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- Ezra has more Severe Autism and Simon has more Mild Autism. Here are 12 signs of Autism in 3-year-olds.
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Our 3 year old is level 2 and has most of these signs. Hearing your bonus sign has brought me so much comfort as we have the same issue. Our son wouldn't even open his christmas gifts, it took us a week to get them all open and then he wouldn't use them for a few days. We bought him some new PJ's today, and he wouldn't have a bar of them. We've hung them on display in his room and they usually need to be there for a few days before he seems to "Accept" them as his and try them on.
Very interesting. We may might have to try that with Ezra and Simon. Thank you for commenting and sharing! ❤️
Always smile when Adam talks to Ezra. 💜 So heartwarming.
Thank you, some people, disagree, and say that I am babying the kids and should stop. I honestly don’t even notice that I do it.😊
Another great video!! Definitely seen majority of these signs, and he's almost 2! ..Also really liked the financial costs of Autism and why diagnose early videos!! You guys give such great advice and insight, ty❤..also the toddler leash thing..totally get how ignorance can cloud ppls judgement but to call it restrictive!!? you guys are literally doing the opposite to give him the freedom to explore whilst still being safe..if you didnt do that his other options, if the circumstances allow for it, would be to be carried, hold hands, in a stroller or rarely go out and adventure and see things...thats restrictive!...Wish ppl would stop and think more lol you guys are wonderful parents💚💚
Thank you so much! 😊❤️😊 I totally agree. ❤️
Thanks for the insight. Going through the possibility of this with my family. These videos help us newcomers understand and get a grip of this. Thanks
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching and commenting ❤️
You are a family that helps each other, we also have a son with autism age 5. He can't speak yet, but repeats phrases now. Your videos have really helped us out
This makes me so happy! ❤️ Simon will repeat sentences too. I hope we can hear his voice more as he grows up. Thank you for commenting and we’re so glad you found the channel!
This is called echolalia, it’s a form of auditory stimming. It can also be repeating noises, song/ song lyrics or scales, repeating movie lines or whole scenes, etc. Using the Gesalt method may help increase his word and word usage exposure, so he can pick up more phrases. Kids with autism learn differently than most kids, he may just need a different approach to unlock that skill. I couldn’t learn sight words, the ‘pattern’ was nonsense, but once I learned phonics and word roots, it like unlocked my brain and I started blowing past other kids reading levels. Even if he doesn’t ever ‘advance’ a skill, he’s lucky to have loving parents ❤
Interesting and very informative. Good luck to you both.
Thank you! You too!
Thamk you,ur son and family very much for making this video. I have a grand daughter who I believe she probably had austim. You explained well . I so happy I found ur video and I don t feel alone and showed my daughter, she also says thanks. Now were going to her the help she needs.. Thank you again. From :Lana ,Suzanna and Anna(g/d)❤ (Ontario,Canada)
You are very welcome. ❤️Thanks for watching and commenting. Much love and keep in touch. ❤️
Not sure how similar things are in Canada, but this is how the evaluations kind of work here in the US…Demystifying Autism Evaluation: What to Expect
th-cam.com/video/Ki3c1nUJw6g/w-d-xo.html
I just wanted to say you did an amazing job at explaining autism. I just watched it out of curiosity as I have worked with disability clients in the past but I never thought I could understand a person or child with autism, I have actually refused to work with one child as I was so scared of doing something wrong 🙁 so you are definitely educating others, thank you 💚
Wow, thank you for sharing that. It means a lot ❤️
Most would say how terrible you are choosing to not work with a child but I commend you in saying that you didn’t know much and didn’t want to negatively effect the child.
@@melissatilmann9095 I usually work with adults and was given the opportunity to work with a child but yes I was absolutely terrified that I would do something wrong, I had to decline. I am confident in my ability with most things but unfortunately not with a child with autism. I would have been by myself as well with no support or advice from the parents.
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Ezra is such a great kid, Ivan went threw alot what he does and we also thought he was gonna be non~verbal but about a month after the doctor told us that he started talking today my kids got a microphone and told and said he loved me and thank you for my new mommy I had to put him to sleep he had a long few days but waking him up when we set the fireworks off at 10:00 he usually holds his ears but let's go half way threw we got some big ones we all had such a good day most definitely one of the biggest days I've had ❤
That is so wonderful he could say that he loves you! ❤️ thanks for sharing
@7Aheadfamily they made me cry my 8 year old said thank you for loving ME Daddy just about my whole family cried
So cute
@7Aheadfamily such a Special day in my life
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I'm 16 and I have autism, and I absolutely hate fireworks. I don't like how loud and bright they are. They are sudden and unexpected, and sometimes they don't pop or have a delayed pop so they're very unpredictable which are a few of my least favorite things. I dread the 4th of July, and new years cause of all the fireworks, but I actually enjoy the look of the dull colored fireworks like roman candles, but those tend to be the loud and one unexpected ones cause you hold them.
That makes sense. Thank you for sharing.
