THE SAD TRUTH ABOUT BEING AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE | WHY SO MUCH HATE?
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- HI GUYS! IN THIS VIDEO (part one) WE DISCUSS THE PROS AND CONS OF BEING IN AN INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP. WE LIVE IN TEXAS, SO SOMETIMES IT CAN BE A REAL PROBLEM. ALTHOUGH WE FACE A LOT OF HATE, WE ALSO GET A LOT OF LOVE.
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My husband was scared to tell his parents that we were dating he waited almost 6 months to tell them that I was black and a single mom. Once he told them they were really accepting and wanted to meet us immediately. We have been together for 20 years and still going strong!!
Nice:)
As a black mother, I love that. I wouldn’t care who my two angel kids bring home (yes they’re grown, but will always be my babies❤️), If they are worthy and love my angels it’s all good. Truly, there are so many good attributes in all races. I thank my mom and dad for teaching that to me.
Im so happy for u and there are a lot of good people out here in the world I don’t get it when people ack like that because at the end of the day everybody is different colors black people are different colors some are light and some are dark same with white people i have met some white people that was just as dark as i am and i have met some that was really really light so every color is different but what is the same and will never change is we all even animals bleed 🩸 red blood so we are all gods children 🤔
Ur welcome 🤩🤗👍🌻🌸🌈✨🌼😇🌹🌷💐
Ironic you get looks from black men and white women. They’ve been dating each other forever.
What is forever? See it's about sex. Black men saw how white men was doing black females during slavery and afterwards and wanted to join in the fun white men was having with his race of women. So In order to have sex, he had to date, white men never had to date black women for sex. So today sistas feel honored that the white man is now taking her out it public.
I been there with my Beautiful black girlfriend. Stare from black guys and whites girls
@@tommyisrael6038 black men hate I'm black women date out of their race but they want today out of the race and think it's okay
@@mp4203 isn't that so hypocritical black man and white women want to do what they want to do but yet they don't want white men and black women to do together
@@mp4203 hell white girls get it worst than anybody. Don't let a good looking white female be with a black man. The whole world stares. Hell she gets disowned and taken out the will. Hell even a white dude with a black girl will still stare hard if he saw a beautiful white girl with a black man. Let's not pretend
I’m white, and all I see is two beautiful people who fell in love with each other..who cares what people say👍👍❤️💕
Twana Stockton ❤️ Thank you! We agree 100% Thanks for watching
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twana is not a white people name
kobra My name is not for a specific race
I'm with you on that note! because technically I'm so outdone with this whole race thing, in GOD's eyes were ALL ONE RACE. I don't know anyone that has a different color of BLOOD we all bleed RED
When I see an interracial couple (WM/BW) out in public, I only look at them because I think it's a beautiful thing. It's nice seeing people happy together and race does not matter. Love is love.
Amen.
...and they are both very attractive as well.
That's bc you have a different race on yo arm😆
Me too!
The contrasting color s are just eye catching . even when you wear a combination of dark and bright it just glows
First BLK Women u ever dated and u put a 💍on it..speaks volumes...💋💅🏾👑
That's right! Yeah! He's awesome! So happy to have him. 😊🙌
I'm say something I ain't trying to offend anyone but white girls are just not wife material.in my whole 30 years of living have I ever met a white girl that's made me think.I'm gonna marry this girl .they're boring but every black girl Iv met Iv always had the best times with.I'm 30 and I still remember the 1st black girl I ever really talked to , I was 18. One thing I really love about black women is they at least let you know when your fuckin up .white girls will won't say shit and me since I'm a guy I can't notice hints to good.I honestly am trying to explain this as best as I can but a black girl makes you feel like your her man .like y'all are a couple and its not just her and your just there .being with a white girl is just not rewarding and it becomes a ok now what kinda feeling its dull .I don't think black women actually realize of how good of women they really are.I guarantee you this man has never felt more of a man than he does now with his wife.lucky dude
Marriage is not mankind’s panacea. Human beings are not solely generated for “marriage” or “children”. We are not merely just carnal (physical) entities. There’s a multitude of “Black Women need to know their worth” comments or “black men genetics need to be extinct” comments. Let’s have an adult, non-emotional, fact-based conversation about their “worth”. What have black women pioneered or contributed to mankind? Roads? Technological innovations? What exactly? I’ll wait. I can see excuses coming from a mile away. Many are like Torie. Empty, shallow, narcissistic, vain, inauthentic -- with ridiculous hashtags all over social media, such as “blackgirlmagic” or “melaninated” etc (primarily fake hair and beauty products) -- clear indicators of discomfort towards what they should be naturally.
