Marriage & Relationship - Part 1 of 3 - Mufti Menk
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
- Lecture by Mufti Menk on Saturday 17th March 2018.
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An evening of practical advice on marriage, families and relationships. Dealing with difficult issues while keeping a mentally sound state of mind.
Official Mufti Menk Audio Lecture Resources:
1. Website - goo.gl/0jJCZP
2. Android App: goo.gl/wsLk1l
3. iTunes Audio Podcast: goo.gl/QFnd6T
Listening to Brother Mufti Menk helped me with my marriage when it was on the brink of divorce. Thanks so much for your positive message.
Halhumdiala my sister
Gud to hear..
@@tinekahowell5801 lady stop spamming. We people don't believe in superstition and black magic.
QqAAA
Damn if you not happy in your marriage get divorce. There no reason to remain miserable in a crappy marriage. life way too short anyway. Good luck brother
Recent revert from Ireland. I am getting married this year Inshallah to a Muslima in Indonesia 🙌🙌
Congrats for the Islam first of all. Mashallah
Mashallah all
Alhamdulillllaaaahhhh..may Allah ease you
Assalaamu aleykum. How did it went with the marriage? KUA requires a lot of papers
Congratulations brother, may allah bless you and spouse with lots of blessings
I embrace islam .alhamduallah .i found this channel ,helps me a lot to learned more about islam..thank you..allah bless you
Welcome to Islam...may Allah blesses you..
Masha Allah
Mashallah welcome to Islam
Assalaamu alaikum, masha allah very happy to hear
im filipino balik islam we dont have muslim in my family, but im not lucky to marriage , so here this mufti menk everytime im wacthingq i feel calm, i dontnunderstand the muslim man, my husband egyptian he just desaaper when i was pregnant 8 months, he never think his daugter he just left me direct no contact no anything, i always pray to allah guidebme
Mufti menk actually makes my life easier. How to deal with life situations. Family issues. He is a gift from Allah to guide us on the right path.
Mashallah
This man helped me to taken my shahadah. Mufti Menk…your sermons apply to me completely…everything makes logical sense but my journey is so hard. My relationship has unfortunately failed. I try my best but I know at times I’m hard to live with. 2 people coming together is beautiful. The good times are really good. The bad times are really bad. I don’t know what to do. We were strangers, became friends then lovers and now we are strangers again. Looking back, I really wish I had said and done things differently and most of all I wish we would have watched your sermons TOGETHER. I know it would have made a huge difference.
Was a pleasure to see you at the masjid in Preston, UK last week leading the Jummah prayers.
Amazing how life turns upside down in a moment.
May Allah swt and everyone I’ve pained in life forgive me.
Ameen
Thankyou Mufti Menk, from the bottom of my heart, may Allah grant you the highest rank in Jannah. I just reverted a week ago, I’m still a young woman, only 20 years old. I thank Allah for guiding me to Islam but you Mufti Menk have been like a dad to me, you have been the best role model & I am eternally grateful 🤍ik youre only spreading the word of our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) but you explain it in an easily digestible way especially because I’m a native English speak. Thankyou so much I truly love you, you forever have changed my life🤍🤍🤍
MashaAllah! Welcome to Islam sister and May Allah SWT bless you immensely ❤
Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
mashallah ❤
@@fatu_clt assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakahtu 🤍
@@IbrahimKabay-pq3tz assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakahtu 🤍
Culture is the biggest detriment to Islam. Allah has given us so much freedom in this dunya, yet our parents and their societal rules, regulations and culture are always there to withhold that freedom. It is the most common reason of stress in youngsters like me these days. May Allah forgive us, our parents and judgmental relatives. :(
Bro I feel you. I've the same problems as you..
Stubborn parents wanting to impose their will on me. They think I'm dumb enough to choose my own spouse
Larka may allah help you brother. Just be postive and alway always seek for professional help when you need it. And may he forgive your parents and those who impose their will on you. Inshallah.
Ameen. I’ve come to this realization as well and realized how this has contributed to the negative perceptions of Islam.
Wallahi this is the truth
@@Twank79 Maa Sha Allah
Dear Mufti Menk is one of the very few Islam speakers who dares to say what needs to be said. Especially when it comes to parents and marriage. It makes me feel relieved and it softens the pain that truth is being spread. May Allah bless him and his family. 💚
Ameen
@@daisyak-jx2hu but he is very silent on what is happening with the Palestines. I wish he and other Islam speakers would speak out more aggressively against Israel, the US and Europe and call out for boycotting them.
He has a strong personality with a beautiful mind, Masha Allah...I have learnt a lots of things very clearly about Islam,Alhamdulillah
True Even me!
point to be taken by youth. YOU ARE EITHER MARRIED OR YOU ARE NOT, THERE IS NO IN BETWEEN..
