Ginger is right. The woman's family is supposed to sponsor and host the traditional wedding being done at the lady's house. They are supposed to support with stuff like food, water, decoration and all. Note that this doesn't include the stuff the man is supposed to buy for the bride and family. It's supposed to be so but this is mostly overlooked in Ghana. However, some families from the woman's side do support immensely.
The close minded of the panelists is making me sick. Ginger is saying everything right but these guys are so close minded about everything she is saying.
In the Akan custom because the girl's family is welcoming you to their home, the lady's family takes care of food, drinks and making sure they host the man's family coming to their home to marry. All other customary cost is catered for by the man.
I totally agree with Ginger the main marriage is what we do at home, and there's a pastor to bless it The church wedding is not our culture, so therefore, it's not force
Most of the protocols in the church is basically to protect the ladies but here we have Ginger downplaying the process. LADIES listen to the pastor. Do the needful for your own protection.
I think Ginger lost on this topic. She needs to do a lot of research on Marriage cos things at not just falaaa like that. Therapist for pre marital counseling s3 s3n?🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is the ignorant, I have seen Scanty and Rev. But was a fun video. FYI - medical history etc are private, marriage counsellors dont necessarily have to be Pastors, weddings can be done outside the church. Legal aspect is the most important.... Etc etc
Ginger is right to a certain point. Pastors are not the only ones who can counsel marriages. There are certified marriage counselors who are not pastors.
i believe the marriage rites is the man's responsibility, ie the list given to him by the female's parents and bride price, clothing for the bride etc, but cost for the ceremony set up, logistics, food, location and other essentials which is for the couple, they should both show commitment and love by contributing towards it, no percentage fixed, just contribute something within your capacity to get it done, after all the day is for the two of you and a memorable day for your union
You can't hold weddings at just any location. The place or venue has to be gazetted by the court to hold weddings. Likewise Pastors. Before a Pastor can bless your marriage, he/she has to be gazetted by the court to bless marriages
I believe that wedding expenses should be split equally for the ladies to feel the pain in throwing money down without return to avoid frequent demand for divorce..
Ginger is right, marriage in a church building does not guarantee successful marriage. Even some pastors have a terrible marriage life and some marriages done in the church with all the anointing oils end up in divorce, how do you explain that if they have all the answers. for successful marriage it takes God and wisdom but again you don't want to limit the power of God to the four corners of a church building. There are different types of marriage in the law. Only one demands an approved church. So depending on the kind of marriage you are doing under the law you may not need a church and you can still register that marriage under the law. Even in the scriptures to the best of my knowledge marriage is between the two families not the church. Like ginger said ideally they are certain things that the ladies family should take care of like refreshments for guests when they come to the marriage in preparation of their home to host the groom as their guests but again there other things that the groom must pay for and the ladies family shouldn't pay. Things like the items that constitute the Bride price should be taking care of by the man (groom). It is fine if the couples decide to share the other costs apart from the Bride price they should do what is best for them in that case. But for the Bride price the man should pay. If the church has a culture that they want to follow or a family has a culture that they want to follow that is fine but it is not the standard or what determines the success of the marriage. All other compatibility test should be done anyway
Ginger you'll understand when you get done crossing that bridge😂 People who made choices like what you're saying have regretted and are still regretting 😢😅
Ginger is making a point. Nothing is going change when they showcase wedding in the church. Aahh 😂 Also, why will parent be the reason for not getting married?😅 There are instances where people go through all the processes and still end marriages after 2 days. I wish I get a 1 day opportunity to also be on the show cus there are a lot of thing on my chest 😅.
Ginger watches a lot of Hollywood films! You see the marriages in such movies where the best friend officiates the wedding, or where the couple hires a random minister off an app? Yeah.... that's the kind of wedding she envisions. She's inspired by unconventional wedding arrangements often depicted in Hollywood films.
Interesting submissions by the panel but it looks like most of them don’t have enough information on a subtopic that popped up about where to get married or not. It’s true that a place which isn’t gazetted by law can’t issue a marriage certificate but it doesn’t mean the ceremony can’t be held. Per what Ginger wants to do, she’s still in the right direction to get married traditionally and obtain a marriage certificate from a legally mandated institution . Churches have been gazzeted and given the opportunity to bless and issue marriage certificates, but you can as well employ the services of a private counsellor for the purposes of counselling and obtain the marriage certificate else where. The Rev. is behaving as if only marriages blessed in the church are the best. That’s wrong! I know people who have been happily married for several years without going through the church counselling nor outside counselling either….lemme pause here!
