Captain Anshuman Singh's Parents Question "Next Of Kin" Rule, Demand Its Revision | UPSC
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In this video, we discuss the concerns raised by Captain Anshuman Singh's parents regarding the "Next Of Kin" rule. They are demanding its revision, highlighting the need for changes in this policy. Understand the implications of the current rule and why this demand for revision is gaining attention. This video also explores how this issue impacts the armed forces and their families.
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While filing NOK it must be made compulsory that 66% must go to wife and 33% to parents. Now we have option but it's not compulsory.
Agar ladke ki sadi ke bat 1st kin wife nai hota fir ledki ke sadi ke bat first kin husband se leke ghar ,Paribar sab kyun badaljata hai
I think After marriage there should be 70:30 next to kin ✔
Rule should be amended. Because nowadays if a woman become widow she later marry someone else.when parents lost their only child it is very pathetic for their whole life.
No women rights are important
Bring 100% reservation to women
@@sup_reme732bro bring it to 200%
What? 😂 @@sup_reme732
Ya, but for single son only should be made
azadi ke 75 saal bad bhi aise case dekhne ko milte hain 😑
Imagine the profound sorrow that soldier's soul must feel upon witnessing this from heaven...
Exactly
He would regret
Exactly my point.
Ladka hona aasan nhi 😢
😢
Wife can get another husband but parents can't get another son.
wo already h unke pass
Kiske pas hai??@@AM-nx2iw
Reality hurts 😢
unko mil bhi gya hoga australia mai
Deep word bhai ❤
Who gave birth : Parents
Who took effort to educate : Parents
Who scrafices everything for dream of the child : Parents
Who slept empty stomach for cause of their child's aspirations : parents
Who takes Kirti Chakra: Wife that just married 5months ago
Who takes money :Wife
Who takes Pension : Wife
🙏🙏..
They received 64 lakh from govt unpad..
Indians are more feminists tha all countries
Parents should receive. Only legecy of Captain is with parents. She has no child
@@athsatharva4487 do u u even understand how it will feel if someone runs away with their son's last memory u feminists are just pathetic
Right
Anshuman was her husband for the 5 months only and son for 26 years' wife can get remarried but what about parents who raised him" Reform is the necessity...
@xaid6820 I agree! Parents deserve all the glory of sacrifice NOT short-term wife
Not agreed
right
I think there should be a middle ground on both party wife and parents
@@bhartihema8436 Gend me daal lo apna disagreement
50% to parents
50% to wife ( if wife has no child & never married again)
Or
40% to parents
60% to wife ( if wife has child)
This is solution
I agree
if any child .. then 70% wifi 30 % parent
Not at all..
80% to parents
20% to wife.. and marriage should not be older than 2 years
if pregnant and willing to raise child then 60:40
if aborted pregnancy then 100:0
if remarry then 100:0
parents are allowed to file a case against it if abortion or remarry.
50% to wife if marriage older than 5 years and have child.
@@kapil_verma35 bachche paalne me paise lagte hai.
Solution is nominee declaration like bank...
Atleast kirti chakra should be given to the parents
Widow ko milna chahiye
Agar shadi karti hai to koi jarurat nahi hai
Independent women hai
Educated hai khud kama sakti hai or uska Naya husband bhi
Aur biwi ko vidhwa ka tag aur SaaS sasur ki gulamee...wah...kya sooch hey...sick
Bhai kirti chakra or money parents ko milna chahiye vo ( wife) sirf drama kr rhi hai money ke liye 😢
@@deepakmakhija932lode dusri Saadi krke bache kr legi to parents dekhkar taali bjayenge ky?? Saara rules bs women ke hi favour mei le loge tum log
@@deepakmakhija932 Or biwi sab kuch leke chala jaye or parents jinhone use bada kiya uski bete ko wo log bhik mange ?
