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I still remember sir. 1st yr took a whole yr to gauge people. By the end of 1st yr cemented life long friendships. Now about to enter pg i am skeptical about people esp dont want them to know me personally( they prey on ur weakness whenever u fight with them..i ll try to be on face and keep a distance for my own sanityand will learn to say no whenever required( not seniors though. Have to say yes!
With or without reasons what if you feel like you missed all your good times, friends and by the end of your UG life you feel like that no one is beside you .. You feel like you are left alone while seeing the new group or bunch of juniors hanging around in groups, calling many as their best friends and making me miss those days really bad.. Hoping for a reply from you sir and I am a NEET PG preparing doctor ..
I wish there was someone like you to make this video back in 2015 when I joined college . I think I am depressed now. Wasn't able to make any friends in college. Now I am dropping this year and the future doesn't look good either with the kind of prepration that I have done and the kind of studies that I did in the past 6 years of college. Here I am, 26yrs, no friends, no postgraduate, no hope for future, all my batchmates got into PG already...not even thinking of gettig arranged marriage cz who knows what kind of person will the opposite side be. Well, your voice is very soothing Sir. I wish the best to pupils joining UG and my seniors joining PG. May god bringall of you loads of happiness.
Dont worry dear ...GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN ,which may not go according to our calculations. Trust in Him . ISAIAH 55:8-9 I passed out mbbs in 2020 , directly joined for coaching.....had tried hard ....still struggling to get out of this cycle .But i believe everything has a time. Profession is just a small percent of our lives . Just smile ,work smart ,trust in Him and keep going just remind u in phases of depression and anxiety,that only GOD knows what is good for us 10 years down the lane of life ....All that blossom now may not appear same in future. Also ,each one is unique and so something good for one ,might not work good for the other one Only thing we can do is trust in HIM and work smarter....God bless❤️
I have the same best friend from mbbs through residency junior n senior ... It has been a blessing ... Not only do we discuss work .. we sort out life issues! Nothing beats a good friend for this .. wen she called me out on my stupid errors n behavior and I helped her out of her fears .. it's the best feeling to have a person u trust by your side and it all comes with time and bonding!
These teachings are much more important than academic teachings , because a student can learn anything from books or internet in today's digital times , but what makes the life a blessing , is the clarity regarding driving it clearly , which matters alot for the peace of mind . Everyone will pass through the academic journey , but , the state of mind in which they pass it , is all that will make a difference in their life . Thank you for this much realistic guidance . 😊 🙏
I sadly dont have any connection with my old school friends till class 10. I think they might have forgetten me by now. Those school friends whixh i made at class 5 or class 3 till class 10 were the best
Here's my story: Actually,I don't have any friends. No one is like me, I am completely different from rest of them. I tried so much to fit into different kind of people, But their and mine interest/idea/behaviour/thoughts always differs alot , i still try my best to fit in , but no matter whatever I do, at the end of the day I'm still alone. I am very good guy and always respect other's feelings, thoughts, but I don't know why people always avoid me.Everyone acts like just a classmate with me and not as a friend. I'm like second choice, and not anyone's priority. I was not choosen as anyone's best friend. I don't have any proper friend group also, I tried to fit into different friend group,too but as always I was most ignored memeber of all. No one enjoy my company. No one wants to be with me. That's how it is! If you read all of this , Thanks for listening to me.
This all teaches you to be comfortable living alone and being yourself rather than fit in with those whoes thoughts and vibes don't match to yours. And according to me this is a great advantage as you get to enjoy your own company which is always there for you and is unconditional, you'll never feel the need to look for friends in others. If you're an introvert than this is blessing in disguise.
Someone said me long ago. And I remembered the same thing recently - u will have colleagues eventually not friends. And ur video is in my suggestion as an answer. Thank u for taking out ur valuable time to make our lives meaningful.
