feels that the man who has done so much for her, deserves to be helped. Or she is a young girl just discovering her passion, it turns out to be business. In her mind, she has already brought a kid in the world (but doesn't really spend time with the kid), take part in home chores (not daily but occasionally), and provides starfish intimacy to her partner (not nearly enough). So in her mind, she has kind of ticked the boxes but not with the full zeal. Why? Because her work has become her zeal. This is furthered by the fact that her husband valued money. She knows this from the dating days. So in her mind, doing house chores and giving birth isn't enough to be important. She needs to assists in bringing money to the house because in her perspective, that is what her spouse values the most and that is how she can become important. I, being a neutral observer and with the limited knowledge you provided, am very much inclined towards this possibility as opposed to her 'building her empire' as the other comment stated. If she was solely in it for the luxury, then she had that already without having to work on the business, and her husband was pretty happy with that set-up. A situation in which you take 3 offs during the entire year (not by force but by choice), spend more than half your daily in the office, and even mention it during the time of intimacy, is not normal. This is not greed, but obsession. For the man, if you happen to read this, I just want to say that cheating won't resolve your issue at all. It will leave you feeling even more miserable. You need to coax your wife into attending a couples therapy, or maybe solo sessions for her. You guys did talk and apparently it didn't work out, so time to involve the expert. Secondly, you need to ask yourself if you do love her? Or are you just used to her? Because if we love someone we can go to any lengths for them, even change ourselves. But is it worth it for a person whom we don't even love? Junaid himself, in so many of his videos has stated that children alone are not enough reason to stay together. Because again, look at my point no 1. Even after councelling she might decrease her work timings a bit but will never abandon her work. In the case, she does abandon it, she will despise you for it her entire life. She will never be the same person you married.
Sorry to say it... But homie got honey trapped.. she was never in love with the guy but was in fact in love with his potential to provide and now that she can provide for herself.. she doesn't care where the relationship goes.. for this guy I must say sorry dude but things aren't going back the way they used to she doesn't love you she isn't emotionally attached and available for you probably I am not blaming or naming someone but probably she is seeing someone else. Sorry brother but take charge of your business and daughter because now you are all alone
U missed a major point! He was work obsessed, he was not into her! Over time he got into her! And I think she wants to prove that she is worthy of him and she has picked up work, to prove that she is better than other women who u might have compared her to at some time! So back tracking, and looking inside will help and counseling!
It’s painfully obvious that she trapped him into marriage for purely financial reasons. First she sold him a dream by love bombing him. This is when someone overwhelms you with exaggerated loving words, actions, and behavior as a manipulation tactic. For example, he mentions how she would tell him he’s the best husband in the entire world and that she loves him so so much. She then further trapped him by having a child with him, which could solidify her status. Consequently, she now has him by his balls. She knows she could do whatever she wants with him, treating him as poorly as she pleases. Since he’s emotionally attached, and emotionally invested, she knows he’s not going anywhere. Now she feeds him scraps by giving him some petty starfish sex once or twice a month, even which he has to basically earn by massaging her for 30 mins first. Meanwhile, she builds herself an empire of financial stability which was her initial reason for marrying him. She’s a very smart girl who played all her cards right. Sorry Junaid, this isnt about date night suggestions, de-stressing from a hectic schedule or work/life balance. This is something where she’s just not interested in her husband and only trapped him into marriage for her financial stability. He’s just a beta male provider. He will never get that relationship from her which he truly desires because she is just not that into him as a person. Sorry
Yes, it could be chances are you are very right! That's why I think one should always try to marry if they see true and real feelings from both sides, not just one arranged marriage is indirectly a cause for this i guess
You are mistaken brother. She clearly sounds like a person that has turned into a workaholic and she doesn’t realize how it is harming her life than benefiting her. Not everyone is purposely manipulating others or playing mind games. She is obviously over exhausting herself to the point she isn’t interested in any physical activity by 9 pm. I can understand her. I have been there. I am not married but I didn’t want to even talk to anyone until it was around my schedule and the other person thought I was interested in someone else. But I was just a robot.
Really good work junaid bhai May Allah bless you. Pakistan’s sports need a lot of sport and we have a lot talent, specially Liyari ( i know since I am from Karachi).
If the business is yours then you should be the one to do most work and do hard work . If she is involved in business trybto help her and dont put burden on her as that is your duty as a man to feed ypur family . I may sound some type of anti feminism but this is what islam says . Both should play their role to make a better environment . Hope for tge best 💎
sir what im thinking is that i know 1 couple from my in immediate family they r almost the same as this email person have( minus the business) ... the only thing i dnt know about them is are the ok with it or they struggle about this BUT ...things that his wife is doing is not ok but if the same husband does then its fine???.....my situation is exactly the same as this couple and its EXHAUSTING (consider me in place of husband and and husband as his wife) its so damn hard u have no idea..and its is almost ghar ghar hi story ...husband expect the relaxation from wife and wife should completly submitted to her husband and Allah Allah khair salla
This guy got exactly what he was doing.. he was buying relationships and now he got exactly the same thing. I honestly feel this person sent this email as boasting about his money.. what goes around comes around.