May Allah grant us the best spouses who will be the coolness of eyes heart and soul
Amiina
Amiin.
summa ameen
Ameen
Ameen
I met the man I love at work.
He literally walked into my life when I thought I was working the shift on my own.
I was so nervous about doing the shift on my own that I prayed the night before that God would make it so that I didn't have to go! Instead Subhan'Allah he brought my love into my life! We clicked instantly and I truly believe that we are meant to be married. We are both in our 40's and divorced. I never thought I would fall in love with a Muslim man because I never interacted with many before the day I met him. I pray that God will make a way for us to be married insha'Allah 🙏🏻
I am educating myself on Islam and know that it is permissible for us to marry and I just pray that his family will accept me 😳
My Father died when I was 21 so the situation is very different from a couple who are younger.
Thank you sir for your inspiring words 🤗
you're an inspiration
May Allah grant you the right path inshallah and bless your relationship even further. Islam is a beautiful religion, I pray that you embrace it and that it embraces you ❤️
@@MrDaBBaS Thank you, I keep praying that God will make a way for us 🙏🏻 And for Sabr too! ❤️🕊️
May Allah bless your union. Love you 💖 from Guinea Conakry West Africa
If it's meant to be. It will be!
Since I became a Muslim listing to mr mufti menk help me a lot mashahallah
One of the main reasons I love listening to mufti menk is how comfortable he makes his listeners and audience feel. I am not a perfect Muslim yet I don’t feel like he is judging me. This is so important because that’s why a lot of people don’t listen to sermons . May Allah bless him and forgive his sins as he’s also not perfect . Bless him though 💐
my teacher in TH-cam may Allah reward you
Ameen
Amen
@@fatoumatafofana1602 Guineeeee
Ameen ♥️
Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
When l was a teenager l had vowed and prayed to avoid going into haram relationship, but l really landed to a group of ladies who misguided my innocence of 23years telling me how childish lam , l was made to HV a relationship some thing that changed my whole life, now l hate relationships thanks to mufti menk l learned a lot from him and now and a changed person who is looking forward to a good husband inshaAllah
May Allah blesses you..ameen
Amen yarabi thanks fitrah
Allah is the most Merciful! May he guide you and us all in the righteous path inshAllah
@A simple guy Just simple l have no answer for that. All l know Allah is most forgiving for we all make mistakes
Alhamdulillah, right now I am in the process of getting engaged and eventually married. It is a little more complex than I hoped because the sister I have been talking to lives in Guyana and it's whole process to get her to the US where live. Plus I'M recovering from cancer so I have been keeping her posted about me and she has been very supportive thought this difficult time. If that's not a sign that she is the one, I don't know what is!
My father always let me do mistakes in order to teach me. May Allah bless his soul.
Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Masha Allah the sound troubles in the beginning brought such a smile on my face, he's a very cheerful man even in troubles Alhamdulillah
Ya allah- help our daughters and sons through the love of deen and guide them through life..
Whenever i listen to Mr. Ismail menk i feel motivated and sort my lots of problem by listening him!AlhmdulilAllah
This brother is so humble his spirit draws you too ALLAH I believe him
Finding this channel is such a blessing ❤️ I heard your voice somewhere else or in someone else's channel yesterday and I fell In love. I fell In love with everything you said in this video. I'm so impressed. Will definitely listen to more of what you have to say and watch your other videos. GOD Bless! (I am now a follower 🙂)
I really appreciate you uploaded these videos, for someone that’s unable to attend im glad I can still hear your amazing advice.
I wanna always heart your advice about family and relationship. .cuz i'll marriage in my future then hear your lecture is very important to me
Allahumlilalh my Allah SWT blessing you dear brother Menk 🌹 🌹 🌹
SubhanAllah, MashaAllah. This was beautiful. May Allah bless you sheikh.
Subhanallah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
JazakAllah Mufti for all your advice and inspiration. I wish u could be here to sit one on one with my spouse and I and give all this advice. Really need it right now
Just his looks one just fall in love 😍. He is a good teacher
I embrace Islam as western women. Islam is so beautifull and wise. May Allah bless you all
Same issue is happening with me though I'm Muslim and my family belongs to a religious background but blackmailed me cuz I love someone whom she is not from a religious family
@@earn-real-money i feel so sorry for you 😘 i hope you can work it out and become happy. I wish you all the best for the future
I have never laughed so much by listening to his lectures. 😂😂
may Allah bless mufti menk and his family and everyone who were in this technical team. Amin!!
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Have been listening to this many times n every time I listen I get a new understanding alhamdulillah.. may Allah bless you always mufti
I love watching ur video's sir may Allah give u long life to teach us Ameen ❤
U change my life & way of thinking ..
