When Someone You Love Dies ft Joseph Ajal | BUMP LOVE

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  • Did you know that anyone suffering from depression for more than 2 weeks has entered a state of clinical depression? This is to encourage you to get your loved ones assessed.
    Joseph Ajal joins us to tell us how he slowly recovered from a terrible time after becoming a widower with young sons.
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  • @nahabwedoris438
    @nahabwedoris438 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Bump love,Thanks for this . I lost my husband 6 months ago and I am.trying to find my rhythm to raise 3 sons aged 7, 5 and 2 years. please bring a lady who has raised boys alone to pick some lessons for some of us

    • @sarahnabakooza4192
      @sarahnabakooza4192 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hugs to you darling , May God give you the super grace . My prayers 🙏

    • @roseviela.30
      @roseviela.30 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May the lord continue to hold u as u raise ur sons. 🙏

    • @ahweraprimah95
      @ahweraprimah95 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If a man handle, you can too

    • @asterlois12
      @asterlois12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤ hugs darling. May God continue to strengthen you.

    • @belindatumwine358
      @belindatumwine358 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your loss

  • @kirabodamalie9507
    @kirabodamalie9507 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My brother is is at Entebbe lakeside nursing schizophrenia and I agree with Joseph,it is the most debilitating situation anyone can experience in Life.he can't feed himself as I text and it's very scary.
    This time its 1000times more intense because he Lost his job. The good thing is that he accepts that he's I'll and takes his medication. As a family, we believe In the God of psalms 103.3.
    Joseph, continue comforting more people like us through sharing your story. I have learnt some nursing tips today

    • @magalienia6958
      @magalienia6958 ปีที่แล้ว

      @KiraboDamalie, sending hugs & light to u & ya family. Mental Illness affect the whole family.

    • @justinerhodanambatya8577
      @justinerhodanambatya8577 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you also for standing by him and taking care of him relentlessly. It's so comforting to know that in the abyss of this illness, when the society at times doesn't understand, your family is there for you in all ways whatsoever.
      Working as a mental health clinician is helping me realize the value of family.

    • @marthasekta8953
      @marthasekta8953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry Damalie...take heart...my brother is also a patiënt there...some days are tough

  • @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182
    @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My Heart Goes to Joseph and the sons, but he's not alone in the boat, me too i lost my dearest husband a (man of my youth)in 2014 sep in accident, i was 24yrs and he left me with 3 girls aged 4yrs 2 yrs and 3 months...But we'll thank our Almighty Father in Heaven and our spiritual parents/church for being there for me. Now am planning to get married again in Jesus's Name Amen 🙏🏼❤

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh Bobi. To say one can empathize would be a lie. What a journey...I can only imagine. We are thankful for the comfort that was accorded to you. May the healing continue. Hugs to you and the children. P

    • @josephajal6907
      @josephajal6907 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sincere sympathy for your terrible loss. Glad you found the grace and strength to raise your daughters.

    • @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182
      @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josephajal6907 Amen and thank you! Buh the memories the questions from the girls asking me "mummy why we don't have Daddy??" It hurts 💔so much 😪😢

    • @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182
      @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 Thank you Pam munange it's not a lie it a real story but now abawala bakuze, 12 yrs p.7 , 10yrs p.5 and the Last one is 8yrs now she's in p.3...buh bambuza Where's daddy, why we don't have daddy it hurts me so much 😪😪😪

    • @zaynabsuuna3983
      @zaynabsuuna3983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh sweetie 😢the question about why we don't have a father banange neddaaaaaa😭

  • @d.p7353
    @d.p7353 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thanks to Joseph for sharing, his story is opening about mental health. I also knew his wife ,she did amazing landscape work for our company, people still stop by our offices to ask who did for us our landscaping, may she rest in peace and God always be with her family

  • @fabiano8482
    @fabiano8482 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for hosting Joseph Bump Love. I like the fact that he is so calm and collected. He has heavily researched this topic, controlled the narrative and using his painful experience to inspire others. Kudos.