If a man uses only his genitals and a woman gives her heart and soul in sex, why this man you are talking about wants involvement from his wife in the act instead of being dead fish?
True that. He taught her the importance of money and now she is helping around. You see, he is the sole owner of the wealth she is earning. It means she us very sincere and she doesn't deserve cheating. He should Try to convey his point with love, some gifts, surprises, watching movies together , holding her hand and gradually convince her. It seems she is a very nice lady.Rather than pressurising her move on gradually and first start with romance rather than s*x.
@@obaid653 are you sick or what? She doesn't own business , she runs it while her husband has hand all on things , so how in the hell she has control? Sick mentality
@@tul3909 you said yourself. She runs it. Which means she has access to everything and runs it by herself. I've seen some women have this controling and dictating mentality. I'm not even blaming her, I'm blaming the man who has become such pu**y and can't even have his own house and business in his control.
The prob which this man is facing is mostly occur with every wife by her husband. The "norm" is that a man can be workholic n a wife is supposed to face all this. In actual this kind of unbalanced work-life is not acceptable for the spouse. Rest ur advices r good n can be applied to a scenario if a lady is also suffering this attitude by his husband.
Sharing such intimate personal issues with a total stranger without listening to the other side of the story is totally bull shit. Totally inappropriate
jjunaid bhai apsse request hai k football ka krrain kuch yahan liyari DHA k ilawa kahin or hai hi nhi na futsal or nahi football ka kindly yeh bhi zara deakhain
You can add short AskGanjiSwag videos to a playlist and at the end of the week or when you get enough content so it becomes a longer episode you want to watch .
Deen Kitna pyara hai hamara.. kya he Soch k Kaha gya k kamane ki zimendaari (kawwaab) caretaker mard hai Aurat NH...ap aik dafa aurat ko is Shay me involve krlen you see the case Itna sub Kuch hone k bd bhi zindagi Ka Aman aur sukoon tabah hogya hai I really wish hope and pray for this guy Allah Taala apko aik dusre k lie sukoon Ka zariya bnae Rahat bakshey ap Dono ko aur Yaad rkhen ap aik dusre ki taskeen k lie he Banae Gaye Hain...! Ap aik dusre Ka parda Hain aur Libas qarar dia hai Deen ne miyan bivi ko aik dusre k lie aur Libas Ka kaam hamari khamiyan chupana hai aur humen sahulat dena hai You better both do that... Sukoon sahulat aur Aman o amaan den aik dusre ko Aur Junaid Bhai ne Bht khub BT. Ki k ye ghalt rasta Hai... Bhr SE sukoon hasil hoke bhi besukooni he rahegi
Bro she is working and earning for your business and you feel you can rightfully use that money to cheat on her. I think she just needs therapy for workaholic but you need therapy as you can't see where you are wrong
juanid bhai permission is not needed for a second marriage and problems don't end i just think the guy should marry another women both wives happy end of story
Wife obsessed work??? Really??? This guy WAS who his wife IS now!!! He trained her, initiated her into his way of thinking. There roles have reversed and he doesn't like it. He was absent at the start of his marriage, he didn't commit to her, doesn't know if he loves her and was using her when he married her in the first place. Women do all the things he is HAVING to do like go to work, get kids ready for school, drop them off then pick up the kids, sort out food, spend time with them, do homework, and the fathers swan in at 7-8pm and barely kiss their kid's goodnight!! Nobody is bleeding for them??? He is the workaholic who judged everyone and everything through achievement!!!! He was the one sleeping around and doing what he likes and wants to go back to it so is looking for an excuse. He needs to be a man and either end the relationship or commit to fixing it. She doesn't want to have sex with him??? Yes, because she is now him and he doesn't like it. We need to be careful in siding with someone when we have no access to her side. He is not telling you the whole truth. If she was soooo sweet etc what happened???
@@improvelivingandlearning People make wrong decisions, but if he talks to her and she is also not considering a change, what else to do, better marry another lady and avoid zina. In those countries, multiple marriages are not allowed so people don't register
Point is why this guy didn't register the marriage even after 4 years? Bcoz according to the law he will give half of his wealth to his wife if he leaves her and they are still girl friend boy friend bcoz no registration done. This guy is very selfish and ungrateful and he is using the girl , ab business flourish ker gaya to isko sab baatain yaad aa rahi hain, aur ye khud Jo females aati hain in se flirt kerta hai aur is ko girl se koi mohabbat nahi thi he already mentioned that. Wow men are so manipulative.
He said the marriage is unregistered because in case of divorce the girl wont get any of his property. @ganjiswag this is the moat rubbish response ever. He is saying he wasn't emotionally attached you could have asked him to make it so romantic that she would ask for it.. may be she has gone to the survival mode...you just said women need emotions ask him to connect it with emotions rather than penetration..you are talking bullshit
The problem with long emails - I totally forgot to highlight the "buying relationship with money" part :/
Will you make video on it again ?
Short "Ask ganjiswags" are great. But you can add 2 short question in one video. 1 long question is also fine. And daily video is not necessary you can make it one in 2 days.
