broke up with my girl like 2 weeks ago, she was great i was not. It was my all fault why that happened and im trying to be a better person. Im working on my self rn so if another love comes i am prepared. I don't wanna do the same mistakes that i did. I'm not the type or person to say stuff like this but i feel like i just had to let it out. Im so depressed. I feel like crying rn. I cry like almost every night. Its not even about the break up i was just depressed my whole life. Im working on myself even though its not fast im still trying. Im trying my best. Im trying to grind. Everyone if ur reading this we are all gonna be better and i hope we gets better.
I’ve been in your situation and I assure you it does get better :) there’s so much more to experience in this life beyond the sadness and misery. Focus on yourself for yourself, keep improving by self investment and remember to stay humble on the way up!
I hope you keep trying, that just shows how much you actually care, forgive yourself about your mistakes and just try to do the right thing, we all make awful mistakes, the real task is learning from those mistakes, and trying to be better people.
In the same position here, brother. It's all part of God's plan as cliche as that sounds. Just know that you're doing the right thing and try not to consume yourself with chasing. Find peace within yourself above all priorities. Love you, man. God bless you❤
It’s been 7 months for me too, things don’t get better it’s just easier to not remember. But don’t run from the bad feeling, sit in a bit and take it day by day or minute by minute even. Because when your run from pain, it shows up in ways you least expect it. Let it out, because what the world expects out of a man is an oxymoron.
my mom died when i was 12 in 2015 now im 20, sometimes before going to sleep i remember the good old times i got with her when she was there with me :c ... y'all should respect and listen and do what ur mom ask you to do something cus not having a mom anymore its very hard to live without this maternal love..
Sending all my love. Its hard losing a parent, but that love will come back to you at some point. God bless you and carry you forward to greatness and deep satisfaction. Amen.
I feel like the best advice I can provide for everyone would be to just simply… keep moving forward. you don’t have to be special, just do your work, try your hardest in the things you are passionate about, protect those you truly care about and eventually all of this moments of sadness will pass… and they will come back, but we simply get by all of these moments just with time. Opportunities will be given to you naturally and you will be able to seize them. Don’t force them, know them, and take them when they’re given. God bless all of you…
I get it, you want to be loved and pour your heart out to someone. It will happen, one day, just have faith. A lot of times we overthink stuff. Much love! stay with the good memories she left you.
Nope. The answer is more girls. Trust me. I lost a woman very dear to me. Thought I would never find anybody like her. There are BILLIONS of humans on this planet. Likely hundreds of thousands of people who think exactly like me. Exactly like you. Only minor differences. So why wouldn't this be true for a woman as well? Found multiple women who act like the woman I cared about the most. Been with them and lost them too(They didn't die btw, we just broke up one is still a friend i talk to on the regular.) They were all slightly different then each other. I loved and feel out of love with them for different reasons. There is no 'the one' We are all the same yet slightly different. We all love, hate, feel fear, have dreams, wants, desire for love. They are all a human beings. Just meet more women. Meet more people in life before you die. Live well friend.
Fellas, the world is not to be relied upon any more than absolutely necessary. Every now and then you may be blessed by someone looking out for you, but you simply cannot count on that. No one is coming to save you. As sad as that may sound, it doesn’t have to be some tragedy. There’s beauty in it, and there’s freedom in it. If no one chooses to place stake in your life, then no one has say in it either. You are free to become whatever you want to be and free to be whoever you need to be. No one can take that from you unless you let them. Stay strong, gents. We got this. ❤️ 👑
0:08 This broke me. Fuck, I just wanna give him a hug. Stay strong brothers, it's fucking hard and I personally can't shake the feeling that I'm hated, unlovable, but fuck... It has to be doable.
I'm now 15, and taking into account how fast life is moving. I am trying to spend the last 3 years of my childhood finding something I enjoy doing before I get spit out into the real world. I often find myself sitting there watching these videos because I can relate to them my mother supports me in everything I try to do financially and I just dont know how long I can push her for, I do feel bad I just don't know what to do. Should I be worrying about my familys financial position at 15? I wish I could help I really do but nobody will hire me, I keep telling myself that if I keep pushing it will all get better, I've been telling myself that for my entire life, when do I give up?
just do right by your family and yourself and you'll be alright. life has a way of figuring itself out and there is good karma that comes with good intentions so stay true to your mother and god will gift you.
@@nobodyhere2155 I try, it is just getting difficult to stay nice when everyone is enjoying their lives but I am stuck in this hole, I don't understand how people can be happy, everyday we edge closer to dying and everyday we look back on what we could've achieved if we would've had the motivation from others or the push to do it. I always said I couldn't wait till I turned 18 but now that im closer to that reality it scares me knowing that one day I'll be on my own and more lonely than I am right now, I pray to god every night, and I know that before the light comes the storm has to pass but I just don't know how much longer I can wait for happiness, I don't know if I'll ever be happy knowing one day I'll die most likely alone,
19 yr old here. ur 15 and ur still a minor. u should be worrying about not being to go outside and play at the skatepark with ur friends, not ur parents bills bro. dont stress, relax. stress makes u age fast my brother. u dont wanan be 20 looking 30. go easy on urself.
Make a plan of what you want for you and your family, and take small steps everyday. And when doubt comes be calm you will find a solution. Peace to you
Start thinking of a skillset to make you money in the future bro trading, e-commerce something bro. Find a network of strong Brothers to keep you accountable and uplifted. 👋🕊
2023 has been the year ive been the most overthinkive ive been. i dont know how to feel, i try and be better but trying to be better never leads to somthing im happy with. I play for a church band and i play up their with a straight face but knowing i am making people laugh and dance and have happyness and have a connection with god and be a better person i help them do that by playing and i feel that thats the only thing that is good in my life. if its not that its me at home or school. i hate school have all fs. ive been trying these past coups weeks and being a good student but reality always kicks in. getting a detention for being late. i just eccepted it and moved on. friends saying why im quit and dont hang. i know i am distancing myself but its not like they need me for anything but to do bad things. ive done bad stuff and i feel guilty couse i know theirs a god waching me but at the same time i dont know what to do. I am confused i am lost i am sad i would never want to die but i just dont want to be here . I somtimes think if i should talk to sombody about what goes through my life but i always say thats for wimps. and to be honest i am a wimp. my perents push me to be better and i dont know why i dont do better . i feel like doing better is so easy to say but so hard to do. i feel like i would not be myself if i did. i dont know what to do anymore. I hope anybody who read this knows your not the only person who feels how your feeling. i dont know who you are but you reading this shows we already have a connection. and i wish you luck through life. bye
You are better by just trying, though it gets tiring, and I know it is not easy, we should still try to be better by the day, even if its a little bit. God is forgiving, god loves you like you can't imagine, he sent his son to die for you, and he will hear you, you should find better friends that lead you into a better life direction, read the bible, talk to God, you are loved by trying, there is so much life ahead that you could be better, for yourself, forgive yourself.
i made a decision a few years back to start my life again, chasing a dream that I thought was impossible. I achieved the dream I wanted but I lost everything in the process of chasing it. My infant son, my young daughter, my wife, my parents and my mortage. I had achieved what I wanted but that came at the price of everything. I haven't seen my kids for over 4 years but I think about them every day and the pain I feel makes the achievements I've earned feel meaningless... but I cannot go back... I can only move forward carrying their memories with me... the worst part though, is that the more I move forward the heavier their memories become. the more i move forward the more I regret the last 4 years of my life and I am not sure there is a light at the end of this journey
I really want to be a great father to my beautiful little girl, I struggle with my anger and I shout at her, one day I’ll get there and learn to deal with it and I’ll be the father she deserves x
@@LilSadge-w5d my best advice is to stop thinking about what these women are thinking. And truly think about what you want in this life. Work on yourself for a while, keep your head down and keep grinding. The right one will come when you truly love yourself and find yourself
They used to be a word that I used to think of one I used to read you are the person that makes moments of your lives and you are the creature of your lives. There is no sustains of meaning of life we create purpose to make every memory in every little moment, and every little passion to make everyone else feel better and fitting in the world to give them whatever they want to give them destiny or guidance to the world we are humans. we all perfect, but we can make people stand the world and give the meaning and give them hope, and give them every little memory before the memory becomes, and of a journey of a book that they collected and finished their life.
This year was horrible. Lost close friends, job was going to shit, started drinking heavily. went into a depressive and upset state but tried to hide it from my girl, didn't work and she left me. Went into a pyschotic episode. Nearly lost my life. now I just feel lost. After decades I was alone and sad and now I had it all and lost it all. I think that's what hurts the most besides the regret...
You can still make friends though the loss of a friend hurts so much, keep the good memories and think about how would that friend have looked at you when y'all were best friends, he'll want the best for you. The job can be worked towards, there are always bad seasons, but what puts you aside of the rest is if you stick to it, if you make it work, and of course, do not drink, especially if it is heavy, it only destroys your worse, I have seen families be lost because of alcohol, brothers kill each other, they were best friends but alcohol made them reckless and stupid that led them to horrible choices. I would say to talk to God and be physically active, I am not saying to get ripped but to be comfortable within yourself, your body, your mind, and your own person, only then you will find a path to follow. Much love brother!