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thanks for sharing your story Joseph.. it must have been incredibly difficult.. i didn't know there were only 53 psychiatrists in Uganda.. that's ridiculously low..i will return some day and add to the number 🙂

    • @josephajal6907
      @josephajal6907 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Welcome home Dr. Cissy!

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are what we need in life. P

    • @cmbe6161
      @cmbe6161 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@josephajal6907thank you so much for sharing,I have a brother suffering the same and we being around him are also affected, listening to you has sort of calmed me. and helped me think how best we can help him.much appreciated

  • @geraldinfenti5422
    @geraldinfenti5422 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As one who's had to grieve the loss of a mum, battle anxiety and depression and as one who's found my identity in the word of God, this episode resonated with me on every level! And am so sorry about your loss Joseph.
    Manuela's hair is just givingggggg!!!

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Olaba me I'm also here staring at Manuela's hair 😅. P

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @sunshineheaven1802
    @sunshineheaven1802 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for this segment. Loss is a terrible thing, pain is pain, you people. I used to think I was strong and it will go away but oh Lord, it will come back, you can not suppress it forever. I lost my mum at 11 years, suppressed it, and was just too busy to deal with it. Lost my best friend right before the pandemic and let us say God carried me through. I have had all these things before I ever knew what they were, sweating feet and palms and being extremely anxious like off the edge scared for every and overthinking things like my family getting old and dying imagine, hyperventilating, having panic attacks, etc. I wish people would exercise daily, eat well daily and go to therapy even without major issues, like just having a better lifestyle. It helps in the long run. Being rooted in God and also staying off drugs and alcohol or anything that alters the brain chemicals. God healed me, therapy helped as well, and I am better now.

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you handling now?

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bless you Sunshine 🙏🏾. P

    • @sunshineheaven1802
      @sunshineheaven1802 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@manuelap.mulondo I took an initiative to get off steroids (was on treatment for a chronic illness since childhood) that causes many of those issues. I opted for holistic treatment. Got out of isolation after 2 years of Covid. I am surrounded by people now. I think one thing can not fix it all (God can fix it all because I am a believer but He needs something from me to work with). It is a couple of things for me. I had to form a support system really. Family can only do so much and they are not always well equipped. God, nutrition, counseling, physiotherapy, walking especially when the sun is out, supplements, a lot of love, rest, reading specific content, etc I am doing much better really. Thank you

    • @sunshineheaven1802
      @sunshineheaven1802 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 Thank you..

  • @JulzJewel
    @JulzJewel ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Clearly this man went through alot. While he spoke i saw so many of my relatives in this picture now i understand most had mental issues especially the extreme hallucinations and outburst. Unfortunately people think this is normal yet its not.

  • @marthasekta8953
    @marthasekta8953 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear bump love...
    Thank you for sharing about mental health....as someone with a brother who is battling depression....I sympathise with Joseph...mental health is real...

  • @asmasu
    @asmasu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this episode. My daughter who is about 5yrs old just lost her best friend last week. I feel so sad for her but she seems to understand the whole concept of death at her age. She was actually the one comforting us and telling us to stop crying while in the church service. May her friend's soul rest in peace.

  • @joviamusabe9708
    @joviamusabe9708 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks bump love for bring this gentleman. I lost a brother to mental illness he also succumbed suicidal death. People need more awareness about mental health, I wish I knew earlier at least I would have understood his pain😭

  • @fatumaqasim6341
    @fatumaqasim6341 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Had to advertise for this so that people watch it, coz mental health is quite an isolated issue by many of the people we live with 😢

  • @kabagonzachristine6858
    @kabagonzachristine6858 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When he said it all and then turned on living with hope using the scripture wow,thank you.... it's not always good to isolate yourself because you give the devil time to distract you.

