Surviving our first year of marriage | Ep. 10

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  • @christyb.2272
    @christyb.2272 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    My husband and I have been married over 55 years and our first year was absolute bliss. I have wonderful memories of that year. We didn't have an argument for 12 years. We still love each other madly and we are now quite elderly. We never understand why people say the first year is so hard! After our first year my husband went to Korea with the Air Force, then I had twins, and so after that just because of circumstances it couldn't stay blissful but it has always been very good. I married a wonderful man.

    • @bunny_0288
      @bunny_0288 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My husband and I have been married for 14 years and our first year was really hard for several reasons. Financially things were very very tight which was stressful. We were living in a very very small apartment, so we didn't have a lot of personal space. My husband was working a lot and I was having trouble finding a job because we were living in a very small town. His family was coming over all the time even though we had very limited time together, and it was difficult navigating setting boundaries with them which caused conflict. I went on birth control pills, and they really messed with my moods and emotions which led to more arguments because I was a basket case. We also have very different ways of communicating. We have since discovered my husband is neurodivergent, but he was not diagnosed until years after we were married. This can make communicating and understanding one another more challenging. I'm now a lot more patient with him than I was back then because I know that his brain works differently from mine.
      14 years later, and we almost never have an argument, now. We have been through some really really hard life situations. 3 of our parents have already passed away in very traumatic and unexpected ways. We have dealt with 13 years of infertility and a miscarriage which adds so much stress and is an ongoing grief for both of us. We have dealt with job loss, moving cities, some mental health struggles for both of us, and so many other stressors. But the lessons we learned that first year have carried us through. I'm so thankful for that difficult first year. I'm thankful to look back and see how far we have come and how much closer we are and how much we have grown! I think it's great that some people have an easy first year, but every couple is different and is dealt different challenges that they have to work through.

    • @naomi8097
      @naomi8097 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Been happily married 20 years. Our first year was great as well. Our 2nd was harder and the 5 year mark. After 5 years we have grown so much. Learned to consider the other person.

  • @shellyb1062
    @shellyb1062 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I think the soul-baring you are both doing is really a gift to humanity. I think Jimger’s journey from fear to peace/love is beautiful to see and hear about. Helps connect us all. Jeremy’s acceptance and openness is profound.

  • @lisaengel89
    @lisaengel89 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I love how your confidence has really blossomed, Jinger. 😊

    • @naomi8097
      @naomi8097 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I know. It seems she’s come out since being married.

  • @nn-do6du
    @nn-do6du หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The couch is perfect. The conversation was a blessing. Keep up the good work. To God be the Glory ! And yes.... marriage does not create problems; it reveals them :) Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith 🙌🏻

  • @encarnacionolson2800
    @encarnacionolson2800 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Congratulations on being married almost 8 years. I agree that the first year of marriage has lots of adjusting for both. Being away from the rest of the family and having to make it on your own with Gods help is the best for most of new couples. Blessings for all of you. I am a grandmother of 9.

  • @shawnasahs2431
    @shawnasahs2431 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Sitting apart on the couch makes sense. You get a sore neck trying to look at each other and have a long conversation sitting close to each other. Enjoy sitting close when you don’t have mics and an audience. ❤️

  • @kelseywinterhalt6468
    @kelseywinterhalt6468 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love watching these podcasts on TH-cam. Hearing your experiences as a happily married couple makes it so easy, pleasant and enjoyable to watch and hear all your experiences in eight years of marriage!😊

  • @jamiebarth9734
    @jamiebarth9734 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I so enjoyed the depth of this particular podcast. Thank y’all for your vulnerability and demonstrating your strength and love.

  • @rondamiddleton790
    @rondamiddleton790 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You guys are such an amazing couple! I’m one of those who watched Jinger grow up on TV, and as you shared your 1st year of marriage I was remembering your courting stage and then the raining night you got engaged and God gave you a break in the rain, it was so sweet. I’ve really missed watching your lives together and I’m so glad that I’ve found you again. I know it sounds crazy but I look at you and pray for you like if you were my kids. I’m sure you have alot of us crazy online family that feels the same about you guys. I know that I will never get to meet you while on this earth but I’m so excited to know that I will get to spend eternity with you and Jesus our Lord and Savior. I believe that the new earth will be like the DC Talks song Father’s House.💕💕💕

  • @barbaraackerman57
    @barbaraackerman57 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Jinger, you are more yourself now. I've watched all your podcasts here with Jeremy and think back to all your family shows and the Counting on shows, and you were just part of the many..
    I do enjoy these podcasts.❤
    And bless you for keeping that shield around your girls!