I was not diagnosed with ASD until I was 26 years old. I just turned 31. People often made fun of me because I was "different" or "quirky." I just remind them that I learn differently and that if they don't like me, that is a "them issue-not me. Thank you, Holly and Adam for sharing your life experiences. I appreciate it.
True. That is their decision. Thank you for sharing.
I think like a dr but my mentalities are slow like a 2,or 3 years old but I can't help it because I was born with the medical problems and issues I got the medical idea's from my uncle Clifford and zachary ryan got it from me Trisha I am medically disabled and mentally delayed and medically challenged I have a wheelchair and crutches and oxygen and a walker I am using my mother's wifi tablet for my messages I have carcinoma cancer and pancretitis and multiple medical issues and problems I have a therapy kitten 😺 named Wilson lynch mcfarland
To Sarahrose8029/ from myself Trisha Knight
Wow, well thank you for watching and sharing ❤️. We will send prayers and good thoughts and blessings your way. Much love, Adam and Holly.
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Really relateable, especially sign 1 to 3 and 12, I really get anxious when new things came out, idk why but I think I can't get used to it
New things are difficult, for most people. I love new things, but I am weird that way, -Holly
Beautiful son! This is exactly my son. We are about to get the diagnosis hopefully... He is 2,5 years old.. thankyou for explaining!! It makes a hope sense for me!
Wonderful to hear. We are so happy that you found our channel. Keep us updated!
Ezra is such a lovely child, I wish I could provide to my child what you are providing.. you’re a great mother
Thank you so much! ❤️ I’m sure you are a wonderful mother for your child! There is a reason why these special children are given to each one of us. It can be challenging at times, but also rewarding. Please keep in touch and let us know how things continue. One thing that helps my son feel seen and feel a connection with me is when I copy his silly behavior. He sees that and loves it.
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Thank you for sharing your insights with your kid.
Thanks for watching! You bet!
@@7Aheadfamily my son doesn't exhibit many of these attributes, but doesn't talk to communicate. He's 3 years old. He pulls us to get his job done. How did you work on this with your child? He loves being with other kids in day care and enjoys running around with the group
That is really good he is already doing that. Ezra didn't do that till he was like 6. It is a lot of ABA. We have another video coming out on that soon...
ABA Therapy for Mild Autism and Severe Autism
th-cam.com/video/frWx0pXtTXM/w-d-xo.html
Thank you for your video.
My son was diagnosed just shy of his third birthday. It would have been sooner but we waited almost 2 years on a waiting list. We worked through early intervention that helped with speak therapy and occupational therapy. My son LOVED water bottles (full or empty)and pens (I would remove the ink so he would hurt himself or anyone else) or straws.
- scream and cries loud sounds
- hand gestures
- getting frustrated with feelings
- hits when over stimulated
- getting overstimulated in group settings
-Lining things up
Thank you for sharing. ❤️😊❤️
I have all of this symptoms, Im honestly scared
You don’t have to be scared. If you have it, getting a diagnosis might help you better understand yourself. But, remember that just because you do these things doesn’t mean you have autism. ❤️
Currently awaiting my 2 year old daughters evaluation, my girl is similar in many ways but also one of her own. All kids are different autistic or neurotypical. I just wanted to say your videos are really helping me get through it all personally. I was an emotional wreck a few months ago, but seeing the progress my daughter has made these last few months along with getting more educated with autism has really helped me. Thank you. Oh and we've finally got our speech therapy referral though, exciting times ahead.
That is exciting news! And good for you for being so proactive by getting educated. It is very emotional for parents to get the news and enter such a new world. I felt like someone had pushed me a in a pool and I didn’t know how to swim. As a special needs parent you just have to learn how to swim and fast. ❤️ so happy you found our channel. Let’s keep in touch. What state do you live in? Do they have good support and resources there? Also let me know what type of vids you’d Luke to see. What would be helpful to you?
@@7Aheadfamily Thank you so much for getting back to me. It really is emotional, I totally understand how you felt. I live in the UK, things are different over here, we're behind somewhat and unfortunately don't get ABA. Have you got any recent tips on getting her to try new foods? Thanks again.
We did do a video on meal time, routines, and there are some good comments to read in there as well…
Mealtime Routine for Mild Autism and Severe Autism | 9 Tips
th-cam.com/video/uZkyv_8_Foc/w-d-xo.html
Meal time could be especially challenging when we were in the RV full time, but here are some good simple recipes for that…
The 4th of July is my fav holiday. I don't like the loud noise though I do the the percussive boom if u get what I mean. I do love the lights though. New Years is my second fav holiday because I get to watch fireworks via videos all day as each timezone celebrates entering into the new year. Only reason I like the 4th more is I get to be the one to set off the fireworks.