Sir, Your voice is like a guidance that calms me... It is also the tone I will use to guide my juniors when I grow to be a PG or consultant. We need your motivation sir, in life. Keep making videos for us! You are so amazing sir, though I know you must also be having your share of hardships and managing it well and skillfully! Hope you and your family are together happy and in good health. ❤
Very beautiful words I am last yr mbbs student studying in Georgia , I always find people talking shit behind my back without knowing anything about me this people or what we call friends are the one with whom I am surrounded, everywhere I found this type people n luckily I have not shared anything about my life my past with any1 in this 6 yr , I shared 1 thing with close frd that was my mistake my biggest regret that I shared n behind my back she talked badly n laughing on my weakness, I didn't felt hurt becoz I knw people who love me are with me forever , fake people are just lessons for me , ONE THING REMEMBER "NEVER JUDGE ANYONE , WITHOUT KNOWING ANYTHING ABOUT HIS/HER PAST LIFE OR PRESENT CONDITION YOU DONT KNW ANYTHING BETTER TO JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND LIVE YOUR LIFE N MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS"& yes DO NOT LAUGH ANY1 WEAKNESS IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS HAVE THAT GUTS TO GO SPEAK TO PERSON DIRECTLY IF NO GUTS SHUT YOUR MOUTH! THANK YOU I AM VERY HAPPY I AM GETTING ALL THIS EXPERIENCE AGAIN AND AGAIN I THINK GOD IS PREPARING ME FOR SOMETHING IN FUTURE
I have that 2 friends of mine who have been in my life from my 2nd standard till 11th now, though they have chosen different streams, we still be the same as we were before... Still love to hang out with those 2, very close to my heart.. wish we continue this is our college too...
I had same situation. .I try to fit in someone's life but that was mists I made ...I got a friend who had same vibe of me I'm happi now a lot ..so don't worry you never should be with topper only..we are different we are average let's accept it and appreciate other aspect of our life
The bone teacher with beard ..... More cool and reliable. He knows how to strike the right cords. Needed this video ... For new college. Hats off sir 🎉❤️
Your words helped a lot in simplifying the tangled equation ...thanks for giving us a clear understanding how to tackle the situation ...please keep positing such guidance video ..many of us need it !
Perfect video at the perfect time! Most needed one.Sir, Its amazing that how you come to know abt the different kinds of hurdles your turtles are/ will be facing and come to the rescue👌
6:27 best part starts 😀😀😁 Thanku dr...... i will try to follow this as i m going far away from home for ug course..... i will remember all what u said .... Again THANKU this was what i really need at this time even i was thinking how to live or adjust in new environment.....
You are such an amazing person.. "Sab aapke jaise to nahi rahenge" .. you make us think about situations like- genotypic things phenotypically dominant- so that we make our mind soothy..
I haven't made any friends in my college ; i didn't received any backstabs from anyone ; I'm safe at this place but the only thing i used to get are rumours; people having certain assumptions which in contrary turn out to sometimes fight because I don't know them & they don't know me . So , it's a very peaceful place but it comes with little discomfort from outsiders judging you ; thinking you are not rude or something.
Yes sir .. I faced it but at the end of first yr .. i completely understood all the stuffs and is on correct path🙂Hope so you make some more college life hacks solution 😎
Badly needed this type video... Was too worried about my residency how should I read what books to look for all those thoughts were crumbling me whole time. Thank you sir once again ❤️❤️
Trueee sir and making the right friends changes us completely for best ❣n bad friends make ur life hell .thankfully before my mbbs i got this lesson where I made a bad friend and my life was almost spoiled 😆thank God I learnt it early and then did my mbbs found best people and friends who encouraged me to do best.n made me best version of myself. My mbbs friends are the best n will keep them till ever ...
