“You Did This to Yourself”

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  • @johnwilburn
    @johnwilburn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    He started off the call taking no accountability. Glad Dave straightened that out up front.

    • @NickAndTech
      @NickAndTech หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      On another call a veteran got screwed over by unscrupulous car dealer and Dave gave advice on how to ask his commanding officer to call the dealer to try to straighten them out. A 23-year old is easy prey for these sharks. He should take accountability but also realize that people without any morals or ethics will fleece him if given the opportunity.

  • @abrareads
    @abrareads 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +506

    A 35k car with a commute of walking down some stairs....

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      That’s funny 😂

    • @Primitive_Code
      @Primitive_Code 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      He increased his potential energy tenfold with that Cadillac up there.

    • @_brandonn8516
      @_brandonn8516 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @xktwnxl4zlx213
      @xktwnxl4zlx213 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      He tried to impress the girls thats why he got that car!

    • @KiLLED5639
      @KiLLED5639 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      The young man is 23y/o. Prime time to make some mistakes that he can recover from.

  • @tylerhair9067
    @tylerhair9067 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +200

    We were all young and dumb. This guy is in great shape either way and has a good head on his shoulders for 23. He will be fine.

    • @catherinewhitman8333
      @catherinewhitman8333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not ALL of us could afford to be THAT " YOUNG & DUMB"....WE didn't live in our parents house!!! He's had a pretty " CUSHY " LIFESTYLE!

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Speak for yourself.

    • @tylerhair9067
      @tylerhair9067 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@clarifyingquestionsare you old and dumb? 😂

    • @unelectedleader6494
      @unelectedleader6494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      When you've got parents that create the job for you and give you the high five figures, yes, he will be fine. They will be sure of that haha

    • @ernistbailey6607
      @ernistbailey6607 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He's in great shape because his daddy gave him an 80k a year job and let him live at home for free.
      Every decision he made was bad. Went 25k into debt for community college, bought a flashy car and rolled negative into the next flashy car.
      Kid was born on 3rd base, got confused and ran to 2nd. Now we've all formed a line to congratulate him on the killer double.
      It's clown shit.

  • @Miggy2222
    @Miggy2222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +269

    Dude sounded like the dealership held a gun to his head and forced him to sign the loan lol

    • @raymond_sycamore
      @raymond_sycamore 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You've clearly never been a 20 year old man.

    • @GAFB1122
      @GAFB1122 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@raymond_sycamore You clearly are a victim, lol.

    • @raymond_sycamore
      @raymond_sycamore 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GAFB1122 you clearly are a SIMP

    • @AMZflipper
      @AMZflipper 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      exactly!!! its funny that bells don't go off in peoples heads when seeing these loan amounts. WORK FOR IT!!!

    • @raymond_sycamore
      @raymond_sycamore 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AMZflipper "do the work" is what Karl Marx said, too.

  • @Ella-Bella2024
    @Ella-Bella2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    He doesn't need a car. He lives in NYC at lives above the business. This is ridiculous. Use the subway, buddy.

    • @mikenonya6382
      @mikenonya6382 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He pick a hot girl on the subway. LOL

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get a cheaper car if he wants to go on vacation and drive while doing it.

    • @Ella-Bella2024
      @Ella-Bella2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@MsJoyce31202 it would be a whole lot cheaper if he just rented a car for the occasional vacation.

    • @Mrs.TJTaylor
      @Mrs.TJTaylor หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s young. It’s an ego thing. He’ll get over it.

  • @MaxGrey03
    @MaxGrey03 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    "You already spent the money, paying it off is just finally admiting it." Love that line for people who are afraid of using their savings to pay off their debt, because then they would have no savings. Those savings that they think they are protecting are not actually real.

    • @bvoyelr
      @bvoyelr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But the interest those savings earn is.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My mother had an older brother and sister die of starvation,
      Creditors are not coming to your
      Home to take commodity, food, money.

    • @pixelgreen5837
      @pixelgreen5837 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@bvoyelr What's also real is the much higher interest on the debt they have... The interest on those savings is always effectively negative when you have debt

    • @JonathanTamm
      @JonathanTamm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bvoyelr so is the higher interest charged on the loan 20% - 3% = 17%

  • @percivalgooglyeyes6178
    @percivalgooglyeyes6178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Hey John, I got "screwed over" by bartenders making me an alcoholic.

