When dad asked the daughter repeatedly about camp, I felt like he was trying to ask, "What do you plan to do at camp that you can't do here?" She's nine, not nineteen.
"Relax, dad, I want to just be able to exist and breathe in an environment I can feel safe in," would be her answer to that question if she could be honest. There seems to be no reason for his level of mistrust, which makes me really worried about he is doing to break the trust of his family behind their backs. The level of projection is absolutely horrifying.
He sees the daughter as deceptive when she's a 9 year old who is realizing it is unsafe to be honest around her father. He's putting her on the defensive. She'll share less and less the more she is grilled and interrogated by her father. He needs to stop treating his kids the way he treats crime suspects. They're not deceptive, they're scared.
The way that "father" interacts with Clarissa is exactly how my relationship with my father is. Its really infuriating being talked over and not getting to put in your side and explain things. I feel for her. I hope she learns to overcome that trauma.
Dad puts his own insecurities and fears onto his 9yr old daughter who is curious, joyful, strong, responsible and connecting. His hurt makes him blind. Hope this heals within him.
My fam was like this and i dont even tslk to my dad anymore, so sad this is how ramilies tear apart. This father needs trust in his duaghter @@asatanicmechanic
Going to sleepovers are some of my best memories from childhood. Doing eachothers make up and giggling and talking about people from school and prank calling lol i think sleepovers are important for kids
@@Que772 The number has always been the same. They were just hiding better and social media didn't expose them. Don't rob your children of their childhood. The risk is the same as it's always been.
Chlarisa is one of the most well behaved children in any of the supernanny videos the two most well behaved children on supernanny are 1. Clarissa Del re and 2. Erin Dostal
Seeing Clarrisa grow closer with her father and seeing her smile and hearing the gratitude in her voice when she was allowed to go to the sleepover really made me shed some tears. The father having fun and understanding clarisa more truly touched my heart.
Man, those parents are so lucky with that older girl, she is clearly very intelligent and super sweet. Its very weird the way the dad dosnt trust the little girl, it should adults hes worried about. He should have been making her feel safe to talk to him is someone would do something bad to her
I'm actually really concerned by the sudden peeing. Children sometimes regress in abusive environments-- usually bedwetting, but also peeing themselves. I like Jo but sometimes I think she sees defiance in kids when it's trauma or neurodivergence. Considering half of police officers are guilty of domestic violence, it's just very worrying to see, especially with the treatment of the 9 year old.
You're absolutely right, but you do have to realize that this show was filmed 20-25 years ago, and back then they rearly diagnosed neurodivergent children unless they had very clear autism or something as strong as that, so Jo wasn't really trained to first check if the child might have some mental difficulty/difference/trauma...
Absolutely nothing. But I think dad was hung up on the fact that she did something her friend dared her to do. In his head, if she does this, then she will do dangerous things too if someone dares her to do them. He doesn't trust her judgement
Dad is definitely the cop who has brought out false confessions in the interrogation room because of his paranoia of deception!! And he has the nerve to sit there and gaslight his daughter while using ridiculous phrases like "the same otha sentence..." 🙄
Well the parents are divorced now and the kids are all grown up but I do believe he was abusive. If you Google around enough you'll find complaints about him with the police department and some of them were substantiated.
Why send her to bed early for peeing on the floor? Consequences should match circumstances. Four years old is not to young to help clean it up and assist with laundry.
This father will drive all of his children away. I would never let my husband speak that way to my daughter. She wants to get away from the horror of living with her dad and siblings.
Tbf i think the dads seen sooo much bad happen to kids her age you hear things about sleeping at other peoples homes. I dont think its that he doesn't trust her i think he doesn't trust outside home.
but he places the blame on a 9 yr old who doesn't understand why he's treating her like that. If he's doing it to keep her safe there are age appropriate ways to communicate that without cutting her down every chance he gets.
