I don't know but seriously Jis bhi baat ko lekr mere Mann me confusion Hoti aap usi topic pr video bna dete ho or you tube open krte hi Aapka video samne a jata h or mere Sare confusions door ho Jate h thank u so much sir🙏
Ye jitne like ki h na sab shadi kar liye honge ....nhi to kar lenge ...mai to kirshn bhakt se shadi karungi ....aur khud uska sath sachhe dil se nibhaungi ... Radhe Radhe Radhe Radhe
@@sanjaygoodlife8612main shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
Msin shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
@@ashuvijay7031 bhai bilkul mt kro shadi.....health hi sab kuch hai...paisa kamawo aur pura india ghumo....ye best life rhegi....aur paisa hoga toh budape me 100 log sewa krne wale mil jyenge
Bro agar shadi nhi ki toh bhai bandhu sab harap kar jayenge. Rishtedar ijjat nhi denge. Samaj priority nhi dega and ek age k bad bat krne k liye koi nhi hoga
Listen... Marriage is old institute that one person need partner...but in 2024 pattern is changed many men and even I also not doing any marriage ...we accept as single life forever because I already marriage with my Success and my Creativity ...i hate fake people around world who just leave their partners and move next man ....Hate Girls..No girls no problem ..Stay Single Stay Happy
Haa yaar sb fake hai yaar kisi pr trust nhi kiya jaa sakta pati ke jaate hi unhe dusra mard caahiye no one is loyal hr jagah bs dhoka hai ye sab dekkr mujhe bhi shaadi se nafrat ho gyi....
thank u so much sir bohot aela ho gya tha koyi sun nahi raha tha aur kisi aur ki jindgi nahi kharb karna chata jabrdasti ...akela rahna chata hu thank u sir aapki baatose bohot himat aayi thank u im dedicted full 100% my carrier
Great sir jha tak m janta hu shadi sab bekar h..I m 💯 percent practical..if u u want to spoil your life then go ahead... focus on your career..it's you marry
Sahi bola ab jese ki hum shadi se bach rahe he to dekho sab bach rahe he aur hum jaag rahe video dekh rahe to sab yahi kar rahe aur comments bhi kar rahe he..to akele kese fir 😃😂😁
Shadi karu yaar nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
main Shadi karu yaa nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
After reading some of the comments I realized that some of didn't understand the true meaning what he wants to convey.. He just wants to say that there are pros and cons of every thing and every situation and life wants us to be open to such circumstances rather than being at very extremities. Just because your past or someone else past have not been so good or bad you can't decide. So accept from life the blessings it provides.. Hey Anubhav Is this what you want to convey..
muje sadi nhi karni hi mujhe bachche pasand nhi hi mujhe aajad rehna hi par mujhe forsh kiya ja rhe hai my bhot hi garib parivaar se hu is liye my kisi ka jivan khrab nhi karna chahta
@@AnubhavJain Shadi karu yaar nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
Right☺️ shadi nahi krni to koi force nahi kr skta...bs independent raho khush raho sbka accha socho...apni jarurato k paise save kro..lifetime k liye...
When a thirsty person desperately looks for water in desert, same way I found my questions answer of not getting married and I am finally happy being single. thanks to you and to Sadguru.
Main to saadi tabhi hi karunga jab koe mere jaisa milegi clean and pure ,jo ki aaj ke time me possible nhi h isliye mujhe saadi hi nhi karni hain or Rahi baat child ka to adopt kar lenge kam se kam kisi anath ke kaam to aayenge.
Aajke dhokebaaz duniya me koi kisika nahi hai marna ek din sabhi ko hai chahe marriage karo ya na karo bacche karo ya na karo. Isse accha hai bezubaan janwaro ko khaana do gariboon ki madad karo,samaj ke liye kuch karo.mein lifetime unmarried rahunga khush rahunga .🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@laxmisinha6393 Akelapan nahi feel hota ? Kaise deal karti ho unsare feelings se . Shadi ke alawa relationship mai jana , bina shadi ki bhawna se dusre ko dhokha dena feel lagta hai .
@@karan145 - aapka aisa question uthana galat nhi h.but jaisa ki video may bataya Gaya h ki kisi bhi person ka Saadi na karne ka xyz koi bhi strong reson ho sakta h right.sir but Saadi nhi kar rahy h iska Matlab ye nhi ki bahar jaa kar dusre say maje le ya kisi mard ka Ghar ujaad de.har insaan ek jaisa nhi hota.sabki soch ek jaisi nhi hoti.rahi baat ham kaise rahte h to ham Bata de.ki hame spritual life he pasand h.ham self depend h.pure vegetarian h.aur ek baccha adopt karengy par abhi ussay milte usay ham pyar karte h.ham anath asaram ,vridh asarm bhi jaate h . hospital bhi jaate h round may.ovarall hame nhi lagta ki ham kuch galat h .aisi h hamari life.aur aage ham Saadi nhi karna chahte kyoki ham nhi chahte hamari kamayi kisi aur k haath may jaaye aur wo ham samaj sewa karne par rok he laga de.
Kya family ki khushi k lie sadi krne k bad v koi h jo sirf dost bn kr puri life ek sath gujar de taki ek dusre ka shyog v kre or budhape ka shara v bn sk ek dusre ka... Pti patni na bne sirf dost bn k life gujare to mere ko lgta h k sb kuchh bhot achhe se bitega.... Me ko life me saririk samipta nhi chahie islie sadi ni krna chahti kya koi or v h jo meri tara sochta h? Agr koi sadi k bad v mere sath puri life sirf ek achha dost bn k rhna chahe to me apni family k lie sadi kr lungi.... But bidougt physical relationship k.. Ha agr bchhe ka sok h to bchha god v lia ja skta h isse hmari problem v solve ho jaegi or ek anath bchhe ko ma bap ka pyar v mil jaega isse bda koi punya ka kam ni ho skta
Marriage is mentally and physically prepared for any situation or crisis through companionship with both live within rich or poor situation not expecting anything from eachother is a good marriage.😀😀
Msin shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
@@ashuvijay7031 to kya shadi karane se health achhi ho jayegi? Be clear. Un healthy ho to kuchh aisa karo ki healthy ho jao. Shadi na karo jo kucch bachi hai sehat wo bhi chali jayegi.
@@ashuvijay7031Bhai main wohi to bata Raha hoon ki shadi karne se aap ki sehat sudhar jayegi kya? 1.agar aap khud sehatmand nahi ho to kya guarantee hai ki apka partner apka sath dega? 2.agar aap ye soch rahe ho ki wo tumhara Sahara ban jayenge to aap bilkul galat track par ho. 3.shadi ke bajaye sehat par dhyan do. 4.shadi kya davai hai kya? 5.shadi hone ke bad achha khasa adami pareshan ho jata hai. 6.mera yakin maniye shadi ke bad kharche ekdum se badh jate hai. 7.bande ko kuchh samajh aa jaye us se pahale itani sari cheeje ek sath badal jati hai. 8.bhai mai apko koi tana nahi mar Raha hoon.bas sachchai bata Raha hoon.