    • @Mrs.TJTaylor
      @Mrs.TJTaylor หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Do you not see the irony in your statement? Laughing!

    • @wendypeeters7656
      @wendypeeters7656 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @MrT------5743
      @MrT------5743 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@CurtisLoyd-fe6sz that joke went right over your head.😂😂

  • @BTrain-is8ch
    @BTrain-is8ch 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    It's so annoying listening to people blame others for messes they created for themselves.

    • @Mrs.TJTaylor
      @Mrs.TJTaylor หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, but this guy is 23 years old. He has life lessons yet to learn. I think he is well ahead of the game just being willing to seek advice.

  • @Primitive_Code
    @Primitive_Code 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    "Right" = "I'm not doing any of it" lol.

    • @tate6809
      @tate6809 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100%. This is a dead giveaway that they realize there is a difference between reality and the story they have made up, but they'll choose to stick with what they've been doing rather than change anything.

    • @laxbmm84
      @laxbmm84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly how I took his responses as well.

  • @ClaxtonBay123
    @ClaxtonBay123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Guy is killing it for his age. He should bank as much a humanly possible while living with his folks.

    • @zvmZvm0102
      @zvmZvm0102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      he won't...has a different baseline for standard of living, he'll spend it and rack up debt like most people.

    • @davidcanning4840
      @davidcanning4840 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The career trajectory for a bartender is not a solid straight line….he will inherit something though.

    • @oldbloke204
      @oldbloke204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@davidcanning4840 Unless the restaurant goes belly up like so many.
      Never rely on an inheritance.

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He works in a family restaurant, not killing it.

    • @kylemack8864
      @kylemack8864 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are succesfull enough to pay their son 80k. The fam restaurant is doing great...​@sct4040

  • @bebop504
    @bebop504 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Dude if you live in the heart of New York, it doesn’t make sense to own ANY type of car. Also - how lucky is this guy to live with his fam, above their restaurant, and making $80k bartending? I know $80k isn’t much in NYC but this guy’s in a pretty good situation.

    • @alberttang6955
      @alberttang6955 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He probably eats for free at the restaurant, and his mom cooks for the family too, so his food cost is almost nothing.

    • @laxbmm84
      @laxbmm84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      80k is excellent for NYC when there’s no overhead whatsoever. Dude probably nets about the same as someone making $175k who pays rent, childcare, etc

    • @bebop504
      @bebop504 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laxbmm84 true

    • @christinebutler7630
      @christinebutler7630 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bebop504 and if you're a bartender there was never a reason to set foot in college, let alone take out loans for it.

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    You decided to buy the cars and get student loans. That's on you, not the car industry.

  • @thedapperfoxtrot
    @thedapperfoxtrot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    23 year old guy with almost no expenses, besides luxuries he imposed on himself.
    He's probably gonna keep the car, because he's still young and wanted to be frivolous...yet living above the restaurant he works at, which he works at because of nepotism, so he has no worry of losing the job...
    Man, what I would give to be in his shoes.

    • @ryanlemmers5300
      @ryanlemmers5300 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Tough to bring women over though 😂

  • @thelucky0239
    @thelucky0239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You are in great shape. Pay that crap off.. get rid of the rich guy car addiction and get wealthy. Then get the rich guy stuff.. when you rich

  • @wenchyfoodwench4098
    @wenchyfoodwench4098 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    No one screwed anyone over except the caller doing that to himself.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That was the funniest part of the call, glad Dave called it out. And I’m allowed to judge because I did much stupider stuff at 23😂

    • @costco_pizza
      @costco_pizza 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well the truth is a lot of people are struggling out there and can get tricked into things like this. People like this caller are suffering and we don't know where our next meal is coming from. Student loan relief and a proper UBI would go a long way in helping us out. This caller would be able to take care of his bills and put food on the table.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@costco_pizza Reality prevents "a proper UBI".