  • @lisawatkins8801
    @lisawatkins8801 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Replace the couch with two comfy chairs and all problems solved!

    • @missymyers7043
      @missymyers7043 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Swivel chairs would be perfect!

    • @Sunshine94533
      @Sunshine94533 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed!

    • @mirandacooper1159
      @mirandacooper1159 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I love the couch

    • @tarastreasure
      @tarastreasure หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Except there's no actual problem.

  • @missymyers7043
    @missymyers7043 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow! What a great testamony to your first year of marriage and I love the analogy to the bunker and bombs going of and coming together to weather the storm and holding hands in the sunny times. My husband is 7 years older he was 29 and I 22 when we married. I was so young and didn’t have a mentor to lean on. I’m seriously surprised we are still married…but here we are 31 years later. But I learned so much from this conversation and had a lot of light bulb moments that related to my own marriage. Thank you for sharing and being open and raw about it!! God Bless you both. 🙏🏼💖

  • @Tiffany-m4b
    @Tiffany-m4b หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My husband is a youth pastor. Your exchange about there being others that wanted to marry him cracked me up. My oblivious husband didn't realize he had several girls who were wanting a shot at dating him. I was new and within 6 months of being there we were engaged and it caused so many problems with the other young adult women. It was ridiculous! I unknowingly stepped in and won the competition for the young youth pastor 😂

  • @katie2412
    @katie2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love your podcast, and the deeply respectful way you
    listen and communicate with
    one another.
    Jinger, as you have matured,
    and deepened in wisdom,
    your physical beauty has blossomed too, a beautiful reflection of inner and outer beauty ✨🙏✨

  • @milcarivera8926
    @milcarivera8926 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Another great podcast! I have followed you guys since you dated and I must say, this was one of my favorite " couples/ weddings" that I watched. I just knew that you guys were going to be different-God is sooo good! As a mom, I pray daily that my son ( of marriage age now) would find a good Godly women. I also pray that my daughter ( when she is older) will find a Godly man to do life with. I am currently 23 years married and it has been a blessing :)

  • @beve83
    @beve83 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is my favorite episode so far. I love the convo!

  • @lanaashford1143
    @lanaashford1143 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just got married and I’m not even 20 yet. My husband is 8 years older than me, so I totally relate to when you said marriage was much easier since Jeremy already went through the things you did. What a blessing they had to go through the hard things first so they could encourage us later on 😂

  • @Melly-c9m
    @Melly-c9m หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    My family just moved from Laredo, and the people were not welcoming to my parents even after two years. My mom would take walks in the near by park and would try to smile at the families in the park and the women would look her up and down and look away. I’m happy you both had a good time there and people were nice.

    • @ashleenicole71
      @ashleenicole71 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Unfortunately a lot of areas aren't happy with people moving there anymore.
      I moved 40 mins away from a city into a rural area that is full of grumpy people..nit everyone but many. My own neighbor. Seems to hate us. The wife only the husband is nice.

    • @heidifrick4400
      @heidifrick4400 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It doesnt matter how close you sit on the couch.

    • @sbug2705
      @sbug2705 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That says a lot more about those people than your mother. She sounds a kind, sweet soul. People like that are not even worth thinking about.

    • @rachelr9352
      @rachelr9352 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Since a lot of Californians have started moving to Texas in very large rates, it has changed their culture a lot and raised housing prices. Because of this people have become frustrated with newcomers. That is 100% wrong of them to treat your mom that way. I would never do that, but maybe that’s why her experience was so different from what theirs was 10 years ago.

    • @Barny-26
      @Barny-26 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rachelr9352Same where I live in South Carolina. So many people have moved to our city from up North and part of our area we jokingly call “Little Mexico “. Our population has tripled in the last 30 years and traffic is horrible. I would send them all back where they came from if I could. I miss our city the way it was 30 years ago☹️

  • @TraciBramlett
    @TraciBramlett หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with Jinger. Our first year of marriage was the hardest because of the adjustment period. I moved from Bakersfield to the Bay Area. What a change!

