How dare they- but as empaths we have thought of all the scenarios and reasons why they were so incredibly cruel. God save those whove hurt us so deeply in sinister ways and continue to work complete love and forgiveness within us all
narcs don't feel shame. that is not why they can't come back. they can't come back because anyone who truly knows them can expose them for who they really are and they are afraid of that.
Cant believe they just throw away someone that actually cared. I manipulated the hoover exposed and injured nex he is definitely gone for good he threatened a restraining order on me and blocked me .
I have to agree with you about they don’t feel shame but I also feel some of them just don’t care even if exposed by the people that ‘know’ them. I know narcs come in all different shades and forms but I guess at the end of the day a narc is a narc.
If you can imagine a group of little kids playing and there's one in the group that's the leader and making the rules to the game, and all along the way they are changing the rules of the game to fit a purpose ,that not even they are happy with. Imagine that & there you have a narcissist at work.BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE
Girl speak! I was trying to finish school and he wouldn't help me. I found out he told people that I didn't want to get my life together. He left, I GOT my degree.
Be As A Rose now you can be as a bunch of beautiful fully bloomed roses because GOD gave you the mind to get your degree. GOD gave you your roses Sis ,soooo happy for you and may you flourish in Greatness Daily.
Cathy, I could not believe that when I Walked Away and Dumped my Toxic Narcissist Girlfriend. After 15 years of her Bull Shit. She said to me your going to Miss Me. They treat you like a piece of dirt. They Use you and take you for Granted. The Future Fake Us they actually force us to leave the relationship because they have someone new waiting on the side lines. And when we leave they get MAD. Those are the DEVILS CHILDREN. KARMA AWAITS THEM.
I bounced. I chose the pain of walking away knowing God would heal me. Rather than the pain of staying. I blocked every one. His sister and I was close and I truly loved her. I blocked her too. No No No. This was the first time I met one and I pray I never meet another one again. Praying that I will follow the Holy Spirts leading because I saw all signs. God is sooo good. Thank you ABBA! God bless you all. May God keep you strong and in fellowship with him.
Girl yes. I was married to a pastor. I did what you did. I bounced!!!The heck with being a cheating pastors wife. He was a cheating pastor. Married the new supply 3 MONTH LATER. moved behind my house. Said all lies about me...Im still the winner I'm the winner. LIZ IS SO ON POINT!! THIS VIDEO IS MY STORY
@@karenhatch6979 You definently won.! I pray God gives you your equal and Destiny Partner that you can do life with but more importantly build Gods kingdom with. We just gotta be patient and wait. Lord we give you our timelines.🙂🙏
I was mistreated by a so called preacher I say this God will deal with it says in the bible they will decive they pretend to be a angel of light they are wolfs
Sometimes Flying Monkeys will not say anything after the discard because they would have to be accountable for wtonging you too. God see the truth though, with all of them.
i told my narc about sexual abuse i had suffered as a child and they tried to use it as "dirty talk" in the bedroom days later. i left and then no contact. she seriously traumatised me
My ex-husband knows he cannot come back to his family. He has to move on to what his family thinks is better than me & what things look like on social media. I am so glad I found peace in Jesus!
It's amazing how the narcissist reacts when they don't get their way. They blame you, talk about you being this horrible person, EVERYTHING you mentioned in this segment. Crazy how they manipulate a situation. Just need to stay away, because they are who they are, and will never change.
Father, I can not pretend to understand the depth of Your love for me, but I am thankful for it. I see it all around me and I feel it. I ask that You will continue to reveal glimpses of Your glory to me, as much as I can stand, to sustain me in this life, until the day when all will be revealed. Amen.
This is EXACTLY what happened to me when my ex discarded me. He started playing games. He came around less and less often and wouldn't contact me until last minute. After he cancelled one too many times he asked if I would be mad if we didn't hang out. I said "I kind of figured." And he said "trying to make you happy ends in noone happy, I'm tired of having to make plans to hang out with you and then them not working out. I'm exhausted and tired of feeling like a victim." He also said "I couldn't sleep for nights because you would text me one thing and kept disappearing." This is what HE was doing, and he wasn't even reaching out to me at all. I moved across the country after dating him for 3 years to be with him and he only saw me 5-6 times in the span of 3 months.
You are on point 100%. My narcissist is on a whole other level. He’s on TH-cam claiming to be a life coach for narcissism with a large following and meanwhile stalking me, tried to get me to lose my job and assassinating my character. He even talks about my lady parts 😩. I walked away from everything and moved 3000 miles to start my life over. My story is so unreal that I wrote and released a novel about it.
I am HIGHLY suspicious of anyone who calls themselves a life coach. I am sure there are some real deals out there but literally ALL the ones I have ever personally known have been highly disordered frauds. Narcissists know where and how to hide.
Good morning! I have received my divorce last Thursday and my ex was telling me on Saturday that he missed me and wanted to spend time with me...at 1st I was falling for it but then the spirit was like GIRL, NO! He had 7 years but he want you NOW? OH NO! We have to keep moving forward. We had no kids together so I text him Goodbye and blocked him. God is good!
I am so glad I stumbled on this.. My Ex-Fiancé was the main one in church, claiming to love God. It got so bad I reached the point where I said, how can you claim to love God and treat me like this? I bent over backwards, lost everything in me, gave her every ounce of energy I had. When I tried to hold her accountable, that’s when the discard began. 4yrs was out the window as if I never existed. Crushed my ENTIRE soul. I didn’t know about Narcissism during the time, but now that I do, I feel so so much better.
Thank God you are free continue to break the chain of bondage from this person and ask God to help you pray for healing and forgiveness and Move On and walk in your purpose
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 Thanks so much for having this video because it's so hard to heal after a person puts you through something like that.
13 years? Oh nah trust me that door closed because god has a golden door w a diamond handle for u to open to greatness leave that old creaky broken door in the past and open the new one that god out for you ❤️
After five years off and on the last straw was him stealing 300 after he was so generous at the beginning but later became the cheapest men I know I went no contact for 16 months and he contacted me to give me back the money in person and the best revenge was to see him and feel nothing once you know who they are you better believe it because they want to come back to abuse you the best thing is to work on yourself love yourself protect yourself and never go back because we might not want to believe it but they want you dead and many have committed suicide in these relationships love yourself and be strong YOU ARE ENOUGH ❤️
Yup coach Lizzie that's my husband that's what he used to be a deacon he preached he teach and he even served communion you're right and he still is not of God
God bless you honey spirit of love and light guides us all. Even the broken ones like me on there journey back home thank you for being our beacon through the fog❤️❤️❤️
I was with a narcissist woman for 4 years, throughout that time all she did was gaslight and create perception while warping reality, the way i escaped this madness was by building inner strength, cutting my loses, then leaving.