People who think the nine-year-old daughter should get more attention Even when JoJo was there, she only got to hang out with her parents every three days and those Hangouts are usually with siblings too
These parents are good ppl, u can easily see they have good hearts. Also nice to see ppl actually take in everything Jo was there to teach them. They did well!
The problem here is the father. The daughter may not be around when she is grown. I wouldn’t be and I wouldn’t let him be around my kids if I had any…🇨🇦
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When dad asked the daughter repeatedly about camp, I felt like he was trying to ask, "What do you plan to do at camp that you can't do here?" She's nine, not nineteen.
Even if she was 19 it’s camp with friends be happy she’s not stealing your cigarettes
I agree, she's 9 she's not gonna know the name omg 🤦♀️ poor child
"Relax, dad, I want to just be able to exist and breathe in an environment I can feel safe in," would be her answer to that question if she could be honest. There seems to be no reason for his level of mistrust, which makes me really worried about he is doing to break the trust of his family behind their backs. The level of projection is absolutely horrifying.
@@kismetcaffet9862for real! i’m wondering the same thing about the husband
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID.
He sees the daughter as deceptive when she's a 9 year old who is realizing it is unsafe to be honest around her father. He's putting her on the defensive. She'll share less and less the more she is grilled and interrogated by her father. He needs to stop treating his kids the way he treats crime suspects. They're not deceptive, they're scared.
YES LA!
Cool.
Sweet!
AWESOME!
Funny bones!
It’s so sad seeing her smiling and then slowly or even vastly leaving after talking to her dad
yh it’s sad
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YES LA!
Dad acts like his daughter is trying to sneak out to see boys or party. She's 9 not 16. That's weird to act tht way.
exactly fr
Correct.
Right la!
He’s projecting
God imagine how he's going to act when she IS 16
The way that "father" interacts with Clarissa is exactly how my relationship with my father is. Its really infuriating being talked over and not getting to put in your side and explain things. I feel for her. I hope she learns to overcome that trauma.
yea me too it’s sad
😅😅ddddt
Me too🙏🏾
ME ASWELL
YES LA!
Dad puts his own insecurities and fears onto his 9yr old daughter who is curious, joyful, strong, responsible and connecting.
His hurt makes him blind.
Hope this heals within him.
DISCO!
YES LA!
Right la.
@@evelynleelau4205Ok la.
His daughter has traits that he’s jealous of that HE ONCE HAD!!!!! ❤
His 2 youngest are brats and he doesn't trust the 9 year old?
Right la!
CORRECT!
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11:25 He just shut all communications with his daughter down. I’m surprised she talks to him at all. He will need to change or he will loose her.
These episodes are over 10 years old, she's probably grown by now and she probably doesn't talk to him
My fam was like this and i dont even tslk to my dad anymore, so sad this is how ramilies tear apart. This father needs trust in his duaghter @@asatanicmechanic
@asatanicmechanic this was 3 weeks ago
@@hannahbrandham2488this was posted 3 weeks ago, but this series was filmed in 2006-2010 lol
@@asatanicmechanic but he has trouble of trust her
Going to sleepovers are some of my best memories from childhood. Doing eachothers make up and giggling and talking about people from school and prank calling lol i think sleepovers are important for kids
for real! i remember prank calling during sleepovers with my friend, she was so fun to hangout with. i miss those times
Agreed! I remember watching tv with my friends and hanging out with my friends during sleepovers
Times have changed. Keep your children at home, there are too many sexual predators.
@@Que772
The number has always been the same. They were just hiding better and social media didn't expose them.
Don't rob your children of their childhood. The risk is the same as it's always been.
They may be fun, but times changed. I won’t be letting my kids go to sleepovers in the future unless it’s being held in our house.
The dad is literally the bad guy in home alone
Even his voice is identical, LOL
Correct.
Right la.
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Fun.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen Jo laugh as hard as she did watching them bake the cake 😂
WONDERFUL COOKING!
I know! Jo's face was red from laughing so hard. Her laughter is contagious. 😂
OH YES!
