Abusers will try to isolate You from Your friends and families so they can abuse You. This part hit me so hard. Thank You for this wonderful piece 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Not everyone who divorces is a bad person 🙂🙂
I can really relate with this movie. Seeing my mother go through domestic abuse, I made up my mind not to ever marry. That if i ever married I was going to be so hard on the man that he would be afraid of me. This was to avoid being abused. God helped me later in life as I gave Him my life. Today I am married to a wonderful man who has never laid a hand on me for years now.
Imagine you giving your traumatic self in marriage you will just be frustrating the knnocent guy. Thank God for your life o. Na most of una dey take una hand spoil una marriage
Amen! God is able to deliver us from our fears and pain. Unfortunately most people in the world have experienced some kind of trauma. When it's not us, it's the persons close to us that causes the fears to be driven. Sometimes it's bad parenting or even people who are called friend. We all need healing as there is always someone to cause pain. ❤
So much to learn from this movie... Men too can be abused, abuse is not gender based, abuser is not gender based. How can we make this movie go viral guys... Thank you @Ruth and team...
Even if you have to remarry 10 times just to get it right, please do. Never listen to what people outside would say. It is only a person who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches him. Great story line. Great actors. Great movie. I was glued all through.
In Zambia, I am not sure even the nicest man can tolerate even a quarter of the nonsense in this script. How on earth can a man with even just 2 senses stay with a woman who OPENLY fake beatings? Nay, if there are women like this somewhere, I am afraid there is something wrong with the society!
Thanks for your perspective review on the movie. Really necessary storyline line. It's the evil manipulation and narcissistic behavior of those around them that baffles me. So surprised at the sister to believe that her brother whom she's known all her life is capable of such actions. DV can go both ways. Save your lives and leave. God bless,thank you.🙏🏼
I have never been this angry with Ruth😂😂. I was on the edge and wanted to slap Ruth through my phone😂😂. Good job Mama Ruth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You have done it again👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
If you believe we are all alive because of his glory and mercy like this comment and your life will never be the same yes 🙌🏼 your life will never be the same much love Ruth 🎉❤
Hmm I’ve really learnt a lot from this movie when a woman says she’s being abused nobody believes the man even his own sister turnt against him … it’s really sad but this is a reality that most men go through.. same way when a man is beaten by his wife or a woman society sees him to be a weakling…this is a great movie thank you mama Ruth 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
A great story of happenings in some marriages. I absolutely disagree that most men go through this torture though. It is a CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR, NARCISSISTIC also.The victim must seek assist and not be afraid or ashamed to tell others outside of the home and seek HELP!
People are missing one vital lesson from this movie: allowing children to live in and through dysfunctional relationships, or living with adults who watch silently, defend, or belittle dysfunctional behaviours in relationships, can change or mould children who are in or witness these relationships; they can build dysfunctional behaviours to protect themselves, emulate the dysfunction they experience or witness in their future lives or relationships, make them sensitive and over There may be some good aspects to living in dysfunctional conditions, such as learning the indications of bad connections and refraining from them, fortitude, and resilience in adverse situations, but even with these benefits, there are always one or more negatives associated with these situations in a person who comes from a dysfunctional family. Let's alter the narrative for future generations. Hanging on is not always a good idea.
This is exactly what some men are going through in there marriage,oh my 😢😢😢😢 some times is not only women that is the victim men are also going through a lot, this is a master piece, the cast and crew did a great job ❤
This is a mental condition and happens not only in marriages. I am a mental health nurse and we have patients with this and even worse. You have people that self-harm and won’t stop until they see 🩸
Abuse on men is not spoken as that of women,but it happens everyday infact i have seen one,the man abandoned the abusive wife and travelled abroad,and has refused to do paper for his wife that marriage became a distance one till date. And another one the husband asked the wife to see a psychologist that he thinks she needs help,so this film is soo relatable and insightful.
This thing is in the nature of so many women. Tolerate them and they'll start misbehaving. This woman has been pretending all along waiting for the guy to marry her. She's manipulative wicked and ungrateful.
The man traveling abroad was a good decision l like what he did let the wife abuse herself now. For the movie I think the husband is afraid to leave the marriage because of what society will say considering that this is his 3rd marriage
Such a great movie as we celebrate man's mental health month. A lot of man are going through abuse in marriage and society seems to not be ready for this conversation. Dezathegreat really played his character so well. Good man do exist and so do abusive woman. Thanks Ruth Kadiri for such a timely yet lesson packed movie.
Nowadays its rare to come in the comment section and read something about the movie itself 😢btw great story line, this is what some men are going through.