Of course definitely. But the husband’s family and the wife family have to split the cost of the wedding Because it’s two families joining to become one unity
The Pastor doesn’t know what he is talking about. The lady is very right. I didn’t know this till my wedding. The family of the lady is supposed to do the cooking, decor because it is believed that the man’s family are visitors and you cook for your visitors that’s why they scream “Agooooo” when they are coming. The man is only supposed to buy the things on the list
Think you're getting it wrong. The refreshments isn't part of the ceremony. The man takes care of the bride price and list. The refreshments should be done by those hosting and not the visitors. In our normal life I don't think we host someone in our house and expect the visitor to be the one to foot the bills.
@@michaeltettey6211 you are saying the same thing I said. The woman’s family are the host and the man’s family are the visitors. The man’s family scream agooo. That’s why engagement are done in the woman’s father or family house. This is why traditionally, the woman’s family cater for food, drinks, paint the house and decor because they are the hosts
Ginger didn’t make the statement right but the tradition wedding is catered for by the woman side and the white wedding is catered for by the man’s side
When it come to white wedding it the tradition of that church. Fine Marriage is a good thing the bible talks about it. But if you observe, the traditions of the white wedding is different in any church. The showing of the to be couple to the public is also one of the tradition. And it differs in any church.
What the lady in with at first left hand is trying to say but couldn't get it well is that the three rings will be worn at the same time at the father of the lady's or the family house of the lady.
It’s quite concerning when they come on the show and confidently spout false or misleading information. It’s even more wild when scanty tries to argue against someone’s opinion when he himself says the most outlandish things right after. I will say though, it’s all for fun and nothing too serious. It’s mostly just their opinions so take what they say with a grain of salt. P.S my favorite panelists are Ginger and Gifty. Scanty too on some occasions
The girls family pays for the traditional wedding in terms of food, decor, etc but the bride price is paid by the soon to be husband. The white wedding is paid by the soon to be husband
its funny to me how the panel can be so wrong about (white) wedding. those who taught us white weddings said the bride's father pays for the wedding. a simple google search would have told you guys. im dissapointed in the comment section. Typing Ginger is wrong from your phone, when you could have used that same phone to find answer. 😅
Do you know how many years I've waited for Pastor to come on the show again?😂. You people no dey try give we. We want to see him more often
Oh say it again oooo😂😂😂
Years paa😂😂
Exactly bro
@@Ogg_skimmerhmm meseee 😂😂😂
If u don’t want to see pastor go to the night club werey
Ginger is right. Not every wedding is in the church. And a wedding is a celebration of love
let drop love for REV...LOVE HIM SOO MUCH
The way Rev watched scanty at the beginning de3 ade fear give am oo😂😂😂
Ginger is right. The woman's family is supposed to sponsor and host the traditional wedding being done at the lady's house. They are supposed to support with stuff like food, water, decoration and all. Note that this doesn't include the stuff the man is supposed to buy for the bride and family. It's supposed to be so but this is mostly overlooked in Ghana. However, some families from the woman's side do support immensely.
You are saying so because that is already the norm in ghana
The "am i reading Aki-Ola" by reverend got me laughing out loud in a ride for the driver to turn 😂
The close minded of the panelists is making me sick. Ginger is saying everything right but these guys are so close minded about everything she is saying.
Herh the pastor say I’m I reading from aki -ola this man tear me ooh 😂🤣🤣💔
In the Akan custom because the girl's family is welcoming you to their home, the lady's family takes care of food, drinks and making sure they host the man's family coming to their home to marry. All other customary cost is catered for by the man.
I love you Rev he has the vibe of this generation and also keeping our morals intact
I totally agree with Ginger the main marriage is what we do at home, and there's a pastor to bless it
The church wedding is not our culture, so therefore, it's not force
Did ginger say she is from Kwahu 🤔🧐🤗🤩
Wow 🎉💯🔥
Much love ❤
Kwahu’s are proud of you Ginger🔥❤️💯😊❤️
My man is back
Rev to the whole wiase 😂❤
Ginger Blast oo… s3 “Therapist” 😅😂😂
Scanty 😂bi a whole mood 😂
You dey make therapist counsel u de3 u blast oooh.
😂😂😂
This Rev man🤣🤣
Herh Chaley today Ginger dey look different ooh,de hair dey fit am Waa❤️🥰😇
Scanty why, you dey press Ginger ein neck today too much😂
@@larbiemmanuel1221 ikr...dat be why I decided point out his white shoes and black socks
Most of the protocols in the church is basically to protect the ladies but here we have Ginger downplaying the process.
LADIES listen to the pastor.
Do the needful for your own protection.
Elder once’s said “I’m I reading de aki ola”😂😂💔💔
Ginger is not wrong on the counseling. There are marriage counselors who aren’t pastors.
I totally agree with Ginger on this one.all of that is not necessary so long as you're doing the right thing and going through the process.
