Spot on. Dealing with a dismissive avoidant friend who just keeps pushing close people away. I woke up with such a big feeling of self-love and inner peace and contentment this morning... I won't have this bother me anymore. I hope he will heal. At least, he's in therapy.
OMG I can not believe I wrote this before finishing hearing you out !! I belive 11 years, 4 months and 4 children is more than enough time for someone to level up
We were friends at first and after 6 months, I began to have feeling for him. So by the 7th month to now which is 3 months serious, we have had nothing but in and out the whole darn time...due to his choice, except when I did No Contact which seemed to make him realize that he wants to still see me. But your reading, all you describe about their person, which is me Gemini is the opposite. I am very giving, affectionate, adore him and I thought he felt the same. All you speak is about my Virgo not about me. He tells me he does not need anyone/that he survived by himself all these years. Virgo made a comment that I am too good for him, I need to go find a rich doctor, he feels like he is not enough for me and that he does not want to hurt me. Virgo said he has never had a successful relationship. I was blown away. We both have issues with not having a lot of money but we both have homes. But he is so negative about much. He gave into taking a job that he seems to like but I feel that he is punishing himself for all the hurt he has and feels he does not deserve better. I figured out he is an Avoidant and for the first time I have realized I have Anxious Attachment right now, which I only have had a handful of times for a man. We both need to love ourselves 1st. Timing is not good for each of us but I was willing to be with him. He on the other hand absolutely pushed me away to the point that on Sunday, I told him I need more and obviously is not able to give it to me. I told him, I need to move on and date others. I haven't felt such a loss for man for over 40 years, since my 1st love. All you say is soooo true but again, you read us opposite. Thank you for sharing what you did feel. Hard to believe that I will not be with him.
This is why I decided first it's my personal and emotional healing and growth. This is the only way to attract abundance on all levels. I will not fix someone else's baggage rather look deep in me to see what calls such kind of energy into my life.
This is exactly us! I gave too much.God gave an earth angel,healer to help him heal.instead he was scared when I told him about dreams from holy spirit.He ran to city to karmic family and friends who kept him from me.i am divenly chosen and protected now.But we were chosen ones and I knew it! So I can,t love another. He has to bring all truth and honesty.Be ready to work for God Let me help him heal from child hood trauma. Then we work for God.i will have all I need for life. I need answers at least! Very sadly trying to do My light work for God.😢😮
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Spot on. Dealing with a dismissive avoidant friend who just keeps pushing close people away. I woke up with such a big feeling of self-love and inner peace and contentment this morning... I won't have this bother me anymore. I hope he will heal. At least, he's in therapy.
❤❤❤wow!! So on point!!!thank u for that mental clarity u gave me through ds reading.more power to u
You are very wise young lady. Excellent 😊
😧 I don’t have the right words to express how on point this resonates with my 17 yr marriage!!! (nail) 🔨
OMG I can not believe I wrote this before finishing hearing you out !! I belive 11 years, 4 months and 4 children is more than enough time for someone to level up
We were friends at first and after 6 months, I began to have feeling for him. So by the 7th month to now which is 3 months serious, we have had nothing but in and out the whole darn time...due to his choice, except when I did No Contact which seemed to make him realize that he wants to still see me. But your reading, all you describe about their person, which is me Gemini is the opposite. I am very giving, affectionate, adore him and I thought he felt the same. All you speak is about my Virgo not about me. He tells me he does not need anyone/that he survived by himself all these years. Virgo made a comment that I am too good for him, I need to go find a rich doctor, he feels like he is not enough for me and that he does not want to hurt me. Virgo said he has never had a successful relationship. I was blown away. We both have issues with not having a lot of money but we both have homes. But he is so negative about much. He gave into taking a job that he seems to like but I feel that he is punishing himself for all the hurt he has and feels he does not deserve better. I figured out he is an Avoidant and for the first time I have realized I have Anxious Attachment right now, which I only have had a handful of times for a man. We both need to love ourselves 1st. Timing is not good for each of us but I was willing to be with him. He on the other hand absolutely pushed me away to the point that on Sunday, I told him I need more and obviously is not able to give it to me. I told him, I need to move on and date others. I haven't felt such a loss for man for over 40 years, since my 1st love. All you say is soooo true but again, you read us opposite. Thank you for sharing what you did feel. Hard to believe that I will not be with him.
This is why I decided first it's my personal and emotional healing and growth. This is the only way to attract abundance on all levels. I will not fix someone else's baggage rather look deep in me to see what calls such kind of energy into my life.
Seems spot on! Thanks so much for your great reading 🌷
Mann this is sooo my reading
No it’s mine 😂
This is exactly us! I gave too much.God gave an earth angel,healer to help him heal.instead he was scared when I told him about dreams from holy spirit.He ran to city to karmic family and friends who kept him from me.i am divenly chosen and protected now.But we were chosen ones and I knew it! So I can,t love another. He has to bring all truth and honesty.Be ready to work for God
Let me help him heal from child hood trauma. Then we work for God.i will have all I need for life. I need answers at least! Very sadly trying to do My light work for God.😢😮