3 things I learned by failing 14 times in CA
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- You have more to learn from others' mistakes than from their successes.
"Tell me where I'm going to die, so I'll never go there" - Charlie Munger.
I have learned way more lessons in my CA journey by making way more mistakes. Sharing 3 of them in this video.
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Am doing CA from 13 yrs...1 group left to clear... Married and have a kid...I have 547 contacts in mobile but ZERO friends to call when feeling low ....
Same with me..iam.still unmarried
Pursuing studying with a kid and a family to look after....uh r trulyyy impressive and inspirational maam ❤️
Same situation
So true, ma'am! But I would say, somehow pull it off. I know many people, especially women, who cruised till CA inter and by the time they have their final exams, they get married and get busy with family responsibilities. I mean, they become totally a different person. CA just goes to #23 in their priority. I pray that you become a CA soon. :)
Same with me....CA Finalist and married and mother of 3 year old....sometimes i feel exhausted and just want to talk to someone.but no one is there ....sometime I just scroll through my contact list and realise no body is there to talk.
I'm not gonna lie, I was just scrolling youtube then this man occured in my feed and I just opened this video with 0 interest, but then after listening to his learnings I just left numb, his words hits hard like Bruhhh... He left me speechless. He taught me a great lesson. Hatts Off Man 🤗
Very kind words, man. Thank you for the comment.
Us bro us
Because of your comment I watched the video.
Nice video and learnings.
Thanks Bro.
Similar case.
@@CAHareesh thank you so much sir for sharing your learnings with all the people ❤️🙏🏻
I realized this that people leave, the degree stays. Therefore, prioritise.
How true! Well put.
The thing is you die, degree is temporary. The time you lost with people and family is priceless. Get your priorities straight.
@@achalsoni4769 then i think, lets not pursue any degree. Spend time with friends and family. Preparing for something is a phase and not your whole life, i am willing to give up time for a thing i want to become, and if they are really friends and family they will wait for me to come out of the phase to enjoy.
@@nikitasahu3698 you are missing the point. It's about balancing. Time is money. You should know how much time to give to which degree. It's not even rocket science, it's common sense but I guess it's uncommon for you. Cope.
@@nikitasahu3698 how selfish of you to think that people should wait for you?! As if they aren't already. We are here talking about excess time given to things which it doesn't deserve whether it's degree or anything else. You can still have degree at 50 but you can't bring your parents back forget about friends. Time , youth , parents, health, etc are more important than degree. You need to make a balance. Again, cope.
Normalize adressing people as colleague, classmate, batchmate.... Not everybody you hang around or work with is your friend!!!
Well said ❤
👏👏 True!!
So true
3 Things are:
1. Friends don't last forever. Focus on your exams rather than on building relationships.
2. Be diligent. Your work ethic is going to help you clear CA. Get into monk mode.
3. Instead of blaming or complaining, focus on learning from your mistakes
thanks hero💌🤟
Very well said.. Specially THE MONK MODE
Very well said.. Specially THE MONK MODE
Very well said.. Specially THE MONK MODE
He is so true about friendships.... All I can say is don't waste even a minute thinking about people who don't even care if u are alive or not.... So just move on with life and focus on other things...
@@Vishalkkkk120So true
3-4 attempt are max that one should give
@@YashSharma-fq1dk mba course need money
@@Vishalkkkk120 it's VERY easy to mock someone dude. Life isn't the same for everyone. For most of us MBA isn't a great choice owing to financial situations. The person who goes through it only knows after one point how important it becomes to get that prefix CA. And the reality is you may earn more as an MBA, but that can never fetch you the respect and recognition that CA can.
For many of us, it's about independence, respect and not just money.
If the decision of those who drop by 3-4 attempts isn't criticized, this shouldn't be criticized too. I respect both category of people. Unless you walk in their shoes or atleast try to, please never pass judgments on the decisions that people take.
You may not agree with his view point, but many may relate to him.
So atleast don't call it FAKE. Just happily ignore if it doesn't resonate.
Peace 🙏
@@regawis07well said 👏
No fakte recognition
The Guy clearing on his first attempt FLEXES, having required 17 attempts to clear the task , just he is imparting valuable lessons and knowledge he learnt to those around him , and helped me also ❤
It's a weird journey, man. But worth every bit. Thank you for your kind words.
CAs with multiple attempts are kind, humble and true gems.
You guys are God's favorite indeed❤
Lol so CA's in first attempt aren't kind and humble? What's your logic?
@@achalsoni4769 I think hard times make people humble and down to earth. Since I have worked with some, can tell the difference.
@@achalsoni4769 he means the ego in person will be left no more
Failures crushes every soul inside you so does ego gets crushed in this like nothing@@achalsoni4769
@@SivaKumar-wv1zm I can show you Bcom failures with more ego than a doctor? What's your point?
Do you know what makes you unique? You are a winner not because you cleared the CA exam but because you fell and rose, you fell and rose... You kept going, unlike the losers in life who give up on their ambitions easily. Your determination is what sets you apart from the rest. It is not easy to face and accept failure, especially when you have had academic success your whole life. But, you not only accepted but you learned some great lessons from the constant failure. Your words are empowering and inspiring. I am currently 15 writing this comment, and I pray that I never quit in life just like you, regardless of what field of study I opt for.