I’ve been through the breakup shit boys, it gets better for sure time goes on an so will you. Eat good food surround yourself with people who have similar goals stay away from alcohol an drugs stay out the bars / clubs quit listening to sad music if it brings you down. Everything action has a consequence you just have to figure that out eventually you get tired of the moping around an the boo hoo shit an then you get back on that horse if yesterdays shoes didn’t fit than why put them on today it’s a dog eat dog world an in my experience I had to grab my life by the throat an fucking fix it an that’s what I’ve been doing I believe the rest of you fellas in the comments can do the same
@@HassenRiahi-dh6rm Try picking up a hobby or pastime u enjoyed and appreciate it for what it is everyday! I’ve found that happiness builds up from the little things. From playing the piano for a few minutes every day. From focusing on what I enjoy and doing it every day. From calling the people I love to let them know I do. Whatever it is you think that’s good for you or the world, go do it!
You will be bro, you got this. We`re all in this together, just trying to figure out how to suck less at life. It will be okay, because why shouldnt it?
People think happiness is something you can reach, like a state of mind, but that's a lie, you can feel joy in the meantime, but happiness is that thing you get when you reach the ending part of your life, and you look back with no regrets, because you did what it took without worrying if it would bring you happiness or not, good luck brothers.
all i've been doing is shutting it all out and now it's starting spill out. I feel like crying very frequently and it's not just a lump in my throat, it burns in my heart and tries its best to force out tears. I don't trust anyone enough to cry in front of them, but i don't want to suffer in silence.
I’d like to ask you this. Is it better to suffer in silence for the rest of your story, or to have one chapter of pain, embarrassment and awkwardness to become a better person? It takes such tremendous courage and strength to voice your pain. In doing so, you may find help and support. If not, you will find out who truly does care for you and who doesn’t. So, voice your thoughts and feelings. Embrace the pain, own it. One chapter pales in comparison to the whole story. Stay strong friend.
As an 18 yr old who has never had a her, I can't feel anymore and idk why, I've given up on love... and I'm slowly giving up on happiness and its starting to show I can't hide it anymore and I'm scared... I'm terrified not because people may find out I'm not the happy go lucky kid, but I'm scared of what's in store for me. idk where this feeling or lack there of will lead to...
I Can understand you, my cousin he’s never had a girlfriend until now and he just turned 19, he’s always been very shy, very reserved, and has had lots of trouble with his family, but it takes courage to solve everything, it takes action. Action to work on your image, your personality, your manners, your heart most specially, then a “her” appears, and it takes action to have “her”. Being scared is a good thing, everyone is terrified of what they don’t know, but that means you care about it, about finding someone, and you are young, I know people might tell you this a lot but it is true, uncles and friends of mine found their wives until they turned 30. I hope you do work on it, all of it, and be patient, patience is a virtue. Much love
@Tiktoksbb yes... the thing is, I've always tried to work on myself, and I think it just led to me pushing everyone away, and I still feel like I'm doing it. What you said makes me feel a little better, but I just don't know what I'm doing wrong while my friends and family seem to be doing everything right all my friends are either pursuing their dreams or have an amazing relationship and while I am happy for them I can't help but think I'm just being left behind and as that feeling grew bigger one day it just was all gone, my feeling gone, I can't really even feel pain it's weird but it's scary cause it's been a while now, like 4 weeks, and now it's getting worse ... ik I'll be fine in the end, but this isn't the end
Man she was just the best thing for me idont understand what i did wrong i just want her to hold me again like she used to , just cant fuckinf take it anymore
Wasn't it beautiful? It is one of the best emotions one can feel, but it's not to feel sad, it is to cherish the good memories, the good times, and hopefully, someone else will give you what she couldn't, and you can give her the world. Moving on is hard and takes so much effort and time to accept it. Much Love!
I'm suicidal more right now in the present then I ever have in the past, yet I don't have the balls. I'm in an annoying situation, job is not good for me mentally, friend group at the moment feels like a trap and all of my other friends stopped giving a shit about me outside of my own friend group, the only other friend I have is someone I can't find myself agreeing with. And I have issues trying to find other friends cause I've moved so much and I don't trust my driving yet. And my one and only pillar in my life, my brother in blood is miles away and I haven't needed him more in my life like I do more right now. And yet I'm able to look people in their eyes and say, "I'm fine." I don't know what to do. And I'm not afraid, I'm just...lost.
Hello Marcus, I can understand how you feel when you are doing so much and have no one, when you succeed you have no one to congratulate you, to help you, to talk to. It is extremely difficult to get out of a hole that deep. It is okay to disagree with people, to miss people, to want to feel appreciated and just in good company, but there are days, months, even years, where you only have yourself, and that is dangerous, to have just yourself as a company. But listen, though you have no reason to trust me, suicide is never the answer, in fact, it is cowardly, living life, and struggling through life but overcoming these obstacles is the most wonder thing to experience, I know it is hard right now, and probably will be for a while, but try, try to be kind to people, to help some people, To help yourself! Love yourself, work on yourself, I really hope you find a way, to be better for your own sake. God could help you, Much love, I really have faith in you. I hope you find a way to better yourself.
I’m so tired. I want to cry but it’s just a sinking feeling anymore. Started replacing it with adrenaline or anger and it feels like it’s catching up with me.
I think I've for the most part finally moved past everything that has had been on my shoulders for years. As the old shores erode away and new ones beckon, so do new paths and people. I met some people that uplifted me to an elevation I never thought possible, and in the end I have been participating in reciporating that in return. In the end, the truth is what it is, and it can be hard moving on alone. If you find people around you to uplift you, they will be like iron is to iron, they will sharpen you, as you sharpen them. If you're alone, keep your chin up, and just keep moving forward. I learned that unless you want things to change, things will always remain the same. So upwards and onwards folks, Kings, Chads. Our next day approaches, the next sunrise, and the next sunset. We're all going to make it. Carpe Diem.
1:14 that took me back immediately to one of the last times I went somewhere with my first boyfriend before I broke up with him. We used the exact same type of photobooth, I recognize the voice. I wish it had worked out. He is a wonderful man. Less than a year later he married someone else.
The reality is that some people don’t appreciate the value of relationships - or care enough to understand the hurt they could deal. Unfortunately, he was one of them. The most I can say is that this will just be a few pages in the story of your life. There’s so much left to be written, so much to explore. This won’t define you unless you choose it to. Keep writing your story, and see where it goes.
I like commenting in these or reading these comments knowing we're all dealing with tough times, I've made mistakes like all of us do and still hate myself over these problems and issues, it was so bad to the point i couldn't sleep properly, i never talked about these issues for whatever reason i can't explain, the girl i was dating at the time helped , me get over these issues talked to me and helped me to stop worrying about these problems that happened a while ago, these issues these problems that i had they still hurt when it comes back into mind but it hurts less realizing that it's over what happened, happened and as much as i want to go back and change it, it'll stay the same regardless of what i think or want.
side note: everything right now that's happening is good, good grades enough to pass towards the 11th grade, spring is here and summer is around the corner, and my friends the best of the best, make me forget about any problems or issues i ever once had, the girl and i aren't dating anymore but still on good terms and play video games together from time to time, life right now is pretty peaceful and i hope you the person reading this to have a Good day.
It’s sad to think that the only thing that makes it better is to see the comments on videos like these of all the men missing their girls. I miss mine and I know no matter what, even if I got her back it’s done. There’s no reruns on the past. What’s done is done and now I carry around the sadness that she won’t be here growing with me. I know I’m he best option for her I want to shake her and tell her look I didn’t have a great year because I’m a lazy piece of shit.. no I’m driven and disciplined. Sent her flowers on Monday anonymously, don’t want anything from her I just want her happy and I pray to god she’s safe because I know it’s not up to me to protect her anymore.
Hey man everything is going to be fine… because god has something planned for you. And just remember you will always have someone that will be there for you and to support you, and that my friend is god❤🙂👍🏼
Sometimes it happens. Sometimes we need as men to look at ourselves and ask if our egos or actions lead to it. It didn't happen overnight it was something she herself probably thought about long before it happened..leaving a 10 year relationship with kids isn't an easy action for either party. But your job now is to be the best version of you for your kids and for yourself
Any guy reading this just know your the fucking man bro, the only thing limiting you is yourself you will achieve all of your goals and dreams and prove everyone you want, you will get that girl, car, house, dream, job, education, your the man bro. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Nobody celebrated my birthday this year. One coworker remembered and said happy birthday three days later. I’ve lived alone for the past 4 years. I’ve done little for my personal life. Just school and work.