They frequently hypocritically call other women “becky”. Many black american and african women are intrinsically psychologically unhealthy. Even white friends confide that to me. They seek unhealthy validation by the media and social media. Uncomfortable with their true essence, they can’t help but cater to the others’ approval of them.
@@xxgavinxxx1883 lmao you can't stereotype a whole race. How about all these white women you've been with are just not your type. What you said is disgusting and stupid
XXGavinXX x forgive me for asking but are you black or white? You don’t have to answer, I’m just trying to see which side you are coming from.
I grew up in an interracial home so seeing two different races is normal to me. I love interracial relationships.
You are exactly like me,seeing a black and white together is just like rice and beans 😋
I've been dating black women for 30 years and never had a problem. We have 9 kids. We live 20 miles north of Austin.
Travis: “ I got the most hate from black men because I got one of their girls”
Me: YESSSSS YOU DOOOOO! AND I FREAKING LOVE IT ❤️ LOVE WHO U LOVE 💕
Haha! Thanks so much! That's right! Love is love- no matter what. 😊🙌
LOL, now if only black women would keep this same energy when they see a black man with a white woman, we might get somewhere!
@@mikejones1949 I think when you date someone from another culture, race, or area of the country you have to work hard to not be a stereotype. lol. You gotta make sure you are not the bad stereotypes.
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Travis didn't just get anyone, Torie is a dime! They wouldn't care at all, if she was rail thin and flat as board.
Plenty of black people know how to swim. That’s a big stereotype lie that’s been told for years.
Robin F exactly lol
Robin F Many North American blacks can’t swim but plenty of black people around the world (Caribbean, Africa, etc) can swim
Lol no one in my family can swim 🤣 including me. (And Imma Flight Attendant) smh So I definitely fall into that stereotype.
Yea I'm a black woman who knows how to swim. My father made sure of that being that I live near a beach. I'm also American.
yes but as a blk woman, i can say that my white friends are swimmers and my black friends are not. One is not better than the other. i just think learning to swim is more of a priority in the white community. there are priorities in the black community as well that my white friends don't typically learn like double dutch, hopscotch, spades etc. Im not speaking for all but most.
You also need to understand MOST of them are JEALOUS of what you have together!,
That's true.
This is so true! Jealousy 🙊
You guys are newbies at this.ive been with my black wife going on 20 years.we been through all that, now either we don't notice or just don't care.we are total opposites I'm conservative she's liberal.but you are right mostly black men get a case of the ass but I'm an alpha male.i don't take no shit.live your life and don't worry about it.be happy.
Lmao oh I love ❤️ it ur right u got to be strong when ur in an interracial relationship cause people will definitely mess with u if ur not strong. U certainly have my respect 😊
Thank you for letting me know it’s okay that as a black woman my preference for white men doesn’t mean I hate my own race.
Your preference sounds like self-hate.... js
Cause u all want brown light hair babies.
@@deniellebyrd5503 or maybe they are just bored with what they see around them all day I’m German and I’m the least interested in whites girls with blond or brown haire simple because I see tons of them all day
yes it does mean that you hate your own race!!!!!!!
Me also I started liking white men when I was in kindergarten I think it's because growing up military everybody is mixed🙌👍🏿😁
You guys are beautiful together!
Aww, thanks! 😊❤
I believe two people are connected at the heart so it doesn't matter who you are I just love you two
I think Travis is so fine and sexy!!!!
I’m in an interracial marriage. We’ve been married for 13 years. The staring will never end. We’ve had people come up to us in public places and feel they had a right to express their displeasure of seeing us together. I’ve been let go from a job for it. The hate people show can be disgusting. Stay strong in your love to each other and don’t worry about people. Your love is beautiful! ❤️
People can be so ignorant 🙏😇🥰😍
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That’s crazy . Imagine being that miserable . Lol what gets me is they act like they are being forced to lay down with someone of a different race . The same thing for people who might date the same gender . Like get a life . People are entirely to bothered by other people lives . It’s sick
Just a few days ago, I was at the mall with my white boyfriend. Mind you, I’m biracial. My father is mixed and mom is black. This guy kept staring at us while we were eating in the food court and when my boyfriend left to go to the bathroom, he came over and told me that I’m wrong for being with my boyfriend because my next generation of kids will be completely white and that I was messing up the black family/agenda by diluting it even more... it bothered me and of course I went off on him.