Thankyou sir bahut motivation mili aapki video dekh kr... But gharwalon se zyada Relatives interfare krte hain... Na Dhang se pdney dete hain.. Na self pr focus krne dete hain.... Aur Gharwaley bhi unke influence mein aakar Humey force krne lagte hain.. Fir wo bhi un relatives ki hee tarah negative ho jate hain... Aisey mein kya kia jaye sir... Ghar ka Environment bhi bahut stressful ho jata hai fir...
I am also agree with you but sab log bolte hai ki maa baap jab tak hai tab tak to thik hai uske baad kaun kiska hota hai na bhai na bahan na rishtedaar to shadi kar lo par ek janwar ko samjhna bhut aasan hai par kisi insaan ko samjhna bhut muskil aaj ke time me i am also worry about two faces persons ....😕
Sir apki wife, mom , dad bahut lucky hai ki aap unke pass hai unko aap pr proud feel hota hoga aur hum logo ko bhi ki humari yoth generation ko guide karne ke liye apke jaisa insaan you tube pr hai. Bhagwaan apko humesha khush aur salaamat rakhe🙏🙏
Mera shadi nahi karne ka reson h waada...maine kisi se wada kiya tha ki mai shadi karunga to usi se warna zindagi bhar kunwara rahunga...ab wo nhi rahi😭😭.. lekin mai ye wada zindagi bhar nibhaunga 😢😥
हा सर बुढ़ापे मे आश्रम जाएँगे या फिर भीख हि माँग लेंगे इस पेट के लिए..... कोई बात नई लेकिन इस मानव जीवन के बंधन से निकल कर भागवत धाम जाने कि जरूर प्रयास करेंगे
Sir aap n aaj meri sari confusion dur kr hi mai 99% sure tha ki shadi nhi krni 1 % confusion thi wo aaj aap n dur kr di thanku u so much...aap really m outstanding personality ho.
@@ashuvijay7031 budhapa budhapa kya laga raha hai kabhi dukh kabhi sukh aapka matlab hai budhape me patni kaam aayegi man se vichar nikal do jab tak jiye khusi se life me pta nahi kitney din ki zindagi hai aagey ka kon socha hai jab tak jiyo apney aap se prem karo
According to my opinion shaadi tabhi kero jab aap success ho or kisi need ho want nahi . success kai maene har individuals kai liye alge alge ho sakte hai
thqqq so much sir apne mri confusion dur kr ab m apni single life independency k sath jee skti hu infuture mujhe lga to baby adopt kr lugi pr Sadi kbhi ni aj k logo pr m bhrosa ni kr skti jo insan apki jawani hi cheen le mrta chod de usse budhape m kya ummd krge thx a lot sir 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
He had said about that there will be someone to take care of you in old age But our partner would be old too, and maybe also suffering from health issues himself / herself. How much they cN take care of you. Also mostly one partner passes away first, other may be left alone for many years in old age .
Sir apne bilkul sahi kaha ap jaise log bahaut kam milte hai .sir apne bahaut ache se youngers , adults ko samjhaya marriage ke bare mein thank you so much 🙏
Shadi karu yaar nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
जो अकेले खुश नही रह सकता है वो किसी के साथ खुश नही रह सकता है.. Don't mind sir but shadi se akelapan dur nahi hota hai.. akelapan insaan ka swabhav hai
Sir ek suggestion he. aap playlist bana lo jab time mile aap ko tab kyuki jo viewers he unko same problem ho to jaldi video dhundh sakte he.👍 You are doing great job ❤️👏👏👏
Thank sir apne bht achha jawab diya, mai kab se dhundh rahi thi es sawal ka jawab ki,shadi na krna koi gunah hai kya pr apse jawab mil gaya sir Thanks a lot sir
100percent correct ..in all respects And all remedies so simply and beautifully explained....So Matured.I wish all people used their experiences nd learn from others experiences like you.Never Judge anyone for their personal choices....World would become such a better place to live in....I personally Thank you for ur contribution in making so many efforts to change d mentality of the people.I wish u immense wisdom good health and peace of mind to carry on this good work.Thank you.
@@AnubhavJain@AnubhavJain sir maa baap ke 15 saal ke continue jhagde gf ke chhodkar jaane job exam me fail hone se bhai ke love marriage karke Ghar chhod jaane se..time par shadi nahi hone se main buri tarah depression me aa gaya mentally bhut weak ho gaya...abhi age 33 ho gayi... depression tetn ka patient ban gaya ! Job h par mentally fit nahi hu to pahle shadi Karu ya pahle khud ko 2-3 sal mentally strong banaun q ki chhoti se chhoti baat ko main mind se nikal hi nahi paata...koi bhi jimmedari ya koi bhi negative baat mujhe khush hone se rok deti h meri health bigad jaati h main kha pee nahi paata so nahi paata...mind se negative vichaar nikalta hi nahi fir neend depression ki goliyan Leni padti h ! Shadi ke baad to bhut jimmedari tanaav dukh aate h to pahle strong Banu ya pahle shadi Karu...or jaisi meri family h uske hisaab se to shadi ke liye ladki dhundna bhi mere liye tetn depression ka reason ban gaya h ! Main kya karu ? Ak taraf age jyada ho gayi dusri taraf mentally fit nahi hu...mujhe shadi se pahle apne man or Shareer ko patthar banana h lekin shadi ki last age is Target me baadha ban Rahi h
Shaadi woh karta ha jo akele nhi reh pata or kisi bhi mushkil ko hal nai kar pata or mein shaadi nahi karunga q ki me apni sari mushkil apne aap hal kar sakta hu 💪💪
I sersly don't want to get married as I want to visit Europe make money enjoy life . My parents are after my life as I am 28 yrs and still single. Every one asks the same question but I know one day I will live my dreams in Europe.
Thank you bhaee ,I am in tears after listening to you kaas ye baat hmare maa baap samjh pate ,logo ke baato se parents presan ho jate h ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
@Jain bhaiya lykin parent itne emotionaly toucher krte study p bhi focus krna muskhil lg rha h Or phr whi baat shadi kr lo phr pdho lykin mujhe shadi m koi interest hi nh h
Sir hume logo ki bato se farak Nahi pdta ....pr parents pressurised ho jate Hain society ke kaarn fir vo Apne bacho par Marji chlate Hain or Bache kuchh Nahi kar pate
Aise maa baap apne bacche se pyar nhi karte, wo narcissists hote hai , unhe unka social status jyada imprtant rakta hai , aur unhe nhi jaanna ki bacche k man me kya hai,
True.. jb tk ye society kya kahegi 4 log kya khenge wali baat khtm ni hogi logo k dimag se..tb tk hm apni hi life apne hisab se jee hi nhi skte, chahe wo love ka matter ho ya career ka ya fir shadi ka..na to career apni mrji se bna skte na shadi apni mrji se kr skte h or if shadi na b krni ho to uska b option nhi milta h... specially hm ladkiyo ko...just bcz of this SOCIETY & Log kya kahenge wali mentally Fir hmare emotions parents se jude hote h to chahke b kuch ni kr skte😞
@@BhavnaSharma_196 koi zabardasti Nahi Kar sakta isliye in Sab baaton se Kuch Nahi hota isliye tumhe Jo Karna hai wahi Karo Kisi ki bhi interfere mat Karne do Apne hisaab se jio
Main Shadi karu yaa nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
Thnkuuu for such video....u are best having every solution...god bless u.... people who are connected to u....are very lucky 🙏....I don't want to get married I want my carier .... but parents say how will u live alone ,who will take care of u.....but they support in my carrier a lot
According to me marriage must complete all steps. 1st step physical relationship ( 100% people reach there ) 2nd step emotional relationship ( 70 % people reach this level) 3rd step mental relationship (10% people reach this level,ex all successful person ) 4th step spiritual level ( 1% people reach this level ex all spiritual leader ,philosher etc) Note - Step 1 & step 2 can be interchanged wrt arrange marriage/ love marriage . People are doing marriage for following reasons 1.sex 2.lifetime partner 3.money-dowry (girl), job(boy) 4.child 5.societal pressure 6.no old school/ college l friends left 7.no clear goal in life 8.depression / stressful life .
