The maturity in tackling these serious issues in this instalment is on a “whole-nother” level! Wow!!! One thing I know is, we invest in what we value, therefore how we navigate life in our relationships, any kind of relationship that we don’t want to lose we will do the work! I love you guys.
A relationship is a step by step journey indeed. My prayer is to get my fiance to watch these installments with me, in that way we can learn together... This is so helpful ❤️.
The Makhs God has granted you so so so much Wisdom. We feel it we hear it! May the Lord increase you and extend you territory because you are impacting us tremendously!
I'm just here to watch how you guys interact with one another. How Lerato will always reach for Pheto 🤩 touch is my love language so I LOVE to see couples showing affection. 😍
You guys really make me look forward to getting married and having an open, transparent and honest relationship like yours..I didnt grow up in a complete/stable family but I feel like from watching your videos I'm learning a lot on marriage and how to be a good partner/wife one day.
I love how you’re walking in the footsteps of the Makhs seniors.Thank you both for wholesome content.I had been missing Mrs Makh’s, “I’m just like…”❤️❤️❤️
6 minutes in and as I'm listening I'm just thinking about how Pheto most times, thinks she is "the problem" and Lerato is the more understanding one, not only in this installment but in other installments as well. And I ALWAYS, relate to that. Perhaps it's a woman problem? It's almost as though men are more gracious, quick to forgive and and and, which reminds me of the attributes of God, maybe us women need to constantly be aware of our nature and crucify it because nam shame I feel like I start most fights. I don't know I hope this makes sense a bit.
The wisdom, the communication, the understanding and the listening. Your Love is so evident in everything that you do. Such an incredible couple. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us 🙏🏾❤️
The way you guys say things that are relatable in relationships! Also, the way you articulate issues that bother us but we cannot articulate and therefore cannot resolve! Wow, wow, wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for sharing your gems with us, yours is a relationship ministry. PS: I'm currently not in a relationship but you are clarifying so many things that remained a mystery from my previous relationship and my marriage. Thank you for indulging us🙏🏾
Ai but you guys are a reflection of God’s workmanship constantly working on being the best you can be, espousing Godly principles of selflessness. Madam, you are blessed with such a great hubby with so much depth.
"Why are you coming to me with weapons and stones while I'm not here to fight" these were my thoughts as I was thinking about this even before I saw this installment😁. We have to teach ourselves to listen with the intention to understand rather than to respond!!! Good one as always Dream Team🥰🤩
I can't thank you guys enough for this instalment🥺, as I'm about to bury my ex-husband who is the father to my 2 teenage boys, the feeling of being judged again, having to deal with my ex in-laws all over again, feeling forced to relive my past is I broke down and when I was asked why I was soooo defensive coa I felt like I'm expected to not feel pain kanti honestly I'm broken especially because my boys aren't taking it well at all
You guys are talking my whole life 😂🤦🏾♀️. “Remember your commitment “. I definitely throw that out the window when I’m upset but thank you guys for the reminder that commitment is what I do long after the feeling of when I said it…
What a beautiful installment....my relationship is thriving because of your beautiful and insightful conversations...❤ I will forever recommend this channel....
Great instalment over and over, you guys never disappoint, you guys are really ministering to us and making us to reflect even deeper thank you 🙏 thank you and for sure this is helpful, wisdom right there ❤️
wow guys I love you so much I'm just speechless whatever prayer point you made I copy and paste, I know we don't have to be eager to be like someone else but no man this is beautiful
Thank you so much again for such a beautiful installment....I was holding tears half the time listening because it took me to my childhood were I was never heard 😢 💔 and that came with me to my adulthood. I am healing, doing much better 😌 by God's grace. I am praying I would have made a total 360 healing turn when I meet my purpose partner. 🙏 I also dismiss a person very easily....kodwa I am a work in progress.
We love you too 🤗. Wow, I love the authenticity you two give us. Not afraid to voice your thoughts on either end of the spectrum of each topic. Practical advice is always welcome in today's world, everyone has a textbook answer but with you we see how experience has been a great teacher. Stay strong and blessed, continue your journey with grace as you have done so far and remember how appreciative we are of your experiences and willingness to share
This is the deliverance i needed, if i don't master handling my emotions from this then i don't know. Awesome instalment rents im learning a lot from you❤️❤️❤️
Let's talk about your etiquette in conversations,I love it everytime either of you apologizes for cutting short the other person,that you don't speak over each other .I love how intentional you are to respectfully allow the other person be heard.Thank you.