However through thick and thin, no matter what I won’t leave my boyfriend. He fights for me and I will fight for him. What matters is that he loves, respects, cares for and treats me with compassion. He’s the most loving and gentle person I’ve ever been with. Love is love and it shouldn’t matter what skin color you are. It shouldn’t matter the gender, creed or sexuality.
I’ve subscribed! I love you guys and hope y’all get more recognition on here. ❤️
Yeah, that sort of thing happens a lot, unfortunately. We get stares all the time, so we definitely understand. Sorry to hear about your experience at the mall. Hang on in there! Love is love, so stick by your guy no matter what. Travis and I love each other so even if we get crap for being together, it just makes our relationship stronger. Take care, love! Wishing you and your love blessings and happiness! 😊
Who does that,I would have been scared! I think something is wrong with people who are bold enough to go up to a total stranger and chastise them like that! You should have told him that you believe that the world will be destroyed by an asteroid so he doesn't have to worry about it,then he would have thought you were crazy!
Avoid the hoteps
That is so sad & sorry that has happened to you but gurl if I was with your I would have got into his ass for you. I’m sick of what’s happening in America and it’s only gotten worse with what’s in the office at this time. Live your life and be happy and love who you want, never allow another person to walk up to you and finish a sentence like what was said. Please tell me you told your boyfriend when he came back to you?
@Summer G the thing is it’s in your blood black people so infatuated with stringy hair and blue eyes it’s like coffee experiment coffee is meant to be strong keep you energized but the you add the white sugar now it’s sweet and diabetes otw then you add creamer because it’s too dark when coffee is meant to be like a natural kick for the body you weaken the genetic code but hey do as you please we got Jordan LeBron Muhammad Ali Jay Z Obama only sensible president ever and Denzel Washington we dominate wherever we get a opportunity even in the bed let a smooth brother with a good head on his shoulders come around
I love you guys. I sent this to my fiancé as he is a white French Canadian man. He’s never been in a interracial relationship yet I have. I wanted him to know I was raised not to see color but love. He’s so amazing with such a big heart. I’m truly blessed! 🙏🏾❤️
Yeah my preference is white guys/Italians/Canadians/etc but that is because THEY accept me for how I look versus black men that picks on me and disses me on my looks so I decided to date out my race because I want to be with someone that I feel comfortable with about my insecurities and I want to be with someone that is okay with me not being as attractive as a Beyoncé, Rihanna, etc. So I'm glad you stated that Torie. God bless you both.
So glad u got out of that relationship because it can be detrimental to your self esteem.love from Uganda
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Travis, is so humble.....lovely couple!
Thank you so much! 😊
I am in an interracial marriage going on 43 years. People would ask me why I did not marry someone black, I would tell them the heart knows what the heart wants and he happened to be the one I feel in love with and he with me. My family is so bi-racially mixed that it is like the United Nation. It has gotten better from when we got married but still needs to get better.💜
Congratulations on 43 yrs and I hope you have more to come 🎉🙏.You follow your heart 👍
@@brownsbeach18 thank you
Love you guys! My husband and are in a interracial relationship, I'm Latina, he is white. We used to get weird stares, now it's more common, people need to just mind their own business. ♥️♥️♥️
That's right! Let 'em hate! Glad you don't let it bother you. We just ignore it too. 😊
In the Bible God said love all man no matter what color they is your beautiful couple God bless you and stay strong
Thank you so much! That's right! We send blessings your way. 🙌😊
From one blood He made all.
I don't understand why you absolutely MUST date inside your race or you're the victim of HATE and defamation of character.🤔🙄😒
I don’t understand how your a black person asking this ? Like how about why she only dates white men not Hispanics or never a black man cmon now
@@barbergurub6830 She only dates white men because that's what she likes, plain and simple. Why must she date a black or a Hispanic guy if that's not what she wants? Just so you can feel better? Your insecurity is not her problem.