Seriously 😢 I don’t even know why we watch this movie… is it not too share experience on comment section, Now it’s full of people who want to experience their nonsense behavior of likes
The theme for this movie is spot on!! So many people are in relationship with manipulative and emotionally abusive partners and do not know what to do. Issues related to mental health and post traumatic stress disorder (ptsd) need to be reoccurring themes in Nollywood. The execution of the story was amazing. Kudos to Ruth, Deza, and cast!❤
This movie is giving bipolar in African homes and Narcissistic abuse - Thank you Queen Ruth❣️As a mental health practitioner it can be very difficult identifying symptoms in black communities so this exposure is simply great and I love even more the flipped roles cus often the story is the other way round. it is wrong for both males sand females to experience such torture. Bravo 👏🏽
God bless you ma'am for this movie. Lots of men are going through abusive marriage and nobody is saying anything about it. I ran into a program on Facebook where the abusive wife charged the husband to court for running away from home and abandoning them. When the man started narrating his ordeals, how the woman will beat him. People started laughing in the court, meanwhile if it were to be a woman that says that. You will see how people will frown at it and will almost want to stone him to death. This is an eye opener. Lots of abusive people have experiences with their parents and they brought the trauma into their marriage hence making them to misbehave. This is exactly how narcissists behave. Kudos to the crew , you did a great job. More grace to you all in Jesus name
Imagine i got angry 😢 You nailed the role Ruth Our background really affects the present. The trauma gets to us. Most of us we're never healed and we end up hurting innocent souls. May we all heal❤
I'm Ghanaian and a big fan of Madam Ruth . I was not really a fan of youtube movies but my perspective changed after I came across her channel !!!! God bless you madam Kadiri and I guess I'm now a member!!!!😊❤😊❤
Just imagine their reaction finding out the truth imagine if the man had taken his life out of depression. My goodness this is deep thank you for this story line… men speak up you deserve to be heard too
I like the fact that he didn't listen to his wife excuses but sent her packing. It's a psychological issue, she built herself to what she is and no amount of love or patience from her husband can change her. She sees her monster father in her husband so she'll always treat him as an object of vengeance until she goes through rehab. So many men are going through this right now but few or nobody will believe them even if they decide to share their stories. The best thing for anybody going through this kind of relationship is to just leave even if it is your 10th marriage. Forget about what the society will say about you. You alone knows exactly where the shoe pinches so run for your dear life Sis Ruth thank you for this beautiful story 🙏. Deza got me emotional when he was trying to tell everyone but nobody believed him, even his sister 😭
Exactly, so many people are bleeding on the people who didn't cut them, people are sick mentally due to their traumatic events in their childhood.. before you marry someone, make sure they're mentally fit, because even the kids who will be involved from your union will suffer from what they don't know and the cycle continues
Omoooooo this movie ehn! Please let’s learn to deal with whatever past trauma or fears we might have experienced before we settle down and traumatize those we claim to love with the same trauma
When he said this man right here is broken, that's how I feel at the moment. Unfortunate how good people suffer in the hands of a narcissistic partner and eventually turn out to become the victim. I know how exactly how it feels cos that's what my partner ended up making me look like after 17 years of pain. I am on my healing journey and been a better person is the goal. Well done Ruth and her team I'm seriously addicted and there are no regrets. I love you Mama Ruth.
I swear my sister am passing through this stuff right now is not easy at all my husband is a living beast he will destroy you and still play the victim
I'm so tired about to go to bed after a very tiring day then boom the notification came and here I am wide awake watching 😊😊😊. Watching all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 fellow Zimbabweans are you here❤??
If you have any childhood traumas, see a therapist before going into marriage or any serious relationships, seriously! there won’t be any justification for your actions, all you will be left with is regrets. Good job as always❤
From January upto now we are still breathing again because of His Grace and mercy upon our lives so take a minute to thank Him for the gift 🎁 of life He has given to us ❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
God please heal every man going through any toxicity in their marriages. Give them the heart to walk away and provide an escape root before its too late. Amen!
Such an amazing movie. A woman can be wailing and crying and shouting but it’s all lies. The abusive woman in our society is beyond disgusting. Thank you Ruth for this masterpiece. Still watching to see how the husband will save himself
Nice lesson. Am glad she was divorced. Let her go and take revenge on her late father and her sister's ex-husband. People need to stop making excuses for their bad behaviors. I always say one marriage is enough especially if kids are involved, if you had a bad experience, but if death did you part, then it's ok to remarry. Kudos 👏
Where is the part about doing therapy? His divorces means he needs to do counselling before. As he himself has a problem for his choices and not ensuring that he is equally yoked with his partners 😊s
It was really good to see another side of Deza the great usually he plays the rude,bad boy I really enjoyed seeing him emotional he is indeed great😊😊😊😊...it's sad to see how some past luggage can destroy our present and future ...really nice movie
You see toxicity and abusive home, my hands and legs no dey there, count me out, I can't stand it talkless of fixing it. People are really passing through hell, marital blackmailing is real, the message was clear enough 🎉🎉🎉.