  • @UnstoppableMorgan
    @UnstoppableMorgan หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey guys I had an HVAC that would just stop working in the hottest months during summer and turns out the system they installed when the house was built was not big enough for the space. So it was being overworked. Check the BTU’s of your machine and measure the space! It’ll save you so many maintenance calls. ❤

  • @leapingdeer7880
    @leapingdeer7880 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Personally I don't think the hardest part of marriage is the years married, personally I feel it's the life stages each person in the marriage goes through as individuals that can either make or break a marriage regardless of how many years it's been, it takes a lot of commitment, understanding, empathy, support, patience and maturity to get through those life stages together you have to respect each other as an individual first and then collaborate as a team to make it all work.

  • @hondafreedom9329
    @hondafreedom9329 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    EXCELLENT video! Jinger is awesome. Jeremy seems like a really good husband. I loved watching The Duggars, and I'm not Christian at all, but while they had trials and tribulations they also had really inspiring ways of navigating the world and I just loved the show. Always thought Jinger was the prettiest (though Jessa and the others are too - not dissing anyone!). This video was so real.

  • @tammyharper4152
    @tammyharper4152 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The love you’ll have for each other is so precious and beautiful: Love you’ll have for you’ll daughters is so precious and beautiful/ Keep making memories

  • @LauraBlack-cp2il
    @LauraBlack-cp2il 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m a long time Duggar follower/fan. My overall impression of Jinger as a child/teen/young adult was that she was very sweet yet quiet, reserved and shy around the nosey public compared to her older sister Jill who seemed to be the original “child spoke person” for the family doing many interviews seeming to thoroughly enjoy the limelight/special attention.

  • @TMK1971
    @TMK1971 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I relate to you Jinger. Always loved your personality on the show. You are an ambivert which is both introvert and extrovert that’s how I am. If I’m new or meeting new people I’m reserved and an observer but if I know people and I can be me I’m more extroverted. I love that you guys are keeping your girls off social media!! More parents need to do that! ❤❤

  • @JanelleC-fr8nb
    @JanelleC-fr8nb หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ya’ll are such an adorable couple!! You both remind me of some of my dear friends. This is the sweetest and most genuine podcast. Blessings!

  • @Jean-ko4xv
    @Jean-ko4xv หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice visit, Thank you and God Bless.❤&🙏🙏'ers. Jean

  • @Hungry_ducklingdough
    @Hungry_ducklingdough 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    41:44 I think there's so much to be said for the maturing that happens within marriage. In our culture there's a pressure to get everything together and know who you are 100% before getting married but we know from the picture of Christ and the church that marriage is a sanctifying process. You change in so many ways during marriage and hopefully it's for the better if you are following God's plan for marriage.

  • @angicarlston13
    @angicarlston13 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For me though our first yr was tough, our 20th was really hard and our 38/39th. Marriage ebbs and flows. Some years breeze by while others we walk through trial after trail. We are in our 41st yr. Marriage is amazing. People say give 50/50. We say give 100/100. This was if someone is struggling the other is making it up already. We balance each other well. Where I am weak, he is strong and vice versa.

  • @ghministries-melissamckeeh4629
    @ghministries-melissamckeeh4629 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I enjoy your conversations. There is a lot of podcasts out there but yours is a refreshing biblical truth conversation that is also just fun and simple. I love Jingers heart and Jeremy’s biblical truth along with their stories!

  • @debralawler-nt9si
    @debralawler-nt9si หลายเดือนก่อน

    You both are made for each other... You both brought out the best in yourselves

  • @jillblanton6883
    @jillblanton6883 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love listening to you both. Jinger, I love how positive you are.

  • @marymartinez8047
    @marymartinez8047 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For us, the first six months was great! A honeymoon period of life. The year after was challenging. How you handle those challenges sets the stage for the rest of the years.

  • @Rebecca-b9h
    @Rebecca-b9h หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your podcast! You are both amazing and have such great insight! Love the new microphones and sitting apart on the couch makes total sense or you'll hurt your necks looking at each other. You are correct in that you are in your 8th year of marriage already and about to hit your 9th year (because it's always one more than your actual anniversary years). I have lived in SoCal my entire life but have visited family in Bentonville, AR many times. Arkansas is beautiful - especially Northwest AR.