Most painful thing I have ever experienced. Brutally discarded six months ago and the ups and downs are devastating. Five years thinking the love was real even though it was a very stressful relationship, being codependent I thought my love would heal all. I know better now.
@@sharoncorrell3819 and yet once you allow all backwater mental worst case scenarios to be forgiven...something begins to unlock. Im in the easy stages of a 3 month deliverance for what mom sis best friend and x wife put me through- not one form of abuse was overlooked. Deconstruct and unpack the past- every mental image is being forgiven. No more pearls before swine though, but Love and forgiveness fasting and sanctification led solely by the Spirit over us all amen 💪 ❤ 🙏
I left my narcissist 2 months ago I was almost about to go back to him because he been trying his hardest to get me back and he almost had me I left him because of his cheating with his old Supply I left him because of this he kept telling me she was crazy and that she won't leave him alone and he swore to me that he was not dealing with her no more until one day he happened to take her down his father's house and his sister was there his sister likes me so she video him being with her so I can see it so she can let me know that his ass didn't change and for me to just go on with my life I blocked him on everything but of course I had to cuss his ass out first before I do that to let his ass know he was nothing but a liar!
The Narcissist playbook is the same games but different faces!!! Learn your lesson and cut them off!!! Male or Female, they come to get comfortable with all your resources while giving out breadcrumbs. CUT THEM OFF! TRUST YOUR GUT THE FIRST!!! PERIOD!
After the bad relationship you get restored mentally and spiritually in a way that nobody can ever break you again. Please practice self love, self care on yourself especially in front of you children. And after a while your thinking and being resonates on a high vibration that everyone will see and understand. Plus all those who believe in your perpetrators need to be exposed and removed from your life so you can start living your BEST LIFE ❣
God wont match us with a demon. Sometimes we choose these toxic people and when God IS NOT IN AGREEMENT with the one WE CHOSE that relationship wont have Gods protection because it wasnt in his will for us to be with a demonic spirit that was assigned to distract us from our purpose. The new supply could be just as much of a victim as we were. These demonic narcissistic spirits are assigned to us. We MUST use our discernment.
Oh yes he did!!! He told my friends he wasn't in a relationship with me and we were just friends. One of my so called friends he told that to he has an affair with her. Done. Bye Boy Girl. We reap what we sow!!!
15:00--"I know it's hard to believe, but BE HAPPY THEY'RE GONE!" (What all of us know, but unfortunately don't want to hear from our STRONGER INNER-SELVES, sometimes)
New subscriber. Narcs are demons. Every you say is true, Sis. My job transferred me to Atlanta. He told his family that he didn’t go because I ran off with another man when the truth was that he didn’t wanna leave his sidechicks. I’m no contact with his entire family. My ex narc is a master manipulator.
One of the most frustrating things about my ex is he constantly runs away from any sign of karma. After I exposed him he blocked me and dropped off the face of the earth. How long can these people keep running before all of their bad actions catch up to them?🙄
The narc I had went and told people he gave me alot of money for my 401k 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Right before we separated I had him sign so I could release my 401k, I did that because I knew we were divorcing and I didn't want to give him a dime. He lied and said he gave me the money and let me keep everything.
Thank you lm healed from the hurt of betrayal at work ,everything lm handing it to God and asking him to heal me from anxiety and depression course by them .I forgive them and pray to God to be with me in this process of healing,it's not easy and it hurt more and more but with God on my side it will pass .I'm praying and fasting about it
Flying monkeys will still cause issues and problem even after the relationship has ended and the other person they attacked has had enough and went through so much hell.
All truth & facts 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 They will always reap what they sow. But ladies do not rejoice in the afflictions of others, regardless of how bad they hurt you (Proverbs 24:17-19)
This message is extremely helpful.. I seem to only attract narcissistic people. Now I have set clear boundaries and am healing everyday. It seems I'm better by myself
I woke up one day and the guy I was in love with turned into an absolute stranger. Not my first narc but this one was a blindside. A real covert. God is So Good. Thank you. ✨🕊👑.
I thank the Lord for you. Your testimony and wise counsel will help those of us recover from narcissists abuse. I'm ready to close that negative chapter in my life and start a whole new beginning. Many blessings to you & your loved ones ❤
I’m at the point where I need the narcissist phone to be broken because she spends all day contacting me. I’m tired of blocking these text app numbers. If anyone has a suggestion that doesn’t involve changing my number? I’m being smeared for living my life, going out with family/friends, doing a little better than when I was with her, working on business endeavors, but she is filled with so much negativity I need her out of my life good
Yes they do even to strangers while you are out in public But....they spirit tells on them at same time everything they do...keep gut check and intuition up
Very happy I found your video.yes I have never been hoovered openly Andi am sure I have no proof but I know I have been starked, but I am happy and overjoyed he cannot return.i found out years before the disgard I was slandered with the friends I thought were friends of mine.i am 16 months no contact and Shocked the abuse was so blatant and after 26 years he has been with several different families while claim to be employed as a trucker.praying for My divorce and that he stays definately away.they are devil's property and needs to join him in the abbyst
So true. I still live in the same house with my ex. He doesn't want a divorce, but does not want to leave either. He pretend he is my friend at times, but he know I am NOT BUYING IT, so he keep his distance.
Yes it hurts to know that someone who I thought loved me would treat me so poorly but at the same time, I'm glad I saw the true colors sooner than later. We definitely dodged a bullet with the narcissist.
I am one of the very few people that hasn't gotten hoovered after being discarded. It is confusing to me because I still feel very weak. It has been almost been 5 years. It took me setting a boundary for the first time to have him discard me. I was the perfect victim because I was an absolute doormat and my confidence was withered down to nothing.