There's a lot to learn from this movie..... parents forget that their children learn from their own marriages because they look up to them . I pray everyone silently going through any for of abuse or trauma heals / gets help 🙏 ❤️. Sending you lots of love ❤️.
May we all marry our best friend, never marry out of pity or thinking you getting old or peer pressure Please stand for what you want.❤❤ Many are dying in their marriages because of this,silence kills please talk 👄 in your marriages .Always stand for the TRUTH
Ruth and Deza are my favorite husband and wife couple in Ruth's movies. They understands the Assignment and absolutely 💯💯💯 delivers! Ruth is HER and Deza is HIM! Simply the Best at their craft. Mental Health and Domestic Violence are two of the most serious Crimes in our Community! Great job bringing this to the forefront! Great Movie it's a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
An applaud to all those that have watched this movie,your sense of maturity is outstanding,I actually learned a lot about and from the movie from your comments,not that gather here,I’m here for such and such,nobody has liked my comment and so on….,thx so much.
See me see whahala. This movie tire me. I said uh then what then wait who does this. I guess the lessons that the movie was aiming to potray was well executed but my oh my. Fans of The Great Deza himself 🍻🥂, let's gather here and show him some ❤️, and give him a big 👍🏽. The man that can calmly take all the excesses from a woman 👍🏾. Well done guys.
Where are my Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱and also my 😊❤❤Kuwait 🇰🇼 family, please let gather here and take some grand nut 🥜 en enjoy this movie, thanks to mama Ruth kadri and her team
Boy child is crying silent tears somewhere all in the name of what will the society say if this one fails. That is why some are dying of heart attacks. Ruth thank u for bringing out the best character wherever you are placed, and again thank you for the educative messages in ur movies.
The people in Jide's life easily allowed themselves to be manipulated to hate him. This movie teaches that when there is an issue on ground between two people, it is always good to hear from both sides and try to get to the root of the matter before drawing your conclusion on who is wrong and who is right. Never be easily manipulated to take sides with any one without hearing from both individuals.
Narcissist can be very manipulative I've been with one you will not even know when they will separate you from your family and friend just pray to God never to meet one in your life time
To any man going through this, always remember that you're enough. I pray God gives you the strength, grace and wisdom to walk away from any toxic relationship or marriage 🙏.
Love everything about the movie, sis Ruth thank you for teaching or opening the eyes of our societies. We always think women are the only victims but are too. Let us marry for the right reasons and involve God in it.
Some men go through abuse but they don't speak up and those who speak up are not believed . I pray that God will deliver any man going through any type of abuse ,restore them and their joy in Jesus name, Amen. But on a more serious note 😢i felt for Deza ,he went through a lot of emotional abuse from Ruth his wife. Let's also learn how to stop giving excuses for people who abuse others , if you have a baggage , try to lift it, solve your emotional problems before marriage . Don't carry baggages into your marriage . May God help us all.
What a beautiful movie to watch....an eye-opener to so many things that goes on in marriage. Thank you as always, Mama Ruth kadiri, for these educating movies ❤❤
Thanks this movie touched me and returned the long gone times when l was going through such but it waa long time ago am healed now by God's grace. Watching from South Africa Jouberg
Seriously... I've never seen boss Deza this humble in any movie...,mama Ruth!! U did it again, u won't believe how angry I was at u see in this movie to a point my roomies thought I was quarreling with someone over the phone.....keep up the great work ma....once again I enjoyed seeing Mr Deza so humble.....good one, love u guys so much.
One bitter lesson I learnt is that there's no formula to marriage. That it failed twice doesn't mean you should get abused, stay silent n neglect your peace and mental health just so the 3rd or even the 4th one will work.
Guys I nearly died four days ago and God come through for me 😢help me thank God😭🙌🙏🙏🙏
Glory to the name of the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏾
Thank God for your life
Thank God for your life 🙏
Thank God for life❤
God thank you🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Abusers will try to isolate You from Your friends and families so they can abuse You. This part hit me so hard. Thank You for this wonderful piece 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Not everyone who divorces is a bad person 🙂🙂
I'm touched by your words
Yes
You're so true 😢
U have said it all
True
I can really relate with this movie. Seeing my mother go through domestic abuse, I made up my mind not to ever marry. That if i ever married I was going to be so hard on the man that he would be afraid of me. This was to avoid being abused. God helped me later in life as I gave Him my life. Today I am married to a wonderful man who has never laid a hand on me for years now.