Thank you so much for the kind comment :)
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Am sure universe sent me to watch this video ❤ Very Valuable insights
Ah, thanks man.
TH-cam algorithm is not universe
@@achalsoni4769😂😂
Oh my God. I'm a CA student and youtube recommended me this video. I failed inter once and skipped other two attempts due to college exams but whenever I think of quiting I come across motivating journey of chartered accountants
YOU CAN DO IT. YOU CAN PASS CA , YOU WILL MAKE IT , IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT , KEEP WORKING HARD , ALL THE BEST BROTHER.
-Fellow ACCA Finalist ❤
@@amgh4743 how did you clear sbl? Self study?
@@mohamediyoub9810 didn't clear bro ,I'm writing in sept attempt can't write in June cuz of internship 😕 , haven't cleared any professional level papers yet sbl gonna be first paper
@@amgh4743 ok bro
@@mohamediyoub9810 took coaching from Zell education bro they are the best
I have been preparing for UPSC for the last 7 years, given 5 attempts. Out from various stages. I have seen people come and go. The more time you take, the more people leave, they lose hope in you. People remain friends with you in the first place thinking if he becomes something, it will be helpful for us. So, in the end, it is about favours.
yes beo😢
Work ethics or discipline > intelligence
Iam struggling with this. I am unable to change my habits.
Nothing is greater or lesser . Life is uncertain. When someone just do something , he want to give " Gyan" . Moreover today's people are shittiest being.
In the beginning, I isolated myself from my friends because they were attending a regular college, even though none of them are pursuing CA or any other professional course. All I used to do was blame myself for choosing the open university, where my friends were enjoying their college life, while I was attending lectures, revising, and submerged in books all day. No enjoyment, no friends, nothing. I wasted my first attempt because of this. It took me time to understand that we have different paths, and it's me who's pursuing a professional degree. So, yes, the journey would have to be hard; otherwise, everyone would be doing it. Peer pressure and FOMO are really something crazy; I did so much overthinking because of that.
How old are you brother?
@@Rishi2015 19
have you pass foundation@gwmanish6075
You will never regret what you have prioritised. You are on the right track. Keep going and don't turn back till you get the job done.
Same with me
The part that u told about friends is very true. NO one is there in bad times(friends and relatives), at the time of success they just want to make use of whatever they want. U r not at all a failure , but a motivation and inspite of everything u were so determined...
true words. thank you for the comment.
The Friends part..OMG i can totally totally relate to this.
Your video just gave me a throwback of moment when i was insulted by my principal right in front of my Colleagues and Friends..OMG i cried like hell right there right in that moment for the first time after ages. Those Words of him Hurted me at so many levels and it happening in frontof my friends hurted my dignity. Fortunately it helped me to clear my group 2 in inter but the motivation was lost in Finals.
I'm watching this video today and now the wounds feel fresh like before.
I need to do this..I need to be a CA give them back a good reply.
Sorry to hear about that. It's terrible to get spoken that way in front of friends. But there's an exit way. Repurpose the hurt into good work. Work in silence, change yourself into a different person, and let the results do the talking. I wish you the best.
For me just after 12th grade I saw the true colours of friendship not that the ppl were bad but situations happen to be that way but I'm happy I learned the lesson early and now I never get attached to a friend 😅 and even if I ever have to stay without having any friends it wouldn't be a big issue for me👍
@@unforgettxxle same
If you are being CA to give them reply then you are an idi0t
Or do good in anything you want, also if you doing it for them they won
Not only about friends. It is about our relatives. Parents relatives..... Wasting time in engaging with people that won't be even there in your life after a certain period of time.
It's not wasting. Your last moment memory is the only thing you have.
My all friends left me when they came to know I left medical college.no one cared to ask why? My parents thought they wasted money and time on me.and till date my younger sister harassing me for wasting my parent's money.she didn't allow me to smile, eat, get any help from my parents, she didn't allow me to get married n have children. One friend was with me 10 years, when she realised I am no more useful to her,she just disappeared without saying goodbye.
@@skj708 what are you pursuing now?
Now we have a person who actually speaks about failures in life. Huge respect....❤🙏🏻
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So truee it is what you said about the insecure feeling inside about not attending to friends/people and feeling insecure about them not talking to you in future....
Struggling with the same, even though I know by experience that even if I talk to them they still won't attend me back after my use will be over.
You got the message.!
ias abhilash ki story ki tarah tvf aspirants me
At this point when I was broke that why i am not giving value to myself, always prioritising family and friends, end up wasting so much of time that i could have cleared my final by now.
Thank you so much for this video.
Atleast someone spoken about it.
Glad you were able to resonate. I wish you all the best.
Same mistake I have done.
@@man12443 how u pss inter then
What's wrong in prioritising your family over degree? You should prioritise family over everything and by family I mean parents and siblings.