Good day to the Makhs and Dream Team, One day kindly discuss maintenance of a long distance relationship(s) and it's sustainability. Both partners are committed and intentional to make the relationship to work. Sibu
Ohh The Makhs😍 Your Installments Are Always On The Next Level Of Maturity & Wisdom, Each Time I Listen To Them I Really Get Transformed💕 I Sooh Wish GOD Would Continue Blessing You😻 I LOVE YOU GUY'S So Much You Are The Best💖....
Talk about a word in season. Going through a challenging period with my partner and there’s so much of what you said that I could relate to. Love and appreciate you guys. Thank you. ❤️
I'm loving each and every instalment, we learning and gaining something everyday. May God increase your wisdom and bless your marriage forever. I love you so much guys❤❤
The Makhs pouring some wisdom🔥❤. I really loved this installment. There is a lot to take home than just the 7 ways to avoid arguments. Absolutely loved your content. ❤
Wow! WOW!! What a beautiful installment guys, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. I even took some notes down to share with my partner because he does not watch TH-cam but he need to know these. I think this came at a time I needed it the most, you guys make marriage look good without even trying hard. Just being yourselves is enough for us. May the goodness of God follows you all the days of your lives. We are blessed ❤❤❤❤
Awesome installment as always ❤️ Looking for similarities and not differences speaks to fixing your focus. What you choose to focus on will grow. So focus on the positive and cultivate a positive space. And also afford your partner grace ❤️
Thank you so much for this instalment🫶🏾. It came just in time as I plan on having a difficult conversation, I took down some notes and plan on implementing what I’ve learnt. God bless your ministry 💕
Thank you soooo much guys, I know I'm only watching this today but wow beautiful, I love and learned all the tips. I commit myself to be a better partner.
if only married people can have such discussions then marriages would last, so unfortunately people runaway from their problems without even trying to solve them, big ups my people so lovely
This was incredible. As you guys were speaking I found myself being a rater of my past relationships (including myself because I’m not perfect). Love this it was magical discussion I hope everyone hears in their lifetime. xx
Yes and now you are fighting to be heard or listened to so you automatically don’t want to have the same pattern happening in your relationship or marriage but that is destroying the inner you and when you are a family your kids are most likely gonna be the same then nothing solves the issue that we’re present at the time and the issues that have grown to be a part of the current life. I feel like that’s when words like haibo onkare we are within a generational circle of none healthy things situations issues unfinished nton nton because a partner might leave the relationship or marriage cause that small thing which means a lot to them it’s like ( peace)
I'm going to get married soon. I've been plugged by my future wife to you guys. I take notes from you both. I love you guys. This podcast will help me in my marriage.
Actually this conversation makes me think of the movie Redeeming love- a movie that really depicts how Christ loves the church and how He wants a husband to love his wife
Thank you so much for this guys The part about how much of your happiness is the responsibility of your spouse hmmm...i think I need more clarity on that one, if you guys dont mind getting into it more
Yep so true and some women use your weaknesses to slap back at you which is so hard because next time you won’t try explain to her your side and won’t make time as much as you have it to make her understand you would rather sleep or just go out with friends even when you know it’s during the week and you don’t do such mara suddenly things change from moods to trust issues cause even if I make you understand what if you won’t take it or pretend to
Let's gather here if you think Bhut Lerato should have a mentorship program for boys and men🥰🤩😇💓💯
YES YES YES!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Asseblief!
I agree with you fullyyy 😭
Yes !!!!! 🙌🙌🙌
Yessss please 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😩😩😩😩my partner and I are constantly binge watching the parenting segments . I love love love this idea! ❤️
You guys are so matured in how you talk to each other, you honestly sell marriage. Thank you
This is such a great compliment, because of how far we come🙆🏾♀️😃♥️. Thank you♥️
I totally agree..love them❤
Guys lets not forget to share the installments on various platforms to grow 'our' channel ❤ we've been on 61k for months now
I Love How Abuti Lerato always compliment his wife 😍
The maturity in tackling these serious issues in this instalment is on a “whole-nother” level! Wow!!! One thing I know is, we invest in what we value, therefore how we navigate life in our relationships, any kind of relationship that we don’t want to lose we will do the work! I love you guys.
