39 and Unmarried: The Desperation of China's 'Leftover Women'

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  • @andreysivchuk4122
    @andreysivchuk4122 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Can you believe? in her 40s she still want to find somebody who's going to make HER happy. What are arrogant person. She still think that she is the center of universe. Why not to say that I want to get married to make my husband happy? Run from woomen like this. Still did not learn her lesson.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Princess Syndrome indeed

    • @oanalesnic79
      @oanalesnic79 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You should run from anyone, no matter their age, who is not happy with their own company.

  • @dawudcox7834
    @dawudcox7834 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You still don't get it lady. Don't want a rural guy, don't want a man with kids.
    You have a PhD, well it doesn't keep you company, it's not a companion.
    You'll have to make a choice if it's not already too late. Do you want to be alone or do you want a relationship.
    If you're PhD and lifestyle is worth being alone then that is your choice. Don't complain.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well that’s not how it usually plays out in a romance movie.

  • @tonyle876
    @tonyle876 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The chick with a pHd still cant comprehend that men don't want pHd boss chicks. Hope someday her pHd certificate will help her to find happiness.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Higher education doesn't automatically make someone self-aware

    • @cheetavontiebolt9971
      @cheetavontiebolt9971 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because you want a slave you can control

  • @oanalesnic79
    @oanalesnic79 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The loneliness experienced in the company of a man who is not compatible with you is far more profound than being alone. When you're alone, you can find peace, unburdened by the need to endure conversations that fail to nourish your mind or soul. In solitude, there is freedom, but in incompatible company, there is emptiness.

  • @aig5429
    @aig5429 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a man I literally don't care about "education". I met my sweetheart in the Dominican republic because she accepts me and loves me. Yes I make plenty of money but thats for me and she appreciates that although im not throwing it away. Rich, educated or even poor uneducated men. They do not care about a woman's financial status or educational status. Although it might be a plus but it's definitely not everything, especially not for me

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Education holds significant value in China, particularly because the average income is much lower compared to the US. For young families, a dual income can provide a substantial financial boost, especially among working-class and middle-class men striving for success. However, for the top 10% of men, education and income matter far less-they prioritize other factors instead.

  • @pendekarlautbiru
    @pendekarlautbiru หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "I just want someone who treats me well." Your younger self doesn't say so.

  • @redluck01
    @redluck01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The six foot tall is very hard to get in China. I think only about 15% of men globally at that.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep. The average height for 19-year-old males in China is approximately 175.66 cm (5 ft 9 in) as of 2020. It is estimated that only about 2-5% of the male population in China may be over 6 feet tall.

    • @MGTOWTheRationalMensClub
      @MGTOWTheRationalMensClub หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Chinese men 169.6 cm (5 ft 7 in), women 158.9 cm (5 ft 2+1⁄2 in)

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@MGTOWTheRationalMensClub Correct, that's the national average

    • @purpleknight-z3n
      @purpleknight-z3n หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Say same . Nothing wrong person with 5"7,5"10",5"11.
      Like short women have 5"4,5"7.

    • @purpleknight-z3n
      @purpleknight-z3n หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙄 no wonder.

  • @ricebunnymoon4624
    @ricebunnymoon4624 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    A dowry, in Mexico u just get together and become a couple.

    • @jasonreviews
      @jasonreviews 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      there are chinese women in mexico. they speak spanish. panama chinese speak spanish.

  • @asnpride
    @asnpride 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    "High quality." 😂

  • @asolaris6470
    @asolaris6470 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When she said, "OLDER," I know not to entertain whatever she says from that point on.

  • @thehun1023
    @thehun1023 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like the 2nd woman from the video. She is more realistic. I would like to meet her.

  • @TuyenPham-bt6yx
    @TuyenPham-bt6yx 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    What these lost women need in their lives are movie directors and producers. Then, they can set those women up with the "Mr. Right" characters from the movie screens.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      That's exactly how they ended up here, living in the fantasy

  • @andrewlin6136
    @andrewlin6136 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You ladies are so stubborn, demanding your bride price

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Modern women trying not to objectify themselves

  • @chiefjack8011
    @chiefjack8011 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Majority billionaires are shorter figure

  • @chiefjack8011
    @chiefjack8011 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Handsome.. tall.. educated.. all are useless unless he is good, hard working, family oriented and nice.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Media and specifically k-drama is to blame for Chinese girls expecting a handsome, tall partner

    • @cheetavontiebolt9971
      @cheetavontiebolt9971 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I say go for both

  • @jamesteo6395
    @jamesteo6395 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I need wife, but China women need man.

  • @leoniscsem
    @leoniscsem 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There's something odd. I have seen the same person in another short video, talking about her expectations for a dowry. It seems the majority of these videos actually come from chinese matchmakers trying to influence a wider audience in order to promote their services.

    • @ChinaBTH
      @ChinaBTH  20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The element of business interest is certainly true. However, the rise of these kinds of businesses fundamentally stems from a significant demand for men, coupled with women's anxiety about finding them

  • @mrbbkk
    @mrbbkk หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    39 is not high quality. Med at best Get off your pedestal.

    • @cheetavontiebolt9971
      @cheetavontiebolt9971 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Age does not determine quality

    • @erosnectar5481
      @erosnectar5481 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Have you seen your self? 😂😂😂 pot meet kettle! 😂

  • @cheetavontiebolt9971
    @cheetavontiebolt9971 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Some women are bette offsingle most marriages are horrible

    • @frederick1776
      @frederick1776 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      because, in most cases, the women have no wife skills; they just want to be married.

  • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
    @BobbyLoo-jr8ys 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    keep on waiting...for better deals. ha

  • @carloso1886
    @carloso1886 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    MONEY THING

  • @PositiveVibesOnly82
    @PositiveVibesOnly82 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    IA 😂