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The system is so unfair. The "mom" can be a literal meth head with multiple arrests and yet somehow will still gain custody of the child while the dad destroys his body and soul just trying to see his kids. It's fucking tragic.
Just talked to one of my clients yesterday who got divorced after he found out his wife was having an affair. He makes less than $50k/year, she makes over $200k/year, they have 50/50 joint custody of their child, yet the court ordered HIM to pay over half of his income in child support to the wife. You can't make this shit up. The amount of cases like this just silently flying under the radar is sickening. The judges who order these sentences to men need to be publicly shamed and held accountable for each ludicrous decision they make.
That is absurd she practically is getting more money than him and now he's suffering financially because she happened to be a selfish fickle bitch? Let's just hope the guy doesn't get driven to suicide... And I must beg the question: why are women in America so miserable?
This really hurts women in the long run when they don't speak up and check these women and judges. Why do you think men don't want to get in relationships? Marriage is on the decline?
The fact there is any financial gain to anyone with 50/50 is horrific let alone the circumstances. They chose to live without you then go ahead and live without
I pay child support and don't see my son at all, last time I seen him he was 8 he turns 12 this month. His mom up and decided she didn't want me to see him at all anymore, changed her number, moved and blocks me on all social media and tells her family to stop relaying my attempts to reach out to her for my son. And she still receives my child support...This is a evil world, loaded with evil people.
Sad to hear my brother. I hope you document and keep all the payments for your son to see when he turn 18. He’s gonna come looking for you and he’s gonna find out the truth instead of the lies his mother spews to him. I’m praying for your mind and peace
I personally feel like this judge went lightly. If it was FEMALE JUDGE he'd get the death sentence and still be required to pay that $70K a week. He is soo lucky.
Dad had a stable job, was raising the daughter. Mom was living separately, doing odd jobs, travelling around. Suddenly mom decided she wanted to be the parent now, an ONLY parent. Going to court, throwing out accusations - of course she won. And as a bonus the dad was banned of any access to the daughter. Soon after he took his life. The mother is scot-free, the father is dead, the daughter is traumatized for life and will forever hate her mother.
I’ve paid 1200 a month for the past 6yrs. On top of about 20k in arrears. And oh, she hasn’t let me see my kid since 2017 💀 constant court proceedings and lawyer fees put me another 20k in the negative. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t suicidal for quite some time. I’m in a better headspace now, but the system is fucked to hell..
@@decespugliatorenucleare3780 Or I can just not risk anything and never marry or interact with women. All it is is a waste of time and money, a headache, and risking everything I have worked and will ever work for. Why bother searching for any woman when there’s a decently high chance life will end up way worse? That’s no different than gambling, and the house, or in this case the government, always wins.
@@zacharyhsieh9358 don't be like that: there's great women out there. they're just hard to spot within this chaos - for instance: they don't use internet publicly. so, forget about meeting them on social media. I've got several in my life. MGTOW is the ultimate psyop.
I went through this. It was horrible. Years of fighting. But miraculously last year my ex gave the kids to me as long as she doesn't pay child support and my can stop. Now my kids are with me and loved and I don't pay her a cent. Greatest miracle of my life.
@@RashaunEatOreos I agree. But that's the thing for so many fathers. They don't mind paying they just want to have their kids. I'm just grateful I get to raise my kids and see them the majority of time.
I remember when my ex wife tried me on this. She hated working, but due to some unknown reason she decided she was gonna divorce me and she did, taking my child and when the court ruled I would have to pay 1,000 dollars in child support, I didn't pay, I instantly stopped working. Got grabbed by the courts a month later where they asked why I wasn't paying child support so I gave them an honest answer. If I'm not with the wife and can't see the child and you don't monitor where it's going, then I'm not gonna pay that 1000 dollars. Funny enough, I got sent to jail for a year and they wanted me to get a job and start paying, and because I was tired of the bull I agreed at the cost of a paternity test. Turns out that the little bastard wasn't even my child. All I got was an apology from the court. And to make it worse, the bitch got with someone and was living perfectly fine without my money, and the child was being raised by her sister.
@Ricarlo you ain’t sorry for nothing. You say that on everyone’s comments (the comments you make appear on your channel btw) Just checked out some of your skits too and all I have to say is they are T R A S H. Stop spamming your unwanted lame content to others, thanks
When I was in high school I was dating a girl whose dad had to pay her mother $2.6k per child a month in child support on top of paying for her cheerleading activities, she bought me a playstation 3 when it first came out with her money. At that moment I knew what was up.
@King Nothing what the fuck are you talking about. She's not an angel, she's using the dad to get insane amounts of money out of child support and then use none of it on the child.
@@kingnothing5678 thats not what he means with child support its a scam because people dont actually use money to take care of their child they use it for personal things no mother just casually buys there child a playstation it has to be a special day and a ps3 when there mom going through child support your telling me i have to pay money to a women who pays 0% financially to breaks up with me and goes to court and have to pay thousands for them not to even take care of there child it’s literally unfair how a male can get scamme dlike that
@@clemsonfan9166 Depends on context. If it's anything like the video, then no, she should get nothing. Same goes for if she filed for the divorce in the first place; if you decide you want nothing more to do with me, don't go to a judge asking for my money, when I was more than willing to help out
@@clemsonfan9166 To be honest. I don't think my dad should pay anything (unfortunately he does have to however). I only get to see him for a couple hours twice a month. Each time he gives me and my sister 200$ he talks to us, like genuinely talks to us. He's incredibly loving aswell. Whereas my mom is just the opposite she's almost the textbook definition of "karen" and rarely ever talks to me, when she does it's all crap about my dad and how she's disappointed in me. It's not the worst situation though there's definitely kids that are worse off.
@@ezequielgarrido3984 Damn I'm sorry to hear that, that's basically what my son is going through with his mom. Once your old enough get out of there and spend more time getting to know your pops.
The system is so broken that one lady literally admitted she only uses his husband for money, and could get a job but chooses to live off her husband. And the judge still gave her a raise in child support. Because he made enough income. The child support was over 100,000.
And people wonder why men are radicalized in todays society… NOTTTTT because of some Joker movie 🤦🏿 these people are in a completely other reality not shared by the rest of us
Women: nah, I use the money to go party with my friends in bars and get more men and sue them for child support Judge: wow, you are so brave. Men: I pay 50,000$ a month for a child I did not intend to have, yet she kept it, cheated on me, & I was abused for years. Judge: Do I give a shit? No!
My sister is adopted and she was given to my parents when she was about 2 months by her birth mom (we’ll call Trish) cause Trish knew them and that they’d give her a good home. Fast forward about 8 years later and the Trish came back to take my sister away to be with her. My parents (who have 5 birth kids and have been together around 42 years as of 2023) thought there was no way the judge would take away a girl from the only family she’d known her whole life. But apparently the judge said that’s exactly what he was going to do. Go figure my Trish was not mother material because she apparently smoked drugs whilst “taking care” of her, as well as just straight saying she was going to take my sister from my family. All this culminated in my sister telling the Psychologist she had been seeing that she would throw herself out of the car if she had to go back with Trish again, to which the Psychologist told my parents saying that he believed her. So my parents went against the court order and took our family in our motorhome and stayed on the drive way of a family friend in the foothills near the city we live in. Upon returning to the court my dad told the judge it was solely his idea and he made my mom go along with it so that way they couldn’t throw her in jail as well. Judge ended up sending the case to a higher form of court or something (basically actual evidence had to be gathered on the various parents, their living situations, jobs and income, how they act independently as well as around the child, etc rather than just relying on the word of each party) Eventually a 3rd independent psychologist wrote a report basically saying that splitting my sister from us would be nothing short of cruel. And it was at that point that Trish and her lawyer gave up. The only thing that really gets me about this is that my sister (who’s around 26 now) still has emotional trauma from her mother.
The sad thing is this is true. The judicial system is absolutely bias. Dad can be holding a steady job, have good money, clean record, etc. Yet the mom can be a literal crack head, have no job, and be a straight dead beat. Yet mom gets custody. And dad is made to be a villain
That doesn't happen. If the mom is a crackhead call cps cause these kids would be placed in dads custody. If you know someone this happened to then tell them to call cps, create a record and go to court.
@@jininberry8204 You're wrong. There are cases where CPS and the cops have complete knowledge of what a waste of space the parent in question is and will continue to do nothing for one reason or another. Speaking from personal experience.
U live in a society where. If a man fails to pay alimony or child support, he is put behind bars. If a woman commits paternity fraud , she is free to go without facing any consequences.
I hope this never happens to me, allot of my friends dads are stuck in this position where they have a somewhat distaste toward a kid they never see but have to pay for. Really sucks.
@@ashh2748 I will never see my girls as anything but angels. My ex can do absolutely nothing to change the way I see my little ones. If you're a good person, you will love your children unconditionally. Don't even worry about growing up and disliking your kids, because that won't happen unless you're a piece of crap. Your kids are who you mold them to be. Yes there's SO MUCH that goes into it, but for the most part, your kids are yours to love.
After their divorce my Mother went full psycho on my Dad. I was too young at the time to understand the full ramifications of things she was asking me to do, believe, and say I now I have to forever live with the knowledge that I hated him for so long because of her lies, he is the only person I could ever really trust, the only person who has ever loved me unconditionally and she brainwashed me into hating him while she made him pay ridiculous amounts of money so that she could buy clothes and cigarettes. I remember she’d have me lay down in the back of her Jeep while she’s spy on my Dad’s apartment. She insisted he had been cheating.. but he told a very different story, about how she had been spending all of the money like crazy, how she refused to work. It wasn’t until she did it to me that I realized he had been telling the truth the entire time. She came to me crying, admitted that she had stolen her sibling’s inheritance and owed them as well as many lenders quite a lot of money. She knew I had a massive college fund set up by my late Grandparents and convinced me to let her use a little bit of it. She stole every penny. It wasn’t just that though, there were a lot of terrible things she did, some I probably would have been justified in killing her over. Come to think of it I probably should have. It wouldn’t have made me happy but maybe it would all hurt less now. The worst part though is the guilt I felt about how my Dad had been treated. He’d been nothing but absolutely honorable through it all and treated me so graciously despite my attitude towards him and constant questioning. He never once hated her, not like me, not like how she felt about him. He always said and you could see it in his eyes that he still loved her and even now in his old age he tells me that if he could he’s liked to have saved her. He is without a doubt the most honorable man I’ve ever met and I’m disgusted with myself that I have been unable to live up to the legacy he created. He didn’t deserve any of the hell she put him through and yet despite all that he persevered and smiled, he regained the vast wealth she had squandered and lived prosperously without her.