  • @andrealawrence8238
    @andrealawrence8238 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looks way more natural with Jeremy sitting a little closer to Jinger. Thank you for sharing your hearts with us. Really enjoying the podcast. :)

  • @lanamorey6679
    @lanamorey6679 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great mike arms. Enjoyed this conversation.

  • @cryschapman
    @cryschapman หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had an incredibly difficult childhood and while it would take me way too long to explain the background, I have chosen to be Agnostic. Maybe one day something will how me what I need to see to believe, but in the meantime that's where I am. BUT, while I absolutely do not like the Bill Gothard things , and I have watched the Duggar kids grow up, I absolutely love seeing how Jinger has been able to realize that there was something wrong with the way she was raised and still able to keep her faith. It gives me hope. I watch most of your videos and I read your book and I just want you to know that you make me look a little deeper at the idea that a god can exist.

  • @erinedmonds6680
    @erinedmonds6680 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think it’s different when you come from long distance too. Me and my husband did 3.5 years of long distance, and it makes the first year exciting now that you are in the same zip code!

  • @trueballofwax3077
    @trueballofwax3077 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have so much to say!! Lol! First, I love your podcast! Very Inspiring and enlightening! 2nd, I’ve always wanted to tell you, you are/were the most beautiful bride I’ve ever seen! I’ve literally rewatch your wedding episode and the finding the dress more than 25 times! No joke! Just stunning! And since you were talking about your 1st year of marriage I felt a wedding comment was too far off! Also, coming from an older lady, I want to encourage you to use your pretty china. Especially for the 2 of you! Make a special meal and set out the pretty dishes, you will see it sets a lovely mood and it is fun! I’m like you, I have always been the simple, quick type entertaining but someone older than me told me to give it a try, and I’m glad I did! Once you see the value as a couple, then I encourage you to set a pretty table for all 4 of you! Maybe even let the girls put on a pretty outfit! This will be memories for your girls the rest of their lives!! I understand your little one might be a bit too young yet, but it won’t be long! I’m just suggesting you do this once in a while and see if all of you enjoy it! It is just another “something”, you can add to make life fun and pretty!

  • @sandystark1614
    @sandystark1614 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love that you prayer walked!

  • @barbarabavier675
    @barbarabavier675 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s heartbreaking about the bookshelves. They were so beautiful, and they made Jeremy SO happy!
    I had a similar experience with a couple of rooms in my childhood home.

  • @LAShopper
    @LAShopper หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The first year of marriage was definitely challenging, but some other years have been harder for different reasons.

  • @Ida-y2v
    @Ida-y2v หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your honest responses and insightful conversations are wonderful.

  • @sunshinevibes4357
    @sunshinevibes4357 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think the couch is fine and the new mike set up is fine. Your sound quality is so professional! You two are very sweet, loving, and well spoken.

  • @christinad1020
    @christinad1020 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cracking up about y’all addressing where you sit on the couch. 😆 Producer Josh took one for the team! 😂 …Makes complete sense for the video & editing. ❤ Y’all are too cute together! Love the topics & the ease in conversations you both have. 🥰

  • @Creative2xmom
    @Creative2xmom หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first year of marriage is definately an adjustment. However, after 23 years of marriage, my husband and I realize marriage continues to be a challenge, just always in different ways. Just keep growing.

  • @heatherthodde
    @heatherthodde หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jinger is awesome, I love her genuineness.

  • @lisaengel89
    @lisaengel89 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you save yourself for marriage, it should be GREAT! 👊🏻

  • @Hidinginyourcupboard
    @Hidinginyourcupboard หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    SO happy for Jana! And you both are a great example of a healthy family 👍🏼

  • @crystalzepeda9769
    @crystalzepeda9769 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The office makes me sad! I loved that set up, and actually thought about that episode not long ago when I was getting ready to set up my office and wanted to find that episode for inspiration!

  • @MissBe737
    @MissBe737 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don't think the first year of marriage is the hardest, but I'm sure it depends on the couple and their circumstances.

