Plenty of women pay Medicare…this is literally a few cases out of thousands of cases. When a person has custody of a child, there are daily expenses that incur. It’s not like $350-$700/mo. is half of the expenses that the custodial parent spends.
My son's father recently went out of his way to start paying child support. They asked me if I wanted him to put our son on his work insurance. I politely declined. My son has medical through myself and it's perfectly fine the way it is. I did have to write a letter declining dad's work insurance cause if not it would automatically default to it being under him. Like everyone said, it depends on the state and case as everyone is different.
All of these hearings make me so mad. My daughter has never had a father in her life, never one dollar of child support, not one birthday or Christmas gift. Id do anything to get the father to just give my daughter the attention she deserves and these women lying and being greedy infuriates me. Think about your children before yourself!
As a father I can’t think of ever not wanting to see and spend time with my child I share with the mother. Mother also lied to family court about me saying I was the abuser when it fact I had evidence to prove she was the one giving me and causing domestic abuse. Even with the evidence the judge took my sons mothers side instead of letting him live with me. At least I made sure in court order I get to see him every couple of weeks and get to video call him everyday which she wanted to stop. The judges always let woman off easy if a man did half the things some woman say they would be locked up in jail. I hope in the future your child’s father does step and become a good father. I can’t stand even a day away from my child I don’t know how some parents can walk away or not care. Moment I first held my child after being born I promised to always be there for him❤
Unfortunately, 90% or more of these cases is just like this. Mom is seeking to control and alienate the child from dad to fill her pockets. And the court is trying to fill there's by using the kids against the dad. There are far more men that want to be fathers and this the reality we have to deal with. And now it's on the internet for how things have been since the 60s.
@@Darth001Not always. A lady lost custody to all 3 of her kids to the father's. She is in and out of jail for child support. I was in court waiting to be seated for jury duty. I was listening to their case.
@@Darth001unfortunately I have a few friends both men and woman who just "forgot" about their child/children. All due to drugs. Chasing the high is more important than having a relationship with their kids. It's truly sad! I applaud fathers like you who fight to be apart of your child's life. My husband went through the same thing as you but he ended up with his son and she had their daughter until recently. Now we have them both because mom rather chase d!** instead of be a mother to her kids. She also has 2 other babies from another guy but she's never home to care for them. She leaves them with her mom. But when the dad tries to take the kids she changes up with bunch of lies and nonsense. Saying he's abusive, he doesn't provide, he's homeless etc. she's currently keeping the kids from him and kicked him out. I will never understand why some woman do these things! My guess is she's wants to keep the kids so she can still get state assistance! It's sad all the way around!
I saw the first one before, and seeing it again, she definitely tried to play games. Perhaps that mentality of "Ours is mine, and mine is mine." The judge was having none of it.
Unfortunately no, women aren’t held accountable or to the same standard as men. So unfortunate because of the impact to both the fathers and children. The is no penalties so women with continue with this behavior and in many cases will get paid to do so.
Why is he on supervised visitation if theres no family violence? I also think the judge shouldve asked for some proof of the health insurance costs thats pretty high just for the child
Because it fair !! Mother has income and it should be taken into account.🤯☹️ both should be maintaining the child 🙄 bloke didn't get her pregnant on his own.
Agreed. Should be mandatory but, it’s a medical procedure and one is releasing their DNA to a 3rd party. Need to have permissions to do that, you release your right to privacy of yourself and for a child who has no say.
The second hearing isn't "off" because the father isn't there. The judge said at the beginning that he was in default, which means they have proof of service and he no-showed.
Also, there are a lot of women/men who have not reported family violence within the home. That doesn’t always mean that person is lying.. a lot of victims give their abusers chance after chance after chance. They don’t want to paint them in a bad light so they don’t report the abuse. That’s unfortunately a common issue. I like this channel bc I’ve been on both sides of family court unfortunately. I know how unfair the court can be and how insane the actions/claims that the other parent can be as well. But I don’t think it is wise to make these kind of assumptions favoring dad just because it’s against dad. Same goes for the moms. It’s best to stay neutral and as nonbias as possible.
I paid child support to my ex husband when my child lived with him, and he paid a smaller amount when my child lived with me( I made more) We had it go through the family responsibility office automatically. It's one thing we agreed on, our divorce sucked, but the main agreement was our kid needed to be supported. I don't get men or women who don't care for their kids, and try to get out of their half of parenting.
Last case. Isn’t it obligated for hospital crew to repost child abuse over there? If it is why didn’t they report that the little girl came in with her head cracked open?
