Found out my person cheated on me last summer just recently, while she was travelling. From when I could remember I was always worried about being cheated on. When I was in my 20s I travelled quite extensively and was with my share of girls who were in relationships, and also was a 3rd person in a relationship for a long period in university. Pretty confident in saying self worth is my lesson in this life, and living from fear. You really do a great job at hitting some important points.
These are very intelligent and honest video. Years ago I watched twin flame videos that kept telling me "reunion is coming reunion is coming" I waited years and it never came. Almost completely wasting my child bearing years. I like no BS advice.
I think it's a *wonderful* way to try to transcend the Ego - by looking at *it* with a sense of humor. "Oh, look what my Ego is trying to do today!" By doing this, you can usually stop your negative Ego in its tracks.
So true about a twin flame runner not wanting to scar you. My TF is an asshole and a clueless one at that. He ran to a distant cousin, but wanted me to remain as a friend. Nope. As I understand now, he really did not want to hurt me. In any other type of relationship I would have acted with anger, cursed him out, and erased him forever from my life. Learning about twin flames has made a huge difference.
I’ve been on this journey a while now, and I am in a good place. I rarely seek out TF stuff, because I have pretty much all of the answers, but you popped into my feed the other day. Your content is very refreshing and resonates totally with me. Thank you!
same same! I rarely even connect anymore with twin flame material - been there done that! Moving on BUT this channel showed up and I was intrigued. It's amazing how the universe continues to deepen my knowing and awareness on this journey. This channel was exactly what I needed, and has allowed for a deepening of my understanding of the universal oneness and an ever deeper level of surrender. It's a very high level transmission. Thank you!
I love your channel and the detailed explanations you bring forward around the TF journey. Your videos help me a lot to navigate through the separation process I am currently at with my TF, as well as my spiritual awakening. Thank you so much, can't wait for the next TF lesson!! 😊🤗✨️ Greetings from Serbia! 🙏🦋✨️
They truly do, thank you once again! 🙏🌹🦋 I have one question if you could help me understand this, is it possible for the 'chaser'(DF) to get involved with a 3rd party situation during the separation process and while detaching from her TF? What happends to the TF union or even the reunion process if this 3rd party brings in more than just a karmic connection...hope all of these made any sense 😊 Thank you! 😊🌹
Just because something is labeled a "third party situation" doesn't mean it's innately "bad." Each Twin is allowed and able to do whatever they want regarding other people. A lot of Twins choose to be with a Soulmate instead of their Twin because it's much easier and safer feeling. I'll make a video on this at some point, thank you 🙂
Number 5 I can’t speak for this question but I can promise you I got into this type of thing when I meet my twin much to my embarrassment I’ve know him for 10 years now . Separating , triggering on and off. Third energy moments of bliss the whole thing . But is it right what we did no. Triggering is hell . In this journey I did not know who he was a first I was so lonely . That was until he glowed with white light and I heard his voice in my head
Been waiting for this…. #NotDisappointed Amazing job with an excellent delivery. Thank you so much for your efforts. Love hearing your insights on this journey. I kinda feel like you should write a book or something… Just sayin’ Keep being awesome.
@@wearethesamenergy Ah, you best hurry with da book. Got a whole pot of coffee ready for when it goes on sale. 😆 Glad you had the inspiration to do so. Think it will do well.
Wow! Thank you for your insight. I’ve been messaging you on instagram and all of your responses are incredibly helpful. I can’t wait to read your book when it’s published. My comforting takeaway from listening is always… trust in the universe.. as in trust your higher self.. it helps so much. Thanks from New Zealand x
I appreciate this Q&A session. Many relevant questions answered. For myself, the one about being cheated on in past connections as well as by my TF, was a huge one. I had figured out that one my biggest wounds and lessons centered on abandonment, as that began with my mother abandoning me on all levels at the age of 4; and my father on all levels except basic needs. Of course, cheating has continued to follow me all throughout my life. I am well aware of this, have done some work; but do not know how to eradicate this fear completely. If you have any suggestions, I very much appreciate hearing them. I ain’t getting any younger. lol I have been more successful with some of my healing work. