The talk on imposter syndrome was comforting. And over the years, watching your videos since I was 13 I see much growth. Gurl, legit has been my inspiration forever!! Love you!!!!
Jenn and Dani, even if you don't get a chance to read I just wanted to THANK THE BOTH OF YOU from the bottom of my heart for that advice sesh. After working on so many professional/personal goals at the start of 2018, I mistakenly fell back into a comfortable space of not volunteering for talks/giving as many presentations or participating as actively in discussions. Recently I had a chat with my manager on how one of the goals I had for this year is to really work on my public speaking. After kind of sitting back in presentations and discussions for the past few months, I've gotten sooooo comfortable not giving my 2 cents in discussions because of that fear of (1) interrupting and (2) getting judged on what I share. I have a client presentation tomorrow and this advice sesh couldn't have come at a better time. I've realized that the main thing causing me anxiety is being uncomfortable making a mistake and learning from it. This talk was SO IMPORTANT in making me realize that others also feel this way and that you just have to keep going at it no matter how uncomfortable you may feel.
Jen I was there at the panel you had a sxsw and I remember thinking "wow I hope I can be that confident one day to speak in front of so many people". It's so weird how our minds trick us to believing that we lack so much and aren't good enough when we are. Your perception of your self is totally valid just remember you are ENOUGH!
The imposter syndrome is so true. I really like how your friend Dani put the tip across on managing this anxiety. We get something out of every experience, regardless of failure or success.
we need more videos with your mom. the beginning was my favorite part. My korean mom always tells me to do my brows differently, the beginning was so relatable #asianlife
Mom comes for my weight and tells me to exercise more (I would if I could), while dad comes for me to dress up more warmly especially in the mornings :')
Hey Jenn! I just wanted to reach out and say thank you. A lot of the things that you have been bringing up in your videos (for a while now) like failure, imposter syndrome, your mental health, how people's comments affect you/your brand, wellness, etc, have shown me ways that someone can grow from their experience. When you talk about things like that, I feel like you are my mentor in a way? Part of that is because a lot of your personality traits coincide with mine, so it just goes to show me that (I guess through emotional camaraderie) that I can do it. We can do it! Also, I've been subscribed since you were at UC Davis, so it's been amazing to see the person you've become. Thank you Jenn. :)
I could watch this vlog over and over. First off, your mom is hilarious and reminds me of all Korean moms LOL. My mom stays roasting me too. 😂 Secondly, I love all the topics you and Dani touched on!!
It's so good to see Dani, i remember her from one of your another video and she seems so lovely ! Also, she has such a great style and longer hair suits her as well ('cause i remember her with short hair but maybe i'm wrong ???) And your mother is so cute ahah, remind me so much of my mother when i try some new makeup or outfit
Hey Jennnn! I remembered in the mukbang with Sophia and Hyunee, you guys mentioned the whole paranoia while dating thing, could you make a video about that? 😊 ㅎㅎ 어머님 넘 예뻐요!!! 딱 닮았어요 ❤️
I love love love Dani’s advice. I’m a teacher, tho i don’t look like It but I do sometimes feel nervous to talk in front of other people. I feel like knowing what we’re gonna talk about helps sometimes.
When Dani brought up imposter syndrome I FREAKED! It's been something I've struggled with and until this past November, I had NO idea what the hell it was. Thank you both for talking about it! I feel so much less alone
Wow you guys talking about those topics was really insightful and really made me think about myself and what I do when I hold myself back . Fearing failure and therefore not even trying. It's so important to get out of your comfort zone and try all kinds of things. Thanks for talking about it girls. It really helped me out a bit.
i loved the clip in the beginning- thank you for sharing a moment between you and your mother with us ❤️ p.s: i saw your speech for a rare day throughout my instastories and you killed it!