Bc the girl likes ketchup so ofc she’s gonna say yes she LOVES KETCHUP
ikr like god forbid her say the word dare 💀
OH YES!
Chlarisa is one of the most well behaved children in any of the supernanny videos the two most well behaved children on supernanny are
1. Clarissa Del re and
2. Erin Dostal
and frank jr minyon, jared wischmeyer, demetrius and meya gorbea, timmy demott, jake harmony and much many of them
@@soniag.2100and Marli!
@@soniag.2100I forgot her last name
@@doggosarepawfectPrescott
@@MichaEGreen2401 yeah
11:00 You could tell that she was expecting but you can also see that she was trying not to cry
CORRECT!
and that folks is how your kids start becoming detailed and experienced liars
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My father was just like this guy. I’m 31 and still dealing with the damage he did…
This father is too strict!
DISCO!
@@evelynleelau4205it’s not strict more just cruel for the sake of it
28 same thing
Seeing Clarrisa grow closer with her father and seeing her smile and hearing the gratitude in her voice when she was allowed to go to the sleepover really made me shed some tears. The father having fun and understanding clarisa more truly touched my heart.
Adele is still giving off Lois Griffin vibes 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Frl 💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Definitely XD
"PEE-DUH"
Whattt?
If he was like that when his daughter is 9, how will he be when shes 19? He was teaching her to be deceptive, not open. Hope he managed to change 🤞
This aired in 2009 so she's in her 20s now.
Fry
AWESOME!
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@@evelynleelau4205are you okay?
Man, those parents are so lucky with that older girl, she is clearly very intelligent and super sweet. Its very weird the way the dad dosnt trust the little girl, it should adults hes worried about. He should have been making her feel safe to talk to him is someone would do something bad to her
I SAY YES!
Fr nine year old me definitely could not defend myself as well as she does
That father is abusive. He plays games with his kids heads.
I said yes!
Awful parenting.
This mom is so clever!
THIS MOM IS SO SMART!
@@evelynleelau4205
Stop spamming
I'm actually really concerned by the sudden peeing. Children sometimes regress in abusive environments-- usually bedwetting, but also peeing themselves. I like Jo but sometimes I think she sees defiance in kids when it's trauma or neurodivergence. Considering half of police officers are guilty of domestic violence, it's just very worrying to see, especially with the treatment of the 9 year old.
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Cool.
You're absolutely right, but you do have to realize that this show was filmed 20-25 years ago, and back then they rearly diagnosed neurodivergent children unless they had very clear autism or something as strong as that, so Jo wasn't really trained to first check if the child might have some mental difficulty/difference/trauma...
CORRECT!
Right on!
I think i learned the most from this episode the most, than from any other.
Im so glad these episodes are on here. They sure help.
Me too❤
I don't have kids but I feel like these videos prepare me, so I get it 😅
As far as the ketchup, what's the difference between eating it directly from the packet and eating it on French fries?
Absolutely nothing. But I think dad was hung up on the fact that she did something her friend dared her to do. In his head, if she does this, then she will do dangerous things too if someone dares her to do them. He doesn't trust her judgement
The dad needs to spend time in his car until he calms down from the work day
DISCO!
Many people in police force are abusive to their spouse and kids…. Here is an example.
Dude is unhinged and it is terrifying he's a Detective. Not only was he interrogating his daughter his logic was nonsensical and suspicion misplaced.
@@charcoalanderson8010what do you mean?! He was totally justified reacting like that! I mean what if the ketchup packet was laced?? 🙄🙄😂
@@nintendelleis this sarcasm? 13:11
@@tocaleon5565obviously it’s sarcasm 🤦🏻♀️
yup. they mostly are.
How the girl responded to her dad saying yes to the sleepover made me cry. It was great!
Dad is definitely the cop who has brought out false confessions in the interrogation room because of his paranoia of deception!!