Parents ka koi hak nehi apne khud ki bete ki upar kya soch hai bahi teri. Or tujhe kis angle se lag raha hai ye widow rahe ga or saas ki gulami kare ga. Saadi karke ghar basa kar mast life jiyega. Bechara parents ka hoga use kon dekhe ga . Dono taraf se sochna chahiye. Parents bechara hai uska koi option nehi, or biwi ka to option hai or o option choose bhi karega. Lagta hai tui parent less hai isiliye asa bol raha hai, 😢😢😢
10:00 Vir chakra
सारा संसार माता पिता के चरणों में होता है ❤
Same things happening with many families of soldiers... i know personally the Major Ashish Dhonchak and his family ....the exact same thing is happening to his family also
Thus is all karm
Reality hai bhai civilians bhut kharab hote army air force Jo bhi officer junior shadi karta hai aj ke time bhut log exploit krne ki koshish krte hai
That Koul lady was something high on
.
What happens pls tell me
His wife is literally an example of for our youth to think twice or thrice before marrying a women 😊
Yes
you should marry a man then.
Yes, that's why our parents always choose best for us
@@Thecreativethinker12 Ofcourse I am 24 Unmarried And I Agree With you
Please bro.. They have two more sons and they received 64 lack from govt.. The father receive pension every month they have two more sons....they want share from daughter in laws money.. Please reserch before you speek
Its the fault of the individual while filling NOK, He could divide percentage 66% for Wife and 33% for parents. There is obtion of this things not the fault of the system.
66% agar wo widow hai
Agar shaadi karegi to 20%
Independent women hai khud kama sakti hai or uska Naya husband bhi kama hi raha hoga
@@Xyz-wr6yj options 66 & 33 ka hai be c
Option is of any percentage, soldier can decide, ignorant fool...@@MonuKumar-mr5yk kuch pata ha ni hate felao bs
NOK WILL BE WIFE ONLY...
Option 50-50 ka bhi hota h C@@MonuKumar-mr5yk
Not just this case, in every case a spouse always has the first right over the belongings, money and property of the deceased spouse. Irony is if a female employee dies and her spouse is also dead then her property will goes to her in-laws, not to her parents. These rules need to be changed.
Esa kuch bhi hota he kya?
@@ChetanSharma-mc5kr yes
She has been his wife for 5 months and they have been his parents for 26 years.
very true…yahan koi bhi aisi baate nahi kar raha ki us ladki ne kya khoya ….kisi aur ke saath shadi kar lene se jindagi pahle jaisi kabhi nahi hogi …aur kisi se shadi karna koi kapre badalne jaisa nahi h ki jab man kare badal lo
@@anuradhanarayan5611 ladki ko dusra husband mil jaega but parents ko dusra beta nhi milega.
She is very young and can remarry but the parents won't get their lost son back. Let her take the money if she wants but Kirti Chakra should be given back to his parents.
Why
Remarry toh saare papa dhul gaye??
Hadd hai, uski life main kitna bada jhatka aaya hai bhai.
I agree ki parents should get.something but she also deserves a part of it.
Woh yeh sochkar thodi shadi Kari thi ki 5mahine ki hai, she wanted to spend the rest of her.life.with him
Parents ko 65 lakhs mil gaye hai aur wife ko 85 lakhs. Compensation sabko Mila hai
it should not be her money to begin with. parents made him who he is with all their life with so much sacrifice & not a 5 months wife
@@SuplexCityF5 Why not? So you are saying that a widow of a soldier must not get anything? Are you serious. By the way they had an 8 years old relationship and she married him while knowing all the risks associated with army. She must be compensated. Tum khud hi socho ki tumhari behen ke sasural Wale sab kuchh le le aur tumhari vidhwa behen ko kuchh na mile. Kya ye jayaz hai?
Aur ek aur baat Anshuman Singh ji ne apni wife ko NOK niyukt Kiya tha na ki apne ma baap ko. Sab kuchh niyam ke matabiq hi hua hai.
She's his wife 👰 she didn't told thaat she marrying for five months only she married him for whole life
विचारणीय बात सिर्फ यही है कि *सैनिक* को सेना में भेजने का निर्णय माता पिता का होता है न कि पत्नी का...
इसीलिए उनका प्राथमिक अधिकार होना चाहिए बेटे के सम्मन या पुरस्कार पर...
नियमों में बदलाव अवश्य होना चाहिए।❤❤😢😢😢
To unke bap se puchiye unke nok me kiska nam h??
