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Brigette wanted an opinion on this, went for an interview and it was weird the lady interviewing me she had not gone through my cv at all, she told me so. She asked me to tell her about myself then asked me how much is my salary expectations and wanted to hire me immediately because she liked my energy.Remember she had not read my cv and also there was no job description indicated on the job posts hence had to ask then another red flag during the interview, her staff walked in and she allowed it and started asking for a day off infront of me and she was declined, imagine in the middle of an interview.
@@loisehinga8873 Wow. I would have wanted to run out of there. They actually did you a favor by showing their toxic behavior instead of painting a rosy picture, only for you to find out after you came to work there.
Some jobs show these red flags quickly but in my last job, they were slowly revealed that at 2 years, I got out because everything was getting toxic. Now, I am at a job that appreciates me, pays well, and no micromanaging. It is possible
This gives me hope. I also left a toxic job even though it paid very well, but it was severely affecting my health. I have been without a job for almost six months and all the interviews show all these toxic red flags. So no Thank you!
Truth! Ones that eventually show themselves are so tricky! I am in that situation now. Had some intuition when I first started, but thought I’d I worked hard and kept my head down all would work out. But after seeing a manager cuss someone out, three leadership walkouts, and poor project management I see I need to leave. Been the most stressful 2 years of my life
It's horrible and my recent company I was micromanaged so bad for so long that I quit. It was taking a serious toll on my mental health so I had to choose myself first.
Thank you for this video. One red flag that has always held up for me is when the interviewer says that the work group is "like a family". I run as soon as I hear those words. I just left a toxic environment to set up my own practice and work for myself. Fingers crossed! I appreciate you.
I had that during an interview as well. When the interviewer said to me that work group is like a family. I’ve should’ve had seen the red flags sooner. And now I’m stuck at a toxic environment.
I've experienced most of these situations in the workplace. Those "urgently hiring" ones you really have to watch for. Thanks again for confirming what I know to be true, and thanks for the encouragement!! 😊
Yes I agee on "urgent hiring one". I just recently turned off a 3rd interview for a potential start-up company. I did some more research for the 3rd research - turns out the employee churn was very high. Almost whole team had changed within 2 years. Also, no transparancy over estimated salaries (no estimations given at 3rd interview!). They had almost 2M$ venture capital funding, which made it even more weird. Another red flag was that very little revenue generated after several years with the product. If the company has a working product for many years, why revenue is not being generated? This is a huge, huge red flag, as it can indicate no real value preposition (all companies like to think their solution equivalent to cancer cure), but is their solution (product) REALLY benefitting the customer if it is generating almost no revenue? If it's a good product nonetheless, there could be another major issue with strategy of sales/marketing, which tells that the CEO/Founders/COs don't know their drill or the market fit is just not right. What saved me (dodged the bullet)? Intuition. If you feel even the slightest that something is off, do all you can to research all you can. You don't want to get baited on bad company and ultimately get burnt.
it saddens me to say that a new person is going to start at the place i resigned from recently - He was offered the job on the day of the interview - he clearly has not seen this video - this organisation is short staffed and BLOODY TOXIC
If someone offers you an amzing opportunity and you're not sure you can do it, say yes then learn how to do it later. Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated. If they can’t see the real value of you, it’s time for a new start.
Thank you for the final comment about being jobless. It really is better for your health, integrity and well-being to be unemployed than to work for a disgusting toxic work environment. Glassdoor is definitely on your side here.
It may be sad but it's called being mature and doing what u need to do. Today's wokeism is toxic ....so most places have now become toxic as they become more 'tolerant'
I agree Donald! My last job I was told to stay in my lane all the time! I was banned from asking questions or questioning the lack of procedures and processes.
@@lisashaw6067 When I voiced my concerns about what is going on, they told me I’m still on probation and I’m not allow to voice my concerns or ask any questions.
It's sad that when you are polite to members of your work culture and perhaps say "your welcome" and was met with "If your fishing for a thank you, just know I don't work that way."
Great video! I left a job as their usual line was "we always did it this way" and they were never willing to change for the greater good. Definitely micromanaging and toxic environment too. You pointed out a lot of realistic truths.
Yes, that is so true. My very last full time job was just like this. They had us to write suggestions, goals and what would help the company to stand out... But any suggestions made were never heard. When I spoke from their few faithful vendors perspective, and I knew theirs were valid inputs, the manager just gave us deaf ears. But my group chat was chiming all the time, very controlling. Then some employees, who wanted to keep their job, turned having a narcissist attitude. It was a toxic environment. When I asked for support, i was burnt out, working almost 15 hours a day, they told me "you are just complaining". I was fired, the exit letter said "behavior issues". I laughed. The owner said "you are a great employee but not a good fit for our company". I sought professional counseling, took a break from job hunting, and let the universe to show me what it had for me. I am happy now working on my own, at the same time networking put me in places I thought it was impossible to reach in my career. I prayed God to send me jobs. He did it and still doing it.
@@violinogirl I’m going through the same exact thing. I’ve been at this job for over 6 months, and most of the times the teachers I’ve work with have the narcissists attitude. One of the teachers was forcing me to stay because she’s been at this job for 15 years. And she got upset at me because I’m going to put my week notice in December. And told me that cannot be too nice at this job and that I have to stay quiet and do my work. The teachers I’ve work with are very controlling, and will not support me whatsoever. And the teachers will have conversations among themselves. And act like I don’t even exist. The company fired the supervisor because of a child’s expensive coat.
I worked in a toxic organisation for 5 years.They are the worst but I won't give up Brigette.One day I'll be a boss and treat my employees how I wanted to be treated.
That is what I said Italy France. You got out earlier than I did. I was in my toxic work environment for several years. I finally started exploring careers, and now I am happy with the career path I am studying :-) I haven't landed a job yet, but I think I will eventually with new skills I am working on. With you on your last point about if you become a boss, you will treat your employees great!
The rude and dismissive interviewer was my experience at my last job. I didn't get the promotion thank God but a month later a Top 5 employer interviewed me and they were fantastic! Great energy in the next interview and they called me the next day with a bomb Offer with multiple promotions! Honestly, I'm grateful for the rude interview...they blessed me and now I'm working in my dream job!
I wish I had seen this some years ago. I found myself in a terrible position and whn I reflected on the interview I realized that I there were a lot of red flags. Good news is I have learned my lesson.
I really needed this to video to confirm what I was seeing as a toxic, micromanaging work environment. I’ve since left this job and trusting the Lord for a better job. Bless you for sharing your wealth of experience.
I remember going for an interview and the HR lady was 45 minutes late. When she finally turned up she told me that the interview would have to be brief as she was short of time. I don't think she appreciated my response that it was not my fault.
I got one too. Went to an interview at global luxury handbag company corporate position to be told, the VP is too busy today. Ah, thank you for telling me person? I left shaking in anger. What a waste of two hours.
Got to speak to a hiring manager like this too. Was terse from the beginning of the interview until the end. Five minutes to the interview, wouldn't stop complaining about how the interview was running "late", and I'm sat there thinking, "Should.I just leave while you hire your referral, then?" The person who interviewed me before her was much nicer and more.professional. However, when I asked her what the best thing was about working in the company, she said, "I'm actually leaving in a month." With a hiring manager like that, I can see why you'd want to leave too.
I had one where she was completely a no show. I emailed her 10 minutes in and she got back to me hours later saying she forget to put it on her calendar and if we can reschedule. I agreed and once again.... she was late. She emailed me at the 5 minute mark saying she will be on and she's just finishing a call. After 15 minutes I got off and said I wasn't interested. She didn't reply back until an hour. Her lack of care for my time told me all I needed to know.
I went a company’s interview where a young future colleague came late for 20 min but the manager came on time. I think whenever ANYONE comes late to an external people involved meeting such as an interview, customer meeting or vendor meeting, they’re being extremely disrespectful. There’s no exception to the rule. Every time anyone comes late to any meeting involving people outside of an organization and especially an interview we should run the other way. I learned in a hard way. But I know now.