@@achalsoni4769 bro at the end those parents will say no to u when u ask for money or any need bcz of there old mindset so to become independent, prioritising degree over family is good
such an eye opening video....
i can totally relate to everything what he has told...i got 99% in 10th,98%in 11th,and a school topper in 12th with 99.40%...but now when i look back to those ,nothing helped me in ca preparation journey.....my friends who were just below average were able to study much better than me...the fact that i realized thereafter was that it's not our skills or knowledge what helps us to clear CA ,but the efforts that we take towards achieving those goals...
thank you brother for making me think for a while
it's the first time watching your videos and happy to say that you got a new subscriber.
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Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you got the message.
Dost ❌
Career ✅
I'm also a nice guy, earlier i also found it fascinating to have friends, to have female friends, 😅 to talk to them, to pass exams same time, to remain in touch with my fellow mates, but now i can also relate to you sir, all people have ultimately stopped talking with each other. Friends don't matter anymore now to me, in courses like CA, it all ends upon you only, others will leave you the moment they think your need is not for them 😢. We by that time tend to attach to that person, and the moment they leave, it creates self doubt upon our own selves 😢. They will talk to you when they are free, but the moment to want to talk them whn they are busy, they'll BLOCK u without giving a thought to your efforts in that friendship or relationship, happend with me too.
But the only thing is you become emotionally weaker and waste your time. All have their own lives and goals, even people say they are friends even if they haven't talked for last 1 year 😂, LoL
So, who ever reading my comment, make sure put yourself first, then your career, then family, then those FAKE FRIENDS 😏. and plz don't get attached to anyone during your career journey ! All will leave one day !! 💁
I certainly feel those 17 attempts happened just because of this, i know its easy to say
I have failed 4 times in intermediate g1 itself and will appear in may again but i have lost hope of studying 😭, been having upset stomach since a week, sleeping more than usual, bad routine and what not
I just feel that we humans are not weak its just that we fall prey to circumstances
But in the end all i wish is I can put a smile on my mumma puppa's(I wish to see them so happy)
that's a rough road you've been through. See you as a CA soon. All the best.
I am CMA final student, I have tears in my eyes as I listen to you narrate your journey, this has been more or less my life so far. I am not exaggerating one bit. Watching this video was like listening to my own CMA journey. Want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this gem of a video ✨
so generous of you comment. thank you so much :) See you as a CMA soon.
How many years to complete inter CMA ?
The man has a point...I too feel the sluggishness doing FINAL but haven't given up
I have been doing the same mistakes again and again. My first final attempt was on may 2022. I cleared grouped 2 in nov 22. Since then i am failing group 1 because i feel i cannot prioritize myself. I prioritise people their life. And its my third attempt for group 1 l, technically 5th attempt. I have 10 days left for my exams and i haven't prepared well this time too because i didn't prioritise my studies. I feel miserable.
I'm sorry to hear about that. It's a pain when exams are just 2 weeks and we know we haven't done much. Start small. Start slow. It's not beyond reach. All the best.
Same problem
Same situation
I am also going through same situation.. mine also first group left and not able to prepare this time bcz of feeling low. But I want to give my 100% in coming November attempt and looking for study partner who is serious about clearing in this attempt. May be this will work out and things would change. Hoping for the best✌️
I am also facing same problem since my first attempt of Ca final had due dec 21 , I gave priorities the People more than my studies because I think, if I did not give time to him him/ her than don't talk to me and when they have turn come they giving you excuse....
That point of time I realised that kaash aapne aapko ko samay diya hota to shayad kaha hote.
So here If you don't mine , Can we connect over here.
Believe me bro...U never failed...That was the part of Ur learning...U r a warrior.❤
hey thank you for the kind words. :)
Im a dr preparaing for my neet pg( postgradutaion). Our courses may be different but our journeys are the same....wat u said in the entire video is very true....at the end of the day we have only ourselves....thanks for speaking the truth and for telln wat we all go through
thank you for caring to comment on a channel of a different domain :)
You are welcome...may your channel reach great heights...🙂
Oh my God this video reached me at the right time. I had a friend he is studying abroad and I am very attached to him as my family member. I was diagnosed with a severe health issue , to me it was a dark phase for me sometimes I thought it would be better to die than living with this pain . One day I realised that pain is not much as mental agony that is given by him . He never spoke me after he knew about my health issue and suddenly he blocked me without any reason . Some friends are like this
Don't know what to say about your situation but i guess it depends on people you become friends with not everyone is your friend and i have always made a small group of friends wherever i have gone the first group from childhood to middle school they still talk to me they are just one call away always and really always and second group made during kota on my jee coaching days the circle got smaller but people stayed we still hangout if we get free time we call each other and plan a trip it's not the same but the connection remains the same infact it has grown over the years
We always talk to each other whenever we feel low and that's the beauty it's not that i prioritise my friendship over my career it's that my friends pushed me towards my careery constantly telling me to work hard and give advice and even if i fail i don't think they are going to change their attitude
Well that's just me
No Feidnship is Forever!
The Greatest Lesson I've learnt in life at 35 years of age is The People Whom You Travel With is all that matters. If you grew up in India in the 90s You might have Area / Flat / Colony Friends
You have your schools Friends
Your have your college Friends
You have your Random friends that you make while Travelling / Or any activity.
Your Parents and Grand Parents if you're lucky enough to have them Travel with You thru all These.