I know I have never been hoovered before either and I know I never will be it depends on the situation and the narcissist that you are dealing with it's best to pick up the pieces forgive yourself and move forward there is nothing else left to do but to thrive
Wow.. you described my ex to a tea.. I’ve looked at hundreds of content, but the way you put God into the scenario sets you apart from the rest!! I am a witness to her karma.. she lost a job of 4 years from lying and stealing.. I see now that’s her karma coming back on her 🙏🙏
He won’t come back to eat crow. And he has got to know that I won’t let him get away with…nothing. Its tit for tat over here now. I mirror a narc…I do what you do to me. Plus I exposed him…after he disrespected and discarded…it ain’t safe for my narc over here so he will stay away. Narcs are looking for comfort and someone who will let them do whatever they want with no questions and criticisms and comments. No it ain’t safe for him over here! 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
thats how GOD planned it, the discard, that was a lesson and a blessing... I cant go back to Egypt (NARC) GOD delivered me from bondage, and I am moving forward in my healing, deliverance and blessings, and PURPOSE !!
What I also found out was my behavior was all reactive abuse. None of her friends saw or heard what I went through. Felt like I was going insane. Literally couldn’t sleep.
Omg sis!! Sis, you talking to me, were you a fly on my wall......lol. I stayed in my situation for a long (10 years), and I'm so thankful that God removed me from that. Thank you for this beautiful video 🥰😍 God bless you 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Thank you so much for this Word. My ex narc left me when I was 8 months pregnant and I was devastated. My baby is now 6 months old and he’s abandoned his son. But this message resonates so much to me.
Ive been broken, actually shattered. With her 5 years, She cheated on me with her ex, when I found out she left me, blocked and ghosted me the same day. After 5 years every day together. It took me 5 months to stop trying to call her, text her, letters I was broken for closure I received nothing. Then I was able to go no contact, Was hard at first but got easier and easier 5 months later she texted me, we talked she said sorry it was a mistake, we can be happy. Started going out again , parks, ocean, dinners, sex, talking texting. Then after 4 months seeing each other again one day she stopped calling and texting,. Nothing happened, I was nothing but nice and forgave her.. I thought it was wrong and wanted to see what was happening I drove by her ex’s house and her car was in his driveway at 10 pm. I shattered, HOW” WHY” would she do this to me again, I only trusted her over and over, forgave her over and over, when we are together she treated me with so much care and love then leave me in a flash, I see it now. Now I think she’s with another guy, ex didn’t work out, just for sex, Now sure another guy obviously she ghosted me again for someone It’s been 2 months now, but I lost myself, because I loved her only her, after 5 years finding all this out. Trying to put myself back together, finding videos like this. Hardest thing I’ve been through, and I’ve been through a lot. I just was blindsided, I had no idea she would do that, then twice. I was drinking, but she’s not worth that anymore to care that much for someone that cares zero about me. No mas. Great videos.. Thank you 🙏
My heart goes out to you Shane sorry you had to go through that welcome to the family stay strong if you need a coaching session contact Coach Lizzie at Warrior Queen. 55.@yahoo.com
Its crazy how I lost my girl for no reason and I prayed god said he would handle it cause I was confused and now im looking at this and everything comes together on why she talked so bad about people I knew that fell out with her 😕 god is good yall🙏🏾
Same goes for me. I asked the universe to show me things and it revealed things I did not want to see it hurt my heart so bad never felt this kind of hurt but my ex was always talking about random strangers and At times spoke I’ll about me In front of me and to others. I couldn’t believe it when some of the things got back to me about what was said. It’s been a month that I made the decision to kick him to the curb and it’s been rough. Emotions everywhere. I keep telling myself it’s for the better he’s done so many things that I should of left him for I had left him once already but the second time around which is now I vowed to stick with him but the betrayal was paralyzing I had to go!
Sister I have shared this video with so many women. After my experience. And the awakening. And going through the acceptance forgiveness and rebuilding love for myself. I thank God that I chose to talk about it and to make that mess my ministry. Thank you thank you thank you thank you. I am divorcing him. And he won’t leave the house. I know he’s afraid to face his shame. I could go on and on. But I’ll stop there. God bless you forever!
This video popped up in my news feed. When I tell you RIGHT. ON. TIME!!! You know these things and Lord God gives you the same message through someone else... Nothing But Confirmation!! THANK YOU LOVE!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾💝
What is crazy is that I'm just now living this that I just now about 2 weeks ago realized that I was with a narcissist and that I just ran into this video and to this video and it makes complete and total sense to me she had already been talking about me to her friends bad about me I already saw the jealousy in her of me instead of supporting me this is so crazy thank you father got thank you Lord and Jesus's name thank you thank you father God for greater clarity I'm excited So grateful and appreciative for the clarity that you give us every everyday greater clarity greater understanding greater knowledge and wisdom
I'm thankful I'm free, I'm having to live with a husband but hes not physically abusive I separated myself completely. I feel much better!!! I'm ready to get a job and move. Its been 5yrs and I'm so ready. I feel peace happiness joy again. He was a Christian I thought. Adultry may still be married to his 1st wife and me. I confronted him his face turned ghost white. Multiple partners. I got very sick and while down he took full advantage spent every dime I had.
God Bless You. You are on point. He ghosted, cheated, abandoned, betrayed, and lied to me on new year's eve. I am moving to another state/. Happiness with my Grandchildren!
I saw you on the St. Louis news regarding the 19 year old young lady that was murdered... I was watching and I said, there go my Lizzie!!.. I am proud of you, you are doing so much to help souls everywhere!... Excellent work..
As a Man i never been this messed up in my life by anyone but to realize how hard i went to play my part in the relationship and marriage to only find out how bad i was feeling just for the sake of the children its really disturbing to find out now what a narcissist is.
My Narc was broke, lied, was lazy, was boring (self-interested only) AND cheated on me with multiple women at a time. He refused to talk about it or change then got angry when I had the audacity to finally Ghost him...lol delusional...
I stayed because I understood how God feels about marriage and so I stayed to try harder and harder and harder. I now understand God is not angry with me and He knows how hard I tried. I sleep well in His forgiveness. How God deals with the N is up to Him.