@@niharikatripathi1591usne apne wife pe trust Kiya yahi uski galti hui
@@ManishaAutade-ib8bckaisi galti?
she is gold digger now living in Australia
Not 5 months doggy, 8 year's long distance relationship
Ap pura inke parents ka video dekho itna wahiyat chiz inke parents ne is ladki ke bare m bola h apko khud sharam aa jayega inko apne baki bacho ke liye Paisa cahiye even yeh log is ladki ki shadi apne dusare beta se karwana cahte h usko force kar rahe h yeh log
@@mamta9624 ye galat hai.
@@karimganjfilmindustry2474 see the girl is hardly 25 yrs, she can marry again and start new.
@@mamta9624 I'm also from army family and I respect them very much but first time in my life I'm seeing these type of people who are so much greedy that they are making mockery of their son's supreme sacrifice by giving such interviews.
Parents have one more Son n a Daughter.
Who will help widow?
It's her choice if she is getting married again
Parents will never get another son. She will get as many husbands she wants
to fir naukri aur shadi se bacha ke rakhna chahiye aiso ko
apne bete ko
As a mature human being , ye aabhi ek tarfa story samne aayi hai .
Kirti ke side ki bhi story suun kar hi iss topic par rai depayenge .
There should be a will system... Soldier have ever right to choose how much he wants to give his loved ones .
People are unnecessary getting emotional, without listening to both parties how can someone judge who is right who is wrong.
@@Anjali3196S that's what I am saying.
Parents have the first right😢
Both have equal rights.
@D.2601 wife 5 months parents 26 yr
@@D.2601then you're trying to say woman are not independent enough to earn ??
100 people have liked this comment and only 1 reply, that too of yours
It means almost 100% people support parents @@D.2601
Ya greedy parents, they got money still saying they got nothing
She will remarry very shortly, what about parents????
wow u are quick to assume that...
@@Xyz-wr6yju quickly assume that she will not marry again....
@@Xyz-wr6yjshe will definitely marry again lol but look at his parents got nothing
@@manjeetchoudhary7115😂😂😂😂😂
@@Xyz-wr6yjshe will within 2 years write it down in your diary.. I saw her in interview she is over being smart
सरकार कूल बनने के चक्कर मे महिलाओं को आवश्यकता से अधिक अधिकार दे दी है
Sahi hai bhai
100 true❤
Sahi bola yr
❤❤
For Increase vote Bank. 🤣🤣
He has given his supreme sacrifice ,he will not be happy by seeing this, they should resolve this matter at home instead going publicly 😢.a
Un necessary mess created by these guys. Martyrs memory is being tainted in all this
@@richanigam2097 totally agree
@@richanigam2097 unhone kiya he but wife and her parents are not doing same they just ignoring and blocking the call of her in laws
@@sitalmishra7384 isn't it one sided story, just because she doesn't want to go public we should not assume things let alone hating on a women who just got widowed...
@@sitalmishra7384because in laws told bshu to marry their other son for the 35 lakh money... how can she not block them
Many women marries because of the greed of men Govt jobs.
Most (this is reality) 95%
Thik bhi hai ,
Har koi better partner chahte hain fir chahe vo ladki ko ya ladka
@@Prince-ho8ms ladka pyaar mai andha hoke gawar ladki se bhi shaadi krne ko ready hai but girl nhi
An educated girl will never ever ever marry a uneducated man out of love......even if she marries she will ditch him for sure....@Prince-ho8ms
@@I.K.illedThatBeardGuyjo gawar chahta h....usko tharki bolte h
She will get another husband but she will keep his ex husband's all the medals , pension and financial assistance . How disgusting 🤬🤬🤬
They already have 2 more kids but they want all the money and were even ready to marry the widow off to their younger son to keep all the money. How disgusting 🤬
Noo, most of time parents harass kids and their spouses. After marriage Spouse should be number one priority! The rule is correct.