As salaamu alaikum. I had to stop to comment @7:26 timestamp into your video. I love watching and hearing the synchronicity that was displayed during your request to adjust the volume to your liking and the patience that you displayed while they were adjusting the volume and the outcome of the result was beautiful, Alhamdulillah! May our Marriages disagreements have the same outcome, Ameen!
Always listening to your preachings. Would love to hear about interfaith and interracial marriages where parents are not happy with it. May Allah bless all of us.
me too, I wish to hear about that, how I would know if the person I want to marry from another country is a true believer, his family and if we don't live the same country
@@hafsamsonga9773 its very simply if you like marry.
Marriage is about forgiving and accepting the positive and negative .. and our children are example showed by Allah SWT how we were at their age .
There is something .. we always talk nicely to our parents , friends , and relatives but to not our spouse.. we raise our voice scold and argue all the time .. but those people were not around when we needed the most but our spouse will be there for us . If the husband and wife understand this marriage will be perfect .
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I love your preaching mufti Menk may Allah protect u.
My in laws contributed to separation from my husband. They made my life hell. But now I'm thankful because there is a nice plan from God for me
Thank you so much for providing full lecture. May Allah bless you all involved.
Dr Menk is a Reall Muslim. .
I'm so happy when i listen your message and you Dr Menk say you love your wife
Masha Allah. .
That's beautiful to say "Love wife " or "Love Husband " for much People to hear. .
Really i aprecciate the Sir. .
Ur the real face of our religion modern and open minded scholar !
After listening to you sir I'm able to let go of baggages and smile. Jazakallah.
I’m having serious issues within my marriage. We nearly going to break up. We have 2 daughters. Please make Dua for us.
My allah guide boyh of you inshalah everythjng will be fine
اللهم اصلح بينهم و يسر امرهم
Remember 'it's not you vs your spouse, it's you and your spouse vs the actual problem'. Look at or search the real actual problem and control both your emotions at the moment. Communicate (always with respect, both sides). Then pray together. Don't get an divorce for something you could fix. May Allah swt put so much barakazh in your marriage. May Allah help you both.
Are alright now
@@sokhnawallofall4901 Alhumdulilah all is better now
May Allah give you all the strength to overcome any obstacles in your path and strengthen your union and increase your remembrance
Mashaallah
I like your videos alott
Plz make a video on husbands who are staying away from their home for job sake and left their wife alone with in laws just to take care of their parents
mufti meek just explained all my reasons for never wanting children. I am just glad to hear I'm not crazy to think like that other wise people did wonder why I spoke that way.
Gifted menk may Allah grant you more knowledge and more years so that more people benefit
Subhannallah I Never Seen Anyone Like You man I learn a lot from you ALHAMDULILAH
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That why we do our part as Muslim we should lots of good deeds
May Allah bless mufti menk aways
Masaallah after watching this vedio I got lot of knowledge about mentioned topic . I am very thinkful of Allah tala who shown me this channel by which I seriously take many things for learn.
I love this brother for the pleasure of Allah swt. Marital problems and advice is so difficult in the western world as people only see someone when they have decided on divorce..
I looked for arbitration and found it unaffordable. Marrying a revert and having non Muslim in laws pose so many problems especially on kids that you just don't know what to do.
Sadly I fall into the third category and make maximum sacrifices to keep my young children in a stable family.
I get blamed for oppression but am the one being oppressed.. But have to keep altering and changing my stance to keep a stable family. Sad though that one day when the kids grow if I live that long, they naturally would side witth their mum and I'll be left alone as I will just end up being myself and looking after my health... Subhanallah I do pray that Allah swt does not let it come to that and my wife is given rahmaat and learns to obey me and work with me as Allah swt commands
I make dua every minute mufti thought me how to make dua....
Alhamdulillah may Allah continue to guide you
Mufti you are a legend in every essence of the word may Allah bless you give you guidance and the ability to teach mashallah.
I love mufti menk for the sake of God wallahi
Listening too mufti menk is so amazing and beautiful talk
Masha Allah thank you for this. Your lectures are amoung the best.
Thank you so much good teaching!
Mashallahh..all he teaching us very meaningfull and valuable
May Allah bless our marriages and mk everything easy upon all
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Whoever constantly seeks forgiveness (from Allāh) (saying "astaghfirullāh | أستغفر اللّٰه"), Allāh will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from from sources he does not expect." [Abū Dawūd]
Make it a constant habit to say Astaghfirullāh | أستغفر اللّٰه (I seek forgiveness from Allāh) with a sincere heart and you'll see the blessings and positive effects of that habit in your daily life. We have witnessed people being relieved from the darkest and most difficult of situations through this habit, others who were blessed with unimaginable wealth and blessings through this habit, and others whose hearts found contentment and true happiness through this habit.