Yes
In my view this guys could be a narcissistic. ‘Words best husband’ ‘she was madly in love with me’ never loved her but got married coz she checked all the boxes. He stripped her from her basic right of feeling loved and secure, when the foundation was set on such grounds how is he even expecting any different outcome. Now that she is giving back the same vibes (work wise and emotion wise), now he’s bothered but pehlay sub theek tha.
This woman is just responding how she’s been trained/treated in the last 10 years. Even she needs love, validation, appreciation, and security. No emotional bonding, even today he’s talking about ‘healthy flirting’ and possibly cheating on her?
I’m surprised you didn’t pick on a lot of small to big things in this email. Start to finish it’s all BS from the guy.
You're completely delusional af if you think the guy is wrong in here.
True his answer is totally wrong in ko mahir e nafsiat ki zarorat hai
This is a very judgemental post , you need to sympathize with men specially when it is common for men to not share their feelings and this guy is very open in communication with his wife . Communication is key ! You should focus on the fact that despite relaying his concerns his wife goes back to doing the same thing . I don't recommend cheating and as Junaid said that they should be separated or get counseling. But gaslighting a victim is not okay ! You definitely wouldn't have said this if the roles were reversed and the wife said that the husband isn't focusing on the child ,providing supplies , not making time for love etc. people would have burnt the guy alive .
Exactly, my views! I think he was happy her being home, but now she steps out and thoda he is getting disturbed, he is thinking of cheating already!
The woman was just manipulating him had no real feelings
25:25 I believe the wife is stressed out they both need to go on a vacation alone. Stress is the major cause she’s doing way too much work she’s brunt out. Mentally and physically if she’s physically and mentally tired she can’t make him happy. Men need to think about this. Stress SIRF mardo ko nahi hota aurto ko bhi hota hai.
No you don't deserve peace you belong to the workforce
Keep making money and paying taxes
No one needs you either
Thanks!
This guy started the relationship when he was heart broken and had no interest in his wife...the wife started the relationship when she was madly in love with him saying he is best husband in the world....what happened in between that changed both of them...this information is missing from this email.
He's an arshole???
Girl was just playing with the guy for the only thing he could offer I.e. money
Money change people
His "business" happened.
She started handling one of his 2 running businesses and now she's involved in it to such an extent that it's affecting their personal life.
You just ignored that part. Very convenient.
@@khurramaziz2430 because they sounds like very feminism
All throughout the “episode” I was actually looking at the painting. It is going so well with the wall colour theme that it is looking like mirror image of room. Beautiful setup and layout.
I'm glad to know you are working on promoting other sports as well. Personally I am a huge fan of Esports and I would love to see that content. It's a huge industry and growing bigger. It'd be wonderful to know Pakistani Esports players getting more recognition and opportunities
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Being from Lyari, I could feel every word you said about sports. People have no idea what kind of talent has been wasted here in lyari, International level Football players turning into drug addicts and Alcohics.
There was a time when Football was not just a game but emotion, me, my cousins , friends infact every other guy here celebrated Football.
One of my classmate in school was a player of Karachi United and he part of the team that went to Qatar and won them at there home ground, He met players like Inesta (Spain's Legendary Caption) and after all this when I talked to him (been while) He still didn't see Football as a carreer. It shows the lack of scop and infrastructure here, International level players travel in a jam-packed suzuki.
We need more people like you and we have got to something for all the sports, Really appreciate what your doing 🙌.
There’s no world class football in Pakistan. Get real!
No victim blaming here but this is just one side of the story. He openly says that he was never in love with her and is still not sure if he is. They never registered their marriage. And she claims that he is her first love. Getting your feelings reciprocated is the mother of all basic needs. Maybe she married him in hopes that he might fall in love with her after their wedding and they will have that spark for the rest of their lives where you're constantly finding ways to express your love to your partner and make them feel special. But that's missing here. So, it might be one of the factors that plunged her into the pit of this obsession where she has started gaining satisfaction thru work. It's sad, yes but it also sounds like a trauma response. It's not just her who needs therapy. They both need to go into one and sort things out because if you treat someone like a way to just fulfill your desires, there comes a point that they will retaliate and maybe that's what's happening here.
True- why she is obsessed with work should be taken into context as well
But what the man is saying should not entirely be discredited as well
This is the problem with these email reach outs. Either both parties should send emails, or just go to therapy together.So messed up!
@@misbasattar2988 of course.. What he's going thru is abuse. I'm not denying that. But getting his wife to be aroused by him is not the right goal to optimise for. I think the underlying issue needs to be fixed and so the associated problems will be resolved on their own. Just my opinion haha
@@amnaurooj yeah I was just sharing my opinion in general.
Baki girl I gotchyuu!! What a weird world where people are unable to please others but still expect them to get aroused like a switch lol
@@misbasattar2988 Haha precisely!
His mindset of supporting people is really beyond this world.
I will suggest this man, to watch a movie with his wife. That is Sex and the City. In which a character namer Miranda was living the same life. That triggered his mam to cheat on her. And then he confess it to her, out of guilt.
So the lesson is, what's the point of doing so much work when you are not feeling love n life with your better half.