You're not alone. I had a great resume 6 months ago having worked at a company for 4 years, accepted a job offer for another bigger company since they offered a higher OTE, and ended up quitting 4 months later because of how toxic it turned out to be. Didn't have another job lined up (it was so bad, I had to get out ASAP). I've been unemployed for a little over 3 months now and have found it difficult to get any offers after making it to the final rounds. Every interview gets me closer to my dream opportunity. Got to have faith
Me too. I was abused and harassed in my last job enough that I should have filed a police report. Now setting foot inside a similar job environment is still unsettling to me. I know I will overcome it and will be suing the individual who did this to me.
Attended 9 IVews and all failed, finally i manage to secure a job at my 10 Ivew. One of the largest O&G company in the world. I always believe dont give up and keep trying. Remember god has a better plan for us.
I had an interview that had a number of these red flags including being late (then wanting to cut it short because they were going to miss the bus), being dismissive, and then the red flag for me was them explaining that they were looking for someone who could convince the company to find their projects useful because people weren't really liking how the systems worked. It was such a bizarre interview that the director who interviewed me was fired 3 weeks later.
My job didn’t give me a lunch break until 4pm because the supervisor told me that she had a 1:30 meeting, and did not wanted to miss the meeting. And being dismissive, therefore I had to deal with 9 (2 year old children by myself). That can’t even defend themselves.
Great video. Unfortunately, many companies are paying low salaries, and pushing you to the edge, with an employee shortage, that makes you work during weekends too
Spot on Bridgette. I recently just moved from a job where I was working as legal officer of one company but also managing the other subsidiaries for the same meager pay! It is three man department and I worked my so much, I started spending my personal funds for office duties. I quit two weeks ago and I am job hunting but it has to be a very good company that is not toxic and need valuable hands like me in their Legal department
@@BrigetteHyacinth I’m in the same exact boat when there is me and two other teachers in the classroom. As soon as I arrive to the classroom, they want me to do everything, especially the lead teacher. Like the teacher would text me sometimes and ask me to buy her food, and I would have to come out of my pocket to spend my personal funds on the teachers, especially the lead teacher. And the teacher would boss me around and tell me what to do. And I’m always burned out physically and mentally, I’ve been at this job for over 6 months, no room for growth or advancement. I’m leaving the job in December. I’m still job hunting at the same time. And I rather work in a company that is not toxic, and need to appreciate me for my hard work as a teacher.
Also wanted to mention. I went on an interview and the manager said upfront there is Mandatory OT 10 hours weekly. So I attempted to negotiate my rate and they would not budge. Why pay overtime and not increase the starting rate. 🚩
In a recent interview they asked me if I had a girlfriend, am I married, where I live, and who am I living with. I felt uncomfortable and embarrassed. I answered them anyway because I though it was the right thing to do during an interview . Thank you for your video, it's helpful eye-opener.
Wow Unbelievable! They were on a roll. It's good how you handled this. It showed you have high EI. Earl, stay focused and keep moving forward. You will get something better.
The interviewer ask me the same thing too too if I was married, has kids, and if I had a husband too. I told the interviewer that it’s none of your business what does that have to do about the interview
@@Shannete572 If you answer them that way, you’ll definitely not get the job. They’ll label you as “combative & uncooperative or defensive.” I understand it’s a very personal question 🙋🏽♀️ Perhaps, they asked because they’re trying to weed out single candidates who might have family emergencies or single candidates who might have affairs with each other while working. I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️
For my first job interview that I had, the regional supervisor who was supposed to interview me was late even though I arrived on time. I let it slide and we met an hour or two later and I got the job, but I probably should have taken that as a bad sign. Another job that I applied for promised me a phone interview, and that they would call me. The day and time arrived, but no call. This time I didn't let it slide; I didn't want to even bother talking to them this time. I have no dating experience, but I see it kind of like dating now - if the employer doesn't want to commit to hiring you and stands you up, you shouldn't commit to them either.
Being jobless is the best thing that can happen to a person! I have opportunities that otherwise we would not had if I was fully employed full-time. I’ve had the opportunity to be and share more with my family, develop my skills by not practicing shallow learning but deep learning, and reassess my life and career towards growing both personally and professionally. It gave me the opportunity to move from a rat race to a more entrepreneurial path! It is all about our EQ; our attitude, patiences, faith, and resilience!
I have experienced the "too driven for the organization" recently. A manager with little vision and disregard for employees needs is simply a place to leave in your rear view mirror.
Brigette, thank you for sharing truth. I landed a remote job with one of the premiere Pharma companies. They lied 🤥 about every aspect of the role. Then fired me and told me I was incompetent. First time I had ever been told this. The truth was they hired me as a placeholder for headcount and the week their budget was approved released me. The lying hurt, what hurt most was the disregard toward me as a fellow human, experienced colleague, and outstanding employee. It has taken me 3 months to recover from this bushwhacking.
This is a way to embezzle resources; you were the bate with nuf other things. Do not worry about the lie - if a prospective employer can think logical, they'll solve the equation.
Great video. However the no amount of money bit. You still need to have an income to pay bills. I do agree it's not worth staying in a toxic environment, to this end i would say update your CV then send out to companies who are hiring and in the mean time start learning new things and continue to self develop you will find something new in the end.
You nailed it Brigette Hyacinth. I worked for gov't and now retired, but one must have a list of red flag observations to pursue a dream job. Keeping one's eyes and ears open to the gist of the interview is key. Presently, I sit on boards to enhance those experiences. Left our homeland at preteen, but enjoy the warmth and exuberance of the people on visits.
I had an interview where they refused to give me a street address. They just gave me a street name and said I would see the building. I Googled the street and saw that it was a fairly long street. I then cross checked the street with their company name and saw that there were two locations about a quarter of a mile away from each other. I picked the location that looked more "corporate", and was correct, but I did not like this "problem-solving test" and that I had to spend time doing all of this. When I got to the interview, there was no receptionist at the front desk. Maybe she was out sick. I didn't have to wait long, but I was still unsure I was in the right place. All this gave me red flag vibes.
Wish I'd seen this before I started my last job. Also, use your gut. I ignored my instinct that it was a bad place and paid the price. But you can get out and not everywhere is bad. Thank you Brigette, your messages and tips helped me keep faith to get out of a toxic environment for a much better position without panicking and running to somewhere just as bad. Thank you.
Me too, I’ve wished I’d seen this video before starting this job that I’m at in May. I’ve should’ve went with my gut feeling, but I ignored all the signs because I needed a job so badly. And the place is so bad, the pay is horrible, and the people and the culture is so bad.
Brigette is right, on the first day I joined a company, when I was led to my place, I realise the chair was broken. I talked to the GM about the chair, and she told me, she will look into it. After a few days of inaction, I found myself a chair. There were other incidents too. I left after two years as the situation doesn't change and even when I didn't have any job. :(
Funny you mention managers having different uniforms than employees. I'm a remote employee (sales engineer) and only noticed this during the recent trade shows. Management wear full suits, normal employees wear company polo's. Didn't think much about it at the time. Great video Brigette! Glad I found it on your linkedin :)
Oh I worked for an organization where EVERYONE was related. Management also parked close the building while understaff had to park a block away and walk..even in the winter. They also made me feel like an outcast because of my previous employer and my supervisor is a narcissist who feels women have a certain place. Upper management played favorites. Even got suspended when I was threatened by a male staff. He was able to come in the next day. I was suspended with no pay and I did nothing wrong. I cried daily at my desk and hid how I felt. Left as soon as I could. Left for one bad place for another...everyone is unhappy and turnover is high. .they hired me for my expertise and won't allow me to do what I'm great at ....thanks for this vid. I needed this as I start my search for happiness again.
I really enjoyed this video and shared on LinkedIn. I recently was engaged with a company that literally had all 7 red flags. After the one interview, I got in my car and texted immediately that it would NOT be a place/company I would be pursuing, or dedicate any further consideration, for employment. I am glad you made this video, it empowers people that would otherwise waste time and hopefully bring awareness to employers. Excellent!