@@invincible5558 Years of abuse both verbal and physical. She once called the police on me, her only son, and claimed I had hit her when I had done no such thing. And why? I had refused to clean my room. That alone was enough for her to make the choice to try to get me put in juvenile detention. She used to hit me a lot, mostly in the face, knowing that I wouldn’t hit her back because I had been raised to respect women above all. And then when she’s reach out to touch me she’d have the nerve to ask me why I was flinching knowing full well what she did to me. Keep in mind I was still in middle school when most of this was happening. It got so bad at one point I was blacking out at school
@@VidelxSpopovich god bless you even if you're not religious I hope the best for you never allow evil people to put you in harms way even if they were the closest people to you and may God also bless your father for all what he endured
@@VidelxSpopovich Hang in there bro, people like that are parasites. What’s sadder is the fact that she’s your mother of all people, I have friends and family who absolutely hate their mothers because they are scummy people who don’t care about their children and it hurts to see. I hope all is well and that you’re able to recover what was lost and maybe gain some more in terms of confidence, money, ect.
My friend had this happen to him. He knew his ex was trying to get his savings, but he went to the bank and cashed all his savings and gave them to me. I'm still holding on to the money and 7 years left until I give them back.
I’m so glad people with a platform are talking about mens issues like this. Even though its a skit, most people never even bring it up. Thank you for making this.
It's referenced lots man. It's just not an open debate. Men in courts get treated worse, more commonly. Also more commonly repeated offenders because of just this.
People never bring it up because others can't tell the difference between pointing out sexism and discrimination, and being a white male supremacist. People also never bring it up because male supremacists almost always find the topic and try to piggyback off of it to share male supremacist ideas. Male supremacists are actively hurting men's rights, which is ironic and would be hilarious if it wasn't extremely sad.
I live in Europe. 21 years ago this happened to me. Starting with the whole "you'll speak when I tell you to" from the female judge. I paid alimony for 18 years and my ex-girlfriend always found excuses to prevent me from seeing my daughter and spent years turning her against me, to a point where I couldn't see her anymore as she refused to see me. It broke my heart. Later, when I spoke to the judge about it, her answer was "not my f**king problem".
When the mother refuses to let the father see his kid, there have been cases were the father would put that month’s child support payment into a trust, instead of paying it to her, and that actually worked in that he wasn’t punished for not paying her.
@@TheNotoriousNemo That's the most important point, and the one that moat people miss. Saying, "the system isn't fair to men" may be true, but it isn't going to bring about any results. Ultimately, the system is fair to itself so it needs utterly dismantled in favor of one with no possibility of personal benefit.
@@TheNotoriousNemo Shi me personally If she needed that money Id go to jail so she wouldnt get shit from me and would have to get a job. Id also document all the excuses etc and send it to my daughter telling her that if she wants to know the truth instead of being a bimbo and listening to everything she hears shed read it and use it as evidence with the judge just to have it on record. A have a few close friends whos baby mommas doin the same bs
Sister strung up a guy for child support for a kid she knew wasn't his for 4 or so years. Severed all contact after she couldn't milk him. Guy still considered them his child. My mother actively would feed her bs to cheat the legal system, telling her you will get away with this because you are the mother, they will take your side, just lie to them like this. Have been stalked by her boyfriends she actively cheated on, same guy trying to break into my bedroom window to learn about a kids she already aborted with out his knowledge. Had to lie to his face and say she miscarried because I didn't want to hurt the man with the truth she aborted in large part due to its possible skin color. If I never see either my sister or my mother for the rest of my life I'll consider it a blessing.
Dude, you have no idea how close to true this is. Literally waited for my turn before a judge. Listened while a guy was trying to get custody of his kid from the mom, not present in court, who has a warrant out because she tried to run the dad over with her car. My man was in a cast in court. The judge granted an extension to give the mom time to appear. Seriously, they hate fathers in family court. I see this same judge in September. She definitely hates men.
As someone who went through this insanely sexist and insane process years ago....damn, reading the comments makes me feel physical pain. Are there advocacy groups for this kind of problem?
It can be tough as hell being a single dad. I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it’ll help you. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
I went through this and paid tens of thousands only for the mother to ultimately endanger my son and was a raging drug addict and was arrested with meth pills and pot with my son crying in the back seat. I won custody and she was issued to pay child support. That was years ago. I haven’t received one red cent
@@figgot1571 wow. Well damn, if you think about it. The laws force us to figure out how to be better and we can and will if necessary. For women basically the laws keep them lazy and entitled, this actually robs them of real life.
Yeah, the child support system is based on the idea that women are always victims and men are always the aggressors. As long as this belief remains rooted in society, the courts will act like this. My mom and grandma were excessively vindictive about minor things during the divorce. Although I am glad that the divorce did happen, and that I wouldn't be seeing Dad for as long as he remained the way he was, it did hurt my Dad significantly - he's still successful and found a new hobby, but he tells me he was in a pretty awful state due to it for about two years. Me and Dad are making up now after seven years, since I was waiting for him to change from someone who pushes their beliefs endlessly into someone who advises but doesn't shove crap down your throat. My Dad was barely physically abusive - the abuse was emotional, and when compared to the stuff my mom's stepdad did to her, my dad's stuff seems quite minor. The Child Support system needs some reforms to deal with their whole sexism shtick, even if I ended up benefitting from it. This is one of the few things that distance me and my Mom as well as my Grandma. I have a neutral relationship with my Grandma (it feels like walking on ice sometimes, she is quite sensitive) and my mom is my best friend (but this is one of the topics that lessen my opinion of her). I have a cold, but warming up relationship with my Dad (he was very, very preachy and emotionally distant, though I feel bad for him because his parents spoiled the crap out of him; nowadays he's warming up, though it could be his midlife crisis)
Bro my mom was so vindictive against my dad she made him pay for like 10 years. At first I was a teen, sure, but by the end I was a grown ass nigga, living on my own for years, i had graduated from university, and had a steady career job. It made no goddamn sense. She actually subpoena me to show up in court once, just so it could play in her favor. She tried to convince me my dad had gay affairs (he hadn't). Oh and even though I was splitting my uni classes costs with dad, she stole the deductions related to those fees for her own personal income tax reports. What a nightmare of an era... and what kind of backward justice system gave her so much money even though I wasn't even around anymore...
@@TheCallowayBride Yea I dunno.. I mean, I still love her despite being fully aware of her flaws, but I don't think karma will have to do its job with her. I don't have the feeling she's happy or fulfilled. Sure, she has a tight grip on money like she wants to, but other than that, karma wouldn't have a lot to ruin here..
My father was the one in my family that taught me almost everything I know, and who was always a guide for myself and my sisters throughout our entire lives. He's never been perfect, he made some mistakes, but he always made sure we were safe, comfortable, and supported. My parents told us they were going to divorce when I was a junior in high school. I'm 21 now. They're still going to court every few months. My mother wants to bleed him for everything he's worth. I love her, but she hasn't always been there for me emotionally, and she tried to turn me against my father, who has always been my role model and the only friend I had as a kid when other kids in school avoided me. When I told her I had faith in him she guilt-tripped me for months and yelled at me telling me basically I wasn't being a good son. My father still to this day only wants what's good for his children, but gets treated like the bad guy, and most of our family, both her side and his won't even talk to him because all the slander she put out to everybody.
I feel terrible for all the great dads who go above and beyond for their kids yet get sh** on by the court system and bitter bit**es. I went to mediation with my ex and used her own greed against her. I had to give up my house, car, taxes, etc.. but in the end I have 50/50 custody and don’t pay child support. She’s still pissed I’ve moved and am happy. In the End I got what I always wanted to see my kids as much as possible. I struggle but do my best for my kids. To all the dope a** dads out their working your butt off for your kids. Trust me they notice it in the end you’re the winner. Don’t let anyone tell you any different
This was essentially how my case went, we worked out an agreement where I paid her $200 a month and was late one month and she filed against me because she “needed” more money, went to court, and because of the difference in our pay, my child support was set at $556 a month for one child, she found another job working part time and we ended up going back to court, with me making $16.50/hr full time and her making $13/hr part time, my child support went down by $5 a month
As a single dad that riased two boys on my own while their mother left us to "find herself", I can attest to this video being mostly....if not ALL true! It's alright though, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
Even though people say times have changed, this video is far more of an accurate assessment of how it really goes. My daughter's mother didn't show up to a hearing, got caught in a lie, and the judge still blamed me for her shortcomings in life. It was almost like she (the judge) knew my baby mama
Times have changed men not pursuing women anymore causing them to have to work and fend for them selves and men are wakin up at a alarming rate to female nature women are the most depressed theyve ever been in history taking more n more medicine the birth rate is lower and getting lower than its ever been women single rates are unbelievably higher than ever and is projected to get worse they get on tiktok and say how they hate men aka chad or pookie cause he dont settle down with them but they dont get removed from.the internet etc men are just done with women and would rather pay on seekin arraignments app or passport or just be alone and happy women need men to be happy men dont so women fucked in the short n long run
I feel this. My boyfriend and I hopefully get his son after a long fight and the mom abandoned him 2 years ago to rage out and go on a drug bender. He's staying with his three time convicted felon gma which he shouldn't even be aloud to stay there over that alone but cps is so incompetent they didn't even check her married she had the felony charges on. And this women sold her daughter to her brother for Crack the whole time the daughter was being raised by her. System is disgusting I hope we get him next month, cus he's nothing but a little extra money for her
My brother got screwed over in the system. He tried to get full custody and to get rid of support payments. The mother had DV and child abuse charges against her. The judge blamed my brother because he did not stop her from committing those acts. The judge also raised his child support. When my brother told them he could not afford the rate, the judge told him to live in his car. The system is corrupt. She also had a high-priced lawyer that was friends with the judge.
Wow this is really depressing. Almost undoes all the laughs I just had. Even so I am well aware that this skit hurts a lot of dudes who have experienced these same issues. My brother suffered a similar fate with his welfare queen of an ex wife. I told him to be careful of her especially since she already had two kids (from two other dudes) before she met my brother. Then when he had her kid she split not long after. He’s paying child support and now she remarried to another guy and has twins with him... this is madness...
I think your brother can take that court and sue the judge cause that sounds like a conflict of interest which I’m sure is illegal or highly frowned upon not sure I would suggest your brother learn more about the law it could save him in the end look at freeway Ricky Ross a crack dealer connected to Reagan and the contras with a CIA backed dealer he had a life sentence and found a way to get out of jail just a thought hope your brother pulls through
Smh I don’t see one woman in this thread acknowledging this as an issue. Sad…I’m sorry to all the men who have had to endure this. I don’t ever plan to contractually tie myself to anyone but I feel your pain.
I think both gender's issues are very real but people need to stop ignoring one's in favor of the other's. To get true gender(and general) equality everyone would have to work to solve everyone's issues in society.