I dislike the 3rd (i think) judge. She always sounds so flustered. I get she needs to make informed decisions, but the "can we answer my question" when the shes the one who can't grasp basic testimony. She just always seems to overreact to everything.
Yes!! I commented elsewhere but that’s exactly it. SHE always sounds unprepared for any case and SHE always sounds pissed off, when SHE is the only one who seems to not understand what’s going on.
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If I knew someone going thru a custody hearing, I'd tell them to watch 10 of these court hearings. They will learn that these judges have seen and heard it ALL. Lying, hiding, telling partial truth, claiming you didn't receive funds when obviously you did, will get you nowhere fast. The judges, aren't fools. Their experience gives them an entire skill set to uncover the truth. This hearing was interesting in that the judge stated, if you didn't call the authorities when you should have, the judge's hands are tied. They need evidence. Bottom line. What a lovely little boy in the second case. The judge is right: they rarely stay shy. Kindergarten usually frees up the shyness with new friends and adventures.
If it was a joint account how did you get the account through your previous employer? How were you alone allowed to close the account if it was joint?? I think it was one of those accounts that you can choose at work. It's like a prepaid card kinda that your paycheck gets direct deposit... He probably didn't have an account used hers to cash out a 401k into...
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Case 1, OAG people should speak in understandable terms. I also don't know their meaning of being "credited for items I need to reimburse". Is it that I don't pay for it, or that it's in their calculations as part of what I do pay? What's their definition of "credit"? (Note the accounting definition of credit: an increase in liability or decrease in assets.)
The judge in Tillman versus what’s her face is awesome to explain so clearly to Tillman. The district attorney there is pretty much worthless thank goodness that judge took over.
Hold up right there judge. This woman is stating something to him. The guy has no idea what she means to him is some type of legal jargon so he can ask her what what it means? How can he answer to something he doesnt understand. That makes no sense. That sounds silly
So let me get this straight..he pulled a gun on you and you never called ghe police...than he threw your daughter off a moving vehicle, and it split her head open. COULD OF KILLED HER. But never called the police. Mom, you have a lot of negatives to say about him , and you change it up and want him to have visitation. If any of the allegations are true, you shouldn't be fit to be sole conservator. Your actions were never protecting your children. . Hopefully you get it together and pick a partner your children will look up too.
Just a little bit of helpful criticism, in order to truly show the unfairness and bias in the family court system, I think it is wise to not always assume the moms are lying or that the dads are being treated unfairly. I have unfortunately been on both sides of family court due to some past struggles. So I know exactly what the struggle with the system is like. Yes.. there is A LOT of bias shown in the family court system favoring mothers. This is a REAL issue that should absolutely be brought to the light and corrected. But that doesn’t automatically mean that all family court cases are like this. This issues I had were the criticisms in the 2nd hearing. Just because there are no police reports proving family violence in the home does not mean there was none.. there are plenty of women/men who are victims of dv and refuse to report these things. I was personally one of them in the past… many times. And I mean legitimate DV.. I was that woman who claimed I got a black eye from a falling box repeatedly 🤦🏼♀️ Thankfully I got away and healed but that’s another story. I also know men who were the exact same way. People in toxic relationships tend to give way too many chances and believe their partners when they say “It will never happen again”. So I don’t think the criticism that her claims were untrue bc of her not having police reports, is wise. That hearing didn’t seem “off” in my opinion. Dad definitely should have been there to defend himself but instead he was absent. There are a lot of men who don’t show up for these hearings.. a lot of men who just don’t care and will work under the table so they can keep their money without supporting their children. Just as there are women who lie in court and use their children as pawns. It’s just best to not have bias. Otherwise you’re pretty much doing the same thing some of these court are doing except you’re claiming the men are always in the right.
In court of law it's not whether or not it's a lie it's what you can prove. In family court it's whether or not the person on the bench believes the person or not. And a lot of times the women is just believed. But a man won't get the same when he says he's a victim.
$2800 per month, minus $1,000 for rent, $300 for utilities, $600 taxes doesn't leave a whole lot. $900 for child support, groceries, gas, car insurance, school lunch money etc.
Just saw a video of a Texas judge order 900 a month for dad 50/50 custody mom makes 52,000 a month and dad makes little she has other kid but wants more money for the kid not his. Makes no sense
Him repaying 9% of what she is paying in health insurance is not $290....I'd be upset too bcz what they came up with for him to pay monthly is ridiculous when he has 3 other children and only gross less than $3000
The wife just gave an ALTERNATIVE FACT. MAGA always accepts alternative facts, never any questions! The Judge is WOKE! OAG Warren is great, smart, professional and amazing at gaining the truth!