Aloha, from Honolulu. He pulled everything you have said. After 33 years, put him out over 9 months ago. He's tired of being a Homeless Hobosexual, so left his new cell number at a store we hadn't been to since 2019. Went there about 6 weeks ago & he'd just been there & left his number. Not going there or anywhere we have been before on Oahu. New number, moved twice, no contact with anyone we both knew so he cannot find me. Bulletproof boundaries, zero tolerance for toxicity. Not a chance that I will ever tolerate that demon again, ever! 👍💪❤🙏😅🤣😂
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 I am so over "idiot forgiveness", trauma bond & wouldn't let his cheating Bi-sexual body parts touch me for years. The old Church "Stay & Pray bought him extra time from Oct 2018 through Nov 2019. Got 'Woke' Thanksgiving 2019, discovered Narc video in my feed, but God, in Dec 2019. Had a secret storage unit Jan 2020. Was planning on the Airport out of Hawai''i in March 2020 & Covid 19 Lockdown stuck me with him. Domestic Violence Shelter unhealthy, so Grey Rock, daily Bible Study & prayer was my life. Returned to my Executive Protection practices (former co-owner), Martial Arts - Madea mode until barracading the door & not letting his delusional, diseased, drunken, drug addicted, cheating self back in the apartment August 2020. Moved out February 2020, due to his stalking & regular screaming beneath my window. Now he can't find me & last report from the only one on the island (who got rid of her violent narc), was that he was seen on the other side of the island near our old church two months ago - since they are having out door services now. I was on the Praise & Worship Team, so he thought I would be there. But God I was going to go, but the person who knows him just happened to visit family & was told he was just now back in the area. Course you know I'm not going now & been blessed to find another Church hidden away in a city we have never lived or know anyone since living on Oahu! But God. Whew that's my narc ending story, plus have a baby Narc Abuse Awareness & Domestic Violence Recovery channel documenting my healing & lessons learned after 33 yrs: "Cluster B Free Karyn" (a cautionary tale) to help others as I heal. 😆 💪 📖 ✝️ 🙏 ☝️ ❤ Adjusting my crown. 👑 Mic drop....Crickets.
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 You are inspirational. Just discovered you or was referred 2021. Wish I'd know you earlier, but you are helping my healing & confirming so much. I appreciate you & sharing your vids amongst my Tribe who don't know you. (I'm from the Just Say No To Narcs, Pink Girl Teaches, Dr. Carmen Bryant, Apostle Helen Saddler, Narc Free Living & Faith Base Workplace Tribes ( just naming the ones by people of color - all discovered during the Lockdown) Very 1st Narc channel - Petra in the UK, just showed up in my feed - December 2019. Had no idea about Narcissism. Was just leaving a delusional, violent, cheating, stealing, chronically lying, bi-sexual, demonically influenced person - that was all I knew.
When you come UP after they leave - it’s game over for them and the flying monkeys
“When the Narcissist can’t return to you; they can’t get any money or sympathy that is a VICTORY and YOU SHOULD LOVE IT.”
~Quinn Holliday
Isnt it incredible how all our stories are the same and we figured them out. They have been exposed and can never regain their evil power again.
Amen
It as certainly incredible! Same story...different address😖😲😅
@@karenhatch6979 yes, same stories different addresses. I cant believe how we are on to them finally
Llllp
It's amazing how many men I've talked to where it sounds like we were married to the same woman.
Time and time again
THE EXACT SAME STORY.
I went through so much with the narc and Jesus is the only one that can get you out of the pit that they put you in focus on Jesus
Bottomless Pit
Yes facts I pray to God everyday to please get me out of this situation I allow myself to be in
Your a blessings!
I will never have anything to do with a crazy narcissist from new Jersey 👿👿👿👿👿👿
How dare they- but as empaths we have thought of all the scenarios and reasons why they were so incredibly cruel. God save those whove hurt us so deeply in sinister ways and continue to work complete love and forgiveness within us all
If you left the Narrccisst ,you have already won,use your discernment and pray as much as you can for protection and strength....🙏🙏🙏
narcs don't feel shame. that is not why they can't come back. they can't come back because anyone who truly knows them can expose them for who they really are and they are afraid of that.
True
Cant believe they just throw away someone that actually cared. I manipulated the hoover exposed and injured nex he is definitely gone for good he threatened a restraining order on me and blocked me .
I have to agree with you about they don’t feel shame but I also feel some of them just don’t care even if exposed by the people that ‘know’ them. I know narcs come in all different shades and forms but I guess at the end of the day a narc is a narc.
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If you can imagine a group of little kids playing and there's one in the group that's the leader and making the rules to the game, and all along the way they are changing the rules of the game to fit a purpose ,that not even they are happy with. Imagine that & there you have a narcissist at work.BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE
broke people break hearts. broke in spirit, broke in mind and broke in pockets.
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Girl speak! I was trying to finish school and he wouldn't help me. I found out he told people that I didn't want to get my life together. He left, I GOT my degree.
Congratulations on your degree 👏 🙌
@@imezryou2002 Thank!😊
Be As A Rose now you can be as a bunch of beautiful fully bloomed roses because GOD gave you the mind to get your degree. GOD gave you your roses Sis ,soooo happy for you and may you flourish in Greatness Daily.
@@sabrinaalston1243 I recieve that blessing!
Ain't that it 😂😂👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 congratulations 🎉
Exactly, he cannot come back anymore ! Funny how they force you to go by disrespect, neglect , disinterest etc, then get mad that you leave.
Cathy, I could not believe that when I Walked Away and Dumped my Toxic Narcissist Girlfriend. After 15 years of her Bull Shit. She said to me your going to Miss Me. They treat you like a piece of dirt. They Use you and take you for Granted. The Future Fake Us they actually force us to leave the relationship because they have someone new waiting on the side lines. And when we leave they get MAD. Those are the DEVILS CHILDREN. KARMA AWAITS THEM.
@@davidcoppotelli3957 Agree. It’s exactly the pattern I saw, as well. Exactly!
@@cathy_clarinet We live in the Holy Light. They live in the Darkness. There Loss. We can't Do do overs with them. There they are not worth our time.
He can’t even look this way. Forget coming back. ✌🏾
This is so true. When they know they are done true colors are always on show. They are a mess thank God we have escaped from that demon. Great video!!