Cool! Thanks for sharing. ❤️😊❤️
Growing up with autism was always a little hard. People would hate me 24/7 and i would wonder “why do they hate me, im like everyone else?” i got called “attention-seeking” bc i say uh/um a lot bc i cant speak correctly. if i dont respond they think im ignorant when im just trying to process what they said. and my stims are “weird” i eventually just wanted to be left alone with no social interaction. everyone always thought i was weird bc i have little to no eye contact. also my struggle with making friends was horrible. I always would be the last person to ever talk to someone in school and had barely any friends. It was hard to keep them but I eventually found my true friends ❤ my school does SEL which is Social emotional learning. I love that they did that bc it helped me alot with my mental health. They even made a feeling journal and grattitude jar. My school is my safe place for depression, anxiety, and meltdowns.
as someone who is also unaware of danger i once dropped my basketball and a car came and hit the basketball i still went out to the street and grabbed it. I always end up avoiding it somehow, i gave my mother a heart attack and didnt realize it until years later that “Oh! that couldve been bad.”
Thank you for watching and sharing your experience ❤️. So glad to have you here, and it is great to hear that your school was your safe place. ❤️
Wow! Glad you were okay!!!
@@7Aheadfamily Yes I was so lucky!
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Thanks a lot!❤
You're welcome 😊
I also loved the toddler leash when I was a baby (over 30 now). My mom was shamed out of using it even tho it made both her and me happier.
My neurotypical little sister couldn’t stand it. But for me, it was a way that would let me wander but not get lost. It was so easy for me to get left behind or run off in the wrong direction so the leash was a nice way of making me feel safe and knowing that I couldn’t get lost.
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Saw the doctor today just to check his temperature as it was high ...but I didn't know the doctor was doing her observation on my son as I did discuss that I was having problems of my son not listening to me ...anyway to cut a short story she told me he has sifhns of being autistic signs ...I was shocked as my blood pressure was very high ...life and I'm not gonna lie my son nb...I wasn't expectiee to hear this and now I'm freaking out as I'm a single dad raising my son ...but thanks for the video
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I have high autism and I also have many different Diagnosis so I can relate to that and I also have very sensitive hearing so that when there is a lot of sounds I can't handle it
Thank you so much for watching and commenting ❤️. Yeah thankfully our kids don’t do too bad with sounds. Do you have ADHD as well?
Flip-flop thing. Took my kids to spray splash area and he kept stealing shoes and throwing them in the water. ALL people started hiding shoes any time he got near them! Ugh
That sounds like Ezra. ❤️
5:11 my son is always next to the music too! Once we were at a gathering, and my aunt was the one controlling the music, and he noticed that she uses her phone for that so every time the music stopped he would come to her scream at her and take her phone and put it in her hands.(he only screamed when she ignored him, although he already gave her the phone)She laughed a lot saying “ your son is mad at me for stopping the music!” And then every time he saw her he used to stay next to her thinking she’s going to turn on some music lol, She was almost the only other person that he would be around other than me in gatherings
Thank you for sharing!💕❤️💕
Thank you for all your videos! They have been very helpful to us.
My husband and I are suspecting some Autism (maybe High Functioning? Or level 1?) on our 3 year old son, do you have these same signs from your younger son who is Level1?
It is very tricky to differentiate how much and levels and what is still neurotypical behavior and what is not… we are in a long waiting list to get him evaluated.
Thank you!
I'm so glad you asked. We have a video on that, where we ask a professional about the different levels of Autism and what they mean. Please let me know if this video helped answer some of your questions. th-cam.com/video/6Jhs6VVYZ-I/w-d-xo.html
I'm curious, how long is the waiting list? and are you in the states?
My three year old grandson is so far non verbal and has been going to speech therapy for a year with no improvement and he is finally getting in for an evaluation ……due to covid it seems all health services are so backlogged it is taking a very long time to get things done ….
So true. Sorry it’s been difficult to get him his assessment. Covid has seemed to impact the learning and growth of children quite a bit.
Hi. It's a great video. Odd kids among us. There is some overlapping traits between INFJ and Autism in the sensory sensitivity, empathy and intuition that leads to some pressure on social norms.
That's why I can explain the behavior of an autism. 1. The contentment
He just feel ok since he knows his mother is around, let the mother do the thing.
2. Speech delay as the other sensory come first.
3. Hide in a corner actually he does not know the meaning of hide, the real meaning of hide is you won't see him or catch me. It means he is safe and comfort being alone.
4. Due to speech delay, unusual toys for a typical human, but it is collection for him not quite a toy actually, we just call it an item.
5. Organize things, it is just a habit by having a collection next thing to do is organized it.
6. Love varieties or colourful objects. Though the other meaning of it is obsessed.
7. It is stress environment that need to know each if them. In other words due to his speech problem, he aware what is his problem. 1 to 1 works best, because he can adjust and scan. In other words, a collection of human is very hard as it makes so much noise and movement. Hahaha.
8. Need time to learn is actually means he needs to capture it in his brain and save it exactly. If you are an youtuber, it is the same thing editing it once or editing the same video many times before upload? Being an idealist.
9. Different texture here actually means how to bite and how to swallow. As I mentioned above, speech delay causes other sensory faster growth.
