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  • @chumamajova5503
    @chumamajova5503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Let's gather here if you think Bhut Lerato should have a mentorship program for boys and men🥰🤩😇💓💯

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES YES YES!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @VivianKuvare11
      @VivianKuvare11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Asseblief!

    • @boitumelotumi7535
      @boitumelotumi7535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you fullyyy 😭

    • @phiwo8998
      @phiwo8998 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes !!!!! 🙌🙌🙌

    • @sibahlendlela5930
      @sibahlendlela5930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessss please 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😩😩😩😩my partner and I are constantly binge watching the parenting segments . I love love love this idea! ❤️

  • @athimapapu4367
    @athimapapu4367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    You guys are so matured in how you talk to each other, you honestly sell marriage. Thank you

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is such a great compliment, because of how far we come🙆🏾‍♀️😃♥️. Thank you♥️

    • @13114queen
      @13114queen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree..love them❤

  • @hlengimageba9206
    @hlengimageba9206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A relationship is a step by step journey indeed. My prayer is to get my fiance to watch these installments with me, in that way we can learn together... This is so helpful ❤️.

  • @portiamonageng9161
    @portiamonageng9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lerato and Phethola may the Lord cover and protect you as you sacredly unveil your nakedness before us!!!!!!!! Beautiful happenings!!!

  • @valenciamohube7659
    @valenciamohube7659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I Love How Abuti Lerato always compliment his wife 😍

  • @LETSOALO_LIFE
    @LETSOALO_LIFE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Guys lets not forget to share the installments on various platforms to grow 'our' channel ❤ we've been on 61k for months now

  • @lifutsotsephe7544
    @lifutsotsephe7544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The maturity in tackling these serious issues in this instalment is on a “whole-nother” level! Wow!!! One thing I know is, we invest in what we value, therefore how we navigate life in our relationships, any kind of relationship that we don’t want to lose we will do the work! I love you guys.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @anele_ntandoh_Msomi
    @anele_ntandoh_Msomi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The Makhs God has granted you so so so much Wisdom. We feel it we hear it! May the Lord increase you and extend you territory because you are impacting us tremendously!

    • @NomaMPride
      @NomaMPride 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @know_ledge378
      @know_ledge378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn't say it any better 🙏 💯

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      aaaah family! Thank you so so much♥️♥️♥️

  • @letshegomancoe4481
    @letshegomancoe4481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm just here to watch how you guys interact with one another. How Lerato will always reach for Pheto 🤩 touch is my love language so I LOVE to see couples showing affection. 😍

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aaaaaw🥺🥺🥺☺️☺️☺️

  • @tidodlamini
    @tidodlamini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Always See and Trust Their Heart First!” Woow! We Need To Start Paying School Fees Now🤞🏽 Thanks Guys🫶🏽

  • @ayandamagele3559
    @ayandamagele3559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how you’re walking in the footsteps of the Makhs seniors.Thank you both for wholesome content.I had been missing Mrs Makh’s, “I’m just like…”❤️❤️❤️

  • @tendailittle437
    @tendailittle437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The wisdom, the communication, the understanding and the listening. Your Love is so evident in everything that you do. Such an incredible couple. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us 🙏🏾❤️

  • @katlegom114
    @katlegom114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You guys really make me look forward to getting married and having an open, transparent and honest relationship like yours..I didnt grow up in a complete/stable family but I feel like from watching your videos I'm learning a lot on marriage and how to be a good partner/wife one day.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This!🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️

  • @dineomakibelo8048
    @dineomakibelo8048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The way you guys say things that are relatable in relationships! Also, the way you articulate issues that bother us but we cannot articulate and therefore cannot resolve! Wow, wow, wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for sharing your gems with us, yours is a relationship ministry. PS: I'm currently not in a relationship but you are clarifying so many things that remained a mystery from my previous relationship and my marriage. Thank you for indulging us🙏🏾

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    6 minutes in and as I'm listening I'm just thinking about how Pheto most times, thinks she is "the problem" and Lerato is the more understanding one, not only in this installment but in other installments as well. And I ALWAYS, relate to that. Perhaps it's a woman problem? It's almost as though men are more gracious, quick to forgive and and and, which reminds me of the attributes of God, maybe us women need to constantly be aware of our nature and crucify it because nam shame I feel like I start most fights. I don't know I hope this makes sense a bit.

    • @Rumbie-
      @Rumbie- 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Relatable

    • @remimautjana5622
      @remimautjana5622 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the honesty Yaz mara

  • @olabuk2000
    @olabuk2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ai but you guys are a reflection of God’s workmanship constantly working on being the best you can be, espousing Godly principles of selflessness. Madam, you are blessed with such a great hubby with so much depth.