Today I had some nonsense internal recruiter who demanded to speak to me on LinkedIn first changed their mind left and right told me oops but we aren’t moving you forward with the position. lol as if I wanted to work for them? They are the one who reached out to me, not me. I was so relieved. Red flags everywhere just in a few interactions. During just a few interactions with the recruiter who doesn’t even reside in my country told me what is normal and what is not normal in my country’s hiring practices. Imagine their entitlement and BS. I mean it’s considered absolutely rude to schedule an interview at 8 pm or early mornings or just simply demand whenever it’s convenient to suit their time. Respect goes two way streets and to this day, they still think it’s an employer’s market?? Lol I would understand it if they’re on different time zone but their entitlement attitude was so unreal this in itself was a red flag. Then in an actual interview, the manager told me she is looking for someone who is everything what she does but for all APAC because she can’t understand what’s going on in there as she has zero visibility and they have zero understanding of our culture here. I really hate working for startups. I just usually run when they approach me on LinkedIn now. Most startups also hire unintelligent or incapable people, I have worked for such companies in the past. They do suck and say crazy things and they think and act as if their absurdity is normal.
Madam, both of us are speaking the same languages here!!! When you make suggestions for improvement - they ask; are you the director? The leaders in the company displayed horrible body languages when communicating to their low level support. It is just sick, I had to respond to a prospective employer - the interview would be a balance one if these personal questions were not asked. I list them and made suggestions on how to navigate the uncomfortable situation to make candidates feel more appreciation of their time to come to the interview.
I was hired in November for a senior leadership role. The director painted a beautiful picture during the interview. There’s no parking, people can only take the train, the building is extremely old, we don’t even have a coffee machine or water to drink. They don’t sanitize the space, only take out the trash. Every single employee is unhappy they made it clear since the first day I started. During the interview I asked questions regarding work life balance and micromanagement and the leadership lied. There is absolutely no leave in the first 6 months, no sick vacation or personal time and if you get sick within that period, they simply don’t pay you. The only benefit we have is health care. Most of the reg flags you brought up, they have. No care for staff members or their advancement
I've been following you on LinkedIn, but just started watching your videos. I didn't realize you're Trini! ❤🇹🇹 Thanks for sharing your knowledge with the world.
I applied through a staffing agency in Jun 2021. Last week the hiring manager had computer issues and could not sign on to a video interview - I waited 15 minutes past the start time and NO SHOW. Never got a call or email saying so. This week I signed on for the video interview and again - NO SHOW! Again, no communication from the hiring manager about not showing up. I told the 3rd party recruiter to withdraw my application for the role. If the situation were reversed, they would say that they don't want anything to do with this candidate. I don't like the way I was treated and do not want to work for a company such as this, no matter how much I need a job.
The first thing I always do when I've started at an employer is to renovate the employee lunch rooms and bathrooms, followed by any other facilities. My view was that if you want to attain employee engagement, then you need to show that you respect them by giving them facilities that you yourself would want. The other thing was to renovate reception areas when funds were available. Basically to create an environment where we were presenting ourselves, "On show and ready to go."
Thank you for this amazing video, I am at a crossroads with my current job, and your last point rang true to me, step out on faith. Jobless is better than a toxic environment.
Thanks for sharing..Many times, I found recruiters behaving as "the boss" even in interviews. Since they are hiring, so they believe only they have right to question and assess candidates, but they forget that they are representing their organisations, and their behaviour reflects their organisation culture. They, generally, dont like to be put an awkward question, and reply negatively. Once an interviewer, literally shouted at me for replying wrong answer. I was actually shocked, he could have said that my reply wasn't correct, instead of frowning and shouting at me that I don't know certain thing and want to be hired and paid by them. I never went back to that org for interview again. Regarding wait time, once I waited for 4 hrs, only to be told by them that I have been purposefully kept at the end of the list to test my patience. It was a very reputed organisation, and I never expected such behaviour.
An excellent video detailing educational aspects of what to watch out for. I personally liked the uplifting message regarding to know [one's] worth. Thank you very much for this uplifting video. Cheers!
I had an interview 2 weeks ago and it went really well. It was one of the best interviews I had and I got along well with the three interviewers and it seemed like a great cultural fit. They made me an offer the very next day (Thursday) and they wanted me to start immediately (the next Monday). Unfortunately, after reviewing the offer and some back and forth with the company, I had to decline. They called me back on Monday with another offer which I reviewed and was happy to accept. They sent me mock payslips as well as medical insurance options to choose from. After emailing the recruiter with my choices, I never heard from them again. Phone calls not being answered, my follow-up email not being responded to. I've basically been ghosted after the company showed so much enthusiasm and eagerness to hire me.
What about at the end of the interview they ask if you have any questions,and you ask what is the salary like and their response is we will pay you based on your qualifications
I always feel it's important to give input on this question. I generally avoid this topic during the interview process when the role pays over $35k because there's using a industry standard range and they know your job history. If you have ALL their qualifications you should expected to be on the higher end of the range give or take your time in the industry. Once the process is over let them offer and you counter. You have a good idea what your minimum is and it's normal to ask for more. If they offer you less than what you feel is fair (within the industry standard range) then walk away because like Brigette kept bringing up, they're being cheap. They can't expect high performance and not pay for it. They're doing the same thing you're doing during the negotiation so don't think much of it. I once had a company offer $45k less than the industry median rate. Don't let it get to you. Think of it like you got away before the problem even started. Good luck!
What an awesome breakdown. There are a lot people who find themselves in this position and it becomes quite difficult to break free due to circumstances and they end up just drowning in this environment. This is so demoralizing to your ambitions and potential, whatever you do, find a way to move on. It will benefit you long term.. Also great content!! You have yourself a new subscriber ;)
How about this story. It happened to me in 2006 in Houston TX. I was interviewing in person for an engineering role at a manufacturing company. I am an engineer. Here are some things that happened, and what I did. 1) I was interviewing with the factory manager, and he asked me to accompany him on his factory walk. He berated every supervisor he met, telling them how they screwed up. He used colorful language that I do not care to repeat...scatalogical language. 2) we returned to his office, and I was escorted to the HR office for an interview. While waiting, I heard the factory manager yelling at a number of people... including women. I was surprised he could get away in saying things he said... especially with women present. They were very uncouth, and that was putting it mildly. 3) when the HR manager sat down for his part of the interview, I was asked what I thought of the place so far. I asked, "May I have the ride to the airport? I am ending the interview. My choice.". They were of course shocked, as it barely started. I specifically told them why. I went back home to Chicago. I told the recruiter what I thought and why. 1 day later the factory manager in Houston, who would have been my supervisor if I chose to continue the interview, lost his job. I was one of 20 candidates who said the same thing.
All of this. Every single point you made is perfect.. I've definitely worked at places like these because I need a job, and it turns out, they were an awful company to work for. Not sure where their arrogance comes from lol. So thankful I'm not there anymore.
In my first 2 jobs with big companies, I was asked in each one if I planned to have children soon because they "don't want anybody pregnant here" . I should have noticed the red flags but I needed a job. Each were horrible work experiences which gravely affected my health. Thank you for this series, I'm learning so much.
I once was in an interview where the interviewer started to work on his personal hygiene read flossing teeth. I thought I was being filmed for candid camera...