10. For a typical person, we see it unaware of danger. Well it is the love to explore, to be exactly 'love to explore alone' .
11. Regarding the fireworks, for me it is small. From Malaysia, if any festival, we drive there and see it in front of us, the bigger picture the 3D effect. Sorry to say, it is not exciting. You can watch youtube Chinese New Year fireworks in Kuching Malaysia by 'journey with the jongs'
and 'Sibu Chinese New Year Fireworks 2022' by O2 Cinematics.
12. The throwing, it is the hoping of it can move. Anyway it is just some bad habits, you need to guide him with round things can move, flat things not move. Explore it with different sport, so that he won't apply it to household object or on food.
It depends how skillful of parents to move one step ahead.
Hope this helps. 👍♥️
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Having an Epsom salt bath before bed and or using a supplement like KId calm can help relax kids of all needs
Interesting. We might have to try that. Thank you so much for sharing! ❤️❤️❤️
It’s not just visible stimulation it’s all 5 senses we have the textile ( touch) smell, sight and the hearing
Interesting. Thanks for watching and sharing💜
I didn't start talking till I was 5 and I was diagnosed age 12 and all of these sighns I relate with just looking at the fire workes made me stim I get picked on for being autistic and I hate school now and sins my cares FORT it was trauma not autism it makes sense but I wish people didnt pick on autistic just because who they are or the way they act I also strugle with reading and writing so I am 14 and my spelling age is 6 i also mite have a language processing disorder but that's still being looked into thx for these amazing content #AutismAliance
Thank you for sharing. I agree that people shouldn’t pick on Autistic people. That makes me sad. (As a mother of two Autistic boys) I hope that you have good friends who care about you and accept you the way you are. Happy you found the Channel
I should be thanking you because the attitude towards autism with the three autism alliance channels is 100x better than irl where I live so watching your videos make me happy that there are at least some people who know how and want to share about autism and the good and the bad sides of it because I live in the UK and it seems nice where you live than where I live for autism awareness/understanding
I've only been to the UK for a short one week vacation, to London. But I do have extended family in Whales. I have no idea what it's like over there. I do love how people from all over the world can connect online. I feel it's a great blessing to help us all not feel so alone with what we are going through. We want people to see our videos and see (just like you said) "the good and bad sides of Autism" But mainly just to normalize it. People with different abilities shouldn't have to hide from the world.
@7Aheadfamily I wish there were more people who were trying to normalise it would change the world also I'm in Wales in and people use 'You are autistic ' as an insult and apparently that's normal? I wish it wasn't
The head of the asd unit in school to me it comes across as him trying to make us mask everything and if we don't we won't fit in but that's wat it feels like But idk if that's his intention tbh it would be better if they hired a autistic person for that job but idk if it could get overwhelming so idk
Yes! It would change the world!
Yes the texture are crazy cuz I still have it and I am 41 and that can be either in out mouth or the way it goes down or the feel in the hand plus we can look at it and not like the texture we see too
Fascinating, thank you for putting words to what Ezra is going through. 😊 It is so good to hear your perspective. Thank you!
I feel like the issue is just all miss understanding because a person with sense that rise are hard for the people that it doesn’t happen with now all the information put out there are from non autistic people we we can be either none functioning to average to genius IQ it’s our sense get in the way of what we are doing
There is a lot of miss understanding for sure. ❤️
Hi Holly and Adam: How do I join the “Autism Alliance,” as a peer Mentor/Advocate?
Great cause and would love to help and encourage and be a voice to the voiceless and support in anyway I possibly can. Would love to continue to learn and expand my education.
Best,
Jon ❤ and love your videos (28yrs)
Happy to provide a resume/cover letter and a little about me.
If I am unable to help at this time, will continue to help by spreading the word to friends and family and being an active supporter. Happy to help.😊
Hey Jon, we would be so happy to have you help out! Right now we are just focused on the fundraising. Once we get enough, we will start the call center, and maybe you can help out then! 😊
You’re the best! Yes, let’s keep in touch about it and hopefully we can get some big donation soon so we can get started. 😊
@@7Aheadfamily Yes. it would be an honor
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These videos are very helpful. My 2yr8month old son has just been diagnosed with a speech delay so will need speech therapy and OT. He is saying heaps of words and some short sentences but cant really communicate in terms of answering questions/receptive language. He repeats words a lot too both in and outof context. He has been going to daycare for 6 months and they are concerned he hasnt made any social connections with other kids, he only plays on his own or parralell to other kids. He has had health issues that meant he has been on immunosuppressive meds tho so he hasnt mixed with other kids much so that obviously has delayed things for him socially. Theyre saying he needs a chance at the therapies first as its too soon to tell if he could be on the spectrum. He has a lot of behaviours that dont point towards autism eg. He makes lots of eye contact and isnt bothered by loud noises, loves watching trains on youmtube but wouldnt melt down if we turned it off etc. On the other hand he refuses to hold hands and will not walk with us, he wanders off so its so hard to tell!