Thank you so much about speaking about imposter syndrome. I never heard of that term before but it was enlightening to hear your thoughts about that topic. I really really struggle with feeling that way but the only difference is I haven't really accomplished much life goals to feel I'm undeserving of what I have. I'm below that. I feel I am underserving of those chances of getting there, let alone even have it. Like having my dream job because I think everyone around me is probably better. My confidence is really low because of that...it shows through my actions so I'm trying to work on that. You speaking up about that helped. Thanks. I never heard anyone else struggle with those thoughts so it was comforting to hear.
I was at that panel! You did amazing Jenn! Own you! I can confidently say like 90% of the attendees came for you. I remember freezing standing in that loooooonnnnnggggggg line at the end of the panel to say a quick “hi”! In fact I pretty much defied my mother and drove to Austin that weekend (i wish she would relax I’m like 25...geez) to attend, then the morning of I got to the venue like 2 or 3 hrs before the event started because they said “first come first serve” and I didn’t want to miss my chance! Apparently they were false because because people were coming in late into the night 😂 but I had fun! You are pretty big, stay humble but don’t feel small!
Such an awesome friend for an amazing person like you Jenn! I always knew that a nice person is surrounded by other nice people😊 I really loved this video that I could see your personal life as a daughter(I could really relate to the conversation with your mom lolol), and also the conversation you had with your friend. It was very candid talk and I could feel that I’m not alone haha. Thanks again!
i really love how open,honest and sincere you both are❤️ thank you so much and i learnt so much!!! it will definitely help me in ways as i am struggling with some issues too😢 and also i think it’s time for me to sleep! good way to go to sleeeep after watching this video 👍🏼
Girl I truly relate to the eyebrow comment!! My mom would always complain about how I'd fill in my eyebrows "too thick" or "too dark". I always got annoyed because I knew she'd always prefer my natural face. 3 years later, I'm looking back at those pictures and dang, my mom truly had my best interest at heart because my brows were something else LOL!
Idk about anyone else but I'm asian and my mom does the same thing with the criticism and i absolutely hate it. I just can't brush it off like other people with the whole "Haha asian culture!" Mentality. I think its shitty no matter the culture.
Hi Jenn - The clips with your Mum are so cute! And funny lol Saw your instastories - Awesome job on the speech you have at 'A Rare Day' - Your energy is definitely infectious and spreads happiness 💖
@@imjennim Amazing! I look forward to it. Great to hear your thoughts on confidence, imposter syndrome, facing fears (I remember when you spoke about wanting to face your fear of public speaking). Growth lays in the land of uncertainty after all 💖😊 It's certainly important to be authentic and embrace yourself and know your voice is important and can add value to others
Oh :( I was enjoying so much the time u had with your mom, too bad it was so short. You know what? U could do a video with her, where u try one side of your face your usual makeup routine and the other side with the way your mom thinks it looks best. That should be super fun to watch! Anyway, loved the video ❤️
I totally relate to the topic of feeling small. I recently attended several conferences at which I was the only female Asian engineer in the room of 150 people. Sticking with the positiveness, the speakers remembered my name and I have been in touch with the experts in my field. :D
Awe Jenn! Funny how you talk about sxsw and it's currently sxsw. I remember going to your panel and I did not get that from you at all! It was a pleasure to meet you and Ben, and really appreciated you pushing back dinner to meet with everyone 💜💜 still supporting your growth and wishing you the best.
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but Umma’s words cut deeper. What does your mom go in on you for? 😆
My mom told me to avoid wearing jeans because my thighs look thicker in them 😂😂 fortunately, I love dresses and skirts 😏
my outfits :(
how messy my room is and want me to pack it😭😆
My Outfits, my hair, my make up, my Skin, my weight
Basically everything 😂
Why am I paying so much for an apartment that's not even nice 🙄🙄🙄 and I should just let her redecorate apparently
The beginning with your mom lowkey criticizing everything, I felt that #asianlife
LOL! YOU FEEL ME!
@@imjennim Gurl u know I do
I felt that too honey #kurdishlife 😂😩
Ha I’m white and my mom does the same😂
I’m Japanese and I feel it too almost all of the time she’s right though ahaha
“THIS IS MY EYEBROW” I can’t relate to anything more
Hahahahah! It literally is!!
literally my mom says the same and tells me its too dark... but my brows are naturally dark and thick .__.