I love her so much.. and I’ve done unforgiving things to her and every single fucking day I just sit with this guilt and regret to want to take it all back.. I realized how much I failed her as a man and it hurts me every damn day. I just wanna prove to her that I can change and be better cause god damn it I am better than I was a few years ago… i love her and I will prove it all over again.. I will make her fall for me once more…
I’m rooting for you man I’m going through the exact same thing with my wife I’ve done aweful things to her and destroyed her mentally and now I’m trying to prove to her that I am the right man for her
First time writing about it.I broke up with a girl some time back only to realize that i truly loved her. I took her for granted. Hurts real bad to be the reason for the sadness of your loved one. Can't even talk about it to anyone.
20 years old. I wanted to provide my two cents on life and voice my story. So, here’s my story. Born in the UK. Since I was around 9ish all the way to 16, I was entirely homeschooled because I was afraid. Those 7 years went by fast, but each year got harder and more painful than the last. I didn’t know what I wanted to do, and why I was so afraid of everything. Leaving my home was terrifying. There was a time where I did not leave for a year straight. I had no friends, no hobbies, no ambitions. I was always told that what I did was wrong. Now all of a sudden I’m an adult, and I’m having to learn how to live. It’s difficult. It feels like I’m a toddler. It was only a month ago I felt suicidal, as I felt there was no way I could be like everyone else. Yet, here I am. Things still hurt, I’m still afraid, but I’m holding on. Why? I have hope. Hope that, someday, I’ll learn how to do things. Learn what I like and dislike. Learn how to take charge and make my own path, my own story. But all these things, they don’t come to you overnight, or just spontaneously come to you. They all require effort. Action. Commitment. Through all the pain I’ve experienced, I’ve learned that you cannot move on and grow without action. I started my path of redemption when I entered college when I was 16. Now I’m in university, making a life slowly but surely. I have friends. I have ambitions. I have responsibilities. I still feel lost most days, but I’m coming to understand how important it is to act. To believe in yourself, to believe in your goals and want them badly. To commit, believe, want, and act, regardless of the world. There’s always hope friends. Your story is still being written, and it can shift and wind in an infinite number of ways. There’s always hope, as long as you grab the pen that writes your story.
i feel like whenever i just have happiness by my side there's a depressed taking over happiness and destroying it whenever im trying to get along with happiness ,but it just gets in the way and makes my life way harder to try and talk to someone new and i had a girlfriend she was the love of my life that made me happy every where i went with her well not everywhere she was the most beautiful girl ive ever met that god gave to me and she was perfect, but things started to go bad for me, she wasn't in the mood all the time she was always silent, i tried to tell her what was going on and i should've just stayed with her and been with her walking together and taking her home safe, but my mom would get mad if i wasn't back so i dont wanna say my mom messed it up, but she kinda did she didn't want me out the house because i guess danger and i was mad at her everyday because i cant go out and explore, i know she was my mom but im not her little baby anymore and i wanted to go with my girlfriend and take her back to her home safe or go down to the park to have fun, but i had a red and blue pill situation so it was my fault i couldn't go with her everyday, and i see walking sad everyday i screwed things up and i wish i could take it all back
6 years ago when i was 16 i fell in love with one girl and i knew she was in love with me she was the first and last girl that i have talked to and have relationship but in the end we couldnt be together because i was piece of shit and told her she was too good for me. Every day when i wake up i think about her, everytime i close my eyes i think about her, and i think she also became deppressed because she never been in relationship just like me i screwed myself and her over im sorry .I dont think i can take it much longer this pain is killing me.
Random question but why dont you just tell her that you still think about her? She may be experiencing the same thing or it will be clear that you have to move on. I feel like youre putting yourself too much down.. Youre more worthy than you think.
Yall got this man. Live life to the fullest because you only get one chance at life, that's what makes life so beautiful. Take the risk and enjoy the journey. You are special in Gods eyes. Repent and seek him, it'll give you an unimaginable amount of hope and happiness. Amen God bless yall
To those who are going through something and trying to find a mind space or anything to somewhat help look at it from a boxers pov Don’t stop till that bell rings, no matter how hard you get hit by life take it and get back to what you were doing, get knocked down get back up. If that bell doesn’t ring don’t stop progressing
I miss who I thought she was…..6years man 6fucking years gone down the drain I’m just 22 she was all I ever wanted and the only one I loved or could love. Her beauty was unfathomable, her personality was awesome. I always held hope that maybe she could find herself back to me but instead I said some bitter stuff just so she could feel the pain I felt I knew that we wouldn’t work but I kept fighting when she had already accepted the end of us…..sometimes I wish I didn’t say the things I did and I wish that we could’ve continue being friends, my days are now sad and lonely and ever so often my throat hurts when I think about her
That is how it all starts right, with questions as to "why" it happens, but then it comes the, "How" to solve it, and many other questions you can find answers for. I really hope you find a purpose and become a better version of yourself, i am sure that you would be proud if after a couple of rough years of working to better you look back to today, you would be proud, it does not have to be only physically or economically but all aspects of life, even to be a better father, son, brother, friend, etc. and not being easy to be fooled of course. Much Love! Be a Monster and then tame it.
Been with my girlfriend for over 7 months and she has become very ungrateful and the relationship has become very one sided. Basically a year ago I went through a horrible breakup and I remember crying and watching these videos so with that being said I’m terrified to leave her knowing what lies ahead if I am to do that.
I don’t know if it’s my broken sense of reality but I can see in peoples eyes and facial structure for the first they see how they are to you, like how fake they are in front of you and it’s so hard to find just one person who actually is nice and cares. How am I meant to find the perfect one for me when I know that even finding 1 person who really cares is like a needle in the hay stack I just don’t at this point
I feel like there is so much Hate and negativity now, it’s hard to still have hopes and dreams of becoming/doing what I’ve wanted. I’ve been subconsciously thinking about suicide for a long time. It feels like I’m watching everyone I Love suffer just trying to Survive and I’m not looking forward to that for such a long time.
I’d love to tell you that it’s only a brief moment in time, that it really does get better but friend, I can’t guarantee any of that. I can only tell you to keep going.
I broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago. Absolutely an amazing person. We both had demons we had to face and it was unhealthy for us to be together while we worked through our pasts. I’ve never made any girl cry like that. I’ve never hurt someone like that before in my life. I think this was the hardest thing I’ve had to do
you did what’s best for you don’t dwell on the past and focus on your future. I’m going through the same thing and i tried my best but it didnt end up being the right person in the end. find your peace and you’ll find your way
Man it's like I can only exist for someone and it's like I need someone to be the center of my life to keep me going, it's like I don't even live my own life I just live in everyone else's, I've been desperately trying to find a hand to grab before I fall but I always mess up and when the stars align life rips the person away from me, I just want someone to keep me stable, I just want to be happy for at least a few days, well damn I got carried away my bad
Do not apologize about talking your mind, not here especially. I know it is difficult to live your life and focus on you and not people, that you want someone to look up to and to support you, but a lot of times we only have ourselves for a while. Try to find love for yourself, your body, your mental being, your personality, your flaws, and all. Then when you least expect it someone will notice you and appreciate you, because you tried, and tried well, be patient, God is always there to guide you. Much love!
Found out yesterday my girlfriend kept cheating on me from the last 9 months. Don’t wanna go into detail. It really hurt me so much and put a hole in my heart forever. Never again. I’m done. I’m up now at 3 am watching this video to find some hope. I did everything literally everything and it still wasn’t enough for her and she just used me for the love and care that I gave her while she kept on cheating on me with multiple guys through all these months. I really thought about giving up but no I promise to rise through it and become better.
My girlfriend broke up with me not even a few days ago. Thought I would let myself be despondent and then return to the self development grind like usual. It won’t be the same, and I know I won’t meet another woman like her ever again, but at least I had a moment being in her world. We were both great together, no issues, arguments, just her not being ready yet. Sure it hurts, sure I cried, and sure, she probably doesn’t care as much as I do and never did. It was obvious by her following actions and lack of acknowledgment toward what she did, but I must live like I did before. Same applies to all of you.
are you living my life? exact same story for me. gave her everything i could, provided for her as much as i can. Then she turned around and says she doesnt trust me and fell out of love with me. when, the day before, we made plans for our future kids names.
@@Starlight_ow sounds extremely similar to my story man. We can’t control others love for us, I was going paycheck to paycheck for her giving her as much as I could. If she doesn’t love you for your greatness then she doesn’t deserve you. We can’t do anything except move on, some people would call it self-pity to say “I’ll never love again” but it feels safer that way, because why would we put ourselves in the same situation with a chance of having it happen again. Do what’s right for you.
I had a similar situation, but I came to the realization that life is happening for you not to you. She was in your life to teach you a lesson about yourself. That lesson isn’t to never love again. It is the opposite, I am grateful I got to experience a love like the one I had, but now that it is gone I realize I must learn to love myself more than I loved her. Day by day I keep grinding and doing what I love, doing what is good for me. Keep grinding day by day and making myself useful so that I can help others. Find your true self, your reason for getting up. She was not the one, because if she was the one then she would still be there brothers. All that happens in the universe is for the greater good in the end, although we may not see it to begin with.