Yeah. It is hard to tell sometimes. Thank you so much for sharing and we wish you the very best in your journey with or without autism. ❤️❤️❤️
I think I'm gonna go to a Lake around a cheaper lake, nice quiet town in Idaho around be awake. I'm or Utah, I'm looking. I'm really looking to maybe moving to Bend Oregon and I have never been on the West Coast. I'm looking to get-up-and-get in the better climate. Maybe I'll be in a little more. How about a health especially a couple of my kids?
Yeah, those places are nice
When I go around people I feel awkward and alot of anxiety because I know I am not the same as everyone elss and it gives me trouble I mean we’ll and I get taken wrong all the time but the way we can feel inside can go to extremes sensory overload melt down and burn out are all about the environment around us the more stimulation I receive the worse it gets so some time I have to shut off all lights and turn off all sound and use a smell in the air that I like but the senses rise alot
❤️ Thank you so much for sharing this. I feel like I understand our kids so much better from hearing your thoughts as they cannot yet communicate theirs.
That’s why I wanted to say something. If I can help anther person or a child and there parents I will with an open heart
We are all different yes but I started to work with my sensorys and I been doing alot better then before when I didn’t know about them
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That’s so awesome. 😊
The reason for the corner is that then all of the loud annoying things (people) are in one direction , and their presence and noises are not unexpected (you can see them popping a balloon for example and then the boom isn't a surprise) .
That is very insightful and makes sense. Thank you
I might be in beer Lake next week. I'm looking at ABM b. I'm gonna go stay there for a week. I'm gonna go swimming. It's like I haven't been in the Lake in almost 10 years. I want to be on a Lake. I'm looking at a couple of other sites too. I'm looking at state packs to go swimming in Idaho.
I'm awake and Idaho or Utah. Any suggestions❤
Bear lake is awesome! Island Park is also a good one. 😊
@@7Aheadfamily I'm an alcoholic I'm looking for someone who a mormon missionaries who wants to help an alcoholic. Find the home to stay out for a little while and grow. Go see if my son wants to talk to me in oregon
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He lucky to have parents like you guys
Thank you so much!💕💕💕
Yes my son love breaking up boxes and my son just got diagnosed with autism
Thank you for sharing!
This is mostly focused on Ezra, who is level 3. Could you do comparison with your level 1 son, please?
Thanks for all the videos, truly appreciated.
In this video we did a comparison of mild autism, severe autism and no autism😊
th-cam.com/video/YS-ThGQlEX8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=8r7rUNyToOpBuvXY
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I'd like to talk to you again. But about autism, the last time was fine but I was so out of it and a lot of it. It's not bad, but this is for kids pretty much in some of it is really rough and. My education was the worst education. You know, maybe people had other bad experiences, but mine was bad. The way they test me for autism was horrible and I don't know why I cause. I had all these symptoms myself. You know, my brother said that he had symptoms like Simons. And answer it cause. I showed them a few videos of you guys, and he said you were like that. You know, maybe they were more focused on my physical disabilities. But I like to talk to you a lot more about my education. And how horrible it was, if that's something you're interested in. But but I'm doing good now and you know, I just got a good job. I'm outside of work for a while but you know, I could stay out of work for a little bit longer but I needed a a job
That’s awesome you got a good job. Congratulations!
@7Aheadfamily just like my last job I work from home for PepsiCo
Nice!
omg - I used to do that w/food textures, and still do as an adult, and it freaks out everybody around me if it happens in public. Pulling pieces of food back out of my mouth because of the texture.
Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️
My son wasn't behind in any milestones as a toddler altho he had a Bad temper and never slept,wasn't until he started school that his traits started showing.hes diagnosed ASD/PDA
That’s interesting. Thanks for sharing. What age do they start school? Did he start preschool at three? Or are you referring to kindergarten at five?
My oldest son is 3 years old right now his name is Julian I have never got him evaluated but he never spoke or pointed up until he was about 2 1/2 I got him therapy it helped him a ton he’s not in school at the moment but oh is he thriving he talks so much not full sentence yet but I definitely understand him and he understands me he’s super affectionate but he doesn’t seem to like to play with other kids he does repetitive stuff a lot like a lot 70% of the time he lines things up I really am up and down with my thoughts about what if. I have a 2 year old also he talks alot more than Julian and doesn’t do what Julian does like the repetitive stuff and etc he’s very interested in playing with other kids too he’s very different from julian I hate comparing them but I can’t help myself too when it worries me sometimes
It’s natural to compare our kids. Thank you for sharing about your two sons. I’m glad you were able to get therapy for Julian when he was young. I’m sure that made a big difference.
Wow!! I started noticing issues with my son around 2. At first I thought it was just terrible twos until one day he lost his words. At 3 he was diagnosed with regressive autism. He will be 4 in a few months and can say very few words. The leash idea is great, I’m going to give it a try. Any suggestions on eating? Thank you for these videos, there aren’t Drs in my area that seem to be able to help much. All they want to do is give meds.
