The Key to Long-Term Success | Why Sacrificing Short-Term Pleasures Leads to Big Wins
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- In today’s fast-paced world, where instant gratification is just a click away, the ability to delay satisfaction has become a superpower. This video dives deep into the concept of delayed gratification and how mastering it can transform your life.
From the famous Marshmallow Test to the distractions of modern life like social media and fast food, we explore:
• Why short-term pleasures can harm long-term goals.
• Practical strategies to practice delayed gratification in daily life.
• How to break free from instant gratification habits and build discipline.
• The science behind delaying rewards and its impact on success.
📌 Whether you’re preparing for exams, working on a career goal, or striving for personal growth, this video offers actionable tips to help you stay focused and achieve long-term success.
Key Takeaways:
• Set clear goals and focus on long-term rewards.
• Minimize distractions and build habits that align with your aspirations.
• Celebrate small wins to stay motivated without compromising your bigger vision.
Remember: There are no shortcuts to success. Watch, reflect, and start practicing delayed gratification today!
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It's all about patience...to practice delayed gratification🦋
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I totally agree I spent many years outside from home on the name of preparing for the exams.... still not get selected but but but I am not failure in my life because I achieved meaningful life
Whatever I learnt in this journey is incredible
Agr mane itna smy khudko na di hoti to Sayed mai aaj itni aware v nhi hoti so I believe in satisfaction.... because many of my friends joined railway gp D, and as teacher but I am still pursuing my goal becouse satisfaction is real success 🎉
Agree with you...
Are ye to meri life ki story h 😂
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Sir it is a divine pleasure to listen you for people like us who lives in remote area of bundelkhand. मुझे और मेरे जैसे कई लोगों को दुर्भाग्य सेआप जैसे अध्यापक कभी नहीं मिले।
एक निवेदन है कि आप वीडियो कुछ लम्बे बनाया करें, जिससे बात समग्रता से समझी जा सके। शुक्रिया सर।
In the context of this insightful video emphasizing the power of delayed gratification for long-term success, Guru Arjan Dev Ji's words in Raag Dhanaasree offer timeless wisdom:
ਬਿਨਸਿ ਜਾਇ ਜੋ ਨਿਮਖ ਮਹਿ ਸੋ ਅਲਪ ਸੁਖੁ ਭਨੀਐ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
"That pleasure, which passes away in an instant, is trivial."
(Page 677, Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji)
This verse beautifully aligns with the idea that fleeting pleasures hold no lasting value. True fulfillment lies in choosing actions and goals that resonate with higher principles and long-term growth rather than succumbing to temporary gratifications.
The teachings reminds us that when we invest in the eternal over the ephemeral, we not only develop the discipline to overcome distractions but also pave the way for lasting success and spiritual harmony. Let this wisdom inspire us to prioritize what truly matters in life.
Wow! 👏🏽
A video on jealousy please.
Sometimes our known or friends are destined to be a better place than us. And by making utmost efforts we have failed miserably. At the same time, they also make us feel like " you are a failure".
Also what one says them lucky, fortunate, gifty or whatever ....they get much more with minimum giving. Then questions arise, why should I not? Where I am lacking after doing this all?
And then jealousy overtook the mind.
Try replace negative emotions with positive emotions. Read a book "How to master your emotions" by Thiabaut Meurrise
If you have jealous of someone then talk frequently with that person and have fun ..
I think but don't know it will work or not
@@shiningstar3393 if someone doing it deliberately.... and if we talk to them about this, then they feel smug about it all. And they again will do the same.
What can we do to move out of this inferiority complex.
At the same time, If i think about doing the same thing (doing what makes them feel jealous) then it will bring me temporary joy but a feeling of guilt in the long term.
Watch Acharya Prashant ji 🖤
This type of knowledge and awareness will help us (young indians ) to go with a long term vision...a key to healthy society building ,, love from west bengal ❤❤❤
उदित जी की आवाज़ ने इस गीत को ओर भी खूबसूरत बनाया है, अंत में लता जी.. बहुत खूब ❣️
Thanks guru❤ muje aise lg ra ap jo b video content laa rahe hai me wo kuch month pahle se hi follow kar ra hu pta ni q.. But surely due to
❤Bhole baba ki grace se.❤
Sir,namaste.
I always find your talks greatly motivative, informative, and reformative.
Scholars like you are blessing for humanity .
The way you inspired us or motivate us and your thoughts are scratched in our mind for a long time 🙏
जब आप बोलते हैं..... तो विश्वास होता है, जो मंद पड़ गया था, वो विश्वास, वो बाद में समय पर सब कुछ मिलता है, वाली mummy की सीख पर पुनः विश्वास होता है, विश्वास होता है स्वयं पर कि हम गलत नहीं थे, हम गलत नहीं हैं😊
Well said....