Hana Lee you are so pretty !!
와 참 신기해 이렇게 한국어를 말하는 것 처음 듣는 것 같아요^^ 진짜 기여워요 말투
오 한국어 하시는거 새롭네요! 영어 못해서 잘 못알아듣지만 언니가 올린 영상 꼬박꼬박 잘 챙겨보고 있어요😃😃
한국어 하는 거 보니까 너무 반가워요ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
💖💝💕💞💓💗💘
That comment about being able to ‘see the dust’-such a Korean mom thing to say 😂
Sarahhh!
U guys watch her too
*every asian mom
*Every asian parent ever! My dad is mainly (asian) russian and also Part Korean and boy o boy does he comment on the dust in my room
not only moms but my dad does the same omg
The talk on imposter syndrome was comforting. And over the years, watching your videos since I was 13 I see much growth. Gurl, legit has been my inspiration forever!! Love you!!!!
엄마 나온 부분 너무 좋다♡
마자요ㅜㅜ
아.. 한국어 하는거 너무 귀여우세요~ㅋㅋ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ엄마랑 대화하는거 넘나리 귀욥ㅜㅜㅎ
엄마님이 너무 귀여우세요 ㅠㅠ 엄마와 함께하는 영상을 더 많이 찍어 주세요!! 💕
the one thing that transcends language and race is a mother's unecessary opinion 😂😂😂😂
와!!!!! 한국말하는 젠 ^_^ 반가워요~~~
한국어가 들리니깐 뭔가 더 반갑네용! :)
0:22 눈이가 없으니까 😂😂 soo cute...🧡
Jenn and Dani, even if you don't get a chance to read I just wanted to THANK THE BOTH OF YOU from the bottom of my heart for that advice sesh. After working on so many professional/personal goals at the start of 2018, I mistakenly fell back into a comfortable space of not volunteering for talks/giving as many presentations or participating as actively in discussions.
Recently I had a chat with my manager on how one of the goals I had for this year is to really work on my public speaking. After kind of sitting back in presentations and discussions for the past few months, I've gotten sooooo comfortable not giving my 2 cents in discussions because of that fear of (1) interrupting and (2) getting judged on what I share. I have a client presentation tomorrow and this advice sesh couldn't have come at a better time. I've realized that the main thing causing me anxiety is being uncomfortable making a mistake and learning from it.
This talk was SO IMPORTANT in making me realize that others also feel this way and that you just have to keep going at it no matter how uncomfortable you may feel.
I LOVED hearing you and your mom speak Korean! Can we see that more often, please? Maybe an interview of your mom...entirely in Korean!? :)
Annie lol why. let her be
@@cris_herelol, are people not allowed to say what they would like to see?
Love your idea Annie! I'd totally watch it!
Your mom's Kyungsang providence accent is so cute!! 어머니 경상도 사투리 너무 귀여워요!
어떻게 알았어요??? 궁금해요...
HI JEN, YOUR MOM IS SO CUTE AND SO ARE YOU 🥰
yes🙌🏻
한국어 준비 영상도 보고싶어요!!ㅠㅠㅜㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Jen I was there at the panel you had a sxsw and I remember thinking "wow I hope I can be that confident one day to speak in front of so many people". It's so weird how our minds trick us to believing that we lack so much and aren't good enough when we are. Your perception of your self is totally valid just remember you are ENOUGH!
So lucky!! I wanna see her!
The imposter syndrome is so true. I really like how your friend Dani put the tip across on managing this anxiety. We get something out of every experience, regardless of failure or success.