It's like SuperStar Philosophy in Life. Life moves on. You move on. You Ascend slowly and when you reach the Glass Ceiling, Shatter it. And Keep Climbing and Ascending.
I rebooted and restarted my Professional and Personal life 34. Its like Matthew McConaughey lines from his Oscar Speech 2014. Whatever it is you look up to, whatever it is that you look forward to and whoever is it that you're chasing, to that I Say Amen and To That I Say Alright, Alright, Alright!
If you have time please watch The Movie, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty.
God Bless and GodSpeed My Friend
💜 💯☝️
thank you so much for the comment :) I will do watch the movie you suggested at my leisure. Godspeed to you too.
There are no friends in this career. I've learnt it the hard way. I had a close knit of friends whom i spent my tutoring classes post IPCC and thought we were going to be in this together.
In 2020 i got depressed and zoned out completely, and they all cleared and are doing good but none of them cared to help me or even ask. I'm still stuck with my 2nd group and have no actual friends to rely on. Thats why i only make acquaintances now.
One day I will sit with you and you will realize how similar we are. Thank you CA Hareesh Sir
During 3 years of articleship I had got 947 calls.
810 by mom
112 from clients
24 from relatives for birthday wishes
And 3 from so called friends out of which 1 was to mock and 2 by mistake.
You realize who thinks what about you when you hit 25. It hits you seriously one day, and you wake up.
Nice. Sometimes i feel bad that i didn't have a proper friends circle. Still feel the same.
This is one of the best videos I ever have watched .I have no circle of friends ,where I always used to feel bad ,after watching this video ,I find everything by my side,❤thank you..
Thank you for the comment! Go solo.
@@CAHareesh thank you
Same 💯
Thank you 🙏 sir valuable input
This video is eye opener for CA Aspirants who are struggling to clear CA exams
Lesson 1 5:34
Lesson 2 8:49
Lesson 3 11:24
Hopefully We will meet someday
I was not a popular student or even averagely known in all of my school life, not even a 'good morning' have i ever received from anyone, not even from any of my bench partners. So, 10 years of that really gave me reality check. But still every now and then because of group projects i had to interact formally which eventually made me realize that i have attachment issues and i basically become a doormat for anyone who decides to have a conversation with me.
So, at the age of 18 when i moved abroad and saw some wild roommates, it took me two days to get the message that it is going to be the same as School life.
Now in early 20s and still don't know what friendship is supposed to be. Or if i even need one.
Can absolutely live without small talk or gossips, gonna take this video as a sign from the universe because i still fluctuate between mindless people pleasing and long periods of isolation.
Take care everyone.
hey life is not always so bleak and melancholic, hope you find some really good friends who you connect with in the the future
Don't worry
U r my introvert friend ok
Because ur childhood gone with hardships. .. and torcher.
That's it.
U just need to practice to be cope up with .. for 4 years atleast...
I might be not so much elder.
Or not an kid perhaps who is 20 year old.but ,I can say that in just 3 year of preparation most of freind leave me even my best freind some 1or 2 remains.
Well even i am not experienced that much but i can say that hardwork that you do to build yourself is only things that remains , freinds might be not enternal,but some freind do remain with you even in worse time so don't leave them.but at the end hardwork would be the thing that help a person in the end.
Such an eye opening video..i felt like seeing me on the video having same kind of background, geographic and doing same mistakes which is pointed out very clearly...i had never commented on any of the videos in TH-cam..but this one... really meant a alot.
I'm very glad that you were able to relate to this. I wish you the best.
What a waste time and brain power..all this for what so you can get $100,000 salary ..if you had put that much effort in starting a business, would have made alot more money and freedom.
Truly said by someone: "Failure teaches you more than success. Success boosts your ego".
This man is a perfect example for this!!
Virat Kohli
Hota rahe bhai fail Puri zindagi phir
@@achalsoni4769Big Success requires initial failure.....
@@5crb30 not really. You can get big success without failing. Nothing wrong in failing too whatever works for you but failure isn't a necessary requirement for success.
@@achalsoni4769 I understand that but you will definitely get road blocks on long roads ....some gets finished few continue and SUCCEED
One of the best videos I've ever watched.. Thanks big brother. You have my respect ❤
So relatable sir!!! I am in ca inter and I gave my first attempt in may 22, and after that I have been giving the ca attempts continuously. Every time I felt that I understand the concepts of audit and tax so well than many of my fellow ca buddies but how come they can clear so easily. But now I realised the msg you wanted to convey that you have to have a work ethic
Bro can you just explain how didnt you gave up? I mean its actually hard to believe that how did you used to motivate yourself when you weren't able to clear your exams? I'm from Pakistan and im also doing CA. Im in CA inter and i failed my Cost and Management 3 times and depression is killing me. Any tips on how did you kept your hopes alive and didn't gave up? Anyone who is reading this comment can answer. Need some help from the seniors.
P.S : i didn't watched the video, i just read the title
thank you for writing. I'll definitely make a video on the questions you asked. please stay tuned.
I never go in parties and just prioritise myself and my objective over everyone and everything, just currently Focus on yourself .... Be your best...