Thanks for sharing this Brigette Hyacinth. I absolutely agree With your statements, I will always read about the company and see what is about. You don’t want to say yes to everything, because people will see through that you are desperate for the job. I will always tells my sis the same thing too that I understand you want to work but you don’t want to be desperate, you have to know your worth. If you want respect, you have to stand up for your rights don’t let people walk all over you. I just don’t want to settle for anything, and what stood me out was when you said that one of the ladies waited it two hours for the interview that’s insane, because I will get up and leave and tell them excuse me can I come in for another interview another day? Never want to be to desperate. I was at a interview in the summertime waiting to be interview, I came bright and early on time, the front desk security told me to wait. So I waited for someone to come get me, and nobody hasn’t showed up, remind me the interview was at 2:30 so I waited for the interview person to interview by, and it was going on 3:45. And nobody still haven’t interview me until 4:00, that shows signs of disrespect at all times, and your right @Brigette Hyacinth you don’t want to be to desperate. I shouldn’t had told them to reschedule me another day for the interview but I was to busy on being desperate for the job. It’s like what my neighbor said that me and my sister needs to sit still and be patient wait on gods time, don’t settle for anything. Red flags 🚩 right there too, that shows that the interviewer doesn’t care about the employees. I am learning not to take anything, because imagine how they’re going to treat me, and when a job tells you that we are like family, we are hiring on the spot, that shows signs right they’re. I rather be unemployed than to be dealing in a toxic place, it’s best to have a peace ✌️ of mind. I am not breaking my back for anyone, especially if it is a toxic environment. You want to feel comfortable at a workplace and not being stressed out, because a lot of these jobs should always understand that you have doctors appointments, your health is always your first priority. Oh yes, I would look on indeed everyday when they put the same job each day that shows RED FLAGS 🚩 right there. It’s best to be your own boss because you are taking control of your own company.
Well my wings are clipped, because for 10 years I have not been able to work in the profession I've studied for. But God granted me something better last year: I'm doing a new study, Computer Science. It's very expensive but it is payed by the government. There are a lot of job opportunities in this area because people with this degree, are hard to find in the country I'm born and living in. Plus, those kind of jobs are *high paid jobs 💜*
I have a whole Master's in Healthcare Administration and since last year I have been unemployed. I can't seem to find a healthcare job to save my life right now. I've been looking for months now and I'm like okay, maybe my interviewing sucks, but then I'm like no, I qualify for these jobs. I feel like HR is posting these jobs just to say they did it, but not hiring. It's crazy.
@@quenzettahester503 Could it be your resume or interviewing skills. Because you qualify and your skills sets don't align will not give you the edge. And also researching the companies etc to see where you fall short. There are always two in the interview. Revisit with a check list.
@@daphnegabriel6767 @Daphne Gabriel My resume is fine, by the way: I have my dream job now since October 2021. After a week I got promoted to a much higher position and now I am the supervisor of that department. I asked for a raise in November and I got in December. I have heard they are going to give me a permanent contract. So no, it wasn't about my resume or interviewing skills, because I could always find a job in my field. It started to change when jobs in that field were incredibly low and they still are.
Dear Brigette, You're outstanding! You're a great example of leadership. Leading with truth, honesty above all a lot of empathy. Keep helping, God bless you.
Excellent video. I had an interviewer ask me what was my most traumatic event in life. Then when I had questions for them, they made a snarky comment about me having the nerve to ask them questions. LOL
Thank you, Brigette! It has been over 15 months since the pandemic and I don't want to make the same mistakes I have before. I wish I had known this before, but now I am better equipped! I WILL find that great job.
Great video! I once had a Supervisor refer to me as "a Diva" in a team meeting , in front of the whole team and other managers. Grrrr.. Also, I once had an interview with a manager of a very large company years ago and while she was reading my resume, she fell asleep. I am not lying! Thank goodness I didn't hear back from that one. :)
Thank you so much for your video, Brigette. I have a video interview in 40 minutes and I'vee written down some of the questions you just mentioned and I'll make sure to ask them. You're amazing!
I've had every single one of these things happen to me, and (thankfully), I've cut the interview short, thanked them for their time, and ran outta there fast!!!
another one - when the internal organization doesn't reflect the external message that they promote and they hire inexperienced employees so the GM can bully them around.
I am so glad I decided to stop and watch this video. It definitely made me feel more at ease with my current situation. I look forward to watching more helpful tips from you.
Unfortunately in today's society a lot of companies are conducting zoom interviews and it's hard to observe some of the things that you pointed out. I was just in a zoom interview and they asked several times how I deal with conflict. In addition to how I felt about going the extra mile. For me that was a red flag!
So much gems dropped! A company had me waiting 4.5 hours to be interviewed and when I queried they dismissed me and told Me to wait. I left immediately after that response.
All great points! My opinion as a leader for many years have made me come to one conclusion; coaching culture and proper training with recruiters on how identify REAL talent is absent in many, many companies!
My previous Manager was so intimidated from me that she got rid of me and told me that my permanant rile was only a contactual position... I was flying in my job and she couldn't handle it so she tried to intimidate me... narcissistic complex...
I would be reprimanded in front of my staff by My superior Manager and by the Head Of Human Resources which is why My employees never respected Me at all. I would be the scape goat and told I was less then multiple times by upper management. I decided to resign and I was stress free for a little while until I found out the new job that I was hired at was extremely stressful as well just was a different kind of stress. Lastly I started working for another high stressful job where the Manager would smile in My face but micro manage every little thing I did and then would tell the Ceo of the company that I stayed on each call for to long with each customer. I also would see that She would make one employee feel like She was the superior one and let that employee use her car, leave the store while still being on the clock and so on so on! I now work for myself as a marketing Agent as well as own a Retail Boutique in Queens NY. I have less stress these days😌😊😄
I should have looked for the bath- and breakrooms after the interview. I actually knew my employer was bad when during a chat with the HR, he had his phone in his hand, diluting his attention. "I am the boss and you are not" and what not are unfortunately sentences released after I was hired. So glad I am out of there
Don't let anyone clip your wings. You were born to soar! You deserve to be happy. Thanks for watching! 𝗗𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 like and 𝘀𝘂𝗯𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗼𝘀. T𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 🥰
Brigette wanted an opinion on this, went for an interview and it was weird the lady interviewing me she had not gone through my cv at all, she told me so. She asked me to tell her about myself then asked me how much is my salary expectations and wanted to hire me immediately because she liked my energy.Remember she had not read my cv and also there was no job description indicated on the job posts hence had to ask then another red flag during the interview, her staff walked in and she allowed it and started asking for a day off infront of me and she was declined, imagine in the middle of an interview.
@@loisehinga8873 Very weird indeed and unprofessional. Does the company have any reviews on Glassdoor?
Love this! (Don’t let anyone clip your wings; don’t love the awkward interview. Had to add that for clarity. )
@@loisehinga8873 Wow. I would have wanted to run out of there. They actually did you a favor by showing their toxic behavior instead of painting a rosy picture, only for you to find out after you came to work there.
@@BrigetteHyacinth no they don't have, had to check that one out
Some jobs show these red flags quickly but in my last job, they were slowly revealed that at 2 years, I got out because everything was getting toxic. Now, I am at a job that appreciates me, pays well, and no micromanaging. It is possible
This gives me hope. I also left a toxic job even though it paid very well, but it was severely affecting my health. I have been without a job for almost six months and all the interviews show all these toxic red flags. So no Thank you!
@@f21rodrz41 How do you survive?
I have kept falling into these jobs since my internships in college. Toxic companies are everywhere.
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Truth! Ones that eventually show themselves are so tricky! I am in that situation now. Had some intuition when I first started, but thought I’d I worked hard and kept my head down all would work out. But after seeing a manager cuss someone out, three leadership walkouts, and poor project management I see I need to leave. Been the most stressful 2 years of my life
My recent experience says that Micro management is not good for a employee as it demotivates them and decreases their morale.
Micromanagement is undermining and demotivating and fails to allow true potential to develop in an employee.
@@liesloliver-burger3253 very true
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It's horrible and my recent company I was micromanaged so bad for so long that I quit. It was taking a serious toll on my mental health so I had to choose myself first.
It was so bad it made me quit a job and according to my boss I was not "trying hard enough".
I think the bad employers are the ones disliking this video. 😂
Thanks for sharing, Brigette.
Seriously 🤣
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Ongggg lol
Haha
That one choke hahahahaha
Thank you for this video. One red flag that has always held up for me is when the interviewer says that the work group is "like a family". I run as soon as I hear those words. I just left a toxic environment to set up my own practice and work for myself. Fingers crossed! I appreciate you.
I had that during an interview as well. When the interviewer said to me that work group is like a family. I’ve should’ve had seen the red flags sooner. And now I’m stuck at a toxic environment.
