This' my apology to a woman I hurt so deeply by taking away her husband, agreeing to be his 2nd wife
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- Ann Njoroge has chosen the unpopular route in what she says is rectifying her mistakes. For some years, she was married as a second wife and even bore a child. But Ann says that all this time she was in this marriage, her heart never knew peace. After fighting with that inner voice for long, she eventually decided to leave and start her life all over again. Today, Ann wants to give an apology to a woman who she says she hurt so deeply by taking away her husband and agreeing to be his second wife
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Surely my marriage was broken 25 years ago and I raised my kids as a single mother because of a woman who decided to break my home. Coming to apologize now!! what difference will it make? Or what am I going to gain? don't you think you better keep it for yourself? After leaving my kids fatherless, and leaving me single think about it, It's so painful to think about.
Tuko weigine watoto wetu bila mababa ,but Ti uhoro
Ukiskia Malaya,wauaji ndiyo watakuwa mbinguni,ni juu ya hii mentality yako,,,hizi ndizo vitu zinafanyanga niogope Mungu,yaani mtu anaweza kuwa kwa dhambi for 40 years,aombe msamaha,aende mbinguni,wewe umekosewa ukose kumsamehe,na uende hell
It's painful but please learn to forgive so that God will also forgive you. Forgiveness is the key to healing .
@@ciccoann2311 mbinguni ni mbari Sana. Repentance is good, let God be glorified. Judging her is evil, if we get exposed sijui tutajifisha wapi.
So you are the one whose marriage was destroyed?
Aki you people are blaming her so much,the wife was not around when they met n when she came back she left,mwenye ako na makosa ni mwanaume.atleast she apologized so the burden will be lifted.
She didn’t hurt ex they had separated I applaud her for leaving when she realized they’ve gotten together she did good to apologize but she should not blame herself this is very courageous those who are happily married give God thanks and don’t take it for granted satan really fights marriage
I'm not married and I would want to say it's quite unfortunate and sad that many married men always approach me. Regardless of the fact that I know their wives and family, some always insist. One actually told me that he needs a dialogue with me on how we can manage. God forbid! As long as I know God, I will never destroy any woman's marriage.
May God in heaven bless u for sobber mind.God will grant u a good man.
@@rachelmaina2680 ,Amen.
@@olivenjoki2853 Ngai akurathime muno dear.i took a vow never to make another woman cry despite of being caused so much pain
Men are natural hunters, but many avoid it by having self principles which are affected by how he was raised .... But now God created women wise, wengi hujua ni married men, huwezi date chali a month bila kunotice ....huwa wengi hupuuza, that's why we don't blame men in this but people point on women
May God bless and protect your marriage when you will be married.
I will never blame a woman for my marriage breaking...it always the husband...this lady has nothing to apologize for
Surely
And it could also be you breaking it.
“You have heard people say, “Love your neighbors and hate your enemies.” But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you. Then you will be acting like your Father in heaven. He makes the sun rise on both good and bad people. And he sends rain for the ones who do right and for the ones who do wrong.”
Matthew 5:43-45 CEV
She attended my dowry twice ,sijui Kama ni JuJu he moved to her house,I was sooo young, jobless,and very naive .I forgave her.i know My God ain't blind.was the most painful thing in my entire life.i cried my heart out.
Its good to know ur mistake n apologies..mine was destroyed by my own first cousin ..that's a story for another day .I onced took good care of my ex baby daddy mother .when she was sick ..infact she died in my arms ..she used to cry n tell me nyamalo uv washed me up seen my naked body ..my dear u will never luck..n I tell u for a fact as ann is saying God is the father to the fatherless ..am single 3kids 2 in Seco we struggle yes but at the end of the day we never luck ...so in your time just do good n it shall come back to you amen
Yaani people can't see the hand of God in her life, those blaming her,I'm sure God will use her story to transform many marriages.Lord,thank you for what you have done in her life, receive all the glory and honor
I don't see the reason of a person to be sorry after destroying the other marriage,,I think it's very late,kama mm I can't forgive the one who destroy my marriage aje sasa
Mimi pia siezi forgive the woman who broke my marriage not after calling me malaya after all I went through. No ti uhoro
Forgiveness is DIVINE
if you dont forgive others their sins GOD WILL NEVER FORGIVE U UR SINS
so you will END UP IN HELL
read ur bible very well aboit forgiveness
You forgive for your own good
@@kezzybett1142 I wish I would forgive them 😔 but my heart is very heavy
Your own husband destroyed your marriage. The way he approched you is the same way he used to win the other woman. Please deal with your husband first.