Great video Sir, as always. One more point is often we may want companionship but might not be emotionally ready at that point of time. Companion kaisa hai yeh bhi dekhna zaroori hota hai, kuch log hote hai kisise bhi karlo kyunki shaadi ki umar hai, I dont know what kind of logic is that and then being unhappy afterwards. Khush nahi ho paaye kisike saath phir toh woh akele rehne se bhi zyada akelapan ho gaya!!! So people should take their time, let things flow naturally, and not be 100% sure from before. Simply because, you never know!
Sir me Bihar se hu mai aapk her vedio deakh chuki hu aapka margdarshan mere liye bhut helpfull hota jab v kabhi prblm m hoti aapk vedio deakh m energetic feel kr k aapna routine again maintain krne lgti
Merko ko ladkiyo ne hamesha use kiya hai chahe wo family friends wali ho ya non family friends wali. Main kaafi isse irritate hota tha kyunki wo ladkiyan dusre ladko ko bahut importance deti thi par mujjhe nahi. Phir jab maine general knowledge padhna shuru kiya wildlife, space science, electronics and communication and world politics ki knowledge lene laga yeh karke mujhe itna accha laga ki mera ladkiyon se dhyan hat gaya aur aaj itna accha feel kar raha aur maine nofap shuru kiya aur 24 din ho gaye shuru kiye mujhe itna energetic feel ho raha hai ki main life me kuch creative karna chahta hun aur iske liye main shaadi nahi karna chahta. Main single hi bahut khus hun.
I have been reading your answers on quora since 3,4 years . You motivated me always I was in 9 th then Now Im in first year of graduation And like always you keep enriching my mind with amazing concepts which consolidate my thought process and whenever I feel any ambiguity regarding anything I read your Answers on quora and now i do watch your videos on youtube. This really clears my self doubt and i can live a life without guilt or regrets. A very big thanks to my dear author for guiding and motivation me sir. From a fellow reader(learner to be precise) ❤
@@AnubhavJainMsin shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
sir aap ne bilkul sahi kaha, mera bhi yahi soch hai mujhe sirf apne aapse matlb hai or apne parents se matlb hai, mujhe akele rehena jada pasand hai, or frnds banana pasnd hai, isse jada or kuch nai, me apni lyf se khus hun govt. job bhi krta hun or masti bhi🎉🎉
Bhai meri bhi govt job h ...shadi nahi karna chahta ....main teacher hu or sirf 2 kam me khush hu bodybuilding or School bas in 2 kaamo se bhut lagav h mera par budaape ka dar baar baar shadi ke baare me sochne par majboor kar raha h
Dekho aap Kitna achcha batate Ho shaadi karne ya na karne ke upar lekin aniruddh Aacharya pata nahin kaise bolate Hain samajh mein❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am 26 yrs old and I Achive Govt. Job it's been 2 yrs, 1 year before I told to my parents that I want to marry Becouse I feel alone. But some reason now I confused that I do or not marry, and It seem time will decide my decision 🙏🙏
I am a working professional,not happy with my present job ,living in a hell .I want to become an IAS officer .continuously failed prelims 3 times and 3 attempts still in my hand .as I am continuously failing nobody supporting me including family ,relatives, friends, colleagues. Everybody pressurising for marriage as I am in 30s .But I decided my dream is more important than love sex marriage .I can't live without my dream. Till my last attempt I will try .
Mere 3 relatives ka divorce ho chuka hai 2 abhi process me hai so mera to shadi se bharosa उठ gaya .abhi sarkar ne shadi ki ladki ki umar 35 karni chahiye kyuki उस umar me ladaki shadi ka sab chakkar samj jayegi
Mere bhi shadi se bharosa uth gaya parents ke jhgdo or unke divorce or Bhai or uski wife ke jhgdo or unke divorce dekhkar ! Ab kisi se judne ka man hi nahi karta
Iss topic pr bhi video bnaye aur logo ko jagruk kriye ....jo lo bolten hn ldki h ye to sasural chli jayegi hmare budhape ka sahara to hmara beta hi bnega...esi soch almost 3/4 h India me...
I don't know but seriously Jis bhi baat ko lekr mere Mann me confusion Hoti aap usi topic pr video bna dete ho or you tube open krte hi Aapka video samne a jata h or mere Sare confusions door ho Jate h thank u so much sir🙏
God bless you :)
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Yeah u r right sir has alwys helped me or mai aaj agar depression me nhi hu to sirf sir ki wajh se
Same here😀😀😀 mere v yehi thoughts h. Sir great hai❤️
Thank you Priya, God bless you
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Ye jitne like ki h na sab shadi kar liye honge ....nhi to kar lenge ...mai to kirshn bhakt se shadi karungi ....aur khud uska sath sachhe dil se nibhaungi ... Radhe Radhe Radhe Radhe
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Muth maro tab .hilate raho darpok log 😁😁
Mujhe akele rahana hai
@@invisibleboy1530 but kiyo
@@Dore-m4e not interested
Marriage is not the answer to all your questions but money is the right answer, according to my side
ये वीडियो देख कर दिल धन्य हो गया ,😊❤😊 और मन गार्डन गार्डन हो गया🤗!
Apko shadi nhi krni??🤔🤔
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kon kon saadi nahi karna chahta please like
Mujhe shaadi nhi karni
Muje bhi
@@RajaKumar-mx3tq नल्ला है क्या तू
I don't want to get married and sahil khan is the example for those who think this decision is wrong.
@@sagardeep1024 तू भी नल्ला है ।
Stay single feel stronger 💪😎
No you are wrong bhai crore kama lo bhudape m pta chalega jawani m josh m sab boltey h
@@sanjaygoodlife8612 akelapan khata hai ...tab inhe Pata chalega ..ki bachee apne ho
@@sanjaygoodlife8612main shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
@@sanjaygoodlife8612to shaadi karke bhi log konse itne khush hei
Bhai Jahan dekho wahan shadi ke khilaf hi comments milte h...@@sanjaygoodlife8612
Don't Marry earn money & travell 👍
Great bhai ☺️👍
Yas bro
Kiske sath...?
@@discriptiveenglish1200 akele ... travel karo 🤗
@@discriptiveenglish1200 Bangkok chale jao 😁
शादी करना हर तरह से नुकसान नुकसान और नुकसान ही है
Right by legal definition.