  • @TheEricksonGang
    @TheEricksonGang หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's usually the 1st 2 years are the easiest but if you can get through the first 7 years the 8th year is the Golden Year. We had Challenges from our 4th-7th year for sure. We found ourselves making the same 6 or 7 of the same meals all the time on rotation, but my husband has found some new fun and delicious meals and has been helping so much in that department. I was becoming burnt out.
    That would have been heart breaking to see the shelves ripped put etc but like you said it's just stuff and have to be prepared for it. Our Mexican restraunts here have Courtesy chips & Salsa unlimited it is really nice. But we use to be able to get a full platter of food for $5 around lunch time but all prices have gone up of course. If you ever come back up to Itasca State Park at the Headwaters in MN where you family had gone before a long time ago. Let me know I live 14 miles from there and Mi Rancho is my favorite in Bemidji MN that is 30 miles from the head waters. But the best Mexican restraunt I have been to is in Savage MN it looks like a hole in the wall place but awesome is El Loros.
    This is defiantly different seasons in our life where we grow, and it is in Spiritual and other ways that we do. I remember a transition growing up in my teens and then from 19-21 and then 21-24 and then 24 to 27 and then 27 to 32 and it just keeps going. I am 50 now and there has been a huge thing from 48 to 50. Thanks for sharing you two always love watching & listening. You both make a great team! The Lord is good!

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for being transparent, Jinger. I can so relate. YES ... authentic Mexican food with free (unlimited) chips & salsa.

    • @lizregan1949
      @lizregan1949 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is they way our Mexican restaurant does it. Free unlimited chips and salsa.

  • @paulagough6546
    @paulagough6546 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So helpful with your transparency…..Gold ❤❤

  • @sandrahand5338
    @sandrahand5338 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve really enjoyed your podcasts! Thank you!

  • @thehappylittleuke9432
    @thehappylittleuke9432 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Literally every time I heat Jinger speak about her friendship struggles, I want to hug her.

  • @cynthiacontreras9594
    @cynthiacontreras9594 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you guys!!..I remember the heat wave at the beginning of September. It was 10pm when there was an outrage in my area, which lasted for about 4 days. My husband got a generator because it was so hot and we have three kids. They woke up that night saying why is so hot. It was not fun at all😂

  • @mdaly4010
    @mdaly4010 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ambivert: balance of introvert & extrovert.
    All the best❤

  • @jenniferfitzgerald8970
    @jenniferfitzgerald8970 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for explaining why you sit so far apart! It makes total sense once you explained it!

  • @grosventre7760
    @grosventre7760 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Married 33 years, I think years 1, 5 & 10 are the hardest. I don’t know why but if you could get through those years then it’s smooth sailing after that. ❤

  • @reetayoung
    @reetayoung หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really enjoyed this, so interesting! I love the down to earth, real life conversation.

  • @cindythomas5895
    @cindythomas5895 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really love you both .. such a blessing and I so enjoy your podcast ❤

  • @stockinettestitch
    @stockinettestitch หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m only 2 minutes in but I gotta weigh in: It’s more comfortable farther apart on the sofa - for the viewers too. It’s a nice public distance. Think of Charlie Rose’s table - nice and big. The speakers likely feel more comfortable as well. You can stretch out a bit, use hand and arm gestures.
    I like your spacing. ☺️

  • @cindyeddings269
    @cindyeddings269 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Talking about your first home over 30 years or
    more when we had this home and we sold it i remember how hard it was we had this home for 20 years. I had both my girls there and we got it after a year of Marriage. My girls new no other home for most of there lives. Well any way another young couple bought this home. There first with young children we had remodeled about 4 times over the years until we were finally done. I remember the young Mom asking nge if I could wait there for a few min while she ran some where I had went there to pick up some final things. I remember the moment I was by myself in what used to be my home and theemories there. When I went into her kitchen I looked into a cabinet that was made special for drinking classes. My husband made it with narrow shelf's spaced father apart for cups and glasses it was funny. But when I looked in there that's not what was there. I got upset and rearranged it with all her drinking glasses and cups. And told her when she got back home this is why this was built. Forgetting it is no longer my home I took a step back and said I am sorry. She said that's ok I get it. We were separating at the time .and Divorced witch is why we sold out home. So a lot was happening with my life at that time. He stayed best friends and he recently Passed away one thing I have leaned through this is that as you daid Jinger is just a house. The memories are what you will take with you forever.thank you both for your podcast I love them. Añd I love your family
    God Bless you all

  • @ethelmcgurk5239
    @ethelmcgurk5239 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have little tables or a coffee table so you can have tea, or coffee or whatever beverage. That’s what you can do with your hands.