  • @cynthiababirye9149
    @cynthiababirye9149 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've watched this conversation 3 times, kept on rewinding to make sure am listening carefully. 😢

  • @dorothynagitta8602
    @dorothynagitta8602 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks so much for this conversation. As a person who has gone through mental disorders without proper guidance or help . I know the pain and confusion , that one is going through , you can explain it to any body . On a daily you have boad meetings in your head . Its like you have people leaving with you inside your brain . You are a happy soul around so many people but when you are alone , you are in pain . I can go on and on but thanks alot

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo ปีที่แล้ว

      Do share..... we don't know and need someone to share their experiences

  • @christinetusiime3239
    @christinetusiime3239 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We appreciate you, Joseph. Wishing you courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to hold in your heart forever.

  • @phillomennakyazzebags4800
    @phillomennakyazzebags4800 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mr Ajal is such a wonderful Father. We were blessed to have the boys come to our pre school and he was such an inspiring dad.

    • @josephajal6907
      @josephajal6907 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. Which preschool was it?

    • @phillomennakyazzebags4800
      @phillomennakyazzebags4800 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@josephajal6907 Serena Heights Schools

    • @josephajal6907
      @josephajal6907 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@phillomennakyazzebags4800 that was a beautiful preschool. The boys loved it there and have great memories.

    • @brendahfar_see7308
      @brendahfar_see7308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@josephajal6907 be blessed dad❤❤

  • @nyanasdelight6162
    @nyanasdelight6162 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was a two-in-one show. I learnt a lot about mental health and grief. Thank you Joseph for sharing with us.

  • @mukisaorensteinfamilyfarm
    @mukisaorensteinfamilyfarm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In 2019 march immediately after giving birth to my child, my husband travelled back to his country to work after 3 years of not travelling after a brain surgery.
    I asked him to please not go but he insisted on going.
    Covid hit and he couldn't travel back.
    We used to talk on a daily basis.
    Then this 31st December 2020, he wasn't picking, got scared, I called his lawyer and she went to his house only to find him dead in his bathroom.
    My world broke, here I am, with a new born and 2 others, food became my friend, I got confused, cried most of the time.
    But God has been good.
    It will be his birthday on 18th May, and I don't think this pain heals.
    Some days are really hard but God gives me grace.

    • @rosesengo4704
      @rosesengo4704 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry for your loss. May God bring you to a place of complete healing

  • @kngmyheart2057
    @kngmyheart2057 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the second time hearing Joseph's story very emotional 😢its and it was for my first time at man cave ug is cried the whole section just thank God that he has made him brave and I pray he keeps him plus the boys stronger 🙏

  • @joysubi142
    @joysubi142 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh Joseph very sorry to hear about your wife's passing,God strengthen you,take it a day at a time,it is also OK for you to cry it out..I know in Africa they say men shouldn't cry but its therapeutical..praying for you and your boys..Jacqueline May (uk)

  • @owantabiko6431
    @owantabiko6431 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My prayers to you Joseph and your family, only God will surely uphold you through the overwhelming pain and storms. I was doing my postgraduate Research in Psychosocial Rehabilitation: psychoeducation for families of patients with Schizophrenia when I found your video. I had never understood the extreme of Schizophrenia until then even though I worked with client with mental illnesses. I have suffered from depression, anxiety and panic attacks. We all need to support one another as mental anyone by promoting awareness and destigmatisation with empathy. God bless you for sharing

  • @ahebwamiriam4426
    @ahebwamiriam4426 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Helo bump love am relating to this story, i just lost my best friend who was also my neighbour she collapsed in the birth room due to blood clot which was triggered by high blood pressure that was triggered by stress, we buried her on 31/dec/2022. by 2nd Jan 2023 the husband was reporting to work after his boss had denied him leave , the man kept breaking down while at work until a2 weeks after when he decided to resign because the boss was stressing and remind him every day that there are so many people who would want to take up his job , this guy is now jobless he only goes out of the house when he going to look for jobs after he goes inside and closes himself inside , the guys is losing weight on daily basis every time you see he looks different he moves while holding his trousers coz they can't fit him anymore, am scared we might lose another soul to stress very soon ,am sure him getting someone professional like that Gentle man to talk to will help and also he is a driver anyone with a job can also him so that he keeps his mind occupied .. i will be waiting for the response from bump love and everyone thanks..