Junaid you didn't answer the first part that she was madly in love at the start and the guy wasn't isn't that weird if he hadn't felt that love what was the reason for marriage? don't you think one night used he used to do were better than a relationship like this like arrange marraige?Thats why arrange marriages suck and are worst!
Love to listen your podcasts during my morning walk 😊
To the person who wrote this question. A piece of advice. Do experiences together that cost money. The more the better. Take a trip to Dubai. Go to the most expensive restaurant in town. Go on a expensive staycation That way when you guys do things that cost money, she will be getting a break while doing something that that reinforces that belief that you guys are financially stable and will help ease her anxiety which will in turn luckily reduce her work obsession. Try to fix the root of your problem which in this case would be her obsession with work. Why does she feel anxious about financially stability? Try to fix those. Like maybe she still feel anxious about the future because all the assets are on your name (Just speculating). Good luck, I hope you guys are able to work it out.
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Honestly the women sounds like a superwoman if she manages to do all that with only 3 days off in the whole year. I mean she is managing so many things and all she is working for (business) is not hers so how can you be so selfish and ignore the efforts she put in cooking, laundry and cleaning and work. The passion she has for money now ,you introduced it to her in the 1st place, you were never emotionally attached to her then everything crumbles when it comes to intimacy, I mean you never had your heart in the relationship to start with then you are at fault big time yaar. Instead of blaming her try to get her to take some days off for vacation and set a limit on work hours and days for THE BOTH OF YOU. Usually men try to limit women's working hours and instead of spending time together they start spending time outside even more and are satisfied that the woman is taking care of my home and kids so I can be free now with whoever
Agree. Looks like tge guy has become insecure as he did not think this could happen.
With all due respect Junaid Bhai, Iam surprised you didn't mention couple's counseling, and made it a priority as it's clear that this couple needs professional intervention to break both of their toxic habits and cycles. Date nights are not going help at all at this stage when apparently something more complex is going on with the wife which sheis masking with work obsession. Even though the email is pretty long but some very key details are missing or looks very one sides, for instance, what happened in between to make his wife go from all lovey dovey to a toxic workaholic. And the dude is failing to grasp at the whole context leading up to his current problems, that is, failing to look at or dismissing his own toxic behaviour in the past which he has written as a broken hearted person who wasnt in love with his wife at all, theek he wo perfect he but he kept saying he didn't love her, and money has been more dear to him as he says that without it he wouldn't have access to past relationships and network. Clearly he himself has been insecure and materialistic in the past. And apparently he has projected that insecurity to his wife making her feel she isn't good enough since he has access to such high fi, gorgeous clientele ; and her insecurity compounded with the fact that their marriage is not registered(which is so strange), she doesn't have a fair share because everything is in his name etc, hence her insecurity has gone to such extreme that she must just work and earn to make herself worthy, she has had enough of her husband giving off materialistic vibes, and has shut him out completely. This is why this couple needs couple's therapy instead of date nights.
Couples counselling is the biggest scam of 21st century cut the crap with blaming the man
He did mention it at 32:07
This is what you have made her by your attitude mentality and concepts you had earlier when you were dating and got married with her .. didn’t you get married to her without any feeling? But now if she is becoming what you expected..? You wanted to make hell of money and buy things ..! Now complaining people think that their mentality attitude and vibes can’t change or make other person choices ??
True that. He taught her the importance of money and now she is helping around. You see, he is the sole owner of the wealth she is earning. It means she us very sincere and she doesn't deserve cheating.
He should Try to convey his point with love, some gifts, surprises, watching movies together , holding her hand and gradually convince her. It seems she is a very nice lady.Rather than pressurising her move on gradually and first start with romance rather than s*x.
@4:45 I love you Junaid bhai! Kya sochna hai apka.. and the support you are willing to offer in you capacity ❤️.
Khush rahain .. abad rahain!
Lots of prayer for you.
Why does it seem to be a karma happening with this man. He never loved her and married her, now its kinda the other way round.
A lot of women live their lives with husbands who are workaholics,overly ambitious, extremely worried abt finances, work night shifts, but women mostly are flexible and know how to seduce the guy! When it comes to the guy, on the other side of the table, he can't take it.. i know he is miserable but the truth is he was obsessed with work n now he doesn't like it that she is and that he is not the only apple of her eyes..
He said k shadi registered nahi because money wise it won't hurt him divorcing her! Everything is in his name and legally she won't get anything!
Are you aware of the common law in western countries? As long as the couple lives under the same roof, incase of separation, same laws as a divorce is applicable. The husband will (as usual) loose custody of his daughter, his house, his business, savings, and any other investments. Let me ask you another question. Why exactly is she so “overly ambitious” or “workaholic”? Is her husband an irresponsible gambler or an alcoholic who is financially unstable? Does she have the responsibility to make ends meet?