@@barbergurub6830 You don't understand is the key point of your comment. She plainly says in the video that shes attracted to all races but this is what she wants to do and that's her choice. It's her life not yours. Its really not your business what other people do. You're obviously against interracial dating and that's your choice. Nobody cares what you're doing.
@@barbergurub6830 did you know Torie and everyone in the 21st century are in charge of themselves and their lives. She does not need validation from anyone or any ones permission to date who she wants life is just like that. Too many of us spend our time letting hate consume us. I'm black and I don't care who anyone wants to be with but I don't like racism from any race. I've dated black, white, Asian, and Chinese males. I've got one life and I'm going to enjoy it. Life is to short to worry about whose dating who.
Everyone in this comment thread except baberguru needs research...and myself ofcouse for you intellectual derrieres
It would be great if people realized that your preference isn't a rejection of others. You guys are very mature and handle this topic well. I have been with my husband going on 18yrs and it is not an issue between us. I don't care about race, I care about who loves me and will treat me like they can appreciate me for me.
I truly understand my husband is white and I'm black. my husband can be standing in line at the grocery store and I walk up behind him a place an item with his I will get crazy looks as if I'm cutting the line my husband will say we're together.
Torie seems very intelligent ..obviously classy girl ..
Appreciate this fabulous couple. They romance, have fun, also talk about some very relevant and serious contemporary issues. Keep it up, salute
Seems intelligent... 🙄
I hate when White people say about Black people:"he/she is rather articulate or she seems intelligent" as though the white person cant believe any Black person could be intelligent. You have issues if you Always date White men. It's one thing to date white men as a Black woman because you just happened to meet someone you liked who happened to be white, but when you date White men exclusively, then perhaps you need to do some soul searching. I'm sure this felt like a slap in the face to your Black father. And listening to your white boy friend say he told his father that he is dating someone "different" was cringe-worthy.
Swimming, it depends on where you are from. Where I'm from most of the kids knew how to swim because it was mainly what we did in the summer. However if you grew up in the city and swimming pools were not accessible then it's not surprising you wouldn't know how to swim. It's about accessibility, it's not weird as you stated that a lot of Blacks have an aversion toward swimming. That would if the neighborhood had a swimming pool.
Travis and Torie perfect response from a white guy dating a black woman lol doesn’t even see the underlining racism
She is an intelligent woman.
I agree w/ Tori’s it’s 2020 now and people still getting upset about interracial relationships. I’m glad you two are happy and getting married! Crush the color lines!💖💖👍
The fact that y’all are a white man and black woman couple adds more adversity and hatred towards your relationship and I love that y’all pull through and never let people determine y’all relationship ❤️
Beautiful, it’s Ok Travis and, Torie
I absolutely love you guys, and im in a "black relationship"... keep loving each other! You guys are an inspiration 🥰
Aw, thanks so much! We will continue to love each other for sure. 😊❤❤
Love is love, enough said! You two seem perfect together. It’s all about how you treat each other!
That's right! Thank you so much. 😊❤
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I’m white, and if you walked in anywhere, together, or separately, I would do a double and triple take only because you are both so good-looking! Maybe some people stare because of your beauty and not because of your interracial relationship?
Good looking is one thing personality and like minded regardless of color🙏😇🥰
It's the reason I stare too because I find it beautiful and I think that interracial couples have to be strong and like minded to deal with the negativity that comes with them being together. My hat goes off to them. It's not easy but true love strenthens.
I date white men also and I definitely get the most hate from black men
Oh interesting. Yeah, it's not cool to get hate from anyone when it comes to who people want to be with and love.
Because black men love throwing white woman up in a black woman face.
@@travisandtorie being a white Canadian guy, the only thing that makes sense to me is that Travis would want to be with an attractive woman and Torie with an attractive guy.....and together, you two make a VERY hot couple..
who appear to be soulmates! I would stare in admiration at what you two have....and if you decide to have kids....they are going to be flippin gorgeous! Why anyone would have an issue with a beautiful couple is beyond me! Cheers and congratulations to you both!
@@ltrltr9306 yes they do and looking down at us as they walk by.....