Thank u so much sir! I m convinced u have 6th sense for correctly timed vids. I would be starting my residency, & m so afraid of social situations & how to deal with them. This gives hope. I always have a habit of letting people walk all over me. It's a thin line to not be used & not come off as arrogant & angry
First of all, Thank you Doctor! This is such a wholesome video on whatever it talks about. There are thousands of videos on how to make more and more friends but none on how not to make friends. The influencers always whitewash the socialising aspect of personality development, and they even push one into socialising more without teaching about respecting one’s own or others’ boundaries. All they talk about is, how to only look for the good in someone by overlooking everything else. What they don’t realise is , how it can damage one’s life. I wish I had known this before starting my residency. Had to learn it the hard way.
if all this education failed to hammer some empathy into them, then it wasnt the real education. विद्यां ददाति विनयं -True Knowledge comes with humility
So tell me if you have made similar mistakes in the past? Did you make friends you regretted about later? What's your method of gauging friendships?
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I still remember sir. 1st yr took a whole yr to gauge people. By the end of 1st yr cemented life long friendships. Now about to enter pg i am skeptical about people esp dont want them to know me personally( they prey on ur weakness whenever u fight with them..i ll try to be on face and keep a distance for my own sanityand will learn to say no whenever required( not seniors though. Have to say yes!
he he
With or without reasons what if you feel like you missed all your good times, friends and by the end of your UG life you feel like that no one is beside you .. You feel like you are left alone while seeing the new group or bunch of juniors hanging around in groups, calling many as their best friends and making me miss those days really bad.. Hoping for a reply from you sir and I am a NEET PG preparing doctor ..
Let me tell you sir! I'd definitely like you to make such videos!!!
Also, you should make such great videos Directly touching hearts!
I wish there was someone like you to make this video back in 2015 when I joined college . I think I am depressed now. Wasn't able to make any friends in college. Now I am dropping this year and the future doesn't look good either with the kind of prepration that I have done and the kind of studies that I did in the past 6 years of college.
Here I am, 26yrs, no friends, no postgraduate, no hope for future, all my batchmates got into PG already...not even thinking of gettig arranged marriage cz who knows what kind of person will the opposite side be.
Well, your voice is very soothing Sir.
I wish the best to pupils joining UG and my seniors joining PG. May god bringall of you loads of happiness.
I am also in the same state as yours! We can be friends.. Lol!! 😄
Every one has their own pace,
Consistency is imp than speed,
Dnt worry do ur best to reach ur goal
Am 27. I was in the same phase in 2020. And you know what 2021 did to us. But with time things change.
Dont worry dear ...GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN ,which may not go according to our calculations. Trust in Him .
ISAIAH 55:8-9
I passed out mbbs in 2020 , directly joined for coaching.....had tried hard ....still struggling to get out of this cycle .But i believe everything has a time.
Profession is just a small percent of our lives . Just smile ,work smart ,trust in Him and keep going
just remind u in phases of depression and anxiety,that only GOD knows what is good for us 10 years down the lane of life ....All that blossom now may not appear same in future.
Also ,each one is unique and so something good for one ,might not work good for the other one
Only thing we can do is trust in HIM and work smarter....God bless❤️
same here
"Don't forget your past. Old friends are there to remind you of your old patterns and behaviour"👌🏻
I have the same best friend from mbbs through residency junior n senior ... It has been a blessing ... Not only do we discuss work .. we sort out life issues! Nothing beats a good friend for this .. wen she called me out on my stupid errors n behavior and I helped her out of her fears .. it's the best feeling to have a person u trust by your side and it all comes with time and bonding!
you are lucky !
These teachings are much more important than academic teachings , because a student can learn anything from books or internet in today's digital times , but what makes the life a blessing , is the clarity regarding driving it clearly , which matters alot for the peace of mind . Everyone will pass through the academic journey , but , the state of mind in which they pass it , is all that will make a difference in their life . Thank you for this much realistic guidance . 😊 🙏
I sadly dont have any connection with my old school friends till class 10. I think they might have forgetten me by now. Those school friends whixh i made at class 5 or class 3 till class 10 were the best
Before joining my Med School I started watching this Gentleman’s videos ‘ now he become my respected ortho teacher 😊❤️
🐢💙
Wow ! Lucky you
@@Boneteacher Salm I am from Pakistan .. Sir i want ur orif ortho book in PDF 🆓free. (Poor student)
6:38 😂😂😂😂 How I motivate myself watching couples
😂
Ortho and life lessons... hats off sir.. you are an inspiration
Here's my story:
Actually,I don't have any friends. No one is like me, I am completely different from rest of them. I tried so much to fit into different kind of people, But their and mine interest/idea/behaviour/thoughts always differs alot , i still try my best to fit in , but no matter whatever I do, at the end of the day I'm still alone.
