Since I know this song, I always cried. It's not because I lost someone, but myself. It's like I ask myself what do I want before I go.. What should I do for make me feel better at my whortless. Thank you Lewis, you've done a good song ever for my depression.. And this is for you who scrolling the comment and in the same state with me. You're amazing, you're deserve better for your life. Thank you for stay alive. You can, we can♡
The fact that in each clip the girl is smiling and laughing and looks as if she’s always so happy and then the ending.. just proves that anybody could be struggling no matter the situation. Always be kind, you never know how much just a smile could help someone. Love you Lewis and this song ❤️
The premier was amazing I watched the whole thing!!!. This song is my favourite song ever now!. It was someone you loved but now it is by far this song!!!.
"When I was about five or six I think, my aunt committed suicide and just remember recently speaking to my mum about their feelings, her feelings about going through that sort of rigmarole in your head of, “What could I have done here? Could I have done anything?”- Lewis Capaldi This song is so sad yet so beautiful. Thank you for sharing something that is so personal to you Lewis. And to anyone out there struggling, as corny as it sounds, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. People love and care about you. You got this, always keep fighting! :)
@@jack-er5bz well I learned something new but either way that's some terrible news to here n it makes it even more sad after all he keeps making these sad songs but they are all special and have meanings
i remember this song coming on while i was sitting on my room floor and was contemplating self-harm/suicide, and this came on shuffle and i listened to the lyrics and sobbed. i know that you won't see this, but thank you for helping me. i finally told my parents what was happening and they got me the help i needed. thank you so much Edits; 1. thanks for the support everyone 2. thank you for standing up to the trolls everyone who said such nice things! 3. evidently the trolls weren't reading properly, i shared my story on here to let people know that they can get through the tough times even if it doesn't seem like it, and i was thanking lewis for creating such a moving song. 4. thank you for all of the likes, almost 2k people!
Knowing he wrote this song for his aunt who lost the battle to suicide, makes this song much more meaningful. I lost my significant other due to suicide 8 years ago...if I ever write a book and it becomes a movie...this would have to be the theme song.
Yea I believe that it would be perfect theme song.. I almost lost my battle to suicide too 8 years ago.. This song hits me pretty weirdly.. It's very strong one.
how do yoiu know it is his aunt that died? anyway Im so sorry for him his trouble through out life makes me want to cry. Who ever disliked this needs to get there ears checked lol
I recently just found this song and i cant help but cry to it. I was at my aunts house when she lost the battle. It's the scariest thing i've ever seen and i found this and it has been my song to cry to and helping me through this time. Lewis if you ever read this comment i want you to know that if weren't for finding this song 2 days after she did that i would've joined her. So i just wanted to thank you for writing this. It has meant SO MUCH to me and is just helping me not give into the battle.
Yes, many people would tell me I'm so skinny and start to constantly say that and I'm just really hurt but I laugh it off so people don't see me being hurt in the inside
“Time can heal, but this wont”. This so true. Family and friends left will be hurt forever and will think its their fault. To all people struggling, please seek help. You are not alone. Yes, it is difficult but please hold on, you can get through this.
This song is not so much about the person who makes a decision to leave this world, but about the agony, what if's (potential feelings of shock, guilt, what if's/if only's) and the never ending torment of those who live this reality: it is a harsh reality; on both sides. It resonates with those who live with this "reality". My heart aches for my own loss (of course!) but also for those who have to live their lives forward xx
To anyone who feels alone... to anyone who feels like they can't help themselves... to anyone who feels like they aren't good enough... to anyone who feels like they are worthless and not cared about... to anyone who is just suffering and begging for help... It's okay. You're not alone. Maybe you can help someone else and you can find a way to help yourself. Your skin isn't paper, don't cut it. Your face isn't a mask, don't cover it. Your body isn't a book, don't judge it. Your life isn't a movie, don't end it. Your heart isn't a door, don't lock it. You're beautiful💓 Be you... Read this if you have ever felt alone, suicidal, depressed, lost, scared, worthless, abandoned, or anything of that nature, this is for you! YOU are beautiful YOU are wanted YOU are wonderful YOU are enough Don’t quit on yourself. Don’t hurt yourself. You are worth the world and nobody wants to see you suffering!! This is not the end, the way you feel right now will pass. Believe me. Things will get better!! Don’t do something permanent over something temporary. You are better than that. All stars need to see darkness before the light. And always remember: don’t change so that people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will find and love the real you! Your Own Unique Mindset Always Try To Engage in the Right ways... Now read the first letter of every word... Y O U M A T T E R!!! No matter what other people may say. Always remember you matter, just like anybody else. You are perfect, just the way you are! You are worth the time to write this, I care about you! Continue on, be a soldier, fight that war because I know you can win. I believe in you, I am rooting for you!! Don’t stop moving! You are enough dear!! Spread the love ❤️
I always suspected this song was about suicide and that's why it resonated with me so much. I am so glad that something so touchy and so important to talk about was put in such a beautiful format. Thank you, Lewis, for creating an anthem that speaks so truthfully and connects with so many people. This truly is a work of art and I hope everyone who listens to it takes the message and does good with it
Lost my high school best friend to suicide this year. This song brings me to tears everytime I hear it. Every word hits me like a sledgehammer. If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather. Miss you James. Love you brotha.
@@Rcganti it gets better every day. I'll never understand, and I don't attempt to, honestly. I just have to keep going on, and try to "live with it" as best I can. Thank you all for your posts.
I love this song and this is the first time I saw the video. I can't stop crying. Have you ever been in a position where you have to make a choice? The path is breaking off into three or four different branches and you stand there, waiting not knowing which way to choose because you don't want to make a mistake. If you do, what will you do? That's where I am. I write and I wrote like a journal entry and a poem about this. I am not at the point where I would do something drastic, but I'm not okay either. I do have a mental illness, but it isn't always about that. It's about how we feel about ourselves and how we need to have peace inside. I'm working on me. I hide myself away because I don't want to be a burden and I've been betrayed by people in my life....family and friends have hurt me. So I just want to thank Lewis Capaldi for putting into words my thoughts sometimes. And if you are reading this, I am stronger than you know for writing this for everyone to see. I'll be damned if I allow where I am to trap me. It's a stepping stone to I don;t know where, but I can't wait to see what my future holds for me. There is nothing more that I would rather do than to show those who betrayed me and the naysayers just how strong I truly am.
nicolejedward I know right 😭❤️ this song is seriously so amazing! I loved reading your comment too! I just posted a cover of Lewis capaldi on my page I’d love to hear what you think :)
I used to feel this way, but I was able to overcome it with the help of my family and friends once I overcame the fear of shame and thinking they wouldn't understand. Now I know someone who says she feels this way on a somewhat regular basis. I tried to help her and be there for her when she would let me, empathize, be positive, offer encouragement, and try to make her happy. But things have gotten really bad for her the last few weeks, and she's dealing with an immense amount of stress on top of her depression and anxiety, and she's pushed me away. I can't help wishing I could have done more, or could be doing more. Even though I believe she's strong enough to not take the final option, I'm just so very worried about her and holding out hope that she'll be able to get herself to a better place soon. 👻, if you watch this video and see this comment, please know that you are NOT worthless, that things WILL get better, and you have more people out there that love you, care about you, and believe in you than you sometimes realize or are willing to admit to yourself. And we're all here for you and ready to help you get through this when you're ready to let us. That goes for everyone else out there too. You have more people around you that are willing to help than you realize. Yeah, there will always be a few people that can't comprehend how anyone could ever feel this way, and won't understand what you're going through. But there are far more people around you that do, or will at least try to understand, and they'll be relieved that you reached out to them for their help.