  • @travonnelynda
    @travonnelynda ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Joseph I wish you peace
    It can never be easy without your partner around but there is so much to be grateful for, your three lovely boys

  • @hossanahn
    @hossanahn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can we all share this video...
    I lost a friend to bipolar..we were so ignorant about it.. people begun to judge him when he begun to react using drugs and Alcohol having come from a Christian background ..
    we lost him after a short illness and that's when we learned about bipolar..
    UpTo now not many people know about mental illness the way you have explained it😢..

  • @nantslydia2687
    @nantslydia2687 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We really need more doctors who understand mental health. It's so real especially after birth for women. Mental Therapy after birth should be complusory as antinetal. We go through a lot as women and the stress is just so much. But if we haven't yet reached there, prayer, uplifting music and God's word can help overcome. But truly our gyns should have phycytrist close

  • @nakirobie3057
    @nakirobie3057 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I knew the family but u cudnt tell they had this sort problem. RIP Synai. Keep strong Joseph. And big up Bump love for all the series.

    • @renembongn.5877
      @renembongn.5877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So what happened? I have watched all the video but still not clear what and how the issue progressed

    • @nakirobie3057
      @nakirobie3057 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Rene mboNgha she cudnt handle the too much stress that led to the mental illness in turn her suicidal death. As said.

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My heart goes to Joseph and his family. Thank you for being brave and educating us about mental illness. And thank you Bumplove hosts for bringing such important conversations to the forefront.

  • @magalienia6958
    @magalienia6958 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whoa!what a profound episode,it's so refreshing to see that we as a pple(Africans/Ugans) are beginning to comprehend the issue that is Mental Health. Knowledge is power & the more we know, the better we shall be able to save lives.
    Maya Angelou, "When u know better, u do better."
    The guest...sir, ma sympathies to u & ya family & thank u for sharing ya story.
    This spacious venue with the lighting so agrees with the ladies who all look very gorgeous.
    Every episode has a standout star & Racheal was it for me on this one.
    Bump Love continues to deliver & we are here for it!❤ 👏

  • @patienceasiimwe6983
    @patienceasiimwe6983 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    U have no idea how this episode has been a blessing to some of us. Love you so much ladies and many thanks to Joseph for sharing his story with us. Blessings.

  • @julietnyakato888
    @julietnyakato888 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have really learnt alot from this gentleman. May God preserve you.

  • @nsiimentacathy3676
    @nsiimentacathy3676 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was a reality check meanwhile😢......I got a moment to think through some deep realities of this world.......in case of my death, how it will ever be for my children and their dad😢?

  • @lilianmukisa3291
    @lilianmukisa3291 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seeing your dear one go through tough times is heartbreaking. Story not different from our own.
    Lost my follower, Dropia Consolate Samanya (RIP) last year October 11th. Had several complications; bipolar disorder, PCOS, had started developing fats on her kidneys. I still cry, smile every morning as I pass her grave while going for work, think about her and regain hope and faith. We choose to celebrate her as a family.
    She started having episodes of bipolar in 2012 and diagnosis was in 2020 during COVID-19 lockdown that triggered another episode but from day one, Butabika was our hospital. We chose to love her, care for her and look out for any symptoms before any episodes.
    Unfortunately, most of us don't understand and still disagree about the various concepts on mental health. Still, some people are so insensitive when you loose your own. Comments like; you no longer pray, why didn't you take her to so and so, why did you take long to rush her to the hospital, I wish she had given birth to a child so that she leaves a memory 🙄🙄. Just keep quiet when you sit next to a person who is grieving. But friends, neighbors OGs and OBs did a great send off of my dear sis🙏🏽🙏🏽.
    Sorry for your loss, Joseph.