I'm in my early 40s. All my friends are occupied with their own lives. Feeling lonely. No friends
I have bought your book, randomly I bumped into a store I liked the title and my gut told me the book would be good and I realized it was a tasty assorted chocolate, of course from your indiviualistic perspective, but good general pointers. Good Luck
Much appreciated, and thank you for the feedback.
Book name
@@chinnababuchalla6921 Substance over form
I suspect we may be moving toward a future where friendship doesn't exist as global stability deteriorates
I can sense pure wisdom from the each word you have spoken, it's an eye opener from me being a CA student, you are right without work ethics,unbiased thinking, and not complaining, and finally accepting the situation as it is, nothing can be achieved
Glad TH-cam recommended this video to me at right time
I love Stoicism :)
@@CAHareeshsame:)
Today i subscribed your channel i hope u add some positive things in my life ❤
I really hope so too :)
This is pure gold.... Ur ability to reflect and think deeply is worth more than any degree
Kudos
Thanks a lot Sir ❤ as a student preparing competitive exam
I could relate the attitude change
And I take in more of what I need to change
This is really a true 💯 advice ❤ 😊
Thank youuu so much for make aware me.😊I am a CA foundation Aspirant from Nepal...™❇.....
Glad to see the channel has reached Nepal! Thank you for the comment.
I am 21 years old and have decided to prepare for civil services. However, there is constant sarcasm around me regarding my decision not to pursue a job. Even my own family members, like my sister who previously supported me, now taunt me because she secured a government job at just 18. I haven't attempted the exam yet, but I am filled with fear and can empathize with your feelings of uncertainty. I have no friends, as I tend to isolate myself due to being introverted. Whenever I feel low, there is nobody there for me. It feels like I'm wasting my time, and people who were once supportive change when we don't meet their expectations. Only my parents provide me with a little support. I have one friend who always checks up on me and supports me, but I've distanced myself from him because I fear being alone if I don't meet expectations. Those around me have expectations because they believe something good will come to them if I succeed, but if I don't, I understand the disappointment...
that's really sad to hear but I wish you the best!!
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Man try ignoring such things which makes you feel low
Work on your Goals
You are just 21 jist take them as life learnings
All the best for your future brother
@@ThePhonon56 thank you
@@Vickyy11001 how at 18 when minimum limit Is 21 ?
I am a cs student ,topper in both 10th and 12th and now my days and night are full of guilt... already failed in one attempt... Fear to face the examination has gone so high that in the last two attempt i made excuses and lie to my family about exam that they are cancelled...now i am ashamed of myself and by seeing my mother eyes full of hope and trust ...break me every single time...its not like that i dont want to study but concentration power becomes so low that i couldn't study straight for one hour...Maa can't sleep in night because of me.. worrying about my future praying to god ...ki uski beti k sth ye q ho rha h... I want to see her happy
More power to you❤
Same story but, I am ok now. Because I understood that this was a quit new version of journey ( self Learning and independent)it will take some time to adapt, plz give that time.
You will definitely find a way.
and we are leaders
5:48 same happened to me sir. because of that I failed in two attempts. thank you sir for valuable advices. I needed them ❤
This is the best video one can make for CA Fraternity.No exaggerations and show off . Pure explanation of reality. As a CA Final student it was totally Relatable.
🙂🙂 your video was coming to my TH-cam recommendation from last 3-4 days i was literally ignoring your video and i was like what this guy will tell most probably will talk something bad about CA or may be telling the struggle or anything you might understand.
But sorry for having such mindset.
I'm very happy that I finally watched this video bcoz the things you've told in this video i might not be able to understand everything in the perspective the way you want.
I prepared for ca exam in December 2022 but started preparing late so i didn't passed the exams but in may 23 i cleared it on margin of 200 marks.
Idk what should i say due to several issue i was not able to purchase the batch 🙂 for my intermidate prepration and finally started preperation by the end of December and seriously everyone keeps saying come on you're smart enough to clear atleast 3 subjects with preparation of 3 month and 1 month of rivision 🙂🙂 I don't what should i say if my luck is not with me or something else bcoz i was soo excited last year in August to prepare for inter may 23
But at this point of time 🙂 I'm just pushing myself to keep revising the syllabus bcoz i don't want to be failed in both groups.
Somehow i managed to complete syllabus of law and taxation but i haven't finished syllabus of accounts not even 70% i seriously don't know how I'll manage this attempt.
But thank you for telling important lesson you understood in you CA journey.
Thank you sir ✨
hey thank you for sharing your story. If people say you're not making enough efforts, listen with all your ears. If people say you're not good enough, just turn deaf. I wish you all the best. :)
Take a bow!! sir🙌 bout to appear for inter exams... thank you for posting this one.
17 attempts, but in the end you won.
To be this resilient, nah , ain't that easy. More power to you. 💪❤
If it takes those many years of your life with that uncertainty, sometimes you need to learn to give up. Reminds me of the UPSC aspirants. They atleast have a limit. Also I would rather have friends and live rather than making sure a soda company can show losses to save taxes. You really think too seriously of the work you do
Yes true he seems to be over serious , saving time here there and studying it don't seems practically possible
I don't why but i feel ur words are true and it gave me peace at this moment when dispite of giving so much of effort i feel sad about time wasted in past .... I am going to give my Exams in Upcoming May attempt and only one thing i need is peace in my mind
Thank you for your valuable insights which no 1st attempt person could ever give
Your words are helpful
Very kind. Thank you. All the best.
