Do not move it Owamie...those that want entertainment only can just skip these type of videos. We are here for all of it. Entertainment, life advice, yonke into.
@@cebisilemabaso8445 If your email address is not Gmail TH-cam tends to unsubscribe you. It also frustrates me when TH-cam purges subscribers from my channel🥺
@@tshepangmoyo9139 Work had me pinned down and I missed being here so much. However, I did mention Owamie on a video of mine as one of my favorite TH-camrs. Thank you for asking about my wellbeing🙏🏾
A married man once said signs are always given we choose to ignore them, another married woman once said no one can pretend forever. Marriage cannot and will not change a person, l have seen people getting into relationships but ignoring the fact that they're not compatible. Compatability psychological, emotional, goals, ambitions, and compatibility in your school of thoughts is a determining factor. 🇿🇦
Ehhhhhhh I almost got into deep shit because I was starting to do that, but then because GOD loves me, he knocked me back to my senses, it's been a month now since I left that psychopath, I'm so happy hey best decision of my life. I was starting to question my own sanity because I was being emotionally abused and manipulated, hhhhaaaiiiiiii wancaba nami Somandla. I praise and thank GOD 🙏🏽🙌🏽
@@lady_sits nobody is worth you losing yourself. It’s time women realize that they are a prize and not the man. Genuine relationships just flow. Yaz’ men can force you to be in a relationship. Being forced into a relationship is the first sign of abuse. I was told I was in a relationship. I said no I’m not I don’t even know you. Then he started telling me everything about himself to speed up the process. He continued demanding that I was in a relationship with him. I said no we are not. Somehow he managed to introduce himself to my family and then I felt I had no choice, but to be in a relationship with the guy, but I hated everything about it. They were even planning lobola behind my back. It took so much strength to walk away from that. He abusive in all kinds of abusive ways you can think of except beating me. I thought my only way out was death. Kodwa the best day of my life was when he dumped me. I was so so so happy I felt such relief. Obviously I went through months of ptsd and I still do. Kodwa I was free. When he asked for us to resume our relationship, but was not willing to change, I said “no”. I worked so hard to convince him to go further his studies so far away from me (more than 1200km away), so I was not going back to that jail of a relationship. Got my family to try and convince me (I mean everybody, including relatives, yet I never met his relatives). I said “no I’m not going back” whilst picturing Madea saying she ain’t going back to jail from the movie “A mad black woman”... I mean I never even wanted to be with that guy. Just cause your peers are married doesn’t mean you also want to be married too. Besides he didn’t even know Britney Spears...
Well...I was in a relationship with someone who was a sweetheart in the beginning and started showing his true colours eventually yoh when I tell you I bekezeled thinking he'll come around phi😂😂Until one day I started asking myself questions gore "hun you are only 20 why are you doing this to yourself? What makes you think you won't find someone after this one? You say you believe in God do you think this the guy God chose for you?" Yoh I was introdpecting xem then I made the decision and I left
Hi Owami. Off topic I would like to thank you for wearing your blue lenses. I have light greenish eyes myself. My grandmother worked on farm and had two children as a result of sexual abuse from her farmer employer. My mom is just light skinned and straight hair and my dad is dark but myself, my eyes look exactly like those of that biological grandfather of mine. A lot I've had to explain that I'm black because my father is black to other black people and white people, killed my confidence, I ended up just always avoiding eye contact and close up pictures that show my eyes but last week I just decided to try and embrace it all.. thank you I'm gonna be bold like you
We really need to unlearn a lot of bad habits, women have become so desperate for love to a point we don't even value ourselves. We need to teach these men how to love and respect us.
You can't love another human being more than yourself, it's a weakness. Marriage is an assignment for God not a reward or achievement. God just looks for a son and a daughter who he can partner with in fulfilling a destiny. It's a partnership and a choice we choose to honor God. It even amzes me when I see someone being jealous at another person for being married, why would you be jealous for someone being sent on an errand before you?Marriage is more for God than we think it's for us and it's beautiful if the two do it right and my definition of marriage is two people who are happy coming together to share their happiness, is not our place/position to make people happy yes we all have pain of the past that turn manifests in marriages, but when identified one need to seek help🤞❤️❤️😊. Always remember there are certain void in the heart that only God can feel, you can move from one man/womn to the next and still not be happy, you ought to deal with you. I think South African women should stop being super women, we end up suffering, allow the man to pamper you even if his level of pampering is buying you chappies, it's OK, men feel confident when we let them do things and they do more and more, stop thinking you'll pay all the bills 🚮 Hai soka.