I've experienced most of these situations in the workplace. Those "urgently hiring" ones you really have to watch for. Thanks again for confirming what I know to be true, and thanks for the encouragement!! 😊
Yes I agee on "urgent hiring one".
I just recently turned off a 3rd interview for a potential start-up company. I did some more research for the 3rd research - turns out the employee churn was very high. Almost whole team had changed within 2 years. Also, no transparancy over estimated salaries (no estimations given at 3rd interview!). They had almost 2M$ venture capital funding, which made it even more weird. Another red flag was that very little revenue generated after several years with the product. If the company has a working product for many years, why revenue is not being generated? This is a huge, huge red flag, as it can indicate no real value preposition (all companies like to think their solution equivalent to cancer cure), but is their solution (product) REALLY benefitting the customer if it is generating almost no revenue? If it's a good product nonetheless, there could be another major issue with strategy of sales/marketing, which tells that the CEO/Founders/COs don't know their drill or the market fit is just not right.
What saved me (dodged the bullet)?
Intuition.
If you feel even the slightest that something is off, do all you can to research all you can. You don't want to get baited on bad company and ultimately get burnt.
it saddens me to say that a new person is going to start at the place i resigned from recently - He was offered the job on the day of the interview - he clearly has not seen this video - this organisation is short staffed and BLOODY TOXIC
So true. I made that mistake once. The hiring manager, the VP of sales was in rush and basically gave me a deadline to accept the position.
@@andrewm4537 He would learn his lesson soon. Maybe by now he’s looking for a new job as it’s such a toxic environment.
If someone offers you an amzing opportunity and you're not sure you can do it, say yes then learn how to do it later. Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated. If they can’t see the real value of you, it’s time for a new start.
Love this!
Thank you for the final comment about being jobless.
It really is better for your health, integrity and well-being to be unemployed than to work for a disgusting toxic work environment. Glassdoor is definitely on your side here.
Ever almost been homeless, lose everytihng and take 20 years to get back to where you should be? Sometimes you need to do what you have to do...
@@rjtries sad to, some people have no choice but to settle for a toxic job until something better comes along.
It may be sad but it's called being mature and doing what u need to do. Today's wokeism is toxic ....so most places have now become toxic as they become more 'tolerant'
Tell that to the homeless people i see in Southside Atlanta
@@harmony3279 right!!
The one phrase I hated at my last job was "Stay in your Lane!"
I don't know how to do it either
I agree Donald! My last job I was told to stay in my lane all the time! I was banned from asking questions or questioning the lack of procedures and processes.
Amazing right? Be average like the rest of us lol. See yaaaaa.
@@lisashaw6067 When I voiced my concerns about what is going on, they told me I’m still on probation and I’m not allow to voice my concerns or ask any questions.
It's sad that when you are polite to members of your work culture and perhaps say "your welcome" and was met with "If your fishing for a thank you, just know I don't work that way."
Great video! I left a job as their usual line was "we always did it this way" and they were never willing to change for the greater good. Definitely micromanaging and toxic environment too. You pointed out a lot of realistic truths.
Yes, that is so true. My very last full time job was just like this. They had us to write suggestions, goals and what would help the company to stand out... But any suggestions made were never heard. When I spoke from their few faithful vendors perspective, and I knew theirs were valid inputs, the manager just gave us deaf ears. But my group chat was chiming all the time, very controlling. Then some employees, who wanted to keep their job, turned having a narcissist attitude. It was a toxic environment. When I asked for support, i was burnt out, working almost 15 hours a day, they told me "you are just complaining". I was fired, the exit letter said "behavior issues". I laughed. The owner said "you are a great employee but not a good fit for our company". I sought professional counseling, took a break from job hunting, and let the universe to show me what it had for me. I am happy now working on my own, at the same time networking put me in places I thought it was impossible to reach in my career. I prayed God to send me jobs. He did it and still doing it.
@@violinogirl I’m going through the same exact thing. I’ve been at this job for over 6 months, and most of the times the teachers I’ve work with have the narcissists attitude. One of the teachers was forcing me to stay because she’s been at this job for 15 years. And she got upset at me because I’m going to put my week notice in December. And told me that cannot be too nice at this job and that I have to stay quiet and do my work. The teachers I’ve work with are very controlling, and will not support me whatsoever. And the teachers will have conversations among themselves. And act like I don’t even exist. The company fired the supervisor because of a child’s expensive coat.
@@keciaaskew5166 I hope everything turn out well for you. Keep it going. A small step leads to greatest paths.
@@violinogirl I rather be jobless than to deal with a toxic job environment.
I worked in a toxic organisation for 5 years.They are the worst but I won't give up Brigette.One day I'll be a boss and treat my employees how I wanted to be treated.
Well said. I like how you a turning your negative situation into a learning experience to become a better leader. 👏
That is what I said Italy France. You got out earlier than I did. I was in my toxic work environment for several years. I finally started exploring careers, and now I am happy with the career path I am studying :-)
I haven't landed a job yet, but I think I will eventually with new skills I am working on.
With you on your last point about if you become a boss, you will treat your employees great!
I remember a manager telling me “ don’t let your initiative get you in trouble “
I've had this one too. Usually followed by "be more proactive" 🤷♀️
meaning please?
The rude and dismissive interviewer was my experience at my last job. I didn't get the promotion thank God but a month later a Top 5 employer interviewed me and they were fantastic! Great energy in the next interview and they called me the next day with a bomb Offer with multiple promotions! Honestly, I'm grateful for the rude interview...they blessed me and now I'm working in my dream job!
I wish I had seen this some years ago. I found myself in a terrible position and whn I reflected on the interview I realized that I there were a lot of red flags. Good news is I have learned my lesson.
I really needed this to video to confirm what I was seeing as a toxic, micromanaging work environment. I’ve since left this job and trusting the Lord for a better job. Bless you for sharing your wealth of experience.
How did it work out? Did you find anything?
@@HidNTrackz Found something better😁
@@lindab2426 great job... 👍🏾 👌🏾 👏 I'm going through the same thing currently. Interviewing like crazy, hopefully soon!
I remember going for an interview and the HR lady was 45 minutes late. When she finally turned up she told me that the interview would have to be brief as she was short of time. I don't think she appreciated my response that it was not my fault.
I got one too. Went to an interview at global luxury handbag company corporate position to be told, the VP is too busy today. Ah, thank you for telling me person? I left shaking in anger. What a waste of two hours.
Got to speak to a hiring manager like this too. Was terse from the beginning of the interview until the end. Five minutes to the interview, wouldn't stop complaining about how the interview was running "late", and I'm sat there thinking, "Should.I just leave while you hire your referral, then?" The person who interviewed me before her was much nicer and more.professional. However, when I asked her what the best thing was about working in the company, she said, "I'm actually leaving in a month."
With a hiring manager like that, I can see why you'd want to leave too.
Good job!!
I had one where she was completely a no show. I emailed her 10 minutes in and she got back to me hours later saying she forget to put it on her calendar and if we can reschedule. I agreed and once again.... she was late. She emailed me at the 5 minute mark saying she will be on and she's just finishing a call. After 15 minutes I got off and said I wasn't interested. She didn't reply back until an hour. Her lack of care for my time told me all I needed to know.
I went a company’s interview where a young future colleague came late for 20 min but the manager came on time. I think whenever ANYONE comes late to an external people involved meeting such as an interview, customer meeting or vendor meeting, they’re being extremely disrespectful. There’s no exception to the rule. Every time anyone comes late to any meeting involving people outside of an organization and especially an interview we should run the other way. I learned in a hard way. But I know now.
Your videos have really built my career. Thanks for this too
“One bad employer can set you back in your career.” This unfortunately happened to me
One bad employer had set me back in my career. And was begging me to stay. And didn’t wanted me to grow as a person.