  • @duduzilesibanyoni8074
    @duduzilesibanyoni8074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Popopopopopopo 🥳 🥳 🥳 🥳 🥳 we are here. Notification gang gang from #Singleville wassuppp...

  • @neosegone5172
    @neosegone5172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Makhs cup is overflowing with so much wisdom. What I constantly learn throughout your installments is learning to give grace. #learningSoMuch!

  • @NokuphiwaPopi9945
    @NokuphiwaPopi9945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can't thank you guys enough for this instalment🥺, as I'm about to bury my ex-husband who is the father to my 2 teenage boys, the feeling of being judged again, having to deal with my ex in-laws all over again, feeling forced to relive my past is I broke down and when I was asked why I was soooo defensive coa I felt like I'm expected to not feel pain kanti honestly I'm broken especially because my boys aren't taking it well at all

  • @modjadjimasekela6763
    @modjadjimasekela6763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are talking my whole life 😂🤦🏾‍♀️. “Remember your commitment “. I definitely throw that out the window when I’m upset but thank you guys for the reminder that commitment is what I do long after the feeling of when I said it…

  • @chumamajova5503
    @chumamajova5503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "Why are you coming to me with weapons and stones while I'm not here to fight" these were my thoughts as I was thinking about this even before I saw this installment😁. We have to teach ourselves to listen with the intention to understand rather than to respond!!! Good one as always Dream Team🥰🤩

  • @jay_mahlangu642
    @jay_mahlangu642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    100K BEFORE SEPTEMBER ❤️

  • @sthabilepretty95
    @sthabilepretty95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow guys I love you so much I'm just speechless whatever prayer point you made I copy and paste, I know we don't have to be eager to be like someone else but no man this is beautiful

  • @candy4087
    @candy4087 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful installment....my relationship is thriving because of your beautiful and insightful conversations...❤ I will forever recommend this channel....

  • @nonstikelelohayward4485
    @nonstikelelohayward4485 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mrs Makhs you such a g , you owning your wrongs that is why you transform so quickly wisdom wisdom,!!!!👏👏❤️❤️💃💃

  • @brigettebond6088
    @brigettebond6088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow just wow this is an instalment that just blew me away. So many couples needed to hear this. Blessings upon the Makhs 😘

  • @Loymtyoki
    @Loymtyoki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow👏🏼👏🏼 this is not just for intimate relaxns but work and family relaxionships💖 The insight and wisdom is on another level🙏🏽

  • @mbalentlemhlaba5689
    @mbalentlemhlaba5689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st akemhle uMrs Makhs 🤩
    Well done on graduating .

  • @georgiagoldson7314
    @georgiagoldson7314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I say this was REAAAALLLLLLYYYYYY good!! Thank you guys! More grace!

  • @kokimothoagae9533
    @kokimothoagae9533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great instalment over and over, you guys never disappoint, you guys are really ministering to us and making us to reflect even deeper thank you 🙏 thank you and for sure this is helpful, wisdom right there ❤️

  • @memorybosopo1547
    @memorybosopo1547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Principle of Intention - Valid point

  • @symphazimba3481
    @symphazimba3481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm loving each and every instalment, we learning and gaining something everyday. May God increase your wisdom and bless your marriage forever. I love you so much guys❤❤

  • @ndalafaith8536
    @ndalafaith8536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohh The Makhs😍
    Your Installments Are Always On The Next Level Of Maturity & Wisdom, Each Time I Listen To Them I Really Get Transformed💕
    I Sooh Wish GOD Would Continue Blessing You😻
    I LOVE YOU GUY'S So Much You Are The Best💖....

  • @tabisadlamini5689
    @tabisadlamini5689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are definitely building families❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lebuthepoet
    @lebuthepoet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the deliverance i needed, if i don't master handling my emotions from this then i don't know. Awesome instalment rents im learning a lot from you❤️❤️❤️

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are amazing Guys. We appreciate you and your outpouring through these instalments.
    #May God keep you for life

  • @buyisilemohale2881
    @buyisilemohale2881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this...thank you for always reminding us that love ALWAYS wins

  • @frankieclo9841
    @frankieclo9841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My God!!! That was sooooo good!! Thank you soooo much!! It’s been a minute since I’ve visited your page and now I’m back!
    Sharing with my husband!