You two don’t have to explain yourselves , society is always trynna get into other peoples business. Also there’s too much pressure on black women to “be” a certain way and live that way. Love you guys!
Love who you want . Happy the universe brought you guys together.
I thoroughly enjoy listening and watching you two! Make this a lifetime being together!
I think it's beautiful when real love brings two people together no matter what color they are.. Travis and Torie, don't let yourself down or you fans. We need more people like you to help society see differently. You are beautiful. Show the world love is deeper than color of skin.
I love how your cosmic power in you is very positive and believe to see what you want
Thanks so much! We appreciate that. ❤
I find it interesting that people ask you why you won’t date a black or white person, but you never hear people asking same race couples why they won’t date outside of their race! 🤔
Yeah! Very good point. We always say, love is love! Doesn't matter the skin color, ethnicity, or anything else.
Travis and Torie yasss exactly! 🙌🏼
Love transcends races, LOVE IS LOVE PERIOD
I Love watching you both together!! 💕❤️💕
I love you guys and your videos!!!!. I’m just commenting on the ‘You don’t see colour’ statement. It can mean you chose not to acknowledge the differences. It kinda says: I’m choosing to ignore this part of you because it makes me more comfortable. It should be more that you appreciate their differences, but it does not affect you treating someone better or worse. Always love watching!❤️
I’m currently dating a Indian man, I usually dated white guys so this is new for me..I’m in SC we constantly get stares which is funny because I didn’t go through this while dating white men..the cultural difference is crazy but we’re 8 months strong...he looks like Aladdin with blue eyes..I don’t think people know his race by looking at him but the stares are kinda starting to piss me off
You guys rock...new subscriber 😊
Oh, that's awesome that you're dating an Indian man! 8 months strong! Travis and I are 10 months strong. It sucks that you get stares, though. Travis and I get stares all the time, but we just ignore them. I wish more people would understand that love is love. Anyway, thanks so much for watching and subscribing! We really appreciate that. We wish you two the best!
Dem3881 Who cares what they think. I wouldn't give them one thought. It's none of their business. Just enjoy your relationship. Don't let anyone dictate your life.
@Demi3881 when you get stares turn to your man and say "damn your so fine"
That's funny because my neighbor who is from India tried to hook me up with her son. He even said I want.someone like you.
I, too, live in SC and understand what you are saying.
My cousin are half native American and black and they have beautiful children. You guys are beautiful loving couple...
Love is a beautiful thing and it’s amazing how it has no color! Great video 🤗
Aw! Thanks! Yeah, you're absolutely right. Love is love. 😊🤗
Swimming! (I can’t either), was always worried around ruining the perm in my hair.
Love you guy’s posts!
I've been in an interracial marriage for almost 9 years (we've been together for a total 19 years) I'm black and he is white. Now we live in Atlanta GA and get dirty looks mostly from white women, too. We totally ignore it with ease now. Funny thing is my stepmother is white. She and my father married in the late 70s in Alabama! I can imagine the looks or reponse when people saw here with me.
Thank you for guys sharing your story. My husband and I are from different backgrounds. He's white American and I am from India and also color. keep love each other and stay strong.
Thank you so much! Nice to hear about your relationship. We are wishing you guys the best as well. 😊
Luv u guys and always will be supportive of ur post!!
You give us HOPE! Thank You.
Y'all have to block the naysayers. Don't let outside factors affect your love for each other. Haters gonna hate
Yeah, you're right! We ignore the haters and keep it moving. We love each other very much, so that is all that matters. Thanks for the comment. You're awesome.😊
Interracial relationships is so sweet,am happy for you sis,may God continue to bless you guys(me myself would love to be in an interracial relationship) new subscriber here
Aww, thank you! Very nice of you to say. Thanks for the kind words. May God bless you as well. 😊
Come to LA Y’all will fit right in 😎
L❤ve it! You are two amazing people who deserve each other...NO MATTER the color, race or culture!
I understand because my son’s wife is Caucasian. Love her dearly. They due to have a baby 👶🏻 this week
I don’t care whatever.i love you guys so much.I’m your biggest fan and I’m praying for you both 😘😘
U both seem very happy with eachother & compatible💖✨
Racism will always be there. Just love each other and keep living your life to the best. I know I am multi racial.