Amen Stay Narc Free and take care of yourself Glory To God
I bounced. I chose the pain of walking away knowing God would heal me. Rather than the pain of staying. I blocked every one. His sister and I was close and I truly loved her. I blocked her too. No No No. This was the first time I met one and I pray I never meet another one again. Praying that I will follow the Holy Spirts leading because I saw all signs. God is sooo good. Thank you ABBA! God bless you all. May God keep you strong and in fellowship with him.
Girl yes. I was married to a pastor. I did what you did. I bounced!!!The heck with being a cheating pastors wife. He was a cheating pastor. Married the new supply 3 MONTH LATER. moved behind my house. Said all lies about me...Im still the winner
I'm the winner. LIZ IS SO ON POINT!!
THIS VIDEO IS MY STORY
@@karenhatch6979 You definently won.! I pray God gives you your equal and Destiny Partner that you can do life with but more importantly build Gods kingdom with. We just gotta be patient and wait. Lord we give you our timelines.🙂🙏
@@iasiagregory4558 Amen to giving God the timeline!!! I ask that God Keeps me patient as He work on my behalf Lord!!🛐🙏
I was mistreated by a so called preacher I say this God will deal with it says in the bible they will decive they pretend to be a angel of light they are wolfs
Yess I agree, when it's over everybody cut off PERIODT
Exactly u cant fool God God sees everything
Exactly
@@anitafreeman6181 yep I know karma will come for the narcissist soon
Exactly
@@candyharris8035 God bless
Amen
Sometimes Flying Monkeys will not say anything after the discard because they would have to be accountable for wtonging you too. God see the truth though, with all of them.
i told my narc about sexual abuse i had suffered as a child and they tried to use it as "dirty talk" in the bedroom days later. i left and then no contact. she seriously traumatised me
Wow. Cruel. Glad you got away.
What the f. I’m sorry :(
Omg
Evil sorry you went through that .
Wtf??????
My ex-husband knows he cannot come back to his family. He has to move on to what his family thinks is better than me & what things look like on social media. I am so glad I found peace in Jesus!
It's amazing how the narcissist reacts when they don't get their way. They blame you, talk about you being this horrible person, EVERYTHING you mentioned in this segment. Crazy how they manipulate a situation. Just need to stay away, because they are who they are, and will never change.
When they cross the line by abusing your trust & stab you in the back that,s when you cut them out of your life
Father, I can not pretend to understand the depth of Your love for me, but I am thankful for it. I see it all around me and I feel it. I ask that You will continue to reveal glimpses of Your glory to me, as much as I can stand, to sustain me in this life, until the day when all will be revealed. Amen.
And throw childlike tantrums. They're children in adult bodies.
This is EXACTLY what happened to me when my ex discarded me. He started playing games. He came around less and less often and wouldn't contact me until last minute. After he cancelled one too many times he asked if I would be mad if we didn't hang out. I said "I kind of figured." And he said "trying to make you happy ends in noone happy, I'm tired of having to make plans to hang out with you and then them not working out. I'm exhausted and tired of feeling like a victim." He also said "I couldn't sleep for nights because you would text me one thing and kept disappearing." This is what HE was doing, and he wasn't even reaching out to me at all. I moved across the country after dating him for 3 years to be with him and he only saw me 5-6 times in the span of 3 months.
She must of done a hundred smear campaigns about me lucky I’m not in same town anymore 😢 but she still reached out 😂
You are on point 100%. My narcissist is on a whole other level. He’s on TH-cam claiming to be a life coach for narcissism with a large following and meanwhile stalking me, tried to get me to lose my job and assassinating my character. He even talks about my lady parts 😩. I walked away from everything and moved 3000 miles to start my life over. My story is so unreal that I wrote and released a novel about it.
Praise God 🙏 you are free proud of your efforts
Just crazy! My ex has a masters degree in psychology and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. The world is lucky she has no clients.
I am HIGHLY suspicious of anyone who calls themselves a life coach. I am sure there are some real deals out there but literally ALL the ones I have ever personally known have been highly disordered frauds. Narcissists know where and how to hide.
@@goldilocks3593 thank you for your comment I am sure you will find what you need Glory to God
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 Thanks! You seem cool - I am just saying to be cautious of a lot of sharks that are out there 🙏
I am going through a divorce right now and it hurts,but God is a meander of broken heart's.🙏
Yes he is hold on and keep the faith
me too
Be strong daughter of God.
Oh wow what I endured during the smear campaign. I pray God will heal me.
Good morning! I have received my divorce last Thursday and my ex was telling me on Saturday that he missed me and wanted to spend time with me...at 1st I was falling for it but then the spirit was like GIRL, NO! He had 7 years but he want you NOW? OH NO! We have to keep moving forward. We had no kids together so I text him Goodbye and blocked him. God is good!
Amen 🙏
dont fall for the banana in the tailpipe lol !! they miss your supply and fuel God will never steer your wrong!!
I kept telling the narc let me call you right back. Then finally blocked him. It’s been a year of no contact. Life is so good without the loser narc.
Remember rejection is God's protection. Always be thankful for that moment.
Amen Davide!!
This is exactly how everything went down with that narc.
I am so glad I stumbled on this.. My Ex-Fiancé was the main one in church, claiming to love God. It got so bad I reached the point where I said, how can you claim to love God and treat me like this? I bent over backwards, lost everything in me, gave her every ounce of energy I had. When I tried to hold her accountable, that’s when the discard began. 4yrs was out the window as if I never existed. Crushed my ENTIRE soul. I didn’t know about Narcissism during the time, but now that I do, I feel so so much better.
Narcissist want to be worshiped!
Girl for 13 years he ran the smear campaign on me. But I'm glad that I got out alive.
Thank God you are free continue to break the chain of bondage from this person and ask God to help you pray for healing and forgiveness and Move On and walk in your purpose
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 Thanks so much for having this video because it's so hard to heal after a person puts you through something like that.
13 years? Oh nah trust me that door closed because god has a golden door w a diamond handle for u to open to greatness leave that old creaky broken door in the past and open the new one that god out for you ❤️
Anyone going through a smear campaign, I feel for you. Especially if it involves your own children.
Do what is right and you will be okay.