You know why old school men were so tough? They probably figure it out a long time ago that they set women up to “help” them out of needing to do anything. Laugh through the tears. Drink it away at night like my dad did. Bury those feelings because they aren’t gonna help you get to work tomorrow. Be as a man should be. Useful. Until you die
@@georgemurdock7670 on god dat shit's mad fucking annoying.... then there go some bots somehow having 20 likes in less than 2 minutes and sometimes i wonder if there's any credibility left in the amount of likes that someone has.. eitherway, knowing how it is now i'm never expecting any big positive change from the youtube administration 😒
It's not just the court system that treats men like crap. It's also the entire family and friend base of the woman who has the child. Plus the people in courthouse like security that know you are involved in a child support case. I had this one woman who swore I was the father of her child and that she wasn't only with me. Named the little guy after me and all. Her family treated me bad because I wanted to be sure first. That was the worst time of my life how they treated me and all the names they called me. I even almost lost my life in that timeframe. The people in the courthouse made fun of me when they understood i was there for a DNA test. Told me don't forget to pay your child support. Turned out the kid wasn't mine. Until this day her being the woman she was, I doubt she ever told her son I wasn't his father. She probably kept that lie up considering they put my name on his birth certificate without my permission.
People need to keep bringing this issue to attention. Child support is a cruel and unfair system that needs to be changed. Some people have to pay up to 60% of their income. Ridiculous.
My mother was one of those “parents” that sold crack out of the house we lived in. My father fought hard every day to see my sister and I and only after 10 years of fighting in court did he finally get custody of us
as a woman myself, it's gut wrenching seeing these comments and their personal stories similar to this skit, the judicial system is very corrupt and i only hope and wish that there will be change to it, god bless those who are going through a tough time similar to this.
same, this is going to warn so many men to avoid women, not all women are like this SURE, but the stories are so loud that a lot of men will avoid them until our system faces some serious reform. The paternity fraud's, the affairs, the wasteful spending sprees these women go on, the emotional and financial destruction of decent hard working men... There's just so much messed up stuff going on that women are causing and not facing repercussions for, but I think from this year onwards there's going to be some serious pushback against that and its going to get very loud.
This is why I love the fact that "Liar Liar" included the scene where it shows the father should have full custody of the children, and Jim Carrey's character has an epiphany when the mother refuses to agree to joint custody of how evil she is, and how evil he was for helping people like her.
It's unfortunate that no judges or lawyers like that exist in the real world. Too busy lining their pockets to actually make the right decision and not screw good people over.
@@georgeeast5502 That's only true for judges and district attorneys. There are plenty of goodhearted defense attorneys who want to help people, some are even pro bono. For example, if you get a stupid traffic ticket for something that wasn't unsafe, such as speeding, a rolling stop, not making a complete stop when turning right, etc. that puts too many points on your license, then a lawyer for somewhere between 1.5x - 2x the cost of the ticket can get the ticket removed. They understand that more than 90 percent of law enforcement is about making money for the government, and want to help people from getting oppressed by the government. They have to charge what they do, because of too much market demand and time they have to be in court, so if they charge too little they'll be overwhelmed with having to choose who to help. Also, it costs a lot of money to become such a lawyer, so they need a reasonable rate of return to justify the time spent. The pro bono lawyers usually have clear qualifications for a case to prevent being overwhelmed. Defense attorneys like Fletcher Reed in the movie are super expensive, because their job is to defend people who have broken just laws, and they have the lack of morality and charisma to do it; for example, the people willing to represent Amber Heard. No lawyer with moral integrity would take her case, or they would have at least told her what they could help her settle for, but she wanted someone who could get her out of paying anything. I would actually say there are far more people in things like service trades that screw people over, as Steve Lehto often covers, and finding an honest one like a mechanic is near impossible without word of mouth from someone who was lucky enough to find one.
I literally came home yesterday from a long days work, to a letter from child support threatening to send a letter to the credit unions saying how I’m late in payments, though I’m not. I pay and still can’t see him. Situation breaks me down regularly.
It can be tough as hell being a single dad. I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it’ll help you. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
I'm best to have a woman that believes in family, my college buddy is not so lucky. Wife began cheating on him while he was on the border with the National Guard. Said he wasn't paying enough attention to her even though he in the middle of nowhere Texas burning up. He comes home and tries to work it out. She continues cheating with woman and men. He, in a desperation to keep his family together, allowed her to bring her girlfriend in and live with them. After 6 months of that, he decided that this wasn't working and that their marriage was over, he found someone at work and began texting with her. Wife found out and claimed he was cheating and divorced him and put him on child support. She calls my wife up and brags that he is paying $1700 for two dang kids. It hurts me the way he was treated by the system. Also, it what world does it take $1700 to raise two kids in Alabama? Hell I wish I got that type of raise at work when we had our first two.
Truth. My best bud had to prove his child was exposed to methamphetamine in order to get sole custody. The ex also showed up to court drunk -- twice. This process took two years.
I'm not going to lie. My mom is a single mother and she tried with my sister's dad. I have to be honest she really did. It feels like the system for the most part treats the parent that's actually doing their best to take care of the kids and all like their requests and all don't matter while the parent that's scheming and doing nothing gets everything without even trying. I feel so sorry for the guys that actually try to be there for their kids but the kid(s)'s mother just makes it incredibly difficult and then paints them in this bad light like they were never there. You just never know how some people are going to act or respond in some situations but money really does bring out people's true nature and those that are already causing chaos and a ruckus just seem to get even worse...
My sister got pregnant out of wedlock while I was going to college. Came back home and she was back living with my folks. My nephews father fell behind on child support, which my sister clearly didn't need since she was living rent free with my parents, an she and my entire family was trying to deny the father visitation because he fell behind on child support. It was one of the many things that caused me to have a fall out with my family and I have a very difficult time looking them in the face.
No no no You this is disgusting this is why men don't want to get married now this is what men don't want to get kids with this with freaking women because they do this kind of evil b******* who who denies their own child seeing their own child that's disgusting You did the right thing and I'm sorry but your sisters a piece of s*** You got to tell to her face because that obviously the dad can't otherwise he will get canceled for it or get thrown in jail it's disgusting man I don't know why or accepting such terrible behavior but it's exactly as you describe women just want to get baby so that they can have the dad's pay them money child support and not do anything I've seen this so many times The judges don't give a s*** they don't
I pity your nephews. Hope they turn out ok. This is why people should need license to have kids. They are prioritizing their own ego instead of doing what's best for the kid. The kid don't ask to be born and now they have to deal with this bullshit family.
@@natsudragneel-ir7sr every once in a while I find a person with this Profile Picture. It always catches me off guard. Also, you make a good point, it‘s kinda unfair for the kids.
Nah he got no f business if she live for free or not he got to pay the child and what make you think that he didn’t babytrap her acting like a fool ofc she wouldn’t let him see him bc he cleaRlY cArE about his child😒😒😒
When I literally had my ex allow me to be primary because she was partying and abandoning her kids like how she’s portrayed here once every 4 months . The judge STILL asked “ why would the mother allow you to have primary custody?” With a fierce attitude , my ex wife didn’t even show up or pay for the divorce. Her own attorney dropped her. I find it absolutely ridiculous that all us guys are treated like dead beats and don’t care to hear anything we say. Women are just as bad if not WORSE now than men ever were.
You know what would go a long way to fixing child custody courts? If the court required the parent receiving money to prove that the money is being spent on the child every month. Literally had to present a budget and receipts.
U fo need to pro ude that to courts when determining child support amounts. My baby daddy wants a support reduction and we both and to file proofs to court. Proofs like bills, current rent, pay stubs all of it
@@twohorsesinamancostume7606 fuck tjat. When my child support order is 50.00 per month Any idiot can figure a kid cost more than that. And still he doesn't pay. Been 7 months and nothing. The court system can fuck off
Dude. This shit is scary real. Went through this last year and the judge gave her everything she wanted because, and I quote, "I just don't see a reason to not give her what she wants," even though she lied through the whole thing. Called our child disabled to get sympathy from the judge ...our child is not disabled. She is completely healthy, smart and beautiful. I now see her 6 days a month. I have a clean record, served in the air force, have a bachelor's degree and was finishing said degree at the time with my GI bill. The judge said I should only get 23% because I was in school and needed to focus. I'm just glad that a fat feminist commissioner is allowed to decide what is best for me and my child. I also pay maximum child support and she got all my shit. Hardest year of my life
@Swag Master69 Just don’t get married like these idiots. If you truly find the right woman she won’t give a fuck if the government says that you are a couple that’s all marriage is. A death trap for 99% of males if they wife wants to fuck another dude
I know this is a satirical video, but I can’t find myself finishing it because of how accurate it is and how angry it makes me feel. Men are victims and it’s time to start taking them and their mental health seriously.
I've seen this happen to a friend of mine. The woman was actively dealing drugs and not feeding her child, but the system still fought tooth and nail against the father's interest.
Thank you Griffy for bringing men’s issues to the spotlight with your platform. Many men talk about these things but aren’t taken seriously or they get canceled. Hopefully people will stop gaslighting and shaming men for speaking up about our blatantly sexist justice system.
The woman always wins. I literally went to court a few years ago for a car accident. The judge asked my side of the story and I told exactly what happened. Then the judge asked her side of the story and she admitted it was raining and she drove into the back of my car because she couldn’t see in the rain and was texting the babysitter WITH THE CHILD IN THE CAR. judge ruled in her favor and she won $5K from my insurance company and they made me at fault for a accident I was rear ended and she admitted in court texting and driving with a child in the car and in the rain. Men are meant to fail against woman period 💯💯
@@Mr_Mistah where I am from hitting a car in the rear makes you the one at fault by default, no questions asked. If the person in question also admits to texting and reckless driving with rain then... that would make you the one at fault times ten
My dad had to go through the same thing when my mom cheated on my dad while he was deployed and tried to murder us all when he found out after getting home. He had gotten custody of all of his kids and still had to pay 1600 a month in child support. To a woman with no kids in her custody. And he had to attend parental classes and anger management classes for absolutely no reason. My dad had no house and was borrowing another soldier's car so at least he couldn't lose those lol. Child services asked us what we thought of our parents and accused our dad of abusing us because we said we didn't see him often because he was in Iraq or Afghanistan where he got a purple heart. We told the workers all the things our mother had done to us and they said that it was our fault and that rules were in place for a reason and not to act up.
I am disgusted. He had to pay a woman money for kids he was taking care of. He had to take anger management classes and not the mother. The kids got blamed for the decisions a grown woman made. This story gets worse and worse😔
I shed a tear at the last sentence. Kids were always to blamed by their parents action. I always get blamed for acting up and when I detailed all the abuse, their respond are "No it's not that bad".