I am very good guy and always respect other's feelings, thoughts, but I don't know why people always avoid me.Everyone acts like just a classmate with me and not as a friend. I'm like second choice, and not anyone's priority. I was not choosen as anyone's best friend. I don't have any proper friend group also, I tried to fit into different friend group,too but as always I was most ignored memeber of all.
No one enjoy my company. No one wants to be with me.
That's how it is!
If you read all of this , Thanks for listening to me.
Same here
Try being funny🙊msy be that'll work
I'm in ur gang ✋✋ ...
U try ur best to fit in but no one gives u a shit .. Learning to live alone.
Same here
This all teaches you to be comfortable living alone and being yourself rather than fit in with those whoes thoughts and vibes don't match to yours. And according to me this is a great advantage as you get to enjoy your own company which is always there for you and is unconditional, you'll never feel the need to look for friends in others. If you're an introvert than this is blessing in disguise.
Sir was relevant in my life before NEET PG and sir is relevant after NEET and I think he will remain so forever ❤️
You are the OG 🐢
Best wishes 💙
@@Boneteacher 🥺🥺🥺🥺 thank you sir and same to you!! Please let me know if you ever come to Delhi we can meet 😊
Therefore old is gold❤️
Hence, never forget ur old friends while making new ones.🙂
Thankyou for making such an amazing content. keep it up sir!👍
Best wishes
Great guidance !! "You don't the baggage of your past in a new start" is so true!
😀
Someone said me long ago. And I remembered the same thing recently - u will have colleagues eventually not friends.
And ur video is in my suggestion as an answer.
Thank u for taking out ur valuable time to make our lives meaningful.
Sir, Your voice is like a guidance that calms me... It is also the tone I will use to guide my juniors when I grow to be a PG or consultant.
We need your motivation sir, in life. Keep making videos for us! You are so amazing sir, though I know you must also be having your share of hardships and managing it well and skillfully! Hope you and your family are together happy and in good health. ❤
all the best
Most needed video at this time ... Thank you sir for giving advise for personal life too
Very beautiful words I am last yr mbbs student studying in Georgia , I always find people talking shit behind my back without knowing anything about me this people or what we call friends are the one with whom I am surrounded, everywhere I found this type people n luckily I have not shared anything about my life my past with any1 in this 6 yr , I shared 1 thing with close frd that was my mistake my biggest regret that I shared n behind my back she talked badly n laughing on my weakness, I didn't felt hurt becoz I knw people who love me are with me forever , fake people are just lessons for me , ONE THING REMEMBER "NEVER JUDGE ANYONE , WITHOUT KNOWING ANYTHING ABOUT HIS/HER PAST LIFE OR PRESENT CONDITION YOU DONT KNW ANYTHING BETTER TO JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND LIVE YOUR LIFE N MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS"& yes DO NOT LAUGH ANY1 WEAKNESS IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS HAVE THAT GUTS TO GO SPEAK TO PERSON DIRECTLY IF NO GUTS SHUT YOUR MOUTH!
THANK YOU I AM VERY HAPPY I AM GETTING ALL THIS EXPERIENCE AGAIN AND AGAIN I THINK GOD IS PREPARING ME FOR SOMETHING IN FUTURE
YOU ARE AN AVERAGE OF FIVE PEOPLE YOU SPEND THE MOST TIME WITH
SOOOO CHOOSE WISELY....
Amazing content, Sir! Not everybody has the privilege of guidance and when it comes at the right time, it becomes a blessing. So, thankyou for that.