@@zeeshanshaikh4508 Firstly let's address your 2nd point! WHY EXACTLY IS SHE OVERLY AMBITIOUS? so, you're saying that women don't have the right to be overly ambitious? Roti mil rahi hai tau apna koi career na banaye? Koi ambitions na rakhey?? While on the other hand, agar husband is overly ambitious that is okay kyunki uss ko apnai ambitions poorai karnai chahiye?? Kyunki uss k ambitions sai roti aye tau it's okay lekin biwi k ambitions aye tau khao piyo urao aur phir namak haram ban k zubaan chalao?? Aur shikwai karo.. Bhai yeh bola hai na desi mard 👏🏼
Ab rahee baat western world ki tau mujhey nahi pata k yeh aap ka kaunsa western world hai? Lekin US mai 50 states hai aur her state ka apnai laws hai.. aap farmaa rahey hai k western world mai the women gets the custody, the property etc etc.. bhai ki duniya mai ho??? Men and women mostly share custody, expenses, visitations everything.. Jo ziada kamata hai woh ziada deta hai.. so if a woman earns more, she ends up paying the man!! THE GIRL in this case is working in their household business, registered in his name, making it grow and elevating the family's living status... I have no idea k aap ka kaunsa western world hai.. there is a reason people marry late, put prenuptials with their wedding contracts etc etc because only marriage is accountable.. nothing else...
He can go to court, put up a whole story k we met, she is an employee at my work, needed a place so i gave her, we f*** up a few times, had a daughter but no real relationship, the woman can't do anything abt it.. and men do that all the time to their second and third wives in western world..
Plz mind na karein but apna damgh kholai aur.sochai k aap waqai aurat ko kitna inferior samjhtai hain k aap chahtey hai uss ki zindagi ka maqsad sirf mard ko khush karnai k illawa kuch na ho?
Yes because woman and man want different things from each other. Be honest because no woman wants an unambitious beta male whose job is to look good and take care of the kids. If u get husband like that u wouldn’t very much like it either and a lot of men put up with it (prefer that). Similarly no man wants a woman who is just a masculine ambitious executive working 18hrs per day constantly thinking about how to climb the corporate ladder. Maybe there are some exceptions but when u equate the role and expectations of men and women then there is not much they r giving each other and probably should live their own separate lives.
@@desininja1015 Jo ziada kamata hai woh ziada deta hai.. so if a woman earns more, she ends up paying the man!!
You really needs to look at western world again.
Thanks for the questions. Mostly people both male and female become workaholic when leave out from Pakistan.
i know my comment is a bit LATE but one solution i had in my mind : might be unethical but better than cheating: since you are the single owner and she is only managing and the marriage is not legalized in the country so what you can do is talk to go to divorce. and if you go for divorce i dont know about regulations in your countrhy as u did not mention about it the whole business still is yours and she does not get a half for it. u might only have to pay for child support if the kid is not with you, the second option is a bit risky and as u have told u have several clinics you can sell one and invest it in real estate . this would lessen her burden and make it easier for her.
There is a saying "a person wasn't a virgin until he got married" so yes that is the reality of being married
Same questions same answers but still I learn something new from your vid every time.
After watching this video . I must agree its a great option to ask Junaid Akram because he explains the right thing in a very good manner.
MASHALLAH Junaid Bhai, ALLAH SWT apko eska ajar de aur hamari public apke es naik kaam ma support ata farmaye ❤️
If it's his own business, why not hire someone for wife's official position?
Go for couples therapy.
As for "leave business out of bedroom like I do", men compartmentalise their lives in boxes and women have a hundred browsers open at any given time, even when asleep. So that is difficult.
Try writing a letter to her. Good old paper & pen. Write to her your feelings, without being rude. Ask her to reply via letter or email. This way, conversation will be balanced, and without any sudden outburst that damages a relationship
We don't have time to deal with your bullshit
Like treating men like shit doesn't make you happy in the first place
@@ahmadtariq4573 excuse me, but I am totally with the man here. He is in a problem, he needs a way out & talking it out is the best thing. Incase of divorce, he would have to leave his daughter with his wife.
You can't pick & choose.
In a happy marriage, both need to understand each other. So be it your mother, wife, daughter, sister, female colleagues.... They all have 100 browsers open😅
Please elaborate when you say 100 browsers open
@@binteyousuf1701 by your logic I have to divorce you in the first place you can have your work with you and die with it don't Matter to me but islam allowed 4 wives too so if I'm not getting anything from you why should I bound myself to you and deal with your shit all the time making me mentally insane
I can have 4 wives I'm not obligated to fulfill your hell world
In simple words, he has lost the leadership of his home and his wife has become the man in the relationship. This mostly ends in a divorce.
Salute to this guy for supporting and promoting sports athletes in Pakistan
Best influencer personally
This is werid not to register their marriage. His daughter life is already werid . The parents aren't involved in her life as they should be . Hey should not have more kids. His wife should chill out a bit . Money isn't everything family should comes first. He should have gotten pre nup. He should never cheat .
As a doctor I’d like to add, decrease in libido (sex drive) can be treated and should be addressed to a doctor.