My mother who was abandoned me with my father was ordered to only pay 90$ a month how am I supposed to live off that or even use it to help with expenses it's barely anything and she didn't have to pay years of back pay she walked out the court with a smile on her face. She didn't care that I was the one getting the money she only cared that she didn't have to pay anything.
Oh boy jokes aside this is accurate, being a victim of this for my kids is ridiculous. I had proof of why I was the better parent and more self sufficient and mentally stable but she is a woman so she needs all that money I work my ass off for and I barely get my kids because I have male privilege!
Keep fighting for your kids bro even if the court doesn't accept your grind, then at least you'll be able to inspire your kids if they observe all the efforts u put in, they'd come running to u. That would be enough. 👍
@@s4m1rza i agree 100% i heard a guys story and he said everytime im with him he's happy. He said i wont stop fighting cause my son will realize one day Im there for him and I care
My youngest daughter's mom got married (to a man with 3 kids), had another kid, and still refuses to get a job. And now I'm supposed to support the whole family..😒 At the time that we went to court, I was unemployed (2020 y'all). Judge ordered me to pay $1200 a month. Went back 3 months later, next judge said $250. She flipped out about it. Went back 3 months later, next judge said $700. Where is the logic? It just depends on how your judge feels that day
Reminds me of my ex-wife. We had 50/50 custody, she lived with her parents, had no bills, I had her mother saying she didn't spend much time with the kids and was out partying, I got a new job where I worked less and made less so I could spend more actual time with the kids and the judge increased my child support by $50 a month to $950. There were weeks that I had negative income because child support was more than I made. I've since gotten full custody and she hardly ever sees the kids, but I still get angry thinking about it today. That being said, there's deadbeats on both sides, mothers and fathers, I just wish the system looked at who the responsible parent is, rather than defaulting one way or the other because of gender
@@octoberlife We were doing 50/50 until we went to court. I was already paying $300 a month. Her mother just became more difficult from there. But let me ask you.. why should I (or any man, for that matter) have to "fight" to see my child? Especially when I WANT to..? I'm not gonna stress myself out to co-parent with someone I can't be in a room with. My daughter can find me when she's ready. I'll be here... but I'm not "fighting" to prove anything to anyone
There was someone I knew of, but he was my friend's friend we'll call him David for now and he ended up taking his own life back in 2019. It was a high school pregnancy (of course) but he didn't stray away from his child. After he and the mother of the child we'll call Karen for now finished high school after some time there were some bumps in the road, but her parents felt he was a deadbeat. What they didn't know was David was a natural in technology, he had a job on 23rd street for some tech business there and got paid well. What her parents did was set up an arranged marriage for her with some dude who was (at the time) most likely in his 30s and made sure that David did not know about any of it. Then the day came when he had to go to family court, Karen was there, her parents, and her newlywed husband. There were outbursts from David's side because Karen had obviously lied about what David does when he's around his child and how he'd "neglect" it. After 4 hours the court decided to give Karen custody of the child for the reason of...Financial stability because since they were not married and she is NOW, she, by default, was considered more financially stable than he was. This verdict destroyed David, he became the definition of "What changes a man". In March of 2019, horrible news was texted to me. David's child had died. To sum up the incident, Karen was at work, and the stepfather was home with the 3 kids (2 being his, 1 David's). David's child had crawled near the stepfather's phone charger in the other and electrocuted itself by chewing on the wire. The stepfather was sent to jail for child neglect for 10 years while she had to sit there and her husband goes to jail. 2 months passed and then I get a call from my friend and he tells me that David had committed suicide. I'm going to end it here, I know I typed more than I needed to, but when issues like this happen it's hard for me to not think about David's story. It's not a family court if it's meant to break families.
@@Phantom_275 tell your bro we here for him. Control what he can control and focus on himself. The Courts see a man tryna get on his feet so he can support himself and his child without the mother and they say "Oh, so you can pay her more"
Girl just left with our 2 year old son I’m going to have to go to court soon I even got evidence that she’s crazy but they ain’t gonna do shit about it
*Woman openly admits to being a horrible person*
Judge: Must’ve been the wind
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The system is so unfair. The "mom" can be a literal meth head with multiple arrests and yet somehow will still gain custody of the child while the dad destroys his body and soul just trying to see his kids. It's fucking tragic.
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Fr then most the time the dad who fought for his child is portrayed as a deadbeat who doesn’t love his son
Yep I agree.
@@Randomperson-if4hy exactly. "You're never there!"
"Bitch you won't let me see him!?"
@@neilxdavis5359 shut up
Just talked to one of my clients yesterday who got divorced after he found out his wife was having an affair. He makes less than $50k/year, she makes over $200k/year, they have 50/50 joint custody of their child, yet the court ordered HIM to pay over half of his income in child support to the wife.
You can't make this shit up. The amount of cases like this just silently flying under the radar is sickening. The judges who order these sentences to men need to be publicly shamed and held accountable for each ludicrous decision they make.
That is absurd she practically is getting more money than him and now he's suffering financially because she happened to be a selfish fickle bitch? Let's just hope the guy doesn't get driven to suicide...
And I must beg the question: why are women in America so miserable?
WTF!
@@themusicman2005 Exactly, wtf'ing f!
This really hurts women in the long run when they don't speak up and check these women and judges. Why do you think men don't want to get in relationships? Marriage is on the decline?
The fact there is any financial gain to anyone with 50/50 is horrific let alone the circumstances. They chose to live without you then go ahead and live without
Wife - “I buy crack”
Judge - “I’m glad you support black businesses” 😂
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He hates black as a black I'm not AA though
@@EndmayTriumphhe makes jokes about ANY race, including his own.. tfs wrong with that?
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Wife: "openly admits that she committed multiple crimes"
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Inmate: "What're you in for?"
Griffy: "Killed a judge with his own gavel."
Inmate: "Ah. Family court then."
if it always went out like that they would stop doing that but cowards made exploitation profitable
Reminds me of a grunt wondering why there isn't a guy posted out there everyday after his child court fisting.
At that point prison is better.
if I was on the jury id let him go, innocent
@@KumiChan2004 arrears
I pay child support and don't see my son at all, last time I seen him he was 8 he turns 12 this month. His mom up and decided she didn't want me to see him at all anymore, changed her number, moved and blocks me on all social media and tells her family to stop relaying my attempts to reach out to her for my son. And she still receives my child support...This is a evil world, loaded with evil people.
My life would be dedicated to making sure she endured the most brutal passing
Sad to hear my brother. I hope you document and keep all the payments for your son to see when he turn 18. He’s gonna come looking for you and he’s gonna find out the truth instead of the lies his mother spews to him. I’m praying for your mind and peace
@@amarismith9175 Yea, I thought along the same lines. Thank you.
Been there and still am. Stay strong king
Seek a lawyer. If visitation is part of the agreement, she’s totally in the wrong. If she moved out of state without permission, it’s even worse
I personally feel like this judge went lightly. If it was FEMALE JUDGE he'd get the death sentence and still be required to pay that $70K a week. He is soo lucky.
"Thank you for supporting black businesses."
I done nearly died at that part 🤣
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Dad had a stable job, was raising the daughter. Mom was living separately, doing odd jobs, travelling around.
Suddenly mom decided she wanted to be the parent now, an ONLY parent. Going to court, throwing out accusations - of course she won. And as a bonus the dad was banned of any access to the daughter. Soon after he took his life.
The mother is scot-free, the father is dead, the daughter is traumatized for life and will forever hate her mother.
Damn, sorry to hear that, was this about you or about someone you know?
Fooking horrible 😤🤬
Heh
Women
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@@AdrienMelody *laughter*
@@desisparta tf is he supposed dig up the dead guy to get a citation?
I’ve paid 1200 a month for the past 6yrs. On top of about 20k in arrears. And oh, she hasn’t let me see my kid since 2017 💀 constant court proceedings and lawyer fees put me another 20k in the negative. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t suicidal for quite some time. I’m in a better headspace now, but the system is fucked to hell..
society is finely tuned to completely destroy those who make even the slightest mistake - let alone a huge one like marrying the wrong woman
@@decespugliatorenucleare3780 Or I can just not risk anything and never marry or interact with women. All it is is a waste of time and money, a headache, and risking everything I have worked and will ever work for. Why bother searching for any woman when there’s a decently high chance life will end up way worse? That’s no different than gambling, and the house, or in this case the government, always wins.
@@zacharyhsieh9358 don't be like that: there's great women out there. they're just hard to spot within this chaos - for instance: they don't use internet publicly. so, forget about meeting them on social media. I've got several in my life. MGTOW is the ultimate psyop.
@@zacharyhsieh9358god bless.
@@zacharyhsieh9358 You're right. It shouldn't have to be this way, but if we can't win the game, then we shouldn't play.
I went through this. It was horrible. Years of fighting. But miraculously last year my ex gave the kids to me as long as she doesn't pay child support and my can stop. Now my kids are with me and loved and I don't pay her a cent. Greatest miracle of my life.
major congratulations man. many men dont get that privilage and are forced to pay with money they dont even have .
@@daijgocrazy amen to that. I feel so lucky with my circumstances, cause so few men have this happen.
Kinda sad she didn't wanna pay for her liveliness of her kids like u did just cause u got em
Says alot about her
@@RashaunEatOreos I agree. But that's the thing for so many fathers. They don't mind paying they just want to have their kids. I'm just grateful I get to raise my kids and see them the majority of time.
Now make the bitch pay child support
I remember when my ex wife tried me on this. She hated working, but due to some unknown reason she decided she was gonna divorce me and she did, taking my child and when the court ruled I would have to pay 1,000 dollars in child support, I didn't pay, I instantly stopped working. Got grabbed by the courts a month later where they asked why I wasn't paying child support so I gave them an honest answer. If I'm not with the wife and can't see the child and you don't monitor where it's going, then I'm not gonna pay that 1000 dollars.
Funny enough, I got sent to jail for a year and they wanted me to get a job and start paying, and because I was tired of the bull I agreed at the cost of a paternity test. Turns out that the little bastard wasn't even my child. All I got was an apology from the court. And to make it worse, the bitch got with someone and was living perfectly fine without my money, and the child was being raised by her sister.
God damn dude that's fucking horrible
Bro start a go fund me, DAMN that’s wild
My goodness man……I’m so sorry you had to go thru all that. This is screwed up
Wow, I would consult a lawyer, you might be owed compensation for wrongful imprisonment
Yeah bro they’d never find her body if I were you
The complete disregard for her open malice is like sugar in icing. Wouldn't be icing without it.
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When I was in high school I was dating a girl whose dad had to pay her mother $2.6k per child a month in child support on top of paying for her cheerleading activities, she bought me a playstation 3 when it first came out with her money. At that moment I knew what was up.
That's an angel. PS3 was a priceless artifact when it came out.
@King Nothing what the fuck are you talking about. She's not an angel, she's using the dad to get insane amounts of money out of child support and then use none of it on the child.