Imagine you giving your traumatic self in marriage you will just be frustrating the knnocent guy. Thank God for your life o. Na most of una dey take una hand spoil una marriage
Carry truma all around. They are your parents you really can’t choose them 🤷♀️
Am so happy for you ma
Amen! God is able to deliver us from our fears and pain. Unfortunately most people in the world have experienced some kind of trauma. When it's not us, it's the persons close to us that causes the fears to be driven. Sometimes it's bad parenting or even people who are called friend. We all need healing as there is always someone to cause pain. ❤
God bless your marriage 🙏
So much to learn from this movie... Men too can be abused, abuse is not gender based, abuser is not gender based.
How can we make this movie go viral guys...
Thank you @Ruth and team...
There is always a lesson to learn from Ruth Kadiri's movies. She is moral oriented
I swear 🥰
Always
Even if you have to remarry 10 times just to get it right, please do. Never listen to what people outside would say. It is only a person who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches him.
Great story line. Great actors. Great movie. I was glued all through.
Ruth kadiri you were a boring soul in this movie.. 😅
@@chisomomwakifuna7584 normally, that guy should never remarry again after the shege he received from @Ruth Kadiri
10 times?stop playing 😂
This is legit what some men are going through in their marriages, but no one believes them. Ruth never disappoints with her movies. 👍
Exactly
My brother is going through the same mess.....
So this is What some Men Go through silently in Marriages..ooh Lord Heal Men who Cry in silent Amen 🙏..
My brother went through this to a point he will come to my house to stay with me. No one believe him until he suffered from stroke😢
@Baby_Reatile. Sorry to hear that
In Zambia, I am not sure even the nicest man can tolerate even a quarter of the nonsense in this script. How on earth can a man with even just 2 senses stay with a woman who OPENLY fake beatings? Nay, if there are women like this somewhere, I am afraid there is something wrong with the society!
Thanks for your perspective review on the movie. Really necessary storyline line. It's the evil manipulation and narcissistic behavior of those around them that baffles me. So surprised at the sister to believe that her brother whom she's known all her life is capable of such actions. DV can go both ways. Save your lives and leave. God bless,thank you.🙏🏼
Do men really go through madness like this😮
I have never been this angry with Ruth😂😂. I was on the edge and wanted to slap Ruth through my phone😂😂. Good job Mama Ruth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You have done it again👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
😂😂😂😂😂 That's because you forgot that all Ruth's movies comes with a lesson to learn and beware of. I think most of her fans wasn't ready for this one.
@@HolyPrettyYou so right😂😂😂. I wasn’t ready at all, but it was definitely a great lesson.
Go watch crazy Matilda, and check her out too I was boiling with anger 😢😢😢😢
Same here
Me too am very angry 😡 with her as if is it in life 😂😂😂😂
This movie is going to give alot of couples/siblings and friends a lesson.much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
If you believe we are all alive because of his glory and mercy like this comment and your life will never be the same yes 🙌🏼 your life will never be the same much love Ruth 🎉❤
Haven't you done enough with this your rubbish watch the movie and stop this madness
@@AfiaGodwin36 smh white elephant 💔😹
Fake spirituality...
@@AfiaGodwin36 lollllll
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The most painful thing in life is saying the truth without evidence.....nice movie 👏👏
To every hand that touch this comment... may blessings upon blessings be your portion forever 🤲
Amen 🙏🏾🤲🏽🙌🏽
Amen
❤❤❤ Amen
Amen 🙏 and Amen, same to you too
AMEN
Hmm I’ve really learnt a lot from this movie when a woman says she’s being abused nobody believes the man even his own sister turnt against him … it’s really sad but this is a reality that most men go through.. same way when a man is beaten by his wife or a woman society sees him to be a weakling…this is a great movie thank you mama Ruth 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That’s so sad to see your own sister don’t believe u the is wicked she went him to go to jail she did it herself
A great story of happenings in some marriages. I absolutely disagree that most men go through this torture though. It is a CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR, NARCISSISTIC also.The victim must seek assist and not be afraid or ashamed to tell others outside of the home and seek HELP!
People are missing one vital lesson from this movie: allowing children to live in and through dysfunctional relationships, or living with adults who watch silently, defend, or belittle dysfunctional behaviours in relationships, can change or mould children who are in or witness these relationships; they can build dysfunctional behaviours to protect themselves, emulate the dysfunction they experience or witness in their future lives or relationships, make them sensitive and over There may be some good aspects to living in dysfunctional conditions, such as learning the indications of bad connections and refraining from them, fortitude, and resilience in adverse situations, but even with these benefits, there are always one or more negatives associated with these situations in a person who comes from a dysfunctional family. Let's alter the narrative for future generations. Hanging on is not always a good idea.