@@y3splz862good way to look at it. i think what hurts most about a “not ready for it” breakup is the thoughts of what could have been. I find myself thinking daily about what we could have been. i almost wish we broke up for another reason. idk how to feel about it all. just hurts and i feel confused and dizzy about it all :/ But i resonate heavy with your message, now its my time to better myself, to love myself.
She was with me through the lowest and it was all my fault she left me my fucked up brain and depressive episodes became too much for her to handle now I just want to disappear of this earth
Its embarrassing but "breaking up" with someone I never dated has been my greatest pain. I still remember her and all her details. It showed me that my depression "me" is the real "me." I no longer trust my family, not even considering trusting friends. Reading that, I realize I no longer have friends. I just cant make that mistake again. I will only seek a companion when I know that I am fully ready to stay with someone for life. Jesus is the only person I need in my life. Everyone else will let me down. All I want is for my life to work for His glory and everything else is secondary.
Tragedy is invisible, but omnipresent. People you see around you every day, some of them are in the seventh circle of hell. It's a human condition. It feels like only you are this hurt and this sad and feel this rotten. But that's not true. There are millions of us. Some day, you will get off this horrible ride and find happiness. It could be a girl, a boy, moving to a new place, meeting new friends, or hell, maybe it's finding god or joining a gym and fixing your life. But for now, be sad, my friend. Be sad. You will come out of it some day, and you will be better and stronger, because you will be a better human being. Because nothing tempers the soul more than emotional adversity.
I’m 18 and recently my life has been going downhill girlfriend off 2 years left me and within 4 weeks she already has someone else. I feel lost I don’t know if I’m the problem I wasn’t the best. But 2 years gone in a few weeks hurts man I just don’t know what to do I don’t enjoy things anymore I just wanna be me again man. I’m not even looking for sympathy I just need genuine advice yk. I don’t even think I want her back I’m just lonely now
It will sound strange, but loneliness is perhaps one of the best opportunities for yourself. You get to take a step back from everything, everyone. See what matters to YOU. See what you want from your life and where you want to take your story next. Whether you were or weren’t the problem (probably weren’t), it doesn’t really matter now. Time passes anyways. Look at the big picture and decide where is it you want to go forwards. Even if it’s just a hunch or a gut feeling, do it. Life changes when you least expect it, but only when you realise it has changed. You’ll find yourself again soon, and in doing so, you’ll find yourself a better person for it. Stay strong and keep going, even if it’s the minimum.
This year has been my absolute worst of my life so far….. I’m going through a really really dark phase right now I tried ending it all in January I’m just so dam broken……
some lads rlly r fine, ive seen them move on and ghost me wi out being one bit sympathetic, not even giving me a reason so yes, some lads really are fine and can do the worst to you and still move on like nothing happened, although you will spend the rest of your life thinking about their words and why they left.
Failing is normal it part of life, thing is learning from those mistake, not making those mistakes again, growing from those mistakes. The difference of growth is if after you fall you keep standing up even stronger! Much love man, rlly hope you get better
I didn't understand my whole life how people can give up, always was strong and stepped over all the dificulties, but now I understood that no matter how strong you are, there's always gonna be a limit of bad things that happen, and once you reach it, you'll break, it applies to every human being and I hope you'll never reach it brothers. Cuz I'm about to reach it, I'm trying my best to go over it, but life just keeps adding more and more on top of that and I don't know when it's gonna end. At least I hope it's gonna end
It will end. Life changes all the time, in more ways than any of us could imagine. You’ll find the sun shining on you again soon. Please, keep going. Do what you can and push. Even if it’s the smallest amount, it counts.
Actually yesterday I found out how fucked up the life of a guy is: basically you don’t get any compliments,affection or smth (ofc a few. But in comparison how many a girl gets every day it’s nothing) and the worse part is. I thought about what was when he was sad. Honestly almost no teenager tells their parents not even girls do. You can’t tell your bros except you have like a close one. And if you don’t have a girlfriend you can’t tell ANYONE. I just want to say sorry that life is so confusing. I just want to give every guy a hug :)
No. I feel invisible, even in family and friend get togethers. Was supposed to have a first date the first in a few years and got stood up. Just tired..
I got in a massive fight with my best friends amd its been 2 days since i spoke to them last. I decided to take this break bc i feel like im not wanted there and guess what... they went out today and had a whole bunch of fun. Whenever im around no1s smiling, no1s happy except for me. I wonder if i am still wanted even amongst my family. Whats there to live for anymore i mean she hates me and finds me disgusting, my friends hate me i domt even know if tjere my friends anymore, my grades r slippingand i feel like every1s happier wothout me. I might kms in like the coming week and im happy with that thought in my head. Finally some peace and no more stress.
No no bro bro please don't do it it's not worth I don't know you but I can tell you haven't live your life yet don't take that away that from your self , I know you don't want to hear this but it GETS BETTER I promise don't take your life because people don't value you bro instead get closer to GOD pray 🙏 I love you bro you are valued and appreciated by me and God don't take your life brodie.
I also recommend to change your circle of people just because your call them your bsf doesn't mean they look at you the same you deserve to be around people who will invite you places with them and enjoy moments with them not people who make you want to end your life God bless you.
6:25 Indeed. How sad that you didn’t do anything with your life except make others laugh and enjoy the moment more. You know? Instead of becoming Ozymandias. “Nothing beside remains. Round the decay Of that colossal Wreck, boundless and bare The lone and level sands stretch far away.”
I'm really struggling, theres too much to put into words, but im tired of living this life. ive tried to change but i can't hold myself accountable. what do I do?
Hey being aware of your wrong is the first step to improvement, try to learn from your mistakes, we all make mistakes, we are merely humans, but mistakes make us grow as long as you don’t give up to be better, seek self love before accountability, I know it is hard to love yourself as sound like something a girl would do, but we do need to love ourselves no matter what, even while making mistakes. Life is so complicated but trust, have faith, and try that it will be better, not today or in a couple of years but it will happen when you least expect it. Much Love!
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broke up with my girl like 2 weeks ago, she was great i was not. It was my all fault why that happened and im trying to be a better person. Im working on my self rn so if another love comes i am prepared. I don't wanna do the same mistakes that i did. I'm not the type or person to say stuff like this but i feel like i just had to let it out. Im so depressed. I feel like crying rn. I cry like almost every night. Its not even about the break up i was just depressed my whole life. Im working on myself even though its not fast im still trying. Im trying my best. Im trying to grind. Everyone if ur reading this we are all gonna be better and i hope we gets better.
I’ve been in your situation and I assure you it does get better :) there’s so much more to experience in this life beyond the sadness and misery.
Focus on yourself for yourself, keep improving by self investment and remember to stay humble on the way up!
I hope you keep trying, that just shows how much you actually care, forgive yourself about your mistakes and just try to do the right thing, we all make awful mistakes, the real task is learning from those mistakes, and trying to be better people.
In the same position here, brother. It's all part of God's plan as cliche as that sounds. Just know that you're doing the right thing and try not to consume yourself with chasing.
Find peace within yourself above all priorities.
Love you, man. God bless you❤
It’s been 7 months for me too, things don’t get better it’s just easier to not remember. But don’t run from the bad feeling, sit in a bit and take it day by day or minute by minute even. Because when your run from pain, it shows up in ways you least expect it. Let it out, because what the world expects out of a man is an oxymoron.
I feel that, bro. I haven't been the same since
Happiness is such a fragile emotion, I stopped chasing it when I was a child.
Go for your purpose, what’s your ultimate purpose? No need happiness
cope
@@andrescorrea2672how do you find your true purpose?
@@derekwright6501I feel like my purposes are only temporary. I have yet to find my true purpose
@@gavinharris6002
Nihilist blues…
my mom died when i was 12 in 2015 now im 20, sometimes before going to sleep i remember the good old times i got with her when she was there with me :c ... y'all should respect and listen and do what ur mom ask you to do something cus not having a mom anymore its very hard to live without this maternal love..
What you wrote is so sad and so beautiful at the same time. Rest in peace to your mother.
Feel sorry for your mum, man. Don't know what to say. God loves you - maybe the best thing I can tell you now
@@БогданШмирьов thank you for the support really apreciate that
I’m so sorry to hear this 😢 stay safe and healthy please 🙏
Sending all my love. Its hard losing a parent, but that love will come back to you at some point. God bless you and carry you forward to greatness and deep satisfaction. Amen.
I feel like the best advice I can provide for everyone would be to just simply… keep moving forward. you don’t have to be special, just do your work, try your hardest in the things you are passionate about, protect those you truly care about and eventually all of this moments of sadness will pass… and they will come back, but we simply get by all of these moments just with time. Opportunities will be given to you naturally and you will be able to seize them. Don’t force them, know them, and take them when they’re given. God bless all of you…
What a beautiful one, much love.
what if you have done all that but the world still rejects you
thanks man, needed this
There is absolutely no guarantee that opportunities will be given to you. Hard work alone is not enough. You need luck, and luck is in short supply.