I have that 2 friends of mine who have been in my life from my 2nd standard till 11th now, though they have chosen different streams, we still be the same as we were before... Still love to hang out with those 2, very close to my heart.. wish we continue this is our college too...
Sir Jazaak Allah u khairaane kaseera !
Sir what you said was absolutely true...i believe that bcus its based on knowledge gained over years of observation & exposure.
I wish i knew this before joining Mbbs. But will surely consider these in my MD.
I had same situation. .I try to fit in someone's life but that was mists I made ...I got a friend who had same vibe of me I'm happi now a lot ..so don't worry you never should be with topper only..we are different we are average let's accept it and appreciate other aspect of our life
The bone teacher with beard ..... More cool and reliable. He knows how to strike the right cords. Needed this video ... For new college. Hats off sir 🎉❤️
Rock on!
Thanks sir ,Really enjoyed ,only enjoyed .
Very true i wish knew it during UG......learnt it through experiences
you'll never forget
Your words helped a lot in simplifying the tangled equation ...thanks for giving us a clear understanding how to tackle the situation ...please keep positing such guidance video ..many of us need it !
Perfect video at the perfect time! Most needed one.Sir, Its amazing that how you come to know abt the different kinds of hurdles your turtles are/ will be facing and come to the rescue👌
Glad it was helpful!
Much needed video sir!
As I'm facing difficulty in making new friends in my college I will surely try your methods!
patience
6:27 best part starts 😀😀😁
Thanku dr...... i will try to follow this as i m going far away from home for ug course..... i will remember all what u said ....
Again THANKU this was what i really need at this time even i was thinking how to live or adjust in new environment.....
You are such an amazing person.. "Sab aapke jaise to nahi rahenge" .. you make us think about situations like- genotypic things phenotypically dominant- so that we make our mind soothy..
I wish every single medico n doctor watch it !!! it's highly important
I just loved such videos, it tells us the solution of genuine life problems 🕯️it plays a really important role in onces life❤️
Nice video Doctor we Just enjoyed listening to this video...most useful video for introverts like me 😉
Glad it was helpful!
Sir if I have these advices on my starting of mbbs I would make my college life more better than now
nice topic selected.....i now stringly believe that we shud learn from our seniors' experiences
To the point ! Thank you so much.
I was searching for such guidance for long time. Thank you sir
Liked such video . Better work sir 💫🙏🏼
Thankyou...I was confused and miserable as I have recently started doing my masters..But this cleared my doubts and misbeliefs
You are one of a gem Dr.AbbasAli🌟 you always leave a reason to smile or laugh whenever we watch you❣
I haven't made any friends in my college ; i didn't received any backstabs from anyone ; I'm safe at this place but the only thing i used to get are rumours; people having certain assumptions which in contrary turn out to sometimes fight because I don't know them & they don't know me .
So , it's a very peaceful place but it comes with little discomfort from outsiders judging you ; thinking you are not rude or something.
Epic explanation. Just one word best
Yes sir .. I faced it but at the end of first yr .. i completely understood all the stuffs and is on correct path🙂Hope so you make some more college life hacks solution 😎
I watch your videos to refresh between study sessions. Thank you sir for ensuring I have a personality after NEET PG 💅
Very impressive vdo...i love each and every part of it.❣️
Most important lesson in journey of life thought by you sir !!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very very need full vde !💯
Correct guidelines😊
It is a life advice summarized in 7 min .Thanks a lot sir
💙🐢
SIR THIS IS SUCH A GREAT VIDEO FOR THE BEGINNING OF MY RESIDENCY , WE NEED THIS TYPE OF THOUGHTS , MORAL SUPPORT FROM YOU AS WELL.. THANKU SIR
All the best
Badly needed this type video... Was too worried about my residency how should I read what books to look for all those thoughts were crumbling me whole time.
Thank you sir once again ❤️❤️
best wishes
🥳Amazing video Sir,,,, I experienced lot in my ug lyf🤢every single word in this video r already happened in my lyf💔
It's an amazing video.. want more of such contents!!!
