What Your Dumper Thinks of You (Podcast 416)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @caffine_nightz
    @caffine_nightz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am literally the worst case scenario. Spent two years with someone long-distance ,traveling back and forth to maintain our relationship. I messed up being jealous, emotionally negative & selfish with my time, & it backfired. She dumped me, she told me she hopes I find someone better, she used me as comfort even after the breakup,(calls at 12am ect) teased me about other guys, & I begged ridiculously for about a month off & on. She ghosted me the day before valentines day with no reason or last word. I had no choice but to go no contact. Chances are people, if your partner didn't do this to you, you have a high chance of getting them back. I am numb at this point

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Taylor, thank you for your comment and I'm very sorry to hear of your struggle.
      You are on the road to recovery and although you feel numb right now, happiness is round your next corner - You just don't know when that next corner is. Keep moving forward and you will find your happiness.

    • @kungfukenny1540
      @kungfukenny1540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s brutal. Any updates?

  • @joanfundi325
    @joanfundi325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I just hope i stop hurting some day

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi Joan, you will stop hurting one day.
      You are currently in a bleak tunnel. The way out of the tunnel and into the light of happiness, is to keep moving forward. You can do this :)

    • @joanfundi325
      @joanfundi325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks so much. Coming from you means alot

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're very kind. Thank you for being part of my channel community.

    • @MyDarlingRocsi
      @MyDarlingRocsi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hang in there, Joan.

    • @MissMegannxo
      @MissMegannxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I promise it gets better! Have faith 🙏🏻
      Every loss will be replaced with something greater 💕

  • @mrblatcher
    @mrblatcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really appreciate your content. I would love to have a consultation with you. I speak for all of your subscribers when I say we appreciate the work that you are doing for everyone

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you very much for your kind words.
      Please email me - vincent@dateme.tips

  • @TheOnemanr1ot
    @TheOnemanr1ot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex was asking my sisters best friend about me and my family. Even though she’s in a rebound and it’s been 6 months no contact

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It shows that your ex has a good level of interest about you still, which is positive. However, she is unavailable at the moment and hence it's very important to move forward with your life.

    • @timepassvideo4713
      @timepassvideo4713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dont take her back after rebound.. Trust me i took my ex back after her rebound it never ends well. U wont be able to trust and respect her like before

  • @jasonrichardson8012
    @jasonrichardson8012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Vincent another good podcast what does it mean when a ex is still single an not moved on after a year an 3 months

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Jason, thank you for your question.
      What this shows is how challenging it is to find a long-term connection. Your ex has been single for nearly 1.5 years and hasn't found anyone they wish to have a relationship with.

    • @jasonrichardson8012
      @jasonrichardson8012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vincentbos could that be because she still as some sort of feelings about the last relationship an is finding it hard too move on from it?

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will always be a huge part of your ex's life and there will always be some level of feelings between you both. However, if your ex had a desire to reconnect romantically, she would likely make that clear.
      At this moment in time, it doesn't seem as though she wants to reconnect and although this could change, it's very important you focus on moving forward with your life and make new connections. You will find romantic, happiness again Jason, but this might not be with your ex.