Who needs the world anyway? The only person who could love you more than anything in this world is you.@@Starlight_ow
I was just laying in my bed at 4:50am missing her, still after 4 years, and I randomly clicked this video and that Theo clip just hit me man damn
I get it, you want to be loved and pour your heart out to someone. It will happen, one day, just have faith. A lot of times we overthink stuff. Much love! stay with the good memories she left you.
Nope. The answer is more girls.
Trust me.
I lost a woman very dear to me. Thought I would never find anybody like her. There are BILLIONS of humans on this planet. Likely hundreds of thousands of people who think exactly like me. Exactly like you. Only minor differences. So why wouldn't this be true for a woman as well?
Found multiple women who act like the woman I cared about the most. Been with them and lost them too(They didn't die btw, we just broke up one is still a friend i talk to on the regular.)
They were all slightly different then each other. I loved and feel out of love with them for different reasons. There is no 'the one'
We are all the same yet slightly different. We all love, hate, feel fear, have dreams, wants, desire for love.
They are all a human beings.
Just meet more women. Meet more people in life before you die.
Live well friend.
@@arthurcallahan4735there's always one girl that trumps all the others. You're missing the point.
@@devondonaldson7699 exactly, there is always one better than the others
@@devondonaldson7699I’m glad we get the point , idm to me ab all the other females or bad bitches out there , still gone miss the time w my lost one
Fellas, the world is not to be relied upon any more than absolutely necessary. Every now and then you may be blessed by someone looking out for you, but you simply cannot count on that. No one is coming to save you.
As sad as that may sound, it doesn’t have to be some tragedy. There’s beauty in it, and there’s freedom in it. If no one chooses to place stake in your life, then no one has say in it either. You are free to become whatever you want to be and free to be whoever you need to be. No one can take that from you unless you let them.
Stay strong, gents. We got this. ❤️ 👑
0:08 This broke me. Fuck, I just wanna give him a hug. Stay strong brothers, it's fucking hard and I personally can't shake the feeling that I'm hated, unlovable, but fuck... It has to be doable.
I'm now 15, and taking into account how fast life is moving. I am trying to spend the last 3 years of my childhood finding something I enjoy doing before I get spit out into the real world. I often find myself sitting there watching these videos because I can relate to them my mother supports me in everything I try to do financially and I just dont know how long I can push her for, I do feel bad I just don't know what to do. Should I be worrying about my familys financial position at 15? I wish I could help I really do but nobody will hire me, I keep telling myself that if I keep pushing it will all get better, I've been telling myself that for my entire life, when do I give up?
just do right by your family and yourself and you'll be alright. life has a way of figuring itself out and there is good karma that comes with good intentions so stay true to your mother and god will gift you.
@@nobodyhere2155 I try, it is just getting difficult to stay nice when everyone is enjoying their lives but I am stuck in this hole, I don't understand how people can be happy, everyday we edge closer to dying and everyday we look back on what we could've achieved if we would've had the motivation from others or the push to do it. I always said I couldn't wait till I turned 18 but now that im closer to that reality it scares me knowing that one day I'll be on my own and more lonely than I am right now, I pray to god every night, and I know that before the light comes the storm has to pass but I just don't know how much longer I can wait for happiness, I don't know if I'll ever be happy knowing one day I'll die most likely alone,
19 yr old here. ur 15 and ur still a minor. u should be worrying about not being to go outside and play at the skatepark with ur friends, not ur parents bills bro. dont stress, relax. stress makes u age fast my brother. u dont wanan be 20 looking 30. go easy on urself.
Make a plan of what you want for you and your family, and take small steps everyday. And when doubt comes be calm you will find a solution. Peace to you
Start thinking of a skillset to make you money in the future bro trading, e-commerce something bro. Find a network of strong Brothers to keep you accountable and uplifted. 👋🕊
2023 has been the year ive been the most overthinkive ive been. i dont know how to feel, i try and be better but trying to be better never leads to somthing im happy with. I play for a church band and i play up their with a straight face but knowing i am making people laugh and dance and have happyness and have a connection with god and be a better person i help them do that by playing and i feel that thats the only thing that is good in my life. if its not that its me at home or school. i hate school have all fs. ive been trying these past coups weeks and being a good student but reality always kicks in. getting a detention for being late. i just eccepted it and moved on. friends saying why im quit and dont hang. i know i am distancing myself but its not like they need me for anything but to do bad things. ive done bad stuff and i feel guilty couse i know theirs a god waching me but at the same time i dont know what to do. I am confused i am lost i am sad i would never want to die but i just dont want to be here . I somtimes think if i should talk to sombody about what goes through my life but i always say thats for wimps. and to be honest i am a wimp. my perents push me to be better and i dont know why i dont do better . i feel like doing better is so easy to say but so hard to do. i feel like i would not be myself if i did. i dont know what to do anymore. I hope anybody who read this knows your not the only person who feels how your feeling. i dont know who you are but you reading this shows we already have a connection. and i wish you luck through life. bye
May god bless you with the will to continue and may you be able to focus on the happy & important things to you in life
You are better by just trying, though it gets tiring, and I know it is not easy, we should still try to be better by the day, even if its a little bit. God is forgiving, god loves you like you can't imagine, he sent his son to die for you, and he will hear you, you should find better friends that lead you into a better life direction, read the bible, talk to God, you are loved by trying, there is so much life ahead that you could be better, for yourself, forgive yourself.
Accept what is no matter how shit it is, it leads to peace, at least for me
i made a decision a few years back to start my life again, chasing a dream that I thought was impossible.
I achieved the dream I wanted but I lost everything in the process of chasing it.
My infant son, my young daughter, my wife, my parents and my mortage.
I had achieved what I wanted but that came at the price of everything. I haven't seen my kids for over 4 years but I think about them every day and the pain I feel makes the achievements I've earned feel meaningless... but I cannot go back... I can only move forward carrying their memories with me...
the worst part though, is that the more I move forward the heavier their memories become.
the more i move forward the more I regret the last 4 years of my life and I am not sure there is a light at the end of this journey
I really want to be a great father to my beautiful little girl, I struggle with my anger and I shout at her, one day I’ll get there and learn to deal with it and I’ll be the father she deserves x
respect my man your a great dad for real i hope your goals are accomplished :))
If you want it bad enough you will find a way, if you don’t want it bad enough you will find an excuse. Stay up, keep grinding
But what's wrong with me now? at this moment? It sucks my potential isn't attractive to women, they only will think my success is.
sad..
@@LilSadge-w5d my best advice is to stop thinking about what these women are thinking. And truly think about what you want in this life. Work on yourself for a while, keep your head down and keep grinding. The right one will come when you truly love yourself and find yourself
They used to be a word that I used to think of one I used to read you are the person that makes moments of your lives and you are the creature of your lives. There is no sustains of meaning of life we create purpose to make every memory in every little moment, and every little passion to make everyone else feel better and fitting in the world to give them whatever they want to give them destiny or guidance to the world we are humans. we all perfect, but we can make people stand the world and give the meaning and give them hope, and give them every little memory before the memory becomes, and of a journey of a book that they collected and finished their life.
This year was horrible. Lost close friends, job was going to shit, started drinking heavily. went into a depressive and upset state but tried to hide it from my girl, didn't work and she left me. Went into a pyschotic episode. Nearly lost my life. now I just feel lost. After decades I was alone and sad and now I had it all and lost it all. I think that's what hurts the most besides the regret...
You may have lost it all, but there's always a silver lining. Everyone loves a comeback story. Go out and make one.
You can still make friends though the loss of a friend hurts so much, keep the good memories and think about how would that friend have looked at you when y'all were best friends, he'll want the best for you. The job can be worked towards, there are always bad seasons, but what puts you aside of the rest is if you stick to it, if you make it work, and of course, do not drink, especially if it is heavy, it only destroys your worse, I have seen families be lost because of alcohol, brothers kill each other, they were best friends but alcohol made them reckless and stupid that led them to horrible choices. I would say to talk to God and be physically active, I am not saying to get ripped but to be comfortable within yourself, your body, your mind, and your own person, only then you will find a path to follow. Much love brother!
Andrew tate
How’re you doing?
Are you better now?
I’ve been through the breakup shit boys, it gets better for sure time goes on an so will you. Eat good food surround yourself with people who have similar goals stay away from alcohol an drugs stay out the bars / clubs quit listening to sad music if it brings you down. Everything action has a consequence you just have to figure that out eventually you get tired of the moping around an the boo hoo shit an then you get back on that horse if yesterdays shoes didn’t fit than why put them on today it’s a dog eat dog world an in my experience I had to grab my life by the throat an fucking fix it an that’s what I’ve been doing I believe the rest of you fellas in the comments can do the same
Thank you brother, much love
Man i just want to be happy a lil bit
It’ll be alright just try and find something anything to be happy about each day and one day you’ll see that in you too :)
@@clipsrus-j bro i don't even know what makes me happy anymore i have gf but still feel alone i have everything literally but still not happy
@@HassenRiahi-dh6rm Try picking up a hobby or pastime u enjoyed and appreciate it for what it is everyday! I’ve found that happiness builds up from the little things. From playing the piano for a few minutes every day. From focusing on what I enjoy and doing it every day. From calling the people I love to let them know I do. Whatever it is you think that’s good for you or the world, go do it!