You're absolutely right about that! We love each other very much so we don't care what people say about us. Thanks so much for watching and commenting!
yes we can be angry and why can't we get angry like everyone else does??? we have enough to be angry about. Anger is an emotion and not a trait or characteristic of a group of people. thank you for using your platform to enlighten the people.
I don’t believe in race. I believe that you guys rock.
I love how you love each other. The truth is personality matters. Once someone respect you, listens to you and does his/ her best to make each other happy that’s it. Every human being wants to be loved and respected the truth is, too many times people are shallow and don’t look for the character that comes with the person.
Torie I am happy you state clearly that your preference is a white guy.
I believe we all have a preference for me I really love very dark skin guys and of course you have to have a lot of character to be my boyfriend.
I love how you connected on the first date. When the heart knows what it wants.
I can listen to either of you reading the bedtime stories I’d be watching.
I want a snickers bar 🤣 lol I’m Hispanic my husband is germane ppl always look twice most definitely ... but they can look.. we in love 🥰 you guys are badass 👍🏼
Who would like to hear Torie sing.
Like this comment. 😁😊😄
I will be posting a video soon of my singing! I'm glad you want to hear. 😊❤
Yeah 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I would love to hear Torie sing!
My son and daughter-in-law are in a interracial relationship.. they also live in Texas... it don't bother me 1 bit b/c they gave me 3 beautiful grandbabies... for me it don't matter what race my kids date as long as they are happy I'm happy... God made us different for a reason... God bless you 2 ... much love from NC
Travis, color = culture. See it, love it, know it. Torie, you're attractive to all kinds. The choice is yours. Enjoy yourselves with each.
Hey guys! I love your channel! I just wanted to say I feel this immensely.. I was born and raise in a predominately all white town and it’s always been a struggle for me when I date or attempt too. I have dated different races but I feel like I’m more attracted to white guys... my family and friends don’t mind... but it’s hard to date because it seems like guys try to “hide” me because of my race... which sucks. But when I watch your videos it just reminds me that it’s just the guy who sucks! You guys remind me to keep going forward and try to find the ONE who actually wants and would be proud to hold my hand in public! So thank you guys for giving me hope!
-LoyalSubscriber! 🥰❤️
My husband and I have been together for close to 6 years. I’m black and he’s white, and I totally agree. Being together for so long you don’t necessarily forget that he’s a different color but it’s such a minute thing for us that when we do get stares it’s the most frustrating thing ever! We actually live in Houston! The craziest thing that happened to us was we were told by an elderly white lady that we were disgusting! I was very pregnant with my first child and stunned into silence! We both were! America has come so far, but we still have so much farther to go! Beautiful couple btw!
Oh very cool! Congrats on 6 years. Yeah, it can be very frustrating when we get stares or mean comments about our relationship. For the most part, we just ignore it. In Texas it's hit and miss. In some areas, we're fine, but in others it's a real problem. Sorry about your experience in Houston. America has definitely come far, but there is still a bit of progress to go. God bless you guys. 😊❤
Grayson McDonald Anyone who intentionality puts stress on a pregnant woman deserves to be put through hell. I would have called the police and said I felt threatened.
I’ve always said too each as own you love it, I like it, I’m glad y’all make each others happy and don’t let anyone come between y’all!!❤❤❤❤
Being that I'm a BW and I am married a white man for 14yrs, I can totally relate to the negative things others have tried to subject you to Torie. We both had choices to chose what we are attracted to which was our business. My falling in love with my hubby was not because he was a color(white) but the fact he was attractive, so caring, thoughtful and truly wanted a future with me which he was willing to prove with his loyalty to our courtship, now our union. Something no other man had ever did before I met him. People can think what they want but usually they are wrong in their assumptions. I think you and Travis are a beautiful couple. Your love is present in your videos regardless of the type of video. I hope you two never allow outsiders to change the course of your love for each other which includes TH-cam viewers:-) . Stay blessed & protect your love for each other over all others :-) BTW, Travis the sterotype isn't real because Torie didn't know how to swim"LOL". For instance, I can swim but my husband cannot(he's white) :-).