After five years off and on the last straw was him stealing 300 after he was so generous at the beginning but later became the cheapest men I know I went no contact for 16 months and he contacted me to give me back the money in person and the best revenge was to see him and feel nothing once you know who they are you better believe it because they want to come back to abuse you the best thing is to work on yourself love yourself protect yourself and never go back because we might not want to believe it but they want you dead and many have committed suicide in these relationships love yourself and be strong YOU ARE ENOUGH ❤️
Fact's
This is a sad, horrible truth about these situationships.
Yup coach Lizzie that's my husband that's what he used to be a deacon he preached he teach and he even served communion you're right and he still is not of God
Going through my healing feels so good. I thought I was happy before the narcissist, but it is pure joy not to have him in my life
God bless you honey spirit of love and light guides us all. Even the broken ones like me on there journey back home thank you for being our beacon through the fog❤️❤️❤️
I was with a narcissist woman for 4 years, throughout that time all she did was gaslight and create perception while warping reality, the way i escaped this madness was by building inner strength, cutting my loses, then leaving.
The Lord said vengeance is MINE ! 🌈💜✝️🙏🥰
Most painful thing I have ever experienced. Brutally discarded six months ago and the ups and downs are devastating. Five years thinking the love was real even though it was a very stressful relationship, being codependent I thought my love would heal all. I know better now.
that was the hardest part for me finding out it was all a lie and fake.
@@robertswift6101 😞
@@sharoncorrell3819 and yet once you allow all backwater mental worst case scenarios to be forgiven...something begins to unlock. Im in the easy stages of a 3 month deliverance for what mom sis best friend and x wife put me through- not one form of abuse was overlooked. Deconstruct and unpack the past- every mental image is being forgiven. No more pearls before swine though, but Love and forgiveness fasting and sanctification led solely by the Spirit over us all amen 💪 ❤ 🙏
Amen
@@robertswift6101 yes..that cut like a knife and woke me up !!!
Spirit led me to this video because I've literally just realized I was dealimg with a narcissistic sociopath
I left my narcissist 2 months ago I was almost about to go back to him because he been trying his hardest to get me back and he almost had me I left him because of his cheating with his old Supply I left him because of this he kept telling me she was crazy and that she won't leave him alone and he swore to me that he was not dealing with her no more until one day he happened to take her down his father's house and his sister was there his sister likes me so she video him being with her so I can see it so she can let me know that his ass didn't change and for me to just go on with my life I blocked him on everything but of course I had to cuss his ass out first before I do that to let his ass know he was nothing but a liar!
True, true, true. Every word! Ty my sister
I am free indeed!!😀
The Narcissist playbook is the same games but different faces!!! Learn your lesson and cut them off!!! Male or Female, they come to get comfortable with all your resources while giving out breadcrumbs. CUT THEM OFF! TRUST YOUR GUT THE FIRST!!! PERIOD!
After the bad relationship you get restored mentally and spiritually in a way that nobody can ever break you again. Please practice self love, self care on yourself especially in front of you children. And after a while your thinking and being resonates on a high vibration that everyone will see and understand. Plus all those who believe in your perpetrators need to be exposed and removed from your life so you can start living your BEST LIFE ❣
Another bites the dust is right 👍
Im never falling in line with that bull again
The ex narc sister told me she knew it wasn’t my fault.
God wont match us with a demon. Sometimes we choose these toxic people and when God IS NOT IN AGREEMENT with the one WE CHOSE that relationship wont have Gods protection because it wasnt in his will for us to be with a demonic spirit that was assigned to distract us from our purpose. The new supply could be just as much of a victim as we were.
These demonic narcissistic spirits are assigned to us. We MUST use our discernment.
Oh yes he did!!! He told my friends he wasn't in a relationship with me and we were just friends. One of my so called friends he told that to he has an affair with her. Done. Bye Boy Girl. We reap what we sow!!!
This is so true!! I suffered a miscarriage recently dealing with a narcissist for over 12 mos. I’m in tears! 😢
15:00--"I know it's hard to believe, but BE HAPPY THEY'RE GONE!" (What all of us know, but unfortunately don't want to hear from our STRONGER INNER-SELVES, sometimes)
New subscriber. Narcs are demons. Every you say is true, Sis. My job transferred me to Atlanta. He told his family that he didn’t go because I ran off with another man when the truth was that he didn’t wanna leave his sidechicks. I’m no contact with his entire family. My ex narc is a master manipulator.
He showed me his divorce papers and bought me a ring !! Boy 👋 bye!! It’s over
Sounds like the narc I use to date. He only wants a divorce when he meets new supply.
Sound likey soon to be ex husband
😅😅😅
The same thing happened to me he brought the ring show me the divorce papers they wasn't final and nothing ever happened I'm out now
i say the same thing you say...They can lie about me to their friends, other family members, etc...but they can’t lie to God...He Knows...
Amen 🙏
Indeed 🙏🏾✌️✨
One of the most frustrating things about my ex is he constantly runs away from any sign of karma. After I exposed him he blocked me and dropped off the face of the earth. How long can these people keep running before all of their bad actions catch up to them?🙄
God's timing is perfect
They stay ducking and dodging karma, that's why they don't want to be alone, and wanna do some do gooder crap...
The narc I had went and told people he gave me alot of money for my 401k 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Right before we separated I had him sign so I could release my 401k, I did that because I knew we were divorcing and I didn't want to give him a dime. He lied and said he gave me the money and let me keep everything.
We have to fix what’s in us that attracts these people period!!
Love this channel. ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST
Welcome to the family God bless you
Thank you lm healed from the hurt of betrayal at work ,everything lm handing it to God and asking him to heal me from anxiety and depression course by them .I forgive them and pray to God to be with me in this process of healing,it's not easy and it hurt more and more but with God on my side it will pass .I'm praying and fasting about it
Love your content sis. You have said a mouth full. God be the Glory we are free!
Amen Glory To God
agreed!
We needed a Godly coach on this subject. Thank you sis!
Flying monkeys will still cause issues and problem even after the relationship has ended and the other person they attacked has had enough and went through so much hell.
All truth & facts 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
They will always reap what they sow. But ladies do not rejoice in the afflictions of others, regardless of how bad they hurt you (Proverbs 24:17-19)
This message is extremely helpful.. I seem to only attract narcissistic people. Now I have set clear boundaries and am healing everyday. It seems I'm better by myself
I woke up one day and the guy I was in love with turned into an absolute stranger. Not my first narc but this one was a blindside. A real covert. God is So Good. Thank you. ✨🕊👑.