She said he paid off his phone and was on his own phone plan 3 years ago. Then she rattled off all the money he sent her through cash app and was still deducting phone plan charges and dates paid. All the dates were after he was no longer on her phone plan. The judge should have caught that and applied all his payments to child support. Maybe I'm wrong.
Please judge, understand that she’s lying about stuff. Not all maybe but some She want you to rule a total stop for the father to see his kid I don’t care if she deny that but that’s what she wants.
First case: She lies and he pay for everything. ...ijs Make it make sense.... Second case: No evidence and father not present. ...ijs 🤨 Thrid case: flat out lied. ijs🤨
I understand Family Court Judges have a tough job, but to let someone just say stuff with zero proof is outrageous! That being said, Dad not showing up & fighting back doesn't help his situation!
I wonder if the woman with the little boy who's father abuses alcohol and drugs and can be violent, ever thought that maybe he wasn't the best person to become pregnant by. Many women tell horror stories about the father of their children. Why did you have his baby? If they didn't know his behavior was so bad maybe they should have had protected sex, if that can't wait to establish a relationship before getting ready into bed with them.
I think with the bank account…. She wasn’t sure because she had her checks direct deposited. So she isn’t sure if it came from her checks or the 10k. This is why you use separate accounts and deposit for shared bills.
First off, why is it always on the father to pay court cost? Mainly when he's not take anyone to court. This is just wrong. They tried to get mecon this but, I protested and she ended up have to have to pay. I digress but continue...
The older i get and the more i see i find it harder and harder to be critical about people who stop working in the system... They start working under the table just to make enough to not go hungry and have a roof over your head. Men you need to learn to keep your junk in your trunk and this wouldnt be a problem. Go have a long shower. Its less stressful and way cheaper.
I always wonder why they don't give credit based on the amount a father pays for the other children versus a formal calculation. They know the cost of the First child is based no children. The second child might be based on 1 other child and the third 2, but on the fourth technically, all the other children should be based on 3 other children. Thev state knows they should go back to recalulate all the previous orders.
everyone of these women should lose custody. theyve become a fn disease. fathers are still barely getting fair rulings. how much longer are we gonna continue coddling these types of women and give them what they want when they want it. this whole glorification of single motherhood has ruined an entire generation of kids. its fn gross
38:27 - POLICE PRECINCT PICKUP? - The mother wants the father to pickup/drop off their child at the police precinct before and after 'visits'. Why would the mother want her child's memories of each of the father's 'visits' to be punctuated by a police presence?
So, there are plenty of examples of men being screwed over in court. Case #2 isn’t it. First, it isn’t “off” the case is going on without him. It was HIS CHOICE not to show up. He is in default which means he was served. He doesn’t want to be there. How else was any business going to get done ? Just wait till he feels like it one day? Next, he hasn’t seen his daughter or even talked to the child for a year. Not exactly the father of the year. Thirdly, the mother claimed all the money he gave her that she could have not mentioned since it wasn’t through an official source. Next, he refused to have the child on his health insurance. That’s kinda rude. Not father of the year again. “Desperate move” for the mother to get control? YES! He isn’t around at all! She has the child and needs to make life decisions. He gets to just control from the shadows and just say “no” and dips out again? How is this fair to the child?? Especially when it comes to a passport. The child doesn’t get to travel with her family because some man she has met once says no? He makes $4700 a month and pays nothing. He has a child he does nothing for yet, just does things to make life difficult for the child. Who is the one being screwed again?
Thank you! I commented on this as well. I don’t think it’s very wise to have bias always favoring the dads in these case just as the courts always favoring moms. I disagree with the criticism on the second one for sure. She actually seemed reasonable. Especially considering she was giving exact amounts of support he had sent her too. She seemed credible in my opinion
What ever happened to judges being required to be neutral? Out of the hundreds of these videos I’ve listened to i can guarantee over 75% of the cases clearly show a ridiculously disappointing amount of bias against the men. The whole entire child support/family courts systems desperately need to be revamped. First and most importantly, there should never ever be any financial incentive for anyone, especially the state, to establish child support. The absolute only person/entity to benefit from child support should only be the child. Parents, judges, states, courts , counties, etc., should never ever ever ever be incentivized to establish child support. I mean, WTF, it says it in the name, CHILD support. Not mom support, not dad support, not judge/courts support. NOBODY!!!!!! It is soooooo dang simple, only the child should benefit.
Im appalled that in the last case the child was allowed to be in the same room cuddling with mom!!! 😡 Dont complain mom or judicial staff if dad speaks of this in front of his child. Although, I sure he doesn't.