@@nicolejedward You're very welcome! I hope it helps you. I just heard this song for the 1st time a few days ago, and when I heard him sing that line it was instantly like a punch to the heart and gut, bringing up memories of my own struggles, and reminding me of what she's going through. But within a few moments there was also this soothing calm that fell over me, because it also reminded me that I got through it, and there are other people out there, like Lewis, that can at least relate to the people that do struggle with it.
as someone who struggles with suicidal thoughts and depression, you can’t imagine how much this song means to me. thank you lewis for speaking to so many hearts
I'm happy to hear that, I hope you will never have such thoughts cause I seriously don't know how to live if someone else decides to end their life, I know my words could not be that worthy but i just wanted to say that today's sun was so precious to do that
This song hit home in every way. I lost my husband to suicide 8 months ago, we had just celebrated 15 years of marriage, he left me with our 2 boys (14 and 10) life will never be the same. I have his ashes, I talk to him, I ask questions, he started suffering from depression after his father passed away in 2019, he was under psychiatric care, but I had no idea he was suicidal. The day he took his life, was the worst day of my life. He took his life in a location that our kids wouldn't find him, but it was the 1st place I looked for him. I still have that image, I still hear myself screaming, I remember calling 911, I still remember the police staying at my side the entire night not allowing anyone to come near or talk to me unless I said it was okay, I remember another officer not allowing my kids to come out of the house to protect them from seeing anything. Dec 2nd 2021 forever changed my life. I was in a fog and numb until I returned to work in January. My boys are at the age that they need their dad and he isn't here, I have been leaning on uncle's to help guide the boys. I played this song on their Dad's birthday recently as we decided to celebrate his birthday instead of mourning him (like his mother decided to do) I only want my children to mourn their fathers death on the day he passed, not on his birthday as well. My MIL hates me for that but I am doing what is best for MY children... Sorry for rambling...
Hey Amy, So sad to read this. I pray your heart heals. Losing a loved one is the worse pain ever...I'm dealing with the pain of losing my dad too. #'Sendingyoucyberhugs
As someone who struggle in the past with depression and suicidal thoughts this song got me right in the feels lol if you’re reading this and you struggled with the same… I love you.
I wish i knew... Im always telling people they are worth every minute... I make so many people happy.. I dont have happiness for myself i watch other people be happy an smile, when they leave i cry all to myself thinking bad things... I love them an i wanna watch my sisters grow i wanna be here... But it all hurts so much and no one sees that I'm dying, will anyone ever see? Will anyone ever ask me if im okay? Could someone hold me threw the darks nights.. But.. Im fine 😊
@@DarkAngel-kt8if No, you are not fine. Don't try to be strong for other people. It's very great and brave that you help them, but you should speak to them about your feelings , too. If you ever need to talk to somebody, you can come back here, whenever.
"If only I'd have know you had a storm to weather.. " This sentence brokes me, it proves that no matter how much we think to know a person, basically we only see what it decides to show us 😔
Completely heartbreaking. If only they could see themselves the way you and others see them. I've tried to tell her that so many times, but it hasn't gotten through to her yet.
@@serenityrosequartz Either they don't understand how you feel, or you need to surround yourself with better people that will tell you how wonderful and special you are, and how great you make them feel when they're around you.
He is a good change for this crazy industry, he is talented, he doesn’t promote ,,face” but Music, he doesn’t do drugs, curse, no nudity, just pure talent.
I scroll and scroll... and i feel every comment. The sadness. The pain. The hardship. The loss. And i feel the love, and the memories, and the heart... this song can truly drag you heart out. And show whats truly going on in your life.... this is how we has humans grow... with things like this, that bring our hearts out to... just feel... we all have to feel... especially rn... so lets feel... with this song.
Imagine that, Lewis capaldi and James Arthur make a collab, how many peoples that you want to try to break their heart through a song 💔 When I heard this song for the first time, i didn't ever think that this song describe about someone lose a BF/GF, I just thought how God ways to take away my father 7 years ago, and I have to lose my brother too 7 months ago because of an accident 🥀🥀💔 I wish the both of u can get a true happiness in there ❣️
@@ellalawrence4642 because of an accident, when my brother went to office then a pickup car drove up too fast in that was time the pickup car in the red light and my brother in the green light, on video shows me the pickup car has broken up traffic rules, because of besides the pickup car there was 2 motorcycle which has showed me that the motorcycle really stopped.
The whole scene shows how she was being an angel to everyone and probably saves those ppl's lives from depression, but at the ending u realize she didn't have an angel to save her herself😢
My sister just took her own life in April. Every night when I go to sleep all of these thoughts keep rushing in my head. I keep picturing myself walking in at the right time and saying the right thing. I miss and love her so much.
“Was never the right time when you called”. Dude that hits deep. I’d give anything to hear my moms voice again. But when I could...it was never the right time.
Midoriblitz A hard lesson learned was “make the time”. If my family calls, I stop what I’m doing now and take the call. You never know if it’s the last time you’ll be able to.
HEY! I know ur crying right now, sad and depressed, just want u to know that you will get through this, and there's someone who loves u that is God, He's always with u okay! Wipe your tears Fighting with you! I love you💕💪
Clarice Cunan God is so good! No matter in which situation we are, he wants to spend time with us, be there for us and show us how much we mean to him🙏🏾
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No he doesn't if he did he would want me to be happy but instead evtytime somthing hood happens in my life gets taken away and if he did he would not have let me be abused when I was younger
This was me and my dads fav song. Till he sadly passed away. Its hard how to explain how a song can bring you so much joy, but so much pain at the same time. Ty Lewis for this amazing song, and rip the legend himself.
Sorry for your loss.I just lost two people within a week and yeah it definitely sucks .May they all rest in peace and hope they're all in a much better place .🙏😔
As someone who has survived a suicide attempt recently, this hits hard. Such a powerful, emotional song. His voice is just so amazing. Now I work really hard on myself. Getting the help I need. I know it's easier said than done, but please never give up. I know, I've been there. You are stronger than you think. It's just not worth it. You're here for a reason. ❤️❤️
Tho I'm just a stranger, I believe that you can pull yourself out. Always remember, your life is yours alone, don't let you mind control it and spoil ur moments ^^
We live in a toxic world where people's opinions define us and it's not suppose d to be that way so if you are reading this your loved and appreciated. Your mistakes dont define you neither your insecurities stay blessed.
"Was there something that I could have said to make it all stop hurting?" My dad didn't commit suicide, but he died from cancer. I still wish I had told him I loved him before he passed away. This song has the power to speak to people on an emotional level. Even though he's singing for his aunt that committed suicide, it's a song that can reflect on any heartbreaking death. Rest in peace to anyone who suffered during their life.
I'm so sorry to hear this. But even though you never told him you love him, you showed him how much you love him. Action speaks louder than words. In this world, you don't have to tell someone you love them for them to know you love them, the little things you do says it all for you. So please don't feel guilty or anything, he knew that you loved him and he will watch over you no matter what. Take care and be happy♥️
I listened to this song a year ago, ready to give up and end everything. I didn’t see a way out of the suffering. I ended up in a mental hospital for 4 weeks. But I kept going, made changes and now I own my own business, have purpose in my life and for the first time in my 26 years of life I feel a sense of excitement for my future. Sure, I still struggle most days, but I’m so happy I didn’t give up. Don’t give up on yourself. Keep going. Your mind will take control if you let it. Stay strong, stay here, I love you ❤
“When you hurt underneath the surface , like troubled water running cold. Well time can heal but this won’t”. How have so many people unliked this song ?? It’s so pure.
As someone who was suicidal as a teenager, this song hits me on a different level. To anyone out there that feels suicidal and thinks it’s the only way out - please know that whatever you are going through will pass and that it does get better. Anything good or bad going on in your life right now is temporary. Don’t make a permanent decision for a temporary problem.