A least have camera around house
This is exactly what some men are going through in there marriage,oh my 😢😢😢😢 some times is not only women that is the victim men are also going through a lot, this is a master piece, the cast and crew did a great job ❤
Yes I agree with you ❤❤❤
This is a mental condition and happens not only in marriages. I am a mental health nurse and we have patients with this and even worse. You have people that self-harm and won’t stop until they see 🩸
@@joychigo1952really 😮😮😮
Seriously 😢 like women we need to heal, Heal from the disfunctionality, heal from the broken home experience 💔 Omo such an interesting movie
Very bad
Abuse on men is not spoken as that of women,but it happens everyday infact i have seen one,the man abandoned the abusive wife and travelled abroad,and has refused to do paper for his wife that marriage became a distance one till date. And another one the husband asked the wife to see a psychologist that he thinks she needs help,so this film is soo relatable and insightful.
He should just let things remain the way they are,from a distance.
This thing is in the nature of so many women. Tolerate them and they'll start misbehaving.
This woman has been pretending all along waiting for the guy to marry her. She's manipulative wicked and ungrateful.
The man traveling abroad was a good decision l like what he did let the wife abuse herself now.
For the movie I think the husband is afraid to leave the marriage because of what society will say considering that this is his 3rd marriage
The movie reminds me of johnny Depp (capt jacksparo )and the wife t was so hard to believe that Ts the lady who was abusing the man😭😭😭😭
@@munadavies3517men are never afraid of society in this case the woman was threatening him
May we never be in a silent killer's hand like Angela, in the name of marriage.. A good lesson , job well done👏
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Such a great movie as we celebrate man's mental health month. A lot of man are going through abuse in marriage and society seems to not be ready for this conversation. Dezathegreat really played his character so well. Good man do exist and so do abusive woman. Thanks Ruth Kadiri for such a timely yet lesson packed movie.
Nowadays its rare to come in the comment section and read something about the movie itself 😢btw great story line, this is what some men are going through.
Seriously 😢 I don’t even know why we watch this movie… is it not too share experience on comment section, Now it’s full of people who want to experience their nonsense behavior of likes
Its so so annoying. I thought I was the only that gets pain about this. I wonder what they gain with all this rubbish comments
rubbish comments, if you know , if you like, if you left , if you BLA BLA BLA 🚮🚮🚮
And it's so annoying, people busy saying something else,kiss my comment do this do that,what is that aaargh
It won't be nice to soil it for others na
Let them feel every suspense and get the full experience.
No spoilers allowed😂
This marriage thing eehh....by God's grace, I will marry right Amen 🙏
Me too IJN .Amen
Amen 🙏
Ruth I almost forgot this is a movie 😢u really served my man Deza maximum shege, this is blackmail pro max, thanks though for this piece ❤
The theme for this movie is spot on!! So many people are in relationship with manipulative and emotionally abusive partners and do not know what to do. Issues related to mental health and post traumatic stress disorder (ptsd) need to be reoccurring themes in Nollywood. The execution of the story was amazing. Kudos to Ruth, Deza, and cast!❤
This movie is giving bipolar in African homes and Narcissistic abuse - Thank you Queen Ruth❣️As a mental health practitioner it can be very difficult identifying symptoms in black communities so this exposure is simply great and I love even more the flipped roles cus often the story is the other way round. it is wrong for both males sand females to experience such torture. Bravo 👏🏽
God bless you ma'am for this movie. Lots of men are going through abusive marriage and nobody is saying anything about it. I ran into a program on Facebook where the abusive wife charged the husband to court for running away from home and abandoning them. When the man started narrating his ordeals, how the woman will beat him. People started laughing in the court, meanwhile if it were to be a woman that says that. You will see how people will frown at it and will almost want to stone him to death. This is an eye opener. Lots of abusive people have experiences with their parents and they brought the trauma into their marriage hence making them to misbehave. This is exactly how narcissists behave. Kudos to the crew , you did a great job. More grace to you all in Jesus name
Imagine i got angry 😢
You nailed the role Ruth
Our background really affects the present. The trauma gets to us. Most of us we're never healed and we end up hurting innocent souls. May we all heal❤
You not the only one that get angry I got so irritated watching the way the wife behaves
Comment section association,,,,well done,i can see meaningful comments in here about this masterpiece, much love from 🇰🇪
I'm Ghanaian and a big fan of Madam Ruth . I was not really a fan of youtube movies but my perspective changed after I came across her channel !!!! God bless you madam Kadiri and I guess I'm now a member!!!!😊❤😊❤
We welcome you, you have missed alot
😢😢😭😭😂😂wahala don come oooo
Am addicted to ruth movies I swear.if u are watching right now thumb up 🤚🤚
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Me too, my sister said I must have shares with Ruth 😂😂😂
Addiction is real
I'm ❤❤
She deserves the best movies award no jokes 😊i love u ruth kadiri
Just imagine their reaction finding out the truth imagine if the man had taken his life out of depression. My goodness this is deep thank you for this story line… men speak up you deserve to be heard too
It’s official, Ruth Kadiri is best movie producer right now ❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌
You are right ❤
You can say that again😊😊
I vex all through till the end of the movie. This is so provoking. But an eye-opening to us all. Thank you @Ruth Kadiri & Team
NOT IN HOSPITAL
NOT IN JAIL
NOT IN BAD CONDITION LET'S GATHER WE GIVE GLORY BACK TO ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏 🙌
Thank you Jesus 🙏
All adorations be scribed unto your holy name.