And he has the nerve to sit there and gaslight his daughter while using ridiculous phrases like "the same otha sentence..." 🙄
Why does the mom sound like Louis Griffen from family guy 😂😂😂😂
I honestly thought she sounded like if Kim K grew up in New York lmao
I was thinking the exact same thing 😂😂
How sad that dad Dosent know how to turn his work voice off when he gets home
"Yeah they actually go to drug camp" like what does he think is going to happen
YES LA!
Bro man's had his shoes on the bed, I think that's the biggest problem I've seen in this whole thing
Overall this family wasn’t that bad. It’s kind of refreshing. They really just needed to be guided in the right direction. Hope they kept at it.
According to supernanny wiki they divorced and Adele had another kid named Todd
Nah, that dad is exactly like mine, and I don't speak to my dad at all.
The dad was absolutely HORRENDOUS
@@lizziemckee3204wait really? This explains allot
I loved that sweet little Clarissa. I hope she grew up to be an emotionally healthy young woman. ❤
Well the parents are divorced now and the kids are all grown up but I do believe he was abusive. If you Google around enough you'll find complaints about him with the police department and some of them were substantiated.
oh dang. 😢
The fact that Jo had to tape the follow up meeting sick just proves that she's a professional.
That and she was probably seriously concerned about what was going on once she left also
I was shocked by the crunch of the headbutt at 22:43!!
He was so mean to Clarissa....
She’s crying because that head butt to the mouth hurt!!! I’d cry too! I’m impressed that it didn’t make her angry.
Why send her to bed early for peeing on the floor? Consequences should match circumstances. Four years old is not to young to help clean it up and assist with laundry.
yes I'd do that or better, make her clean her mess or help cleaning it while the other siblings have playtime
If it was an accident you should know and let it slide
She did have to do that already. You’re right the bed early didn’t match what she did . Hope she wasn’t confused by that time
That little girl is really bright. I wonder what she does now all grown up.
those kids thankfully didn’t leave timeout just went ballistic
When clarisa says at the end "Thank you jojo so much beacause now my family is happy just as i wished" dude it hit hard 🥹🥹🥹
The way the dad treats Clarissa is exactly the way my stepdad treats me
YES LA!
YES LA!
I’m sorry you have to go through this😕 Stay strong and don’t let it affect you!
The way he talks to Clarissa is horrible
OH YES!
The dad is the biggest reason this family is falling apart
As usual the dad ruins the family and i bet he will act like the victim when everything falls apart
Dad's acting like the victim 🤨
your average narcissist
@@Mr.Samantha18 wdym bruh
@@Milotheoneandonlyhehe the dad acting like the victim when he’s clearly not is your average narcissist
That's what narcissists do
That crack when the son headbutted her 😩 I would've socked little bro
I feel so bad for this mom because she's so clever!!!!!
The daughter may have wanted to go to camp in part to get away from her controlling father.
Oh of course
My dad was like this.. caused me to be deceptive bc i was so scared of him. Not allowed friends. Couldn't play sports. Awful....thank God for therapy
DISCO!
The dad sounds like Harry from Home Alone 😂
8:04 he talks to her as if she's 16, not 9
I think because the other kids are so young and rowdy it makes her seem 16 and forces her to grow up way to early in their eyes.
11:09 she looked like she thought oh no here we go again
The parents were so cute together on their date. Lovely family! The twins still need lots of work put into disciplining them.
they got divorced :-(
@@dreamweaver444really omgg??
the dad reminds me so much of how my dad acted when I was younger
Same here,u emotionally damaged too..I am
As soon as the daughter said, "Dare" I knew it was going to end badly...
AWESOME!
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Please note, Gabby, that it does not take people when I leave comments. I'm not talking to you, but rather this absolutely irritating bot.
Not surprised the mum & dad divorced later down the line 😕
How do you find this stuff out?
@@blobfish1331 read the Supernanny Wiki page - had all sorts of info about the families post show.
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@@blobfish1331 look up the Supernanny Wiki
@@blobfish1331Wikipedia just search up the moms name
PEEEETAHHH!! 😂😂😂
Lmao
When she said that she sounded like she was on Family Guy
@@scarletklarolinethe mom is giving Lois Griffin lol
He's treating his daughter like she is this crazy 16 year old.