Thank you and I mean it I'm a teen and I've thought about comiting suicide and sometimes I still do I'm in tears right now plz contact me on Snapchat and maybe we can talk. kingqdog1128
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I recently lost my best friend to suicide. And the part that hurts the most is that we’ve been best friends since we were 10 years old, I’m 34 now, yet I didn’t even see the signs. Nothing showed that there was anything wrong. She never had a history with depression or self harm. She always seemed so happy. And looking back now, the only thing that stands out, is that a week before she died, she made sure that we spent a lot of time together doing all kinds of things we’ve always wanted to do together before we die. And because she was always so adventurous, it didn’t strike me as odd. It didn’t hit me until I got the letter she left me after we found her. I’ll put a small part below. “ I need you to know that This last week we spent going on adventures we only use to talk about, were some of the best times I’ve ever had in my life. I’m beyond grateful that the best parts of my life always had you in them. I know you’re probably very angry with me, confused, upset and more, but you need to understand there’s nothing no one could have done. And please don’t think I hated my life because I didn’t. I had one of the best lives anyone could ask for. Just sometimes something happens that changes everything. And sometimes that change can’t be fixed. If I wanted someone to know what was going on inside, I would have made sure you knew. But I didn’t want you to know because you would have done everything to change my mind. And even if I had changed my mind, the pain would have still been there and it would have continued to eat away at me inside, more and more as time went on. That’s why I wanted to make the last few days memorable. Something we will never forget. Please know that my life was complete. I had everything I could ever want. Sometimes tho, there are things that just take over that you can’t get away from. So even if you’re mad at me right now, I hope one day you will forgive me for leaving you like this. But just know, I’m never really gone. I will leave you little clues that Ive been there and will always be there. Please continue to go on adventures and things we talked about doing together. I promise I will be with you when you do them. Even if you can’t see me. I promise I will be there. Thank you for being the bright shining star in this world of darkness that I have always known as life. We will be reunited again. I promise. I love you forever MiMi, my better half, my best friend” The first part of the letter explain something that happened to her that none of us knew about. And I believe that played a big part in her taking her life. But the point is, no matter how happy someone seems, no matter how perfect and normal everything on the outside seems, it’s not always the case on the inside. And if someone doesn’t want to be saved or if they have completely given up the fight and have accepted their decision and their fate, we will never know until it’s too late. I know that sounds harsh but it’s true. My best friend went through something so traumatic that she didn’t tell ANYONE. And it ate at her until it consumed her and took her life. Do I believe that if she told me or someone that she would still be here? Absolutely! Of course I believe that. But like she said, the pain would have still been there and it wouldn’t have changed the damage that was done to her. I haven’t accepted the fact that this is what my life is now and I probably never will, who knows, but instead of being angry with “Lissa” for leaving me the way she did, I’m going for be grateful for all the years I got with her, and all the memories we made together. I am still angry and hurt and confused and in denial. But I don’t love her any less. I just wish I saw it ahead of time. But if someone doesn’t want you to know what’s going on, they will hide it from you until it’s too late. Her brother sang this song at her funeral and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to listen to. This song always made me feel sad and heartbroken for anyone going through it when I would hear This song. But now it makes me feel much different when I hear it because I can relate to it 100%. I am so sorry for anyone who has ever felt like this and to anyone who has ever lost their life to depression, it’s one of the worst deaths to ever experience mainly because it leaves only unknown reasons and questions of why and feelings of anger and confusion. I really hope Lissa is in a better place and that she’s happier and not feeling any pain. I look forward to her showing me signs that she’s around. I’m always looking for signs. And I know one day I will be reunited with her again. RIP beautiful guardian angel. I hope you’re in a much better place 🥹😭💔
That's literally me 😢 But I am tired of being what I am not so idc if someone is in good mood or not. I wanna be myself forever. No one ever respects my feelings and they don't know how I feel everyday and no one in the world knows the real me 🥺😭
100 Reasons To Stay Alive ❤️❤️❤️ 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favourite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favourite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favourite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains. 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favourite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. feeling of being loved 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favourite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realising that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you love. 75. Spending the whole day in bed. 76. Eating a whole pint of your favourite ice cream. 77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky. 78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.) 79. Bonfires and s'mores. 80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them. 81. Coming home to someone you love. 82. The colour of autumn leaves when they change. Summer. 83. Singing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends. 84. Cuddling. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Someone’s skin against yours. 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favourite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you did it. PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live. Edit: Thank you for the likes, I don't really think I deserved them! Just doing what you need!
For those who are depress trust me when I say this, one day you’ll find a reason to live. You’ll find your purpose and you’ll see how beautiful life and living is. You’ll see that you’re not alone, that you shouldn’t be scared and that it’s okay to make mistakes. Just hang on a little longer, just stay strong a little more and before you know it you’ll see the light at the end of the tunnel. You’ll see your worth and how amazing you are as a person. You’ll see that other people love you and need you in their lives. Look at yourself in the mirror and smile at yourself everyday because each smile will get you closer to loving yourself and becoming the best version of yourself. Don’t think you’re alone; you’re there, I’m here, we’re all here for you ☺️ So stay strong and keep fighting because it’s never a losing battle when you know yourself best.
in 2020 my uncle took his life, i was living with him at the time, and the night he took his life we were sitting together listening to music. i didnt know that would be the last time we sat and talk. i eventually left to go hang out with friends. i told him that i would be back. i crashed out at a friends and my phone died. when i finally got it charged and check my messages and find out that he was gone. i didnt want to believe it. i was mad at everyone who was telling me that he was gone and he took his life. i thought it was a sick joke. i listen to this song on repeat after he passed, laying in his room. this song still hits me today i wish i could have shared this song with him rip uncle duk i miss you so much,
You hv gained an angel to look after u and direct u in ur lifes adventures..ive attemptd suicide 3 time n found on each occasion suffer bad with depression most my life..but im glad im still here..watever road we are on it wasnt my time to go
I had no idea this was about suicide. This breaks my heart. We need to TALK TALK TALK about mental health!! It is NOTHING to be ashamed of!! I deal with depression and anxiety everyday and it is REAL. You are LOVED❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So true. Mental illness deserves more recognition. It is just as serious as any health condition or disease. It kills people every year. People who didnt actually want to die, but just couldnt bare to deal with the pain. Sorry if im rambling, but i feel strongly about what you have said. To whoevers reading this: I wish you a life of happiness and i will probably never meet you in person, but i will always care about you. Have a wonderful day.
When a man tells you who he is believe them. I'll have all the compassion in the world for him but guaranteed he's broke more hearts and brought more damage to women's lives than a lot of other men ever have.
@@joemgabuay5413 be very good but wouldn't be as good just like if Lewis sang his.. no-one does it better than the original the original is how it's meant to be
It’s been six years and there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t wish my friend hadn’t made that final choice. His pain is over, but those that are left on his absence will always carry this hurt.
@@Lexi-tn7ej he had a massive stomach tattoo of a church on fire. I can assure you, if he is above, he is not praying. Maybe dancing, but thank you for the sentiment.
When my auntie needed surgery in her legs and doctors said she needed it. An that morning before surgery I asked if she needed anything, was there anything that I can do for you. An she said live. After she said that to me I cried while I looked in her eyes and I said i will live. An i left the room and held the door and cried so hard. Then she went through surgery and had a compilation that hurt her and she died the table. I SCREAMED SO HARD I HATED THAT IT HAPPENED TO A BEAUTIFUL WOAMN MY AUNTIE MOM!!! An no I listen to this song for her cause I asked before you go was there anything I can do for you. An she said LIVE!!! An now until this day I miss her and this song reminds me of her.
It's almost the end of 2024 and I am still here. I can never get over this song. Lewis Capaldi hits differently. His songs, lyrics, and emotions are so beautifully expressed is just beyond amazing!!
When I was in hospital after a suicide attempt I had this song on repeat, all day, everyday and I just knew there was a reason it resonated with me so much. When my mum heard it she said that she felt like the song was about me every time she heard it.
But isn't that a part of the mysterious horror of suicide...loved ones don't always know and those suffering from suicidality don't want to be a burden to loved ones or to others. ❤
Since I know this song, I always cried. It's not because I lost someone, but myself. It's like I ask myself what do I want before I go.. What should I do for make me feel better at my whortless. Thank you Lewis, you've done a good song ever for my depression..
And this is for you who scrolling the comment and in the same state with me. You're amazing, you're deserve better for your life. Thank you for stay alive. You can, we can♡
you too
ofcourse we can Astin, no need to be worried 🙂
thank you for being here too 💕
Yes
F
The fact that in each clip the girl is smiling and laughing and looks as if she’s always so happy and then the ending.. just proves that anybody could be struggling no matter the situation. Always be kind, you never know how much just a smile could help someone.
Love you Lewis and this song ❤️
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
This hit me right in the feels, tears poured down my face from the line "It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless"
Che gnocca! Bellissima 😘
th-cam.com/video/2vgWYGlrZSM/w-d-xo.html
Riva Portell wow
I don’t understand what your saying
Lewis is such a huge inspiration to me, I hope at some point I can sing with him 🙏
Srsly, who's ready for the video? 😁💪
Tom The Fusician
How did you even comment so early??? This only came out for me two minutes ago.
DemonQueen 2003 me too 😂
@@loveatlas8904 im a magician I guess lol
The premier was amazing I watched the whole thing!!!. This song is my favourite song ever now!. It was someone you loved but now it is by far this song!!!.
If my tears were colourful, my pillow would be the best painting in the world.💞
this the greatest comment I've ever read 🤍
Damn bruh. 😭😭😭
Sky lee💞 forever
No it would be a mess of colors.
Most beautiful comment I've ever read.... wow!!!