I love this content Owamie, PLEASE DONT MOVE it to paid content. I’m so glad to see you happy! What a journey, thank you for sharing these pearls of wisdom.
As someone who is still under 25 and obviously get in and out of relationships, I totally appreciate this kinda videos. We definitely go through a lot because of men but sometimes still chooses to ignore the red flags. I'm here with my pen and book taking notes, thank you very much 😊❤ Dated someone for 3years and towards the end of the 3rd year he impregnated someone . The sad thing is that I was so sure he's the one and never really saw any sign of cheating. Yoh mjolo ke fatuku😒
Let me give you unsolicited advise my dear girl, next time you date a guy don't do the deed with him for atleast 12 months, you get to know a person's true character when your emotions are not clouded by sexual ties. It's not gonna be easy when your attracted to him but it's worth it. Spend time outside of the bedroom developing a friendship, it works better that way. Hope this advise helps you in your journey of being found by a man of great integrity and character 😍
Ninjas we need to differentiate the different types of people: 1. Psychopath 2. Sociopath 3. Pathological lier 4. Narcissist Having a relationship or friendships with these types 🙆🏾♀️ oh my gosh, CUT, CUT, CUT!!!
Um not ashamed to say um single, do I get lonely sometimes? Yes. But um not going to love a man who doesn't respect me. I love myself too much. I rather be alone and happy.
Sis, I realized this after my break up , mom and aunts are single and they tried relationships in the past(marriage and boyfriends/partners but wasn't successful) peace is priceless
Finally the Join button, well done. I love the intro with the shout out, am definitely supporting. Thanx for this platform Owamie, u are really opening doors for us TH-camrs still trying to find our feet. Regarding the actual topic, some men is good at lieng who they really are and we women and up falling for the trap.
The red flag always there but loving and caring for someone makes you become denial cause you automatically believes that they also have the best interests and the feeling is mutual. Ninja nation ☕✍❤
@@puseletsomakua6521 Yes babe, they cannot do something we don't allow. The power lies with us, it is us that say yes when they ask us out, and it is also us that have to decide this is not for me so I'm out 🤞🏽
Your self-love and self-respect is .. 💯👌 Started subscribing to your channel now that you share more of your personal content which I can learn from. So keep up the good work🥰
That would be a sad day if you would move your life story videos from here. Actually Owamie that’s what interests me most about your videos, you sharing real life stories I find it more meaningful. By the way l love your music in the background who’s the artist and the song?
I am not a person who puts on a lot of make up and once had this guy who said he loves that about me in our first date then two three weeks down the line he said why don't I do my eyebrows and put on make up and be on point like his friends girlfriend. The next thing he started calling my phone and my chargers a problem he was always angry about something I didn't even stay 2 months in the relationship I left for fear for my life.
Good girl! Mina I use to put makeup on because I was excited to learn a new thing and doing it myself. So it was pretty much a hobby. He was so abusive in all kinds of ways. I remember him saying my expiry date is 35 yet he was so way over 35 so I said “that means you’ve been expired a long time”. He was fuming with anger and walked away. I didn’t even want to be with him. He was too superficial. He wouldn’t tell me his age, but he looked young I thought he was 4 years older at most. He used to say he deserves someone who looks like me and was willing to pay for my nails, makeup and clothes. I hated that idea, I buy my own things and I was raised not to depend on a man or expect a man to buy me stuff. Now this stranger comes into my life and wants me to stop working and just stay at home and look pretty. He even said he wants me to look and dress like the Bravo housewives and WAGS everyday... Needless to say I lost interest in my new hobby of wearing makeup everyday
I jst love u, if strong was a person it will be u shebobo. Anyway first time committing but being listing to ur videos for years. I feel like I knw u... 😅😉
@@jenj5152 krkrkrkrrr. We are here to hear all about her journey and in many ways it will help other people. Some are going thru the same or similar issues, some are still heading in that direction so her opening up her video for all to hear will touch more lives i think
GOD is talking to me ...theres this guy who is a narcissistic that Im still inlove with I dono why but I guess I suffer from Stockholm syndrome The Guy abused me badly mentally & emotionally till this day I cry at night and replay things in my head but imagine them differently but yah God will heal me and one day I can get counselling ....but From a video I just saw Tik Tok to this the message is Clear from God that this guy will destroy me & isnt right for me
There are man in relationships with wrong woman too, can we touch all areas if its general please. Let us educate both man and woman. We have alot of man out there that we woman use for materials only. We are not innocent neither. So let us touch all areas
Owamie I'm a broke student, 're kwele hle.joining fee 're se na le R10?. We NEED girl chats. I just want to know what drives women from seeing pink flags, to the point of marriage and even bringing kids into those pink flags??. Why do we have such passion or obsession over man THAT don't love us.