@@sara_keens Ti uhoro my dear
Yaani,men make mistakes,but women end up apologizing,very unfair,,again,,is polygamy really evil,as far as the man is taking care of his first family,shida ya Kikuyu,they abandon their first wives,,halafu wanaoa after 20 years,akisha make it in life,yet kila kitu walitafuta na first wife,,
Women stop blaming this lady. The husband who leaves his wife for another is the biggest problem. Men aren't stolen. He is the one who did the biggest mistake to leave his first marriage.
The Man never left his Marriage, we women are the one's who're naive, and ignore alot. Don't Just ever get into another woman's homestead, if she's still there. Unless he's a widow, let's learn to say No
@@pauline2604 how about the man to behave and respect his marriage and stop approaching other women? Why is it so easy for you to blame the lady while the man is equally wrong????
@@pauline2604 I second you
Really!! and why is she regretting ruining someone's marriage??
@@wamuthamaki5432 because she had her mistakes.... point is, Even the man had mistakes, more actually, so we shouldn't fight the lady only. Let people agree that it's usually not solely a woman's mistake. If my husband cheats, I can blame him not the other lady
the fact that the wife was separated, she dnt have anythng to regret about...glad she is wise
Exactly even divorced partners are not forbidden to remarry! The guy is the one who was wrong!
Ann you have a testimony kali sana hapo ndani. Lakini sisi goat wives huwa hatuwezi forgive that easily.
Sure
You must forgive and forget for God to answer your prayer.
Mipango ya kando mko na mambo😳😳😳😳😳waiting kwa sana
This was a great Interview, thank you Kagoni for the lovely boat ride 🛥 💞
As long as she has realised her mistakes and she has prayed for forgiveness she is free, let’s not judge her sometimes we find ourselves in some situations because of circumstances and human is to error
Go read the book of Malachi and know why they suffer. God is not a man.
You do not have to blame yourself,God is slow to anger and very compassionate,relax take care of yourself and your family
Moni wa kagoni, nakupenda bure
I send this kind of a spirit to the woman who spoiled my marriage
Sometimes the man are one to blame
Don't blame men,men's will always be men to me I blame the woman the time you know that man is married you should run as fast as you can...you destroy another woman marriage unasahau pia wewe Ni mwanamke Kama yeye
You are all here blaming this lady na wengine huku waliacha marriage zao wakaekwa na wababa 😏
This is a form of repentance. We are headed the right way. May God guide us
Life is full of challenges but their is God in heaven who hears and answers.
Women are strong and go alot in life.
But in every tunnel their is a testimony.
Mama Winnie may God bless you abundantly and expand your territories coz you knew your mistake and asked for forgiveness.
It's the first step of healing.
May the favour and Grace of God be with you always.
In this life never judge anyone at any given time.
Monica good job may God bless you abundantly always for inspiring millions of people will stories that make people learn and be strong
Napenda metha ya kagoni Sana,keep up the good work
Hi.
How are husbands "taken" or "stolen"? Where are they in the meantime as they are being "taken or stolen"? 🤔
Ebu ask again every time they blame the other woman it’s equally that man’s decision utaiba aje mtu mzima both parties are to blame
And some of these so called" lefted" wives are so full of venom that their husbands must seek happiness elsewhere otherwise they die
Goat wives are home treating the men as kings and then the men go out and cheat on them there is no reason for their cheating,
I am a witness there this sweet woman who we were friends then the hubby started glooming to start with me so I did my on research on the wife she was a cook a keeper a home maker beautiful with a sweet wife who a man decided to cheat I sensed danger I opted out to this day the lady is my friend but the man I cut communication
Yeah it's the damn thing, but women are to blame in this particular Case! If you ever get to know that the Soo called Man has a wife, step big big, walk out with dignity because you'll think you're the best only to be left out again and with a burden!
Tunaeza penda kuskia story from first wife😘😱
😭😭😭😭Kumbe hii hali ngumu nimepitia Kuna kitu behind the curtain. But I have a reason to tell God thank you.
First wives kimbieni uku especially wenye tuliharibiwa marriage yetu na mpango wa Kando... mwenye aliniplace 7 years down it ended up with premium tires. coz pia yeye alitupwa 🤣..Bwana ya wenyewe sumu.. KALMA 💃💃😏
Men r to blame ju she could not have done it mbila mwanaume kumpea hiyo chance
@@judynjerisilvanus6573 only first wives wenye walinyang'anywa bwana na mpango wa Kando can relate.... especially my case she knew me....woiii 7 years down da line it ended up with premium tires.. alitupwa 🤣🤣
Mimi hata sitakangi kufikiria hiyo life tena 8yrs now i don't know whether i love and trust anyone again
@@priscillawamathai5796 Usijiweke hapo....asijold life yako hostage...ukipata mtu mzuri...songa....