"When I was about five or six I think, my aunt committed suicide and just remember recently speaking to my mum about their feelings, her feelings about going through that sort of rigmarole in your head of, “What could I have done here? Could I have done anything?”- Lewis Capaldi
This song is so sad yet so beautiful. Thank you for sharing something that is so personal to you Lewis. And to anyone out there struggling, as corny as it sounds, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. People love and care about you. You got this, always keep fighting! :)
Wow I'm sorry to hear about your story and for myself I guess I'm kinda struggling but I'll be alright hopefully
@@itsvela15 that was about Lewis lol
@@jack-er5bz well I learned something new but either way that's some terrible news to here n it makes it even more sad after all he keeps making these sad songs but they are all special and have meanings
Grace Williams his story is so same to the protagonist from perks of being a wallflower
The words U just said inspired me
i remember this song coming on while i was sitting on my room floor and was contemplating self-harm/suicide, and this came on shuffle and i listened to the lyrics and sobbed. i know that you won't see this, but thank you for helping me. i finally told my parents what was happening and they got me the help i needed. thank you so much
Edits;
1. thanks for the support everyone
2. thank you for standing up to the trolls everyone who said such nice things!
3. evidently the trolls weren't reading properly, i shared my story on here to let people know that they can get through the tough times even if it doesn't seem like it, and i was thanking lewis for creating such a moving song.
4. thank you for all of the likes, almost 2k people!
I’m so proud of you ❤️. You got this and stay strong❤️❤️
u did a great Job Proud of you
Youve got this. Stay strong ❤❤❤
Very proud of you
Hugs for you
Knowing he wrote this song for his aunt who lost the battle to suicide, makes this song much more meaningful. I lost my significant other due to suicide 8 years ago...if I ever write a book and it becomes a movie...this would have to be the theme song.
Yea I believe that it would be perfect theme song.. I almost lost my battle to suicide too 8 years ago.. This song hits me pretty weirdly.. It's very strong one.
My condolences ❤️
I losy my cat amd i cry every day
Well good luck your dream. This song is so sad now that I know what it means
how do yoiu know it is his aunt that died? anyway Im so sorry for him his trouble through out life makes me want to cry. Who ever disliked this needs to get there ears checked lol
I recently just found this song and i cant help but cry to it. I was at my aunts house when she lost the battle. It's the scariest thing i've ever seen and i found this and it has been my song to cry to and helping me through this time. Lewis if you ever read this comment i want you to know that if weren't for finding this song 2 days after she did that i would've joined her. So i just wanted to thank you for writing this. It has meant SO MUCH to me and is just helping me not give into the battle.
stay strong and positive please
I'm sorry for your loss. I'm watching my father slowly die, from stage 4 cancer. I'm his only child and all he's got. Literally makes me bawl!
@@ehopkins3114 I'm sorry to hear that but you can make it through it. I believe in you
@Ash-da-bash Thank you! I've managed for almost 14 years. I refuse to give up!! I've got 4 other children, depending on me!
Do you ever just start crying and lay down and realize nobody really knows how hurt you are.....
yea
Yea...😔😞😭
Yes, many people would tell me I'm so skinny and start to constantly say that and I'm just really hurt but I laugh it off so people don't see me being hurt in the inside
As sad as it is yep😭😔
Yes. Every night
“Time can heal, but this wont”. This so true. Family and friends left will be hurt forever and will think its their fault. To all people struggling, please seek help. You are not alone. Yes, it is difficult but please hold on, you can get through this.
Most people who meet me hate me
Well.... How do you get over a permanent mental illness?
Hasn't um.. Been moving.. 😂
@@tannorthacker4234 every friends parents hate me. Dont understand why
There will be someone out there who loves you and understands you!
This song was about his aunt who died, the emotion is so real and you can hear that in his voice, such a great singer
This song just melts my heeart
This song was made before my girlfriend left me as I mentioned the song to her
I know because I got an ad that told me
I love this song it's beautiful I sing it in the shower all day😍
Charlie Ryan are you for real or you just guessing
This song is not so much about the person who makes a decision to leave this world, but about the agony, what if's (potential feelings of shock, guilt, what if's/if only's) and the never ending torment of those who live this reality: it is a harsh reality; on both sides. It resonates with those who live with this "reality". My heart aches for my own loss (of course!) but also for those who have to live their lives forward xx
"it's crazy how your mind can make you feel so worthless....."
I felt that
It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless*
Purple Slurpee ya
@@purpIeslurpee thanks
Right when I pasted your comment that part of the. Song past
Same
To anyone who feels alone...
to anyone who feels like they can't help themselves...
to anyone who feels like they aren't good enough...
to anyone who feels like they are worthless and not cared about...
to anyone who is just suffering and begging for help...
It's okay. You're not alone. Maybe you can help someone else and you can find a way to help yourself.
Your skin isn't paper, don't cut it.
Your face isn't a mask, don't cover it.
Your body isn't a book, don't judge it.
Your life isn't a movie, don't end it.
Your heart isn't a door, don't lock it.
You're beautiful💓
Be you...
Read this if you have ever felt alone, suicidal, depressed, lost, scared, worthless, abandoned, or anything of that nature, this is for you!
YOU are beautiful
YOU are wanted
YOU are wonderful
YOU are enough
Don’t quit on yourself. Don’t hurt yourself. You are worth the world and nobody wants to see you suffering!! This is not the end, the way you feel right now will pass. Believe me. Things will get better!! Don’t do something permanent over something temporary. You are better than that. All stars need to see darkness before the light. And always remember: don’t change so that people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will find and love the real you!
Your
Own
Unique
Mindset
Always
Try
To
Engage in the
Right ways...
Now read the first letter of every word...
Y O U M A T T E R!!!
No matter what other people may say. Always remember you matter, just like anybody else. You are perfect, just the way you are! You are worth the time to write this, I care about you!
Continue on, be a soldier, fight that war because I know you can win. I believe in you, I am rooting for you!!
Don’t stop moving!
You are enough dear!!
Spread the love ❤️
Thank you❤️
Our Face Needs Mask
To Protect Our Selves From COVID-19
Dang _ItsShadow lmao
@@cosmocat23 XD
Thx for the motivation
The way Lewis constantly feeds us with content tho we stan (1) America’s Sweetheart
Brie Cheese America can’t claim him he’s all ours
brie i see you
i swear hes scottish
JustAnotherSenpai he is but he calls himself America’s Sweetheart
@@Brianna17238 oh right
Anyone listening with me in November 2024?
Always
Yes
Yes
It' so .....
Me!!!!!!!!❤😂!¡!!!!!!!!
This song definitely proven that behind every smile, lies a thousand tears and sadness
so deep:'(
It's so true😥💕
6 Hill 3t
Lfxkkeoo ❤️ Tag t😆😆😆🤣🥰🥰
Farishah Amani you are right !
I always suspected this song was about suicide and that's why it resonated with me so much. I am so glad that something so touchy and so important to talk about was put in such a beautiful format. Thank you, Lewis, for creating an anthem that speaks so truthfully and connects with so many people. This truly is a work of art and I hope everyone who listens to it takes the message and does good with it
Behind the scenes footage. th-cam.com/video/A16ajmr-OYg/w-d-xo.html
How do you have so many goddamn likes?!
if i'm not mistaken, its about his family member that suicided :'(
This song is about his aunt who had committed suicide x
Seriously?
Lost my high school best friend to suicide this year. This song brings me to tears everytime I hear it. Every word hits me like a sledgehammer. If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather. Miss you James. Love you brotha.
Omg I'm so sorry to hear that...
And so sorry for your lost...
Jesus Cristo is the way for your life to find peace and the fulfillment of your existential void
I'm so sorry are you ok?
@@Rcganti it gets better every day. I'll never understand, and I don't attempt to, honestly. I just have to keep going on, and try to "live with it" as best I can. Thank you all for your posts.
I love this song and this is the first time I saw the video. I can't stop crying. Have you ever been in a position where you have to make a choice? The path is breaking off into three or four different branches and you stand there, waiting not knowing which way to choose because you don't want to make a mistake. If you do, what will you do? That's where I am. I write and I wrote like a journal entry and a poem about this. I am not at the point where I would do something drastic, but I'm not okay either. I do have a mental illness, but it isn't always about that. It's about how we feel about ourselves and how we need to have peace inside. I'm working on me. I hide myself away because I don't want to be a burden and I've been betrayed by people in my life....family and friends have hurt me. So I just want to thank Lewis Capaldi for putting into words my thoughts sometimes. And if you are reading this, I am stronger than you know for writing this for everyone to see. I'll be damned if I allow where I am to trap me. It's a stepping stone to I don;t know where, but I can't wait to see what my future holds for me. There is nothing more that I would rather do than to show those who betrayed me and the naysayers just how strong I truly am.