@@VISHALKUMAR-gn7bj 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🤠🤠🤠
Ek dum sahi
Absolutely right
tatti + patli tatti = shadi
शादी करना आजादी और हंसती खेलती जिंदगी को बलि चढ़ाना है
Right
You are right bro 😂😂😂😂😂
Sahi baat hai 😢
Bhai kis word m ho old hoge to. Sadness kiske sath batoge😂😂😂
@@aomisicjo talakshuda hote ya jinke pati ya patni mar jaate h wo jeete nahi h kya ?
भाई आपकी बातें सुनकर मुझे बहुत अच्छा लगा। (भाई मुझे सादी नहीं करनी) है आप लोग बताओ कि मैं अच्छा कर रहा हु कि गलत मुझे लड़कियों से बहुत नफरत है भाई
आप अपने जगह पर सही हो भाई
Good
Bilkulll nhi karna chahiye shadi
Sahi kar rhe ho
Iska anubhav shadi hone par hi hota hai
All Indian parents need this mentality!!!
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@@Lucky-co7en😂😂😂sahi bole bhai
हा सर मुझे भी इस शादी मे नई पड़ना मुझे केवल प्रभु कि भक्ति करना है बस....
Very good
Radhe Radhe 🙏
Nice
Main samjha Mahadev ke raste pe hum hi akele hain... Hn hum lagat the.....
Maine God chune hai,Sir sadi karna hi nahi hai
Har Har Mahdev
100% शादी से हानि ही होती नफरत होती है मुझे शादी के नाम से किसी लड़की का गुलाम बनके रहने से ज्यादा अच्छा अकेले रहो ऐश करो👄👄
Nice
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Msin shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
Koi bimari ho gayi ya ghar wale mar gaye tab akele aish kar paayenge ? Budaape me aish kaise kare ?
@@ashuvijay7031 bhai bilkul mt kro shadi.....health hi sab kuch hai...paisa kamawo aur pura india ghumo....ye best life rhegi....aur paisa hoga toh budape me 100 log sewa krne wale mil jyenge
बुद्धिमान व्यक्ति कभी शादी नहीं कराता
I agree bro
Bro agar shadi nhi ki toh bhai bandhu sab harap kar jayenge. Rishtedar ijjat nhi denge. Samaj priority nhi dega and ek age k bad bat krne k liye koi nhi hoga
@@shubhammaheshwari5978 Mc hote hai rishtedaar or sbhi mc hote hai..Apna khud kaa jioo dusro se mat marwao
Mene bhi cansal kardi hai, aap bhi kardo
@@shubhammaheshwari5978 nahi dost aaisa nahi hota, tum srif paisa kamvo lakho mai cr mai dekho phir sab kaise ejjt dege..
Listen... Marriage is old institute that one person need partner...but in 2024 pattern is changed many men and even I also not doing any marriage ...we accept as single life forever because I already marriage with my Success and my Creativity ...i hate fake people around world who just leave their partners and move next man ....Hate Girls..No girls no problem ..Stay Single Stay Happy
Matlab aap is dar se shadi nahi krna chahte hai ki aapki Patni apko dhokha na dede
@@nishitarawatyes Aaj kal bohot si ladkiya Oyo me Jake gulcharre udati he pati ke pith piche
@@Jungle_boy123😂😂
Budape ka kya socha h ?
Haa yaar sb fake hai yaar kisi pr trust nhi kiya jaa sakta pati ke jaate hi unhe dusra mard caahiye no one is loyal hr jagah bs dhoka hai ye sab dekkr mujhe bhi shaadi se nafrat ho gyi....
Aap shadi nhi karna chahte aap galat nhi ho thank you so much anubhav sir 😥😥😥😔😔😔🙏🙏🙏
👉प्यार में विश्वास घात होने के बाद... शादी न करने वाले like करें 😄❤️❤️
Itna simple aur easy solution dete ho aap life bahot simple lagti hai apke videos dekhne ke baad pata nahi ham log kyu complicated bana dete hai....
बंधनों में कोई भी व्यक्ति खुश नही रह सकता ! 🙂
thank u so much sir bohot aela ho gya tha koyi sun nahi raha tha aur kisi aur ki jindgi nahi kharb karna chata jabrdasti ...akela rahna chata hu thank u sir aapki baatose bohot himat aayi thank u im dedicted full 100% my carrier
Aapne 100% decision le liya shadi nahi karne ka ?
Great sir jha tak m janta hu shadi sab bekar h..I m 💯 percent practical..if u u want to spoil your life then go ahead... focus on your career..it's you marry
Budapa kaise katega ye dar kaise mitaayen ?
ham life mein kabhi akele nahi hote
Akelapaan toh ek wahem hai ☺️
Sahi bat h is duniya me koi akela nhi 7.5b log sath ji rahe h or sath marne wale he
Sahi bola ab jese ki hum shadi se bach rahe he to dekho sab bach rahe he aur hum jaag rahe video dekh rahe to sab yahi kar rahe aur comments bhi kar rahe he..to akele kese fir 😃😂😁
Waah 👍
Shadi karu yaar nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
main Shadi karu yaa nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
Shadi ka mtlb aazadi khatam ...aur aazadi sbse jaruri h Jeevan me 😍
Sahi kaha bhai
Right
Right bro
But budaape ka kya kare ?
@@ashuvijay7031 Bhai vaise bhi bachhe wradhha aasharam me chod denge ..kya garanti h ki wo tujhe rakhenge
Jo ladkiya shadi nahi karna chahti....wo yaha like kare
Me to ladke karunga i am gay
After reading some of the comments I realized that some of didn't understand the true meaning what he wants to convey..
He just wants to say that there are pros and cons of every thing and every situation and life wants us to be open to such circumstances rather than being at very extremities. Just because your past or someone else past have not been so good or bad you can't decide. So accept from life the blessings it provides..
Hey Anubhav
Is this what you want to convey..
Shadi krna insan ki own choice h. Uske liye mentally strong hona chiye.... Taki society ki baoin ko ignore kr sake....
Good
अपने मन की सुनो और freedom को enjoy करो
लास्ट लाइन important थी money is important
Sahi kaha dear....but society ni jeene deti
कमेंट में बहुत सारे लोग बहुत सारी बातें कह रहे हैं पर मैं इस दुनिया में सिंगल ही रहना चाहता हूं ⚔️,,,,,,,,⚔️
Aapki age kya ho gayi ?
Budape ka kya socha h
आपकी बातें सुनकर मन को बहुत तसल्ली मिली ऊर्जा भी धन्यवाद भैया
Sir mai ye video aapka bhot late dekh ri hu...aapne bhot correct chij kahi hai.itna samjhne or samjhane Wale parents ki bhot need hai
ak kaam karo tum meri friend ban jaao taaki sukh dukh me ak dusre ko support kar sake ! Friendship hamesha Bani rahti h baaki rishte toot jaate h
Sir 9 year relationship ke badh jab dhoka mila mujhe pyar me tab PTA chla mujhe ki sadi kitni buri chij h akele rho life me jyada khush rhoge.