For eating, a good diet for autism will be rich in fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins to improve gut health and reduce inflammation, which has been linked to improved behavior and cognition in autistic individuals. Hope this helps!❤️❤️
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Thank you for the reply. I have tried so much food, the only things I can get him to eat are chicken fries, vanilla pudding, maybe a hotdog or the meat and cheese off pizza. He will only drink milk or water, refuses anything else. I’ve gotten good at catching plates, bowls, and cups flying towards my head. I ordered a leash! I looked it up while watching the shopping video. Y’all are awesome, thank you for having the courage to video and post them.
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@@7Aheadfamily I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart… TODAY was the first day I’ve been able to take my son to an event and stay. I used the leash and he did amazing! He tries to talk to Ezra when we watch your videos, and after he sees ho Ezra does things, he tries now too. Y’all have given us a new life! I don’t know how I could ever pay you back. Thank you!!!!!!
Another sign is that they can't/won't/like making eye contact. Several of my Autistic friends and relatives have a hard time with this aspect of life, even through Adulthood.
Very true. Our son Ezra does not feel comfortable looking people in the eye.
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Hi my son is 3 year old he is dignosed with global develoment delay at age 1 hes 3 now hes non verbal still
Wears nappys because he cant communcate to ask for a drink for food only eats liquids food. He conststly jumps up and down sways back and for wards he flaps hands once he exciting he loves to constsntly like to dance he has seriuos issues with food he
Has to take iron tablets i already have 1 kid with autism age 15😊
Thank you for watching, and sharing your story ❤️. It sounds like you have some special children ❤️. Your youngest son sounds very similar to Ezra in a lot of ways. Thanks for commenting and keep in touch with any ways we can help out. ❤️
At Halloween our autistic grandson was dressed as Picachu but when people would say to him, "Oh it's Picachu " he would say no it's not I'm Henry and he would take off his hood to show it was him, Henry. Very cute. He takes everything literal.
😂 That is so awesome. Love that. Thanks for sharing. :)
When I was 7 or 8 We went to stone mountain. For a laser show fireworks went off and i screamed clawed at my aunts mother to try to get away and had to be held on to my aunt told me this story
Didn't like fire works until I was 15 I do have autism
Thank you for sharing. Fireworks are very loud, bright and unpredictable. Sorry you had such a difficult experience with them.
I forgot one thing that when I started to freak out at 15 some person walking past me started stareing at. Me and so I forced my self to get closer where it was louder it was the public fire works that I didn't like they are usually bigger and louder done by professional but ones you do your self I was fine but some people also buy the big mortars
Most people haven’t seen an autism meltdown, and just don’t know what to do or how to help someone. We get stares all the time, wherever we go.
I was tested so poorly in the 80's I went to school when I was 3 years old I was in special education because of speech and a physical disability I have didn't get tested for autism till I was 9 years old my brother said they put me in a regular classroom when I was all done with preschool
I remember it all so I have no idea if I'm autistic or not but my 5 year old sons are I remember my school days like it was yesterday because they sucked so much but I did do good in high school got jobs from school I didn't graduate because I wad an adult student and my daughter was ready to start school her self I'd tell you more about it's typing. I can't type very well, I'm dyslexic.
Yes, things were tough early on
@7Aheadfamily Yeah, I me, my brother's gonna throw a lot right now. Well, what happened to my dad aare talking a lot about, you know When I was around. You know when I was born? I was born. I was born 13 years after my youngest brother next to me.
@@7Aheadfamily I'm so cautious with my 3 yoi get so disoriented at sometimes. And but my step kids are there for me and my wife.
My son, his wife, my grandson, was 2 years old. Dad, sometimes for me to get stuff out. And that's how I'm feeling now. What's what happened to my dad the day after my wedding
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Can you give me some tips for potty training my 3 year old autistic granddaughter?
Of course! We made a video on that. Hope This helps.
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Awww he Is a cutie I love all you vedios and you kids behave in the veidos
Thank you so much. Do you have kids of your own?
@@7Aheadfamily no my brother allen called me mommy you know him
That is great you helped take care of your brother. ❤️
I use to play house with him when we younger
Those are fun memories
My sister is not diagnosed but has lots of these signs
How old is your sister? Is she pretty young still?
I tried the toddler leash, but my son is too smart and finds a way out of it. Is there something else I can try? My son turned 3 this year, and he's showing all these signs and more.
That is difficult. Would he do better with a wristband? Or maybe a leash that simply hooks onto his belt loop or back of his jacket? I hope you find something to keep him safe. ❤️
When you say Ezra likes to be alone, do you mean he doesn't even look for his parents to play? Or is it only with other kids?
Yes, very rare for him to seek anyone out for something.
Good idea on the leash all toddlers need 1.😇😇😇😇
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My son is level 3.
Can intellectual delay be reversed ? He is on therapy im so worried for him. Im afraid he will always be considered "retarded" and made fun off by other pears. I have nightmares every night for his future. I dont know what to do.