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your story

    • @lilianmukisa3291
      @lilianmukisa3291 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for the opportunity 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @goodmartinnuw9296
    @goodmartinnuw9296 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great show. Thank you for inviting a great guest. Thank you to the hosts for allowing the guest to speak freely and it has been very informative

  • @sheenahnamatovu6546
    @sheenahnamatovu6546 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am early bird today much Love to you ladies from me
    Happy Eid day to every Muslim brothers and sisters who love and watch bump love

  • @ssenkumbahope5332
    @ssenkumbahope5332 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you ladies for bringing us Joseph! He’s brave.

  • @collettenakabuye9180
    @collettenakabuye9180 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ono Yozefu ayogera ku balina ku ttooke. Osanga omuntu yafiriddwa spouse ewaka tewali mmere,abaana balina okugenda ku ssomero mbu ate counseling and therapy. We need someone to speak from a common man's point of view. Njogera ku muntu wa wansi. However, thank God he's getting stronger

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What is common to one man might not be common to another...... This show is focused on mental health and what someone can do when faced with a death of a loved one in the face of a mental illness. Death in the face of poverty is another show altogether.

  • @May-kn3ds
    @May-kn3ds ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Joseph for opening up about this very sensitive and very sad topic that you have shared with us.

  • @flaviawamala5326
    @flaviawamala5326 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks a lot, Bump love, thanks for hosting Joseph Ajal and indeed we needed that information.

  • @ashabnansimbe1862
    @ashabnansimbe1862 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart is pumping 😢sorry for the loss may Allah make u more stronger

  • @cathieempress7854
    @cathieempress7854 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oooh my this is a very touching story. Thank you Joseph😢. I wish I could share my story as well about mental health as a youth, it has taken many youths 😢

  • @asterlois12
    @asterlois12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing. Many people are in denial about mental health.

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have a friend with Schizophrenia,she accepted she has it and she is on treatment. She gets an injection once a month. Here in Canada, mental health treatments are advanced. She also takes supplements to help her immune system. One thing I can tell you is that she is doing very well. She works from home because she knows the office stress and politics will affect her mentally. She is self-aware. She focuses on eating healthy and enjoying things she loves to do, like blogging. In fact, she is now the biggest Afican blogger in our city here. She blogs about African fashion. I am proud of her and make sure to always tell her how good she is at what she does.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      First Of. All. I love you for always sharing with us Flourish. Thank you.
      The conversation and subsequently treatments surrounding Mental Health has taken some strides in Uganda/Africa but we still have A LOOOOOOONNNNGGGGG way to go. We truly must be more aware and do better. P

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@Pumla Nabachwa That's my prayer that Uganda will improve in that area because I know Ugandans as a community can thrive together and are fighters.

    • @lilianmukisa3291
      @lilianmukisa3291 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooh, that's great. Am happy to hear that she has a support system which is wanting in Uganda.

  • @nattimbahillary3442
    @nattimbahillary3442 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So beautiful. please consider this being the usual set. The lighting and video set is just ecstatic. lots of love from Germany 🇩🇪❤ ladies.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most definitely ❤. P

    • @roseviela.30
      @roseviela.30 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤩🤩🤩

    • @kivumbijackie8524
      @kivumbijackie8524 ปีที่แล้ว

      Still not happy my Nabacwa was not here.can we redo.we all need an input

  • @mpamizoemmanuel6474
    @mpamizoemmanuel6474 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Joseph for the testimony. Mental illness is real!

  • @atugonzaritah784
    @atugonzaritah784 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Having lost one of my twin daughter.. I can relate coz the support system is always a backbone... Despite my challenges during pregnancy en at 6months knowing that one twin wouldn't make it after delivery. My family, friends, and workmates would always tell me to live one day at a time till I gave birth. By God's grace I pulled thru' though life has never been the same

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว

      Comfort to you Ritah. Having to go through life without your child must be such a heavy feat. May the healing continue. Hugs.