Some of us are here for the personal content but we are not monied enough to be paying for TH-cam paid content plus bundles. We will miss it but we move. Data in Malawi is not cheat. Being online is already a task.
what is a happy marriage vele? Nobody knows what a happy marriage looks like cos y'all married people never share what is going on in private...people pretend yes but married people are worse...People come across happy in public spaces and one minute later people are getting a divorce...claiming years of infidelity or abuse...Nobody really knows what a happy marriage looks like guys...
@@kcndaba8072 let's just say I'm still in my 20's and I've already reached a point where I'm okay with never getting married or getting a life partner...life gets lonely at times yes but being on my own has more upsides than the downsides i see with couples outchea...people are miserable just like i was miserable in my past relations....nomatter how great of a person you are...relationships take 2 to work...you both need to have your shit together...you both need to be respectful...faithful...mature and and and and...it's just about me or you imdividually....it's about the both of us
Queen Ninja, you're thee best and I really love you ❤️ I'm not going to pretend not to see how gorgeous you look. Your emotional intelligence is on another level 🤞
Owamie why??? I love your personal videos! Its what brought me to your channel 😭 I understand why you are doing it, but just ignore those people. Or create a new channel for that content. Not a lot of people can afford that. 🥺😔☹
Go out for a date at list 3 times without hoping nothing it helps, listen more than talking as a woman, in that way you'll know if you both on a same boat, don't bring out too much of EXES in a topics, allow him pay because we women we tend to offer to take care of the bill, and don't appear desperate, and allow God in at everything you do or want, watching from🇬🇧🇬🇧
Heyy owami, I really love your personal videos and I am still a student and have an upcoming TH-cam channel and I really can’t afford a subscription. Please reconsider your decision please 😭🙏
What I can say is we as women we were NEVER Ever meant to love men once you start being the one in love as a woman my sister the is something very wrong there because us as women we were meant to receive love so the Bible says
I agree, we were meant to give back the love we receive in a form of respect because that is what love is to men, respect Men need to shower us with love as commanded by the bible?
Owamie please don't move this to the other channel please this is nice actually it might help someone as well who's actually going through the same thing People will show you putra an I think it's not only man even woman do that hey 😜
I've had to deal with a guy impregnating the side chick, mind you, he used to post me on social media, praise me and all talk highly of me with his friends but moguy still went on to cheat😩.
Those pink flags watch for them in the early stages we really need to listen to more mature women for advice regarding these situations. It's easy to be swept by love at a younger age because the emotional side isn't developed.
We really need to do better , educate our children that marriage does not equal success. Red flags are always there but because of how we were brought up and community expectations we end up getting married for all bad reasons. This needs to stop , let us be better parents to our kids.
Do not move it Owamie...those that want entertainment only can just skip these type of videos. We are here for all of it. Entertainment, life advice, yonke into.
Yes please don't 🙏 Owamie
Very true
Girls, there is ALWAYS a sign or signs that he's Mr. Wrong! Why torture yourself with a man-child? Simply walk away and never look back.
Don't know why Im always unsubscribed to your channel but I subscribe all the time.
