There's a fine line between genuine respect and performative compliance that borders on self-abandonment. People who uncritically accept every linguistic or social demand, no matter how absurd, aren't actually being respectful-they're engaging in a form of intellectual surrender. True respect isn't about blindly accepting every pronouncement or identity claim. It's about maintaining genuine human connection while also preserving critical thinking. When politeness becomes so extreme that it requires you to suspend rational thought or deny objective reality, you're not being kind-you're being complicit in a form of social performative theater. These individuals often suffer from what I call "validation addiction" - a desperate need to be seen as progressive or accepting, even when that acceptance requires them to ignore common sense. They're so afraid of being labeled intolerant that they'll agree to anything, no matter how nonsensical. The real courage lies in: * Treating people with basic human dignity * Maintaining respectful boundaries * Being willing to have nuanced, honest conversations * Not sacrificing your own sense of reality to appease others Extreme politeness that requires you to deny your own perceptions isn't kindness-it's a form of self-erasure. True inclusivity allows for respectful dialogue, not blind submission.
It feels like there’s a growing demand for individuals to control our language. When people insist on strict adherence to their preferred pronouns, it can come across as an attempt to dictate how others communicate. Language should be a tool for connection, not a battleground for power dynamics.
Buck is great, he's so open and wants to help people. Great interview! I'll have to check out what else you do 😊 I've been on anti depressants for so long, I don't know who i am without them. They put me on one that is dangerous to come off. I wasn't told that before taking it
The doctors are very quick to medicate a problem away. I was going through a sad time in my life. The doctor wanted me to take antidepressants. I said I think it's normal to be feeling sad when sad things happen. Let me just feel sad for a little while. If I'm still sad in a few months, I'll take something.
Yeah Buck ! Straight up message ♥️… You told this delusional people that this was going to happen and they kept pushing it to creepier and creepier places
Well it's not the first time the new generation of the community has mocked Christianity. Why don't they ever do it to Islam? (What they shouldn't) But why not? Christianity is more accepting and Islam isn't yet they get a pass. I have a theory but it's better if I don't say it here. Love you Buck been a big fan of yours for around 10 years. Trump voter here btw.
26:57 Definitely predatory aspect to some of them. I was kicked out of a period app for transphobia… suddenly the app had more and more trans people, giving “advice” to preteens who would write in asking women some questions for female anatomy only. And the first commenters were always the trans people. Anyway I commented a few times to please not give advice if you don’t have the anatomy because they were giving dangerous advice to these girls! A bunch of other women were suspended as well. Imagine that! 😅 women kicked out period apps for not being supportive enough to the males in there.
@@Bossandrachelthe Googled definition is, "..denoting, having, or relating to a gender identity that does not conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender, which indicate that all individuals are exclusively either male or female." Basically, it can either mean you feel like neither binary sexes or both depending on the individual. Some people confusingly will say they are trans and non-binary, which doesn't make sense to me.
he has no idea what he's talking about. because aside from the fact that i personally feel female inside, i always preferred the women's bathrooms simply because you're guaranteed to have privacy there. like seriously, everyone is worrying about men going to women's bathrooms but NO ONE is talking about the fact that adult men are allowed to urinate RIGHT NEXT to boys. THAT'S what i didn't feel comfortable with as a child and yes, even to this day NO ONE is talking about that........
I mean thats why many guys also just pee in the stalls.... i guess that is why no one feels a need to talk about it. The little boys should be taught to use the stalls then. Problem solved. Its not complicated at all.
So your lived experience is valid, but Buck's is not, though he probably has decades more experience of life (aka wisdom) than you do. Got it. You're younger, thus smarter. Sure, whatever. Also, if you are a man, you do not feel "female" inside. Part of feeling feminine is *biology*. You may be attracted to men and want them to boink you, and you may get all tingly inside when a cute guy looks at you, and you may love dressing up as a woman and wearing make-up, and you may prefer activities that tend to primarily be women's activities (like gossiping), and that's all very well and good, but that's _not_ the same as feeling "female" inside the way a biological female feels. Just so you know.
That is definitely a conversation that needs to happen, I fully agree. Maybe email your thoughts on this to a creator and ask for content around that issue. Or create your own content discussing your experience. Im sure you're not alone in your concerns. This conversation around men invading women's spaces doesn't invalidate your experience. It's an important conversation that needs to happen as well.
Biological men have no business in women’s restrooms, sports, locker rooms, or personal spaces. How you feel has nothing to do with anything but facts are facts, and biology is biology . If you’re a dude, then stay out of women’s personal spaces.
if people specifically ask me if i'm a man or a woman i simply say, i have a male body, i have no problem with that what so ever but my brain functions as female. i don't mind you calling me him or her. the problem is however, when ever people call me him they automatically think that i function as male too, and that's simply not true. so what am i? what is the ''i''? is the ''i'' the body or the person? i'm simply not ''a man'' just because my body is like this. my god, this is exactly what Buck understood himself 10 years ago. humanity is just slowly evolving. very slowly waking up to things they just don't know how to deal with yet. there is simply no experience and language yet among humanity to know how to deal with this. so therefore, no Buck, also you don't have all the answers.