Iam going to appear for my CA intermediate for the first time in upcoming May Month.
I didn't prepared well and haven't completed lectures because of my dads hospitalization in the last few months. Decided to appear for just one group for this attempt.
Just completed direct tax only, having bundles of portions in law & accounts to study. Should I give this attempt or better to skip this one dude?
Really confused. Finding very difficult in taking decision. Can you help me out?
I'm really sorry for your situation. Can you check a video I made in this topic? th-cam.com/video/ws2AUqs7uK8/w-d-xo.html
This video will help, I'm sure.
I have heard my life story with your voice but the difference is i am still in the journey. thank you for making me realize reality... will work hard more and more.. thank you so much wish you had a successful career where ever you go..
Thank you so much for the good words. The light is there at the end of the tunnel for you too. Just walk a bit more. All the best.
Same happened to me thanks for sharing your thoughts 💯 true ❤
The amount of clarity and experiences that you have gained over the years is the reflection of your speaking. Thank you for sharing your experiences which is really amazing and I will implement this in upcoming days as I am very close for my CA exams.
I am CS Executive I literally wasted two of my attempts because of my priorities to my friends my enjoyment..... I am that I am realising that now that at that time eventually if I would work harder just reading and learning everything when I could able to clear my exam before hand only😢😭💔
everyday I am thinking that my friends enjoying themselves but now I realise my path is different and eventually my course required merit list not the reserve 😭
my course ask me only three things
consistency
patience
hard work
and degrees is yours ❤
i'm happy you're getting aware of your priorities. and i pray that you never forget them. I wish you all the best.
First video, and within 2 seconds i hit the subscribe button. Oh my god well spoken you are .
Please continue making videos
Ah, kind words man. Thank you.
You are right friendship is scam
True friend never existed 😢😢😢😢
Every second of this video seemed to realistically jolt me... I have done all of this... Over prioritising the friends, being a rank holder at school level and goofing up with everything in CA journey, getting diagnosed with very bad jaundice just 2 months before one of my inter attempts... This couldn't have got much relatable. I too have learnt the lessons the hard way. I cleared my foundation in june 2015.. And here I am, attempting final both groups in may 24.. I curse myself for the mistakes I have made.. It is all irreversible now.. But, I hope, I get through this time... Thanks for this video 🫶❤️
Thank you for writing. Yes, it's a little too similar to be relatable. I hope I didn't creep you. Lol. Anyway, I wish you all the best for this exam. Do well.
Sometimes, you need a reality check w.r.t all the blunders you have made and sabotaged your life. But, at the same time, it's a motivation too, that there's always a way back towards your destination, even if you have travelled the wrong path all this time.. So, this has unknowingly done it's work in many ways.
I did it this time.. It's CA Pranav Chhatwani 😋😋
2012 started with college, cleared cpt, ipcc, 2014 than training till 2017, than went spiritual till 2023, now started ca final but health problems nov 23 and may 24 , time not helping me, what we can do, all friends settled, but it's true luck is different for all humans
I agree with the point that, for some great things, the timing has to come to. but just make sure that you keep investing the efforts from your end as well. All the best!
Soul touching. Thank you for making this video
Sir, i wish to gain some more knowledge from you. I am 22 and lost friends from college. Not all of us are aspiring CAs but the value you add, is commendable :) I truly appreciate that.
Please keep on making life lesson videos like this. I want to learn more from someone like you. It's a request.
New subscriber here 😊
Thank you for the comment. Sure, the videos will be coming.
You were amazing brother 🫡 sooner or later things happened. Your 9.8 years of failure gave us the right choice for today. We’re all thankful to you, you spoke well and good. God bless you man 🤝
Kind words. Thank you.
I wish someone had told me all of this before my first attempt. Even if they had, I probably would have taken it lightly as It's human nature to learn from our mistakes 😔
Btw this video gave a direction to me thanks for that
I'm happy you got the message. I wish you the best for your journey. do well :)
OMG sir I really appreciate even after going through all this u kept on going I m CA inter student it's almost 3:17am may24 attempt scrolling TH-cam I got ur video... I was totalling feeling like hopeless I started crying coz its my 4 attempt in inter doubting myself.......i can relate with ur video especially friend... In 1st attempt even I use to prioritize my friends Instead of thinking my remaining syllabus I use to start teaching them for 4/5 hours on call ....thinking I shld help my friend at that time I use to think my friend is facing difficulties I shld help her out... I got many humours about grp 2 is very tough I always majority of times keep on studying eism and audit and remaining time for grp 1.... But even till exams I was lacking behind..... Just bcoz Whatever time I wasted countinously on call for long long hours instead of helping out myself first I helped them unfortunately.... Which subject I use to teach them on call I failed in that subject not only in that subject but I failed both grp on the other side they cleared both the grp with exemption... At the end of the day I learnt stop priotizing others..... They are working in big 5 having a good life... After that didn't received any call or text....