    • @KathleenMcNe
      @KathleenMcNe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He's like the people who obtain a loan from a pay-day lender and then bash the pay-day lender.

    • @CatWhiskering
      @CatWhiskering 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@costco_pizzaThe caller isn't "suffering," and no one owes you student loan relief or UBI. You signed up for the student loans and you made all the dumb choices that keep you poor.

  • @gohan4791
    @gohan4791 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    When a caller on the Ramsey show says “right” that usually means they disagree or they aren’t going to take his advice.
    I don’t know why half these callers bother.

    • @johnwilburn
      @johnwilburn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      A lot of them do it to flex.

    • @robinhollenbeck367
      @robinhollenbeck367 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They want to hear that they are right or, as in this case, that they 'were' victimized.

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right. I won't buy that 75k Tesla. 😂

  • @francosantoro1986
    @francosantoro1986 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Ken contemplating what he is gonna have for breakfast lunch and dinerrr and super😂😂

    • @laurol4342
      @laurol4342 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂 yep

  • @saelaird
    @saelaird 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    $80k as a bartender... daddy pays well. Above industry rates.

    • @bvoyelr
      @bvoyelr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Remember this is New York. That's lower middle income in that city. You're typically in a tiny apartment with a roommate with those numbers.

    • @japhethwillmore725
      @japhethwillmore725 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Absolutely nothing wrong with that either. Isn’t that something all of us would want to do as parents if we were able?

    • @InternetUser._
      @InternetUser._ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      “Jealousy is a helluva drug”

    • @AlexanderSagal
      @AlexanderSagal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Daddy probably wants him to stick around so he can take the business over someday.

    • @sarsattacks
      @sarsattacks 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It's from tips. Big cities pay a lot. I bartend in San Francisco and we make around that.

  • @DrewLeyMusic
    @DrewLeyMusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I can relate.. when I was that age, I thought having a really cool car was important. Later in life, you realize nobody cares

    • @E.Asinus
      @E.Asinus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You should only buy a cool car for you. I got lucky in being satisfied with a miata as my “cool” car, and anything else i really want is either too impractical or unattainable to even consider.

    • @percivalgooglyeyes6178
      @percivalgooglyeyes6178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, people don't say; "Look at that cool car and that totally awesome person driving it", but rather; "How'd that jerk get that bitch'n ride?"

    • @frequentlycynical642
      @frequentlycynical642 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not true. In Los Angeles, the third topic after introductions to a woman is, "What car do you drive?" I am not kidding.

    • @E.Asinus
      @E.Asinus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@frequentlycynical642 and shitbox is the answer

    • @alansach8437
      @alansach8437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nobody cares but you! Oh, and any woman who asks what kind of car you drive isn't worth your time!

  • @SahlMeyers
    @SahlMeyers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Thanks to you Dave. Following your recommendation, I started researching into Abby Joseph Cohen Services. Thankfully it was a little over a year ago now, I started an lnvestment with Abby's Services and that allowed me to be on much MUCH more stable ground in the face of global financial upheaval.
    So thank you, your channel, and your employees. For what it's worth, it made a difference for me and my little family.

    • @KimJimCastro
      @KimJimCastro 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here, I got to know about Abby Joseph Cohen on here in 2020. Since then I've paid off 160,000 USD of debt. Now I'm working on building an emergency fund. I didn't even have a savings account three years ago.

    • @RAKelBerquist
      @RAKelBerquist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know this FA, Abby Joseph Cohen Services but only by her reputation of being a former employee at Goldman Sachs; even though she's now involved in managing portfolios and providing investmnt guidance to clients. I have been trying to get in contact since I watched her interview on WSJ last month

    • @SahlMeyers
      @SahlMeyers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@RAKelBerquist
      Well her name is 'ABBY JOSEPH COHEN SERVICES'. Just research the name. You'd find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.

    • @RAKelBerquist
      @RAKelBerquist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SahlMeyers
      Thank you for this tip. I just looked the name up, wrote to her through her webpage and booked a session..

    • @DennisSoklov
      @DennisSoklov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Abby Joseph Cohen Services has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in Canada 🇨🇦 as she has been really helpful and changed lots of life's

  • @Lon1001
    @Lon1001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "I don't want this debt but I also don't want to give up my escalade or see my bank balance go down, what do I do?" Well only thing left is to work even more to make more money to throw at the debt. That is called living to work.