♥️♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lerato and Phethola may the Lord cover and protect you as you sacredly unveil your nakedness before us!!!!!!!! Beautiful happenings!!!
A relationship is a step by step journey indeed. My prayer is to get my fiance to watch these installments with me, in that way we can learn together... This is so helpful ❤️.
The Makhs God has granted you so so so much Wisdom. We feel it we hear it! May the Lord increase you and extend you territory because you are impacting us tremendously!
Yes
Couldn't say it any better 🙏 💯
aaaah family! Thank you so so much♥️♥️♥️
I'm just here to watch how you guys interact with one another. How Lerato will always reach for Pheto 🤩 touch is my love language so I LOVE to see couples showing affection. 😍
Aaaaaw🥺🥺🥺☺️☺️☺️
“Always See and Trust Their Heart First!” Woow! We Need To Start Paying School Fees Now🤞🏽 Thanks Guys🫶🏽
You guys really make me look forward to getting married and having an open, transparent and honest relationship like yours..I didnt grow up in a complete/stable family but I feel like from watching your videos I'm learning a lot on marriage and how to be a good partner/wife one day.
This!🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️
I love how you’re walking in the footsteps of the Makhs seniors.Thank you both for wholesome content.I had been missing Mrs Makh’s, “I’m just like…”❤️❤️❤️
6 minutes in and as I'm listening I'm just thinking about how Pheto most times, thinks she is "the problem" and Lerato is the more understanding one, not only in this installment but in other installments as well. And I ALWAYS, relate to that. Perhaps it's a woman problem? It's almost as though men are more gracious, quick to forgive and and and, which reminds me of the attributes of God, maybe us women need to constantly be aware of our nature and crucify it because nam shame I feel like I start most fights. I don't know I hope this makes sense a bit.
Relatable
Thanks for the honesty Yaz mara
The wisdom, the communication, the understanding and the listening. Your Love is so evident in everything that you do. Such an incredible couple. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us 🙏🏾❤️
The way you guys say things that are relatable in relationships! Also, the way you articulate issues that bother us but we cannot articulate and therefore cannot resolve! Wow, wow, wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for sharing your gems with us, yours is a relationship ministry. PS: I'm currently not in a relationship but you are clarifying so many things that remained a mystery from my previous relationship and my marriage. Thank you for indulging us🙏🏾
Popopopopopopo 🥳 🥳 🥳 🥳 🥳 we are here. Notification gang gang from #Singleville wassuppp...
Ndizofika emtshatweni sendine PHD mna because of this channel!
Me and you babes bona...
Ndim mos lo 😁🤗
😂😂I feel qualified
I find myself doing introspection.
Bruuuuh!!!😂🥺❤️🔥
The Makhs cup is overflowing with so much wisdom. What I constantly learn throughout your installments is learning to give grace. #learningSoMuch!
Ai but you guys are a reflection of God’s workmanship constantly working on being the best you can be, espousing Godly principles of selflessness. Madam, you are blessed with such a great hubby with so much depth.
"Why are you coming to me with weapons and stones while I'm not here to fight" these were my thoughts as I was thinking about this even before I saw this installment😁. We have to teach ourselves to listen with the intention to understand rather than to respond!!! Good one as always Dream Team🥰🤩
I can't thank you guys enough for this instalment🥺, as I'm about to bury my ex-husband who is the father to my 2 teenage boys, the feeling of being judged again, having to deal with my ex in-laws all over again, feeling forced to relive my past is I broke down and when I was asked why I was soooo defensive coa I felt like I'm expected to not feel pain kanti honestly I'm broken especially because my boys aren't taking it well at all
You guys are talking my whole life 😂🤦🏾♀️. “Remember your commitment “. I definitely throw that out the window when I’m upset but thank you guys for the reminder that commitment is what I do long after the feeling of when I said it…
What a beautiful installment....my relationship is thriving because of your beautiful and insightful conversations...❤ I will forever recommend this channel....
Wow just wow this is an instalment that just blew me away. So many couples needed to hear this. Blessings upon the Makhs 😘
When I say this was REAAAALLLLLLYYYYYY good!! Thank you guys! More grace!
My God!!! That was sooooo good!! Thank you soooo much!! It’s been a minute since I’ve visited your page and now I’m back!