@@kingnothing5678 thats not what he means with child support its a scam because people dont actually use money to take care of their child they use it for personal things no mother just casually buys there child a playstation it has to be a special day and a ps3 when there mom going through child support your telling me i have to pay money to a women who pays 0% financially to breaks up with me and goes to court and have to pay thousands for them not to even take care of there child it’s literally unfair how a male can get scamme dlike that
This is to accurate and it's sad.
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As a child of divorced parents, let me tell you this video is almost 100% accurate lmao
How do you feel about this situation? Do you want your dad to pay for child support or your mom should get nothing?
@@clemsonfan9166 Depends on context. If it's anything like the video, then no, she should get nothing. Same goes for if she filed for the divorce in the first place; if you decide you want nothing more to do with me, don't go to a judge asking for my money, when I was more than willing to help out
@@clemsonfan9166 To be honest. I don't think my dad should pay anything (unfortunately he does have to however). I only get to see him for a couple hours twice a month. Each time he gives me and my sister 200$ he talks to us, like genuinely talks to us. He's incredibly loving aswell. Whereas my mom is just the opposite she's almost the textbook definition of "karen" and rarely ever talks to me, when she does it's all crap about my dad and how she's disappointed in me. It's not the worst situation though there's definitely kids that are worse off.
@@ezequielgarrido3984 take care of your sis
@@ezequielgarrido3984 Damn I'm sorry to hear that, that's basically what my son is going through with his mom. Once your old enough get out of there and spend more time getting to know your pops.
The system is so broken that one lady literally admitted she only uses his husband for money, and could get a job but chooses to live off her husband. And the judge still gave her a raise in child support. Because he made enough income.
The child support was over 100,000.
And people wonder why men are radicalized in todays society…
NOTTTTT because of some Joker movie 🤦🏿 these people are in a completely other reality not shared by the rest of us
Man from that money he mades he could hire somebody to kill her. His own fault he still got to pay her
@@georgemurdock7670 Bro, are you insane
@@rest1585 nah, paying 100k a month and then complaining would be insane
Niggas love to lie for attention on the internet
Women: nah, I use the money to go party with my friends in bars and get more men and sue them for child support
Judge: wow, you are so brave.
Men: I pay 50,000$ a month for a child I did not intend to have, yet she kept it, cheated on me, & I was abused for years.
Judge: Do I give a shit? No!
My sister is adopted and she was given to my parents when she was about 2 months by her birth mom (we’ll call Trish) cause Trish knew them and that they’d give her a good home.
Fast forward about 8 years later and the Trish came back to take my sister away to be with her. My parents (who have 5 birth kids and have been together around 42 years as of 2023) thought there was no way the judge would take away a girl from the only family she’d known her whole life. But apparently the judge said that’s exactly what he was going to do. Go figure my Trish was not mother material because she apparently smoked drugs whilst “taking care” of her, as well as just straight saying she was going to take my sister from my family.
All this culminated in my sister telling the Psychologist she had been seeing that she would throw herself out of the car if she had to go back with Trish again, to which the Psychologist told my parents saying that he believed her.
So my parents went against the court order and took our family in our motorhome and stayed on the drive way of a family friend in the foothills near the city we live in.
Upon returning to the court my dad told the judge it was solely his idea and he made my mom go along with it so that way they couldn’t throw her in jail as well.
Judge ended up sending the case to a higher form of court or something (basically actual evidence had to be gathered on the various parents, their living situations, jobs and income, how they act independently as well as around the child, etc rather than just relying on the word of each party)
Eventually a 3rd independent psychologist wrote a report basically saying that splitting my sister from us would be nothing short of cruel. And it was at that point that Trish and her lawyer gave up.
The only thing that really gets me about this is that my sister (who’s around 26 now) still has emotional trauma from her mother.
The sad thing is this is true.
The judicial system is absolutely bias.
Dad can be holding a steady job, have good money, clean record, etc. Yet the mom can be a literal crack head, have no job, and be a straight dead beat.
Yet mom gets custody. And dad is made to be a villain
Lol. How her being vindicate mean declined child support. Don't have have a kid don't have a child support. But she should let him see the kid
Wait.. why the hec would he have a child with a crack head though?
@@tgdfgjtd9510 girl shouldn't have spread her legs then.
That doesn't happen. If the mom is a crackhead call cps cause these kids would be placed in dads custody. If you know someone this happened to then tell them to call cps, create a record and go to court.
@@jininberry8204 You're wrong. There are cases where CPS and the cops have complete knowledge of what a waste of space the parent in question is and will continue to do nothing for one reason or another. Speaking from personal experience.
U live in a society where.
If a man fails to pay alimony or child support, he is put behind bars.
If a woman commits paternity fraud , she is free to go without facing any consequences.
Based token dispensed
A woman can grape a child and face no consciousness.
Lol, could be worse. You could live in France, where paternity tests are pretty much illegal
@@beowulf916 really? How?
@@NoNONo979 Just gonna copy/paste the second part of my comment.
You could live in France, where paternity tests are pretty much illegal
This man is trying to help us with his comedy 😂💀
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Didn't realise it was suppose to be comedy. It's all factual.
Comedy? It looks like a documental.
I'm forced to pay child support for two kids that the mother's won't allow me to see... This is very accurate.
I’m in the same boat with my 2 year old… his mother does even let me see him
Seriously just leave the country. They can't come after you for child support in another country.
@@deathtdowhow would you go about doing that
"I have to pay child support" , usually means , "I have to give money to my ex who is a child mentally"
I hope this never happens to me, allot of my friends dads are stuck in this position where they have a somewhat distaste toward a kid they never see but have to pay for. Really sucks.
@@ashh2748 don’t dislike the kid for a horrible mother ffs
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@Win From Within yes
@@ashh2748 I will never see my girls as anything but angels. My ex can do absolutely nothing to change the way I see my little ones. If you're a good person, you will love your children unconditionally. Don't even worry about growing up and disliking your kids, because that won't happen unless you're a piece of crap. Your kids are who you mold them to be. Yes there's SO MUCH that goes into it, but for the most part, your kids are yours to love.
After their divorce my Mother went full psycho on my Dad. I was too young at the time to understand the full ramifications of things she was asking me to do, believe, and say I now I have to forever live with the knowledge that I hated him for so long because of her lies, he is the only person I could ever really trust, the only person who has ever loved me unconditionally and she brainwashed me into hating him while she made him pay ridiculous amounts of money so that she could buy clothes and cigarettes.
I remember she’d have me lay down in the back of her Jeep while she’s spy on my Dad’s apartment. She insisted he had been cheating.. but he told a very different story, about how she had been spending all of the money like crazy, how she refused to work. It wasn’t until she did it to me that I realized he had been telling the truth the entire time. She came to me crying, admitted that she had stolen her sibling’s inheritance and owed them as well as many lenders quite a lot of money. She knew I had a massive college fund set up by my late Grandparents and convinced me to let her use a little bit of it. She stole every penny. It wasn’t just that though, there were a lot of terrible things she did, some I probably would have been justified in killing her over. Come to think of it I probably should have. It wouldn’t have made me happy but maybe it would all hurt less now.
The worst part though is the guilt I felt about how my Dad had been treated. He’d been nothing but absolutely honorable through it all and treated me so graciously despite my attitude towards him and constant questioning. He never once hated her, not like me, not like how she felt about him. He always said and you could see it in his eyes that he still loved her and even now in his old age he tells me that if he could he’s liked to have saved her. He is without a doubt the most honorable man I’ve ever met and I’m disgusted with myself that I have been unable to live up to the legacy he created. He didn’t deserve any of the hell she put him through and yet despite all that he persevered and smiled, he regained the vast wealth she had squandered and lived prosperously without her.
Dang bro that was an amazing story would you mind saying what she did to the point where the thought of killing her was maybe necessary?
@@invincible5558 Years of abuse both verbal and physical. She once called the police on me, her only son, and claimed I had hit her when I had done no such thing. And why? I had refused to clean my room. That alone was enough for her to make the choice to try to get me put in juvenile detention.
She used to hit me a lot, mostly in the face, knowing that I wouldn’t hit her back because I had been raised to respect women above all. And then when she’s reach out to touch me she’d have the nerve to ask me why I was flinching knowing full well what she did to me.
Keep in mind I was still in middle school when most of this was happening. It got so bad at one point I was blacking out at school
@@VidelxSpopovich god bless you even if you're not religious
I hope the best for you never allow evil people to put you in harms way even if they were the closest people to you
and may God also bless your father for all what he endured
@@VidelxSpopovich it’s never too late 😈
@@VidelxSpopovich Hang in there bro, people like that are parasites. What’s sadder is the fact that she’s your mother of all people, I have friends and family who absolutely hate their mothers because they are scummy people who don’t care about their children and it hurts to see. I hope all is well and that you’re able to recover what was lost and maybe gain some more in terms of confidence, money, ect.
This is a safe place my brothas , feel safe to speak
it's not a safe place: it's a collection of horror stories
My friend had this happen to him. He knew his ex was trying to get his savings, but he went to the bank and cashed all his savings and gave them to me. I'm still holding on to the money and 7 years left until I give them back.
W friend 💪🏾♥️
You're an amazing man
@Jakob Whaley lol in reality he spent the money and is looking to ghost his friend soon enough.
@@valaxius Bro's before hoes. I would not do that to a childhood friend of mine who has helped me alot during the years.
Fucking genius. W Friend
I’m so glad people with a platform are talking about mens issues like this. Even though its a skit, most people never even bring it up. Thank you for making this.
It's referenced lots man. It's just not an open debate.
Men in courts get treated worse, more commonly. Also more commonly repeated offenders because of just this.
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People never bring it up because others can't tell the difference between pointing out sexism and discrimination, and being a white male supremacist.
People also never bring it up because male supremacists almost always find the topic and try to piggyback off of it to share male supremacist ideas. Male supremacists are actively hurting men's rights, which is ironic and would be hilarious if it wasn't extremely sad.
Skit? What are you talking about, this is a live feed.
@@TheScarletSlayer 😳 the sad part is if you did this in a court room with good actors no one would know
I live in Europe. 21 years ago this happened to me.
Starting with the whole "you'll speak when I tell you to" from the female judge.
I paid alimony for 18 years and my ex-girlfriend always found excuses to prevent me from seeing my daughter and spent years turning her against me, to a point where I couldn't see her anymore as she refused to see me. It broke my heart.
Later, when I spoke to the judge about it, her answer was "not my f**king problem".
When the mother refuses to let the father see his kid, there have been cases were the father would put that month’s child support payment into a trust, instead of paying it to her, and that actually worked in that he wasn’t punished for not paying her.