Father God am deeply grateful 🥲
Lord I am grateful 🙏
Damaged people should heal before going into marriage or relationship.. Lesson to learn.... Nice movie thuo
Love you mama Ruth you are the best producer ever since I start watching your movie I never get enough of it .Good job lessons learned
I like the fact that he didn't listen to his wife excuses but sent her packing. It's a psychological issue, she built herself to what she is and no amount of love or patience from her husband can change her. She sees her monster father in her husband so she'll always treat him as an object of vengeance until she goes through rehab.
So many men are going through this right now but few or nobody will believe them even if they decide to share their stories. The best thing for anybody going through this kind of relationship is to just leave even if it is your 10th marriage. Forget about what the society will say about you. You alone knows exactly where the shoe pinches so run for your dear life
Sis Ruth thank you for this beautiful story 🙏. Deza got me emotional when he was trying to tell everyone but nobody believed him, even his sister 😭
I couldn't agree more! 💯💯 I can't add anything else. Your sentiments are very correct and profound!
I cried sef. I felt so sorry for him
Wow you are amazingly talented in your perspective 😢 you summed it perfectly, thank you 🙏🏾
Exactly, so many people are bleeding on the people who didn't cut them, people are sick mentally due to their traumatic events in their childhood.. before you marry someone, make sure they're mentally fit, because even the kids who will be involved from your union will suffer from what they don't know and the cycle continues
I cried 😢 thank you for this comment
Any gender can be an abuser
Omoooooo this movie ehn!
Please let’s learn to deal with whatever past trauma or fears we might have experienced before we settle down and traumatize those we claim to love with the same trauma
This movie for me is a 10/10. Ruth never disappoints, more reason I can't stop watching her movies.
When he said this man right here is broken, that's how I feel at the moment. Unfortunate how good people suffer in the hands of a narcissistic partner and eventually turn out to become the victim. I know how exactly how it feels cos that's what my partner ended up making me look like after 17 years of pain. I am on my healing journey and been a better person is the goal.
Well done Ruth and her team I'm seriously addicted and there are no regrets. I love you Mama Ruth.
May you find a permanent healing. 😢
I swear my sister am passing through this stuff right now is not easy at all my husband is a living beast he will destroy you and still play the victim
I'm so tired about to go to bed after a very tiring day then boom the notification came and here I am wide awake watching 😊😊😊. Watching all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 fellow Zimbabweans are you here❤??
Ruth and Deza❤❤❤
I love this combo to the corre😂😂😂
If you have any childhood traumas, see a therapist before going into marriage or any serious relationships, seriously! there won’t be any justification for your actions, all you will be left with is regrets. Good job as always❤
This is so sweet ❤❤
Such comments I like ❤❤❤
WOW good comment
I wish men could be bold enough to speak up in their abusive relationships. Everyone deserves to be happy . Kudos to the entire cast 👏
Watching from South Africa and I'm here for my faves deza the great and mama Ruth u are the best thumbs up
I felt sad for the husband.. he just wanted to make it right after 2 failed marriages.. be it a man or woman, no one deserves to be abused.....
The punch on the eye was so funny 😆 😂..Mama Ruth will kill us😂
Thanks!
From January upto now we are still breathing again because of His Grace and mercy upon our lives so take a minute to thank Him for the gift 🎁 of life He has given to us ❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
The music alone in all her movies gets me every time ❤🎉Thank u Ruth kadiri ❤❤
Deza and Ruth am here for you big up for this wonderful movie
God please heal every man going through any toxicity in their marriages. Give them the heart to walk away and provide an escape root before its too late. Amen!