어떡해 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 젠임님 한국말 하시는 말투 너무 빠져들어요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 영어하시는 모습만 보다가 한국말하시는 모습 보니까 넘 정감가고 행복♡♡♡♡
Without even watching this yet I think I know what you mean by Korean mom goes in 😂
LOL! You already know!
shade level asian mom but korean mamas have that spice to it
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ엄마 사투리까지 너무 익숙해요 젠 영상 틀었는데 한국어 바로 들려서 잘못 누른줄ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 너무 사랑스러운 모녀💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
we need more videos with your mom. the beginning was my favorite part. My korean mom always tells me to do my brows differently, the beginning was so relatable #asianlife
You're so cute when you speak korean 😆😍
Sohui Park I knowwwww!!! 눈이가 없으니까 = 눈화장 안했으니까 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 너무 귀여워 ❤️!!!!
Sho_B 인정ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
완전 공감😭😭😭
ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 저도 그생각 구ㅣ여워요
Umma does my makeup please!
walkwithme omg yes!
Mom comes for my weight and tells me to exercise more (I would if I could), while dad comes for me to dress up more warmly especially in the mornings :')
OH MY GOD Jen speaking in korean is the cutest thing ive ever seen😭😫♥️♥️♥️♥️ 언니 한국말 더 많이 해주세요 너무귀여워요💕💕💕💕💕
아 한국어하실때 너무 귀여워요ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ❤❤
엄마들눈에는 우리가 정리 못하는 무언가가있나봐요 ㅎㅎ 엄마와함께행복해보여요^^ 어머니사투리도 정겨워용ㅎㅎ
Hey Jenn! I just wanted to reach out and say thank you. A lot of the things that you have been bringing up in your videos (for a while now) like failure, imposter syndrome, your mental health, how people's comments affect you/your brand, wellness, etc, have shown me ways that someone can grow from their experience. When you talk about things like that, I feel like you are my mentor in a way? Part of that is because a lot of your personality traits coincide with mine, so it just goes to show me that (I guess through emotional camaraderie) that I can do it. We can do it! Also, I've been subscribed since you were at UC Davis, so it's been amazing to see the person you've become. Thank you Jenn. :)
You are way too cute when you speak Korean. Please do more videos with that!!!
Haven’t watched yet but for some reason I feel your mom is gonna be a savage 😂
🤣🤣
I could watch this vlog over and over. First off, your mom is hilarious and reminds me of all Korean moms LOL. My mom stays roasting me too. 😂 Secondly, I love all the topics you and Dani touched on!!
Mums always have some constructive criticism about how we look 😂😂 she super cute!
아니 언니 한국어 하는 거 넘 귀여운거 아니애요? ㅠㅠㅠ omg her speaking korean with mom is super cuteeeee💗
It's so good to see Dani, i remember her from one of your another video and she seems so lovely ! Also, she has such a great style and longer hair suits her as well ('cause i remember her with short hair but maybe i'm wrong ???)
And your mother is so cute ahah, remind me so much of my mother when i try some new makeup or outfit
Hey Jennnn! I remembered in the mukbang with Sophia and Hyunee, you guys mentioned the whole paranoia while dating thing, could you make a video about that? 😊 ㅎㅎ 어머님 넘 예뻐요!!! 딱 닮았어요 ❤️
MORE JENN IM‘s MOM PLEASE!! One of the best things I‘ve seen in your videos, she‘s suuuuper cute
You look just like your mom! Both so beautiful! Korean pride. 🇰🇷
I love love love Dani’s advice. I’m a teacher, tho i don’t look like It but I do sometimes feel nervous to talk in front of other people. I feel like knowing what we’re gonna talk about helps sometimes.
When Dani brought up imposter syndrome I FREAKED! It's been something I've struggled with and until this past November, I had NO idea what the hell it was. Thank you both for talking about it! I feel so much less alone
HI JENN! u should totally do a GRWM video or ANY video, with u speaking in Korean all the way. ITS GONNA BE REAL FUN and REFRESHING!
Love seeing your mom in your vids! Makes me smile like ☺️💓 어머님이랑 도희님이랑 이야기하는 거 너무 귀여워요 :)
오랜만에 언니 영상보러 왔는데 영어만 듣다가 한국어 오래 들으니까 뭔가 진짜 한국인인거 실감나고 넘 귀여워요ㅠㅠㅠ 언니 너무 좋아요....