@@orppranator5230 yeah but most likely that wouldn't work and dad would be locked up for not paying the state/mom. The state wants its money
@@TheNotoriousNemo That's the most important point, and the one that moat people miss. Saying, "the system isn't fair to men" may be true, but it isn't going to bring about any results. Ultimately, the system is fair to itself so it needs utterly dismantled in favor of one with no possibility of personal benefit.
@@TheNotoriousNemo Shi me personally If she needed that money Id go to jail so she wouldnt get shit from me and would have to get a job. Id also document all the excuses etc and send it to my daughter telling her that if she wants to know the truth instead of being a bimbo and listening to everything she hears shed read it and use it as evidence with the judge just to have it on record. A have a few close friends whos baby mommas doin the same bs
Where in Europe?
Sister strung up a guy for child support for a kid she knew wasn't his for 4 or so years. Severed all contact after she couldn't milk him. Guy still considered them his child. My mother actively would feed her bs to cheat the legal system, telling her you will get away with this because you are the mother, they will take your side, just lie to them like this. Have been stalked by her boyfriends she actively cheated on, same guy trying to break into my bedroom window to learn about a kids she already aborted with out his knowledge. Had to lie to his face and say she miscarried because I didn't want to hurt the man with the truth she aborted in large part due to its possible skin color. If I never see either my sister or my mother for the rest of my life I'll consider it a blessing.
wow, that's truly unfortunate. I hope you and the guy recover from something like this because no one deserves to go through this.
Man she's a nasty mudshark. Never marry those types btw
I've been married 5 years. Together 11 years. I do not want kids for this very reason. Pull out game on point fellas.
Not guaranteed. Vasectomy is your friend.
@@JorgoSimonidhi I'd like to keep my manhood. Thank you very much.
@@pmbarro what does that have to do with manhood?
Married to not have kids? Playing yourself
@@JorgoSimonidhi my ability to procreate if I choose. What us men were put on this earth to do.
“I want him to suffer” “you’re so brave🥺”💀
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@Ricarlo no one calls you that
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Dude, you have no idea how close to true this is. Literally waited for my turn before a judge. Listened while a guy was trying to get custody of his kid from the mom, not present in court, who has a warrant out because she tried to run the dad over with her car. My man was in a cast in court. The judge granted an extension to give the mom time to appear. Seriously, they hate fathers in family court. I see this same judge in September. She definitely hates men.
Good luck.
It's so sad how they breaking up the family so kids are raised by the state
SMH 🤦♂️. That’s just sad.
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stupid feminists who hate men should NOT be be family judges
As someone who went through this insanely sexist and insane process years ago....damn, reading the comments makes me feel physical pain. Are there advocacy groups for this kind of problem?
It can be tough as hell being a single dad. I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it’ll help you. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
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Lesson I'm talking from this. Never get married, never have s3x.
My heart goes to all the Fathers that got played by the system
It needs to change
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When u say it like that ouch 😭😂 buh freal
I went through this and paid tens of thousands only for the mother to ultimately endanger my son and was a raging drug addict and was arrested with meth pills and pot with my son crying in the back seat. I won custody and she was issued to pay child support. That was years ago. I haven’t received one red cent
I thought there was jail time for not paying
@@50kT only for guys
Why didn't you take revenge on her ?
@@figgot1571 wow. Well damn, if you think about it. The laws force us to figure out how to be better and we can and will if necessary. For women basically the laws keep them lazy and entitled, this actually robs them of real life.
I imagine it's difficult to squeeze blood out of a meth crystal.
Woman: "I steal every once in a while and I also set up men."
Judge: 🥰
Yeah, the child support system is based on the idea that women are always victims and men are always the aggressors. As long as this belief remains rooted in society, the courts will act like this.
My mom and grandma were excessively vindictive about minor things during the divorce. Although I am glad that the divorce did happen, and that I wouldn't be seeing Dad for as long as he remained the way he was, it did hurt my Dad significantly - he's still successful and found a new hobby, but he tells me he was in a pretty awful state due to it for about two years.
Me and Dad are making up now after seven years, since I was waiting for him to change from someone who pushes their beliefs endlessly into someone who advises but doesn't shove crap down your throat. My Dad was barely physically abusive - the abuse was emotional, and when compared to the stuff my mom's stepdad did to her, my dad's stuff seems quite minor.
The Child Support system needs some reforms to deal with their whole sexism shtick, even if I ended up benefitting from it.
This is one of the few things that distance me and my Mom as well as my Grandma. I have a neutral relationship with my Grandma (it feels like walking on ice sometimes, she is quite sensitive) and my mom is my best friend (but this is one of the topics that lessen my opinion of her). I have a cold, but warming up relationship with my Dad (he was very, very preachy and emotionally distant, though I feel bad for him because his parents spoiled the crap out of him; nowadays he's warming up, though it could be his midlife crisis)
Wife: i want him to suffer.
Judge: you're strong and independent.
Brave and stunning. Empowered
Wtf, I am afraid of single baby momma
Bro my mom was so vindictive against my dad she made him pay for like 10 years. At first I was a teen, sure, but by the end I was a grown ass nigga, living on my own for years, i had graduated from university, and had a steady career job. It made no goddamn sense. She actually subpoena me to show up in court once, just so it could play in her favor. She tried to convince me my dad had gay affairs (he hadn't). Oh and even though I was splitting my uni classes costs with dad, she stole the deductions related to those fees for her own personal income tax reports. What a nightmare of an era... and what kind of backward justice system gave her so much money even though I wasn't even around anymore...
Wow
Karma's gonna come kicking in her door. I know that's your mom but it's true.
@@TheCallowayBride Yea I dunno.. I mean, I still love her despite being fully aware of her flaws, but I don't think karma will have to do its job with her. I don't have the feeling she's happy or fulfilled. Sure, she has a tight grip on money like she wants to, but other than that, karma wouldn't have a lot to ruin here..
It’s because the system doesn’t want to pay for it so they make dudes pay for it.
I’m suprised how u didn’t confront her and made her know how evil she was for acting like that
My father was the one in my family that taught me almost everything I know, and who was always a guide for myself and my sisters throughout our entire lives. He's never been perfect, he made some mistakes, but he always made sure we were safe, comfortable, and supported. My parents told us they were going to divorce when I was a junior in high school. I'm 21 now. They're still going to court every few months. My mother wants to bleed him for everything he's worth. I love her, but she hasn't always been there for me emotionally, and she tried to turn me against my father, who has always been my role model and the only friend I had as a kid when other kids in school avoided me. When I told her I had faith in him she guilt-tripped me for months and yelled at me telling me basically I wasn't being a good son. My father still to this day only wants what's good for his children, but gets treated like the bad guy, and most of our family, both her side and his won't even talk to him because all the slander she put out to everybody.
I feel terrible for all the great dads who go above and beyond for their kids yet get sh** on by the court system and bitter bit**es. I went to mediation with my ex and used her own greed against her. I had to give up my house, car, taxes, etc.. but in the end I have 50/50 custody and don’t pay child support. She’s still pissed I’ve moved and am happy. In the End I got what I always wanted to see my kids as much as possible. I struggle but do my best for my kids. To all the dope a** dads out their working your butt off for your kids. Trust me they notice it in the end you’re the winner. Don’t let anyone tell you any different
This was essentially how my case went, we worked out an agreement where I paid her $200 a month and was late one month and she filed against me because she “needed” more money, went to court, and because of the difference in our pay, my child support was set at $556 a month for one child, she found another job working part time and we ended up going back to court, with me making $16.50/hr full time and her making $13/hr part time, my child support went down by $5 a month
It's like Muslims say: No kiss before marriage
Man fuck all yall wierdo ass spammers.
Hope it get better for you bro
Sorry to hear that man
Try to get joint Custody if you can ✊🏽
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As a single dad that riased two boys on my own while their mother left us to "find herself", I can attest to this video being mostly....if not ALL true! It's alright though, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
Proud of you bud
Tf does "find herself", mean😭 but good on you bro
@@khepribrando1926 prob just an excuse so she could leave
@@khepribrando1926 she wanted her back blown out
@@khepribrando1926 an excuse to not take care of her children and get trains ran thru her every Weekend
This really hurts because I was raised by my father and this happened to him.
Why don’t feminists jump on this issue and decry the apparent “inequality” that men suffer, if indeed gender equality is their advocacy?
Even though people say times have changed, this video is far more of an accurate assessment of how it really goes. My daughter's mother didn't show up to a hearing, got caught in a lie, and the judge still blamed me for her shortcomings in life. It was almost like she (the judge) knew my baby mama
Times have changed men not pursuing women anymore causing them to have to work and fend for them selves and men are wakin up at a alarming rate to female nature women are the most depressed theyve ever been in history taking more n more medicine the birth rate is lower and getting lower than its ever been women single rates are unbelievably higher than ever and is projected to get worse they get on tiktok and say how they hate men aka chad or pookie cause he dont settle down with them but they dont get removed from.the internet etc men are just done with women and would rather pay on seekin arraignments app or passport or just be alone and happy women need men to be happy men dont so women fucked in the short n long run
I feel this. My boyfriend and I hopefully get his son after a long fight and the mom abandoned him 2 years ago to rage out and go on a drug bender. He's staying with his three time convicted felon gma which he shouldn't even be aloud to stay there over that alone but cps is so incompetent they didn't even check her married she had the felony charges on. And this women sold her daughter to her brother for Crack the whole time the daughter was being raised by her. System is disgusting I hope we get him next month, cus he's nothing but a little extra money for her
@@vanessaheslop9838 Damn, america be wildin with the crack stories sometimes. Sold her daughter for crack??
@@vanessaheslop9838 damn
Female judge, that’ll do it
My brother got screwed over in the system. He tried to get full custody and to get rid of support payments. The mother had DV and child abuse charges against her. The judge blamed my brother because he did not stop her from committing those acts. The judge also raised his child support. When my brother told them he could not afford the rate, the judge told him to live in his car. The system is corrupt. She also had a high-priced lawyer that was friends with the judge.
How tf is all of this allowed, judges like this should be tortured to death
Wow this is really depressing. Almost undoes all the laughs I just had. Even so I am well aware that this skit hurts a lot of dudes who have experienced these same issues. My brother suffered a similar fate with his welfare queen of an ex wife. I told him to be careful of her especially since she already had two kids (from two other dudes) before she met my brother. Then when he had her kid she split not long after. He’s paying child support and now she remarried to another guy and has twins with him... this is madness...
I think your brother can take that court and sue the judge cause that sounds like a conflict of interest which I’m sure is illegal or highly frowned upon not sure I would suggest your brother learn more about the law it could save him in the end look at freeway Ricky Ross a crack dealer connected to Reagan and the contras with a CIA backed dealer he had a life sentence and found a way to get out of jail just a thought hope your brother pulls through
@@yaboyflux3970 He tried and his case was denied. This happened 10 years ago. He just said fuck it, and has been doing the best he can.