May Allāh 'Azza Wa Jall make us of those who continuously seek His forgiveness and accept from us - āmeen
Love from Mauritius 🇲🇺
He Is My virtual Teacher On Yoube
MashaAllaah I liked your lectures, may Allaah bless you Jannah tul Firdous Paradise Ameen
Subhanallah May Allah make it easy for everyone. What a Wonderful Talk about Marriage.. :)
Allah bless you every day
May Allah be pleased with you and bless you here and the hereafter with peace and happiness, may Allah bless you with good wisdom and inspire many and many people to live in peace and harmony. I love you for the sake of Allah.
Amazing lecture i wish I could send this lecture to my mother. But the lecture does not even have any urdu subtitles. I wish she could know this without me asking this from them. Parents thay were made parents at an early age they were put in this situation without knowing how to even be a parent or a good wife nor a good husband. Sadly the children suffer as they r not close enough with the parents
i love 💕 the channel because it holds my name.
For me to be joined by the blessed land of the stregth part ❤❤to mufti menk
Msha Allah bht khub Love from India
Mufti saab i am in a relationship since 7 years and we both love eachother. But her parents are just refusing because they don't want to be taunt by their relative that their daughter did love marriage. And i this case they forced her daughter to marry a boy who she didn't even see and engaged. Till now she is going to be married in few days but she even dont know who the boy is and how he looks like. Just parents know who they are. Wallah i am in a situation where we dont know what to do. And she is doing just in respect to her parents.
Islam brings happiness joyful to our life when we be sad Allah here to keep us happy 😃 aways
jzk this video is really helpful , first seek the relationship with ALLAH Swt first because he's way more important people can come after him please make dua for me everyone my life is really challenging these days jzk x
MashaAllah. May Allah bless you
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Mufti was fighting a war alone against the audience and the management Hahahaha
I’m lucky for being Muslim
He talk is so true may Allah grant you xxxxxx
this great guy thought me alot.
Remember we need to follow our beloved Muhammad peace upon him
I could wish I got married with my boyfriend from Pakistan who revert me in Islam during Ramadan in Sha Allah 🤲 ya Allah bless him and guide him and his family 🙏 Allahu Akbar 🤲🙏
Maaashaallah, bro. Menk may Allah continue to bless you upon good speech of Islamic global truthful of our marriage proceedings. Very interesting, heart touching, even to non Muslim appreciate. Its crosscutting message upon all marriage classes. Parents have to give to us the first choice to choose our spouse..... Maaashallah Allah bless you, welcome to Tanzania my bro.
Thank you for the positive words. Mashallah brother. Keep it up!
Mufti menk your brilliant
May Allah grant you goodness in dunya and akirah inshallah brother.jazakallah for the beneficient knowledge
Allah rehm karay...or hidayah de....passing through such circumstances these days....Allah tamam mamlat mai asani karay....do remember me in your prayers.
In laws are worst in our society. I'm sorry but they are!
As salaam wa alaikum Jummah Mubarak May Allah protect and guide us all Ameen.
Walekumussalam aap ko bhii
One who follow the sunnah of our Rasool (S a w)and he too encourage me to follow both Farl and Sunnah...I am lucky becoz at first he was ma best friend and no matter how much tym we spend together.We dont talk about worldy things we talk about Islam...and the relationship help me to get more closer to Allah and we decided to end the haram relationship by making it Halal.and stoped contact for Allah's sake❣I wish i want to marry him.And aftr propsl its not working with my famly and not agreeing i dont know wht i want to do bt i know it will be halal soon InshaAllah ❣any way Alhamdhulillah for everything plz include me in your dua May Allah full fill our wishes soon InshaAllah... Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen❣
Straight and clear .. Alhamdullilah .
Allah mola wangu mtukufu najua vipingamizi ni vingi juu yangu uchonganishi ndo usiseme unaweza zuliwa hata usivyo vifanya yarabi ila najua wewe ndio mjuzi wa yakini unanijua ndani nje nje ndani yarabi basi ni fanyie wepesi yarabi Kwa kile ninacho kiitaji
Love this lecture
allah always guide u and us in aright part in istiqoma..ameen,baraqaallah ufiq
Ameen yah rabbilallamiehne ❤ ❤
Mashallah brother muft menk may God bless you for educated us a good blessing words
Sir ur amazing. I’m. A huge fan of u
Assalamualaikum sir..may Allah fullfill our all dream and give us right life partner
we love u shikh
2020 ?
Beautiful words
Right. Now i am on Lifetime meditation.. Only one wrong step of my parents made my life upsidedown.
Now i along with my family is suffering.
May Allah Grant Us Paradise
Very important topic 👍🏼
ALLAH BLESS YOU BROTHER MUSLIM AND BLESS US ALL MUSLIM UMMAH
Masha'Allah❤
I’m Impressed