  • @ThomasThornhill
    @ThomasThornhill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    And with the interest gone for the car and student loans - INSTANT raise.

  • @victoriaman117
    @victoriaman117 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    unfortunately it always boils down to personal responsibility. Even if the system is set up against you (whether imagined or real), what YOU do about it is all that matters.

  • @xcw4934
    @xcw4934 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I like the idea that buying something with debt is you already spending the money. Paying off the loan is just admitting it. The most dangerous and disappointing idea credit providers have sold the public is that it's free money.

    • @tryingtowalkthepath683
      @tryingtowalkthepath683 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would add that when you take on debt, you've spent not just the $ for the product, but also even more $ for the interest.

  • @OMGFantasy
    @OMGFantasy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    25k for community college is crazy

    • @BusArch42
      @BusArch42 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed. It’s way cheaper than that.

  • @ThatCho
    @ThatCho 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Why does he need a really expensive car when he’s literally walking downstairs to work????

    • @ebaybasuki
      @ebaybasuki หลายเดือนก่อน

      Chicks

  • @UncleDavesKitchen
    @UncleDavesKitchen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dave and Ken are so good together.

  • @TrazimDollare1982
    @TrazimDollare1982 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Ken is like …What is this on the Table….must be my Breadcrumbs from my Subway Footlong 😂

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And, he's highly concentrating on his next order taking notes. "Note to self - *Go double cheese on next burrito, skip onions the crew hates the smell, maybe try that fried bean option instead of baked, buy John one because he put up with my gas last time"

    • @TrazimDollare1982
      @TrazimDollare1982 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@JustinCase780 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Legendary!!!! Dave Ordered 1000 of those Vanilla Scented Plug in Fragerances to get rid of the Red Onion Aroma in the Office

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TrazimDollare1982100%
      And, the ladies nicknamed him "Ken don't drop your Pen" because everytime he bends over he releases a silent but deadly.

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TrazimDollare1982 100% and a reorder ready to go. The ladies in the office constantly repeat "Was Ken in here?" at the start of every meeting.

    • @francosantoro1986
      @francosantoro1986 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Jersey mikes😂😂

  • @dennisdupuis1567
    @dennisdupuis1567 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Telling people to sell their car is unrealistic. It’s a lot of hassle, and you’re never going to realize what you think it’s worth. Pay off the student loan, double up on the car payment and keep contributing into the IRA. The difference between paying interest on the loan vs drawing interest on the IRA is not enough to take a loss on the car. Just drive the car until the wheels fall off

    • @ywebbie3037
      @ywebbie3037 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Pay off the car and never buy another one. Keep this one until it dies. Then throw all spare cash onto debt and start saving. Same results but you've initially got a newer car, you know what you've got and there's still value in it until years later.

  • @jeffcanada8897
    @jeffcanada8897 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I drive a used Camry. Bought it used for $16,000. And I’m several decades older than 23…. No one should be broke because of a car.

    • @JJones-zg7yz
      @JJones-zg7yz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best thing I ever did was buy a certified pre owned honda in 2014 for $14,250. Still driving it 10 years later. I constantly have co-workers ask me "when are you getting a new car?!" lol

    • @alansach8437
      @alansach8437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@JJones-zg7yzYep, and you just smile! 😊

  • @GregActonCPA
    @GregActonCPA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have never bought a new car. All of my cars were bought used and I keep them for as long as possible. I still drive my 2008 Honda Civic.

    • @alansach8437
      @alansach8437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gotta love Civics. They run forever with minimal upkeep.

  • @TR0LLREIGN
    @TR0LLREIGN 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Dave is congratulating this kid for gettting a lot of money from his parents 😂 How many 23 year old waiters make 80k?

    • @alansach8437
      @alansach8437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In New York? Probably more than you would think. That's not that much in New York!

  • @abhishek8587
    @abhishek8587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    The dumbest thing you can do at any stage of life is to go into debt for a depreciating asset like a car

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not everything is about depreciation.