We have seen and heard of amazing turnaround stories, there’s no way to tell for sure what your child’s potential is, just do your best to help him gain most autonomy possible, and it will all work out. The earlier the intervention, the better…
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It can be difficult, but try to see the positive in each day, let faith, replace fear and worry, and that will do more for you and your son than anything else. Know that you are enough and are doing great ❤️.
@@7Aheadfamily thank you so much for your kind words. He just turned 3 last month. Thank you for your videos for us parents sometimes can be very lonely and people can be very rude and judgemental towards this kids. Its nice to find other people that "just get it"
You know ? Like if my son stims with his hands... someone that is just like "yeah I get it" and smiles to him.
@@7Aheadfamily You brought tears to my eyes in a good way. May God bless you and all your beautiful kids.
Can he tell you when he needs to pee or poop?
Or he just do it anywhere?
Ezra , no, Simon getting close. Will be doing a video on potty training soon so stay tuned. 😊
I also have a child with autism and he is 3 years old. Does your kid brush his teeth? I am struggling with that and removing diapers
Yeah, we’re working on those things as well. ❤️…
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@@7Aheadfamily thank you so much!
You bet!
Thanks for watching!
I hope you never have a bully pick on you like. I was picked on Simon. Making fun of you pushing you like I did. I am sure you'll be friends with everyone. You can have a lot of new friends.😂
Yeah, bullying is not good
Are you worried about bullies with him?
@@7Aheadfamily I was bullied so I became a bullied and you know it's not my fault a all the kids I picked on. I feel bad for because they had more special needs than I did and I feel really bad about that now and then it's like I know a lot of them and I tell them every time I see. I'm sorry I messed around with you because I've really nice kids. Cause I was a special Ed and taste like that. I wasn't a bully but I could be mean to the kids. He was, hes a nice kid but he was mean. That's what I remember the last time I see one of my preschool records.
No, not really
Yeah, we need to stand up for the underdogs
He is so cute
thank you, agreed. 😊
Does Ezra communicate through sign language,device or other?
Ezra will sometimes use some basic signs like please or more, but we are working more tight now with trying to get him to communicate on his iPad. We have had some success, but he still has a ways to go before he can communicate with us effectively. Thank you for watching!!❤️❤️❤️
Have you tried looking at AAC. It's a tablet that communicates for him. My son has Apraxia. And just now at 5. Lingraphica AAC gives tablets out for free depending on insurance!
We did get as a tablet! That’s awesome that you got insurance to pay for it. 😊
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Me and my gf are both autism sperctrum and our daughter is showing lots of signs of my being autistic is it past down
Wow all three of you? You could have a TH-cam channel, if you wanted to, that is. It's not for everyone, actually is quite difficult, but we figured that if sharing our story helps someone then it's worth it. How old is your daughter?
@@7Aheadfamily she 3 we’re teen parents so could that cause it Cause how young we had her she just turn 3 July 8th she does everything u said in the video and she supposed to be starting pre k this august but she freaks out in cowards
Thank you for watching and sharing. Many blessings to you guys and let know if we could do anything to help. ❤️😊❤️
Ezra acts just like my son..I guess I have to admit it, but the problem is in my society, and in my country having autism is considered a big disease that makes someone different than other humans, and they look down at him. I don’t want my son to go through that..
I’m sorry that you live in a place that looks down on autistic people. A lot of places around the world still have that negative stigma around autism. We hope that our videos can reach people and help them understand that autism is not a disease.
If he would be leaving you guys an walking away you should have the leash plus a lot of the time it’s my hearing and my sight at the same time while other go in and out
Good idea. Thanks for sharing! ❤️😊❤️
My son is 5 months and i am already worried. He does not coo like other kids his age so i kept wondering how to know if he is going to be non verbal. I know he is too young but that does not comfort me at all. Well the outcome belongs to God
You are exactly right. trust God that he knows what he’s doing. He’ll help you along the way whatever comes of it. I am sure you know that. Five months is still very young. If you can, try and give your child as much time playing with peers as possible.
It is not as simple as that... I have two autistic children (already adults now), and practically none of these signs was visible during their childhood!!! :o
You’re right! Autism is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by 3 specific challenges in social interaction, communication difficulties, repetitive behaviors and a range of different strengths and differences. It is considered a spectrum disorder because it can manifest in a variety of ways and to varying degrees of severity. Autism affects individuals differently, and each person with autism has a unique set of strengths and challenges. Although these are some things that were evident from our kids, this is only scratching the surface. 😊 That’s why it’s always necessary to see a professional for a diagnosis.
This is My 3 y.o. were getting help.
Thank you for sharing❤️Do you live here in the United States?
all symptoms you mentioned in my 3 year old son 😢 what should I do
Know that you’re in good company and we are here for you. ❤️ I would start by getting him checked out by a professional. Are you in The United States?