No shade, Peace 💜 You said that your "brains function as a female", this is what the trans movement teaches, that there is a right and a wrong way to behave in ones own sex. This is not true!. There is not a right or a wrong way to live in your own body. There is not right or wrong way to express oneself. Nor is there a right or wrong personality trait to have. Thus your brain function is that of a male because there is no right or wrong way for a male brain to function.
he clearly uses the ideology. he must know that what he says is not fully true. because i persoanlly don't identify as trans either. i'm just what i am and also i indeed want to live a normal life. i don't want to be an lgbt activist, i don't have any lgbt friends even. but i also choose not to take hormones, and not to have any surgery or procedure done. why? simply because it's up to ME to make that choice and to no one else. and he refuses to have a conversation with me just because i don't have lot's of followers.
Buck has common sense, and facts. This is something missing from many in this community. Everything Buck said makes logical sense and is factual. There seems to be delusional thinking, and a total lack of common sense, and respect by anyone claiming to be something they are not. If one does know who are what they are, then that seems a little problematic, and pathological.
There's a fine line between genuine respect and performative compliance that borders on self-abandonment. People who uncritically accept every linguistic or social demand, no matter how absurd, aren't actually being respectful-they're engaging in a form of intellectual surrender.
True respect isn't about blindly accepting every pronouncement or identity claim. It's about maintaining genuine human connection while also preserving critical thinking. When politeness becomes so extreme that it requires you to suspend rational thought or deny objective reality, you're not being kind-you're being complicit in a form of social performative theater.
These individuals often suffer from what I call "validation addiction" - a desperate need to be seen as progressive or accepting, even when that acceptance requires them to ignore common sense. They're so afraid of being labeled intolerant that they'll agree to anything, no matter how nonsensical.
The real courage lies in:
* Treating people with basic human dignity
* Maintaining respectful boundaries
* Being willing to have nuanced, honest conversations
* Not sacrificing your own sense of reality to appease others
Extreme politeness that requires you to deny your own perceptions isn't kindness-it's a form of self-erasure. True inclusivity allows for respectful dialogue, not blind submission.
Wherever Buck shows up, I just have to watch.
Thank you so much for giving Buck a voice… the voice we all need to hear.
I liked and subscribed;)
It feels like there’s a growing demand for individuals to control our language. When people insist on strict adherence to their preferred pronouns, it can come across as an attempt to dictate how others communicate. Language should be a tool for connection, not a battleground for power dynamics.
Buck is great, he's so open and wants to help people. Great interview! I'll have to check out what else you do 😊 I've been on anti depressants for so long, I don't know who i am without them. They put me on one that is dangerous to come off. I wasn't told that before taking it
The doctors are very quick to medicate a problem away. I was going through a sad time in my life. The doctor wanted me to take antidepressants. I said I think it's normal to be feeling sad when sad things happen. Let me just feel sad for a little while. If I'm still sad in a few months, I'll take something.
Love Buck ❤ such a kind and respectful person.
Buck is super cool, but the long time difference of the time these interviews are released and recorded makes them less engaging
Yeah Buck ! Straight up message ♥️… You told this delusional people that this was going to happen and they kept pushing it to creepier and creepier places
Love buck ❤❤❤❤.. thank you for being so honest ! You are an amazing individual 🥰
Oh my Buck openly said his"dead name". Nobody has done that before. It shows how passionate he is about the issue.
I'm a little squirmy, twinky man but Buck Angel is my self image for my confidence! 😅🤣
I have so much love for Buck. A Human Rights Activist! Not a trans activist.
Ive seen you on a few other shows before. So glad you've got this podcast now.
Will be listening regularly. Love to hear your perspective on things.
Great interview Buck, always telling the truth 😺 😊 xx
You should check out the symbolism on the 2012 opening ceremonies…creepy at best. There’s more to all these than entertainment.
Buck is awesome!
Great interview.
Love Buck ❤
Another great conversation. Good luck Rikki!
This is so mind blowing!! Only my second time watching your show and loving it! You’re gonna explode on YT.
Well it's not the first time the new generation of the community has mocked Christianity.
Why don't they ever do it to Islam?
(What they shouldn't)
But why not?
Christianity is more accepting and Islam isn't yet they get a pass.
I have a theory but it's better if I don't say it here.
Love you Buck been a big fan of yours for around 10 years.
Trump voter here btw.