    • @abhishek8587
      @abhishek8587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jimmymcgill6778 and that's why most ppl bury themselves into debt unnecessarily

    • @penelope5500
      @penelope5500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      If you think it's dumb then you are free not to do it. I bought a new Toyota Avalon 15, or, so, yr's ago which I could easily pay cash for. Enjoyed that car so much. Yes, I took the depreciation on buying a new car & that was fine. Sometimes a luxury is worth it.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I still own the 1972 Chevy Truck that I bought new,
      Buy new and never Re-Buy!

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@penelope5500 Car ownership is inherently stupid.

  • @judsonhurdmusic
    @judsonhurdmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I got my sweet treats and ready to watch

    • @hannahi9355
      @hannahi9355 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

  • @ojg386
    @ojg386 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for listening to the advice. It takes a real young man like you to follow the wisdom from experience persons.

    • @laxbmm84
      @laxbmm84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      (Pssst: he’s not going to do anything Dave recommended)

  • @tysons9222
    @tysons9222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It’s crazy to me to have the cash to pay off debt and not think you need to do it

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell me why I should
      Pull $50K that is making ~11%
      and pay off a 0% loan?

    • @tysons9222
      @tysons9222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aolvaar8792 where are you making 11% and paying 0% for a loan I want to bank there

    • @d_all_in
      @d_all_in 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can understand it only when it's earning more yield than the cost of interest

    • @towel-ie7554
      @towel-ie7554 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@aolvaar8792 is that 11% guaranteed? Nope. But the debt payment sure is.

  • @jesseurizar7146
    @jesseurizar7146 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Pay off the caddy until wheels fall off. Why waste 10k on a car that will break down in a few years. You live at home and have a job with your parents. You can pay that off quick

  • @KathleenMcNe
    @KathleenMcNe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's amazing how quickly one can accumulate cash and increase investments when one has zero debt.

  • @MisterNightfish
    @MisterNightfish 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    He lives above the restaurant and he needs a 35k car?

    • @alberttang6955
      @alberttang6955 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      A 23 year old dude wants to impress the ladies. 😀

    • @jdsiv3
      @jdsiv3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Making 80K working for daddy

    • @Neoquaker1
      @Neoquaker1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@alberttang6955 Exactly. When should he get the 35K car, when he's 45? And then he'll be called a creep for trying to pickup 20 yr olds. Now is his time to impress.

    • @alberttang6955
      @alberttang6955 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@Neoquaker1 In the movie Little Miss Sunshine, the grandpa character only gives one piece of advice to his grandson: "Fk a lot of women. Just fk a lot of women". Can't say he's wrong.

    • @gyvas
      @gyvas 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Neoquaker1 oh how impressive, you can sign your name on a dotted line

  • @TheSterlingArcher16
    @TheSterlingArcher16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    $80k as a bartender? That’s more than my company pays for new hire engineers.

    • @cw5948
      @cw5948 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He’s at his family’s company.

    • @alansach8437
      @alansach8437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But are you in New York City? Eighty grand is poverty pay in New York.

    • @TheSterlingArcher16
      @TheSterlingArcher16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alansach8437 Nope, but still. You’d expect a college educated engineer would make more than a bartender anywhere in the US.

  • @zvmZvm0102
    @zvmZvm0102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm a bartender (key words:) "at my family's restaurant." So his parent's hooked him up with a good paying job and dude thinks he "earned" it.

  • @orangemountain457
    @orangemountain457 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Blaming others for your misfortune will not resolve anything, you need to pick yourself up when you get knocked down.
    Chumbawamba

  • @JayLawson
    @JayLawson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks!

  • @robr268
    @robr268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He's under on the car by over 10,000 or more. He has the cash, so pay it off. Regardless of why he needs it, he has the cash to wipe everything clean.

  • @oshkoshbegone
    @oshkoshbegone 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I bet you the previous bartender didn't make 80k their... Family makes a difference lol.

  • @FlutterSwag
    @FlutterSwag 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just shows you its who you know not what you know that gets you money

  • @JoeyNYSDnomad
    @JoeyNYSDnomad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Once maybe, twice its no coincidence. These lessons are expensive.