  • @kukundakweshianah-jg5pg
    @kukundakweshianah-jg5pg ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Rosette that dress 🥰l love the confidence go girl👏🤗 the sky is the limit

  • @doreenblessed9472
    @doreenblessed9472 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very touching story. May God continue strengthening you and give you more grace and wisdom to Father the boys Joseph. Blessings
    Many thanks Bumplove for this episode.

  • @esther77798
    @esther77798 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cried😢. God be with him

  • @calvinamooti1364
    @calvinamooti1364 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very sad but to make matters worse is that society will see this as a traditional war(ebyekiika) and as a spiritual warfare for the religious...by the time the few families in most cases get to know that mental health is the issue..it's usually a bit late...God bless this man for even speaking about his own story because our society is still oblivious about these things...

  • @mwesigwafred
    @mwesigwafred ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is educative and informative thank you ladies for this!!!

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Joseph for sharing your story vulnerably. It was not only insightful but also provided clear takeaways on how to identify and manage mental health illnesses. Wish you and your boys healing on this journey 🙏

  • @estareily467
    @estareily467 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Like it when a man tells his story

  • @nabaddashamim4025
    @nabaddashamim4025 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very educative and informative.Thank you Joseph for sharing. Bravo Bump Love

  • @saraholinga9912
    @saraholinga9912 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hy bumplove thanks for the show I love you all . Today's topic touched me like am in that situation wea I need to undstand whether getting irritated and getting angry so first is also mental illness. Like foristance am a kadama I have worked for morethan 2 yrs oh yes I know what to do coz am quick learner so there comes my boss who wana tell mi wat to do everyday am like ok I keep it cul, we are 3 maids in the house 2 without experience and mi with exp so wat these people do is I feel they use me as a gateway weaby if they need something quick they call mi, something to be done quick, they call me so I reached to the extent of getting tired and by not being in place wea they should call mi anytime they want, so hea is the thing I tried to change an attitude wea I speak less, active less,then they pictured mi as a bad person Another thing is wen I get angry I do respond cos if I don't I feel my heart, and head gona burst, so am poring myself out to know exactly wat cud be this feeling thank you so much

  • @user-lv1lf2zn9x
    @user-lv1lf2zn9x ปีที่แล้ว

    Schizophrenia is the worst i saw my mum going through the worst days of her life because of it. Only God has kept her until now its been 17years of her struggling with it. Me i am confident God heals all diseases🙏🙏 My mum is not on medication but she is living much better than before.
    Schizophrenia is sooo bad we need more awareness for mental health

  • @Fablyflane
    @Fablyflane ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, such a beautiful episode. Thank you for sharing this story. Y'all are giving us back to back wisdom in these episodes. Blessings

  • @JoyAmule
    @JoyAmule ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, a really beautiful episode, thank you Joseph,!

  • @nampeerasusan3262
    @nampeerasusan3262 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bump love is really a show for learning, funny... Thank you so much ladies

  • @aberjosephine9956
    @aberjosephine9956 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a very educative episode. Bipolar disorder and schizophrenia are very familiar conditions. One of my parents has had that since we were kids and boy or boy!

  • @kiroantoniaagnes7770
    @kiroantoniaagnes7770 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for show bump and Joseph for sharing . I await to share my journey with raising a premature

  • @ritahkedi4863
    @ritahkedi4863 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry for your loss Joseph, May Her Soul Rest In Peace!

  • @biyinzikaerinah4763
    @biyinzikaerinah4763 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Joseph for sharing . May the good Lord keep strengthening you and the boys . And for the bump love ladies,Thanx for all that you do . I really enjoy the show . May the good Lord bless you . Pumla we missed you on the show

  • @nanyanzimillie7743
    @nanyanzimillie7743 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you bump love for this segment it has been useful to most of us

  • @evejkay6749
    @evejkay6749 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Bump Love for this very insightful show. Mr Ajal, thank you for baring your soul to us. We continue to pray for comfort for you, your boys and the rest of the family.