What about parents
And what is source of your false claims
@@ManishaAutade-ib8bclol 😂 pick me
Sir Anshuman should be crying to see all this from heaven parents and wife both are right and both are wrong simple as that😢
भारत सरकार को इस पर गहरी से विचार करने की आवश्यकता है।
इस नियम के कारण 50% से ज्यादा हमारे veer सैनिक के पारिवारिक सम्बंध बाधित रहते हैं। पत्नी को अत्याधिक प्राथमिकता देने के कारण पत्नी द्वारा इसका अनुचीत उपयोग बेटे मां या परिवार से दूरी एवम सैनिक आचरण में भी परिवर्तन की जरूरत है जितना एक आर्मी ऑफिसर अपने पत्नी को अहमियत देते है उतना अपने पेरेंट्स को नही देते यह एक कड़वा सच है ।
एक पत्नी के पास दूसरे शादी का रास्ता होता है मां पिता के पास नही। बेटे को सेना में वेजने का निर्णय मां पिता का होता है न की पत्नी का।
है पत्नी एक अभिनय अंग है पर अत्याधिक प्राथमिकता देकर समाज में नए प्रकार के माता पिता के साथ असजता का वातावरण बन रहा है।
Marriage is such a institution. Parents have to take backseat.
Family matter h chomu 😂
Kl ko tu khega govt wife bhi dundh ke de
@@NamrataGawai28 बिलकुल सही पर गाड़ी से बाहर कर देना या 2 sheeter गाड़ी पे चलना ये सही है क्या जो आज किया जा रहा है। शादी के बाद पत्नी सबसे पहले गाड़ी को ही 2 sheeter बना देती हैं की किसी की जगह ही न रहे ये तो गलत है न
We have given 10 years for Govt ..but Still no use .
Reform is compulsory 😢😢😢😢
Answer: C) Vir Chakra
Loving a person means it should be loving and caring their families also 😒😔🤷♂️
Aise saas-sasur ke sath rehke kya karegi jinne usse duniya se samne zaleel karne se pehle 2 baar nahi socha.
Parents suffer more than wife as they have no future and support 😢
But they have a doctor son and a doctor daughter are they not enough???
And also got 65 lakhs . And also father is retired army man so he must be getting good pension.
@@moooncloverfir kya hua patni khaali haath aayi thi apne ghr se
To khali haath jaana hota he
30% goes to parents, their parents are making mockery of son's sacrifice... Smriti deserve everything.. shaadi ke 5 mahine hue the relationship ko nahi.. she is widow within 5 months, she will get remarried but her husband will not come back..
This rule of government is very unfair
I'm also from defence, all the previlliages are given to wife and for parents who nurture their children and mek him that much efficient that he could gaurd his country are not given anything which is very unfair
@@pradeepthapliyal9115 system hi kharab hai Desh ka 😑🤌🏻
NOK is defined by soldier, they have option to give 66 to wife and 33 to parents, most do not choose in case if they have children, so its not system.
@vijay thik bhi toh tumhe h karna hoga bro
@@404-user-not-found abe system me tu bhi toh aata he... sense wali baat bhi Kiya kar....aam Janta kya karegi jab law hi hamare haath me nahi he....jo bhi kar sakti hai vo government hi kar sakti hai....common sense use kar 🤌🏻
@@vijay_attitude143 meri h galti hai bhai... Bhul gya tha youtube pe aadhe gyan ke log jayada hai
I have also witnessed same case... Girl took all money and returned to her parents.
Aur je v possible hai ki saas sasur poore paise hadpne k chakkr mein usko maar de.....fr vo kya kare
Woh toh safe place pe jayegi
पुत्र पर माता-पिता का पहले अधिकार होता है न्याय मिलना चाहिए
If this happens to your father then
Saadi ke patni ka pahile adhikar hai
Shame on her !
All benifits and money are given as per the soldier's nomination and will which is being updated time to time by the soldiers during their service. It's not the fault of policy. Defense and govt money goes to the nominated personal only. No matter it's spouse or parents or children. There is provision of nominating more than one person and different different share of benifits which is purely a choice of solders itself.
The govt should enact a law asap to ensure justice for Anshuman's parents because they have lost their child forever.
Its the time to change the rules.... parents should be given equal right
No doubt rules should be changed but nominations should be filled carefully to avert this kind of embarrassment , kirti chakra toh bahana hai nazar toh gallantry amount pe hain aur jisse tarha media mein baata horahi bohot disgraceful hai parents ko isse bachna chahiye tha Wasa bhi lop , defence minister sab se mulakat hua he tha
exactly, its not even been a month.