Clarissa understands her dad far better than he can understand her.
22:43. Did anyone else feel that?
I did!! That's gotta hurt!!!
Oh yeah
You can completely incapacitate someone doing that. I’m surprised she didn’t just lie on the floor
They should show this in every school.
These kids r gonna be miserable once they are teens with how dad is.
22:39 Poor mum…. That was brutal
This father will drive all of his children away. I would never let my husband speak that way to my daughter. She wants to get away from the horror of living with her dad and siblings.
The frosting with hands thing 🤣
Tbf i think the dads seen sooo much bad happen to kids her age you hear things about sleeping at other peoples homes. I dont think its that he doesn't trust her i think he doesn't trust outside home.
Yeah i wasn’t allowed to have sleepovers growing up for that reason
I had plenty sleepovers and nothing bad happened to me.
@@Kat-mu8wq Obviously, bad things at sleepovers aren't going to happen to EVERY child.
And that’s exactly the problem.
but he places the blame on a 9 yr old who doesn't understand why he's treating her like that. If he's doing it to keep her safe there are age appropriate ways to communicate that without cutting her down every chance he gets.
Every human being that wants to have children kids should take basic training
Vanity and the ease of getting pregnant makes some think they're experts
They way he just head butt his mom was so disrespected I would be so mad if I was her.
so good that she divorced him. good riddance!
What ??
11:07
my mum's said that to me multiple times.
that episode in my little pony haunted me, whyyyyy.....
Im sorry :/ i hope you’re doing okay
Okay the wife is giving Louis griffen and the husband is giving Mr gru
Hopefully Clarissa will move out when she turns 18 and go NC with "dad".
I was so confused by this comment. I thought you were saying you hoped she'd go to North Carolina with him.
Aww the turnaround is so adorable!
I can't tell you how much this triggers me. It's just an awful experience living with parents behaving like this.
this lady is lois griffin, she even has the "PEETAH" voice
This moved me to tears. Dad and Mum Were ready.
Aww I love this family they seem so fun and sweet. Love the changes they made. ❤❤❤😊😊
I had my first sleepover age 6, I cried and went home 😂
SLEEP!
The mom's hair gets me to this day
Jo came for the children, but the dad is the problem
the dad sounds like mr wormwood from matilda 😭
why does the mum kinda sound like lois😀
Kind of????
Nah man she full on sounds like Lois
PEETA!
The clip of the younger daughter repeatedly pushing the car door closed is really cute tho 🤭
1:22 “PETAHHHH!” she *is* lois griffin.
I WAS THINKING THE SAME
Dad definitely has narcissistic behaviors. I don't see him changing long term 😢
The mom sounds like Lois Griffin and looks like her.
Ahh' vibes
Good job Supernanny get the Family back to together again 👏👏👏👏👏
I’d want to go to summer camp too if my dad saw me as deceptive when I’m nine years old
Great progression from both! 👏
People who think the nine-year-old daughter should get more attention
Even when JoJo was there, she only got to hang out with her parents every three days and those Hangouts are usually with siblings too
These parents are good ppl, u can easily see they have good hearts.
Also nice to see ppl actually take in everything Jo was there to teach them. They did well!
this hurt in my dadyissues😢
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What would she be lying about? She also answered him. She said they don’t talk about the name they talk about what they did there.
I remember that when a 4 year old girl is accidently peeing on her pants while she's in Time out.
Yeah!!
That was disgusting. Why did not let her use the restroom
@@TimPaguntalantoddlers pee their pants to be defiant quite frequently
@@TimPaguntalanthey said she did it on purpose but idk
@@jasminelavaheartgaming I know she has big behavior
We need UK full episodes
this is literally how my mother treated me growing up
Let her go trust her she has friends that is going to be there
The problem here is the father. The daughter may not be around when she is grown. I wouldn’t be and I wouldn’t let him be around my kids if I had any…🇨🇦