  • @sharonotori3725
    @sharonotori3725 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The other problem with schizophrenia is that the victim/patient is that they r usually very intelligent so getting them to see a professional is a tag of war

  • @dianenankunda7972
    @dianenankunda7972 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joseph thanx for the elaborative information about mental health it's quite eye opening, I wish u all the best in single parenting.

  • @sandynaj
    @sandynaj ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woooohoooo! Joseph, thanks so much for bearing your soul and sharing this. Much much needed and very timely. Mental disorders are so common in our societies and very few families are willing to submit. Praying for you to completely heal. Jesus. @Bump Love, loved the show and handling the sensitive topic. However, we didn’t get a chance to have Joseph to introduce himself elaborately at the beginning so that we know more about him and his partner before all this happened. That said… fabulous job. We need more of these.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're right about the fact that he didn't really introduce the issue at the start.
      However it was a specific request from him not to dwell on the past so we allowed the conversation to flow as he directed. P

    • @sandynaj
      @sandynaj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 much understood. I couldn’t believe it’s not a year yet and he could articulate his emotions without losing it. I felt every single minute of his talk. Thanks again for this topic.

  • @EmyzMagnate
    @EmyzMagnate ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Joseph for sharing, sending comfort, and courage from above to you and your boys. and thanks to Bump Love for giving you this moment.

  • @twinamatsikoallen4209
    @twinamatsikoallen4209 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow..thx Joseph for sharing. May the Lord keep upholding you

  • @roselloyd7500
    @roselloyd7500 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The thing about mental health is that it's ignored because it's in the mind. It's not physical, but it can turn into physical when it's not treated. I wish Uganda could hold more and more educative sessions in every community, school, local center, hospitals etc, etc, just like how they teach about HIV and contraceptives.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is true. People don't understand or believe what they don't see. We need to do better.

  • @peacedorothy9108
    @peacedorothy9108 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this was worth watching. Thanks bump love

  • @marthaatuhaire2074
    @marthaatuhaire2074 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yessssss therapy is very important

  • @angeltumuhairwe263
    @angeltumuhairwe263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was heavy😢. And thanks am never doing weed or indulge in alcohol

  • @carolinetukahirwa6613
    @carolinetukahirwa6613 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank so much Bumplove for this episode as it was so educative.

  • @viqueakky9018
    @viqueakky9018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very insightful discussion. Thx Joseph for sharing. Angie is so smart

  • @nassaligertrude5107
    @nassaligertrude5107 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This episode is really educative . Thank you very much ladies.
    I actually think I myself need help too

  • @MaleenPeters
    @MaleenPeters ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooo very insightful. May God continue to comfort and strengthen Joseph and family. Thank you Joseph for sharing your life with us. There's much to learn

  • @Subaru_engine
    @Subaru_engine ปีที่แล้ว +7

    First things first, my utmost condolences to you Mr. Ajal. Godspeed and light to you and your home.
    MHSRIP!!!
    Moving on and delving into this interview, you are quite focused on preaching about mental illness[ which is a good thing btw], than actually answering precisely how that has impacted you and the boys.
    You are quite articulate in saying so much while evading all the direct questions from the ladies.
    Honestly there is lots of gaps in how you are relaying your wife's experiences.
    One thing in another forum where I've heard to speak on this, you saw the supposed 'red flags', during your courtship time.
    There must have been triggers that might have triggered her to a worse state.
    I want to say so much but let's let her soul rest.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think we should be able to appreciate the fact that this is more an emotional journey than anything. Doing the balancing act of creating awareness while respecting your wife and children is no easy task.
      Oluka. I find your comment not only intrusive but callous even if you pretentiously laced it with a sympathetic message at the beginning.
      That said - The man is grieving. If you noticed, he even lost his train of thought at certain points in the conversation. Why? Because he is a HUMAN BEING who lost his beloved wife. The mother of his 3 children ❤.
      To say that I'm on awe of him is an understatement. He is using his bleeding wound to help others. Yet here you are - Being as mean as a Juvenile High School Bully.
      Bump Love has a ZERO HATE policy. Do better please! Or find an exit door! P

    • @ZoeSKD
      @ZoeSKD ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oluka..... goodness....you are so so INSENSITIVE.....!!!