Aaj ke time me koi visvash ke laayak nahi h...khud ke liye khud hi apna Humsafar Bane yahi sahi hai
muje sadi nhi karni hi mujhe bachche pasand nhi hi mujhe aajad rehna hi par mujhe forsh kiya ja rhe hai my bhot hi garib parivaar se hu is liye my kisi ka jivan khrab nhi karna chahta
Right yaar
34 ka ho gaya ab kya karung shaadi karke
Thank you sir, I sat very badly in my heart that I do not want to get married, but now everything has gone away ...
All the best :)
but ku yrr
@@AnubhavJain Shadi karu yaar nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
@@ashuvijay7031 busy raho kisi cheez me..jaise business kro kuch..jisse mind busy rahe or life me ghumo firo enjoy kro
@@ashuvijay7031 Vipassana meditation karo
Right☺️ shadi nahi krni to koi force nahi kr skta...bs independent raho khush raho sbka accha socho...apni jarurato k paise save kro..lifetime k liye...
and world tour kro mere jaise....kuch ni rakha shaadi m
@@preetychaudhary3406 right☺️
Bat to apki sahi hai mam. Shadi is a trap for whole life.
Duniya ka sabse bada jhuth aur pak hand hai shadi kash koi government shadi pe rik lagati
@@preetychaudhary3406 aapki age kitni ho gayi ?
When a thirsty person desperately looks for water in desert, same way I found my questions answer of not getting married and I am finally happy being single. thanks to you and to Sadguru.
God bless you
Still single or committed??
Mat karo shadi bahut khush rahoge. Mark my words😊
@@Raju-qf4is aapane shadi ki he kya bhai
@@yogeshjayantburande1839 apko kya lagata hai?
Main to saadi tabhi hi karunga jab koe mere jaisa milegi clean and pure ,jo ki aaj ke time me possible nhi h isliye mujhe saadi hi nhi karni hain or Rahi baat child ka to adopt kar lenge kam se kam kisi anath ke kaam to aayenge.
Bhai Mera bhi yahi plan ban Raha h kisi bacche ko adopt kar le...shadi se badiya...! Aapki kya age ho gayi h
Shadi na karna koi crime nhi hai 🙏
Aajke dhokebaaz duniya me koi kisika nahi hai marna ek din sabhi ko hai chahe marriage karo ya na karo bacche karo ya na karo. Isse accha hai bezubaan janwaro ko khaana do gariboon ki madad karo,samaj ke liye kuch karo.mein lifetime unmarried rahunga khush rahunga .🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne.ham bhi aise he h.hame bhi Saadi nhi karna h.
Anaath baccho ko adopt kar lengy but Saadi nhi karengy.kyoki ham spritual life may kadam rakh chuke h.aur ab hame Saadi ki koi jarurat mahsus nhi hoti
@@laxmisinha6393 Dhanyawad kitne ucch vichar hai aapke. Aaise hi soch aajkal sab ka hoga to kitna accha hoga.🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@laxmisinha6393
Akelapan nahi feel hota ?
Kaise deal karti ho unsare feelings se .
Shadi ke alawa relationship mai jana , bina shadi ki bhawna se dusre ko dhokha dena feel lagta hai .
@@karan145 - aapka aisa question uthana galat nhi h.but jaisa ki video may bataya Gaya h ki kisi bhi person ka Saadi na karne ka xyz koi bhi strong reson ho sakta h right.sir but Saadi nhi kar rahy h iska Matlab ye nhi ki bahar jaa kar dusre say maje le ya kisi mard ka Ghar ujaad de.har insaan ek jaisa nhi hota.sabki soch ek jaisi nhi hoti.rahi baat ham kaise rahte h to ham Bata de.ki hame spritual life he pasand h.ham self depend h.pure vegetarian h.aur ek baccha adopt karengy par abhi ussay milte usay ham pyar karte h.ham anath asaram ,vridh asarm bhi jaate h . hospital bhi jaate h round may.ovarall hame nhi lagta ki ham kuch galat h .aisi h hamari life.aur aage ham Saadi nhi karna chahte kyoki ham nhi chahte hamari kamayi kisi aur k haath may jaaye aur wo ham samaj sewa karne par rok he laga de.
Me bi Ni karna Chahta Shaadi....Me akela rehna pasand hai....Meri life me Mera Career Aur Cricket bahut important hai....🏏🏏🏏🏏🏏🏏🏏👍👍👍👍thank you sir....
क्या बात है ,सेम
Same Bro... Love Cricket 🏏🏏
Be Single ❤️
Cricketer bnne k baad actress se shaadi krni hogi ...🙄
Kya family ki khushi k lie sadi krne k bad v koi h jo sirf dost bn kr puri life ek sath gujar de taki ek dusre ka shyog v kre or budhape ka shara v bn sk ek dusre ka... Pti patni na bne sirf dost bn k life gujare to mere ko lgta h k sb kuchh bhot achhe se bitega.... Me ko life me saririk samipta nhi chahie islie sadi ni krna chahti kya koi or v h jo meri tara sochta h? Agr koi sadi k bad v mere sath puri life sirf ek achha dost bn k rhna chahe to me apni family k lie sadi kr lungi.... But bidougt physical relationship k.. Ha agr bchhe ka sok h to bchha god v lia ja skta h isse hmari problem v solve ho jaegi or ek anath bchhe ko ma bap ka pyar v mil jaega isse bda koi punya ka kam ni ho skta
@@Sharma_Sir budaape me kya karoge kon sahara dega
Excellent information I am also unmarried 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Lot of positivity and confidence comes by such topic discussion.............🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Marriage is mentally and physically prepared for any situation or crisis through companionship with both live within rich or poor situation not expecting anything from eachother is a good marriage.😀😀
Msin shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
@@ashuvijay7031 to kya shadi karane se health achhi ho jayegi? Be clear. Un healthy ho to kuchh aisa karo ki healthy ho jao. Shadi na karo jo kucch bachi hai sehat wo bhi chali jayegi.
@@ashuvijay7031Bhai main wohi to bata Raha hoon ki shadi karne se aap ki sehat sudhar jayegi kya?
1.agar aap khud sehatmand nahi ho to kya guarantee hai ki apka partner apka sath dega?
2.agar aap ye soch rahe ho ki wo tumhara Sahara ban jayenge to aap bilkul galat track par ho.
3.shadi ke bajaye sehat par dhyan do.
4.shadi kya davai hai kya?
5.shadi hone ke bad achha khasa adami pareshan ho jata hai.
6.mera yakin maniye shadi ke bad kharche ekdum se badh jate hai.
7.bande ko kuchh samajh aa jaye us se pahale itani sari cheeje ek sath badal jati hai.
8.bhai mai apko koi tana nahi mar Raha hoon.bas sachchai bata Raha hoon.
@@Raju-qf4ismotivation dene ke liye thanks Bhai. !ab bas budapa kaise katega...iska dar or door kar do to aapki badi kripa hogi
Thanku so much sir you are right marriage bilkul bhi important nhi Thanku support krne ke liye
Akela rhna duniya me super se bhi uppar hai
All the best :)
But budape me strong kaise bane
i just wish everyone in the society could have such a great mindest. The life could have been at another level.