If they're friends. I think that's a conflict of interest
Had to comment twice. It’s not even fucking funny how accurate this is
Smh I don’t see one woman in this thread acknowledging this as an issue. Sad…I’m sorry to all the men who have had to endure this. I don’t ever plan to contractually tie myself to anyone but I feel your pain.
I love how everyone can just laugh men's issues away, while we're forced to keep working on woman's self made issues
I think both gender's issues are very real but people need to stop ignoring one's in favor of the other's. To get true gender(and general) equality everyone would have to work to solve everyone's issues in society.
@@d.s.s.9935 you just deflected his whole comment
@@d.s.s.9935 the comment went right through your head bro
@@CatoProduction exactly
You know why old school men were so tough? They probably figure it out a long time ago that they set women up to “help” them out of needing to do anything. Laugh through the tears. Drink it away at night like my dad did. Bury those feelings because they aren’t gonna help you get to work tomorrow. Be as a man should be. Useful. Until you die
That “judge” brought out a primal anger in me.
@@RicarloVolleyball you arent like griffy, you arent funny, stop spamming your adds everywhere.
@@georgemurdock7670 on god dat shit's mad fucking annoying.... then there go some bots somehow having 20 likes in less than 2 minutes and sometimes i wonder if there's any credibility left in the amount of likes that someone has.. eitherway, knowing how it is now i'm never expecting any big positive change from the youtube administration 😒
It's not just the court system that treats men like crap. It's also the entire family and friend base of the woman who has the child. Plus the people in courthouse like security that know you are involved in a child support case. I had this one woman who swore I was the father of her child and that she wasn't only with me. Named the little guy after me and all. Her family treated me bad because I wanted to be sure first.
That was the worst time of my life how they treated me and all the names they called me. I even almost lost my life in that timeframe. The people in the courthouse made fun of me when they understood i was there for a DNA test. Told me don't forget to pay your child support. Turned out the kid wasn't mine. Until this day her being the woman she was, I doubt she ever told her son I wasn't his father. She probably kept that lie up considering they put my name on his birth certificate without my permission.
It's an exaggeration, but at the same time it's not. Smh.
It's really sad how true this is. Corrupt and biased judges, forcing men to pay child support when they shouldn't have to. System is all fucked.
@Ricarlo bruh
Yeah wassup with that
I seen a ss might have been a meme but this chick tried to get her sperm donor to pay child support💀
It’s because everyone benefits from it, except the father(and the child).
The courts, the state, and the mother all laugh their way to the bank.
Amd this is because of secularism or religion?
People need to keep bringing this issue to attention. Child support is a cruel and unfair system that needs to be changed. Some people have to pay up to 60% of their income. Ridiculous.
Just don't have kids. Ez pz.
@@user-kp8mv8od4c I was thinking the same thing
The judges think the kids should wear gucci diapers
I know a woman who had to pay child support, shocking I know, and she only had to pay $100 a paycheck for 3 kids
@@yur0nf1r3 OH my! How did she ever get by??!! I think my dad was paying about $200 for me alone.
Lucky, judge took it easy on him compared to other men I know 🤣
I’m sorry to all men that have to go through stuff like this.
Griffy’s vocal chords when he’s covering a politically hot topic: “ah shit here we go again.”
Let's be Honest We knew it
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That "what the fuck?!" did hit different.
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My mother was one of those “parents” that sold crack out of the house we lived in. My father fought hard every day to see my sister and I and only after 10 years of fighting in court did he finally get custody of us
Finally the Father is Victorious!!!!!
10 years?! The system needs to be burned to the ground and replaced
10 years wtf? say you're joking right now..sorry this happened to you
10 years I just can't even imagine that that's just awful too awful for words to describe.
@@declang7940 Only after the kids were past 14, the age you're allowed to have a voice in the court on who you want to live with.
as a woman myself, it's gut wrenching seeing these comments and their personal stories similar to this skit, the judicial system is very corrupt and i only hope and wish that there will be change to it, god bless those who are going through a tough time similar to this.
I haven’t laughed this hard since a toddler, you don’t know how much I appreciate you
Going through the comments section almost made me tear up. Sorry to all of you who went through this.
same, this is going to warn so many men to avoid women, not all women are like this SURE, but the stories are so loud that a lot of men will avoid them until our system faces some serious reform.
The paternity fraud's, the affairs, the wasteful spending sprees these women go on, the emotional and financial destruction of decent hard working men... There's just so much messed up stuff going on that women are causing and not facing repercussions for, but I think from this year onwards there's going to be some serious pushback against that and its going to get very loud.
Yeah it breaks my heart reading these too. I thought people were gunna be funny, but after reading people's experiences I feel so awful
This is why I love the fact that "Liar Liar" included the scene where it shows the father should have full custody of the children, and Jim Carrey's character has an epiphany when the mother refuses to agree to joint custody of how evil she is, and how evil he was for helping people like her.
It's unfortunate that no judges or lawyers like that exist in the real world. Too busy lining their pockets to actually make the right decision and not screw good people over.
@@georgeeast5502 That's only true for judges and district attorneys. There are plenty of goodhearted defense attorneys who want to help people, some are even pro bono. For example, if you get a stupid traffic ticket for something that wasn't unsafe, such as speeding, a rolling stop, not making a complete stop when turning right, etc. that puts too many points on your license, then a lawyer for somewhere between 1.5x - 2x the cost of the ticket can get the ticket removed. They understand that more than 90 percent of law enforcement is about making money for the government, and want to help people from getting oppressed by the government. They have to charge what they do, because of too much market demand and time they have to be in court, so if they charge too little they'll be overwhelmed with having to choose who to help. Also, it costs a lot of money to become such a lawyer, so they need a reasonable rate of return to justify the time spent. The pro bono lawyers usually have clear qualifications for a case to prevent being overwhelmed.
Defense attorneys like Fletcher Reed in the movie are super expensive, because their job is to defend people who have broken just laws, and they have the lack of morality and charisma to do it; for example, the people willing to represent Amber Heard. No lawyer with moral integrity would take her case, or they would have at least told her what they could help her settle for, but she wanted someone who could get her out of paying anything. I would actually say there are far more people in things like service trades that screw people over, as Steve Lehto often covers, and finding an honest one like a mechanic is near impossible without word of mouth from someone who was lucky enough to find one.
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I literally came home yesterday from a long days work, to a letter from child support threatening to send a letter to the credit unions saying how I’m late in payments, though I’m not. I pay and still can’t see him. Situation breaks me down regularly.
It can be tough as hell being a single dad. I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it’ll help you. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
I'm best to have a woman that believes in family, my college buddy is not so lucky. Wife began cheating on him while he was on the border with the National Guard. Said he wasn't paying enough attention to her even though he in the middle of nowhere Texas burning up. He comes home and tries to work it out. She continues cheating with woman and men. He, in a desperation to keep his family together, allowed her to bring her girlfriend in and live with them. After 6 months of that, he decided that this wasn't working and that their marriage was over, he found someone at work and began texting with her. Wife found out and claimed he was cheating and divorced him and put him on child support. She calls my wife up and brags that he is paying $1700 for two dang kids. It hurts me the way he was treated by the system. Also, it what world does it take $1700 to raise two kids in Alabama? Hell I wish I got that type of raise at work when we had our first two.
Truth. My best bud had to prove his child was exposed to methamphetamine in order to get sole custody. The ex also showed up to court drunk -- twice. This process took two years.
Two... Years...
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@@tonistark2692 2 years of irreparable trauma the child has to deal with
Women literally have it on easy mode tf
Wife : “openly admits to committing multiple crimes”
Judge : “I’m so proud of you girl!”
Sad but true
I'm not going to lie. My mom is a single mother and she tried with my sister's dad. I have to be honest she really did. It feels like the system for the most part treats the parent that's actually doing their best to take care of the kids and all like their requests and all don't matter while the parent that's scheming and doing nothing gets everything without even trying. I feel so sorry for the guys that actually try to be there for their kids but the kid(s)'s mother just makes it incredibly difficult and then paints them in this bad light like they were never there. You just never know how some people are going to act or respond in some situations but money really does bring out people's true nature and those that are already causing chaos and a ruckus just seem to get even worse...
I thought he was gonna be found in contempt of court, put in jail and then the case proceeded without him
My sister got pregnant out of wedlock while I was going to college. Came back home and she was back living with my folks. My nephews father fell behind on child support, which my sister clearly didn't need since she was living rent free with my parents, an she and my entire family was trying to deny the father visitation because he fell behind on child support. It was one of the many things that caused me to have a fall out with my family and I have a very difficult time looking them in the face.
No no no You this is disgusting this is why men don't want to get married now this is what men don't want to get kids with this with freaking women because they do this kind of evil b******* who who denies their own child seeing their own child that's disgusting You did the right thing and I'm sorry but your sisters a piece of s*** You got to tell to her face because that obviously the dad can't otherwise he will get canceled for it or get thrown in jail it's disgusting man I don't know why or accepting such terrible behavior but it's exactly as you describe women just want to get baby so that they can have the dad's pay them money child support and not do anything I've seen this so many times The judges don't give a s*** they don't
I pity your nephews. Hope they turn out ok. This is why people should need license to have kids. They are prioritizing their own ego instead of doing what's best for the kid. The kid don't ask to be born and now they have to deal with this bullshit family.
@@natsudragneel-ir7sr every once in a while I find a person with this Profile Picture. It always catches me off guard. Also, you make a good point, it‘s kinda unfair for the kids.
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Nah he got no f business if she live for free or not he got to pay the child and what make you think that he didn’t babytrap her acting like a fool ofc she wouldn’t let him see him bc he cleaRlY cArE about his child😒😒😒
When I literally had my ex allow me to be primary because she was partying and abandoning her kids like how she’s portrayed here once every 4 months . The judge STILL asked “ why would the mother allow you to have primary custody?” With a fierce attitude , my ex wife didn’t even show up or pay for the divorce. Her own attorney dropped her. I find it absolutely ridiculous that all us guys are treated like dead beats and don’t care to hear anything we say. Women are just as bad if not WORSE now than men ever were.
I disagree with them being worse than men ever were (1800's lol) but jesus the shit happening now is actually insane
@@watersheep5535
their worse
@@foquitajeej2399 definitely aren't
@@watersheep5535 Girls are worse.
@@KvngLeroy1 they are
Every young man needs to see this before going in raw. It's sad but this is the system
your acting is just on pointt
You know what would go a long way to fixing child custody courts? If the court required the parent receiving money to prove that the money is being spent on the child every month. Literally had to present a budget and receipts.
i can’t believe that’s not a thing? insane
Yeah it’s not. Totally absurd. Mom can take all the money and do what she wants with it even if she doesn’t need it
U fo need to pro ude that to courts when determining child support amounts. My baby daddy wants a support reduction and we both and to file proofs to court. Proofs like bills, current rent, pay stubs all of it
@@kandikaye4405 But you don't need to prove that you're actually spending that money on the kid, or even how much of it actually goes to the child.