Amen. In the same vein, may God heal any gender going through this. May they have the grace to seek help 🙏🏿 ✨️
Such an amazing movie. A woman can be wailing and crying and shouting but it’s all lies. The abusive woman in our society is beyond disgusting. Thank you Ruth for this masterpiece. Still watching to see how the husband will save himself
Wow this life no balance if i can have a man so calm caring like this guy here i will be forever grateful
Nice lesson. Am glad she was divorced. Let her go and take revenge on her late father and her sister's ex-husband. People need to stop making excuses for their bad behaviors. I always say one marriage is enough especially if kids are involved, if you had a bad experience, but if death did you part, then it's ok to remarry. Kudos 👏
3 side to a story. His side, Her side and the truth
Where is the part about doing therapy? His divorces means he needs to do counselling before. As he himself has a problem for his choices and not ensuring that he is equally yoked with his partners 😊s
It was really good to see another side of Deza the great usually he plays the rude,bad boy I really enjoyed seeing him emotional he is indeed great😊😊😊😊...it's sad to see how some past luggage can destroy our present and future ...really nice movie
OMG this is so insightful. Great Actors and captivating storyline. Thank you Momma Ruth for sharing this valuable movie
You see toxicity and abusive home, my hands and legs no dey there, count me out, I can't stand it talkless of fixing it. People are really passing through hell, marital blackmailing is real, the message was clear enough 🎉🎉🎉.
Deza and Ruth work really well together 😂😂😂😂😂
I swear 🎉🎉
This movie hits on different levels personally 😭, it is well, thanks mama ruth for shedding lights on silent points, well done ma
I was hoping he would put cameras in the house long before he finally did. Nothing before the time. Great movie my children !!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
There's a lot to learn from this movie..... parents forget that their children learn from their own marriages because they look up to them . I pray everyone silently going through any for of abuse or trauma heals / gets help 🙏 ❤️.
Sending you lots of love ❤️.
This movie oh mine.i want to break mama Ruth's head from my screen Great job.welldone to all the cast and crew members
A CCTV camera should be the first thing to think about in a situation like this,nice movie❤
I swear 👍
Simple 👍
Exactly
EXACTLY 🔥🔥
You just said my mind
May we all marry our best friend, never marry out of pity or thinking you getting old or peer pressure
Please stand for what you want.❤❤
Many are dying in their marriages because of this,silence kills please talk 👄 in your marriages .Always stand for the TRUTH
Who feels like smashing there phone's on wall 😂😂😂,,,,,,This guy done suffer 🙄 tayaaaa 😂😂😂😂😂
I weak bro
I am so angry at Ruth eer
Like seriously 😂
😂 na me oooo
I just like Ruth acting skills she always know how to play the role of a troublesome and calm wife she's good at it.
Ruth and Deza are my favorite husband and wife couple in Ruth's movies. They understands the Assignment and absolutely 💯💯💯 delivers! Ruth is HER and Deza is HIM! Simply the Best at their craft. Mental Health and Domestic Violence are two of the most serious Crimes in our Community! Great job bringing this to the forefront! Great Movie it's a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
An applaud to all those that have watched this movie,your sense of maturity is outstanding,I actually learned a lot about and from the movie from your comments,not that gather here,I’m here for such and such,nobody has liked my comment and so on….,thx so much.
See me see whahala. This movie tire me. I said uh then what then wait who does this. I guess the lessons that the movie was aiming to potray was well executed but my oh my. Fans of The Great Deza himself 🍻🥂, let's gather here and show him some ❤️, and give him a big 👍🏽. The man that can calmly take all the excesses from a woman 👍🏾. Well done guys.
Where are my Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱and also my 😊❤❤Kuwait 🇰🇼 family, please let gather here and take some grand nut 🥜 en enjoy this movie, thanks to mama Ruth kadri and her team
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Boy child is crying silent tears somewhere all in the name of what will the society say if this one fails. That is why some are dying of heart attacks. Ruth thank u for bringing out the best character wherever you are placed, and again thank you for the educative messages in ur movies.
The people in Jide's life easily allowed themselves to be manipulated to hate him. This movie teaches that when there is an issue on ground between two people, it is always good to hear from both sides and try to get to the root of the matter before drawing your conclusion on who is wrong and who is right. Never be easily manipulated to take sides with any one without hearing from both individuals.
Narcissist can be very manipulative I've been with one you will not even know when they will separate you from your family and friend just pray to God never to meet one in your life time
Ruth what character can't you so justice to, you're simply the best 🎉🎉🎉🎉
You are correct.