  • @Maelu-op9gf
    @Maelu-op9gf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    He’s doing great for 23.. get a cheaper car and stack that cash 💰

    • @robr268
      @robr268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why when he has the money to pay it off? He's upside down and won't profit anything.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@robr268Dave explained why, but either way works.

    • @ooknittylou
      @ooknittylou 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s a depreciating asset so he isn’t going to profit anything anyway.

  • @dec1slh
    @dec1slh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    1. Pay off and keep the car
    2. Aggressively pay down the student loan and
    3.continue contributing to IRA.
    4. Save (HYSA) and Invest (brokerage account)

    • @Blittsplitt5
      @Blittsplitt5 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong.. sell the stupid car because he really doesn't need it, pay off the student loan debt for good in ONE PAYMENT, and pay off whatever else stupid loan or balance he has on the previous car that he mistakenly bought.

    • @dec1slh
      @dec1slh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Blittsplitt5 yeah sell a car and buy a junker that you have no idea what kind of issues it will have... brilliant. He is young and managed to save nearly 60k at 23. He will be fine, he is not drowning in debt, like people in their 30's and 40's with 6 figures in debt. Not everyone needs to develop the scarcity mindset. He has learned his lesson and can still recover without going to extremes. It doesn't hurt that he has privilege on his side.

  • @ginoturano6821
    @ginoturano6821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No rent and free food

  • @BobPenzien
    @BobPenzien 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Let's be honest. This grown man is able to stash away a lot of cash because he's living with his Mom and Dad with little to no housing expenses. The question is ... could he still get out of debt without the help of Mom and Dad? Yes, but it would be a hell of lot harder!

  • @itamchi9084
    @itamchi9084 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hes in good shape

  • @SuccessfulLifeInvesting
    @SuccessfulLifeInvesting 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am retiring at 45 and I agree we need to make the right decisions to reach financial freedom.

  • @Riley_rolo
    @Riley_rolo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ive done dumb stuff while young get rid of debt regardless.

  • @daliaa5294
    @daliaa5294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How can you live at home and not contribute financially ?
    Kids if nowadays have no idea of the real world world

  • @carterwgtx
    @carterwgtx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If he said it was invested with his 50k I’d be more skeptical…but if it’s just sitting in a savings account it pay the student loans off immediately and put a big chunk into the car. Maybe you get rid of it maybe you keep it, but be debt free within a year. Then stack cash and open a Roth IRA brokerage account to stock away as much as possible BEFORE life happens and your expenses go up. Your 35 year old self will thank you when the messy middle hits.

  • @unelectedleader6494
    @unelectedleader6494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes I wonder what could've happened for me if I would've been born into such a job. I mean, instead of having to work hard for a decade to start making some decent money, even better than 80, but still. Compound interest being what it is

  • @Memoreism
    @Memoreism หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    80k bartending! And you wonder why people aren't interested in getting a corporate job starting at 15$ an hour,...

  • @xlerb2286
    @xlerb2286 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fellow paid some tuition at the school of life. If he's smart that tuition may well have been worth it.

  • @michaelmcnulty8785
    @michaelmcnulty8785 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “The car industry screwed me over.” Unless the CEO of GM put a gun to your head to buy a Cadillac, you only have yourself to blame.

    • @steelcastle5616
      @steelcastle5616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Immaturity makes many adults blame others for their own deeds.

  • @Lil-Whiskies
    @Lil-Whiskies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why are the student loans (around $25k) so high for a community college? Unless he lived out of his parents home and used the money for rent that seems awfully high. Did he use the loans for the first car? Why bar tend if he got a degree, or did he get one? Dave didn't ask any questions on the student loan situation.

    • @dec1slh
      @dec1slh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He probably went to school for business and will take over some day. Even if that's not the case, majority of people don't work in the field that they were educated in

  • @vicki8042
    @vicki8042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lets fix that. I bought two cars I couldn't afford and want to blame other people. What should I do.