We need to stop dividing ourselves and come together
That's exactly right! Thank you. 😊❤
@@travisandtorie np 🥰
Im a biracial women and i know what you guys go through. Its not right. But you guys are so adorable. My mom is white and dad black and been married for 55 years went through alot but like you said love prevails all. So God puts people in your life for a reason. And im happy for the both of you. Much love
Love is love 💜 I don’t know why other ppl both themselves with other people’s business...you shouldn’t have to deal with that crap
Yeah, we used to care, but now we don't. We love each other very much so it doesn't bother us anymore. We let them talk and hate, but we rise above! Thanks for watching and commenting. 😊
It's should be question anyone who learned from slavery should be thinking what is behind this what is the motivation me my self don't want it we need to love ourselves and get back to ourselves this is not who the most high God created us to be he created us first to do his work
Love is blind, date who you want (my opinion). You both are so cute together, especially when Travis calls you "Baby" so lovingly. God bless you both ❤❤😎
Been here, done it. I have to say it was the best relationship I ever had!
Humans are human...doesn’t matter what color!!
Flowers are beautiful but when I see a bouquet of many different flowers it's even better.
Love is all you need people who say something never had it stay strong you two much love from New Zealand
Aww! Thank you so much. You're so correct. Thanks for the kind words. 😊
We love who we love. Love is beautiful.
Black women are “angry “ cause we go through a lot of bs
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maybe change will be good, who knows this man is not hard on the eyes and she is nice looking! and they look happy together ❤ that's what counts and they love each other
@Hi Bye do you have a man?😳
@Hi Bye really? we were born for BS!
True.
I am a black woman and my husband is white, we met in college and we have been married for 10 years now and have 2 little boys. I can diffinatly relate to you guys. it is really annoying when we go out to dinner or at the grocery store people would always ask if we are together or if we paying separately, even when we both wearing our rings and our kids are with us. I know it's a problem because none of our same race couple friends have that issue.
It will never change unfortunately... just love eachother that's all that matters I mean your not bringing those individuals home with you so I really wouldn't give a f.✌❤
It doesn't change because people like you won't let it go. EVERYTHING IS NOT RACISM. OMG.🤨🤨🤨
You can't help who you love, or what your heart wants and feels
Hi, I just started watching you guys . You both are awesome.. great video..
Travis appears to be a nice guy - that said, let's put the whole "don't see color" ridiculousness to bed. It's not helpful to 'the conversation' and it's intellectually dishonest. We ALL see color, and there's nothing wrong with that. We just do - and to pretend otherwise suggests that there's a problem in recognizing one another for our differences/ethnicities/race(s). Surely that isn't what you mean? Dr. King never stated that we should pretend 'not' to recognize one another's color BUT to NOT JUDGE based on one's skintone -- yet, rather the CONTENT of their CHARACTER. The point is to recognize the beauty in one another, regardless of complexion, and to not PREJUDGE or extend BIAS based on it. The whole #COLORBLIND concept is bullsheit and as I mentioned earlier, unhelpful.
Well it's obvious that he meant race race wasn't a consideration when it comes to allowing people into their lives so I think not seeing color works just fine. I grew up in a religion where race was never a factor to the point where I was in the first grade before I ever even knew there was such a thing. I didn't see color. It wasn't taught to me until much later. I would say my first year of middle school was eye opening. I was fortunate to grow up in an environment where it just wasn't a factor...in Texas even. I grew up in a religion where we were all family...not in a David Koresh type way...and attended a daycare and elementary school that never told us we needed to look at skin color. It is possible not to see color... until society shows it to you. It's environmental not natural.
@pink girl It's unhelpful. We literally see colour. Why not simply say that you don't judge based upon race rather than this ridiculous notion of colorblindness. It's ignorant and disingenuous
@@gloriboxx We all see one anothers differences. We ALL see colour unless you have some medical condition to prevent it. We all see races/hues. Why deny the truth? There's no harm in it. The harm is pretending not to while pre-judging based on skin tones. Despite what you say, we notice one anothers uniquenesses and differences - and that's fine. Again, NOTICING isn't thee issue. Pre-JUDGING based on it, is.
C'mon, people. This isn't difficult.
@@robinvolpi why do u care?
@@luciferkuranhalfembodiment6704 Why ask asinine questions that you should have good enough sense to know, already?
I love to see love in all shades and colors, peace and blessings to your union 👏🏿
"WHAT WOULD A PIANO BE WITH ONLY BLACK KEYS? OR ONLY WHITE KEYS; NO HARMONY. YOU GUYS ARE VERY BRAVE
AND FUTURISTIC.