Wow. This is so powerful.
“It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless” 😭😭😭 the most relatable lyric ever!! Love the video, well done king xx 💋
nicolejedward I know right 😭❤️ this song is seriously so amazing! I loved reading your comment too! I just posted a cover of Lewis capaldi on my page I’d love to hear what you think :)
I used to feel this way, but I was able to overcome it with the help of my family and friends once I overcame the fear of shame and thinking they wouldn't understand. Now I know someone who says she feels this way on a somewhat regular basis. I tried to help her and be there for her when she would let me, empathize, be positive, offer encouragement, and try to make her happy. But things have gotten really bad for her the last few weeks, and she's dealing with an immense amount of stress on top of her depression and anxiety, and she's pushed me away. I can't help wishing I could have done more, or could be doing more. Even though I believe she's strong enough to not take the final option, I'm just so very worried about her and holding out hope that she'll be able to get herself to a better place soon. 👻, if you watch this video and see this comment, please know that you are NOT worthless, that things WILL get better, and you have more people out there that love you, care about you, and believe in you than you sometimes realize or are willing to admit to yourself. And we're all here for you and ready to help you get through this when you're ready to let us.
That goes for everyone else out there too. You have more people around you that are willing to help than you realize. Yeah, there will always be a few people that can't comprehend how anyone could ever feel this way, and won't understand what you're going through. But there are far more people around you that do, or will at least try to understand, and they'll be relieved that you reached out to them for their help.
Skyline Billy needed to read this right now. Thanks for the reply! 😀
@@nicolejedward You're very welcome! I hope it helps you. I just heard this song for the 1st time a few days ago, and when I heard him sing that line it was instantly like a punch to the heart and gut, bringing up memories of my own struggles, and reminding me of what she's going through. But within a few moments there was also this soothing calm that fell over me, because it also reminded me that I got through it, and there are other people out there, like Lewis, that can at least relate to the people that do struggle with it.
nicolejedward 😢🥺♥️
as someone who struggles with suicidal thoughts and depression, you can’t imagine how much this song means to me. thank you lewis for speaking to so many hearts
🙏🏽❤️
❤
I'm happy to hear that, I hope you will never have such thoughts cause I seriously don't know how to live if someone else decides to end their life, I know my words could not be that worthy but i just wanted to say that today's sun was so precious to do that
Thank you for living, your life soo precious 💙💜💚🧡💛❤
Listens to billie Elish once
This song hit home in every way. I lost my husband to suicide 8 months ago, we had just celebrated 15 years of marriage, he left me with our 2 boys (14 and 10) life will never be the same. I have his ashes, I talk to him, I ask questions, he started suffering from depression after his father passed away in 2019, he was under psychiatric care, but I had no idea he was suicidal. The day he took his life, was the worst day of my life. He took his life in a location that our kids wouldn't find him, but it was the 1st place I looked for him. I still have that image, I still hear myself screaming, I remember calling 911, I still remember the police staying at my side the entire night not allowing anyone to come near or talk to me unless I said it was okay, I remember another officer not allowing my kids to come out of the house to protect them from seeing anything. Dec 2nd 2021 forever changed my life. I was in a fog and numb until I returned to work in January. My boys are at the age that they need their dad and he isn't here, I have been leaning on uncle's to help guide the boys. I played this song on their Dad's birthday recently as we decided to celebrate his birthday instead of mourning him (like his mother decided to do) I only want my children to mourn their fathers death on the day he passed, not on his birthday as well. My MIL hates me for that but I am doing what is best for MY children... Sorry for rambling...
Hey Amy, So sad to read this. I pray your heart heals. Losing a loved one is the worse pain ever...I'm dealing with the pain of losing my dad too. #'Sendingyoucyberhugs
Hugs 🤗
Sorry for you loss :( im heartbroken for you, i wish you all the best ❤
The stories are different but suffering is permanent...You are a doll in God's Play ಥ‿ಥ
omg im sorry for your lost
I miss you rosemary..cancer took you but my heart is with you.i miss you mum 😊
😭🥺🥹
❤❤
“Suicide doesn’t end the pain. It just passes it to someone that loves you”
THATS FREAKING DEEP
Yeah that’s true,I was thinking about doing that and I saw a video that said that exact same thing,so here I am!
simplymixqii love you don’t ever consider that again
ye.
Lewis make my life. Thank U. Mela Koerner
My best friend lost his battle to depression Friday. This song is hitting home. I loved him more than anything in this world.
I'm so sorry, sending love and support
I'm so sorry I hope you doing ok
Breathe
I am so sorry for your lost, take as much time as you want to heal.
How are you dealing?
As someone who struggle in the past with depression and suicidal thoughts this song got me right in the feels lol if you’re reading this and you struggled with the same… I love you.
@🌠🌠😊😊 2:10 2:11 2:12 2:13 2:13
❤
Thank you 😞
I am struggling with depression ,anxiety and suicidal thoughts
💔 She left me 😢I'm hurting very bad
Lost my father to suicide. I hate it but I love this song. Thank you for the comfort and healing. God bless you Lewis!
Depression isn't easy, thank you Lewis for voicing us out ❤️
Yayane O I am tho
@Yayane O i can't- just because you're crying does NOT mean you have depression. Don't go around saying that, it won't be nice.
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢@allangomez6046
Qqq@@notmewrongbitch2906
I had a girlfriend who is in a different school than me I am now in 4th grade I have not seen her since second grade🥲
All of his songs are masterpieces, he’s incredible
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😂
The amount of times ive replayed this song is insane
Me too
Me too
sameeee
Ikr
Sammme.
Who is here 4 December 2024❤❤❤❤
Duh
you’ve saved everyone from depression
now who’s gonna save you?
💔💔
I felt this😭😭😭
I wish i knew... Im always telling people they are worth every minute... I make so many people happy.. I dont have happiness for myself i watch other people be happy an smile, when they leave i cry all to myself thinking bad things... I love them an i wanna watch my sisters grow i wanna be here... But it all hurts so much and no one sees that I'm dying, will anyone ever see? Will anyone ever ask me if im okay? Could someone hold me threw the darks nights.. But.. Im fine 😊
@@DarkAngel-kt8if No, you are not fine. Don't try to be strong for other people. It's very great and brave that you help them, but you should speak to them about your feelings , too. If you ever need to talk to somebody, you can come back here, whenever.
Nobody ill just smile thru the pain ☺️
"If only I'd have know you had a storm to weather.. " This sentence brokes me, it proves that no matter how much we think to know a person, basically we only see what it decides to show us 😔
😞
exactly
the song is sick 😊
It's not about the song, it's just the person that we're think about when we hear this song that make us cry.
M Russ believe me I crying for my self 😓
Yep and it sucks❤️
Anyone still listening to this song in 2024?
October ❤
Still here. I miss my dad
I just heard it for the first time! Love it!
November 😢😢
November❤️
“it kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless” when you love someone so much it stuns you that they can struggle loving themselves🥺
nada exactly
Holy shit the way you worded that hit me
Completely heartbreaking. If only they could see themselves the way you and others see them. I've tried to tell her that so many times, but it hasn't gotten through to her yet.
@@skylinebilly8646 i wish someone will tell me that but...no one..
@@serenityrosequartz Either they don't understand how you feel, or you need to surround yourself with better people that will tell you how wonderful and special you are, and how great you make them feel when they're around you.
I’m ready to get my heart broken by this video
well I'm expecting another pole dancing video to a sad song
Juniro that’s his beauty, a combination like no other
@@junrio7652 was hoping for a video like grace too haha
@@lillielaraway5519 not with a song like this lol
I cried for many reasons mostly depressed reasons
He is a good change for this crazy industry, he is talented, he doesn’t promote ,,face” but Music, he doesn’t do drugs, curse, no nudity, just pure talent.
Oh he curses, all right?
@@pepavasata6790 maybe he meant to say not curse in his songs
Behind the scenes footage revealed. th-cam.com/video/pcLH1rkmytk/w-d-xo.html
Gourav Sharma he has cursed in some songs, just not a whole lot
Gourav Sharma But he does curse in his songs...