Bhai Jo L.O.P. Milne Gya tha uski fan h Yh Mata ji Baaki khud taare jorh lo.. Vo pehle v Agniveer k ghr pe gya jhooth felaya
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Suna h 2 bête aur bhi h Aunty ji k unko chahiye Kya paise ?!
@@amitsharma1337 haan bass aapna roti seek raha saab
Exactly…she married uske bache hote toh why should she not take 8 yr relationship now she become widow in her 25s ..itna hi kriti chakra chaiye toh ghar jake mil mil lena chaiye tha
@@sarikasingh1036MIL and wife were present at medal recieving and MIL said she didnt get chance to tak medal in hand
Parents deserve better
Both sides have lost the same person who they loved them dearly. But morally, it should be given to his parents by her. But if you want to bring constitution into every small act we do, then it becomes quite difficult for judicial every day.
शाहिद के मां बाप और बीवी सब पैसों के ही भूखे हैं पैसा और इनाम सभी को चाहिए अंशुमान किसी को भी नहीं चाहिए 😌😌😌 वाह रे दुनिया 😌😌😌 आज शहीद की आत्मा रोती होगी कि उसके जाने का गम किसी को नहीं है बल्कि उसके नाम पर ज्यादा से ज्यादा पैसे और पुरस्कार पानी की होड़ सभी को है
@@samriddhiyadav8786 bilkul sahi bat .
Bhai mere ab unke parent ka sath pesa hi dega ,log nhi dege ,log aayge dikhava ke liye , budhape me kon sath dega ma bap ?
@@l.saarya3334 ❤
Tu kya unke parents ki seva karne jayoge
Financial assistance toh chahiye hi...kisi ko b....
How weird. Just few days ago, people were defending her on social media, against Muslims who commented vile things about her.
Now she has done this, and people's view on her has changed. This is the age of social media.
Its not weird it's correct decision of people,
@@achu10mech41 The weird part is that, how perception could change so soon nowadays. I am not juding the decisions.
If people is defending someone for something, then doesn't mean, they will support for everythings, people mindset changes as weather @@DestroyerWolfFenrir
People just saying wrong to the wrong. If she does justice to her in laws in future, people will appreciate her work again
@@praloysarkar8254how do you know the way her inlaws are treating her?? People are just barking without knowing the both sides of story
इसी तरह से प्रयागराज में उमेश पाल केस में हुआ शहीद पुलिस कर्मी की पत्नी सब कुछ लेकर चली जाती है बूढे माँ बाप को छोड़कर
अनाथ और विधवा दो शब्द हैं जो दर्द का वर्णन कर सकते हैं,
लेकिन कुछ दर्द का वर्णन नहीं किया जा सकता है, इसलिए उन माता-पिता के लिए कोई शब्द नहीं हैं जो अपने बच्चों को खो देते हैं।
उस दर्द के लिए कोई शब्द नहीं हैं. शबद कोश ऐसे दर्द के सामने गूंगे हो जाते हैं और हाथ खड़े कर देते हैं। ........
Parents ko mila 🔔🔔🔔
it's harsh reality of our society that's not only restrictionist to army but even other parents felling the same😢😢
In old age who will look and take care to parents. So financial assistance should be divided into two. 50% to wife and 50% to parents. .
In case wife re marries the pension should be 100% given to his parents only
@@anitasharmajyhi rule H present me
@@antarkanwar4130nahi hai. Waise parents ko 65 lakhs milenge aur father khud retired army man hai aur unka dusra beta doctor hai.
Jo log ye sochte hain ki patni ko dusra sathi milega..ye itna asan nehin hai....kuchh v pehle jesa nehin rehta... ..
एक मां बाप बच्चे को पैदा करें पाले पोस बड़ा करें अपना सर्वोच्च निछावर करें उस बच्चे पे , बाद में उसी बच्चे की शादी हो जाने पे थोड़े समय पहले आई उसकी पत्नी एक झटके में उसकी मां बाप को अनाथ कर देते हैं बहुत दुर्भाग्य की बात है 😢😢
Now, literally understand that line ❤" Ye duniya gorakh dhanda hei sab jag maya me andha hei "❤❤
जिस अंधे ने प्रभु को देखा नही वो, रूप बताना क्या जाने😊
There should be work a special committee to study such cases and make a proper proposal of financial or other assistance ❤
If children do something good it's parents responsible and children do bad also parents responsible so it award should be given to parents
Anshuman ji ki parents ko v 100% justice milna chaihe.