@@cebisilemabaso8445 If your email address is not Gmail TH-cam tends to unsubscribe you. It also frustrates me when TH-cam purges subscribers from my channel🥺
Well said, Ninja brother... Long time hope you good 😊
This guy should be included in the upcoming lunch with ninjas
@@tshepangmoyo9139 Work had me pinned down and I missed being here so much. However, I did mention Owamie on a video of mine as one of my favorite TH-camrs. Thank you for asking about my wellbeing🙏🏾
A married man once said signs are always given we choose to ignore them, another married woman once said no one can pretend forever. Marriage cannot and will not change a person, l have seen people getting into relationships but ignoring the fact that they're not compatible. Compatability psychological, emotional, goals, ambitions, and compatibility in your school of thoughts is a determining factor. 🇿🇦
Spot on! No woman can pretend forever
Ehhhhhhh I almost got into deep shit because I was starting to do that, but then because GOD loves me, he knocked me back to my senses, it's been a month now since I left that psychopath, I'm so happy hey best decision of my life. I was starting to question my own sanity because I was being emotionally abused and manipulated, hhhhaaaiiiiiii wancaba nami Somandla. I praise and thank GOD 🙏🏽🙌🏽
@@lady_sits 😅😅😅😅😅
@@UNFILTERED-u6d Struuu🤞🏽, it was even starting to feel like a spiritual attack from the devil, an evil distraction of note 🤞🏽
@@lady_sits nobody is worth you losing yourself. It’s time women realize that they are a prize and not the man. Genuine relationships just flow. Yaz’ men can force you to be in a relationship. Being forced into a relationship is the first sign of abuse.
I was told I was in a relationship. I said no I’m not I don’t even know you. Then he started telling me everything about himself to speed up the process. He continued demanding that I was in a relationship with him. I said no we are not. Somehow he managed to introduce himself to my family and then I felt I had no choice, but to be in a relationship with the guy, but I hated everything about it. They were even planning lobola behind my back. It took so much strength to walk away from that. He abusive in all kinds of abusive ways you can think of except beating me. I thought my only way out was death. Kodwa the best day of my life was when he dumped me. I was so so so happy I felt such relief. Obviously I went through months of ptsd and I still do. Kodwa I was free. When he asked for us to resume our relationship, but was not willing to change, I said “no”. I worked so hard to convince him to go further his studies so far away from me (more than 1200km away), so I was not going back to that jail of a relationship. Got my family to try and convince me (I mean everybody, including relatives, yet I never met his relatives). I said “no I’m not going back” whilst picturing Madea saying she ain’t going back to jail from the movie “A mad black woman”... I mean I never even wanted to be with that guy. Just cause your peers are married doesn’t mean you also want to be married too.
Besides he didn’t even know Britney Spears...
Well...I was in a relationship with someone who was a sweetheart in the beginning and started showing his true colours eventually yoh when I tell you I bekezeled thinking he'll come around phi😂😂Until one day I started asking myself questions gore "hun you are only 20 why are you doing this to yourself? What makes you think you won't find someone after this one? You say you believe in God do you think this the guy God chose for you?" Yoh I was introdpecting xem then I made the decision and I left
I don't have words. You're on point. 📢🔥🔥🔥🔥
Hi Owami. Off topic I would like to thank you for wearing your blue lenses. I have light greenish eyes myself. My grandmother worked on farm and had two children as a result of sexual abuse from her farmer employer. My mom is just light skinned and straight hair and my dad is dark but myself, my eyes look exactly like those of that biological grandfather of mine. A lot I've had to explain that I'm black because my father is black to other black people and white people, killed my confidence, I ended up just always avoiding eye contact and close up pictures that show my eyes but last week I just decided to try and embrace it all.. thank you I'm gonna be bold like you
We really need to unlearn a lot of bad habits, women have become so desperate for love to a point we don't even value ourselves. We need to teach these men how to love and respect us.
Yoh that true. Other desperate women even buy love by giving men money 😪😪. Its sickness
@@rosentlamele8540 that happens because females get judged for not being able to keep a man. So they will do anything to keep them
"Mrs Man Changer" 😂 😂 😂 😂
So true, the person u end up with will determine ur lifespan. Sad truth...
Ow an last but not list you are slaying you look so gorgeous dzammmm Gombakomba laha Netshivhazwaulu lo naka Mani keep it us 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I wish all the healing madam. I unfortunately don’t have the funds to join. Keep the entertainment content coming.
Queen Ninja you are the big sis frr, your advices...
And there are women who believe in indoda more than they believe in themselves and it's sad.
O nakesa ♥️♥️
You can't love another human being more than yourself, it's a weakness. Marriage is an assignment for God not a reward or achievement. God just looks for a son and a daughter who he can partner with in fulfilling a destiny. It's a partnership and a choice we choose to honor God. It even amzes me when I see someone being jealous at another person for being married, why would you be jealous for someone being sent on an errand before you?Marriage is more for God than we think it's for us and it's beautiful if the two do it right and my definition of marriage is two people who are happy coming together to share their happiness, is not our place/position to make people happy yes we all have pain of the past that turn manifests in marriages, but when identified one need to seek help🤞❤️❤️😊. Always remember there are certain void in the heart that only God can feel, you can move from one man/womn to the next and still not be happy, you ought to deal with you. I think South African women should stop being super women, we end up suffering, allow the man to pamper you even if his level of pampering is buying you chappies, it's OK, men feel confident when we let them do things and they do more and more, stop thinking you'll pay all the bills 🚮 Hai soka.