Boond boond se sagar banta he dost. To aap kisi ko ye chij shikao apne aap society change hogi. Society kon he aap ho me or aaju baju ke log.👍👍👍
Totally agree with you
for long time i have been feeling unfortunate for being unmarried
Aap ne shadi nahi ki kya
Shadi sabko karni hoti hai bas dikhawa kar te hai.
Sir Mai Bhi 100 Percent Kabhi Bhi Shaadi Nahi Karna Chahta Hu Mai Single Hi Rahena Chahta Hu Akele Rahene Mai Hi Khushi Hai
@Abhay kumar padhy Very Nice
Bahot jldi smj Aya ap logo ko
Same yar..... Khon tenshan pale ga, akle life mje me chal rai ha
Hmm right sir im agree
Single is Best life
Toh karne do yaar bhar mein jaye. Oh what a line! Great Anubhav Sir. I also want to stay single for lifetime.
Me also.
Me also but parivar aur samaj nahi samjhata bhawan meri ye icha puri karo mujhe nahi karna shadi please
Budaape ka kya socha h kaise spend karna h sir ?
Thankyou sir bahut motivation mili aapki video dekh kr...
But gharwalon se zyada Relatives interfare krte hain...
Na Dhang se pdney dete hain..
Na self pr focus krne dete hain....
Aur Gharwaley bhi unke influence mein aakar Humey force krne lagte hain..
Fir wo bhi un relatives ki hee tarah negative ho jate hain...
Aisey mein kya kia jaye sir...
Ghar ka Environment bhi bahut stressful ho jata hai fir...
Dittoo situation with me....
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I am also agree with you but sab log bolte hai ki maa baap jab tak hai tab tak to thik hai uske baad kaun kiska hota hai na bhai na bahan na rishtedaar to shadi kar lo par ek janwar ko samjhna bhut aasan hai par kisi insaan ko samjhna bhut muskil aaj ke time me i am also worry about two faces persons ....😕
Sir apki wife, mom , dad bahut lucky hai ki aap unke pass hai unko aap pr proud feel hota hoga aur hum logo ko bhi ki humari yoth generation ko guide karne ke liye apke jaisa insaan you tube pr hai. Bhagwaan apko humesha khush aur salaamat rakhe🙏🙏
Thank you bhai, God bless you :)
@@AnubhavJainसर आप विवाहित हो या अविवाहित
Mera shadi nahi karne ka reson h waada...maine kisi se wada kiya tha ki mai shadi karunga to usi se warna zindagi bhar kunwara rahunga...ab wo nhi rahi😭😭.. lekin mai ye wada zindagi bhar nibhaunga 😢😥
Apko dunya yaad rakhegi
हा सर बुढ़ापे मे आश्रम जाएँगे या फिर भीख हि माँग लेंगे इस पेट के लिए..... कोई बात नई लेकिन इस मानव जीवन के बंधन से निकल कर भागवत धाम जाने कि जरूर प्रयास करेंगे
God
थोडा काम करके पैसा एकत्र करले।भीख नही मागना।कुछ वर्षो बाद बहुत से व्रद्धास्रम हो जायेगे वहाॅ एडजस्ट हो जाना।
Great thought
Sir kya baat boli h aapne mera confusion door ho gya Main single hi rahunga
Budape ka kya socha h ?
Sex ka kya socha h
Sir aap n aaj meri sari confusion dur kr hi mai 99% sure tha ki shadi nhi krni 1 % confusion thi wo aaj aap n dur kr di thanku u so much...aap really m outstanding personality ho.
Aapne budape ka kuch socha kya
@@ashuvijay7031 budhapa budhapa kya laga raha hai kabhi dukh kabhi sukh aapka matlab hai budhape me patni kaam aayegi man se vichar nikal do jab tak jiye khusi se life me pta nahi kitney din ki zindagi hai aagey ka kon socha hai jab tak jiyo apney aap se prem karo
God loves all human being s married n unmaried God gives the life for both so no need to worry about human being ! Sir is rit here ! Thanks!
According to my opinion shaadi tabhi kero jab aap success ho or kisi need ho want nahi .
success kai maene har individuals kai liye alge alge ho sakte hai
thqqq so much sir apne mri confusion dur kr ab m apni single life independency k sath jee skti hu infuture mujhe lga to baby adopt kr lugi pr Sadi kbhi ni aj k logo pr m bhrosa ni kr skti jo insan apki jawani hi cheen le mrta chod de usse budhape m kya ummd krge thx a lot sir 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hi
He had said about that there will be someone to take care of you in old age
But our partner would be old too, and maybe also suffering from health issues himself / herself. How much they cN take care of you. Also mostly one partner passes away first, other may be left alone for many years in old age .
Thank you bhaiyya 🙏🙏🙏 mai yhii baat apne parents ke muh se sunna chahti hu ..🙁 mere parents or chhota bhai sab ek jise hi hai..
God bless you :)
Same here
Mere bhi ki shadi to krni hi hogi
Muje bhi nhi krni shadi
@@cuteysona3946 Hi aapne shadi ka kya socha h
Sir apne bilkul sahi kaha ap jaise log bahaut kam milte hai .sir apne bahaut ache se youngers , adults ko samjhaya marriage ke bare mein thank you so much 🙏
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There is nothing wrong to do not marry.
Only if some of our parents understood this🤧
Exactly 👍
@@aninditadevi1111 We should live our lives not our parents' lives.
Bhai🤣India me bhot bda gunaah hai chahe shadi na kro to😥.Akela rha jaa skta hai pr india k society walo ko kon smjhaye
Shadi karu yaar nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
Kisiko nahi karni chahiye!!
Apne aap ko pareshaani mein phasa loge!!
Budape ka kya kare. ? Budape ka dar hi shadi ke liye majboor karta h
जो अकेले खुश नही रह सकता है वो किसी के साथ खुश नही रह सकता है.. Don't mind sir but shadi se akelapan dur nahi hota hai.. akelapan insaan ka swabhav hai
Bhai main akele khush hona seekh Gaya...abhi age 34 h but health bhut weak h health par focus karta hu to Shadi ki age nikal jaayegi
@@ashuvijay7031 : shadi ki age aap nirdhaarith karte ho, samaj nahi! Randeep hooda 47 mein shadi kar rahe hain!
बिल्कुल सही
Sir ek suggestion he. aap playlist bana lo jab time mile aap ko tab kyuki jo viewers he unko same problem ho to jaldi video dhundh sakte he.👍 You are doing great job ❤️👏👏👏
Jiske.satha.hara.khusi.mile.vohi.na.mile.to.sadi.kiyu.dusre.se.kare
Thank sir apne bht achha jawab diya, mai kab se dhundh rahi thi es sawal ka jawab ki,shadi na krna koi gunah hai kya pr apse jawab mil gaya sir
Thanks a lot sir
ak kaam karo tum meri friend ban jaao taaki sukh dukh me ak dusre ko support kar sake ! Friendship hamesha Bani rahti h baaki rishte toot jaate h
100percent correct ..in all respects
And all remedies so simply and beautifully explained....So Matured.I wish all people used their experiences nd learn from others experiences like you.Never Judge anyone for their personal choices....World would become such a better place to live in....I personally Thank you for ur contribution in making so many efforts to change d mentality of the people.I wish u immense wisdom good health and peace of mind to carry on this good work.Thank you.