Especially the sister, she's so annoying
@@EuniceAruwa-hg9jmso true
thanks, Ruth for this masterpiece, especially for a time like this where we are in a month of mental health awareness among men.
This amongst all your movies and I am at this point addicted 😂 has been the most informative and creative work thus far well done madam. Namibia 🇳🇦
Nice movie
Staying away from friendship or relationships that are toxic is like freedom that can never be bought with money .
Regardless of what ppl will say.
A case study of the Late Sis.Osinachi Nwachukwu😢😢😢
I was so busy yesterday but am back mama Ruth. If u know she is the best and u can't miss any of her movie for anything gather we have a meeting😂😂
I love her so much
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This movie has thought me a great lesson I never knew men also goes through abuse wow this is sad. Good job Mama Ruth I love ur movies
Watched it last night but forget to comment now am back to put my comment here this movie broken my heart 😢😢
The Advert picture has said it all 🤣😂😂😂 Uncle Deza is in trouble 😭😭😂😂
I tell you😢
Deza my guy! Great acting
Ruth is killing her man.... wicked mood activated 😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
To any man going through this, always remember that you're enough. I pray God gives you the strength, grace and wisdom to walk away from any toxic relationship or marriage 🙏.
So true
I love Ruth Kadiri because she always delivers outstanding performances.
If you jumped from one movie to here immediately you saw the notification let's gather here 👍😅
See me here
If you left another movie after seeing the notification gather here for mamah Ruth and de Great deza ❤😊
My dear😂😂😂
As in ehh❤😂
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😂😂😂 I did I was watching clean heart 😂😂 and I will finish it when I finish this one 😂😂
@@TaongaJere-cd2ni you're guilty of leaving anaother movie en running here 😂😂😂
Omooo thank god for cctv ooo, this angela na real devil in human form 😂😂, interesting 👍👍
are you saying that there is a cctv in this house?
Love everything about the movie, sis Ruth thank you for teaching or opening the eyes of our societies. We always think women are the only victims but are too. Let us marry for the right reasons and involve God in it.
Where can I find such a humble lovely man like Deza the Great.Mwaaaaaah u r the best darling ❤❤❤
Some men go through abuse but they don't speak up and those who speak up are not believed .
I pray that God will deliver any man going through any type of abuse ,restore them and their joy in Jesus name, Amen.
But on a more serious note 😢i felt for Deza ,he went through a lot of emotional abuse from Ruth his wife.
Let's also learn how to stop giving excuses for people who abuse others , if you have a baggage , try to lift it, solve your emotional problems before marriage .
Don't carry baggages into your marriage .
May God help us all.
exactly, many men go through this because of this women privileges and women abuse it, using it against their husbands, its sad
What a beautiful movie to watch....an eye-opener to so many things that goes on in marriage. Thank you as always, Mama Ruth kadiri, for these educating movies ❤❤
So Deza can be this calm 😂😂😂 I felt so emotional for him, no one deserves to be tortured like this. Great masterpiece. Watching from Sierra Leone
Imagine. Deza shud be talking and sulking 😂😂😂😂😂
Seriously it's strange😂😂 he's always that arrogant type
Thanks this movie touched me and returned the long gone times when l was going through such but it waa long time ago am healed now by God's grace. Watching from South Africa Jouberg
Who is here 13th June 2024 Thursday, not in the hospital, not in mortuary. But alive and kicking say something to Adonia
Thank you ABBA Father
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Thank God for my life 🙏
Mine is 15 of June 2024
Thank you Father Lord God Almighty for the grace of life ❤
I am here because the title is gluing. What to know why it's called a third marriage. Anyone who is with me? Mama Ruth after you na you 😊😊
We dey here 😂
Ruth is his third wife, and it is where the movie is focused, that's y its titled 3rd marriage
@@Estherfrank-r4r thank you dear I got to know that when the friend was telling him to make it work because he is tired of attending his weddings
Seriously... I've never seen boss Deza this humble in any movie...,mama Ruth!! U did it again, u won't believe how angry I was at u see in this movie to a point my roomies thought I was quarreling with someone over the phone.....keep up the great work ma....once again I enjoyed seeing Mr Deza so humble.....good one, love u guys so much.
It's an amazing movie this is exactly how abusers are. Thank you ruthkadiri247 for always inspiring our mind to always learn and unlearn new things❤❤
One day my time will come I will be watched too on the screen
Congratulations to me in advance..like this comment if you believe God can do it
Amen
Believe and trust His timing.
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen, me too❤😢
One bitter lesson I learnt is that there's no formula to marriage. That it failed twice doesn't mean you should get abused, stay silent n neglect your peace and mental health just so the 3rd or even the 4th one will work.
There's something about Ruth's films. There's always a lesson to learn