It's just sad how ungrateful people are!! But really always remember..no one like such people remember ur gud deeds they only remember ur flaws to make themselves feel superior......uh have been an amazing human .....nowww help urself study...and remember helping urself now to study ..means u r helping urself and your family your parents ..uh r the only one who can bring a chnge in their lives...all the best gurl...let's reply when we crack our groups
@@slayyyy_28 yes's when I was 3yrs old I lost my dad my uncle is one of the inspiration to pursue this degree... He treats me like his daughter now I m 20 he has given meh immense love and support that's the reason.... How hard I fell down I have to stand again fight back and Tysm for such positivity 💜
@@sonaliprajapati1190 🥺 so glad to hear you have him...he isn't ur uncle he's ur father 🥺 ....now it's ur turn babygurl to give him the best life ahead !! But don't be too harsh on yourself ...calm down take deep breaths in between enjoy life with a smile and love your study time also ❤️ sending uhhh my wishes
that's a sad story to hear. Yes, I have had many unslept 3:17AMs too. all the best for your future.
@@CAHareesh thank you sir ☺
Sir salute to your dadication but , does it really worth it ? Are you earning well ? I heard multiple attempted ca doesnt get better opportunities or value inthe marker is it correct?
Yes, it was totally worth it. I'm earning really well. Yes, multiple attempts will affect CAs initial package in the job market. But it's just the initial package. beyond 18 months, it won't matter that much. thank you for the comment.
I was so frustrated since last two weeks and TH-cam suggested me this vedio , I'm glade I decided to see this was too helpful ,it felt like my older brother is guiding me.
Thank you.
I thought I was only one who lost friends and connection eventually,I cried so many nights just because I was alone but after 1 years I realised it wasn't anyone's fault, it's a way of life people are just like visitors....just like they came they'll leave too.
What actually matters is your perception towards yourself.
Now I don't mind being alone, actually I see it as an opportunity to spend time with myself.
But I have a question ?
that's a good perspective. people are just like visitors. yes, and your question is?
@@CAHareesh I couldn't make anyone understand this and didn't found anything helpful regarding this but everytime I used to sit for study or do anything with all my focus my minds starts chattering,it continuously talks something or the other things comes to my mind and my 'if' and 'what if ' comes, I'll end up ruining it with my overthinking.
And all because of this now I can't keep in mind anything even little things I forget very easily.
I was topper of my class but now I'm average, everyone thinks I might have some relationship issues,but actually it's not I am having an issue with myself.
My mind hold on things for long time then actually necessary.
Can you please suggest me something,how can I break this overthinking chain and live in present??
@@gayatrii18 even i suffer from many of the things you said. not some 10 years ago. even today. but the answer could be really long and I'm planning to make 2-3 separate videos on the issues you're facing. actually many of us face these. So, can you wait for about 2-3 weeks?
@@CAHareesh yaa Sure, I'll wait for it and thank you so much u replied me.
You'r really too good,you decided to help students like us.
I'm grateful ❤️
I'm preparing for NEET and my story is 95% similar to u atleast damnnn thank God it's only been 2 attempts for me , I won't be repeating the mistakes u made , thank you very much sir 🫡
I wish you all the best.
Very down to earth speech and ideas. I enjoyed listening to your 3 major points.
Bhai video Hindi Mai rehti toh jyada logo ko samajh aata
I understand :) Video english hone mein 2 reasons hain. 1) Main Chennai se hoon. So, main English mein more comfortable hoon than in hindi. 2) agar main hindi mein video banaun to bhi, idhar mera state (Tamilnadu) ka students zyadatar samaj nahi paayenge. agar mujhe hindi ka specifically bahut saare requests mila hai to, main hindi ka ek separate channel kholunga. Thank you for the comment.
Dude! Oh my god! I also got a terrible jaundice just 15 days before my Nov 23 Finals. I was so weak that I couldn't even sit for extended period and you know its a lengthy disease to treat. I felt so frustrated about it because even after following a strict no outside food and water rule for the past 4 months, I still got diagnosed with it!. I literally was thinking to not give 1st grp. But gave both of them anyhow. Passed in 2nd grp but failed in 1st. It felt so bad and frustrating that it wasn't even my fault. But as you said its the other 5% when its just a bad time.
Still continuing the acceptance process. Its tough and it always linger somewhere behind your mind even if you feel you have overcome it.
But we move forward. Hopefully May 24 will turn out the best.
Thank you man! Felt so good to share with someone who can understand how it feels! Much appreciated and more power to you!
Thank you for sharing your story. From the maturity level I see in your comment, your wait is not too long to call yourself a professional. I wish you the best.
I'm studying CA foundation, i failed in 1st attempt 😔 i wish to crack my foundation level in this June 2024 attempt....pray for me guys...🙏
I wish you all the very best.
Thankuuu sir.. 😊this means a lot.. wish this video was put up in about 5 years. I lost my attempts due to me prioritizing my friends 😩
This is my 8th attempt of Group 2..
I'm sorry about that. do well. See you as a CA soon :)
I got severe health issues when I turned 18, i was not able to build a proper career although i checked all 3 of your points. It’s sad i wanted to work and i absolutely loved it but health fucked me very very bad. At 24 I still struggle with health.