The word “Space” has become really “triggering” for me. What a backlash! An innocuous word has become a hate word.
What school is MIU?
26:57 Definitely predatory aspect to some of them. I was kicked out of a period app for transphobia… suddenly the app had more and more trans people, giving “advice” to preteens who would write in asking women some questions for female anatomy only. And the first commenters were always the trans people. Anyway I commented a few times to please not give advice if you don’t have the anatomy because they were giving dangerous advice to these girls! A bunch of other women were suspended as well. Imagine that! 😅 women kicked out period apps for not being supportive enough to the males in there.
Respect gozer echt wel ❤❤
literally i am what people call non binary but i don't force anyone to call me anything either.
What does non binary mean?
* Refuses to elaborate for attention *.....No seriously if you have an interesting explanation please explain yourself
The question is, are you a man, or a woman biologically?
You're looking for so much attention in this comment section, it's so uncomfortable to watch.
@@Bossandrachelthe Googled definition is, "..denoting, having, or relating to a gender identity that does not conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender, which indicate that all individuals are exclusively either male or female."
Basically, it can either mean you feel like neither binary sexes or both depending on the individual. Some people confusingly will say they are trans and non-binary, which doesn't make sense to me.
he has no idea what he's talking about.
because aside from the fact that i personally feel female inside, i always preferred the women's bathrooms simply because you're guaranteed to have privacy there.
like seriously, everyone is worrying about men going to women's bathrooms but NO ONE is talking about the fact that adult men are allowed to urinate RIGHT NEXT to boys.
THAT'S what i didn't feel comfortable with as a child and yes, even to this day NO ONE is talking about that........
I mean thats why many guys also just pee in the stalls.... i guess that is why no one feels a need to talk about it. The little boys should be taught to use the stalls then. Problem solved. Its not complicated at all.
What does it feel like to be female?
So your lived experience is valid, but Buck's is not, though he probably has decades more experience of life (aka wisdom) than you do. Got it. You're younger, thus smarter. Sure, whatever. Also, if you are a man, you do not feel "female" inside. Part of feeling feminine is *biology*. You may be attracted to men and want them to boink you, and you may get all tingly inside when a cute guy looks at you, and you may love dressing up as a woman and wearing make-up, and you may prefer activities that tend to primarily be women's activities (like gossiping), and that's all very well and good, but that's _not_ the same as feeling "female" inside the way a biological female feels. Just so you know.
That is definitely a conversation that needs to happen, I fully agree. Maybe email your thoughts on this to a creator and ask for content around that issue. Or create your own content discussing your experience. Im sure you're not alone in your concerns.
This conversation around men invading women's spaces doesn't invalidate your experience. It's an important conversation that needs to happen as well.
Biological men have no business in women’s restrooms, sports, locker rooms, or personal spaces. How you feel has nothing to do with anything but facts are facts, and biology is biology . If you’re a dude, then stay out of women’s personal spaces.
Girl, stop saying "yeah, mhm" after every damn thing he says. You're extremely distracting. I seriously can't keep watching this.
It's sooooooo annoying 😢😅😵💫
if people specifically ask me if i'm a man or a woman i simply say, i have a male body, i have no problem with that what so ever but my brain functions as female.
i don't mind you calling me him or her.
the problem is however, when ever people call me him they automatically think that i function as male too, and that's simply not true.
so what am i?
what is the ''i''?
is the ''i'' the body or the person?
i'm simply not ''a man'' just because my body is like this.
my god, this is exactly what Buck understood himself 10 years ago.
humanity is just slowly evolving.
very slowly waking up to things they just don't know how to deal with yet.
there is simply no experience and language yet among humanity to know how to deal with this.
so therefore, no Buck, also you don't have all the answers.
What does it mean to function as a female?
No shade, Peace 💜
You said that your "brains function as a female", this is what the trans movement teaches, that there is a right and a wrong way to behave in ones own sex. This is not true!. There is not a right or a wrong way to live in your own body. There is not right or wrong way to express oneself. Nor is there a right or wrong personality trait to have. Thus your brain function is that of a male because there is no right or wrong way for a male brain to function.
he clearly uses the ideology.
he must know that what he says is not fully true.
because i persoanlly don't identify as trans either.
i'm just what i am and also i indeed want to live a normal life.
i don't want to be an lgbt activist, i don't have any lgbt friends even.
but i also choose not to take hormones, and not to have any surgery or procedure done.
why? simply because it's up to ME to make that choice and to no one else.
and he refuses to have a conversation with me just because i don't have lot's of followers.
Buck has common sense, and facts. This is something missing from many in this community. Everything Buck said makes logical sense and is factual. There seems to be delusional thinking, and a total lack of common sense, and respect by anyone claiming to be something they are not. If one does know who are what they are, then that seems a little problematic, and pathological.
But you're not trans.