I scroll and scroll... and i feel every comment. The sadness. The pain. The hardship. The loss. And i feel the love, and the memories, and the heart... this song can truly drag you heart out. And show whats truly going on in your life.... this is how we has humans grow... with things like this, that bring our hearts out to... just feel... we all have to feel... especially rn... so lets feel... with this song.
Amen
bLESS U. aMEN
Thank you for the amens! Yall very sweet! 🫶
Imagine that, Lewis capaldi and James Arthur make a collab, how many peoples that you want to try to break their heart through a song 💔
When I heard this song for the first time, i didn't ever think that this song describe about someone lose a BF/GF, I just thought how God ways to take away my father 7 years ago, and I have to lose my brother too 7 months ago because of an accident 🥀🥀💔
I wish the both of u can get a true happiness in there ❣️
Hi I’m a girl this is my grandpas account. This makes me think of when my father when I was a baby. I didn’t relize this was about suicide
Sorry for you lose of ur dad and how u had to lose ur brother
@@ellalawrence4642 because of an accident, when my brother went to office then a pickup car drove up too fast in that was time the pickup car in the red light and my brother in the green light, on video shows me the pickup car has broken up traffic rules, because of besides the pickup car there was 2 motorcycle which has showed me that the motorcycle really stopped.
when i listen to this song i think about my dad that passed when i was two and i just wish we could’ve had more time together
We need a JA and LC collaboration for sure!!!!!!
The whole scene shows how she was being an angel to everyone and probably saves those ppl's lives from depression, but at the ending u realize she didn't have an angel to save her herself😢
beautiful words❤❤❤
Maybe she had, but they just didn't know how bad she was feeling and how to help 💔
💕💕💕💕
The hole thing about how she helps everyone but she has no help is what I'm going through
Like waoh , great comment!!! Hundred per cent with that. Apreciate people like this, they’re like an endangered specie
Can't stop crying, being suicidal and seeing this hits different 😪
I'm sorry you're feeling like this .People care I care even though you don't know me. Please talk to people about how you are feeling.
i relate ngl but i’m always here and i will always care x
You aren't alone. Please call Samaritans: 116 123. They will listen without judgement. 💛
You’re an awesome human being. Please stay strong and talk to someone ❤️ you matter
I hope you are okay 😕
My sister just took her own life in April. Every night when I go to sleep all of these thoughts keep rushing in my head. I keep picturing myself walking in at the right time and saying the right thing. I miss and love her so much.
“Was never the right time when you called”. Dude that hits deep. I’d give anything to hear my moms voice again. But when I could...it was never the right time.
Nicole Gugler I know that feeling.......lost my mom last year
Ah shit this makes me realise I should try more, thanks
This is a different interpretation of the song, thanks for this. Makes me think of speaking to mine more often.
Midoriblitz A hard lesson learned was “make the time”. If my family calls, I stop what I’m doing now and take the call. You never know if it’s the last time you’ll be able to.
Michelle Chauraya I lost my mom in November of 2017. What I’d give to just be able to listen to her same stories for hours again.
Once a wise man said:" when you're happy you enjoy the melody, when you're sad you understand the lyrics"...
Wow. So freaking true
Love this song an that smart man said it right and I understand an feel all the lyrics 💔
I'm both then
True🙃
😭💔
the switch to the funeral hUrt :( for anyone going through hard times, stay strong. your life has a purpose & meaning, ily
umai b ❤️🙏
umai b thank you I needed to hear this today 😓💜
Sophie Beak omg no worries anytime, hope you’re ok or as ok as you can be 💕
umai b I'm not ok but I am safe 💜💜💜
Didn't even expect I'd feel this way, but I saw your words and they quite touched me, thanks for making me smile this night
I was 18, she was 18
Now I’m 25, she’s still 18
I miss you everyday❤️
Im so sorry for your loss 😔
😭 I'm sorry for your loss...she's in a better place than this world, who knows maybe you'll see her again one day and be happily reunited...
:( im so sorry!
Sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure she is in the better place love
This song is so perfect. We always feel regret of not doing enough when people are with us, but sometimes people hide the signs. 💚
So true! I feel like it's also effort that makes or breaks it
my farther left when i was 3 and im now 13 i wish i could have done better
HEY! I know ur crying right now, sad and depressed, just want u to know that you will get through this, and there's someone who loves u that is God, He's always with u okay! Wipe your tears Fighting with you! I love you💕💪
Clarice Cunan God is so good! No matter in which situation we are, he wants to spend time with us, be there for us and show us how much we mean to him🙏🏾
@@joanneogbe6407 Yes and Amen!❤
Step one stop listening to this
Step 2 stop believing that love plays out how singers portray it ( because if you act like that you’re bound to fail)
Step 3 listen to anti love songs start here if you wanna th-cam.com/video/aaIRbAU3kNc/w-d-xo.html
I'm not crying, I'm not sad or depressed and plz don't love meh, u don't know meh
No he doesn't if he did he would want me to be happy but instead evtytime somthing hood happens in my life gets taken away and if he did he would not have let me be abused when I was younger
This was me and my dads fav song. Till he sadly passed away.
Its hard how to explain how a song can bring you so much joy, but so much pain at the same time.
Ty Lewis for this amazing song, and rip the legend himself.
So true
Hope you doin ight bro
@@destroit6594 theres no other option brother ❤️
Sorry for your loss.I just lost two people within a week and yeah it definitely sucks .May they all rest in peace and hope they're all in a much better place .🙏😔
@@royalspin they are indeed bro, keep your head high, for me and them 🦾
As someone who has survived a suicide attempt recently, this hits hard. Such a powerful, emotional song. His voice is just so amazing. Now I work really hard on myself. Getting the help I need. I know it's easier said than done, but please never give up. I know, I've been there. You are stronger than you think. It's just not worth it. You're here for a reason. ❤️❤️
i hope you’re doing okay!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@pavinishchannel7093 I'm doing much better. Thank you. ❤️❤️
Tho I'm just a stranger, I believe that you can pull yourself out. Always remember, your life is yours alone, don't let you mind control it and spoil ur moments ^^
Jesus te ama ❤️
Your words are beautiful.....every. day. Is. A. Struggle.My Son keeps me going.
We live in a toxic world where people's opinions define us and it's not suppose d to be that way so if you are reading this your loved and appreciated. Your mistakes dont define you neither your insecurities stay blessed.
This is so truee , tysm, never listen to them,
Reading this absolutely made my day. It put a smile on my face and brought me to tears. Thank you @Tulela Hileni
Thank you so much
Thank you for this 😢 I feel alone and sad.
In this TOXIC WORLD, we have TOXIC FANS, TOXIC BASHERS most of all TOXIC ATTITUDE of PEOPLE 😢
"Was there something that I could have said to make it all stop hurting?"
My dad didn't commit suicide, but he died from cancer. I still wish I had told him I loved him before he passed away.
This song has the power to speak to people on an emotional level. Even though he's singing for his aunt that committed suicide, it's a song that can reflect on any heartbreaking death. Rest in peace to anyone who suffered during their life.
My great grandmother died 2 weeks ago. Her funeral was last week. I saw her 2 hours before she passed. She died of stomach cancer.
Sorry to hear it bruh. Same here. My dad died from a heart attack and I wished I had a chance to tell him the same.
@@samuelvista Deepest sympathies bruh. Hope you're doing ok.
I'm so sorry to hear this. But even though you never told him you love him, you showed him how much you love him. Action speaks louder than words. In this world, you don't have to tell someone you love them for them to know you love them, the little things you do says it all for you. So please don't feel guilty or anything, he knew that you loved him and he will watch over you no matter what. Take care and be happy♥️
I'm sorry may God be with you.
I listened to this song a year ago, ready to give up and end everything. I didn’t see a way out of the suffering. I ended up in a mental hospital for 4 weeks. But I kept going, made changes and now I own my own business, have purpose in my life and for the first time in my 26 years of life I feel a sense of excitement for my future. Sure, I still struggle most days, but I’m so happy I didn’t give up. Don’t give up on yourself. Keep going. Your mind will take control if you let it. Stay strong, stay here, I love you ❤
“It kills me to know your mind could make you feel so worthless.”
This line it hard
It does 😔
Like we didn't know
Especially when it's you're mind, and other sufferd 😕
@@MrEverett93 mmķķlmmmmmm
Yo I read that right as he said it
How many people cried listening to this song 😭😭😭
me
Me
I
To all of you, listen to this in 8d, you need headphones.