I'm sorry for what happened to you. But No 18+ words in comments, man. I'm removing the comment.
Hi Hareesh sir, I bought your book named ‘Substance and Form’ I always wanted to reach out to you for creating such an insightful book and I’m glad that you’re on TH-cam.
"Substance and Form" audiobook recording is in progress! The full audiobook will be released soon in this channel.
@@CAHareesh is your book available in hard copy form as well??
@@jiyasukhija939 Unfortunately it's not in circulation, as of now. kindly wait about 2 months. I'll release the audiobook in this channel itself. If you're very particular about having a hard copy, kindly leave an email to my ID, I can arrange it for you. ID can be found in the channel description.
@@CAHareesh I've inter exams in may...after that I'll email you
Hi
So true , ive experienced that a lot in college exams , when i had way more intelligence than my other classmates but still they all were ranking way more than me just because of work ethic and confidence
Bro speaking the most useful facts
At some point we realise, Adulting is more tougher than anything...
This is the video I needed.... I also have the same attitude which you spoke about in your 2nd point...... I also think that if I want I can easily score more than 80-90% in any exam I want, as I get more than 70% with a studying of a week..... Also I have a mentality that if I want I can easily crack CA.... Thank you for telling me that this attitude doesn't work in CA.... Now I'm gonna slowly change myself.... The best line, Your intelligence is not always your asset, it can be liability too....
I'm so glad you understood the message in the best possible way. All the best.
As u gave many attempts u have to also listen a lots of taunts of people nd that mental Pressure can u plz make a vedio how u handle that toxicity of people low self esteem when u didn't clear and that sometimes comparision yourself by your parents relatives nd sometimes by yourself . How to actually deal all of this plx make a video on it
this is actually a very needed topic for every CA, CMA, CS aspirant. Currently working on the topic. please stay tuned.
@@CAHareesh yes sir thank you so much
Thankyou for helping me to realise my mistakes .I just find you randomly and I'm sure now that this video helps me to change my life the way that I want
It has been 14 yrs, still in CA final. 😂
Your next attempt will be the last attempt and then you will be CA Danish 🎉🎉so keep going..... you can do it 🎉
Really wish you a way out soon. All the best.
I made d same mistake of prioritizing friends over my career...considering them as "Friends Forever"...
N today none of them r in touch...
N i am still struggling wid my career...all alone...wid only 'my family', by my side...
At 28 years of age Unfortunately I checked this video way too late and looking back at it I could have taken my CA inter period more seriously and should have worked harder. Never accepted my failures and blamed it on others I feel worthless even today.
it's still not late yet. 5 years from now, you might say, I should have started at least by 28, if you don't start now. I would highly recommend you start now somehow, irrespective of your current age, financial commitment, family status etc etc etc.... just start again.
This video has a positive message and is something I can relate to, you are really brave to share it with us all.
Reflecting upon your past, welcoming truth even if it offends you and changing your approach of doing things is very powerful.
Thank you!
Nothing is forever not even parents, siblings they also make u feel different ....they also manipulate, blame you and then you are evil to them.
True. All such possibilities exist. One can just live on a hope and prayer that this doesn't actually happen.
@@CAHareesh True sir🍁🌺
Hello sir ,
I would also like to share my side of story .
When I was in school I wasn't an intelligent student but just because other students in my class didn't study so with minimal efforts I used to score highest marks in the class . Eventually I started studying and in 10th I scored 95% and in 12th I scored 92 % . I was in the seventh heaven. I started thinking that no one can be as intelligent than me . Then I decided to pursue chartered accountancy course . I didn't took much efforts and did minimal studies . But however I cleared my ca foundation with 202 marks and after that I was super scared of being failed . I have never seen failure in life before because Ive always secured 1st rank in my class. After that I shifted to pune to prepare for ca intermediate but fear of failure was so much in my mind that I couldn't focus on my studies.
My intermediate attempt was due in May 23 but now it's may 24 and I haven't given a single attempt. I've stopped attending family and friends gathering because I'm tired of telling everyone that I haven't given my attempt yet . My attempt is due in May 24 , but I'm not able to focus at all . I can't even share this things with my family because they think that their daughter is so flawless but deep down only I know what the exact reality is .
While watching this video I can't even explain how much I've cried . Definitely I'm going to take small steps to improve my condition because if not me then who will ?
Thank you so much sir for your words. I felt that I'm not the only one who is going through this stage .
Thank you so much sir once again ❤
First please attempt..
If you fail Don't worry about it,you tried it
Sometimes failure gives the real motivation...
Hey thank you for sharing your story. Skipping an attempt should never be an option for you. But I'm glad you took the message from the video.
I hope you checked this video also, where i shared some actionable inputs for how to get back. th-cam.com/video/VtsWozgfeeI/w-d-xo.html
Honestly atleast attempt the exams
How did you feel everytime you checked your results expecting to pass but couldn't clear and how did it feel to start everything once again hoping to clear the very next time ?
Great question, brother. I made a note of this. Making a video soon :)
But the short answer is, turning back was not an option. Stakes were way too high.