You're not alone. I had a great resume 6 months ago having worked at a company for 4 years, accepted a job offer for another bigger company since they offered a higher OTE, and ended up quitting 4 months later because of how toxic it turned out to be. Didn't have another job lined up (it was so bad, I had to get out ASAP). I've been unemployed for a little over 3 months now and have found it difficult to get any offers after making it to the final rounds. Every interview gets me closer to my dream opportunity. Got to have faith
Me too. I was abused and harassed in my last job enough that I should have filed a police report. Now setting foot inside a similar job environment is still unsettling to me. I know I will overcome it and will be suing the individual who did this to me.
Attended 9 IVews and all failed, finally i manage to secure a job at my 10 Ivew. One of the largest O&G company in the world. I always believe dont give up and keep trying. Remember god has a better plan for us.
I'm inspired.
I had an interview that had a number of these red flags including being late (then wanting to cut it short because they were going to miss the bus), being dismissive, and then the red flag for me was them explaining that they were looking for someone who could convince the company to find their projects useful because people weren't really liking how the systems worked. It was such a bizarre interview that the director who interviewed me was fired 3 weeks later.
My job didn’t give me a lunch break until 4pm because the supervisor told me that she had a 1:30 meeting, and did not wanted to miss the meeting. And being dismissive, therefore I had to deal with 9 (2 year old children by myself). That can’t even defend themselves.
A personal favorite, "we're a small company, so we all do extra jobs." #nomoresmallcompaniesforme
Where were you when I started in the workforce 30 years ago! Love your advice. Thanks so much for what you do. :)
Great video. Unfortunately, many companies are paying low salaries, and pushing you to the edge, with an employee shortage, that makes you work during weekends too
Would love to see similar tips for remote interviews, when a candidate can't get a sense of the physical space. Thanks for these vids!
Spot on Bridgette. I recently just moved from a job where I was working as legal officer of one company but also managing the other subsidiaries for the same meager pay! It is three man department and I worked my so much, I started spending my personal funds for office duties. I quit two weeks ago and I am job hunting but it has to be a very good company that is not toxic and need valuable hands like me in their Legal department
Sorry for the typos
@@beilastoy3601 Spending your own funds on office duties. Ridiculous. Glad you are no longer there. You will get something better.
Well done for standing in your power! You deserve better 🙏🏽
@@BrigetteHyacinth I’m in the same exact boat when there is me and two other teachers in the classroom. As soon as I arrive to the classroom, they want me to do everything, especially the lead teacher. Like the teacher would text me sometimes and ask me to buy her food, and I would have to come out of my pocket to spend my personal funds on the teachers, especially the lead teacher. And the teacher would boss me around and tell me what to do. And I’m always burned out physically and mentally, I’ve been at this job for over 6 months, no room for growth or advancement. I’m leaving the job in December. I’m still job hunting at the same time. And I rather work in a company that is not toxic, and need to appreciate me for my hard work as a teacher.
Lawyers can be one toxic lot. Glad you chose to move.
Also wanted to mention. I went on an interview and the manager said upfront there is Mandatory OT 10 hours weekly. So I attempted to negotiate my rate and they would not budge. Why pay overtime and not increase the starting rate. 🚩
In a recent interview they asked me if I had a girlfriend, am I married, where I live, and who am I living with. I felt uncomfortable and embarrassed. I answered them anyway because I though it was the right thing to do during an interview .
Thank you for your video, it's helpful eye-opener.
Wow Unbelievable! They were on a roll. It's good how you handled this. It showed you have high EI. Earl, stay focused and keep moving forward. You will get something better.
The interviewer ask me the same thing too too if I was married, has kids, and if I had a husband too. I told the interviewer that it’s none of your business what does that have to do about the interview
@@Shannete572 If you answer them that way, you’ll definitely not get the job. They’ll label you as “combative & uncooperative or defensive.” I understand it’s a very personal question 🙋🏽♀️ Perhaps, they asked because they’re trying to weed out single candidates who might have family emergencies or single candidates who might have affairs with each other while working. I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️
@@Melanated483 that’s true
a person doesn’t need to answer that . end of interview .
Thank you, you are so motivational. You are blessings, may your store basket never be empty.!!!
Thanks Marcline. I appreciate the kind words. May God richly bless you. 😊
For my first job interview that I had, the regional supervisor who was supposed to interview me was late even though I arrived on time. I let it slide and we met an hour or two later and I got the job, but I probably should have taken that as a bad sign. Another job that I applied for promised me a phone interview, and that they would call me. The day and time arrived, but no call. This time I didn't let it slide; I didn't want to even bother talking to them this time. I have no dating experience, but I see it kind of like dating now - if the employer doesn't want to commit to hiring you and stands you up, you shouldn't commit to them either.
Being jobless is the best thing that can happen to a person!
I have opportunities that otherwise we would not had if I was fully employed full-time.
I’ve had the opportunity to be and share more with my family, develop my skills by not practicing shallow learning but deep learning, and reassess my life and career towards growing both personally and professionally.
It gave me the opportunity to move from a rat race to a more entrepreneurial path!
It is all about our EQ; our attitude, patiences, faith, and resilience!
Wow. Thank you. Good reminder of importance of self worth.
Every single points you mentioned explains the company I just left. I will say the same. Run.
"...Ill-fitting chicken suit..." and "I was too driven for that organization..." - WELL SAID!
I have experienced the "too driven for the organization" recently. A manager with little vision and disregard for employees needs is simply a place to leave in your rear view mirror.
Brigette, thank you for sharing truth. I landed a remote job with one of the premiere Pharma companies. They lied 🤥 about every aspect of the role. Then fired me and told me I was incompetent. First time I had ever been told this. The truth was they hired me as a placeholder for headcount and the week their budget was approved released me. The lying hurt, what hurt most was the disregard toward me as a fellow human, experienced colleague, and outstanding employee. It has taken me 3 months to recover from this bushwhacking.
This is a way to embezzle resources; you were the bate with nuf other things. Do not worry about the lie - if a prospective employer can think logical, they'll solve the equation.
"I am the Boss." Excellent point--get away from that!
Great video. However the no amount of money bit.
You still need to have an income to pay bills. I do agree it's not worth staying in a toxic environment, to this end i would say update your CV then send out to companies who are hiring and in the mean time start learning new things and continue to self develop you will find something new in the end.
I knew that I wasn't the only one who looked bathroom and break room lol. Thanks Brigette 😊
You nailed it Brigette Hyacinth. I worked for gov't and now retired, but one must have a list of red flag observations to pursue a dream job. Keeping one's eyes and ears open to the gist of the interview is key. Presently, I sit on boards to enhance those experiences. Left our homeland at preteen, but enjoy the warmth and exuberance of the people on visits.
I had an interview where they refused to give me a street address. They just gave me a street name and said I would see the building. I Googled the street and saw that it was a fairly long street. I then cross checked the street with their company name and saw that there were two locations about a quarter of a mile away from each other. I picked the location that looked more "corporate", and was correct, but I did not like this "problem-solving test" and that I had to spend time doing all of this. When I got to the interview, there was no receptionist at the front desk. Maybe she was out sick. I didn't have to wait long, but I was still unsure I was in the right place. All this gave me red flag vibes.
Wish I'd seen this before I started my last job. Also, use your gut. I ignored my instinct that it was a bad place and paid the price. But you can get out and not everywhere is bad.
Thank you Brigette, your messages and tips helped me keep faith to get out of a toxic environment for a much better position without panicking and running to somewhere just as bad. Thank you.
Me too, I’ve wished I’d seen this video before starting this job that I’m at in May. I’ve should’ve went with my gut feeling, but I ignored all the signs because I needed a job so badly. And the place is so bad, the pay is horrible, and the people and the culture is so bad.
Brigette is right, on the first day I joined a company, when I was led to my place, I realise the chair was broken. I talked to the GM about the chair, and she told me, she will look into it. After a few days of inaction, I found myself a chair. There were other incidents too. I left after two years as the situation doesn't change and even when I didn't have any job. :(
Funny you mention managers having different uniforms than employees. I'm a remote employee (sales engineer) and only noticed this during the recent trade shows. Management wear full suits, normal employees wear company polo's. Didn't think much about it at the time.