Here are some videos about what to expect in the diagnosis process…
Demystifying Autism Evaluation: What to Expect
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Unlocking the Mystery | How Early Can You Diagnose Autism?
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@@7Aheadfamily No I'm In UAE
OK, I am not sure the process there, but I would just work towards getting a professional diagnosis, then you can have access to more resources and help.
Does Ezra watch something on the tablet? Or play some games?
He does a little bit, but he’s really not one who stays focused on screens for very long at all usually.
Here’s a few videos on how we use communication device…
Autistic Boy Uses Device to Trick-or-Treat
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Chat GPT - Artificial Intelligence and Autism
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Secrets to Better Autism Communication - 7 Tips You Won't Believe!
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I was diagnosed with 31
you were diagnosed when you were 31 years old? wow. I feel like that happens more with Women, they don't find out till a lot later in life.
@@7Aheadfamily yes and even after i got my diagnoses my daughter got hers with 18 but i new it from early on.
Im from germany .
Thank you for sharing. Do you feel that getting a diagnosis was helpful even at an older age? With my kids, it made a big difference, I feel.like I am a better mother for them, now that I know.
What about eye contact?
For sure, that is a big sign, if there is no or limited eye contact
If you could try to figure out what in the environment is bothering him for sensory wise, he may do better like my self I had to sit and think about what was it, and it ended up being when lights were on some painted rooms were too bright I come down with lights off or outside there’s a bug that makes a sound when it’s going to be hot out and when those go, it bothers my hearing sometimes sounds are so loud that no one can understand for us so much go through our heads you Gotta just pinpoint which one not all there could be five sounds around you and it’s just one of them bothering
Very true. Thanks for pointing that out. I do know that he likes being in his room with the light off. And I know that he likes certain sounds, like piano playing, and he likes me singing to him.
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My 3 year old, had all these signs. Am scared.
Don’t worry, we’re here to support you. ❤️ Well, there are definitely a lot of challenges that come with autism, there are also a lot of blessings. Ezra is by far our happiest child, and isn’t that what everybody really wants? We talk about this a little at the near of this video…
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My older brother acully has autisum
Thanks for watching and sharing. ❤️ How old is your brother?
Will they ever able to communicate verbally with us? 😢
Yes! Maybe not some non-verbal children such as Ezra, but Simon says words to us! And Ezra uses an iPad app to communicate with us❤️
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I'd like to get on your Facebook page.
If that's possible.
For sure. 😊 We don’t pay nearly as much attention to Facebook as TH-cam, but here’s the link.
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what daycare accept kids with autism because it doesn't seem like it exists
We don’t know of any either. Mainly just ABA therapy centers, and we love our autism preschool…
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Este prea linistit...aici este problema
Greu iesi de aici in mod normal,fara senzatii poate le stii,iar in plus...
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I’m not sure I know what you mean. ❤️❤️❤️
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As vrea umbra,apa,vegetatie pana reusesc sa o simt iar intens,stai linistit ma ia el Uranus acolo,daca astept asta si nu consider ca altii stiu mai bine ce sunt eu in punctul atacat ...de irational.
Apropos,stii ce cere,cu minciuni,haosul lor se rezolva cu forta.
Ma lasi?
De aici orice forma de utopie politica,iar sacrifici,morti,perversitati pentru ce???!!
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Si algocalmin si multe fructe...incerc si eu,unu pe zi...sa vad....
Doctorul a innebunit...
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Inainte sa plec iar,simti.....ma gandesc la conexiune...nu poti lua suferinta in mod parintesc,oricum....
He does not like being touched.
Yeah, with Ezra it depends on the day. 😊
Were your kids vaccinated?
Yes they were.
God I am so grateful I was just allowed to be a unique weird kid and never diagnosed by this new age psychology that needs to label everyone as something.
Understand you concern. The diagnosis simply allows for more help, support and early intervention.
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I know this is old but ignorance on this level needs to be called out. You’re completely missing the point of why “new age psychology” is important. It’s a LOT more than just trying to categorize odd behaviors in children. Recognizing and treating a learning disability at a young age results in a dramatically improved quality of life as they become adults. It can allow them to actually integrate themselves with society rather than being social outcasts. Just because you don’t understand something doesn’t mean you should fear it, especially when it’s a field that gives children a fighting chance at living a normal life. People that are dismissive of progress just because it challenges their dated way of thinking are of no benefit to the rest of us. The most important thing to the human race is our youth, and your stubbornness has you attacking something that directly benefits them. How sad is that?
So true
Autism isn’t being odd. Plenty of them act ‘normally’. It’s just different brain structures and socializing.
Nu avem voie sa schimbam comportamentul adn-ului...
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Autism is No Fun. Or is it?
Lots of emotions when finding out your child has autism, or you have autism I’m sure. But we’re here to support and help…
My Child has Autism. Now What?
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@@7Aheadfamily well, learn about it. It’s not the end of the world. Besides. We live in an autistic zeitgeist.
Yeah. I agree. That’s the best thing to do when you don’t understand, learn. ❤️
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