The last judge was a bit bias, he should be neutral and not giving advice to any of the parties. But if you notice by him say "I have no grounds to do anything" "But if you did this...... Then I would" just a liiiiitle bias 🙄
The judge asking about the insurance. Asking if she went to the website for cheaper insurance. It’s basically medi-caid. The judge doesn’t know what she is talking about. It’s the same companies it’s just you have to pay a portion of it. It’s all “Obama care”
I dont think thaat 2nd case, she should be able to pick her husband to be at visits at the park. Whats to stop false accusations? If she wants supervised, it should be court appointed.
I have problems with women like the last case. You claim all of this but yet you make multiple babies with this dangerous man. Then you say he does things and not even the hospital logged it in as abuse. I just can’t believe her
If he is drunk, if he has your kid in the back of a truck, why didnt you call the cops and get it documented? It should be considered heresay. Where is factual proof.?
One court reporter, i saw, was unprofessional on camera. I font see why their camera needs to be on since they are only on screen sometimes. Just my opinion
So there seems to b something wrong with the judge video. Does it look like someone put a different background on her video?? Cuz it sure looks like it to me
With the case with Ms Garcia, I’m gonna be honest - the judge was being a bit of a dick. The woman clearly said about 5 times that the guy works alternate week schedules of days/nights. The judge spoke to her like an idiot, when it was HER who just wasn’t listening tbh.
why do men always have to pay the medicare??? why can't women be responsible for 1/2???
I have seen cases where it's split. It may depend on the state.
Plenty of women pay Medicare…this is literally a few cases out of thousands of cases. When a person has custody of a child, there are daily expenses that incur. It’s not like $350-$700/mo. is half of the expenses that the custodial parent spends.
It depends on the case. This time it was taken from his child support and credited / deducted from what he needs to pay.
My son's father recently went out of his way to start paying child support. They asked me if I wanted him to put our son on his work insurance. I politely declined. My son has medical through myself and it's perfectly fine the way it is. I did have to write a letter declining dad's work insurance cause if not it would automatically default to it being under him. Like everyone said, it depends on the state and case as everyone is different.
And court costs? The system is ridiculous exactly why women catching Ls out here
I’m glad the judge took over the questioning.
I'm so glad the judge saw through th1at awful woman!
Why is dad having to pay all of medical/dental? Why isn’t it split?
Right, why is he reimbursing her for what her job is taking for health care.
All of these hearings make me so mad. My daughter has never had a father in her life, never one dollar of child support, not one birthday or Christmas gift. Id do anything to get the father to just give my daughter the attention she deserves and these women lying and being greedy infuriates me. Think about your children before yourself!
💯 % Agree
As a father I can’t think of ever not wanting to see and spend time with my child I share with the mother. Mother also lied to family court about me saying I was the abuser when it fact I had evidence to prove she was the one giving me and causing domestic abuse. Even with the evidence the judge took my sons mothers side instead of letting him live with me. At least I made sure in court order I get to see him every couple of weeks and get to video call him everyday which she wanted to stop. The judges always let woman off easy if a man did half the things some woman say they would be locked up in jail. I hope in the future your child’s father does step and become a good father. I can’t stand even a day away from my child I don’t know how some parents can walk away or not care. Moment I first held my child after being born I promised to always be there for him❤
Unfortunately, 90% or more of these cases is just like this. Mom is seeking to control and alienate the child from dad to fill her pockets. And the court is trying to fill there's by using the kids against the dad. There are far more men that want to be fathers and this the reality we have to deal with. And now it's on the internet for how things have been since the 60s.
@@Darth001Not always. A lady lost custody to all 3 of her kids to the father's. She is in and out of jail for child support. I was in court waiting to be seated for jury duty. I was listening to their case.
@@Darth001unfortunately I have a few friends both men and woman who just "forgot" about their child/children. All due to drugs. Chasing the high is more important than having a relationship with their kids. It's truly sad! I applaud fathers like you who fight to be apart of your child's life. My husband went through the same thing as you but he ended up with his son and she had their daughter until recently. Now we have them both because mom rather chase d!** instead of be a mother to her kids. She also has 2 other babies from another guy but she's never home to care for them. She leaves them with her mom. But when the dad tries to take the kids she changes up with bunch of lies and nonsense. Saying he's abusive, he doesn't provide, he's homeless etc. she's currently keeping the kids from him and kicked him out. I will never understand why some woman do these things! My guess is she's wants to keep the kids so she can still get state assistance! It's sad all the way around!
She used that 10,000 she so out of line for lying like that 😂😂
I wanted to crawl through the screen!!!!!
Why would you let a child attend a hearing where you are including details of alleged violence and other adult matters?