Great video Brigette! Glad I found it on your linkedin :)
Awesome video @Brigette! Thank you.
Oh I worked for an organization where EVERYONE was related. Management also parked close the building while understaff had to park a block away and walk..even in the winter. They also made me feel like an outcast because of my previous employer and my supervisor is a narcissist who feels women have a certain place. Upper management played favorites. Even got suspended when I was threatened by a male staff. He was able to come in the next day. I was suspended with no pay and I did nothing wrong. I cried daily at my desk and hid how I felt. Left as soon as I could. Left for one bad place for another...everyone is unhappy and turnover is high. .they hired me for my expertise and won't allow me to do what I'm great at ....thanks for this vid. I needed this as I start my search for happiness again.
I really enjoyed this video and shared on LinkedIn. I recently was engaged with a company that literally had all 7 red flags. After the one interview, I got in my car and texted immediately that it would NOT be a place/company I would be pursuing, or dedicate any further consideration, for employment. I am glad you made this video, it empowers people that would otherwise waste time and hopefully bring awareness to employers. Excellent!
Today I had some nonsense internal recruiter who demanded to speak to me on LinkedIn first changed their mind left and right told me oops but we aren’t moving you forward with the position. lol as if I wanted to work for them? They are the one who reached out to me, not me. I was so relieved. Red flags everywhere just in a few interactions. During just a few interactions with the recruiter who doesn’t even reside in my country told me what is normal and what is not normal in my country’s hiring practices. Imagine their entitlement and BS. I mean it’s considered absolutely rude to schedule an interview at 8 pm or early mornings or just simply demand whenever it’s convenient to suit their time. Respect goes two way streets and to this day, they still think it’s an employer’s market?? Lol I would understand it if they’re on different time zone but their entitlement attitude was so unreal this in itself was a red flag. Then in an actual interview, the manager told me she is looking for someone who is everything what she does but for all APAC because she can’t understand what’s going on in there as she has zero visibility and they have zero understanding of our culture here.
I really hate working for startups. I just usually run when they approach me on LinkedIn now. Most startups also hire unintelligent or incapable people, I have worked for such companies in the past. They do suck and say crazy things and they think and act as if their absurdity is normal.
Complete analyst of improper conditions. Well done Brigette. Educational..
Madam, both of us are speaking the same languages here!!! When you make suggestions for improvement - they ask; are you the director? The leaders in the company displayed horrible body languages when communicating to their low level support. It is just sick, I had to respond to a prospective employer - the interview would be a balance one if these personal questions were not asked. I list them and made suggestions on how to navigate the uncomfortable situation to make candidates feel more appreciation of their time to come to the interview.
I was hired in November for a senior leadership role. The director painted a beautiful picture during the interview. There’s no parking, people can only take the train, the building is extremely old, we don’t even have a coffee machine or water to drink. They don’t sanitize the space, only take out the trash. Every single employee is unhappy they made it clear since the first day I started. During the interview I asked questions regarding work life balance and micromanagement and the leadership lied. There is absolutely no leave in the first 6 months, no sick vacation or personal time and if you get sick within that period, they simply don’t pay you. The only benefit we have is health care. Most of the reg flags you brought up, they have. No care for staff members or their advancement
I've been following you on LinkedIn, but just started watching your videos. I didn't realize you're Trini! ❤🇹🇹 Thanks for sharing your knowledge with the world.
I applied through a staffing agency in Jun 2021. Last week the hiring manager had computer issues and could not sign on to a video interview - I waited 15 minutes past the start time and NO SHOW. Never got a call or email saying so. This week I signed on for the video interview and again - NO SHOW! Again, no communication from the hiring manager about not showing up. I told the 3rd party recruiter to withdraw my application for the role. If the situation were reversed, they would say that they don't want anything to do with this candidate. I don't like the way I was treated and do not want to work for a company such as this, no matter how much I need a job.
The first thing I always do when I've started at an employer is to renovate the employee lunch rooms and bathrooms, followed by any other facilities. My view was that if you want to attain employee engagement, then you need to show that you respect them by giving them facilities that you yourself would want. The other thing was to renovate reception areas when funds were available. Basically to create an environment where we were presenting ourselves, "On show and ready to go."
Very well done video! Bravo!
Thank you for this amazing video, I am at a crossroads with my current job, and your last point rang true to me, step out on faith. Jobless is better than a toxic environment.
This is so similar to my experience! Thank you Brigette!
Thanks for sharing..Many times, I found recruiters behaving as "the boss" even in interviews. Since they are hiring, so they believe only they have right to question and assess candidates, but they forget that they are representing their organisations, and their behaviour reflects their organisation culture. They, generally, dont like to be put an awkward question, and reply negatively. Once an interviewer, literally shouted at me for replying wrong answer. I was actually shocked, he could have said that my reply wasn't correct, instead of frowning and shouting at me that I don't know certain thing and want to be hired and paid by them. I never went back to that org for interview again.
Regarding wait time, once I waited for 4 hrs, only to be told by them that I have been purposefully kept at the end of the list to test my patience. It was a very reputed organisation, and I never expected such behaviour.
An excellent video detailing educational aspects of what to watch out for. I personally liked the
uplifting message regarding to know [one's] worth. Thank you very much for this uplifting video.
Cheers!
I left a shit job, I am so much happier now Amen
I had an interview 2 weeks ago and it went really well. It was one of the best interviews I had and I got along well with the three interviewers and it seemed like a great cultural fit. They made me an offer the very next day (Thursday) and they wanted me to start immediately (the next Monday). Unfortunately, after reviewing the offer and some back and forth with the company, I had to decline. They called me back on Monday with another offer which I reviewed and was happy to accept. They sent me mock payslips as well as medical insurance options to choose from. After emailing the recruiter with my choices, I never heard from them again. Phone calls not being answered, my follow-up email not being responded to. I've basically been ghosted after the company showed so much enthusiasm and eagerness to hire me.
All great points! Spot on!
Thank you Brigette
What about at the end of the interview they ask if you have any questions,and you ask what is the salary like and their response is we will pay you based on your qualifications
Sounds a bit off to me. They must have a budget and any ethical company will reveal this.
I always feel it's important to give input on this question. I generally avoid this topic during the interview process when the role pays over $35k because there's using a industry standard range and they know your job history. If you have ALL their qualifications you should expected to be on the higher end of the range give or take your time in the industry. Once the process is over let them offer and you counter. You have a good idea what your minimum is and it's normal to ask for more. If they offer you less than what you feel is fair (within the industry standard range) then walk away because like Brigette kept bringing up, they're being cheap. They can't expect high performance and not pay for it. They're doing the same thing you're doing during the negotiation so don't think much of it. I once had a company offer $45k less than the industry median rate. Don't let it get to you. Think of it like you got away before the problem even started. Good luck!
What an awesome breakdown. There are a lot people who find themselves in this position and it becomes quite difficult to break free due to circumstances and they end up just drowning in this environment. This is so demoralizing to your ambitions and potential, whatever you do, find a way to move on. It will benefit you long term.. Also great content!! You have yourself a new subscriber ;)
How about this story. It happened to me in 2006 in Houston TX. I was interviewing in person for an engineering role at a manufacturing company. I am an engineer. Here are some things that happened, and what I did.
1) I was interviewing with the factory manager, and he asked me to accompany him on his factory walk. He berated every supervisor he met, telling them how they screwed up. He used colorful language that I do not care to repeat...scatalogical language.
2) we returned to his office, and I was escorted to the HR office for an interview. While waiting, I heard the factory manager yelling at a number of people... including women. I was surprised he could get away in saying things he said... especially with women present. They were very uncouth, and that was putting it mildly.
3) when the HR manager sat down for his part of the interview, I was asked what I thought of the place so far. I asked, "May I have the ride to the airport? I am ending the interview. My choice.".
They were of course shocked, as it barely started. I specifically told them why. I went back home to Chicago. I told the recruiter what I thought and why.
1 day later the factory manager in Houston, who would have been my supervisor if I chose to continue the interview, lost his job. I was one of 20 candidates who said the same thing.