  • @OlgaSunny-pl2sg
    @OlgaSunny-pl2sg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What would you do when you get wealthy? Most wealthy people are extremely extremely and I said it twice that’s right frugal. I with my only income take them out pay for their lunches, buy gifts when they got millions in their stocks, bonds etc.. Most wealthy are very poor at heart. I like watching Dave’s show because he teaches how to be smart with your money I think it will help if he also teaches how to be not sooooo frugal.

  • @sidalexis
    @sidalexis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    A car is the worst investment. Why do ppl invest in it?

    • @gregorypeterson9
      @gregorypeterson9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not a investment maybe a classic car might be a long term investment..maybe depending on the car a market.

    • @alansach8437
      @alansach8437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They think it makes their thing bigger!

    • @robira1313
      @robira1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some people need to go grocery shopping. A car will 999% of the time lose value.

  • @mikeshaw4610
    @mikeshaw4610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Go with the suggestions and stay out of debt and you will be able to save even more money quickly.

  • @pdxmusl1510
    @pdxmusl1510 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Maybe times have changed. But... cadillacs are for old people. The average age of an owner is like 50s and 60s last i knew. Why is a 23 year old buying a cadillac?

    • @reese85
      @reese85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pdxmusl1510 times def has changed lol

    • @dec1slh
      @dec1slh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's probably a CT4-V or CT5-V. That's the only thing that makes sense going from a mustang to caddy

    • @alberttang6955
      @alberttang6955 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Cadillac CT5-V has 3.0 L Twin Turbo engine with 360 horsepower. And it's actually a decent looking luxury sedan.

    • @toddprater14
      @toddprater14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black wing

  • @aminonmiles8054
    @aminonmiles8054 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cash is KING

  • @KimberlyManuel-ee3ov
    @KimberlyManuel-ee3ov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would pay off the student loan and put some down on the car loan and pay off the rest of the loan quickly. Keep the car if you like it and learn from your mistake.

  • @Logangil515
    @Logangil515 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How much does Dave think 80k a year per month is?

  • @Heidi123
    @Heidi123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's working in his parents business and is probably better paid than he would be if he wasn't related. He'll also probably inherit the business too.

  • @AlexWatts-hj9el
    @AlexWatts-hj9el 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's 23 with a nice car, he ain't getting rid of that car

  • @pgplays458
    @pgplays458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    80k as a bartender? What the fudge!

  • @SahlMeyers
    @SahlMeyers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I woke up to the tragic drawbacks of our debt-based financial system during the last financial crash. Through discipline, determination and Abby Joseph Cohen my financial advisor, I was able to retire recently in my early '50s with a bit of land in the Williamson act on the California coast and an investment portfolio that can sustain my daily living. I try to spread the word and encourage many people I meet it is possible to achieve the goal of independence. Living below your means can be enormously rewarding! Practice humility and above all, Invest in the financial markets with expert guidance.

  • @MirrorShineAutoDetailing
    @MirrorShineAutoDetailing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    90k bartending?! That’s like 125k a year at a regular job. That’s why you see bartenders in their 50s 60s and even 70s still bartending because the pay and hours are infinitely preferable to corporate work.

    • @MissDuke2012
      @MissDuke2012 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s in NYC. COL is WAY higher.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      80k in NYC is poverty.

  • @barnabusdoyle4930
    @barnabusdoyle4930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This guy should look at how fast he could cash flow and pay down the debts. Then just pound it away. Don’t sell the caddy for a loss. There is no way he would be able to sell it for even $15k. Just pay the car off and keep it. Cash flow and pound that debt out in 2 years or less.

  • @BREEZYM6015
    @BREEZYM6015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got a 1979 El Camino.

    • @robira1313
      @robira1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ...and?

  • @InfiniteWealthWisdom-k1c
    @InfiniteWealthWisdom-k1c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It had a good effect

  • @its.tyh_
    @its.tyh_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In what world does he get 25k debt from a community college? The student debt is insane. I’m a senior at a 4 year D1 university and have managed to pay for it all in cash. That’s not bragging it’s just that it hasn’t been that expensive. I don’t stay on campus but I also don’t have any scholarships. 2500 bucks a semester if that.

  • @kevind8752
    @kevind8752 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who talked him into rolling the balance on the mustang into the purchase price of the Caddy? Must have been the car dealer.

