When Dumper Realizes Mistake (Podcast 414)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @kg1385
    @kg1385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Getting back with your ex is like taking a Barth with dirty water, it’s a bad idea

  • @districtagenda5695
    @districtagenda5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A couple months ago she called me in the middle of the night (3 times), I texted her a few days later and no response. The call was 8 months from last time we were dating. She texted me once with an emotional closure paragraph 4 months after last break off and 4 months before the phone call. I wonder if I’ll ever hear from her. I’ve done NC on her a few times and she always would reach out, and said she was mad I never “fought for her”.. “why do I always have to call you, do you even care”?

    • @districtagenda5695
      @districtagenda5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Last breakup: august, emotional text: December, 3 late night phone calls: March (I had another girl in my bed so I didn’t answer but texted her a few days later saying “saw I had some missed calls from you last weekend, everything alright?” 4 days later

    • @Skywalker29
      @Skywalker29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t reply to her ignore her she’s looking for attention sounds like a narcissist

  • @elharrop
    @elharrop 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the dumper more likely to come back if the breakup was their fault? He says i disrespected him but I'm pretty sure most people would agree it was actually me that was disrespected. I think he's in denial to save face but he's an intelligent person so he must know deep down it's his fault. I've not heard from him for 3 weeks and it just doesn't feel like it makes any sense at all.

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Emma, I’m very sorry to hear about your situation. Everyone at some stage has to ‘look in the mirror’ and consider their actions and decisions. Your ex will have that moment and when he self reflects there is a chance he will reach out to you. The important thing right now is you stay positive and concentrate on your journey moving forward.

    • @elharrop
      @elharrop 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vincentbos Thanks very much it was never an official relationship so i guess that makes it even more complicated. It was about 5 months on and off and he wanted to take it slow which was very confusing and frustrating, i just hope there was enough feelings there to salvage it but i don't actually know as he was quite avoidant. I'll keep moving forward but i have it in mind I'll contact him at some point as it feels like unfinished business.

    • @Skywalker29
      @Skywalker29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like a narcissist go no contact completely he’ll regret it and never take him back most likely he was seeing another person and when that doesn’t work he’ll try and Hoover you back after he walked away from you if you take him back it’ll start off okay then it’ll get worst because he’ll resent you love yourself focus on you

    • @gypsyisland
      @gypsyisland ปีที่แล้ว

      In a very similar situation. The break up was 100% directly his fault but he has yet to take any accountability whatsoever. Just passed 4 months of no contact. This is the 3rd time we have broke up and I went into no contact immediately and he obviously came back. All 3 times were his doing. Not mine. This time though after he said he was done I concurred and agreed and said I was done as well. Also, every time we have broken up it was impulsive and during an argument when he was mad and in his feelings. I am an expert at no contact and have never begged or pleaded or chased or anything. Its really a sad shame that he cannot be an adult and a real man and own his shit and take responsibility for his own faults and behavior 😔😢