All of this. Every single point you made is perfect.. I've definitely worked at places like these because I need a job, and it turns out, they were an awful company to work for. Not sure where their arrogance comes from lol. So thankful I'm not there anymore.
In my first 2 jobs with big companies, I was asked in each one if I planned to have children soon because they "don't want anybody pregnant here" . I should have noticed the red flags but I needed a job. Each were horrible work experiences which gravely affected my health. Thank you for this series, I'm learning so much.
If this was within the last 2 years submit a complaint to the EEOC
I once was in an interview where the interviewer started to work on his personal hygiene read flossing teeth. I thought I was being filmed for candid camera...
😆 😆 lol so crazy
Thanks for sharing this Brigette Hyacinth. I absolutely agree With your statements, I will always read about the company and see what is about. You don’t want to say yes to everything, because people will see through that you are desperate for the job. I will always tells my sis the same thing too that I understand you want to work but you don’t want to be desperate, you have to know your worth. If you want respect, you have to stand up for your rights don’t let people walk all over you. I just don’t want to settle for anything, and what stood me out was when you said that one of the ladies waited it two hours for the interview that’s insane, because I will get up and leave and tell them excuse me can I come in for another interview another day? Never want to be to desperate. I was at a interview in the summertime waiting to be interview, I came bright and early on time, the front desk security told me to wait. So I waited for someone to come get me, and nobody hasn’t showed up, remind me the interview was at 2:30 so I waited for the interview person to interview by, and it was going on 3:45. And nobody still haven’t interview me until 4:00, that shows signs of disrespect at all times, and your right @Brigette Hyacinth you don’t want to be to desperate. I shouldn’t had told them to reschedule me another day for the interview but I was to busy on being desperate for the job. It’s like what my neighbor said that me and my sister needs to sit still and be patient wait on gods time, don’t settle for anything. Red flags 🚩 right there too, that shows that the interviewer doesn’t care about the employees. I am learning not to take anything, because imagine how they’re going to treat me, and when a job tells you that we are like family, we are hiring on the spot, that shows signs right they’re. I rather be unemployed than to be dealing in a toxic place, it’s best to have a peace ✌️ of mind. I am not breaking my back for anyone, especially if it is a toxic environment. You want to feel comfortable at a workplace and not being stressed out, because a lot of these jobs should always understand that you have doctors appointments, your health is always your first priority. Oh yes, I would look on indeed everyday when they put the same job each day that shows RED FLAGS 🚩 right there. It’s best to be your own boss because you are taking control of your own company.
Thank u great advice
Well my wings are clipped, because for 10 years I have not been able to work in the profession I've studied for.
But God granted me something better last year: I'm doing a new study, Computer Science. It's very expensive but it is payed by the government.
There are a lot of job opportunities in this area because people with this degree, are hard to find in the country I'm born and living in. Plus, those kind of jobs are *high paid jobs 💜*
@Miss Nolver God doesn't do things to us but for us. Perhaps this new opportunity was what He had planned for you.
@@soniahoranzy1578 I know God does things for us. I also believe that this opportunity was His plan all along. Thanks for commenting, God bless.
I have a whole Master's in Healthcare Administration and since last year I have been unemployed. I can't seem to find a healthcare job to save my life right now. I've been looking for months now and I'm like okay, maybe my interviewing sucks, but then I'm like no, I qualify for these jobs. I feel like HR is posting these jobs just to say they did it, but not hiring. It's crazy.
@@quenzettahester503 Could it be your resume or interviewing skills. Because you qualify and your skills sets don't align will not give you the edge. And also researching the companies etc to see where you fall short. There are always two in the interview. Revisit with a check list.
@@daphnegabriel6767 @Daphne Gabriel My resume is fine, by the way: I have my dream job now since October 2021. After a week I got promoted to a much higher position and now I am the supervisor of that department. I asked for a raise in November and I got in December.
I have heard they are going to give me a permanent contract.
So no, it wasn't about my resume or interviewing skills, because I could always find a job in my field. It started to change when jobs in that field were incredibly low and they still are.
Dear Brigette,
You're outstanding! You're a great example of leadership. Leading with truth, honesty above all a lot of empathy. Keep helping, God bless you.
Excellent video. I had an interviewer ask me what was my most traumatic event in life. Then when I had questions for them, they made a snarky comment about me having the nerve to ask them questions. LOL
The most traumatic event in my life is none of their business
Very insightful Brigette, thank you
I truly agree
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Onetime, i met with bad employee (my superior) who have jealousy with my expertise that's ruin my careers.
Thank you, Brigette! It has been over 15 months since the pandemic and I don't want to make the same mistakes I have before. I wish I had known this before, but now I am better equipped! I WILL find that great job.
Great video! I once had a Supervisor refer to me as "a Diva" in a team meeting , in front of the whole team and other managers. Grrrr.. Also, I once had an interview with a manager of a very large company years ago and while she was reading my resume, she fell asleep. I am not lying! Thank goodness I didn't hear back from that one. :)
I can relate, I was also called a diva but by a coworker. They are just intimidated and jealous!
You took your time and explained present and future situations ,you are so correct ,as always another great educational video
People Don't ever wear no chicken suit .... #trustme . Bless Video brigette .. great info for #Life
Thank you so much for your video, Brigette. I have a video interview in 40 minutes and I'vee written down some of the questions you just mentioned and I'll make sure to ask them. You're amazing!
I've had every single one of these things happen to me, and (thankfully), I've cut the interview short, thanked them for their time, and ran outta there fast!!!
Thank you so much for your concern. Your kindness enhances my faith in life. ☺️
Very important points here. And if I think about it, there have been many red flags in several of my previous positions
Firstly thank you so much for the great video...Major of the tips are when its physical presence...now a days its virtual ? Any further tips for this.
Omg! I see your posts all the time on LinkedIn! I didn’t know until now that you have a TH-cam! Oh what a treat! 🙌🏾
I have followed you for some time now and I love your positive advice.
another one - when the internal organization doesn't reflect the external message that they promote and they hire inexperienced employees so the GM can bully them around.
Sad that this is really what happens
Absolutely outstanding video! Thank you!
I am so glad I decided to stop and watch this video. It definitely made me feel more at ease with my current situation. I look forward to watching more helpful tips from you.
Good video, I've been doing interviews since recently graduating from nursing school.
Unfortunately in today's society a lot of companies are conducting zoom interviews and it's hard to observe some of the things that you pointed out. I was just in a zoom interview and they asked several times how I deal with conflict. In addition to how I felt about going the extra mile. For me that was a red flag!
So much gems dropped! A company had me waiting 4.5 hours to be interviewed and when I queried they dismissed me and told
Me to wait.
I left immediately after that response.
All great points! My opinion as a leader for many years have made me come to one conclusion; coaching culture and proper training with recruiters on how identify REAL talent is absent in many, many companies!
My previous Manager was so intimidated from me that she got rid of me and told me that my permanant rile was only a contactual position... I was flying in my job and she couldn't handle it so she tried to intimidate me... narcissistic complex...
I would be reprimanded in front of my staff by My superior Manager and by the Head Of Human Resources which is why My employees never respected Me at all. I would be the scape goat and told I was less then multiple times by upper management.
I decided to resign and I was stress free for a little while until I found out the new job that I was hired at was extremely stressful as well just was a different kind of stress. Lastly I started working for another high stressful job where the Manager would smile in My face but micro manage every little thing I did and then would tell the Ceo of the company that I stayed on each call for to long with each customer. I also would see that She would make one employee feel like She was the superior one and let that employee use her car, leave the store while still being on the clock and so on so on!
I now work for myself as a marketing Agent as well as own a Retail Boutique in Queens NY. I have less stress these days😌😊😄
SO good! Thank you Bridgette. :)
I should have looked for the bath- and breakrooms after the interview. I actually knew my employer was bad when during a chat with the HR, he had his phone in his hand, diluting his attention. "I am the boss and you are not" and what not are unfortunately sentences released after I was hired. So glad I am out of there
You always build my confidence with your videos,