    • @Sunshine94533
      @Sunshine94533 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s a great idea!

  • @CyndiDorsey
    @CyndiDorsey หลายเดือนก่อน

    I live in California, on the beautiful Monterey Peninsula, where we are well known for our fine dining, and beaches.
    I have eaten at many Mexican restaurants, and they all bring chips and salsa on the house; even the less expensive restaurants bring chips and salsa on the house.
    It’s a six hour drive from LA, so check us out, and think about planning a vacation here.

  • @lisaengel89
    @lisaengel89 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I used to watched your Sunday Laredo sermons from here in northern Michigan. And those of Jeff Peterson and Tim Conway at GCCSATX. Jeff is who taught me about Reformed theology, beginning when he and Sheryl lived up here. I have many notes I took from him. What a solid church that is.

  • @DawnMcConnell-r1x
    @DawnMcConnell-r1x หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I laughed so hard about the ticket. 😂😂😂 How on Earth did you carry on with Bible study after that. 😂

  • @jessiruu
    @jessiruu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the mic stands, there was always a knocking or tapping sound when y’all are holding the mic. The sound would hurt my ears when I listened with my headphones. 👍👍

  • @PurePrairie
    @PurePrairie หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's funny people are commenting about the distance on the couch. I think if you each sat in your own chairs tilted toward each other, people wouldn't notice the distance because of esthetics. 🤷‍♀️

  • @rosemaryroutte7379
    @rosemaryroutte7379 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really enjoyed this podcast. Thank you so much for sharing.

    • @tlynn7043
      @tlynn7043 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People really … what a stupid question. No one can reason anymore. The set up works well.

  • @KathyCrenshaw
    @KathyCrenshaw หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoyed this a lot! Greetings from Juneau, AK

  • @Sammy9808
    @Sammy9808 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well now, isn't it really a silly statement to make? "First year is the hardest". The first year is different for everyone, but most people didn't have the same dating relationship that you guys had. Just being alone for the first time must have been a little terrifying. I hope you are not offended by this... but Jinger, you got the most handsome husband out of the bunch and Jeremy, you got the most beautiful Duggar. Don't get me wrong, all the others are good looking too, but you two are a beautiful couple. I respect that you don't want to show your children but I can only imagine how adorable they are. I am Italian too Jeremy, so I might be a little bias. My mother came to this country when she was 27. She passed away at age 74 and she still had a thick accent. We had to ask her constantly to repeat herself, but it was so precious. I am very proud of my Italian heritage

    • @tarastreasure
      @tarastreasure 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I thought the same - first year could be the hardest for people like them that didn't really know each other much and didn't have much intimacy before (and I don't necessarily mean sex) but could be easier for other people. Also, I love them all but I agree Jinger is the most beautiful and Jeremy is also the most good looking husband among them. You could always tell Jinger was a bit different to her sisters (the ones that were older and we got to see in the show) because she was the only one that really liked big cities etc and it's awesome she found Jeremy, who shares those same interests with her.

  • @abigailkemper9637
    @abigailkemper9637 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We were told not to plan anything major the first year of marriage because all you need to do is learn how to be together. It was true!

  • @nanijeanie
    @nanijeanie หลายเดือนก่อน

    We would love to be your neighbors! If you want to move again, come to Oregon and I will cook for you! We are doing online church, it's been like this for quite a while. I guess you end up getting in a rut. We need more good pastors like you guys!❤

    • @bestillfarm4344
      @bestillfarm4344 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We're from Oregon and mostly doing online church at home, too. Hugs!

  • @janejohnson8353
    @janejohnson8353 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your podcasts. Just a comment about the HVAC. I had a brand new one too that stopped working. It actually had TOO much coolant and they had to remove some. Usually, there isn't enough coolant. It would work to a point and then just stop working. It happened during a heat wave here too.