I thank the Lord for you. Your testimony and wise counsel will help those of us recover from narcissists abuse. I'm ready to close that negative chapter in my life and start a whole new beginning. Many blessings to you & your loved ones ❤
I’m at the point where I need the narcissist phone to be broken because she spends all day contacting me. I’m tired of blocking these text app numbers. If anyone has a suggestion that doesn’t involve changing my number?
I’m being smeared for living my life, going out with family/friends, doing a little better than when I was with her, working on business endeavors, but she is filled with so much negativity I need her out of my life good
Words of wisdom and that smear campaign start off from the time you enter their presence in my eyes, moving on is the best thing you can do ❤️♐️ $LNO$
Yes it Queens, u nailed it...
Exactly 🎯
Yes they do even to strangers while you are out in public But....they spirit tells on them at same time everything they do...keep gut check and intuition up
Very happy I found your video.yes I have never been hoovered openly Andi am sure I have no proof but I know I have been starked, but I am happy and overjoyed he cannot return.i found out years before the disgard I was slandered with the friends I thought were friends of mine.i am 16 months no contact and Shocked the abuse was so blatant and after 26 years he has been with several different families while claim to be employed as a trucker.praying for My divorce and that he stays definately away.they are devil's property and needs to join him in the abbyst
So true. I still live in the same house with my ex. He doesn't want a divorce, but does not want to leave either. He pretend he is my friend at times, but he know I am NOT BUYING IT, so he keep his distance.
Yes it hurts to know that someone who I thought loved me would treat me so poorly but at the same time, I'm glad I saw the true colors sooner than later. We definitely dodged a bullet with the narcissist.
U nailed it, I felt like u was talking directly to me about that narcissist, God is Great because he freed us and that it's is the blessing.
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They are professional victims.
Yes
Yes. Last one used me as a stepping stone. Redirected and restored his life-his careerand once he attained what he needed-discard.
I am one of the very few people that hasn't gotten hoovered after being discarded. It is confusing to me because I still feel very weak. It has been almost been 5 years. It took me setting a boundary for the first time to have him discard me. I was the perfect victim because I was an absolute doormat and my confidence was withered down to nothing.
I know I have never been hoovered before either and I know I never will be it depends on the situation and the narcissist that you are dealing with it's best to pick up the pieces forgive yourself and move forward there is nothing else left to do but to thrive
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 Thank you for your response. Agreed:) life is much more free when you can just be yourself.
Wow.. you described my ex to a tea.. I’ve looked at hundreds of content, but the way you put God into the scenario sets you apart from the rest!! I am a witness to her karma.. she lost a job of 4 years from lying and stealing.. I see now that’s her karma coming back on her 🙏🙏
Ronnie MAC I'm with you my Man. Been there they will get there's.
He won’t come back to eat crow. And he has got to know that I won’t let him get away with…nothing. Its tit for tat over here now. I mirror a narc…I do what you do to me. Plus I exposed him…after he disrespected and discarded…it ain’t safe for my narc over here so he will stay away. Narcs are looking for comfort and someone who will let them do whatever they want with no questions and criticisms and comments. No it ain’t safe for him over here! 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
thats how GOD planned it, the discard, that was a lesson and a blessing... I cant go back to Egypt (NARC) GOD delivered me from bondage, and I am moving forward in my healing, deliverance and blessings, and PURPOSE !!
What I also found out was my behavior was all reactive abuse. None of her friends saw or heard what I went through. Felt like I was going insane. Literally couldn’t sleep.
Amen thank you 🎉thanks for standing for righteous and listing the things that must be avoided like fornication.
Never 🤲🏽
Omg sis!!
Sis, you talking to me, were you a fly on my wall......lol. I stayed in my situation for a long (10 years), and I'm so thankful that God removed me from that.
Thank you for this beautiful video 🥰😍
God bless you 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Same! Amen 🙏
Thank you so much for this Word. My ex narc left me when I was 8 months pregnant and I was devastated. My baby is now 6 months old and he’s abandoned his son. But this message resonates so much to me.
I will never allow a narc into my life again. Thanks for your support.
Ive been broken, actually shattered. With her 5 years, She cheated on me with her ex, when I found out she left me, blocked and ghosted me the same day. After 5 years every day together. It took me 5 months to stop trying to call her, text her, letters I was broken for closure I received nothing. Then I was able to go no contact, Was hard at first but got easier and easier 5 months later she texted me, we talked she said sorry it was a mistake, we can be happy. Started going out again , parks, ocean, dinners, sex, talking texting. Then after 4 months seeing each other again one day she stopped calling and texting,. Nothing happened, I was nothing but nice and forgave her.. I thought it was wrong and wanted to see what was happening I drove by her ex’s house and her car was in his driveway at 10 pm. I shattered, HOW” WHY” would she do this to me again, I only trusted her over and over, forgave her over and over, when we are together she treated me with so much care and love then leave me in a flash, I see it now. Now I think she’s with another guy, ex didn’t work out, just for sex, Now sure another guy obviously she ghosted me again for someone It’s been 2 months now, but I lost myself, because I loved her only her, after 5 years finding all this out. Trying to put myself back together, finding videos like this. Hardest thing I’ve been through, and I’ve been through a lot. I just was blindsided, I had no idea she would do that, then twice. I was drinking, but she’s not worth that anymore to care that much for someone that cares zero about me. No mas. Great videos.. Thank you 🙏
My heart goes out to you Shane sorry you had to go through that welcome to the family stay strong if you need a coaching session contact Coach Lizzie at Warrior Queen. 55.@yahoo.com
I wish I can like this a hundred times lord knows I do
I am escaping now. Thanks for presenting this information through a spiritual context.
Its crazy how I lost my girl for no reason and I prayed god said he would handle it cause I was confused and now im looking at this and everything comes together on why she talked so bad about people I knew that fell out with her 😕 god is good yall🙏🏾
Same goes for me. I asked the universe to show me things and it revealed things I did not want to see it hurt my heart so bad never felt this kind of hurt but my ex was always talking about random strangers and At times spoke I’ll about me In front of me and to others. I couldn’t believe it when some of the things got back to me about what was said. It’s been a month that I made the decision to kick him to the curb and it’s been rough. Emotions everywhere. I keep telling myself it’s for the better he’s done so many things that I should of left him for I had left him once already but the second time around which is now I vowed to stick with him but the betrayal was paralyzing I had to go!