Mmmh very powerful
Well said... thank you 🙏
Powerful 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Girl do you watch better together on TBN?
@@ndalamamashabele5956 no, what is TBN, I don't watch better together. I'm not a TV Chana. Which channel number will look for it.
I love this content Owamie, PLEASE DONT MOVE it to paid content. I’m so glad to see you happy! What a journey, thank you for sharing these pearls of wisdom.
As someone who is still under 25 and obviously get in and out of relationships, I totally appreciate this kinda videos. We definitely go through a lot because of men but sometimes still chooses to ignore the red flags. I'm here with my pen and book taking notes, thank you very much 😊❤
Dated someone for 3years and towards the end of the 3rd year he impregnated someone . The sad thing is that I was so sure he's the one and never really saw any sign of cheating. Yoh mjolo ke fatuku😒
Let me give you unsolicited advise my dear girl, next time you date a guy don't do the deed with him for atleast 12 months, you get to know a person's true character when your emotions are not clouded by sexual ties. It's not gonna be easy when your attracted to him but it's worth it. Spend time outside of the bedroom developing a friendship, it works better that way. Hope this advise helps you in your journey of being found by a man of great integrity and character 😍
Ninjas we need to differentiate the different types of people:
1. Psychopath
2. Sociopath
3. Pathological lier
4. Narcissist
Having a relationship or friendships with these types 🙆🏾♀️ oh my gosh, CUT, CUT, CUT!!!
Interesting concept
@Thobile Nhlapo you were in a relationship with one?
@Thobile Nhlapo how did the personality affected you?
@Thobile Nhlapo thank you for finally getting out
@Thobile Nhlapo I’m sure your friend was gaslighting you most of the time.
Um not ashamed to say um single, do I get lonely sometimes? Yes. But um not going to love a man who doesn't respect me. I love myself too much. I rather be alone and happy.
The divorce glow is on flames girl. I just love how you put it in words. Everything you said is absolutely true.
Knowing I always have a video to watch from this channel every day is the best thing ever 🥳💃🥂
That's me Owami, I rather be alone than to be miserable, self love is very important
Sis, I realized this after my break up , mom and aunts are single and they tried relationships in the past(marriage and boyfriends/partners but wasn't successful) peace is priceless
Finally the Join button, well done. I love the intro with the shout out, am definitely supporting. Thanx for this platform Owamie, u are really opening doors for us TH-camrs still trying to find our feet. Regarding the actual topic, some men is good at lieng who they really are and we women and up falling for the trap.
Owamie you're so entertaining 😂😂😂😂 Mrs Man Changer🤣🤣🤣🤣
The red flag always there but loving and caring for someone makes you become denial cause you automatically believes that they also have the best interests and the feeling is mutual.
Ninja nation ☕✍❤
The best way u have to check out of relationship before u leave him
That's how I also do it, I decide to hold back, and leave emotionally first before I do it physically 🤞🏽
I did the same even he doesn't believe . I think it's only option that we have
@@puseletsomakua6521 Yes babe, they cannot do something we don't allow. The power lies with us, it is us that say yes when they ask us out, and it is also us that have to decide this is not for me so I'm out 🤞🏽
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I will fix him😂😂😂 I just sit back and sip my tea
😂😂😂 'Bob the builder' 🙌🤣🤣🤣
@@cilviasegokodi4046 wow so mean😂😂😂😂
@@ndalamamashabele5956 askies 🤭😂😂😂😂❤️
Your self-love and self-respect is .. 💯👌
Started subscribing to your channel now that you share more of your personal content which I can learn from. So keep up the good work🥰
That would be a sad day if you would move your life story videos from here. Actually Owamie that’s what interests me most about your videos, you sharing real life stories I find it more meaningful.
By the way l love your music in the background who’s the artist and the song?
The eyes are growing on me 😄 you look great sis!
