To Be Willing to Not Get it Right

This podcast conversation explores the theme of embracing imperfection and the importance of being willing to not get it right. Life Coaches, Laurel Boivin and Laurel Holland, discuss how this shift in mindset can lead to a more fulfilling life, freeing oneself from self-imposed burdens and societal expectations. They share personal anecdotes,as well as emphasizing the role of self-identity in perfectionism and the need to question and challenge personal rules and assumptions. The discussion highlights the importance of mastery through repeated attempts and the benefits of adopting a "perfect mess" approach to life.
3:00 Laurel and Laurel explore the idea of self-identity as a limiting factor in being willing to overcome perfectionism or the need to control things
5:30 Exploring how a willingness to not be right frees one to be able to move forward in life more freely and experiment with new ways of doing things
7:00 Being different in a role without preconceived notions about how to do it "right" in order to more fully express oneself
8:30 Using this concept to support non-judgmental thinking
9:10 Laurel Holland shares examples of "not getting it right in her life"
10:30 A discussion of being groomed to be "right" in different environments
12:30 The fear of appearing imperfect or messy that keeps one from trying new things
17:00 Laurel and Laurel share personal examples of how to practice being messy or imperfect, and explore the risks of doing this
19:10 Reflecting about what you want from life and what's holding you back and how it may connect with not being willing to get it "wrong" or messy.
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Host/Cohost/Guest Info
Guiding others to become effective leaders of their own lives, Laurel Holland has been on a journey of awakening and transformation throughout her life. Writing about inner work, Laurel has authored four books, including Crossroads and Love’s 8 Laws. Her books, Live Your Inner Power, the Journal, and Courageous Woman, introduce, share, and explore the eight foundational practices for creating transformation from the inside out. Through her books, programs, and innovative talks, Laurel’s great desire is to lift others up and courageously step into the life they came here to live.
Laurel Boivin, life coach and founder of Flux+Flow Professional Coaching, helps high-performing professionals overcome overwhelm and disillusionment by increasing self-awareness and shifting perspective to improve performance, increase personal contribution, and experience a greater sense of fulfillment and purpose. Laurel began coaching after a 30-year corporate career. A Reiki master and yoga practitioner, collector of sea glass and antiques, she lives in New Hampshire and summers in Maine.