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If he for example leave her for a week or 2 and dont make any contact, them maybe she will understand the seriousness of the problem. Or If he fire her from her position in the company. I personally would involve her family, talk to them in order to solve this problem.
i really want to know the other side of story from his wife, He is not saying all the truth, thats what i feel.
shut up and go clean the utensils
You women need to live alone
Cause men are fed up already
One sided story b tu aisi hi hai k khud aisa hi tha start se till now abwo b aisi ho gai tu hazm nai ho rha he deserves
@@ahmadtariq4573 yeah men are fed up of doing what they were born to do: WORK.
True one should always hear two side of stories
Olympic medal - firstly there were no Olympics held in 1962 -they were held in 1960 (Rome) and 1964 (Tokyo). Secondly Pakistan won its last medal in 1988 when Hussain Shah won a bronze in boxing.
Apki videoz bht useful hoti hn thankx junaid sir
This man after every sentence AAAAAA
Sir. Pakistan main Esports ka bohot talent hai. Specially Fighting games jismein 1. Tekken 2. Dragonball Fighterz 3. King of Fighters 4. Street Fighter shamil hain. Tekken main to already Pakistan best region hai lekin sirf visa na milne ki wajha se international tournaments khel nahi patay. baki games main bhi champians ban sakhte hain
I think that she’s emotionally done with him... unfortunately
I hope that they can revive their relationship
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lots of respect for you.
Great initiative
This isn't a simple case of a a wife or a husband being too obsessed with work the thing is having no interest in the house and family life. Whether man or woman, the interest is a requirement for a healthy relationship. She needs to be given a wake up call. A straight question whether she wants out of marriage or want things to change in the relationship for the better.
Junaid you hit the nail, I always say the same. I train Jiu Jitsu & Kick Boxing. Pakistan focus on only 1 sport which is cricket, I don't wanna talk shit about cricket but why Pakistanis dont watch/play any other sport. Pakistan used to produce world class wrestlers.... Who plays cricket on world stage? 4-5 major countries, and that's it. TBH, among those major countries only 2-3 nations really cares about the game which is Pakistan/India... Nobody cares about cricket apart from those nations, how many nations play in cricket Worldcup?...I lived in Australia for years, every day Aussie dont give a shit about cricket, if you go to MCG and IndiavAus is going on, you will find that more Indians will be in the crowd than Australians, in AUSTRALIA'S home ground.
Good bro MashaAllah Allah apko Kamyb kre ameen
There’s a saying “Women treats you how she want to be treated first and then she treats you how you treat her”
Totally
This is so so true
yes that is so true sex is also a need but no one understands this .. getting married is not easy now a days.. alot of demands .. its very frustrating but who cares .. no one
A couple of observations in this case.
1) The wife is not the same person he married. In the early marriage days, he mentions her being a good housewife which is the trait he was looking for, and not a women with a profession.
2) It would help to know the age gap between them because this factor plays a huge role in this regard. He did mention her being quite young. A young mind, still developing, still discovering itself gets married. And that too a marriage where there aren't too many burdens. Let's just admit, wealth assists you a lot. So she has the resources, and he being the 'best husband in the world' provides her with everything. Either she really feels that the man who has done so much for her, deserves to be helped. Or she is a young girl just discovering her passion, it turns out to be business. In her mind, she has already brought a kid in the world (but doesn't really spend time with the kid), take part in home chores (not daily but occasionally), and provides starfish intimacy to her partner (not nearly enough). So in her mind, she has kind of ticked the boxes but not with the full zeal. Why? Because her work has become her zeal. This is furthered by the fact that her husband valued money. She knows this from the dating days. So in her mind, doing house chores and giving birth isn't enough to be important. She needs to assists in bringing money to the house because in her perspective, that is what her spouse values the most and that is how she can become important.
I, being a neutral observer and with the limited knowledge you provided, am very much inclined towards this possibility as opposed to her 'building her empire' as the other comment stated. If she was solely in it for the luxury, then she had that already without having to work on the business, and her husband was pretty happy with that set-up. A situation in which you take 3 offs during the entire year (not by force but by choice), spend more than half your daily in the office, and even mention it during the time of intimacy, is not normal. This is not greed, but obsession.
For the man, if you happen to read this, I just want to say that cheating won't resolve your issue at all. It will leave you feeling even more miserable. You need to coax your wife into attending a couples therapy, or maybe solo sessions for her. You guys did talk and apparently it didn't work out, so time to involve the expert.
Secondly, you need to ask yourself if you do love her? Or are you just used to her? Because if we love someone we can go to any lengths for them, even change ourselves. But is it worth it for a person whom we don't even love? Junaid himself, in so many of his videos has stated that children alone are not enough reason to stay together. Because again, look at my point no 1. Even after councelling she might decrease her work timings a bit but will never abandon her work. In the case, she does abandon it, she will despise you for it her entire life. She will never be the same person you married.
Raipye a woman, don't marry.
My current situation and this email have loads of similarities.
Sorry to say it... But homie got honey trapped.. she was never in love with the guy but was in fact in love with his potential to provide and now that she can provide for herself.. she doesn't care where the relationship goes.. for this guy I must say sorry dude but things aren't going back the way they used to she doesn't love you she isn't emotionally attached and available for you probably I am not blaming or naming someone but probably she is seeing someone else. Sorry brother but take charge of your business and daughter because now you are all alone
Exactly. She is either interested in someone else or simply doesn't love him or loved him ever.