I am not a person who puts on a lot of make up and once had this guy who said he loves that about me in our first date then two three weeks down the line he said why don't I do my eyebrows and put on make up and be on point like his friends girlfriend. The next thing he started calling my phone and my chargers a problem he was always angry about something I didn't even stay 2 months in the relationship I left for fear for my life.
Good girl! Mina I use to put makeup on because I was excited to learn a new thing and doing it myself. So it was pretty much a hobby. He was so abusive in all kinds of ways. I remember him saying my expiry date is 35 yet he was so way over 35 so I said “that means you’ve been expired a long time”. He was fuming with anger and walked away. I didn’t even want to be with him. He was too superficial. He wouldn’t tell me his age, but he looked young I thought he was 4 years older at most. He used to say he deserves someone who looks like me and was willing to pay for my nails, makeup and clothes. I hated that idea, I buy my own things and I was raised not to depend on a man or expect a man to buy me stuff. Now this stranger comes into my life and wants me to stop working and just stay at home and look pretty. He even said he wants me to look and dress like the Bravo housewives and WAGS everyday...
Needless to say I lost interest in my new hobby of wearing makeup everyday
Mrs man changer ssshhhhhbbbboobooooo🤣🤣🤣🤣
I jst love u, if strong was a person it will be u shebobo. Anyway first time committing but being listing to ur videos for years. I feel like I knw u... 😅😉
They say sometimes red flags are welcome flags 😂😂
You look amazing as always Ninja🥰
I love these types of videos from you Owami 😘
Mjolo o Monate mmatlwaneng🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If u wanna have girl talk, can u please invite LKG??
Best and such honest advice. Preach ! Plssss do NOT move this type of content to paid tu. Plzzzzzz. Pls ngamanda makhdzi weh😂
@@jenj5152 krkrkrkrrr. We are here to hear all about her journey and in many ways it will help other people. Some are going thru the same or similar issues, some are still heading in that direction so her opening up her video for all to hear will touch more lives i think
Abo scratchy scratchy🤣🤣🤣
Leave it here,us the young girls u advising,really can't afford the join button,cos we job hunting most of us,so pls don't move it
That is true. 📢🔥🔥
We love u so much keep it up.
U will look better without lenses cc
I guess I will have to Pay cause I'm here for the paid content. ♥️
Awumhle uyi cream🔥💯❤️😍👌
GOD is talking to me ...theres this guy who is a narcissistic that Im still inlove with I dono why but I guess I suffer from Stockholm syndrome The Guy abused me badly mentally & emotionally till this day I cry at night and replay things in my head but imagine them differently but yah God will heal me and one day I can get counselling ....but From a video I just saw Tik Tok to this the message is Clear from God that this guy will destroy me & isnt right for me
You and me in the same boat
@@mmathapeloramatlhape4259 I have hope that one day we will get heale
There are man in relationships with wrong woman too, can we touch all areas if its general please. Let us educate both man and woman. We have alot of man out there that we woman use for materials only. We are not innocent neither. So let us touch all areas
True that
Know your worth, know yourself, put yourself first, preach good to yourself THEN it will be easy to spot RED FLAGS 🎌
Owamie I'm a broke student, 're kwele hle.joining fee 're se na le R10?.
We NEED girl chats.
I just want to know what drives women from seeing pink flags, to the point of marriage and even bringing kids into those pink flags??. Why do we have such passion or obsession over man THAT don't love us.
Couple goals on social media, puts people under pressure to be in a relationship and they settle for anything, as long as they are in a relationship.
Yah☝️let them earn your love
Well said Owami. This days some man are there to use you.
Loved this!
You are glowing girl.
Sending love
Thank You Ninja❤️I See All The Ninjas Who Are Subscribing😭♥️Thank You Very Much Ninjas!!
Some of us are here for the personal content but we are not monied enough to be paying for TH-cam paid content plus bundles. We will miss it but we move. Data in Malawi is not cheat. Being online is already a task.
what is a happy marriage vele? Nobody knows what a happy marriage looks like cos y'all married people never share what is going on in private...people pretend yes but married people are worse...People come across happy in public spaces and one minute later people are getting a divorce...claiming years of infidelity or abuse...Nobody really knows what a happy marriage looks like guys...