I support the parents they are absolutely right there are many loopholes
हम लोग भी उनकी wife को एक secrifice की मूरत की तरफ हर तरफ शेयर करते हैं उनके perents की क्यों नही।
हम as a socity इन सब परिस्थिति के कारण हैं
Right 😢
Feminism ☹️
This is the rule and everyone should accept this. Country runs on laws not some emotions.
Once upon a time parents used to feel sad if a girl is born in their family.
Now a days parents are feeling sad if a boy is born in their family.
Everything is quite opposite now .
This is not justice, this is pure revenge.
Mark my words brother
All these things happening will not be tolerated forever
Time will come when men will have such laws that living of women will get really hard
Mark my words this will happen, the level of rise of feminism has happened currently has destroyed many people's lives , they won't forget and tolerate....
A huge revolution is gonna come for men laws, and nobody will be able to act
Do not exaggerate
@@alicelalhrietzing1674 yeah pseudo feminists like you think it's exaggeration.
Ain’t nobody getting sad on birthing a son 😂
@@alicelalhrietzing1674truth always hurts
पत्नी को दोबारा पति मिल जाएगा मगर माँ, बाप को बेटा दोबारा नहीं मिलेगा।
Ha parents ko paisa to pura khud chahiye
Daughter in law should understand... memories nhi Leni jani chahiye 😢
Most of the people here says she can get another husband, but did she get her life back what she lost at her Yong age, she should give more preference.
This law does not considered parents condition can be derogatory to in many case it assume on an average case spouse condition become derogatory so all things are given to them but it doesn't mean that parents doesn't need any thing.some portion of assistance must be given to them on basis of their condition (income, property).we should together demand for urgent change in this law.
A young lady lost her brave husband. And Parents too.. Both should get equal respect.
Actually it's real issue regardless of party government needs to solve this issue
10:09 option:-C , vir chakra is the right answer sir 🙏
50 50 milna chahiye baat khatam
Kahe ko dusri jagah sadi karni he fir bhai Aisa nai hona chahiye
@@UNmi.It's constitution right to marry anyone want
@@UNmi.Bilkul shi bol rhe bhai....gold diggers se shadi kv ni krna chahie🗿
50/50 milna chahiye
After a soldier losing his life for nation , his parents or spouse would be awarded with medal and money.
Within this , the govt should bring new law or rule which can allocate the both in a satisfyiable manner.
शहीद की पत्नी अगर लड़के के घर रहती है तब उसको 50% पेंशन मिलनी चाहिये | 50% माता पिता को मिलनी चाहिये.
अगर घर पर ना रहे तो कुछ नही मिलना चाहिए |
क्योंकि सारा रोल माँ बाप का हैं |
1:44 Video Start
Thank you so much......😅
Legal system is a curse.
A year ago, in odisha There is same case
THIS THING WILL NEGATIVELY IMPACT THE ASPIRANTs WHO WANT TO JOIN THE ARMY BCZ SEEING YOUR PARENTS LIKE THIS AFTER YOU MARTYER FOR NATION IS KIND A HEART BREAKING
@@ashishku.pradhan1047bro option is already present to divide the NOK benefits between parents and wife, so it's not systems fault
@@Xyz-wr6yj
It's fault of sir's wife that they trusted her for NOK
Some govt rules are ridiculous, they consider only wife & sons as a family of a person, same thing in all govt organizations, all benifits like travel pass, medical facilities, this are only available to these members, why parents are not considered as a family, Really constructive reforms are required 🙏🙏🙏
✅Rule yeh hona chahiye
Rule 1 : agar ladki bina next marriage ke ladke ke parents ke sath rehti toh wo NOK rhegi.
Rule 2 : Agar wo ladke ke parents ke sath na rehkar dusri marriage karvati toh NOK parents honge....
✅✅
I want to tell that Brave lady...plz respect her parents in laws... this time is not for doing like this.... obviously thay more grives than any other person....but by the memories of their son thay wanted to feel proud....this is my humble request to you....if you are watching my comments....kindly be humble.... money is nothing...