@@HassenRiahi-dh6rm god
You will be bro, you got this. We`re all in this together, just trying to figure out how to suck less at life. It will be okay, because why shouldnt it?
I just want to feel loved.
Start by loving yourself first bruv.🙌
People think happiness is something you can reach, like a state of mind, but that's a lie, you can feel joy in the meantime, but happiness is that thing you get when you reach the ending part of your life, and you look back with no regrets, because you did what it took without worrying if it would bring you happiness or not, good luck brothers.
Dude I don’t even have like any signs of sadness or nun, I just love watching these videos cuz they the realest shi ever.
I would give anything for just a slimmer of happiness, or hope, or purpose.
Suffering is beauty in itself. Like a flower growing through the cracks of this cold concrete world
Dude this is one of the best comps I’ve ever seen thank you man
all i've been doing is shutting it all out and now it's starting spill out. I feel like crying very frequently and it's not just a lump in my throat, it burns in my heart and tries its best to force out tears. I don't trust anyone enough to cry in front of them, but i don't want to suffer in silence.
I’d like to ask you this.
Is it better to suffer in silence for the rest of your story, or to have one chapter of pain, embarrassment and awkwardness to become a better person?
It takes such tremendous courage and strength to voice your pain. In doing so, you may find help and support.
If not, you will find out who truly does care for you and who doesn’t.
So, voice your thoughts and feelings. Embrace the pain, own it. One chapter pales in comparison to the whole story.
Stay strong friend.
It’s been 3 years and it still hurts Like it was yesterday
As an 18 yr old who has never had a her, I can't feel anymore and idk why, I've given up on love... and I'm slowly giving up on happiness and its starting to show I can't hide it anymore and I'm scared... I'm terrified not because people may find out I'm not the happy go lucky kid, but I'm scared of what's in store for me. idk where this feeling or lack there of will lead to...
I Can understand you, my cousin he’s never had a girlfriend until now and he just turned 19, he’s always been very shy, very reserved, and has had lots of trouble with his family, but it takes courage to solve everything, it takes action. Action to work on your image, your personality, your manners, your heart most specially, then a “her” appears, and it takes action to have “her”. Being scared is a good thing, everyone is terrified of what they don’t know, but that means you care about it, about finding someone, and you are young, I know people might tell you this a lot but it is true, uncles and friends of mine found their wives until they turned 30. I hope you do work on it, all of it, and be patient, patience is a virtue. Much love
@Tiktoksbb yes... the thing is, I've always tried to work on myself, and I think it just led to me pushing everyone away, and I still feel like I'm doing it. What you said makes me feel a little better, but I just don't know what I'm doing wrong while my friends and family seem to be doing everything right all my friends are either pursuing their dreams or have an amazing relationship and while I am happy for them I can't help but think I'm just being left behind and as that feeling grew bigger one day it just was all gone, my feeling gone, I can't really even feel pain it's weird but it's scary cause it's been a while now, like 4 weeks, and now it's getting worse ... ik I'll be fine in the end, but this isn't the end
Man she was just the best thing for me idont understand what i did wrong i just want her to hold me again like she used to , just cant fuckinf take it anymore
Wasn't it beautiful? It is one of the best emotions one can feel, but it's not to feel sad, it is to cherish the good memories, the good times, and hopefully, someone else will give you what she couldn't, and you can give her the world. Moving on is hard and takes so much effort and time to accept it. Much Love!
if you're going through hell, keep going, if you cant see the light, keep moving, if you keep falling down, get up and start moving
Easy words to say hard to put them in practice stranger
I'm suicidal more right now in the present then I ever have in the past, yet I don't have the balls. I'm in an annoying situation, job is not good for me mentally, friend group at the moment feels like a trap and all of my other friends stopped giving a shit about me outside of my own friend group, the only other friend I have is someone I can't find myself agreeing with. And I have issues trying to find other friends cause I've moved so much and I don't trust my driving yet. And my one and only pillar in my life, my brother in blood is miles away and I haven't needed him more in my life like I do more right now. And yet I'm able to look people in their eyes and say, "I'm fine."
I don't know what to do.
And I'm not afraid, I'm just...lost.
Hello Marcus, I can understand how you feel when you are doing so much and have no one, when you succeed you have no one to congratulate you, to help you, to talk to. It is extremely difficult to get out of a hole that deep. It is okay to disagree with people, to miss people, to want to feel appreciated and just in good company, but there are days, months, even years, where you only have yourself, and that is dangerous, to have just yourself as a company. But listen, though you have no reason to trust me, suicide is never the answer, in fact, it is cowardly, living life, and struggling through life but overcoming these obstacles is the most wonder thing to experience, I know it is hard right now, and probably will be for a while, but try, try to be kind to people, to help some people, To help yourself! Love yourself, work on yourself, I really hope you find a way, to be better for your own sake. God could help you, Much love, I really have faith in you. I hope you find a way to better yourself.
how are you doing now
Jacob and stone music is... So beatiful, i ain't okay.
I’m so tired. I want to cry but it’s just a sinking feeling anymore. Started replacing it with adrenaline or anger and it feels like it’s catching up with me.
I give the best advice is what I’ve been told time and time again but I Couldn’t help Myself
I think I've for the most part finally moved past everything that has had been on my shoulders for years.
As the old shores erode away and new ones beckon, so do new paths and people.
I met some people that uplifted me to an elevation I never thought possible, and in the end I have been participating in reciporating that in return.
In the end, the truth is what it is, and it can be hard moving on alone. If you find people around you to uplift you, they will be like iron is to iron, they will sharpen you, as you sharpen them.
If you're alone, keep your chin up, and just keep moving forward.
I learned that unless you want things to change, things will always remain the same. So upwards and onwards folks, Kings, Chads. Our next day approaches, the next sunrise, and the next sunset.
We're all going to make it. Carpe Diem.
i'm addicted with these
1:14 that took me back immediately to one of the last times I went somewhere with my first boyfriend before I broke up with him. We used the exact same type of photobooth, I recognize the voice. I wish it had worked out. He is a wonderful man.
Less than a year later he married someone else.
The reality is that some people don’t appreciate the value of relationships - or care enough to understand the hurt they could deal.
Unfortunately, he was one of them.
The most I can say is that this will just be a few pages in the story of your life. There’s so much left to be written, so much to explore.
This won’t define you unless you choose it to. Keep writing your story, and see where it goes.
I like commenting in these or reading these comments knowing we're all dealing with tough times, I've made mistakes like all of us do and still hate myself over these problems and issues, it was so bad to the point i couldn't sleep properly, i never talked about these issues for whatever reason i can't explain, the girl i was dating at the time helped , me get over these issues talked to me and helped me to stop worrying about these problems that happened a while ago, these issues these problems that i had they still hurt when it comes back into mind but it hurts less realizing that it's over what happened, happened and as much as i want to go back and change it, it'll stay the same regardless of what i think or want.
side note: everything right now that's happening is good, good grades enough to pass towards the 11th grade, spring is here and summer is around the corner, and my friends the best of the best, make me forget about any problems or issues i ever once had, the girl and i aren't dating anymore but still on good terms and play video games together from time to time, life right now is pretty peaceful and i hope you the person reading this to have a Good day.
It’s sad to think that the only thing that makes it better is to see the comments on videos like these of all the men missing their girls. I miss mine and I know no matter what, even if I got her back it’s done. There’s no reruns on the past. What’s done is done and now I carry around the sadness that she won’t be here growing with me. I know I’m he best option for her I want to shake her and tell her look I didn’t have a great year because I’m a lazy piece of shit.. no I’m driven and disciplined. Sent her flowers on Monday anonymously, don’t want anything from her I just want her happy and I pray to god she’s safe because I know it’s not up to me to protect her anymore.
Stay strong brothers💪👑
Trying bro
10 years 3 kids and she left
Hey man everything is going to be fine… because god has something planned for you. And just remember you will always have someone that will be there for you and to support you, and that my friend is god❤🙂👍🏼
Sometimes it happens. Sometimes we need as men to look at ourselves and ask if our egos or actions lead to it. It didn't happen overnight it was something she herself probably thought about long before it happened..leaving a 10 year relationship with kids isn't an easy action for either party. But your job now is to be the best version of you for your kids and for yourself
believe and stay true to yourself it will work out in the end ik it’s hard buh trust the process
Any guy reading this just know your the fucking man bro, the only thing limiting you is yourself you will achieve all of your goals and dreams and prove everyone you want, you will get that girl, car, house, dream, job, education, your the man bro. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Everything is all good.