  • @sibulelesonka4759
    @sibulelesonka4759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good day to the Makhs and Dream Team,
    One day kindly discuss maintenance of a long distance relationship(s) and it's sustainability. Both partners are committed and intentional to make the relationship to work.
    Sibu

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm blessed 'cause of the blessing that is you dear The Makhs❤❤❤
    Peace & blessings ✌

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you both exercise so much consideration, compassion, understanding and emotional maturity in these conversations

  • @InondaLeah
    @InondaLeah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let's talk about your etiquette in conversations,I love it everytime either of you apologizes for cutting short the other person,that you don't speak over each other .I love how intentional you are to respectfully allow the other person be heard.Thank you.

  • @vistorinaamputu4682
    @vistorinaamputu4682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for blessing us with your wisdom. Absolutely always so grateful for the lessons. Love love love it here.

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Our wise couple, siyabonga.
    The Great I AM loves you

  • @gladysmmosothoane6482
    @gladysmmosothoane6482 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    if only married people can have such discussions then marriages would last, so unfortunately people runaway from their problems without even trying to solve them, big ups my people so lovely

  • @Shiluva_Phakula
    @Shiluva_Phakula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am commenting before watching the vid because yall never disappoint. It's gonna be a banger

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sharing your journey with us has been so insightful for me personally. I’m learning a lot. Thank you and God bless you 🙏🏽❤️

  • @bloomingthoughts_
    @bloomingthoughts_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for another great and insightful conversation. My partner and I enjoyed it. Slowly getting him hooked on The Makhs. 😊

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The chemistry between you guys is so beautiful😭we learn so much from you guys and we love you so much ❤❤

  • @nontokozokatane5433
    @nontokozokatane5433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We love you too 🤗. Wow, I love the authenticity you two give us. Not afraid to voice your thoughts on either end of the spectrum of each topic. Practical advice is always welcome in today's world, everyone has a textbook answer but with you we see how experience has been a great teacher. Stay strong and blessed, continue your journey with grace as you have done so far and remember how appreciative we are of your experiences and willingness to share

  • @RefiloeMak
    @RefiloeMak 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talk about a word in season. Going through a challenging period with my partner and there’s so much of what you said that I could relate to. Love and appreciate you guys. Thank you. ❤️

  • @victoriasomtyato4400
    @victoriasomtyato4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unbelievably beautiful. Aaaah i wish all couples can watch this. Wow

  • @zukiswadudu5279
    @zukiswadudu5279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hayini guys you rock ❤🎉😊...
    wisdom wisdom wisdom

  • @jesiahselemela3222
    @jesiahselemela3222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To God be the Glory, that was so profound. You guys are buildind and rebuilding families, God keep you.

  • @MillenialKay
    @MillenialKay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So informative and enlightening as always
    Thank you for reminding us that marriage is a journey walked by two imperfect people♥️

  • @Ziziphontu
    @Ziziphontu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't even finished the entire video but yhoo this is soooo good. This topic is so relatable ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kokimothoagae9533
    @kokimothoagae9533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so informative, I am definitely listening 👂 to this for the second time 🧡 thank you 🙏 the makhs

  • @zamokuhlemashele8573
    @zamokuhlemashele8573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome installment as always ❤️
    Looking for similarities and not differences speaks to fixing your focus. What you choose to focus on will grow. So focus on the positive and cultivate a positive space. And also afford your partner grace ❤️

  • @duduzilesibanyoni8074
    @duduzilesibanyoni8074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much again for such a beautiful installment....I was holding tears half the time listening because it took me to my childhood were I was never heard 😢 💔 and that came with me to my adulthood. I am healing, doing much better 😌 by God's grace. I am praying I would have made a total 360 healing turn when I meet my purpose partner. 🙏
    I also dismiss a person very easily....kodwa I am a work in progress.

  • @karabomoloi3314
    @karabomoloi3314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this instalment🫶🏾. It came just in time as I plan on having a difficult conversation, I took down some notes and plan on implementing what I’ve learnt. God bless your ministry 💕

  • @sandyleputu8258
    @sandyleputu8258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful indeed, thank you for this. May God bless you more

  • @tsebedaphney2678
    @tsebedaphney2678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yoh👌 how do I get my boyfriend to listen to this?
    This was beautiful. Thank you guys ♥️

  • @lamelindiwekhumalo9655
    @lamelindiwekhumalo9655 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Makhs pouring some wisdom🔥❤. I really loved this installment. There is a lot to take home than just the 7 ways to avoid arguments. Absolutely loved your content. ❤

  • @kawentandokazi
    @kawentandokazi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! WOW!! What a beautiful installment guys, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. I even took some notes down to share with my partner because he does not watch TH-cam but he need to know these. I think this came at a time I needed it the most, you guys make marriage look good without even trying hard. Just being yourselves is enough for us. May the goodness of God follows you all the days of your lives. We are blessed ❤❤❤❤

  • @veronicachirombe7617
    @veronicachirombe7617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great conversation as always! So honest and transparent - thanks for sharing ❤

  • @bitzgracia1783
    @bitzgracia1783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "here's a thought, here's a thought"💃

  • @thanyanithelma6999
    @thanyanithelma6999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you soooo much guys, I know I'm only watching this today but wow beautiful, I love and learned all the tips.
    I commit myself to be a better partner.