Sure 😊
Trueee sir and making the right friends changes us completely for best ❣n bad friends make ur life hell .thankfully before my mbbs i got this lesson where I made a bad friend and my life was almost spoiled 😆thank God I learnt it early and then did my mbbs found best people and friends who encouraged me to do best.n made me best version of myself. My mbbs friends are the best n will keep them till ever ...
Such a relevant topic and great video sir. The part with partner one was so funny. waiting for the next video eagerly.
Thank u so much sir! I m convinced u have 6th sense for correctly timed vids. I would be starting my residency, & m so afraid of social situations & how to deal with them. This gives hope. I always have a habit of letting people walk all over me. It's a thin line to not be used & not come off as arrogant & angry
I am going to join MBBS this yr thank you so much for the advice sir
thank you sir...these advices are really needed at this time.
@boneteacher sir you're helping us during preparation for neet pg and after getting into residency too. U are blessing sir
Best wishes dear
Thank you so much for this video sir. You were there when i was preparing and it feels good ur around even in my residency. 🌼🌼🌼🌼
Pointed out my mistakes..i will take care of that.. love u sir.
Education has nothing to do with behavior or traits.. absolutely true
4:54 exactly sir.. you surely have a lot of experience
Yes Sir, please make such videos on different/difficult phases of life…we need guidance in these aspects too…… Thank you Sir for this video!!!
Sir's best guidance with sarcasm,comedy everything..thank u sir for being there through thick n thin😊
Sir it is not about making many videos,it's about making the one at the right time...
Thank u sir for this video 🥰
indeed
Best video for me of this month... really needed at this time.🙌🙌🙌💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
Last part for life partner was hilarious 😂😂😂
"Don't make friends..... Be friendly with everyone".
Much needed vide at this point of time in my life... Going to join pg
Sir really theee actual thing at this moment for me thankyou so much for your spontaneity at this moment and most absolute one 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
This was such an amazing video! I am definitely gonna recommend this video to the freshers in my college. Love from Bangalore! ❤️☺️
First of all, Thank you Doctor!
This is such a wholesome video on whatever it talks about.
There are thousands of videos on how to make more and more friends but none on how not to make friends. The influencers always whitewash the socialising aspect of personality development, and they even push one into socialising more without teaching about respecting one’s own or others’ boundaries. All they talk about is, how to only look for the good in someone by overlooking everything else. What they don’t realise is , how it can damage one’s life.
I wish I had known this before starting my residency. Had to learn it the hard way.
" Don't lose yourself " !!
You are not just neet pg guide sir, you are a life guide.
just what we needed to hear!!! Thankyou Sir❤️💕
if all this education failed to hammer some empathy into them, then it wasnt the real education.
विद्यां ददाति विनयं -True Knowledge comes with humility
Always the best 💯
i love it please 🥺❤️ make more videos on it
Amazing video, i wish if only i knew these concepts before .
Thank you sir 🙏
Thank you sir❣️
That’s true probably person who always finds mistakes is toxic just avoid them, if they pose their authority just throw them and save yourself
Best realistic advice .
Literal pearls of wisdom sir!! Thank you
Couldn't relate more sir, even I didn't knew things happening to me had happened with a million others
Life's a circle indeed!
So funny related to 'marriage'😁
some friends are absolutely mess , and some are just bless
So true sir
Perfect! This is exactly what I think. Sir has presented it just perfectly.
Awesome
I just love the content this video came at right time as I am joining to a ug college of medical
Thank you sir ♥️
Thank u so much sir. For an awesome advice..
Always welcome
Never forget your past. Past always motivate u to achieve your goals ❤
In my second year. This makes so much sense
That was a good one sir😊
Such a great video sir 😍😍😍😍😍
Very good advice sir. .
Thanks and welcome
Its difficult somehow. But will try to avoid negativity in pg. Dont want new people anymore i swear
Much needed sir 💯
6:30 -6:41wat a transition of expression👌👌😂😂🤣🤣😇🤣🤣
Thank you sir. Helpful video😊
Welcome 😊