When a woman repeatedly says "MY" daughter in a custody or upkeep case, I don't have to be told who is the toxic parent.
I saw the first one before, and seeing it again, she definitely tried to play games. Perhaps that mentality of "Ours is mine, and mine is mine." The judge was having none of it.
Ohhhh she lied under oath. Prison for her.
Yep but Good luck with that we all know judge won't do it. Partiality practices
Unfortunately no, women aren’t held accountable or to the same standard as men. So unfortunate because of the impact to both the fathers and children. The is no penalties so women with continue with this behavior and in many cases will get paid to do so.
"If you're telling the truth you don't need a good memory."
Famous words of judge Judy! lol
Why is he on supervised visitation if theres no family violence? I also think the judge shouldve asked for some proof of the health insurance costs thats pretty high just for the child
She better pay it back
she used it for food.sorry I had to,
Well, we, the internet, will have to haunt her with this until she wishes she never even thought about this money.
I don’t understand the insurance thing. I think the insurance costs should be split 50/50 between both parties
Think it’s because it’s assumed the custodial parent is paying premiums out of pocket and the reimbursement is half of that.
This women is lying this women took that money it s shame that fathers go true this and these women get away
She's under oath and flat out lying to rhe judge!! WTF?! He would be under arrest by now!
Guarantee if it was a man he would be in trouble . They be too lenient on women 🤦🏾♀️
The 1st case. Why cant dad only pay 50 percent of the medical
I never understand that.
Because it fair !! Mother has income and it should be taken into account.🤯☹️ both should be maintaining the child 🙄 bloke didn't get her pregnant on his own.
Why do dad’s always have to pay court costs
That was always my question. Why is one parent always paying 100% of medical?
Texas child support guide lines. I'm sure whichever parent the child lives with primarily has far more expenses than that medical support..
It’s like they’re punishing dads for divorcing the moms
Paternity tests need to happen along with all other tests done by the hospital at birth! Period!
Agreed. Should be mandatory but, it’s a medical procedure and one is releasing their DNA to a 3rd party. Need to have permissions to do that, you release your right to privacy of yourself and for a child who has no say.
In the 1st hearing, this father needs to stop having children!!
The second hearing isn't "off" because the father isn't there. The judge said at the beginning that he was in default, which means they have proof of service and he no-showed.
Also, there are a lot of women/men who have not reported family violence within the home. That doesn’t always mean that person is lying.. a lot of victims give their abusers chance after chance after chance. They don’t want to paint them in a bad light so they don’t report the abuse. That’s unfortunately a common issue. I like this channel bc I’ve been on both sides of family court unfortunately. I know how unfair the court can be and how insane the actions/claims that the other parent can be as well. But I don’t think it is wise to make these kind of assumptions favoring dad just because it’s against dad. Same goes for the moms. It’s best to stay neutral and as nonbias as possible.
I agree with the commentary, women need to be held accountable for falsely claiming who the father is.
I love this judge
I paid child support to my ex husband when my child lived with him, and he paid a smaller amount when my child lived with me( I made more) We had it go through the family responsibility office automatically. It's one thing we agreed on, our divorce sucked, but the main agreement was our kid needed to be supported.
I don't get men or women who don't care for their kids, and try to get out of their half of parenting.
They hate the ex more than they love the kid.
Exactly..
Last case. Isn’t it obligated for hospital crew to repost child abuse over there?
If it is why didn’t they report that the little girl came in with her head cracked open?
Cause it was a lie! Good call
Right . And if mom continued to live with him after that then she should be just as liable
Holy cow 50%????
KY only takes 30%
TN only takes 30%
Ya having the new husband supervise is real smart
I dislike the 3rd (i think) judge. She always sounds so flustered. I get she needs to make informed decisions, but the "can we answer my question" when the shes the one who can't grasp basic testimony. She just always seems to overreact to everything.
Yes!! I commented elsewhere but that’s exactly it. SHE always sounds unprepared for any case and SHE always sounds pissed off, when SHE is the only one who seems to not understand what’s going on.
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I don’t believe any of these women.
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If I knew someone going thru a custody hearing, I'd tell them to watch 10 of these court hearings. They will learn that these judges have seen and heard it ALL. Lying, hiding, telling partial truth, claiming you didn't receive funds when obviously you did, will get you nowhere fast. The judges, aren't fools. Their experience gives them an entire skill set to uncover the truth. This hearing was interesting in that the judge stated, if you didn't call the authorities when you should have, the judge's hands are tied. They need evidence. Bottom line.
What a lovely little boy in the second case. The judge is right: they rarely stay shy. Kindergarten usually frees up the shyness with new friends and adventures.