Sister I have shared this video with so many women. After my experience. And the awakening. And going through the acceptance forgiveness and rebuilding love for myself. I thank God that I chose to talk about it and to make that mess my ministry. Thank you thank you thank you thank you. I am divorcing him. And he won’t leave the house. I know he’s afraid to face his shame. I could go on and on. But I’ll stop there. God bless you forever!
This video popped up in my news feed. When I tell you RIGHT. ON. TIME!!! You know these things and Lord God gives you the same message through someone else... Nothing But Confirmation!! THANK YOU LOVE!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾💝
This is so accurate ,everything Iv went & going through now with my ex wife narcissist
I'm still in pain after walking out 10wks ago but il get there
Similar journey 19 yrs, so thankful that God is my vindicator & knowing he's so faithful🌅
This video is the realest timeline and explanation of it all. Whew you won’t know it until you go through it
What is crazy is that I'm just now living this that I just now about 2 weeks ago realized that I was with a narcissist and that I just ran into this video and to this video and it makes complete and total sense to me she had already been talking about me to her friends bad about me I already saw the jealousy in her of me instead of supporting me this is so crazy thank you father got thank you Lord and Jesus's name thank you thank you father God for greater clarity I'm excited So grateful and appreciative for the clarity that you give us every everyday greater clarity greater understanding greater knowledge and wisdom
My sister and her husband are the perfect example of this so-called Christian but living a double life
I'm thankful I'm free, I'm having to live with a husband but hes not physically abusive I separated myself completely. I feel much better!!! I'm ready to get a job and move. Its been 5yrs and I'm so ready. I feel peace happiness joy again. He was a Christian I thought. Adultry may still be married to his 1st wife and me. I confronted him his face turned ghost white. Multiple partners. I got very sick and while down he took full advantage spent every dime I had.
God Bless You.
You are on point.
He ghosted, cheated, abandoned, betrayed, and lied to me on new year's eve.
I am moving to another state/.
Happiness with my Grandchildren!
I saw you on the St. Louis news regarding the 19 year old young lady that was murdered... I was watching and I said, there go my Lizzie!!.. I am proud of you, you are doing so much to help souls everywhere!... Excellent work..
Thank You Queen all Glory to God 🙏 welcome to the family
You better preach...you are on point..May God continue to bless and use you.
As a Man i never been this messed up in my life by anyone but to realize how hard i went to play my part in the relationship and marriage to only find out how bad i was feeling just for the sake of the children its really disturbing to find out now what a narcissist is.
Welcome to the family one day at a time God will heal you and you will look back and realize how far you have come
Amen! You said it! Bingo! Spot On! After 26 years Im free! 😊😄
Same timeline here! Absolute love and forgiveness, sanctification as led by Spirit- now to use that degree i got 8 years ago! 💪 ❤ 🙏
My Narc was broke, lied, was lazy, was boring (self-interested only) AND cheated on me with multiple women at a time. He refused to talk about it or change then got angry when I had the audacity to finally Ghost him...lol delusional...
I stayed because I understood how God feels about marriage and so I stayed to try harder and harder and harder. I now understand God is not angry with me and He knows how hard I tried. I sleep well in His forgiveness. How God deals with the N is up to Him.
Aloha, from Honolulu. He pulled everything you have said. After 33 years, put him out over 9 months ago. He's tired of being a Homeless Hobosexual, so left his new cell number at a store we hadn't been to since 2019. Went there about 6 weeks ago & he'd just been there & left his number. Not going there or anywhere we have been before on Oahu. New number, moved twice, no contact with anyone we both knew so he cannot find me. Bulletproof boundaries, zero tolerance for toxicity. Not a chance that I will ever tolerate that demon again, ever! 👍💪❤🙏😅🤣😂
Amen
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 I am so over "idiot forgiveness", trauma bond & wouldn't let his cheating Bi-sexual body parts touch me for years. The old Church "Stay & Pray bought him extra time from Oct 2018 through Nov 2019. Got 'Woke' Thanksgiving 2019, discovered Narc video in my feed, but God, in Dec 2019. Had a secret storage unit Jan 2020. Was planning on the Airport out of Hawai''i in March 2020 & Covid 19 Lockdown stuck me with him.
Domestic Violence Shelter unhealthy, so Grey Rock, daily Bible Study & prayer was my life. Returned to my Executive Protection practices (former co-owner), Martial Arts - Madea mode until barracading the door & not letting his delusional, diseased, drunken, drug addicted, cheating self back in the apartment August 2020. Moved out February 2020, due to his stalking & regular screaming beneath my window. Now he can't find me & last report from the only one on the island (who got rid of her violent narc), was that he was seen on the other side of the island near our old church two months ago - since they are having out door services now. I was on the Praise & Worship Team, so he thought I would be there. But God I was going to go, but the person who knows him just happened to visit family & was told he was just now back in the area. Course you know I'm not going now & been blessed to find another Church hidden away in a city we have never lived or know anyone since living on Oahu! But God.
Whew that's my narc ending story, plus have a baby Narc Abuse Awareness & Domestic Violence Recovery channel documenting my healing & lessons learned after 33 yrs: "Cluster B Free Karyn" (a cautionary tale) to help others as I heal. 😆 💪 📖 ✝️ 🙏 ☝️ ❤ Adjusting my crown. 👑 Mic drop....Crickets.
@@breakingfreefromnpdwithliz5351 You are inspirational. Just discovered you or was referred 2021. Wish I'd know you earlier, but you are helping my healing & confirming so much. I appreciate you & sharing your vids amongst my Tribe who don't know you. (I'm from the Just Say No To Narcs, Pink Girl Teaches, Dr. Carmen Bryant, Apostle Helen Saddler, Narc Free Living & Faith Base Workplace Tribes ( just naming the ones by people of color - all discovered during the Lockdown) Very 1st Narc channel - Petra in the UK, just showed up in my feed - December 2019.
Had no idea about Narcissism. Was just leaving a delusional, violent, cheating, stealing, chronically lying, bi-sexual, demonically influenced person - that was all I knew.