Thank you Pooja :)
@@AnubhavJain@AnubhavJain sir maa baap ke 15 saal ke continue jhagde gf ke chhodkar jaane job exam me fail hone se bhai ke love marriage karke Ghar chhod jaane se..time par shadi nahi hone se main buri tarah depression me aa gaya mentally bhut weak ho gaya...abhi age 33 ho gayi... depression tetn ka patient ban gaya ! Job h par mentally fit nahi hu to pahle shadi Karu ya pahle khud ko 2-3 sal mentally strong banaun q ki chhoti se chhoti baat ko main mind se nikal hi nahi paata...koi bhi jimmedari ya koi bhi negative baat mujhe khush hone se rok deti h meri health bigad jaati h main kha pee nahi paata so nahi paata...mind se negative vichaar nikalta hi nahi fir neend depression ki goliyan Leni padti h ! Shadi ke baad to bhut jimmedari tanaav dukh aate h to pahle strong Banu ya pahle shadi Karu...or jaisi meri family h uske hisaab se to shadi ke liye ladki dhundna bhi mere liye tetn depression ka reason ban gaya h ! Main kya karu ? Ak taraf age jyada ho gayi dusri taraf mentally fit nahi hu...mujhe shadi se pahle apne man or Shareer ko patthar banana h lekin shadi ki last age is Target me baadha ban Rahi h
Shaadi woh karta ha jo akele nhi reh pata or kisi bhi mushkil ko hal nai kar pata or mein shaadi nahi karunga q ki me apni sari mushkil apne aap hal kar sakta hu 💪💪
I have too decided to stay unmarried in my life..Marriage should be a personal choice and decision and Constitution gives us the right to do so..
Budape ka kya socha h
I sersly don't want to get married as I want to visit Europe make money enjoy life . My parents are after my life as I am 28 yrs and still single. Every one asks the same question but I know one day I will live my dreams in Europe.
No chandan Pandey just want to visit Europe coz of its natural beauty
Waw mam .god bless u..
Seema shaikh thanx a tonne kyunki logo ne kuch aur hi mtlb nikala
@@shwetasingh6707 ese log to chhichorre ,jahil hote hain ,ignore them unka opinion se koe fark ni padta
@aditi anupam thanx 🙏
Thank you bhaee ,I am in tears after listening to you kaas ye baat hmare maa baap samjh pate ,logo ke baato se parents presan ho jate h ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Koi baat nahi, tumhara bhai hai naa samjhane ke liye :)
@@AnubhavJain yes yes bilkul I sincerely respect you, and proud of you bhaee,
Mere parents mujhe smjh hi nh pa rhe mai bhut dipressed ho gyi hu mujhe shadi nh krni h bt they force me
@Jain I m llb student nd I m not well settled now
@Jain bhaiya lykin parent itne emotionaly toucher krte study p bhi focus krna muskhil lg rha h Or phr whi baat shadi kr lo phr pdho lykin mujhe shadi m koi interest hi nh h
Yea Dunia me aisha lordki nehi hai jo swarth ke bina shadi kore😊
Ap ki bate mann ko chu gayi,acha laga mujhe bhi shadi nhi karna,na hi ghar wale jor karte hai, unka kahna hai nhi karni mat karo koi bat nhi,
Budape ka kya socha h ?
Sexual needs ka kya socha h
Jo batein aap ne boli hai sir Aaj kal Aisa kuch nhi hai ... kisike sath hoke bhi akela hi hai har koi ...sab moh maya hai 🙏
Sir hume logo ki bato se farak Nahi pdta ....pr parents pressurised ho jate Hain society ke kaarn fir vo Apne bacho par Marji chlate Hain or Bache kuchh Nahi kar pate
Aise maa baap apne bacche se pyar nhi karte, wo narcissists hote hai , unhe unka social status jyada imprtant rakta hai , aur unhe nhi jaanna ki bacche k man me kya hai,
@@nishikumari4859 specially in villages ✅✅
True.. jb tk ye society kya kahegi 4 log kya khenge wali baat khtm ni hogi logo k dimag se..tb tk hm apni hi life apne hisab se jee hi nhi skte, chahe wo love ka matter ho ya career ka ya fir shadi ka..na to career apni mrji se bna skte na shadi apni mrji se kr skte h or if shadi na b krni ho to uska b option nhi milta h... specially hm ladkiyo ko...just bcz of this SOCIETY & Log kya kahenge wali mentally
Fir hmare emotions parents se jude hote h to chahke b kuch ni kr skte😞
@@BhavnaSharma_196 koi zabardasti Nahi Kar sakta isliye in Sab baaton se Kuch Nahi hota isliye tumhe Jo Karna hai wahi Karo Kisi ki bhi interfere mat Karne do
Apne hisaab se jio
@@vishalthakur3944 ye sb sirf kehne ki baat h..itna aasan nhi hota h..hmare emotions hi hmari weekness bn jate h hr bar
Thank you sir is topic pe baat karne ke liye mai bhi ab 100% sure hu ki mujhe shaadi karni nhi h
Boht sahi bole aap... Mai bhi yehi soch rha hu
Budaape me kon sahara banega fir ??
Main Shadi karu yaa nahi is dwand ki vajah se rojaana meri neend kharab ho rahi h...neend hi nahi aati h or aati h to toot jaati h... Maine apni 32 sal ki life me maa baap ke beech hamesha jhagde dekhe h jiski vajah se mera man shaadi ke liye mar chuka h but akelapan sata raha h or jo decision lena h abhi lena h q ki age nikal rahi h or abhi physically mentally or emotionally bhi bhut weak hu... To shadi se jyada jaruri khud ko sahi karna h par akelapan dukhi kar deta h jisse khud ko theek karne me dikkaten aa rahi h ! Plz guide me 🙏🙏😭😭
@@ashuvijay7031 meditation kijiye suru ke 5-7 din dikt hogi fir sab samj aa jayega
@@ashuvijay7031 : Retirement homes
Thnkuuu for such video....u are best having every solution...god bless u.... people who are connected to u....are very lucky 🙏....I don't want to get married I want my carier .... but parents say how will u live alone ,who will take care of u.....but they support in my carrier a lot
Thank you, God bless you :)
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Thanks sir muje idea drne ke liye aab mene soch liya hai shaddi nahi karunga ek ladka adopt Kar ke uska life better karunga
Shadi krna matlab zindagi ko nark mein dalne ki saman hai....
Stay independent & stay single 🎉❤
According to me marriage must complete all steps.
1st step physical relationship ( 100% people reach there )
2nd step emotional relationship ( 70 % people reach this level)
3rd step mental relationship (10% people reach this level,ex all successful person )
4th step spiritual level ( 1% people reach this level ex all spiritual leader ,philosher etc)
Note - Step 1 & step 2 can be interchanged wrt arrange marriage/ love marriage .
People are doing marriage for following reasons
1.sex
2.lifetime partner
3.money-dowry (girl), job(boy)
4.child
5.societal pressure
6.no old school/ college l friends left
7.no clear goal in life
8.depression / stressful life .