I think Ginger lost on this topic. She needs to do a lot of research on Marriage cos things at not just falaaa like that. Therapist for pre marital counseling s3 s3n?🤣🤣🤣🤣
Scanty ein singlet always dey show..😅😅😅😅
Ginger is always the cause of her being dragged on her submissions😆😆Ginger like troubles🤣
😂😂
This is the ignorant, I have seen Scanty and Rev.
But was a fun video.
FYI - medical history etc are private, marriage counsellors dont necessarily have to be Pastors, weddings can be done outside the church. Legal aspect is the most important....
Etc etc
Reverend dey give it to us back to back.❤
Ginger dey flop today
Ginger just dey give Gen Z mentality vibe
Ginger is right to a certain point. Pastors are not the only ones who can counsel marriages. There are certified marriage counselors who are not pastors.
i believe the marriage rites is the man's responsibility, ie the list given to him by the female's parents and bride price, clothing for the bride etc, but cost for the ceremony set up, logistics, food, location and other essentials which is for the couple, they should both show commitment and love by contributing towards it, no percentage fixed, just contribute something within your capacity to get it done, after all the day is for the two of you and a memorable day for your union
I can’t be the only one who kept fixing an apostrophe into the text in Scanty’s shirt throughout the discussion
you see ooo🤣🤣🤣you're not alone
Ginger was right. The woman’s family pays for the wedding
Scanty and white sneakers😂😂😂
You can't hold weddings at just any location. The place or venue has to be gazetted by the court to hold weddings. Likewise Pastors. Before a Pastor can bless your marriage, he/she has to be gazetted by the court to bless marriages
I believe that wedding expenses should be split equally for the ladies to feel the pain in throwing money down without return to avoid frequent demand for divorce..
What u talk nu nyinaa nyansa 3nim mu
I will take the cost but if she want any extra tin, she will bear the cost
Ginger is right, marriage in a church building does not guarantee successful marriage. Even some pastors have a terrible marriage life and some marriages done in the church with all the anointing oils end up in divorce, how do you explain that if they have all the answers. for successful marriage it takes God and wisdom but again you don't want to limit the power of God to the four corners of a church building. There are different types of marriage in the law. Only one demands an approved church. So depending on the kind of marriage you are doing under the law you may not need a church and you can still register that marriage under the law. Even in the scriptures to the best of my knowledge marriage is between the two families not the church.
Like ginger said ideally they are certain things that the ladies family should take care of like refreshments for guests when they come to the marriage in preparation of their home to host the groom as their guests but again there other things that the groom must pay for and the ladies family shouldn't pay. Things like the items that constitute the Bride price should be taking care of by the man (groom). It is fine if the couples decide to share the other costs apart from the Bride price they should do what is best for them in that case. But for the Bride price the man should pay.
If the church has a culture that they want to follow or a family has a culture that they want to follow that is fine but it is not the standard or what determines the success of the marriage.
All other compatibility test should be done anyway
Ginger you'll understand when you get done crossing that bridge😂 People who made choices like what you're saying have regretted and are still regretting 😢😅
Ginger is making a point. Nothing is going change when they showcase wedding in the church. Aahh 😂
Also, why will parent be the reason for not getting married?😅 There are instances where people go through all the processes and still end marriages after 2 days.
I wish I get a 1 day opportunity to also be on the show cus there are a lot of thing on my chest 😅.
To my opinion scanty is making more sense but I can also see that ginger don’t have much ideas 💡 on marriage
I understand Ginger in a way 😊
The Aki Ola parts😂
❤️❤️❤️
No easy oooo
😂😂😂
Eiii ginger "besides the law"😅😅
Marriage is between families and not between churches. What about people with other religious backgrounds?
Big ups pastor✊🏾
Am I reading Aki Ola eiii Reverend 😅😂
Please get a regular segment for Pastor please. Love him 😂❤❤❤
Chale the pastor for come the show top every time oo herh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Traditionally it says the womans father should pay. That's what google said 😂😂
Today Rev is here so am going to watch to the end
Scary de 7cedis craa edey cost,we for buy de toffee own wey dey on light
Pls mk u leave ginger alone cus she’s still a kid😂😂she doesn’t kw wat she dey say
but shes right.
Ginger watches a lot of Hollywood films!
You see the marriages in such movies where the best friend officiates the wedding, or where the couple hires a random minister off an app?
Yeah.... that's the kind of wedding she envisions. She's inspired by unconventional wedding arrangements often depicted in Hollywood films.
REV, welcome back, we miss u
Interesting submissions by the panel but it looks like most of them don’t have enough information on a subtopic that popped up about where to get married or not.
It’s true that a place which isn’t gazetted by law can’t issue a marriage certificate but it doesn’t mean the ceremony can’t be held. Per what Ginger wants to do, she’s still in the right direction to get married traditionally and obtain a marriage certificate from a legally mandated institution .