U missed a major point! He was work obsessed, he was not into her! Over time he got into her! And I think she wants to prove that she is worthy of him and she has picked up work, to prove that she is better than other women who u might have compared her to at some time!
So back tracking, and looking inside will help and counseling!
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It’s painfully obvious that she trapped him into marriage for purely financial reasons. First she sold him a dream by love bombing him. This is when someone overwhelms you with exaggerated loving words, actions, and behavior as a manipulation tactic. For example, he mentions how she would tell him he’s the best husband in the entire world and that she loves him so so much. She then further trapped him by having a child with him, which could solidify her status. Consequently, she now has him by his balls. She knows she could do whatever she wants with him, treating him as poorly as she pleases. Since he’s emotionally attached, and emotionally invested, she knows he’s not going anywhere. Now she feeds him scraps by giving him some petty starfish sex once or twice a month, even which he has to basically earn by massaging her for 30 mins first. Meanwhile, she builds herself an empire of financial stability which was her initial reason for marrying him. She’s a very smart girl who played all her cards right. Sorry Junaid, this isnt about date night suggestions, de-stressing from a hectic schedule or work/life balance. This is something where she’s just not interested in her husband and only trapped him into marriage for her financial stability. He’s just a beta male provider. He will never get that relationship from her which he truly desires because she is just not that into him as a person. Sorry
Yes, it could be chances are you are very right! That's why I think one should always try to marry if they see true and real feelings from both sides, not just one arranged marriage is indirectly a cause for this i guess
Good and fair point.
One more thing, she probably wants him to admit and run out of that net so the blame game is strong on him, while she keeps on building her empire.
You are mistaken brother. She clearly sounds like a person that has turned into a workaholic and she doesn’t realize how it is harming her life than benefiting her.
Not everyone is purposely manipulating others or playing mind games. She is obviously over exhausting herself to the point she isn’t interested in any physical activity by 9 pm. I can understand her. I have been there. I am not married but I didn’t want to even talk to anyone until it was around my schedule and the other person thought I was interested in someone else. But I was just a robot.
It's a really dark world
Really good work junaid bhai May Allah bless you. Pakistan’s sports need a lot of sport and we have a lot talent, specially Liyari ( i know since I am from Karachi).
If the business is yours then you should be the one to do most work and do hard work . If she is involved in business trybto help her and dont put burden on her as that is your duty as a man to feed ypur family . I may sound some type of anti feminism but this is what islam says . Both should play their role to make a better environment . Hope for tge best 💎
I wish we had an Indian version of you in India
Her condition for Sex timings reminds me of a Joke, "Sex will be started at 9, whether you're home or not"
death bed pae moments yaad ati... felt that while i had a major accident...
sir what im thinking is that i know 1 couple from my in immediate family they r almost the same as this email person have( minus the business) ... the only thing i dnt know about them is are the ok with it or they struggle about this BUT ...things that his wife is doing is not ok but if the same husband does then its fine???.....my situation is exactly the same as this couple and its EXHAUSTING (consider me in place of husband and and husband as his wife) its so damn hard u have no idea..and its is almost ghar ghar hi story ...husband expect the relaxation from wife and wife should completly submitted to her husband and Allah Allah khair salla
Lot's of love and respect
Great Video Junaid bhai dosray sports ko b sponcer ker chaye
1984 Olympic Hockey Gold bhee aaya tha
This guy got exactly what he was doing.. he was buying relationships and now he got exactly the same thing. I honestly feel this person sent this email as boasting about his money.. what goes around comes around.
Dude please do visit or take a brief about sports of golf in Pakistan.
31:45
soten
Please include more and more gay queries 🏳️🌈
@Name I m not supposed to tell u
Sir football ka kuch kare liyari mae larkae kea time zya ker rahae hae koi puch nae vala nahi hae
If a man uses only his genitals and a woman gives her heart and soul in sex, why this man you are talking about wants involvement from his wife in the act instead of being dead fish?
This is not business what they are doing. Business is what gives you freedom. Hire more people if you can one by one it will expand your business
True that. He taught her the importance of money and now she is helping around. You see, he is the sole owner of the wealth she is earning. It means she us very sincere and she doesn't deserve cheating.
He should Try to convey his point with love, some gifts, surprises, watching movies together , holding her hand and gradually convince her. It seems she is a very nice lady.Rather than pressurising her move on gradually and first start with romance rather than s*x.
Why don't you gold diggers just fuck off
No, he has lost his position as a man and the leader of the house. And now she dictates him on her own will.
@@obaid653 are you sick or what?
She doesn't own business , she runs it while her husband has hand all on things , so how in the hell she has control? Sick mentality
@@tul3909 you said yourself. She runs it. Which means she has access to everything and runs it by herself. I've seen some women have this controling and dictating mentality. I'm not even blaming her, I'm blaming the man who has become such pu**y and can't even have his own house and business in his control.
She can take half of all his wealth, as she has a daughter with him , according to European law.
The prob which this man is facing is mostly occur with every wife by her husband.