Sharing with my husband!
Wow👏🏼👏🏼 this is not just for intimate relaxns but work and family relaxionships💖 The insight and wisdom is on another level🙏🏽
I love how you both exercise so much consideration, compassion, understanding and emotional maturity in these conversations
Great instalment over and over, you guys never disappoint, you guys are really ministering to us and making us to reflect even deeper thank you 🙏 thank you and for sure this is helpful, wisdom right there ❤️
wow guys I love you so much I'm just speechless whatever prayer point you made I copy and paste, I know we don't have to be eager to be like someone else but no man this is beautiful
1st akemhle uMrs Makhs 🤩
Well done on graduating .
Thank you so much again for such a beautiful installment....I was holding tears half the time listening because it took me to my childhood were I was never heard 😢 💔 and that came with me to my adulthood. I am healing, doing much better 😌 by God's grace. I am praying I would have made a total 360 healing turn when I meet my purpose partner. 🙏
I also dismiss a person very easily....kodwa I am a work in progress.
Mrs Makhs you such a g , you owning your wrongs that is why you transform so quickly wisdom wisdom,!!!!👏👏❤️❤️💃💃
We love you too 🤗. Wow, I love the authenticity you two give us. Not afraid to voice your thoughts on either end of the spectrum of each topic. Practical advice is always welcome in today's world, everyone has a textbook answer but with you we see how experience has been a great teacher. Stay strong and blessed, continue your journey with grace as you have done so far and remember how appreciative we are of your experiences and willingness to share
I am commenting before watching the vid because yall never disappoint. It's gonna be a banger
I'm blessed 'cause of the blessing that is you dear The Makhs❤❤❤
Peace & blessings ✌
I love this...thank you for always reminding us that love ALWAYS wins
Sharing your journey with us has been so insightful for me personally. I’m learning a lot. Thank you and God bless you 🙏🏽❤️
This is the deliverance i needed, if i don't master handling my emotions from this then i don't know. Awesome instalment rents im learning a lot from you❤️❤️❤️
Yoh👌 how do I get my boyfriend to listen to this?
This was beautiful. Thank you guys ♥️
Let's talk about your etiquette in conversations,I love it everytime either of you apologizes for cutting short the other person,that you don't speak over each other .I love how intentional you are to respectfully allow the other person be heard.Thank you.
Thank you for blessing us with your wisdom. Absolutely always so grateful for the lessons. Love love love it here.
Good day to the Makhs and Dream Team,
One day kindly discuss maintenance of a long distance relationship(s) and it's sustainability. Both partners are committed and intentional to make the relationship to work.
Sibu
Ohh The Makhs😍
Your Installments Are Always On The Next Level Of Maturity & Wisdom, Each Time I Listen To Them I Really Get Transformed💕
I Sooh Wish GOD Would Continue Blessing You😻
I LOVE YOU GUY'S So Much You Are The Best💖....
You are amazing Guys. We appreciate you and your outpouring through these instalments.
#May God keep you for life
Thank you for another great and insightful conversation. My partner and I enjoyed it. Slowly getting him hooked on The Makhs. 😊
Talk about a word in season. Going through a challenging period with my partner and there’s so much of what you said that I could relate to. Love and appreciate you guys. Thank you. ❤️
Unbelievably beautiful. Aaaah i wish all couples can watch this. Wow
I'm loving each and every instalment, we learning and gaining something everyday. May God increase your wisdom and bless your marriage forever. I love you so much guys❤❤
Our wise couple, siyabonga.
The Great I AM loves you
The Makhs pouring some wisdom🔥❤. I really loved this installment. There is a lot to take home than just the 7 ways to avoid arguments. Absolutely loved your content. ❤
I haven't even finished the entire video but yhoo this is soooo good. This topic is so relatable ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hayini guys you rock ❤🎉😊...
wisdom wisdom wisdom
You are definitely building families❤️❤️❤️❤️
Principle of Intention - Valid point
Wow! WOW!! What a beautiful installment guys, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. I even took some notes down to share with my partner because he does not watch TH-cam but he need to know these. I think this came at a time I needed it the most, you guys make marriage look good without even trying hard. Just being yourselves is enough for us. May the goodness of God follows you all the days of your lives. We are blessed ❤❤❤❤
The chemistry between you guys is so beautiful😭we learn so much from you guys and we love you so much ❤❤
To God be the Glory, that was so profound. You guys are buildind and rebuilding families, God keep you.