I held it together till I read that it was about his aunt suiciding, then I shed one. just one
“When you hurt underneath the surface , like troubled water running cold. Well time can heal but this won’t”. How have so many people unliked this song ?? It’s so pure.
Cuz people don't know what music is now
Because if it isnt about drugs, alcoholism , sounds like shitty unbalanced washers or doing stupid immature shit they dont want to listen to it
Im so sad .. please help me im gonna turn down my life .😥😥😥😥😥😥
The soul of this song is so raw and true
@@rajhesseseray3846 keep fighting, breathe, everything will be fine. Hugs and love to you :)
EVERYONE should be checked on.. you never ever know what someone is going through. Even the happiest of people are struggling.
i hide my emotions I just cannot talk to anyone I dont know how
As someone who was suicidal as a teenager, this song hits me on a different level. To anyone out there that feels suicidal and thinks it’s the only way out - please know that whatever you are going through will pass and that it does get better.
Anything good or bad going on in your life right now is temporary. Don’t make a permanent decision for a temporary problem.
Thank you and I mean it I'm a teen and I've thought about comiting suicide and sometimes I still do I'm in tears right now plz contact me on Snapchat and maybe we can talk. kingqdog1128
@Evangeline Sackuvich i hope everyone finds their lights 💜
Maybe even me. No. Nevermind😊
I don’t know you, I don’t know your story but I know your pain. I’ve been through that too. I’m here for you.
thank you, have a nice life ❤️❤️
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Before you go with lewis capldi.
I just read all these comments, and realise what horrible things people have to go trough. *Stay strong you dropped this👑*
Yes brotha
Yea. Most of them are probably copied, but that same exact story is most probably happening somewhere in the world and it’s sad to realize that.
@@rosytimes9456yeah
🥰❤️
*in Gaga's voice:*
TALENTED, BRILLIANT, INCREDIBLE, AMAZING, SHOW STOPPING, SPECTACULAR, NEVER THE SAME, TOTALLY UNIQUE, COMPLETELY NOT EVER BEEN DONE BEFORE
感恩
0:50 this actually makes me cry
Of course. It feels... "Crying"
Imagine if Lewis Capaldi and James Arthur made a song together.
yesss
and ed sheeran
It would sound like one singer
Oh my🤩
it would be amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!
“When you’re happy, you like the music. When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics”
-idk
i was gonna save this for the 69th comment but, nice
And you got of them 🤦
Omg! That was a great way to put it!!
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I undustand them
Unlike other singers, instead of just singing a catchy song he makes the song have emotions and deep feelings and there so powerful, believe me.
This is a catchy song though
Whos here 2024
MEE
Me😢
I recently lost my best friend to suicide. And the part that hurts the most is that we’ve been best friends since we were 10 years old, I’m 34 now, yet I didn’t even see the signs. Nothing showed that there was anything wrong. She never had a history with depression or self harm. She always seemed so happy. And looking back now, the only thing that stands out, is that a week before she died, she made sure that we spent a lot of time together doing all kinds of things we’ve always wanted to do together before we die. And because she was always so adventurous, it didn’t strike me as odd. It didn’t hit me until I got the letter she left me after we found her. I’ll put a small part below.
“ I need you to know that This last week we spent going on adventures we only use to talk about, were some of the best times I’ve ever had in my life. I’m beyond grateful that the best parts of my life always had you in them. I know you’re probably very angry with me, confused, upset and more, but you need to understand there’s nothing no one could have done. And please don’t think I hated my life because I didn’t. I had one of the best lives anyone could ask for. Just sometimes something happens that changes everything. And sometimes that change can’t be fixed. If I wanted someone to know what was going on inside, I would have made sure you knew. But I didn’t want you to know because you would have done everything to change my mind. And even if I had changed my mind, the pain would have still been there and it would have continued to eat away at me inside, more and more as time went on. That’s why I wanted to make the last few days memorable. Something we will never forget. Please know that my life was complete. I had everything I could ever want. Sometimes tho, there are things that just take over that you can’t get away from. So even if you’re mad at me right now, I hope one day you will forgive me for leaving you like this. But just know, I’m never really gone. I will leave you little clues that Ive been there and will always be there. Please continue to go on adventures and things we talked about doing together. I promise I will be with you when you do them. Even if you can’t see me. I promise I will be there. Thank you for being the bright shining star in this world of darkness that I have always known as life. We will be reunited again. I promise. I love you forever MiMi, my better half, my best friend”
The first part of the letter explain something that happened to her that none of us knew about. And I believe that played a big part in her taking her life. But the point is, no matter how happy someone seems, no matter how perfect and normal everything on the outside seems, it’s not always the case on the inside. And if someone doesn’t want to be saved or if they have completely given up the fight and have accepted their decision and their fate, we will never know until it’s too late. I know that sounds harsh but it’s true. My best friend went through something so traumatic that she didn’t tell ANYONE. And it ate at her until it consumed her and took her life. Do I believe that if she told me or someone that she would still be here? Absolutely! Of course I believe that. But like she said, the pain would have still been there and it wouldn’t have changed the damage that was done to her. I haven’t accepted the fact that this is what my life is now and I probably never will, who knows, but instead of being angry with “Lissa” for leaving me the way she did, I’m going for be grateful for all the years I got with her, and all the memories we made together. I am still angry and hurt and confused and in denial. But I don’t love her any less. I just wish I saw it ahead of time. But if someone doesn’t want you to know what’s going on, they will hide it from you until it’s too late. Her brother sang this song at her funeral and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to listen to. This song always made me feel sad and heartbroken for anyone going through it when I would hear This song. But now it makes me feel much different when I hear it because I can relate to it 100%. I am so sorry for anyone who has ever felt like this and to anyone who has ever lost their life to depression, it’s one of the worst deaths to ever experience mainly because it leaves only unknown reasons and questions of why and feelings of anger and confusion. I really hope Lissa is in a better place and that she’s happier and not feeling any pain. I look forward to her showing me signs that she’s around. I’m always looking for signs. And I know one day I will be reunited with her again. RIP beautiful guardian angel. I hope you’re in a much better place 🥹😭💔
Me ❤
Me I am
"Sometimes the person who tries to keep everyone happy is the most lonely person"
-Unknown :)
This is me I try when my friends are down or just anyone in general
This is literally me.😢
Thats me. 14. 😔☹️
I relate to this very much
That's literally me 😢 But I am tired of being what I am not so idc if someone is in good mood or not. I wanna be myself forever. No one ever respects my feelings and they don't know how I feel everyday and no one in the world knows the real me 🥺😭
I don't understand why lewis isn't so popular when he's one of the best singer ever. He deserve better!
Ikr🤯
he's the 56th best artist as of 05/09/2020 on spotify. id say that counts as pretty popular
@@rolandpapp7010 yeah but i want him to be far more better than that! His talent in singing is crazy! He could be number one!
@@kristougherparages8882 well, yeah, currently he's my favorite artist, but he deserves more.
Very good point. Incredible voice!
the people who smile the most are often the ones who are suffering the most ...who are hiding alot inside
You're right. I smile a lot but I'm always sad inside.
The truest truth...
This is true
:)
True..but sad
RIP Liam Payne
When u realise that a stranger in internet understands u more than ur family and friends
Hits hard
True
yea
Tbh ur not wrong
true
IKR!!!
This song deserves so much more attention because it’s just such a beautiful song
Gavin Bissett ikr
Agreed
I agree I cry to this sometimes but yet it doesn't get a bunch of love.💖💖💖
Honestly
Yes,songs like these deserve more recognition th-cam.com/video/9tvU1emWJgY/w-d-xo.html
100 Reasons To Stay Alive ❤️❤️❤️
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favourite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favourite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favourite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains.
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favourite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. feeling of being loved
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favourite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realising that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you love.
75. Spending the whole day in bed.
76. Eating a whole pint of your favourite ice cream.
77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
79. Bonfires and s'mores.
80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
81. Coming home to someone you love.
82. The colour of autumn leaves when they change.
Summer.
83. Singing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
84. Cuddling.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Someone’s skin against yours.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favourite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you did it.
PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live.
Edit: Thank you for the likes, I don't really think I deserved them! Just doing what you need!