Sir aapki baaton se aapke body structure se hi pta chl jata h ki aap kitne anubhavi person h ❤ thank you for this video it'll be very helpful for me to achieve my goals and it will definitely make my life easier 💖😊
Yes sir you are right delayed gratification se kisi bhi samasya ko lekar baad me hi aanand aata hai
Long term rules is always successful in any field like study or real life
Thank you so much for new direction for new generation 🙏🙏
I've never seen a video like this on you tube 🙆🏻♂️❤
Last line " the practice of delayed gratification is not instant " was a epic line . What a nice advice to this generation!
We need a genuine guidance and direction that can lead us to our destination . Everyone is misguiding us that's why we need to develop our own perspective , sensibility and method of making decisions amind our circumstances.
Don't let yourself run after that footprint that are followed a numer of people in this word .
We just need to recognise our own mechanism how we work and what are the consequences .
Thank your very much sir !
Keep sharing such videos because it helps a lot to those who once misguided by their own people and teacher.
Yes sir I follow this rule and I my topper in my school time but when I got smart phone forgot all my good habits and distracted with yt shorts
सर जी ये मैं बहुत पहले से करती आ रही हूं। घन्यवाद इतनी महत्वपूर्ण जानकारी हमसे सांझा करने के लिए। 🙏
Ppl like this should be more famous and celebrity. A people should be a fan of person like him. Imagine our youth following him instead of influencer like Elvish yadav.. ❤
this time i solve physics problum now i am watching this solving problum rather than waching video is delayed gratification for me
How can we develop standard personality ?
By becoming a good person
What is a standard personality?
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Instagram ki reels se
Real motivation यहां है! मुझे बस सुनो
धन्यवाद❤ सर आपने हमारे जिवन मे आपने कोनसी चीज को अपनाया जाये आप जैसे गुरुजन का ग्रामीण मे रहने वाले लोगो को सही रास्ता आप जैसे व्यक्तियों द्वारा हम जिवन खुले दिमाग सोच की क्षमता बढ़ती जाती है
हमारा विकास प्रतिदिन होता जा रहा है
पुनः आपको धन्यवाद सर❤
ईश्वर की कृपा आप पर हमेशा बनी रहे एसी प्रार्थना करता हूं❤ धन्यवाद
जय हिन्द जय भारत
Sir aapne . BIHAR... PROTEST (re-exam) pr bht hi satya nishtha dikhaya h🙏🙏🙏🙏
sir your thoughts and ideas adds value to our life
আন্তরিক ধন্যবাদ স্যার।আপনার প্রতিটা মূল্যবান বক্তব্য জীবনে চলার পথে প্রয়োগ করার চেষ্টা করেছি এবং ফলও পেয়েছি ❤
Aache se har vishay par vichar rakhte hai sir ❤😊
आज फिर से मुझे एक नई सीख मिली जिसे मैं अपने जीवन में उतारने की कोशिश करूंगी। धन्यवाद सर 🙏
I might not be Arjuna but you are Shri Krishna to me. This was the only thing I wanted to understand and listen to. Thank you so much.
सर आप की सारी बाते सच हैं मेरे साथ ऐसा ही हैं मेरा long term goals पर focus कम रहता हैं short term goals पर ज्यादा🥺🙏🙏🙏
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Thank you 🌸
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Thank you sir
Hame ek naya rasta dikhaya long term success ko pane ke liye
Thank you sir! you are my inspiration🙏
Yes sir i will follow it definitely
I will do , Thanks sir for this impactful suggestion . I can do this 🔥
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Thank you sir
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Must watch video for every youth out there
Nice...I doing this since 4 yrs.. waiting for results 😊
I Don't drink tea
I don't eat any junk food
I don't watch reels
But i watch so many videos on self improvement 😢
Congratulations
But who cares?
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Thank you Vijender Sir
धन्यवाद गुरु जी ❤❤
Intermediaries are the major factor for an individual person's failure!!!!!
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Kya baat hae sir.
God bless you
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Sir bhaut hi acha session hai
Such me aaj tk ki bhaut hi life changing video
God bless you sir
Lots of Thanks for such an insightful meaningful valuable and key to achieve any success..
Plz keep on posting such imp lectures.
चलो इसको सब मिलकर ट्रेंडिंग में लाते है
Han Bhai 😊😊
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Delayed gratification is being good in all area. But any work should be in balance
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Thank you sir ji for making this video ❤
I Greatful to you for this season because I have experienced and it's wonderful and easy way for peace mind and happy life ,
आप हमेश सही समय पर हमारी सहायता करते है गुरुजी 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you sir .. I have got a lot to learn from you ❤
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Thank you sir...
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Wow, Thank you sir for that kind of content explanation......👍.
In short "keep patience" 😉
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Heartily thanks sir 😊
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Sir u are a gem ❤
Guru ji mai aapke pairo ko touch karke pranam Karta hu
You are very very great person ❤
Thank you, sir
For this video
I will definitely try this.
गज़ब विडियो बनाते हैं आप सर !
Sabhi ko automic habit pdni chahiye bhot help milegi usse hmne pdi h or social media se kafi door h
Thank you sir for this video
Great video sir . thank you so much ❤️
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Thanks sir ❤
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Sir ka mind bahut tez hai ❤
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