  • @louisesproul8493
    @louisesproul8493 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My ex used that at me, YOUR NOT THE PERSON I MARRIED , then i found out he'd been having an affair for 11 years. I couldn't do it anymore. He threatened to kill me so I told him I wanted a divorce, he is not a believer and I am.

  • @terrymclellan315
    @terrymclellan315 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You two should get Out of L.A!..seismic activity
    Love your team work!!😅

  • @JacquelynHoward-iq7wg
    @JacquelynHoward-iq7wg หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the mic arms and it totally makes since on the distance on the couch for the video! When are you going to show a tour of your new house?

  • @rebeccalovestinyhumans4261
    @rebeccalovestinyhumans4261 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh boy 🥵! We live in centeal California 110' 🔥 and no air conditioning because it costs more than $1000/month 💰

  • @teflonl
    @teflonl หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love u two, so genuine & sweet ❤

  • @Mvill1
    @Mvill1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think that the adjustment that Jinger describes is common for everyone who changes an environment, leaves family, gets married.

  • @ethelmcgurk5239
    @ethelmcgurk5239 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much better with the mic stands! Looks nice!!!

  • @kristinmcclendon2543
    @kristinmcclendon2543 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chips and salsa should always be free and endless. If you want a good salsa bar and date night, check out Yolanda’s in Ventura County. The location in Oxnard is in the harbor 👌🏻

  • @mommad8666
    @mommad8666 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love and prayers from KY.

  • @suemaxwell-e8b
    @suemaxwell-e8b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I live in NC now. They don't charge for chips & salsa here. So yummy. Also, FL. didn't charge. Its been 10 yrs since I lived there. Can't go wrong with chips & salsa. I think both places charge if you want a cheesy sauce

    • @stockinettestitch
      @stockinettestitch หลายเดือนก่อน

      Minnesota sit downs don’t charge either.

  • @aliceinoregonland3942
    @aliceinoregonland3942 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I live in a 55 and older community! Recently I have been out walking and people that I have never met will ask me, "So how long have you lived here, I have never seen you before?" Well, "I have lived here 3.2 years, I just got a dog!"😂😂😂🐶🐶🐶

  • @DebCanada54
    @DebCanada54 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the pod casts .Perhaps at the end of podcast you can end it by sitting next to each other . KEEP DOING YOU GUYS !!!

  • @toliveischrist3330
    @toliveischrist3330 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    14:14 Jinger’s eyes reminded me of young Jinger from 19 Kids and Counting 😂

  • @susanmoran692
    @susanmoran692 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my! I need to go shop at Trader Joe’s now!

  • @Thefrenchtown
    @Thefrenchtown หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk where in LA you are going for Mexican food, but as someone who has grown up in SoCal, yes it’s expected that if you go to a true Mexican restaurant, the chips and salsa are unlimited and not an additional charge to your meal

  • @sarahw7244
    @sarahw7244 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We were also warned it would be the hardest, the first year of marriage. It was not. We were giddy a lot. Sure it wasn't perfect. But other years have been far harder.

  • @panamamama6
    @panamamama6 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    On your special plate, write the name of the user on the box lid. That’s what we do! 😊

  • @LisaHatch-s2h
    @LisaHatch-s2h หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this video. I just got married this year. Valentines Day. ❤💕

  • @janegranger6821
    @janegranger6821 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jinger would you ever consider playing the piano for us?

  • @tyrelnatashanuzum8956
    @tyrelnatashanuzum8956 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We use our china when we run out of other dishes and also fancy occasions. Our set is the yellow wheat set. I wonder if its similar to yours.
    Lol Jingers eyes about the seed oils.

  • @marilouo4321
    @marilouo4321 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You may need a new electrical control panel. My internet kept shutting off and then eventually other lights and plugs in the house. It was not cheap but the new panel fixed the problem.

  • @sweetsarah27
    @sweetsarah27 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jeremy, would love to see some of your awesome shoes!

  • @arineemickle
    @arineemickle หลายเดือนก่อน

    I believe if you bake the dish at 350 for a half hour after writing on it, the marker will last. ❤

  • @Kingdom.Fighters
    @Kingdom.Fighters หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Free chips and salsa
    Yes, I agree