Stay strong 💪 ✨️
I found my happiness in her we are still together but I always feel like I need something more like I'm missing something
Nobody celebrated my birthday this year. One coworker remembered and said happy birthday three days later. I’ve lived alone for the past 4 years. I’ve done little for my personal life. Just school and work.
happy late/early birthday from me
She left me about a month ago but i still feel like I love her 😔
I love her so much.. and I’ve done unforgiving things to her and every single fucking day I just sit with this guilt and regret to want to take it all back.. I realized how much I failed her as a man and it hurts me every damn day. I just wanna prove to her that I can change and be better cause god damn it I am better than I was a few years ago… i love her and I will prove it all over again.. I will make her fall for me once more…
I’m rooting for you man I’m going through the exact same thing with my wife I’ve done aweful things to her and destroyed her mentally and now I’m trying to prove to her that I am the right man for her
First time writing about it.I broke up with a girl some time back only to realize that i truly loved her. I took her for granted.
Hurts real bad to be the reason for the sadness of your loved one. Can't even talk about it to anyone.
20 years old. I wanted to provide my two cents on life and voice my story.
So, here’s my story. Born in the UK.
Since I was around 9ish all the way to 16, I was entirely homeschooled because I was afraid.
Those 7 years went by fast, but each year got harder and more painful than the last. I didn’t know what I wanted to do, and why I was so afraid of everything. Leaving my home was terrifying. There was a time where I did not leave for a year straight.
I had no friends, no hobbies, no ambitions. I was always told that what I did was wrong.
Now all of a sudden I’m an adult, and I’m having to learn how to live.
It’s difficult. It feels like I’m a toddler. It was only a month ago I felt suicidal, as I felt there was no way I could be like everyone else.
Yet, here I am. Things still hurt, I’m still afraid, but I’m holding on.
Why? I have hope. Hope that, someday, I’ll learn how to do things. Learn what I like and dislike. Learn how to take charge and make my own path, my own story.
But all these things, they don’t come to you overnight, or just spontaneously come to you.
They all require effort. Action. Commitment.
Through all the pain I’ve experienced, I’ve learned that you cannot move on and grow without action. I started my path of redemption when I entered college when I was 16.
Now I’m in university, making a life slowly but surely. I have friends. I have ambitions. I have responsibilities.
I still feel lost most days, but I’m coming to understand how important it is to act. To believe in yourself, to believe in your goals and want them badly. To commit, believe, want, and act, regardless of the world.
There’s always hope friends. Your story is still being written, and it can shift and wind in an infinite number of ways.
There’s always hope, as long as you grab the pen that writes your story.
i feel like whenever i just have happiness by my side there's a depressed taking over happiness and destroying it whenever im trying to get along with happiness ,but it just gets in the way and makes my life way harder to try and talk to someone new and i had a girlfriend she was the love of my life that made me happy every where i went with her well not everywhere she was the most beautiful girl ive ever met that god gave to me and she was perfect, but things started to go bad for me, she wasn't in the mood all the time she was always silent, i tried to tell her what was going on and i should've just stayed with her and been with her walking together and taking her home safe, but my mom would get mad if i wasn't back so i dont wanna say my mom messed it up, but she kinda did she didn't want me out the house because i guess danger and i was mad at her everyday because i cant go out and explore, i know she was my mom but im not her little baby anymore and i wanted to go with my girlfriend and take her back to her home safe or go down to the park to have fun, but i had a red and blue pill situation so it was my fault i couldn't go with her everyday, and i see walking sad everyday i screwed things up and i wish i could take it all back
6 years ago when i was 16 i fell in love with one girl and i knew she was in love with me she was the first and last girl that i have talked to and have relationship but in the end we couldnt be together because i was piece of shit and told her she was too good for me. Every day when i wake up i think about her, everytime i close my eyes i think about her, and i think she also became deppressed because she never been in relationship just like me i screwed myself and her over im sorry .I dont think i can take it much longer this pain is killing me.
Random question but why dont you just tell her that you still think about her? She may be experiencing the same thing or it will be clear that you have to move on. I feel like youre putting yourself too much down.. Youre more worthy than you think.
Yall got this man. Live life to the fullest because you only get one chance at life, that's what makes life so beautiful. Take the risk and enjoy the journey. You are special in Gods eyes. Repent and seek him, it'll give you an unimaginable amount of hope and happiness. Amen God bless yall
God Bless you! I hope you thrive in happiness and wish you the best!
They always ask if im okay but never how are you really FEELING
Do not go gentle into that good night, people.
To those who are going through something and trying to find a mind space or anything to somewhat help look at it from a boxers pov
Don’t stop till that bell rings, no matter how hard you get hit by life take it and get back to what you were doing, get knocked down get back up. If that bell doesn’t ring don’t stop progressing
I miss who I thought she was…..6years man 6fucking years gone down the drain I’m just 22 she was all I ever wanted and the only one I loved or could love. Her beauty was unfathomable, her personality was awesome. I always held hope that maybe she could find herself back to me but instead I said some bitter stuff just so she could feel the pain I felt I knew that we wouldn’t work but I kept fighting when she had already accepted the end of us…..sometimes I wish I didn’t say the things I did and I wish that we could’ve continue being friends, my days are now sad and lonely and ever so often my throat hurts when I think about her
i don't miss her anymore but i was already messed up before i knew her so nothing changed
"Give hope to men, keep none for myself" - LOTR
It is, what it be. and be, what it is.
Wow it just hits and when you don’t know what to do and you just wanna ask “why?” It hurts knowing you’re lost and can’t find help.
That is how it all starts right, with questions as to "why" it happens, but then it comes the, "How" to solve it, and many other questions you can find answers for. I really hope you find a purpose and become a better version of yourself, i am sure that you would be proud if after a couple of rough years of working to better you look back to today, you would be proud, it does not have to be only physically or economically but all aspects of life, even to be a better father, son, brother, friend, etc. and not being easy to be fooled of course. Much Love! Be a Monster and then tame it.
shit 2023 has been a really fucked up year for me honestly, I am tired of being a different person out there, shit kicks in when im at home and shit
Keep moving forward, just keep moving, trust have faith, it will get better, keep working on it, day by day. Much Love
Been with my girlfriend for over 7 months and she has become very ungrateful and the relationship has become very one sided. Basically a year ago I went through a horrible breakup and I remember crying and watching these videos so with that being said I’m terrified to leave her knowing what lies ahead if I am to do that.
I don’t know if it’s my broken sense of reality but I can see in peoples eyes and facial structure for the first they see how they are to you, like how fake they are in front of you and it’s so hard to find just one person who actually is nice and cares. How am I meant to find the perfect one for me when I know that even finding 1 person who really cares is like a needle in the hay stack I just don’t at this point
theres im fine which means im fine
then theres
"Im fine" theres a distinct diffrence in how its said if said this way he is not fine
"A confrontation with the shadow is at hand, after a long enduring war against thy self you will feel whole"
I will endure with you all ❤
Me holding my pain and emotional baggage like Atlas
Im fine
I feel like there is so much Hate and negativity now, it’s hard to still have hopes and dreams of becoming/doing what I’ve wanted. I’ve been subconsciously thinking about suicide for a long time. It feels like I’m watching everyone I Love suffer just trying to Survive and I’m not looking forward to that for such a long time.
I’d love to tell you that it’s only a brief moment in time, that it really does get better but friend, I can’t guarantee any of that. I can only tell you to keep going.
I broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago. Absolutely an amazing person. We both had demons we had to face and it was unhealthy for us to be together while we worked through our pasts. I’ve never made any girl cry like that. I’ve never hurt someone like that before in my life. I think this was the hardest thing I’ve had to do
you did what’s best for you don’t dwell on the past and focus on your future. I’m going through the same thing and i tried my best but it didnt end up being the right person in the end. find your peace and you’ll find your way
“I’ll be aight.”
Makes me wanna eat a whole ice cream cake to myself and fall asleep and skip my job the next morning
Man it's like I can only exist for someone and it's like I need someone to be the center of my life to keep me going, it's like I don't even live my own life I just live in everyone else's, I've been desperately trying to find a hand to grab before I fall but I always mess up and when the stars align life rips the person away from me, I just want someone to keep me stable, I just want to be happy for at least a few days, well damn I got carried away my bad
Do not apologize about talking your mind, not here especially. I know it is difficult to live your life and focus on you and not people, that you want someone to look up to and to support you, but a lot of times we only have ourselves for a while. Try to find love for yourself, your body, your mental being, your personality, your flaws, and all. Then when you least expect it someone will notice you and appreciate you, because you tried, and tried well, be patient, God is always there to guide you. Much love!
I miss her bro ‼️😔
Found out yesterday my girlfriend kept cheating on me from the last 9 months. Don’t wanna go into detail. It really hurt me so much and put a hole in my heart forever. Never again. I’m done. I’m up now at 3 am watching this video to find some hope. I did everything literally everything and it still wasn’t enough for her and she just used me for the love and care that I gave her while she kept on cheating on me with multiple guys through all these months. I really thought about giving up but no I promise to rise through it and become better.