  • @jonathanstraiton4601
    @jonathanstraiton4601 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is Dave getting the 5k-6k/month number? That's basically his entire pay, after taxes. Even if you live at home, you're probably still going to have a few expenses each month. All that aside, I do like Dave's plan, just bite the bullet and be done with it. A year from now, he'll be so proud of himself.

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It makes me wonder how many of the problems that we face in our lives are usually a result of our own stupidity?

    • @robira1313
      @robira1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      all of them.

  • @fdllicks
    @fdllicks 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bartenders make $80 grand??? Who knew?

  • @tones_2466
    @tones_2466 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He can also hold the savings n gradually pay off for the car ov3r the next few months instead of saving

  • @insure4cheap
    @insure4cheap 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    23 years old making $80k as a bartender living in NY I know exactly why he got the caddy. 🤷🏾‍♂️✊🏾

  • @BrianaBudgets
    @BrianaBudgets 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Riiiight…it’s the car industry’s fault..😂

  • @DaveCompton5150
    @DaveCompton5150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can't stack 6K/month making 80K per year. 6K/month is 72K/year......so he isn't supposed to pay his ~20K in taxes + never go out or have other expenses.

    • @phillyd4874
      @phillyd4874 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s what I’m hearing as well. Drives me crazy how certain jobs don’t pay taxes

  • @godsdozer
    @godsdozer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he has to impress the bar bunnies

  • @Thaysrc17
    @Thaysrc17 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will add, once you start building your cash back open a ROA IRA, save some of the money in a HYA and invest in S&P500. Then keep in a regular bank account your “Emergency Funds”.

  • @VishalSharma-j6i
    @VishalSharma-j6i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m very happy for him. He’s going to be VERY WEALTHY in his life.

  • @erikcampen8276
    @erikcampen8276 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So, about the Cadillac…..
    Has nothing to do with the fact that you work at your parents bar, live in your parents house, right?
    So, what you’re trying to do is show the world that you’ve hit a home run, all the while having your gut tell you that in all actuality, your parents dropped your ass on third base and just asked you to run the remaining 90’?
    That’s what the Cadillac represents right, Slick Guy?

  • @Desertbiker617
    @Desertbiker617 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would sell the car because I am sure the car has a higher interest than a student loan.

  • @Bob-yh7ir
    @Bob-yh7ir 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop worrying about image and he will be great ! Sounds like he is not afraid to do some work and long hours. Get rid of all the flashy things and he will be able to rebuild his cash fast and be investing. If he continues on this course, he will make millionaire status by late 40s, early 50s.

  • @caseycooper2381
    @caseycooper2381 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I get da car, then I get da gurlza... right dude bro!

  • @hbarudi
    @hbarudi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isn't Cadillac supposed to be a LUXURY car? Why they offer loans for such cars?

    • @keybase8653
      @keybase8653 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      GM finance is where they make money. Selling cars not so much.

  • @williamlackey123
    @williamlackey123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I bet he doesn’t sell the car

  • @matthewmarston5149
    @matthewmarston5149 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Uncle David❤ do I pay all your bills and taxes, Sir❤😅

  • @unbothered6357
    @unbothered6357 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Certain people have learned how to defer blame on everyone else …. It is never them….always a victim

    • @robira1313
      @robira1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      These people are "half-brains" who still have much growing up to do.

  • @sidwhiting665
    @sidwhiting665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy makes good money, has the right attitude, and sounds like he takes good advice seriously. He's got a great chance to build some serious wealth very quickly!

  • @stealthyman789
    @stealthyman789 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Imagine having over 25k in student loans and being a bartender making 80k… what a terrible ROI

  • @mathematician1234
    @mathematician1234 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After watching this video, TH-cam showed me a commercial for a Ford Mustang. Very funny.

    • @robira1313
      @robira1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL

    • @mathematician1234
      @mathematician1234 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robira1313 A vehicle was driving illegally in a park here a couple of nights ago, digging up the grass and leaving big ruts. A piece of rubber fell off it, which I just picked up. It says "FoMoCo" on it. I guessed that FoMoCo might be Ford Motor Company, and sure enough, it is. That's funny. Fear of missing out on that Mustang experience!