The "norm" is that a man can be workholic n a wife is supposed to face all this.
In actual this kind of unbalanced work-life is not acceptable for the spouse.
Rest ur advices r good n can be applied to a scenario if a lady is also suffering this attitude by his husband.
spektakra it is i guess that game you said (hope spelled right)
Sharing such intimate personal issues with a total stranger without listening to the other side of the story is totally bull shit. Totally inappropriate
jjunaid bhai apsse request hai k football ka krrain kuch yahan liyari DHA k ilawa kahin or hai hi nhi na futsal or nahi football ka kindly yeh bhi zara deakhain
+boxing ka bhi maloom krne gaya tha udhr bhi nepotism chal raha hai sir
Kindly put hour long episode or longer. More people are interested in other people's lives and gossips. That is what most people care about
You can add short AskGanjiSwag videos to a playlist and at the end of the week or when you get enough content so it becomes a longer episode you want to watch .
9:00 😂😂😂😂
Great joooooooooob
Deen Kitna pyara hai hamara.. kya he Soch k Kaha gya k kamane ki zimendaari (kawwaab) caretaker mard hai Aurat NH...ap aik dafa aurat ko is Shay me involve krlen you see the case Itna sub Kuch hone k bd bhi zindagi Ka Aman aur sukoon tabah hogya hai
I really wish hope and pray for this guy
Allah Taala apko aik dusre k lie sukoon Ka zariya bnae Rahat bakshey ap Dono ko aur Yaad rkhen ap aik dusre ki taskeen k lie he Banae Gaye Hain...! Ap aik dusre Ka parda Hain aur Libas qarar dia hai Deen ne miyan bivi ko aik dusre k lie aur Libas Ka kaam hamari khamiyan chupana hai aur humen sahulat dena hai
You better both do that... Sukoon sahulat aur Aman o amaan den aik dusre ko
Aur Junaid Bhai ne Bht khub BT. Ki k ye ghalt rasta Hai... Bhr SE sukoon hasil hoke bhi besukooni he rahegi
ap ka education channel kub start hu ga
Bro she is working and earning for your business and you feel you can rightfully use that money to cheat on her. I think she just needs therapy for workaholic but you need therapy as you can't see where you are wrong
Soft tennis wala saad is my clasmate
table soccer players k lye bhi kren, hmara kitna talent dabboo py jaa k patti khelty hen.
Kindly keep a video to 10 min max as it's a one question
Or mma ke oper focus dena chaiye iski misal asim or shazaib khan hain
juanid bhai permission is not needed for a second marriage and problems don't end i just think the guy should marry another women both wives happy end of story
Juniad: Bhai number he share kar de un larkiyon ka :D
Wife obsessed work??? Really??? This guy WAS who his wife IS now!!! He trained her, initiated her into his way of thinking. There roles have reversed and he doesn't like it. He was absent at the start of his marriage, he didn't commit to her, doesn't know if he loves her and was using her when he married her in the first place. Women do all the things he is HAVING to do like go to work, get kids ready for school, drop them off then pick up the kids, sort out food, spend time with them, do homework, and the fathers swan in at 7-8pm and barely kiss their kid's goodnight!! Nobody is bleeding for them??? He is the workaholic who judged everyone and everything through achievement!!!! He was the one sleeping around and doing what he likes and wants to go back to it so is looking for an excuse. He needs to be a man and either end the relationship or commit to fixing it. She doesn't want to have sex with him??? Yes, because she is now him and he doesn't like it. We need to be careful in siding with someone when we have no access to her side. He is not telling you the whole truth. If she was soooo sweet etc what happened???
Bro, just ask him to marry another lady, keep her. We are allowed for 4
Dont break houses, build them
And what about that lady jis ko is ne khud aisa bna dia never registered a marriage no intimacy nothing at all
@@improvelivingandlearning People make wrong decisions, but if he talks to her and she is also not considering a change, what else to do, better marry another lady and avoid zina. In those countries, multiple marriages are not allowed so people don't register
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Sir no offemce but don’t smack CRICKET like that all ur best views have been on cricket videos
Point is why this guy didn't register the marriage even after 4 years? Bcoz according to the law he will give half of his wealth to his wife if he leaves her and they are still girl friend boy friend bcoz no registration done. This guy is very selfish and ungrateful and he is using the girl , ab business flourish ker gaya to isko sab baatain yaad aa rahi hain, aur ye khud Jo females aati hain in se flirt kerta hai aur is ko girl se koi mohabbat nahi thi he already mentioned that. Wow men are so manipulative.
Mr International i think its just like doing *pushups*... atleast ask her to generate aah aah voices it might help you a lil bit!!
He said the marriage is unregistered because in case of divorce the girl wont get any of his property. @ganjiswag this is the moat rubbish response ever. He is saying he wasn't emotionally attached you could have asked him to make it so romantic that she would ask for it.. may be she has gone to the survival mode...you just said women need emotions ask him to connect it with emotions rather than penetration..you are talking bullshit
Or it is sounding like hum tv
Nani and Nanny 😂
2nd wife is the solution
No 1 motivation to not get married in the first place
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