This made me happy because before I read this I felt worthless but this made me want to live. Thank you so much. 😭❤
This made me cry fr I screenshot these Thankyou x
Thnk youu
Thanks man I know what yoilu try to do
This made me cry... Thanks for reminding how worthy I am
Come here again after hearing Liam passed away. It really breaks my heary, I cant stop crying 💔
Liam who?
@@JzEeDagOa liam payne
For those who are depress trust me when I say this, one day you’ll find a reason to live. You’ll find your purpose and you’ll see how beautiful life and living is. You’ll see that you’re not alone, that you shouldn’t be scared and that it’s okay to make mistakes. Just hang on a little longer, just stay strong a little more and before you know it you’ll see the light at the end of the tunnel. You’ll see your worth and how amazing you are as a person. You’ll see that other people love you and need you in their lives. Look at yourself in the mirror and smile at yourself everyday because each smile will get you closer to loving yourself and becoming the best version of yourself. Don’t think you’re alone; you’re there, I’m here, we’re all here for you ☺️ So stay strong and keep fighting because it’s never a losing battle when you know yourself best.
Thx. ❣
Thank u
Soshi Sone thank you ❤️
Thank you
World needs more soshi sone❤
Honestly, he makes the absolute best songs that you can cry to.
Amen
Hii army? 💜
@Mbita Acoustic Guitar imi iXii da iiwicjuj r j xxx jjsu oasi sa equilibrato uhmtribuni
He’s not the next Ed Sheeran, he’s the first Lewis Capaldi.
Nobody said he's the next Ed Sheeran in the first place stop making up lies for attention
Erik Eriks Just because you never heard anyone say it, and nobody asked you
No he's just a Ed Sheeran copiest.
Cuddle Bear someone said it in his someone you loved video and got thousands of likes your just copying and pasting
Carlee Brown First off all I can’t copy and past and second off all how was I suppose to know and why does it bother you
in 2020 my uncle took his life, i was living with him at the time, and the night he took his life we were sitting together listening to music. i didnt know that would be the last time we sat and talk. i eventually left to go hang out with friends. i told him that i would be back. i crashed out at a friends and my phone died. when i finally got it charged and check my messages and find out that he was gone. i didnt want to believe it. i was mad at everyone who was telling me that he was gone and he took his life. i thought it was a sick joke. i listen to this song on repeat after he passed, laying in his room. this song still hits me today i wish i could have shared this song with him rip uncle duk i miss you so much,
You hv gained an angel to look after u and direct u in ur lifes adventures..ive attemptd suicide 3 time n found on each occasion suffer bad with depression most my life..but im glad im still here..watever road we are on it wasnt my time to go
He misses you too🤞🏽💯
He will be looking over u now saying how proud of u he is and how he loves u and im sorry for ur loss
I had no idea this was about suicide. This breaks my heart. We need to TALK TALK TALK about mental health!! It is NOTHING to be ashamed of!! I deal with depression and anxiety everyday and it is REAL. You are LOVED❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
stay strong ❤
Qc Life ❤️🥰🙏🏻
Omg your so kind I hope u stay strong ❤️❤️
So true.
Mental illness deserves more recognition. It is just as serious as any health condition or disease. It kills people every year. People who didnt actually want to die, but just couldnt bare to deal with the pain. Sorry if im rambling, but i feel strongly about what you have said. To whoevers reading this: I wish you a life of happiness and i will probably never meet you in person, but i will always care about you. Have a wonderful day.
“I hate you, I hate you, I hate you but I was just kidding myself”
These lyrics hit hard
What ? I did not understand ?
I thought it said hit you 😂
Nice, you're Harry Potter
That’s rich coming from you Harry
Listen to dance with the devil by immortal technique it hits so hard and gives you chills
If you're reading this, and you haven't heard this lately from anyone.
You're beautiful and you have so much worth.
Thanks
Thank you 🙏
Thank you. So much.
You know what ..I needed that thank you
omg i got goosebumps Thank You!
When a man tells you who he is believe them. I'll have all the compassion in the world for him but guaranteed he's broke more hearts and brought more damage to women's lives than a lot of other men ever have.
This song really makes me cry "Its crazy how your mind can make you feel so worthless"😭😭 Depression sucks
Ya🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Chin up buddy,you got this🙂🤞👌
LvckySTL that’s the truth
Yes 😥
But once you come out of depression..believe me it feels soo good!! ☺️
What if Ed Sheeran, Adele, James Arthur and him did a colab?? That would be the song of the decade
OMG that would make my day
Honestly, Before You Go x Castle On The Hill would be a great mashup
No no it would be song of the century 🌟
I would cry so hard
Poop Spaghetti and Taylor Swift composed the song
I don’t think anyone else’s voice would fit these lyrics better than his
Tru
James Arthur
@@joemgabuay5413 be very good but wouldn't be as good just like if Lewis sang his.. no-one does it better than the original the original is how it's meant to be
@@joemgabuay5413 When I heard this on the radio, that's who I thought it was. They sound so similar
This is really in the style of ed sheeran, all his songs are
It’s been six years and there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t wish my friend hadn’t made that final choice. His pain is over, but those that are left on his absence will always carry this hurt.
❤
im so sorry to hear that but he is above praying for u stay strong❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
@@Lexi-tn7ej he had a massive stomach tattoo of a church on fire. I can assure you, if he is above, he is not praying. Maybe dancing, but thank you for the sentiment.
When my auntie needed surgery in her legs and doctors said she needed it. An that morning before surgery I asked if she needed anything, was there anything that I can do for you. An she said live. After she said that to me I cried while I looked in her eyes and I said i will live. An i left the room and held the door and cried so hard. Then she went through surgery and had a compilation that hurt her and she died the table. I SCREAMED SO HARD I HATED THAT IT HAPPENED TO A BEAUTIFUL WOAMN MY AUNTIE MOM!!! An no I listen to this song for her cause I asked before you go was there anything I can do for you. An she said LIVE!!! An now until this day I miss her and this song reminds me of her.
I’m so sorry for your loss, that’s terrible 💜 This comment left me in tears
I'm so sorry. This comment has maked me cry a lot.
Keep safe!
I’m so sorry for your loss I hope you’re doing okay and live 💞💜💜💜
i'm so sorry
I'm so sorry.. I could never feel the pain you're feeling. Stay strong ❤
He's not the second of anyone, he was just himself
Exactly, there is only one Lewis Capaldi!
Coby by rain
“It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless”. Damn that really hit deep 😢
I no it makes me never let go
@Mr RED 🤣🥲
Read that right when that lyric dropped 😂
absolutely...
I write down quotes that I can relate to, to tell my therapist I told her that one and we had an hour and a half long conversation about it.
It's almost the end of 2024 and I am still here. I can never get over this song. Lewis Capaldi hits differently. His songs, lyrics, and emotions are so beautifully expressed is just beyond amazing!!
Why are all of his songs tear jerkers. I can’t stop listening to him.
THANKS! I cant keep this songs
Him and jesse mccartney need to remake this song together... jesse killed this song on the masked singer for the finals
@@richardgrace4500 I just listened to Jesse McCartney's version. Oh wow. It was so perfect. Maybe better than the original
Let me see how many people are here in December 2020❤. This song just makes me cry because I relate to every word😔💔
Me 🥺
:(
yup same..
Same
Im so sorry 😇
When I was in hospital after a suicide attempt I had this song on repeat, all day, everyday and I just knew there was a reason it resonated with me so much. When my mum heard it she said that she felt like the song was about me every time she heard it.
Sinead Dalby it came out 15 hours ago
The song came out last year. The video was released 15 hours ago.
AbyLouise .x oh thx that makes sense
Dont do it again okay,The world loves you...so much
Keep strong please💕
Who is still listening to this song in 2024 with me? 🥺
Im 😢
She was there for everyone, but was there anyone there for her?
But isn't that a part of the mysterious horror of suicide...loved ones don't always know and those suffering from suicidality don't want to be a burden to loved ones or to others. ❤
Yes ;-)
That really hurts 💔
Been there
We are 🙏
If this isn't played at my funeral I'm not going
You are a comment copycat typical youtube comment section.
Me neither. It'd be sad af. I prefer the coffin dance
👀
Astronomia vs Before you Go.
Abbas Naqvi ?
Hey you random person searching through the comments. I only wish you happiness!
Okay thanks
Thanks
Thank you so much
Aww this brought a smile to my face
Same to You mate :)
This is the best song because my dog just passed away
So this is what it's like to be here before millions of views
Jay B yup
yea
Jay B hope this song gets huge