Wow you guys talking about those topics was really insightful and really made me think about myself and what I do when I hold myself back . Fearing failure and therefore not even trying. It's so important to get out of your comfort zone and try all kinds of things.
Thanks for talking about it girls. It really helped me out a bit.
more of Umma, please! You dad is also adorbs! Would love to see them often ❤️😍
I love yours and Dani's friendship!!
어머니의 잔소리가 달콤하죠? 방이 하야니까 먼지 잘 보인다는 소리가 너무 듣기 좋아요 ! ㅎㅎ
Jenn make a GRWM with your mom,will be fun I tink.(Sorry for my english)😗💗💖
Good idea!!
I love traveling by myself! Gets your mind at ease and you can learn new things about yourself in a new environment where no one knows you.
I just love your Korean accent Jenn!! Hope to hear u speak more Korean in future videos 😁
Love hearing you speak Korean, Jenn! It’s so good! You should try doing a whole video speaking it :D
i loved the clip in the beginning- thank you for sharing a moment between you and your mother with us ❤️
p.s: i saw your speech for a rare day throughout my instastories and you killed it!
Thank you so much about speaking about imposter syndrome. I never heard of that term before but it was enlightening to hear your thoughts about that topic. I really really struggle with feeling that way but the only difference is I haven't really accomplished much life goals to feel I'm undeserving of what I have. I'm below that. I feel I am underserving of those chances of getting there, let alone even have it. Like having my dream job because I think everyone around me is probably better. My confidence is really low because of that...it shows through my actions so I'm trying to work on that. You speaking up about that helped. Thanks. I never heard anyone else struggle with those thoughts so it was comforting to hear.
한국말하는거 너무 귀여워요!🥺👍🏻
젠님꺼 너무 오랜만에 보러왔나봐요. 한국어자막이 생기다니...♡ 너무 좋네요^^ 응원합니다!
I was at that panel! You did amazing Jenn! Own you! I can confidently say like 90% of the attendees came for you. I remember freezing standing in that loooooonnnnnggggggg line at the end of the panel to say a quick “hi”! In fact I pretty much defied my mother and drove to Austin that weekend (i wish she would relax I’m like 25...geez) to attend, then the morning of I got to the venue like 2 or 3 hrs before the event started because they said “first come first serve” and I didn’t want to miss my chance! Apparently they were false because because people were coming in late into the night 😂 but I had fun! You are pretty big, stay humble but don’t feel small!
I’m 30 seconds in and I’m already cracking up because my korean mom ALSO tells me to do my makeup differently while I’m doing it 😭😭😂😂
Hahaha they just can't hold back!
My Japanese mom does the same😂😂😂
My Taiwanese mom too! She thinks my eyebrows are too much lol
its so fascinating seeing jenn speaking in korean 😍 i hope you can do a video of you getting ready while speaking in korean!
Such an awesome friend for an amazing person like you Jenn! I always knew that a nice person is surrounded by other nice people😊 I really loved this video that I could see your personal life as a daughter(I could really relate to the conversation with your mom lolol), and also the conversation you had with your friend. It was very candid talk and I could feel that I’m not alone haha. Thanks again!
Omg! I love to hear you and your mom's Korean conversation
awe I wish I got a chance to see you in Vancouver while you were here!!!!! Hope you had fun and come back when it’s warmer!!!
Watching this video just makes me realise how similar Dani and Jenn are in terms of the way they converse and engage their viewers
한국말 발음하시는거 넘 귀여운거 아니에요? ㅎㅎㅎ
I did not know how much I needed that intro until I saw it omg bless our Korean moms
i really love how open,honest and sincere you both are❤️ thank you so much and i learnt so much!!! it will definitely help me in ways as i am struggling with some issues too😢
and also i think it’s time for me to sleep! good way to go to sleeeep after watching this video 👍🏼
the part Jenn shared about public speaking is so relatable and makes a whole lot of sense for me! haha thanks Jenn!