I hear you. I'm in an interracial relationship as well and I'm the only black woman he's ever dated.. The difference is that I live in SoCal where it's very liberal and no one cares. Love is love. Happiness is happiness. You seem to have this so, to hell with what people think.
You are nt wierd or unique you guys are beautifully exclusive i love your energy together. Yes.love is love
You guy's are beautiful! The only color that matters is! LOVE! ❤❤❤❤
You guys are so lovely 😫🙌🏾
Aw, thanks so much! 😊
That's where it all starts. The doll test was done with 5 and 6 year olds. All children thought the white dolls were prettier and better
It's really sad how much ignorance & stereotypes still exist in 2019. People have been so manipulated by society & it's brainwashing; it's great seeing people like you guys. The cycle breakers! The bodies our spirits are temporarily in may be limited in certain ways, but on the inside we are all infinite spiritual beings. Our spirits are every color, culture, gender & species. And while we may have different orientations of love - we all share common bonds of love and sensuality (for our soul mates). I guess it's hard for other people to get that since so much of the media is very toxic. So much race baiting, separation, prejudice & reverse prejudices....the way society has a way of saying "stereotypes are hurtful" but then attacks anyone who lives outside of a stereotypical box. The whole "your stealing from my culture" appropriation nonsense, color vs color, gender vs gender, orientation vs orientation narratives.....the corrupt powers of this world work overtime at the whole "divide & conquer" method. The manipulation and the tension it creates is everywhere. Like, it's 2020. And people are out here trying to "cancel" a person who having a certain hairstyle, taking part in certain careers, or even bullying others for who they love.....because of outward appearances. A hot potato ass mess. That's why i limit my time online & social media as well as barely watch TV or listen to radio. Current publications (magazines, newspapers, etc)? Barely read them. Too many "credible sources" that aren't actually honest. Just like the religions, history books, etc that are either completely false or heavily remixed and laced with lies. Everything people have been taught since they were children was all premeditated to disconnect us from our divinity and the truths within our souls and turn us into the same victims as the generations prior. You gotta tap into the wisdom inside of you rather than look for others opinions. We're all Gods & Goddesses who have the power to change the universe. Thank you Travis & Torie for doing that! Also, torie....girl i know if you read this you probably want to throw a dictionary at the computer screen because of my lack of grammar lmao. I love y'all tho! #TeAmo La familia
great video. I've never dated outside my race but i always say if that's what i want to do, i will and honestly not give a care of what other people say or think. some people are just gonna be people. as long as ya'll happy is all that should matter.
I applaud you as beautiful individuals who make an even more beautiful couple. The chocolate is just a bonus.
Let those ignorant people show their true colors . It's a reflection on them not you.Dont let them destroy you know your worth. Love you guys stay well. 😍🌷
Not going to lie, I would stare too. I'm staring because Torie is gorgeous!! Travis, you are lucky man. You make a beautiful couple and will make beautiful babies. Cheers.
Aw! Thanks so much! You're so sweet. We can't wait to start a family. 😊
no body:
not even a single soul:
Travis: Tupac Rest in peace 😁✌
Great topic and I agree with your perspective 100%. It will definitely take some time or maybe generations for the social walls and stereotypes to fade away though.
Bill Angel Thanks for watching! Yes it will, but we’ve came a long way! 😀
Love is not a color, it's a feeling ❤️ so let it do it thing.
As an International Student in Europe, I saw a large number of interracial couples which definitely made me HAPPY!!! All across France and Germany, this was the norm. Three female classmates kept Freaking Out because they were getting hit on by white guys, and they said they hadn't experienced that here in America. Time is changing, and I am glad more interracial couples are GROWING!!!
Growing up- you gotta keep your hair looking brand new, so no going underwater
Yeah, that's definitely true. Thanks for watching. 😊
Nobody Smith I didnt say a gender for one. Second, I’m a woman- i was stating my perspective & guys get their hair done to so i think that goes for both genders
My husband and I have been together 11 years. We haven’t seen any hate, but we’re in California. He usually gets extra props from black men.
You should tell your father you did marry someone like him. The longer we’re married the more and more I notice similarities in behavior between my father and my husband.