  • @Mellisah
    @Mellisah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow just wow!im so gla I’m listening to gems like these

  • @vuyisekanjomba8672
    @vuyisekanjomba8672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wisdom here is👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼...
    Informative 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @lesegoshole6645
    @lesegoshole6645 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was incredible. As you guys were speaking I found myself being a rater of my past relationships (including myself because I’m not perfect). Love this it was magical discussion I hope everyone hears in their lifetime. xx

  • @olabuk2000
    @olabuk2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great matured discussion to being better selves thank you guys.

  • @kutlomasole712
    @kutlomasole712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great topic.Thank you guys,i really enjoyed this♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @fikileassah1026
    @fikileassah1026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so affectionate, I love that about you. That's my love language

  • @innoh3895
    @innoh3895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you family, this was so insightful❤

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You purely amazing! God bless you

  • @siyabulelaunathigongqa2957
    @siyabulelaunathigongqa2957 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going to get married soon. I've been plugged by my future wife to you guys. I take notes from you both. I love you guys. This podcast will help me in my marriage.

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally here to catch up🥰🥰

  • @johannahshokane2263
    @johannahshokane2263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your laugh Mrs Makhs😂😂❤️❤️

  • @lolwethungcawa8354
    @lolwethungcawa8354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hear for the content, life perspective and wisdom ✌️❤️

  • @matshidisomzinyathi357
    @matshidisomzinyathi357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfect just perfect nothing more 🥰

  • @ntsaeelizabethmanamela5728
    @ntsaeelizabethmanamela5728 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved this so so much ❤

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ndizofika emtshatweni sendine PHD mna because of this channel!

  • @limakatsoselatile6424
    @limakatsoselatile6424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless your souls, you both are truly Heaven sent for us all 💛

  • @marthaniitembu1077
    @marthaniitembu1077 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this installment and shared it with my loved ones

  • @thembelandawule8841
    @thembelandawule8841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gems!! :-) Love, love, love!!

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your happiness is your sole responsibility! It’s unfair to expect your partner (a fallible human being) to be your source of happiness.

  • @sibahlendlela5930
    @sibahlendlela5930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️ ✨ love this

  • @Adiela.baby.
    @Adiela.baby. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simply amazing

  • @TheOriee
    @TheOriee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing. I love it so much. So wholesome.❤

  • @sibongilemaureen524
    @sibongilemaureen524 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very very good! And so thought provoking, thank you guys for sharing your wisdom with us ❤️

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes and now you are fighting to be heard or listened to so you automatically don’t want to have the same pattern happening in your relationship or marriage but that is destroying the inner you and when you are a family your kids are most likely gonna be the same then nothing solves the issue that we’re present at the time and the issues that have grown to be a part of the current life. I feel like that’s when words like haibo onkare we are within a generational circle of none healthy things situations issues unfinished nton nton because a partner might leave the relationship or marriage cause that small thing which means a lot to them it’s like ( peace)

  • @mphogcwabe95
    @mphogcwabe95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good 😍

  • @Nsovo_M
    @Nsovo_M 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful insightful instalment thank you for always pouring your hearts to educate us this was amazing🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️i love you guys❤️

  • @bohlokoakhanyetsi6655
    @bohlokoakhanyetsi6655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang💃💃🥰🥰

  • @zamokuhlemashele8573
    @zamokuhlemashele8573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang 🎉🎉🎉💯💯💯

  • @sibuleledwakaza
    @sibuleledwakaza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's me taking a break emjolweni but watching this informative video, definitely taking tips for when I get back at it🥳🥳

  • @katlimoagi
    @katlimoagi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this guys
    The part about how much of your happiness is the responsibility of your spouse hmmm...i think I need more clarity on that one, if you guys dont mind getting into it more

  • @masentleanidachauke937
    @masentleanidachauke937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @solomonbanda5736
    @solomonbanda5736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing. this reminds me of a quote I read in the book Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerich "MY RESPONSE IS MY RESPONSIBILITY."

  • @kgomotsimolepo6420
    @kgomotsimolepo6420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful and mostly true, thank you ❤