9:48 🇶 *_Which of the following Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of the enemy ?_*
✅ Answer:- *[🇨] Vir Chakra*
*📝 NOTES:- ♦️♦️*
🔴 The following Indian gallantry awards are given for acts of bravery in the *face of the enemy:*
🟣 *Param Vir Chakra:* The highest military award in India, given for conspicuous bravery, daring acts of valor, or self-sacrifice in the presence of the enemy.
🟣 *Maha Vir Chakra:* The second-highest military decoration, given for conspicuous gallantry in the presence of the enemy.
🟣 *Vir Chakra:* Given for acts of gallantry in the presence of the enemy.
🔴 *The Ashoka Chakra, Kirti Chakra, and Shaurya Chakra* are gallantry awards given for acts of bravery *outside of the face of the enemy.*
🟣 *Ashoka Chakra:* India's highest peacetime military decoration, awarded for self-sacrifice, courageous action, or valor away from the battlefield. It's open to both military and civilians, and can be awarded posthumously.
🟣 *Kirti Chakra:* Awarded for conspicuous gallantry outside of the face of the enemy.
🟣 *Shaurya Chakra:* The third highest peacetime decoration of India, awarded for gallantry outside of the face of the enemy. It's considered the peacetime equivalent of the Vir Chakra.
*_जय हिन्द | | जय भारत | | वंदेमातरम् | |_* 🇮🇳 🙏🏽
Great 👍
There is an urgent need for the amendment of this rule.
Yess this law should be Changed. Govt. Should amend It as soon as possible.
Parents took care of everything feeding school college clothes house spending 50 percent of their life sacrificing everything hence there pain and sacrifice is much larger and should have a larger right towards the award and other things
And rule should be amended in especially for cases like these its just wrong
२३ साल माँ बाप ने पढ़ा लिखा कर बड़ा किया वह उसके नजदीकी रिश्तेदार नहीं लेकिन ५ महीने पहिले जिससे शादी हुई वह नजदीकी रिश्तेदार है , क्या बकवास है। और क्या उस लड़की में भी कोई मोरल वैल्यू नहीं की उसके पेरेंट्स को वह कुछ भी नहीं दे रही। हद है की किसी वीरगति को प्राप्त हुए हमारे जवान के पेरेंट्स को इतने दुःख में यह सब और सहना पड़ रहा है। 😡😡😡
Nok रूल मैं सुधार की जरूरत है । जिन्होंने अपने बच्चे का भविष्य बनाया आज उनके लिए कानून मैं कोई व्यवस्था ही नहीं हैं ये गलत है। सब कुछ माता पिता को मिलना चाहिए । एक साल पहले जो आया उसको सरकार ने सबकुछ दे दिया और जिन्होंने जिसको 27 साल में जो बनाया उनके लिए कानून में कोई प्रावधान ही नहीं है ये कैसा कानून हैं ।
Just talk on reality and reality is that after the death of husband no one should take responsibility for that woman and their child .
Hamare pass ek bhi essa example nahi hai jab after death of husband his widow should be leaving peacefully..
Ya to usse sari property le li
jati hai and after sometime we should find such news that she is died due to cylinder blast and any other such reason.
So just imagine yourself in this condition.....or vesse bhi agar vo again marriage karti hai tab uski jo bhi salary and pention hai wo apne aap hi band kardi jati hai by Army (government).
exactly why people vilifying the wife. The parents are creating drama, they want money in exchange of their son's demise, pathetic! They already get pension have 2 more children working as doctors, life set hai. Indian men especially in army are know to give half or more of their salary to their parents and woman generally never has any rights on money thanks to patriarchy, though i would hope this is changing. Money could've been shared had Capt's parents were struggling but this isn't the case they are well of. A widow's life is full of struggle in indian society money is the bare minimum that is given. Yes she can marry at that point the decision should be brought to the table but not now!
@@Focused76 maybe in rural areas but in urban areas a widows life is normal especially if the widow comes from a well financial background .
@@Mira-pm3ni not in army the mjaority is from rural background if you know, also condiiton of women irrespective of finanical status is poor compared to men. There is lot of soical stigma attached to w widow
People here generalising everywomen whose husband are martyred but not all women are like these ...Some of them are not even getting enough to fulfill their family's daily living and what about children they have?