If it was a joint account how did you get the account through your previous employer? How were you alone allowed to close the account if it was joint?? I think it was one of those accounts that you can choose at work. It's like a prepaid card kinda that your paycheck gets direct deposit... He probably didn't have an account used hers to cash out a 401k into...
It seems like the courts don't really want what's best for the kids, but what is best for the courts
How are lawyers government employees and judges not able to speak English clearly?! kakalate vs calculate...
“Non-linguists are quite comfortable with the idea of a standard language… the *average person is very willing to describe & define it* , much in the same way that most people could draw a unicorn…
…What is different about these personal definitions (of standard language) *is the willingness to identify specific grammatical and phonological points* which distinguish the hypothetical standard, and a highly emotional and personal element in the definitions. People feel strongly about language, and will defend it.
The myth of standard language persists because it is carefully tended and propagated with huge, almost universal success so that language, the most fundamental of human socialisation tools, becomes a commodity.
This is the core of an ideology of standardisation which empowers certain individuals and institutions to make these decisions and impose them on others”.
Lippi-Green, _The Standard Language Myth_
David, seeing as you’re such an advocate for education & the sanctity of the English language, you may enjoy reading further linguistics work. Anything on evolutionary linguistics and sociolinguistics, of course.
Additionally, you may enjoy Crowleys work on _idealised language_ .
Also, Issue 9 of The Journal of Multilingual and Multicultural Development (2021) _In the Shadow of the Standard: Standard Language Ideology and Attitudes towards Non-Standardised Varieties and Usages_
Happy reading David ☺️
I was also wondering about the counties around houston.. continuous or contiguous? That's a huge word difference.
How is the judge taking testimony without the man being there on hearsay
They can't proceed unless they have proof he was served. If he was served and still won't come, they can proceed.
Case 1, OAG people should speak in understandable terms. I also don't know their meaning of being "credited for items I need to reimburse". Is it that I don't pay for it, or that it's in their calculations as part of what I do pay? What's their definition of "credit"? (Note the accounting definition of credit: an increase in liability or decrease in assets.)
I swear this would be my courtroom! More men would get justice!
The judge in Tillman versus what’s her face is awesome to explain so clearly to Tillman. The district attorney there is pretty much worthless thank goodness that judge took over.
She ate the 10k
My thoughts exactly. Probably a few tubs of crisco, a vat of lard and a side of bacon grease.
😂😂😂😂
When the woman starts saying you know you know like like she's about to lie
Judge Baker is not what I would want for a judge
Hold up right there judge. This woman is stating something to him. The guy has no idea what she means to him is some type of legal jargon so he can ask her what what it means? How can he answer to something he doesnt understand. That makes no sense. That sounds silly
DEI
For not reporting the father makes her a bad mother.
Why does that last one have children in court?? That is so wrong on so many levels!
So let me get this straight..he pulled a gun on you and you never called ghe police...than he threw your daughter off a moving vehicle, and it split her head open. COULD OF KILLED HER. But never called the police.
Mom, you have a lot of negatives to say about him , and you change it up and want him to have visitation. If any of the allegations are true, you shouldn't be fit to be sole conservator. Your actions were never protecting your children. .
Hopefully you get it together and pick a partner your children will look up too.
Just a little bit of helpful criticism, in order to truly show the unfairness and bias in the family court system, I think it is wise to not always assume the moms are lying or that the dads are being treated unfairly. I have unfortunately been on both sides of family court due to some past struggles. So I know exactly what the struggle with the system is like. Yes.. there is A LOT of bias shown in the family court system favoring mothers. This is a REAL issue that should absolutely be brought to the light and corrected. But that doesn’t automatically mean that all family court cases are like this. This issues I had were the criticisms in the 2nd hearing. Just because there are no police reports proving family violence in the home does not mean there was none.. there are plenty of women/men who are victims of dv and refuse to report these things. I was personally one of them in the past… many times. And I mean legitimate DV.. I was that woman who claimed I got a black eye from a falling box repeatedly 🤦🏼♀️ Thankfully I got away and healed but that’s another story. I also know men who were the exact same way. People in toxic relationships tend to give way too many chances and believe their partners when they say “It will never happen again”. So I don’t think the criticism that her claims were untrue bc of her not having police reports, is wise. That hearing didn’t seem “off” in my opinion. Dad definitely should have been there to defend himself but instead he was absent. There are a lot of men who don’t show up for these hearings.. a lot of men who just don’t care and will work under the table so they can keep their money without supporting their children. Just as there are women who lie in court and use their children as pawns. It’s just best to not have bias. Otherwise you’re pretty much doing the same thing some of these court are doing except you’re claiming the men are always in the right.