My girlfriend broke up with me not even a few days ago. Thought I would let myself be despondent and then return to the self development grind like usual. It won’t be the same, and I know I won’t meet another woman like her ever again, but at least I had a moment being in her world. We were both great together, no issues, arguments, just her not being ready yet. Sure it hurts, sure I cried, and sure, she probably doesn’t care as much as I do and never did. It was obvious by her following actions and lack of acknowledgment toward what she did, but I must live like I did before. Same applies to all of you.
Much Love man, It is never easy, but we must continue to better ourselves, seek the good.
are you living my life? exact same story for me. gave her everything i could, provided for her as much as i can. Then she turned around and says she doesnt trust me and fell out of love with me. when, the day before, we made plans for our future kids names.
@@Starlight_ow sounds extremely similar to my story man. We can’t control others love for us, I was going paycheck to paycheck for her giving her as much as I could. If she doesn’t love you for your greatness then she doesn’t deserve you. We can’t do anything except move on, some people would call it self-pity to say “I’ll never love again” but it feels safer that way, because why would we put ourselves in the same situation with a chance of having it happen again. Do what’s right for you.
I had a similar situation, but I came to the realization that life is happening for you not to you. She was in your life to teach you a lesson about yourself. That lesson isn’t to never love again. It is the opposite, I am grateful I got to experience a love like the one I had, but now that it is gone I realize I must learn to love myself more than I loved her. Day by day I keep grinding and doing what I love, doing what is good for me. Keep grinding day by day and making myself useful so that I can help others. Find your true self, your reason for getting up. She was not the one, because if she was the one then she would still be there brothers. All that happens in the universe is for the greater good in the end, although we may not see it to begin with.
@@y3splz862good way to look at it. i think what hurts most about a “not ready for it” breakup is the thoughts of what could have been. I find myself thinking daily about what we could have been. i almost wish we broke up for another reason. idk how to feel about it all. just hurts and i feel confused and dizzy about it all :/ But i resonate heavy with your message, now its my time to better myself, to love myself.
Thank you God for im able write this message publicly. May God help me on my journey to see my son again that got taken away from me.
9:42 Rest in peace, Man of God 🫡
She was with me through the lowest and it was all my fault she left me my fucked up brain and depressive episodes became too much for her to handle now I just want to disappear of this earth
I was not expecting to hear “Missing Her.” Her is my grandma. And the title is “Are you okay?” It feels like a sign.
Its embarrassing but "breaking up" with someone I never dated has been my greatest pain. I still remember her and all her details. It showed me that my depression "me" is the real "me." I no longer trust my family, not even considering trusting friends. Reading that, I realize I no longer have friends. I just cant make that mistake again. I will only seek a companion when I know that I am fully ready to stay with someone for life. Jesus is the only person I need in my life. Everyone else will let me down. All I want is for my life to work for His glory and everything else is secondary.
Tragedy is invisible, but omnipresent. People you see around you every day, some of them are in the seventh circle of hell. It's a human condition. It feels like only you are this hurt and this sad and feel this rotten. But that's not true. There are millions of us.
Some day, you will get off this horrible ride and find happiness. It could be a girl, a boy, moving to a new place, meeting new friends, or hell, maybe it's finding god or joining a gym and fixing your life.
But for now, be sad, my friend. Be sad. You will come out of it some day, and you will be better and stronger, because you will be a better human being. Because nothing tempers the soul more than emotional adversity.
Thankyou for this video ❤️🙏
I hope it gives you some clarity and hope. Much Love
I’m 18 and recently my life has been going downhill girlfriend off 2 years left me and within 4 weeks she already has someone else. I feel lost I don’t know if I’m the problem I wasn’t the best. But 2 years gone in a few weeks hurts man I just don’t know what to do I don’t enjoy things anymore I just wanna be me again man. I’m not even looking for sympathy I just need genuine advice yk. I don’t even think I want her back I’m just lonely now
It will sound strange, but loneliness is perhaps one of the best opportunities for yourself.
You get to take a step back from everything, everyone. See what matters to YOU. See what you want from your life and where you want to take your story next.
Whether you were or weren’t the problem (probably weren’t), it doesn’t really matter now. Time passes anyways.
Look at the big picture and decide where is it you want to go forwards. Even if it’s just a hunch or a gut feeling, do it.
Life changes when you least expect it, but only when you realise it has changed.
You’ll find yourself again soon, and in doing so, you’ll find yourself a better person for it.
Stay strong and keep going, even if it’s the minimum.
11:22 is the realist thing I have heard in a very long time
This year has been my absolute worst of my life so far….. I’m going through a really really dark phase right now I tried ending it all in January I’m just so dam broken……
some lads rlly r fine, ive seen them move on and ghost me wi out being one bit sympathetic, not even giving me a reason so yes, some lads really are fine and can do the worst to you and still move on like nothing happened, although you will spend the rest of your life thinking about their words and why they left.
i dont sleep so good anymore i cant sleep anymore
i keep trying and keep failing, i know you have to keep going, but why. every last time i fail or fuck up it hurts
Failing is normal it part of life, thing is learning from those mistake, not making those mistakes again, growing from those mistakes. The difference of growth is if after you fall you keep standing up even stronger! Much love man, rlly hope you get better
I didn't understand my whole life how people can give up, always was strong and stepped over all the dificulties, but now I understood that no matter how strong you are, there's always gonna be a limit of bad things that happen, and once you reach it, you'll break, it applies to every human being and I hope you'll never reach it brothers. Cuz I'm about to reach it, I'm trying my best to go over it, but life just keeps adding more and more on top of that and I don't know when it's gonna end. At least I hope it's gonna end
It will end. Life changes all the time, in more ways than any of us could imagine.
You’ll find the sun shining on you again soon.
Please, keep going. Do what you can and push. Even if it’s the smallest amount, it counts.
0:32 i wish my dad would ever talk to me like this
Actually yesterday I found out how fucked up the life of a guy is: basically you don’t get any compliments,affection or smth (ofc a few. But in comparison how many a girl gets every day it’s nothing) and the worse part is. I thought about what was when he was sad. Honestly almost no teenager tells their parents not even girls do. You can’t tell your bros except you have like a close one. And if you don’t have a girlfriend you can’t tell ANYONE.
I just want to say sorry that life is so confusing. I just want to give every guy a hug :)
why i am even trying.. i want to end it so no one can suffer my pain.
No. I feel invisible, even in family and friend get togethers. Was supposed to have a first date the first in a few years and got stood up. Just tired..
If you are reading this, I want you to know everything will be okay.
It won't.
I got in a massive fight with my best friends amd its been 2 days since i spoke to them last. I decided to take this break bc i feel like im not wanted there and guess what... they went out today and had a whole bunch of fun. Whenever im around no1s smiling, no1s happy except for me. I wonder if i am still wanted even amongst my family. Whats there to live for anymore i mean she hates me and finds me disgusting, my friends hate me i domt even know if tjere my friends anymore, my grades r slippingand i feel like every1s happier wothout me. I might kms in like the coming week and im happy with that thought in my head. Finally some peace and no more stress.
No no bro bro please don't do it it's not worth I don't know you but I can tell you haven't live your life yet don't take that away that from your self , I know you don't want to hear this but it GETS BETTER I promise don't take your life because people don't value you bro instead get closer to GOD pray 🙏 I love you bro you are valued and appreciated by me and God don't take your life brodie.
I also recommend to change your circle of people just because your call them your bsf doesn't mean they look at you the same you deserve to be around people who will invite you places with them and enjoy moments with them not people who make you want to end your life God bless you.
@@Cristiano-to3rj the problem is that i have no1 else...
@Rylxn_otp you don't need people in your life, bro you just need GOD
RIP HueyHaHa, Etika and Reckful, and anyone who've succumbed due to poor mental health...
type shit bro, this hits hard
6:25 Indeed. How sad that you didn’t do anything with your life except make others laugh and enjoy the moment more.
You know? Instead of becoming Ozymandias.
“Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal Wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away.”
Thank you 🖤
Cringe lil nga
@@tongtaille42 ?
@@donkeyking6914 sorry
I'm really struggling, theres too much to put into words, but im tired of living this life. ive tried to change but i can't hold myself accountable. what do I do?
Hey being aware of your wrong is the first step to improvement, try to learn from your mistakes, we all make mistakes, we are merely humans, but mistakes make us grow as long as you don’t give up to be better, seek self love before accountability, I know it is hard to love yourself as sound like something a girl would do, but we do need to love ourselves no matter what, even while making mistakes. Life is so complicated but trust, have faith, and try that it will be better, not today or in a couple of years but it will happen when you least expect it. Much Love!
ive been dating this girl for about a month now. we both love eachother, i just dont know if im gonna be enough for her.
Im fine. Im okay. Im good. I promise, I promise myself im fine.
The ones that matter dont mind! And those that mind dont matter.