Awesome installment as always ❤️
Looking for similarities and not differences speaks to fixing your focus. What you choose to focus on will grow. So focus on the positive and cultivate a positive space. And also afford your partner grace ❤️
This is so informative, I am definitely listening 👂 to this for the second time 🧡 thank you 🙏 the makhs
Your happiness is your sole responsibility! It’s unfair to expect your partner (a fallible human being) to be your source of happiness.
Wisdom here is👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼...
Informative 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Some people like before watching... it's me, I'm people 🤣
So informative and enlightening as always
Thank you for reminding us that marriage is a journey walked by two imperfect people♥️
I love your laugh Mrs Makhs😂😂❤️❤️
100K BEFORE SEPTEMBER ❤️
Thank you so much for this instalment🫶🏾. It came just in time as I plan on having a difficult conversation, I took down some notes and plan on implementing what I’ve learnt. God bless your ministry 💕
Thank you soooo much guys, I know I'm only watching this today but wow beautiful, I love and learned all the tips.
I commit myself to be a better partner.
Wow just wow!im so gla I’m listening to gems like these
Great conversation as always! So honest and transparent - thanks for sharing ❤
Very helpful indeed, thank you for this. May God bless you more
Great matured discussion to being better selves thank you guys.
"here's a thought, here's a thought"💃
Welcome!
@@dancinginthepurplereign4126 Danko
if only married people can have such discussions then marriages would last, so unfortunately people runaway from their problems without even trying to solve them, big ups my people so lovely
This was incredible. As you guys were speaking I found myself being a rater of my past relationships (including myself because I’m not perfect). Love this it was magical discussion I hope everyone hears in their lifetime. xx
Hear for the content, life perspective and wisdom ✌️❤️
Amazing. this reminds me of a quote I read in the book Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerich "MY RESPONSE IS MY RESPONSIBILITY."
It's me taking a break emjolweni but watching this informative video, definitely taking tips for when I get back at it🥳🥳
Hahaha ungihlekiselani kodwa 🤣
Great topic.Thank you guys,i really enjoyed this♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I actually came to watch the last weeks instalment because last week was hectic for me, then I got up to this. 💃🏾💃🏾🔥
Commenting before I watch😀
You guys are so affectionate, I love that about you. That's my love language
You purely amazing! God bless you
I enjoyed this installment and shared it with my loved ones
Yes and now you are fighting to be heard or listened to so you automatically don’t want to have the same pattern happening in your relationship or marriage but that is destroying the inner you and when you are a family your kids are most likely gonna be the same then nothing solves the issue that we’re present at the time and the issues that have grown to be a part of the current life. I feel like that’s when words like haibo onkare we are within a generational circle of none healthy things situations issues unfinished nton nton because a partner might leave the relationship or marriage cause that small thing which means a lot to them it’s like ( peace)
They always make me wish there was a double subscribe button
Thank you family, this was so insightful❤
I'm going to get married soon. I've been plugged by my future wife to you guys. I take notes from you both. I love you guys. This podcast will help me in my marriage.
Actually this conversation makes me think of the movie Redeeming love- a movie that really depicts how Christ loves the church and how He wants a husband to love his wife
Where can I find it?
Perfect just perfect nothing more 🥰
This is amazing. I love it so much. So wholesome.❤
Finally here to catch up🥰🥰
Gems!! :-) Love, love, love!!
This was very very good! And so thought provoking, thank you guys for sharing your wisdom with us ❤️
Thank you so much for this guys
The part about how much of your happiness is the responsibility of your spouse hmmm...i think I need more clarity on that one, if you guys dont mind getting into it more
Bless your souls, you both are truly Heaven sent for us all 💛
Very helpful and mostly true, thank you ❤
What a beautiful insightful instalment thank you for always pouring your hearts to educate us this was amazing🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️i love you guys❤️
loved this so so much ❤
Yep so true and some women use your weaknesses to slap back at you which is so hard because next time you won’t try explain to her your side and won’t make time as much as you have it to make her understand you would rather sleep or just go out with friends even when you know it’s during the week and you don’t do such mara suddenly things change from moods to trust issues cause even if I make you understand what if you won’t take it or pretend to
Beautiful Powerful couple....
you guys are amazing