In court of law it's not whether or not it's a lie it's what you can prove. In family court it's whether or not the person on the bench believes the person or not. And a lot of times the women is just believed. But a man won't get the same when he says he's a victim.
$2800 per month, minus $1,000 for rent, $300 for utilities, $600 taxes doesn't leave a whole lot. $900 for child support, groceries, gas, car insurance, school lunch money etc.
I really HATE child support and spousal support court.
She not afraid to get child support and piss him off. Im not sure about this.
Then why would she want for her brother in
law be the supervisor
on visitation days .
Not sure about this woman who is pivoting back and forth because I think there's things left unsaid.
Just saw a video of a Texas judge order 900 a month for dad 50/50 custody mom makes 52,000 a month and dad makes little she has other kid but wants more money for the kid not his. Makes no sense
Last lady lying cuz nobody is about to shoot anyone over her 🤣😭
Judge the man doesnt mean when yall say the state gave him credit, come on now judge
She doing a lot of lying just to (get) more ( money) ..😮
All these kids covered under Medicaid that could be one reason why Medicaid is going broke. IMO
Him repaying 9% of what she is paying in health insurance is not $290....I'd be upset too bcz what they came up with for him to pay monthly is ridiculous when he has 3 other children and only gross less than $3000
The wife just gave an ALTERNATIVE FACT. MAGA always accepts alternative facts, never any questions! The Judge is WOKE! OAG Warren is great, smart, professional and amazing at gaining the truth!
What does MAGA have to do with it? TDS much?
The second woman is frighteningly similar to my daughters mother. Just a joyless, Soulless, robot. She wasn't like that the first year.
Daughter-in-law?
She said he paid off his phone and was on his own phone plan 3 years ago. Then she rattled off all the money he sent her through cash app and was still deducting phone plan charges and dates paid. All the dates were after he was no longer on her phone plan. The judge should have caught that and applied all his payments to child support. Maybe I'm wrong.
God bless judge Maya Evans
Happiness, is home made.
Please judge, understand that she’s lying about stuff. Not all maybe but some
She want you to rule a total stop for the father to see his kid
I don’t care if she deny that but that’s what she wants.
First case: She lies and he pay for everything. ...ijs Make it make sense....
Second case: No evidence and father not present. ...ijs 🤨
Thrid case: flat out lied. ijs🤨
When the judge said that’s a long pause I hollered 😂😂😂😂
I understand Family Court Judges have a tough job, but to let someone just say stuff with zero proof is outrageous! That being said, Dad not showing up & fighting back doesn't help his situation!
They not supposed to be doing that. His only option is to appeal because he wasn't there to defend himself against those allegations.
I wonder if the woman with the little boy who's father abuses alcohol and drugs and can be violent, ever thought that maybe he wasn't the best person to become pregnant by. Many women tell horror stories about the father of their children. Why did you have his baby? If they didn't know his behavior was so bad maybe they should have had protected sex, if that can't wait to establish a relationship before getting ready into bed with them.
I think with the bank account…. She wasn’t sure because she had her checks direct deposited. So she isn’t sure if it came from her checks or the 10k. This is why you use separate accounts and deposit for shared bills.
wow what an incredible state to live in apparently men can exist on $100/month after paying all these expenses
Why isn't dad's picture shown too?
He probably is appearing by phone with no video capability.
Ikr
First off, why is it always on the father to pay court cost? Mainly when he's not take anyone to court. This is just wrong. They tried to get mecon this but, I protested and she ended up have to have to pay. I digress but continue...
This lady is not right.she was un truthful to her child an ex.
How can you be separated when you weren't married? Woman want to be equal except when it comes to child support. More BS.
The older i get and the more i see i find it harder and harder to be critical about people who stop working in the system... They start working under the table just to make enough to not go hungry and have a roof over your head. Men you need to learn to keep your junk in your trunk and this wouldnt be a problem. Go have a long shower. Its less stressful and way cheaper.
Wow these fathers are getting screwed. They are losing both ways.why do the judges belive the mothers more.its so sad for the fathers and children
I always wonder why they don't give credit based on the amount a father pays for the other children versus a formal calculation. They know the cost of the First child is based no children. The second child might be based on 1 other child and the third 2, but on the fourth technically, all the other children should be based on 3 other children. Thev state knows they should go back to recalulate all the previous orders.