Tears sio tires anyway as for me and my wicked grandma we love divorce😁
Too late.nkt.sometimes your sorry will hurt ..so no need to be sorry it means nothing.
I love this woman because alionesha adabu hakujibizana na mke mwezake so kile unatenda leo itakuwa ushuhunda wakesho je ww ushuhunda wako unaweza kuwaje ukipata bwanako ako na bibi no 2
Having listened to the whole story, the man was wrong to tell her he separated with his wife , separation is different from divorce . The woman came back . The man should be the one apologizing.
Tue
Goat wives we usually pray very dangerous prayers🔥🔥🔥
Which God do you pray to? God tells us to love our enemies, pray for them and wish them well. Do not pay evil for evil
Mimi nilitendwa pia, I had your kind of mentality before but God renewed my heart and mind. I forgave them, n released them. And I ask God to repay me double double, 100 times fold . I can testify. We are God’s children, hii maneno ya kuombea watoto wa Mungu mabaya doesn’t work. Hayo mabaya yatakurudia wewe tu chunga sana
When they were busy planning evil against us and children, they were also loving us as their enemies too or what do you mean? 🤷♀️
@@janenjogu3794 You can only understand this if you are truly born again. These are not my words by Jesus words in Matthew 5:43-48.”You have heard people say, “Love your neighbors and hate your enemies.” But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you. Then you will be acting like your Father in heaven. He makes the sun rise on both good and bad people. And he sends rain for the ones who do right and for the ones who do wrong.”
Matthew 5:43-45 CEV…
@@jmtestifies true ata hao ni watoto wa mungu watu was kuombea wengine maombi mabaya wao na wachawi hakuna tofauti
Post the fees structure for the boy broken down by term
What God had put together u put asunder for soooo looong . Rathimwo thii wega🙏🏾 ngai he athuri mitwe miega nio marehaga mathina Maya mothe tugatigwo ningi tukimahoera yaani........
I never fall for this apologies sorry to say...ju ndio akae mpaka azae mtoto first wife is exposed to alot of pain
True
exactly ...nonsense. The damage is done
But the first wife had already left.
Too late. the damage is already done. It's a very painful experience.
True, they always come with nonsense of apologizing after causing damages. I don’t accept this bullshit!
Agreed. Nonsense after the damage is already done
True
Very true
She an avengelist,, chosen to preach the gospel,like Samaritan woman,keep blaming her,she is being transformed,nyinyi ndiyo huwa mnaitanisha mtu na her/her past,yet alishabadilishwa
Kwani huku hakuna marriage ime work...... Kila marriage side chick ameharibu..... Just a question should we get married ama tukae hivyo?
Why are you accusing this lady?hakuna makosa alifanya ,where was the goat wife that time?,tena alitoka wakati wife alirudi.Let God be the judge
Sure,sijaona makosa ya huyu mama, God is the judge
Wale watu wa 'KARMA' retired mko wapi....kile unafanya mwenzako utalipia siku moja repent children of God before it's too late.
But Ann is a good person she entered the marriage because the man allowed and didn't say the truth from the beginning but when the other woman came back she left with a lot of struggle ..The man was the problem here
She is a former workmate
Sometimes we have to blame men's they even ran for they're marriage,
Ruth u have said it men are the source of all these problems. Why the hell do women fight each other?? Fight the man ALWAYS!!!!!! We are tired of their nonsense. Waende USA wapate huko wanaume kazi Yao ni kutii familia period!!!
I know this lady,she was making my hair,weeee...we used to live kwa plot moja,Anny
Mkishazeeka ndio mnakuja kusema sorry the man comes back akiwa 60 years ashakua mzee really
Women let's work on our self esteem and also our internal stability .. sometimes places you find yourself in is due to your internal struggle and unhealed traumas. You should not blame yourself for anything ..ask God for forgiveness and to free you of guilt and condemnation. Let's learn to love and appreciate ourselves ❤️
I can tell you for a fact this married men can chase you soo vigorously. Sometimes its the man who is the problem. Kuna mmoja amenifuata from 2021 to date, huwa naona nikimkubali nitaharibu kwake, ata nikimwambia aniwache ndio ata ananifuata zaidi. At some point I even developed feelings for this man but my salvation could not let me sleep with him. Lets stop blaming women...
What’s wrong for being a bartender though?