@@kcndaba8072 let's just say I'm still in my 20's and I've already reached a point where I'm okay with never getting married or getting a life partner...life gets lonely at times yes but being on my own has more upsides than the downsides i see with couples outchea...people are miserable just like i was miserable in my past relations....nomatter how great of a person you are...relationships take 2 to work...you both need to have your shit together...you both need to be respectful...faithful...mature and and and and...it's just about me or you imdividually....it's about the both of us
20 years qha
Looking beautiful ninja ☺️
Now let's watch the video chile 🤗
I felt that title 💔. Literally my last relationship was that mess
I can’t wait for dear Owami, I have all the tea sis!
Keep up the gud spirit Ninja yu so stunning
Ya ne that inner voice Owami
You are wise shame thanks I needed this
Great content Owamie❤️ Ninja please can this type of content stay here please ninja 🤲
Queen Ninja, you're thee best and I really love you ❤️
I'm not going to pretend not to see how gorgeous you look. Your emotional intelligence is on another level 🤞
Keep it here please 🙏 🙂
I enjoyed that IG Live interview ❤️
😂😂😂we also have them bo Bob the builder
I enjoyed this content 😌❤❤❤
Guyz I want to watch the private videos but how do I access them because I don't see any join button ?
Do I pay to watch it ?
JOIN os next to SUBSCRIBE (on mobile)
Vicious habits and sinful propensities are strengthened and confirmed by these differences when it comes to compatibility., 🇿🇦
@@no_prisoners6474 its very serious
@@no_prisoners6474 how l don't understand please elaborate
@@no_prisoners6474 l think we discussing right thing in the wrong platform
@@no_prisoners6474 Okey l hear you
First signs,🏃♀️run mtase 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️
Owamie why??? I love your personal videos! Its what brought me to your channel 😭 I understand why you are doing it, but just ignore those people. Or create a new channel for that content. Not a lot of people can afford that. 🥺😔☹
You spoke!
I low key feel like I've been through a lot more compared to my age ninja 😂😂😂
Go out for a date at list 3 times without hoping nothing it helps, listen more than talking as a woman, in that way you'll know if you both on a same boat, don't bring out too much of EXES in a topics, allow him pay because we women we tend to offer to take care of the bill, and don't appear desperate, and allow God in at everything you do or want, watching from🇬🇧🇬🇧
You're beautiful, Owamie ❤️❤️
You look beautiful, as always ninja♥️📌
Heyy owami, I really love your personal videos and I am still a student and have an upcoming TH-cam channel and I really can’t afford a subscription. Please reconsider your decision please 😭🙏
True Nami I prefer dear owami
Same here, yoh Ninja please be considerate for us students hle 😭😭
I second this tuu!😪
Please yho, we were learning so much from them
I think we're just damaged as black people. Men are also going through the most.
We here📍
A woman dies at her in laws😂😂😂
Yes I'm married 33yrs I can give advice
Location 📍 sila❤️
Hey Owamie
What I can say is we as women we were NEVER Ever meant to love men once you start being the one in love as a woman my sister the is something very wrong there because us as women we were meant to receive love so the Bible says
I agree, we were meant to give back the love we receive in a form of respect because that is what love is to men, respect
Men need to shower us with love as commanded by the bible?
@@melmel7011 💯 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Moving your personal videos to private was the best decision 🙌
😭😭😭😭😭😭🤦♀️😭
It's the divorce glow for me shbobo...
We are here😭 Talk to us Ninja💓
Ninja signing in 💞
Owamie please don't move this to the other channel please this is nice actually it might help someone as well who's actually going through the same thing
People will show you putra an I think it's not only man even woman do that hey 😜
We don’t have that button in Namibia
I've had to deal with a guy impregnating the side chick, mind you, he used to post me on social media, praise me and all talk highly of me with his friends but moguy still went on to cheat😩.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I broke his windscreen, he hit me and I had had enough.
popopo🥳🥳🥳😹
Not working and not able to join means i am not going to be able to see your personal videos...anyway you are gorgeous
Those pink flags watch for them in the early stages we really need to listen to more mature women for advice regarding these situations. It's easy to be swept by love at a younger age because the emotional side isn't developed.
I love your natural look rather than this drag queen look. Interesting and very relevant topic.
True the drag look makes her look more older but good topic nonetheless
We really need to do better , educate our children that marriage does not equal success. Red flags are always there but because of how we were brought up and community expectations we end up getting married for all bad reasons. This needs to stop , let us be better parents to our kids.
ingcwaba lomfazi lisemzini = A woman 's grave is at their marital home ....Not in this generation
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