We are here to take 34% of your income.
everyone of these women should lose custody. theyve become a fn disease. fathers are still barely getting fair rulings. how much longer are we gonna continue coddling these types of women and give them what they want when they want it. this whole glorification of single motherhood has ruined an entire generation of kids. its fn gross
38:27 - POLICE PRECINCT PICKUP? - The mother wants the father to pickup/drop off their child at the police precinct before and after 'visits'. Why would the mother want her child's memories of each of the father's 'visits' to be punctuated by a police presence?
Another batch of Medicaid recipients.
good job on the retroactive monies.
So, there are plenty of examples of men being screwed over in court. Case #2 isn’t it.
First, it isn’t “off” the case is going on without him. It was HIS CHOICE not to show up. He is in default which means he was served. He doesn’t want to be there. How else was any business going to get done ? Just wait till he feels like it one day?
Next, he hasn’t seen his daughter or even talked to the child for a year. Not exactly the father of the year.
Thirdly, the mother claimed all the money he gave her that she could have not mentioned since it wasn’t through an official source.
Next, he refused to have the child on his health insurance. That’s kinda rude. Not father of the year again.
“Desperate move” for the mother to get control? YES! He isn’t around at all! She has the child and needs to make life decisions. He gets to just control from the shadows and just say “no” and dips out again? How is this fair to the child?? Especially when it comes to a passport. The child doesn’t get to travel with her family because some man she has met once says no?
He makes $4700 a month and pays nothing. He has a child he does nothing for yet, just does things to make life difficult for the child.
Who is the one being screwed again?
Thank you! I commented on this as well. I don’t think it’s very wise to have bias always favoring the dads in these case just as the courts always favoring moms. I disagree with the criticism on the second one for sure. She actually seemed reasonable. Especially considering she was giving exact amounts of support he had sent her too. She seemed credible in my opinion
Being a parent is choice. It's not something that society or how other people feel can force on to someone. That also include financial support.
What ever happened to judges being required to be neutral? Out of the hundreds of these videos I’ve listened to i can guarantee over 75% of the cases clearly show a ridiculously disappointing amount of bias against the men. The whole entire child support/family courts systems desperately need to be revamped. First and most importantly, there should never ever be any financial incentive for anyone, especially the state, to establish child support. The absolute only person/entity to benefit from child support should only be the child. Parents, judges, states, courts , counties, etc., should never ever ever ever be incentivized to establish child support. I mean, WTF, it says it in the name, CHILD support. Not mom support, not dad support, not judge/courts support. NOBODY!!!!!! It is soooooo dang simple, only the child should benefit.
Im appalled that in the last case the child was allowed to be in the same room cuddling with mom!!! 😡
Dont complain mom or judicial staff if dad speaks of this in front of his child. Although, I sure he doesn't.
supervised visitation by mother?
For the second case i don’t get why they doing the case without the fathers input, was the father there for case
Dad Sounds like ben that dog from talking tom games 😂
The last judge was a bit bias, he should be neutral and not giving advice to any of the parties. But if you notice by him say "I have no grounds to do anything" "But if you did this...... Then I would" just a liiiiitle bias 🙄
In case #1 she probably ate the 10k
They try to break men, they will reap what they have sown!
The judge asking about the insurance. Asking if she went to the website for cheaper insurance. It’s basically medi-caid. The judge doesn’t know what she is talking about. It’s the same companies it’s just you have to pay a portion of it. It’s all “Obama care”
I dont think thaat 2nd case, she should be able to pick her husband to be at visits at the park. Whats to stop false accusations? If she wants supervised, it should be court appointed.
"She 'axe' you..." Ffs.
"Erryday...all day."
"Why you didn't close it earlier?"
Jesus Christ.
Dads in texas get screwed
16:52 my ex-husband didn’t pay a diamond child support for the entirety of my raising my children that’s not unheard of
I have problems with women like the last case. You claim all of this but yet you make multiple babies with this dangerous man. Then you say he does things and not even the hospital logged it in as abuse. I just can’t believe her
If he is drunk, if he has your kid in the back of a truck, why didnt you call the cops and get it documented? It should be considered heresay. Where is factual proof.?
One court reporter, i saw, was unprofessional on camera. I font see why their camera needs to be on since they are only on screen sometimes. Just my opinion
They need to be on camera to remind the attorneys and the parties that the hearing is on the record.
I think she should be more professional. It's very annoying and biased.
So there seems to b something wrong with the judge video. Does it look like someone put a different background on her video?? Cuz it sure looks like it to me
With the case with Ms Garcia, I’m gonna be honest - the judge was being a bit of a dick. The woman clearly said about 5 times that the guy works alternate week schedules of days/nights. The judge spoke to her like an idiot, when it was HER who just wasn’t listening tbh.