@@twohorsesinamancostume7606 fuck tjat. When my child support order is 50.00 per month Any idiot can figure a kid cost more than that. And still he doesn't pay. Been 7 months and nothing. The court system can fuck off
Dude. This shit is scary real. Went through this last year and the judge gave her everything she wanted because, and I quote, "I just don't see a reason to not give her what she wants," even though she lied through the whole thing. Called our child disabled to get sympathy from the judge ...our child is not disabled. She is completely healthy, smart and beautiful. I now see her 6 days a month. I have a clean record, served in the air force, have a bachelor's degree and was finishing said degree at the time with my GI bill. The judge said I should only get 23% because I was in school and needed to focus. I'm just glad that a fat feminist commissioner is allowed to decide what is best for me and my child. I also pay maximum child support and she got all my shit. Hardest year of my life
Both the commissioner and your ex will most likely burn in Hell where they belong.
I have no idea how you have the mental fortitude to not commit murder against someone like that.
@Swag Master69 Just don’t get married like these idiots. If you truly find the right woman she won’t give a fuck if the government says that you are a couple that’s all marriage is. A death trap for 99% of males if they wife wants to fuck another dude
@Swag Master69 They take half your shit and you have to pay them to fuck another guy😂😂😂😂The laws are mad bro
@Swag Master69 Fr
This video is crazy. The mom taking care of the kid once every four months is unbelievable.
2:39 cracked me up xD
i know this is a skit but this is so true im glad griffy has the platform to educate people on real problems but this was so funny 😂😂
@Ricarlo no one cares
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@Ricarlo who’s they? Your 3 fans?
@Ricarlo Nope. Stop spamming comment sections, make good content, and maybe they will.
I know this is a satirical video, but I can’t find myself finishing it because of how accurate it is and how angry it makes me feel. Men are victims and it’s time to start taking them and their mental health seriously.
yeah i agree and so are the women who actually need the child support that dont get paid childsupport from the man.
its not all like what the video is about but it is a huge issue
Keep in mind, that implies that women and the court system are the victimizers- and that implication is exactly right.
@@cody8714 Not getting someone else's money doesn't make you a victim
@@cody8714 when men have a say in abortion I’ll start caring about women getting child support
This is what I get for having unprotected sex with a woman I only knew 3 weeks.
IM HAVING A WHOLE MARATHON RN !! really been in tears for the last 20 mins 😭😭😭
I've seen this happen to a friend of mine. The woman was actively dealing drugs and not feeding her child, but the system still fought tooth and nail against the father's interest.
Jesus blueberry Christ... The judge is mental, and your justice system is friccking mental. Someone needs to burn it to the ground.
Child support is just a way to tax income multiple times. We need to send money to Ukraine dawg. War isn't gonna win itself
And the child’s
Thank you Griffy for bringing men’s issues to the spotlight with your platform. Many men talk about these things but aren’t taken seriously or they get canceled. Hopefully people will stop gaslighting and shaming men for speaking up about our blatantly sexist justice system.
I doubt. I think we are moving to matriarchy.
People think I'm joking when I'm saying this is one of the reasons I'm straight up not having kids, it's not like it used to be.
@@whodis000 aye man facts
@@whodis000
I want a son, but I hate women
@Anastasia Spangler that's the problem
Had to come back to this pure gold classic. Made me cry a little 😢
The woman always wins. I literally went to court a few years ago for a car accident. The judge asked my side of the story and I told exactly what happened. Then the judge asked her side of the story and she admitted it was raining and she drove into the back of my car because she couldn’t see in the rain and was texting the babysitter WITH THE CHILD IN THE CAR. judge ruled in her favor and she won $5K from my insurance company and they made me at fault for a accident I was rear ended and she admitted in court texting and driving with a child in the car and in the rain. Men are meant to fail against woman period 💯💯
@Ricarlo nothing but respect bro 💯💯
@@YounglilDJ You're definitely not a good driver though
There's another side to the story you're not being honest about
@@Mr_Mistah where I am from hitting a car in the rear makes you the one at fault by default, no questions asked. If the person in question also admits to texting and reckless driving with rain then... that would make you the one at fault times ten
@@Mr_Mistah How are you gonna simp for a woman you never even met?
@@juicebox7372 not simping just calling out BS when I see it
people love to omit facts to make themselves look better
My dad had to go through the same thing when my mom cheated on my dad while he was deployed and tried to murder us all when he found out after getting home. He had gotten custody of all of his kids and still had to pay 1600 a month in child support. To a woman with no kids in her custody. And he had to attend parental classes and anger management classes for absolutely no reason. My dad had no house and was borrowing another soldier's car so at least he couldn't lose those lol. Child services asked us what we thought of our parents and accused our dad of abusing us because we said we didn't see him often because he was in Iraq or Afghanistan where he got a purple heart. We told the workers all the things our mother had done to us and they said that it was our fault and that rules were in place for a reason and not to act up.
??? Are social workers just psycopaths or what?
This is so ridiculous it sounds made up. Sometimes men really have it extremely rough for no reason.
It's like all the sickos are drawn to become child welfare workers.
I am disgusted. He had to pay a woman money for kids he was taking care of. He had to take anger management classes and not the mother. The kids got blamed for the decisions a grown woman made. This story gets worse and worse😔
I shed a tear at the last sentence. Kids were always to blamed by their parents action. I always get blamed for acting up and when I detailed all the abuse, their respond are "No it's not that bad".
2:46 the way he said black 😂😂😂
My mother who was abandoned me with my father was ordered to only pay 90$ a month how am I supposed to live off that or even use it to help with expenses it's barely anything and she didn't have to pay years of back pay she walked out the court with a smile on her face. She didn't care that I was the one getting the money she only cared that she didn't have to pay anything.
Oh boy jokes aside this is accurate, being a victim of this for my kids is ridiculous. I had proof of why I was the better parent and more self sufficient and mentally stable but she is a woman so she needs all that money I work my ass off for and I barely get my kids because I have male privilege!
sorry to hear that man
Keep fighting for your kids bro even if the court doesn't accept your grind, then at least you'll be able to inspire your kids if they observe all the efforts u put in, they'd come running to u. That would be enough. 👍
@@s4m1rza Amen, some of the best advice I heard in a minute! Will do!
@@s4m1rza i agree 100% i heard a guys story and he said everytime im with him he's happy. He said i wont stop fighting cause my son will realize one day Im there for him and I care
@@skollhati9205 exactly, all you need is your child's approval and he will always want you, just gotta be patient and be a role model.
I paid for 16 years and this is 10000% accurate.
You should have pulled out
Hope it's better for you
This just goes to show to be careful who you sleep with because one bad decision will be a lifetime of headaches
This is so damn accurate it hurts.
My youngest daughter's mom got married (to a man with 3 kids), had another kid, and still refuses to get a job. And now I'm supposed to support the whole family..😒
At the time that we went to court, I was unemployed (2020 y'all). Judge ordered me to pay $1200 a month. Went back 3 months later, next judge said $250. She flipped out about it. Went back 3 months later, next judge said $700. Where is the logic? It just depends on how your judge feels that day
Damn bro that’s tragic
Reminds me of my ex-wife. We had 50/50 custody, she lived with her parents, had no bills, I had her mother saying she didn't spend much time with the kids and was out partying, I got a new job where I worked less and made less so I could spend more actual time with the kids and the judge increased my child support by $50 a month to $950. There were weeks that I had negative income because child support was more than I made. I've since gotten full custody and she hardly ever sees the kids, but I still get angry thinking about it today. That being said, there's deadbeats on both sides, mothers and fathers, I just wish the system looked at who the responsible parent is, rather than defaulting one way or the other because of gender
Did you have 50/50 custody of your child? If not then thats yo fault for not fighting for your kid
@@octoberlife We were doing 50/50 until we went to court. I was already paying $300 a month. Her mother just became more difficult from there. But let me ask you.. why should I (or any man, for that matter) have to "fight" to see my child? Especially when I WANT to..? I'm not gonna stress myself out to co-parent with someone I can't be in a room with. My daughter can find me when she's ready. I'll be here... but I'm not "fighting" to prove anything to anyone
@@andrewpender3473 thats your daughter suffering right there
There was someone I knew of, but he was my friend's friend we'll call him David for now and he ended up taking his own life back in 2019. It was a high school pregnancy (of course) but he didn't stray away from his child. After he and the mother of the child we'll call Karen for now finished high school after some time there were some bumps in the road, but her parents felt he was a deadbeat. What they didn't know was David was a natural in technology, he had a job on 23rd street for some tech business there and got paid well. What her parents did was set up an arranged marriage for her with some dude who was (at the time) most likely in his 30s and made sure that David did not know about any of it. Then the day came when he had to go to family court, Karen was there, her parents, and her newlywed husband. There were outbursts from David's side because Karen had obviously lied about what David does when he's around his child and how he'd "neglect" it. After 4 hours the court decided to give Karen custody of the child for the reason of...Financial stability because since they were not married and she is NOW, she, by default, was considered more financially stable than he was. This verdict destroyed David, he became the definition of "What changes a man". In March of 2019, horrible news was texted to me. David's child had died. To sum up the incident, Karen was at work, and the stepfather was home with the 3 kids (2 being his, 1 David's). David's child had crawled near the stepfather's phone charger in the other and electrocuted itself by chewing on the wire. The stepfather was sent to jail for child neglect for 10 years while she had to sit there and her husband goes to jail. 2 months passed and then I get a call from my friend and he tells me that David had committed suicide. I'm going to end it here, I know I typed more than I needed to, but when issues like this happen it's hard for me to not think about David's story. It's not a family court if it's meant to break families.
That’s depressing man. Two lives were lost because of stupid decisions from a couple of retards
Fake or not I read this. Just wanna say lol. XP
@@ownlydown5933 You truly are only down
holy hell /r thathappened
@@malachijohnson3437 nigga seriously?
That judge gave him a light sentence by today's standards
This video is basically 100% accurate.
I know a lot of fathers can relate to this video, keep ya head up. Just imagine divorce court sheesh!!!
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My brother going through this shit rn
@@Phantom_275 tell your bro we here for him. Control what he can control and focus on himself. The Courts see a man tryna get on his feet so he can support himself and his child without the mother and they say "Oh, so you can pay her more"
@@RecapRico Fr. Such an unfair world. Thanks
Girl just left with our 2 year old son I’m going to have to go to court soon I even got evidence that she’s crazy but they ain’t gonna do shit about it