💯 true h sir
Wat an analysis
Correct sir..kash Mai apka msg pahle deqti...
@@Shikshika980 ab kya hua.. Marriage kr li?
What about parental/peer pressure?
Great video Sir, as always. One more point is often we may want companionship but might not be emotionally ready at that point of time. Companion kaisa hai yeh bhi dekhna zaroori hota hai, kuch log hote hai kisise bhi karlo kyunki shaadi ki umar hai, I dont know what kind of logic is that and then being unhappy afterwards. Khush nahi ho paaye kisike saath phir toh woh akele rehne se bhi zyada akelapan ho gaya!!! So people should take their time, let things flow naturally, and not be 100% sure from before. Simply because, you never know!
Very well said, a critical point to keep in mind, you are a mature person :)
@@AnubhavJain 😁💛
I don't want to live with someone I like loneliness a lot
Mee to
Meto😉🙏👍🏼
Same
but ku yrr life mai kisi ka saath hona important h ji
@@rajeshbhai7747 sath chahiiye tu kutta pallo Bhai kutta vafadar hota hai insan nhi kadava hai magar such hai 🙏🙏🙏
Sir me Bihar se hu mai aapk her vedio deakh chuki hu aapka margdarshan mere liye bhut helpfull hota jab v kabhi prblm m hoti aapk vedio deakh m energetic feel kr k aapna routine again maintain krne lgti
आप बिहार के किस जिले से हो
Merko ko ladkiyo ne hamesha use kiya hai chahe wo family friends wali ho ya non family friends wali. Main kaafi isse irritate hota tha kyunki wo ladkiyan dusre ladko ko bahut importance deti thi par mujjhe nahi. Phir jab maine general knowledge padhna shuru kiya wildlife, space science, electronics and communication and world politics ki knowledge lene laga yeh karke mujhe itna accha laga ki mera ladkiyon se dhyan hat gaya aur aaj itna accha feel kar raha aur maine nofap shuru kiya aur 24 din ho gaye shuru kiye mujhe itna energetic feel ho raha hai ki main life me kuch creative karna chahta hun aur iske liye main shaadi nahi karna chahta. Main single hi bahut khus hun.
Hi
Great sir Ji 💐. Your voice touch my heart ❤️. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.
I have been reading your answers on quora since 3,4 years .
You motivated me always
I was in 9 th then
Now Im in first year of graduation
And like always you keep enriching my mind with amazing concepts which consolidate my thought process and whenever I feel any ambiguity regarding anything I read your Answers on quora and now i do watch your videos on youtube.
This really clears my self doubt and i can live a life without guilt or regrets.
A very big thanks to my dear author for guiding and motivation me sir.
From a fellow reader(learner to be precise)
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Glad to know that, you have been associated with me for so long. God bless you :)
@@AnubhavJainMsin shadi karna chahta hu... Lekin health itni kharab h ki kar nahi paa raha... Age 33 ho gayi... Ab shadi ke liye age nikalne ki chinta se hi health nahi ban paa rahi... Bina fit huye shadi karna bekaar h ! Health banane ke chakkar me shadi ki age nikal rahi h ! Samajh nahi aa raha pahle health banau ya shadi karu q ki age 33 weight 48kg or baal jhad chuke kanjor hu bhut or depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya jab 1 sal pahle bhai ke love marriage karke ghar chhod gaya ! Main kya karu salah do
Mujhe bhi shadi nhi karna but mere family wale hamesha shadi ki jabarjasti karte rahte hai
Gi
Contract marriage kar lo, alag alag rahenge aur naam bhi ho jayega shaadi ka
sir aap ne bilkul sahi kaha, mera bhi yahi soch hai mujhe sirf apne aapse matlb hai or apne parents se matlb hai, mujhe akele rehena jada pasand hai, or frnds banana pasnd hai, isse jada or kuch nai, me apni lyf se khus hun govt. job bhi krta hun or masti bhi🎉🎉
Bhai meri bhi govt job h ...shadi nahi karna chahta ....main teacher hu or sirf 2 kam me khush hu bodybuilding or School bas in 2 kaamo se bhut lagav h mera par budaape ka dar baar baar shadi ke baare me sochne par majboor kar raha h
Dekho aap Kitna achcha batate Ho shaadi karne ya na karne ke upar lekin aniruddh Aacharya pata nahin kaise bolate Hain samajh mein❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You explain it very practically .....Thank u so much sir
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I am 26 yrs old and I Achive Govt. Job it's been 2 yrs, 1 year before I told to my parents that I want to marry Becouse I feel alone. But some reason now I confused that I do or not marry, and It seem time will decide my decision 🙏🙏
Same condition..i work at jaipur police but i don't marry ...me kese parent's ko.....i like alone all life....
Bhai jab umar dhalne lagegi...tab etne akele ho jaoge to koi puchega bhi nahi.
@@jordannishan8938 jisne jindgi di h vo dhalti Umar b sambhal lega
@@jordannishan8938 इसकी क्या गारंटी है कि बुड्ढे होने पर हमारे बच्चे हम को संभाल लेंगे
@@jordannishan8938 to kya shadi se akele pan dur hota hai kya? Akelapan ek vaham hai aur kuchh nahi. Apne kam me vyast raho kahe ka akelapan!? 😊
सर् शादी की डेफिनेशन में तो फुल नम्बर।useful इंफॉर्मेशन
last me perfect line bola aapne agar sadi nhi karna toh paisa savings karo taki old age me servant rakh sake
Correct hai, is topic par society me abhi aur awareness chahiye
I am a working professional,not happy with my present job ,living in a hell .I want to become an IAS officer .continuously failed prelims 3 times and 3 attempts still in my hand .as I am continuously failing nobody supporting me including family ,relatives, friends, colleagues. Everybody pressurising for marriage as I am in 30s .But I decided my dream is more important than love sex marriage .I can't live without my dream. Till my last attempt I will try .
Go for your dreams!!!
I also want same
Mere 3 relatives ka divorce ho chuka hai 2 abhi process me hai so mera to shadi se bharosa उठ gaya .abhi sarkar ne shadi ki ladki ki umar 35 karni chahiye kyuki उस umar me ladaki shadi ka sab chakkar samj jayegi
Mere bhi shadi se bharosa uth gaya parents ke jhgdo or unke divorce or Bhai or uski wife ke jhgdo or unke divorce dekhkar ! Ab kisi se judne ka man hi nahi karta
Muje old life nahi jeeni only 45 age end so I m happy I m 29 year old & I m single
वाह, सर क्या समझाते हो आप... Thanks alot
👌👌👌👌👌👌👌sir aaj aapki bat se hm bahot khush huye ..kyonki mujhe bhi sadi nhi krni h
Mujko bhi I hate family
Iss topic pr bhi video bnaye aur logo ko jagruk kriye ....jo lo bolten hn ldki h ye to sasural chli jayegi hmare budhape ka sahara to hmara beta hi bnega...esi soch almost 3/4 h India me...
There is only one way to remove this thought from their mind ,education. But we should try to change their mindset and by God I am doing it 🙏
@@sanjivy5972 yeah I agree with u...I am looking for that day when everyone on the way of education.