Uwheee..... God have mercy. This happened to me six years ago and still struggling with my kids. I wish I can get a good partner.. 😭
I sometimes dnt see the need of a person to apologize after the marriage has been broken already..
Kellen KARWITHA MAJAU you will never ever find peace
Psalm 109:17
Oiga mûndû nî matiganîte na mûtumia nî gûcoka acokire. Mahîtia make macio araherera mûtumia nî marîkû? Mûthuuri ûcio tiwe watuîte itua rîa kûhikania? 🤷🏿♂️ Na maithe macio magîrîirûo nî gûthomithia ciana ona matarî hamwe na nyina.
There's no mistake for a man marrying many women if the first wife is aware than kufanya chini ya maji,ni nn hii urs goat wife hushikilia in the name I can't share we sharing bado ni vyenye hujui,let free our men and give them peace
Heh.....🤔🤔🤔wewe na twa twa! na mabwana za wenyewe nî pro.......you just repeat the same thing.......but machozi na maombi ya goat wife Mungu husikia.....
Anyway; who am I?
Why can't women pray for their husbands with whom they had commitments with?
A woman ruined my marriage and what's to apologise now? Keep your apology.
Wembe ni ule ule!!!!
Always Educative..
Every episode draws some lessons for life...
Keep up the good work @MonicaKagoni
All are sinner its only that we sib differently. God has forgiven you🙏🏻
I sympathize with the children where the lady wants to rectify the mistake or not. The children will miss fatherly love n access
No woman should apologize for having affair with any man either married or not, women really tunapenda kupendwa na bn treated well,if u get one loving and taking care of u kaa naye Bora u balance if he has a family release him sometimes anaenda kwake
Whenever a Man approaches you and tells you he's married/has a family..... As a wise woman please run and leave him, get your own man there's a blessing that comes with it.
@@pauline2604 volume please, marriage was established by God and it should be respected.
Madam Emily, please in the Lords name, repent from such thoughts. Staying with a married man knowingly, though he is the one in the wrong for approaching you, and the results of that relationship are cursed.
Nyambura, this woman conscience is clear and loud to her. For you and others maybe your is dead!
Apologizing is a personal choice, it's an acceptance of who you are, recognising your mistakes and moving on.
But WHY?? do they do this to us " Goat wives" and wait till things go south and when your life is about to end to start apologising that won't change the fact that you hurt another person deeply and made innocent lives of children go through a lot yet you did it intentionally you were an adult you could have turned down but chose kunyua unyotoke na muthuri wene shidwe!
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🤣🤣 but she said the wyf had left na akarudi
@@amorjudy7076 haijalishi alinyotoka yake yote sasa anaomba msamaha saa ile amemaliza kusererekia muthuri
Iam single,after separating with my husband.Ann you don't need to apologize to anybody coz huyu wife hakuwa hata si wewe uriwaseparate
Trust in GOD stop being superstitious
You did it knowingly..so it was intertionally
I don't see mistake yenye alifanya coz the wife walikua wamedivorce ....sasa mimi tulidivorce mwenye atao nimlaumu aiii
nakata kitunguu
Madiko inasema yure ataachanisa walili nikifo ,siwewe uliwaachanisa ,huna makosa
Roho yangu wajua uliopitia.
It takes courage to apologize.
I wish all mipango ya kando itashow hii watuachie boma zetu
@@marymarykim306 Sasa, let me ask you, the women who get angry at mpango wa kando, and I say this as a woman who understands, why do you get angry at mpango wa kando? Did mpango wa kando stand beside you at the alter promising to love you through sickness and in health? Did mpango wa kando promise to honor and cherish you above all others? Did mpango wa kando promise you till death do us part? In fact, my mpango wan kando didn't even know she was the mpango wa kando, she thought she was the main chick because she was told she was the main chick.
So why get angry at mpango wa kando? She did not promise you anything, even if she knew she was the mpango wa kando, someone else made that promise and he is the one who broke that promise.
Sio mpango wa kando anaharibu boma.
@@amawesome3190 Thanks alot coz am the one who was promised all that you have said in the Alter now I understand my dear I won't be angry again I'll be praying instead 🙏🙏🙏
Pliz I can't understand the language
Seriously !!!.
When love affairs, superstition, spirituality, and attitude converge...
Heee how l hate superstitious people. They can ruin your life. I remember when my grandma finished building rentals in Githurai, and a black cat used to live in the plot. So no one wanted to rent coz people started saying my grandma used witchcraft money to build the plot, that's why there's a black cat. My grandma told us to live in the plot. And once people saw there was nothing happening to us, they started renting and the plot is one of the most popular plots in Githurai. So superstitious people can ruin your life. Please madam stop blaming your uncle for your misfortunes. He's got nothing to do with u being so unlucky. Stop blaming other people.