    • @ZoeSKD
      @ZoeSKD ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@pumlanabachwa8668 👍❤️

    • @elizabethmayambala7377
      @elizabethmayambala7377 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He has told this story several times and you can get all the answers on TH-cam that you think he is skipping

  • @PilosApilos
    @PilosApilos ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very helpful. Thank you

  • @vee3581
    @vee3581 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Joseph, very sorry so for your loss, and Thank you for sharing your story. You are so informed on Mental Health...Thanks ladies for approaching this topic which especially in African nations is a taboo...we need to educate ourselves on MH bse it is real...We need to be kind, compassionate, respectable, empathetic to one another and to anyone that's feeling down or going through a funk...but mostly, Uganda needs to have training programnes on Mental Health with well educated facilitators and practitioners. Dr Segane Musisi wd be wonderful to have on this panel to educate abt Mental Health issues.

  • @atuhairwemaureen4304
    @atuhairwemaureen4304 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bambi, he is strong, I mean I don't think I can be that strong after one year. When Rachael asked about the ''grieving question'', I thought he is going to break down.

  • @mbogoglad2078
    @mbogoglad2078 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sad Lossing your beloved one 😢may her soul rest in peace

  • @suzannakyejwe4265
    @suzannakyejwe4265 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All other factors of this topic held constant, you ladies look GOOOOODDD. Wish🥰♥️

  • @lucywaiharo6742
    @lucywaiharo6742 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bump love you have grown onto me and i have been binge watching your channel. From Kenya

  • @evelynninsiima6489
    @evelynninsiima6489 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG 😱. this was really touching and educative.. everyone needs this information

  • @esthernamuli7119
    @esthernamuli7119 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I went into a pd after my child , she is now 3 it's not easy to explain people what your going through esp your hubby , but now hearing him talking about mh is relieving

  • @estherauma9353
    @estherauma9353 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The 53 psychiatrists in the country is actually sad and true.
    Anyway, there is a programme now sponsoring doctors for Masters in Psychiatry at Makerere. A ray of hope I guess. Though our country has a long way to go. God bless you Ladies and Joseph too.

  • @rachaelkobusingye3564
    @rachaelkobusingye3564 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very informative,thank you ladies and gentleman

  • @roseadongo6574
    @roseadongo6574 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much of an eye opener here, thanks bump love

  • @Samantha-qs9tz
    @Samantha-qs9tz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the show ladies ❤ very informative and educative
    But Racheal looked so cute

  • @sheenahnamatovu6546
    @sheenahnamatovu6546 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so educative alot to learn from this episode
    Again thanks bump 💕

  • @ritabusingye3853
    @ritabusingye3853 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had chills the whole time. So sorry for your loss

  • @Sueali
    @Sueali ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much , this was so educative

  • @lutaayaalex8580
    @lutaayaalex8580 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very touching story but also alot to learn from this...our mental health matters....lets always look at the signs and symptoms and seek help early.....acceptance first

  • @elizabethacam5273
    @elizabethacam5273 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry about your loss Joseph. May God keep you and your boys strong🙏

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this bump love setting, can we keep it??

  • @evelynkabahuma7035
    @evelynkabahuma7035 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow...this was a very heavy episode! Thanks so much Joseph for bravely opening up, thanks ladies as well for bringing this heavy topic!

  • @nakaweesirushidah5593
    @nakaweesirushidah5593 ปีที่แล้ว

    there are no words indeed to describe that pain
    one can understand it until after the loss happening