젠 엄마랑 한국말로 대화하는거 너무 귀엽네요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 😘😘
LOVE the way you've been editing lately!. Also, I've always loved your friendship with Dani for some reason haha
악 어머님 사투리 넘 기여우셔요-!!-♡♡♡♡ㅠㅅㅠ
ahhhahaha the “엄마 이거-this is my eyebrow!” i relate soo much
Girl I truly relate to the eyebrow comment!! My mom would always complain about how I'd fill in my eyebrows "too thick" or "too dark". I always got annoyed because I knew she'd always prefer my natural face. 3 years later, I'm looking back at those pictures and dang, my mom truly had my best interest at heart because my brows were something else LOL!
Idk about anyone else but I'm asian and my mom does the same thing with the criticism and i absolutely hate it. I just can't brush it off like other people with the whole "Haha asian culture!" Mentality. I think its shitty no matter the culture.
True
Hi Jenn - The clips with your Mum are so cute! And funny lol
Saw your instastories - Awesome job on the speech you have at 'A Rare Day' - Your energy is definitely infectious and spreads happiness 💖
Aww thank you so much! Gonna upload the speech onto my TH-cam when it's ready. n_n
@@imjennim Amazing! I look forward to it.
Great to hear your thoughts on confidence, imposter syndrome, facing fears (I remember when you spoke about wanting to face your fear of public speaking). Growth lays in the land of uncertainty after all 💖😊 It's certainly important to be authentic and embrace yourself and know your voice is important and can add value to others
한국어 하시는 모습 너무 귀여워요 ㅠㅠㅠ 그리고 생각보다 되게 잘하시네요..!
HAHAH jenn your korean is so cute!! also my mom always tells me to draw my eyebrows thinner too LOLL
와 어머니 그냥 한국인이시네 경상도분이신가요?ㅎㅎ 반가워요
Oh :( I was enjoying so much the time u had with your mom, too bad it was so short. You know what? U could do a video with her, where u try one side of your face your usual makeup routine and the other side with the way your mom thinks it looks best. That should be super fun to watch! Anyway, loved the video ❤️
I totally relate to the topic of feeling small. I recently attended several conferences at which I was the only female Asian engineer in the room of 150 people. Sticking with the positiveness, the speakers remembered my name and I have been in touch with the experts in my field. :D
우앗 언니 한국어 하는 모습 넘 이쁘다요-! 어머니도 넘 이쁘세요ෆෆ
hahaha. 울 엄마도 똑같습니다! 그래도 사랑이 느껴지는 엄마와 딸♥
your mom is straight up gorgeous !!!!! wow so elegant and poised.
AUGH I LOVE DANI
눈썹 ㅋ 어머니 말씀대로 연하게 그리는게 더 이뻐보이네요.
being from Vancouver, it was such a blast seeing the familiar places you shot photos at!!
ㅎㅎ 한국말 들리니까 너무 반가워요 그리구 어머니 막 뭐라고 하시는거 너무 공감이에요ㅎㅎ
I love the clip you chatted with your mom in Korean 🤣So cute!
Awe Jenn! Funny how you talk about sxsw and it's currently sxsw. I remember going to your panel and I did not get that from you at all! It was a pleasure to meet you and Ben, and really appreciated you pushing back dinner to meet with everyone 💜💜 still supporting your growth and wishing you the best.
한국어 하는 Jenn 님 넘 귀여워요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
omg her Korean is soooooooooooo cute!!! I literally screamed at first lol
Come back to Vancouver to visit again when the weather is warmer! :D
OMG I love her speaking Korean. Your accent is so freaking cute!!!!!
젠님 한국어하시는거 넘 귀여워서 댓글 달고 가용...💖지나칠 수가 없따😍
Jenn! I can clearly tell that your korean improved A LOT!!! I have no credits for that but as a fellow korean i am so so SO PROUD💜
Ahhhh!! Canada looks so much fun. I also agree with you that traveling alone has a way of feels. I always come back feeling stronger!!!
Omg i like her Korean accent!!! So so adorable! I keep watching beginning of the videooooo. Love you!!