Churches have been gazzeted and given the opportunity to bless and issue marriage certificates, but you can as well employ the services of a private counsellor for the purposes of counselling and obtain the marriage certificate else where. The Rev. is behaving as if only marriages blessed in the church are the best. That’s wrong! I know people who have been happily married for several years without going through the church counselling nor outside counselling either….lemme pause here!
Scanty too he fool oo Arh😂😂😂
Am sure Ginger is from a Rich family
Wen dis 4 peoples meet erh,is lyk world eleven 😂😂😂dey will gv u back to back n trust me it’s a straight win😂😂
Am I reading “Aki Ola”? 😂😂😂😂😂
Of course definitely. But the husband’s family and the wife family have to split the cost of the wedding Because it’s two families joining to become one unity
People like Ginger cheat alot thats why she wants that shortcut marriages😂
The Pastor doesn’t know what he is talking about. The lady is very right. I didn’t know this till my wedding. The family of the lady is supposed to do the cooking, decor because it is believed that the man’s family are visitors and you cook for your visitors that’s why they scream “Agooooo” when they are coming. The man is only supposed to buy the things on the list
Think you're getting it wrong. The refreshments isn't part of the ceremony. The man takes care of the bride price and list. The refreshments should be done by those hosting and not the visitors. In our normal life I don't think we host someone in our house and expect the visitor to be the one to foot the bills.
@@michaeltettey6211 you are saying the same thing I said. The woman’s family are the host and the man’s family are the visitors. The man’s family scream agooo. That’s why engagement are done in the woman’s father or family house. This is why traditionally, the woman’s family cater for food, drinks, paint the house and decor because they are the hosts
Ginger didn’t make the statement right but the tradition wedding is catered for by the woman side and the white wedding is catered for by the man’s side
Ginger has so much to learn before getting married 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I tell you 😂😂😂😂
A lot to learn
When it come to white wedding it the tradition of that church. Fine Marriage is a good thing the bible talks about it. But if you observe, the traditions of the white wedding is different in any church. The showing of the to be couple to the public is also one of the tradition. And it differs in any church.
Rev sh3 skinny jeans wai😭🤣💔
Ginger is not matured enough in this.. Showing ur man in ur church is for ur safety..
Ginger must stop watching Nigerian movie
Rev. Once said; "are you a Ghanaian "?😂😂😂
Scanty your knees are black papa😂😂😂
She doesn’t go to church 😂😂😂 a lot of red flags 🚩 on her
What the lady in with at first left hand is trying to say but couldn't get it well is that the three rings will be worn at the same time at the father of the lady's or the family house of the lady.
I agree totally with Ginger submission
It’s quite concerning when they come on the show and confidently spout false or misleading information. It’s even more wild when scanty tries to argue against someone’s opinion when he himself says the most outlandish things right after. I will say though, it’s all for fun and nothing too serious. It’s mostly just their opinions so take what they say with a grain of salt.
P.S my favorite panelists are Ginger and Gifty. Scanty too on some occasions
You should have discussed the issue on the alpha hour pastor
Am I reading Aki- Ola 😂😂😂
Is the krodoso for me??😂😂😂your wife's food will not nice😂😂
It doesn't have to be the church or the pastor !
Rev🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Church wedding is not necessary.....
The girls family pays for the traditional wedding in terms of food, decor, etc but the bride price is paid by the soon to be husband. The white wedding is paid by the soon to be husband
it's paid by the soon to be husband nowadays. but in theory the white wedding is to be paid by the bride's dad or family.
Everyone except the girl on the left be old school. Nonfa nkuaa . She be really modern and sensible
I want to ask what if I don’t go to church but I want a pastor to bless my marriage??
SCANTY IS CARRYING KSS!!
This ginger girl 😂😂😂😂
But Takyiwaa should allow the Panalist to introduce themselves😊
Eee Reverend 😂I love you soo much ❤
Takyiwaa be careful with that wig🙄
Everybody say heeeeeeat 🔥🔥🎉
But they deviated from the topic
its funny to me how the panel can be so wrong about (white) wedding. those who taught us white weddings said the bride's father pays for the wedding.
a simple google search would have told you guys.
im dissapointed in the comment section. Typing Ginger is wrong from your phone, when you could have used that same phone to find answer. 😅
Ginger dey be ❤ooo,i see am for somewhere i no go fit approach her surf😢❤
Surviving is winning Franklin 😂
@@iscalvinkenyt147Everything else is bullshit 💀🔥
hmm@@iscalvinkenyt147
All jokes aside, ginger is right
Rev welcome back ❤❤
Rev. More 🔥
Ginger is excellent.
Ginger never think say ur name is holy so showing him in ur church is not necessary.. don't make such mistake kuraaa
People have weddings at the beach or event centres/gardens. This no be new or strange. If you like church do yours at the church 🤷🏽♂️