Just like men are generalised to form illogical women centric laws…….
Kirti chakra parents ko milna chaiye
There should be a rule , if the daughter in law doesn't stay with parents then the aid should be stopped by the govt.
मासूम चेहरा, इतिहास गहरा
Lalach see vari nari
पुत्र शोकम निरंतरम . No amount of compensation can compensate the loss of son.
I think govt makes rules like., when a person died then the total amount should be equally distrubute.. And pension given to wife.with a condition that his wife take responsibility for parents... But if wife get married with another person., the pension will be transfer to parents... Its my opinion
Option-C 👍
क्योंकि A,B,D शांति के समय में दिए जाते हैं
Jo log patni ko galat bata rahe h pahele unke parents ke karnamo ke bare m bhi jaan lo , kya kya bole the apni daughter in law ko , vo sare paise apne dusre baccho ki shadi ke liye maag rahe the aur daughter in law ko bola ki usnke dusre bete ke sath shadi kar le .
Unhone usase pucha tha force nhi kia, or agar aisa hota na to wo case file krte stuidty
Or haan agar mang b rhe to unka haq h ......agar parvat hoga to apko b pata hoga parivar me sbka ek dusre k prati daitwa hota h...
@@NJ-eg6ms karne ko bola tha , aur agar pucha bhi hota to ye kitni azeb baat hai 🤢, aur koi aise hi chor ke nahi jata kuch to baat Hui hogi jo aage samne aa jaegi , time ke sath sab pata chal jaega , aur ha , m bhi Manta hu ki jo money h vo 50-50 milna chaiye , parents ko bhi half milna chaiye sirf wife ko nahi .
@@NJ-eg6ms u are disgusting.. 1 month bhi nhi hua ha unki death ko, and they are saying marry his younger brother, they are greedy for money.
and NOK bharte time option hota ha officier ke pass to divide the money but most people choose this, to isme ladki ki kya galti.
Bot💀@@Xyz-wr6yj
Rules जो भी हों फिर भी माँ बाप का दुःख वाजिफ़ है ! जिसने इतने साल, दिल की धड़कन की तरह बच्चा पाला पोसा, पढ़ाया लिखाया, कितने त्याग किए होंगे उसके पास क्या रहा और जो कुछ महीने हुए घर मे आयी, जिसने कुछ भी नहीं किया, सारी glory वो ले गई! She was not with him even for a few months. How does she deserve all this? VERY CRUEL!
She will marry someone very soon and will forget Anshu.
She DOES NOT DESERVE THE KIRTI CHAKRA! The parents need to have it.
As an army aspirant, My parents represent me, not my future wife! If she wants benefits, she will have to take care of my parents!! And Yes everyone serving in armed forces should have term insurance, and make your parents nominees!!
Very unfortunate for the wife
@@eddardstark3272 wife is not a servent
Anyone who treats wife as servent doesn't deserve any wife
@@user-uj2tk2tv3z we all are servants! We serve the country in a way! I never said wives are servants, but that doesn't mean parents are disposable too!! If she wants benefits, she better take care of my parents! PERIOD!!!!
@@Peacelover174 how so? Doesn't matter, join armed forces first then we will talk about who is unfortunate, the wife getting benefits or parents getting abandoned in their old age!!!
@@eddardstark3272 you should ask wife for this thing before marrying
Parents should remain as NOK until and unless an army personnel himself changes the name. This should be the personal choice for the the personal.
If child 65 wife, 35 parents
If no child , 50 / 50
If child hai toh 100% wife ko milna chahiye aur mata pita ko pention dena chahiye
We must ask for women empowerment only after understanding it properly
Mard ko swarg main jane ke baad bhi shanti nahi milti.
I'm not supporting the spread of hatred against his wife but the parents should not be neglected!!! Contribution of parents is just immeasurable.... Both of them have the right to take the Kirti Chakra bt it's more prominent for the parents to take it.... after their end, the wife can take this.
After sometime she will marry other with 50 lakh rupee and parent have no old age support 😢
They have two other kids and the father himself was in the army, he gets pension.