Kwanza people who say black cats are evil or bad luck irritating people
@@snowflake_358 very irritating. Blaming a cat coz of its colour. Superstitious people tend to have a weak mind, that's why they blame someone else or even animals for their misfortunes
@@Ladypeace12312 💯💯💯
Murituriria atumia a mburi nginya maru mukimahoya mamurekere..kai mutoi Ngai nuu..wathi urihagirwo thi..
Uhinga mutheri, muhotherei mbeca nicio arenda
Doesn't matter.....the damage is done. I wish the woman who ruined mine could just apologize. I am still waiting .......
Nigwikora kana ni gutua matua?
Me I can't judge this lady ..coz hakupata bibi uko na tena hakuenda nyumba ya huyo bibi.shida ni hakuchunguza sababu ya kuachana kwao...na achunguze kama ni sababu itakuja kuwaleta pamoja tena...
Where's the repentance?? Geez
Why is she sorry. Stop nonsense you cannot replace the damage you caused to his wife!
We love to blame women as if they approach themselves if the man knew is married kwanini asijieshi
@@borntowinborntoshine698 she knew he was married, She should stop this stupid story of lying to Kenyans. Shaitani
exactly !
Bwana ya wenyewe sumu.. mtu ajitafutie wake aoshe...nandaangicoonoka . Akweende uko🤣
True
This life has little justice for women. Men are the ones who open doors to toxic relationships and subject the goat wive to premiums tears and frustrations. It's also the woman here who is asking for forgiveness from her fellow woman though the man is the main culprit.
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Kwani huku ni goat wives tu wako na namko na makasiriko sana 🤣😂😂😂 mipango wakado mko wapi 🤣 mm as long as cjatoa mtu kwake mm sina shida then mtu ako na aKili tano uta muiba aje surely 😂😂 nakama ww itwa Judy na uko juja unitafute pia nkuambie ukweli before ni apologize 😂
Kindly nginyiai ngiri imwe subscribers
Whats wrong with being 2nd wife?? tuwache kuwa kama wazungu.... our men are polygamous... i can be a 2nd, 3rd.....bora ako na pesa..
That's great for u.but unfortunately the creator wasn't confused...y do you try and make corrections on God's work...we aren't His assistant .
Hiyo pesa ikiwa ya bwana sawa Bora isiwe bibi wa kwanza zinamhusu, again it's not Godly...
I think God has blessed the other woman akaona kumbe the woman was the one supporting the nigga
How I love divorce haki😁😂
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Really aki don't
🤣🤣🤣🤣lala
That's evil
God hate divorce. Mumbi
Ndani
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You didn't stole anybody's husband.he leaves his wife.that is planned decided
We all make mistakes coz no one is saint but once you realise the mistake then stop.
I think am not ready to leave married men coz they are the only pple who supports us as like singles 😂 how will I leave him yet somebody is still with my baby dad 🤔 n they don't seem to separate soon 11yrs of struggle weueh 😂 I dated a guy but God saved him from my hands 🤭🤭🤭🤭 sipendi ujinga
Huogopi vayolence from goat wives😂😂
Great continue kabisa......there is one who repays all.The best thing is ,he does it perfectly.If u think those tears will always touch the ground in vain then unless He is the gods of Baal to fail but if he remains the God of Elisha .all the best
@@periswambui9425 karibu Joyce gichuki aniachie kitusi 🤭🤭🤭 I mean curse forgetting it's the world for today but sometimes God can send you a married man as a destiny helper even if I say no to him he will still go to the next one the world is tough and you must be tougher 😁😁😁
@@periswambui9425 then it's sarcastic how ppl apologize after raising their kids can you imgn mine was taken 12yrs ago since my first born was in class one n now form four then a person comes from nowhere to say that she is sorry how now when my kids didn't enjoy the father hood when they needed him most eeish 🤔
Goat wives wana maneno. Wamefika kwa wingi kucondemn this woman. I think most marriages are full of miseries. Please blame your so called husbands.
Women always apologize after destroying people's marriage and after realising the man whom they took who was someone's husband and they start facing challenges...if they were no challenge...and they are having their sapot...they never stop... meeting the guy....not genuine...she's leaving bcoz of circumstances
So if your husband goes for another woman,you will blame her and not your husband, sometimes I wonder,if women were to suffer for the rest of their lives
@@ciccoann2311 ...it take a mature woman to say no to a man who is already someone husband...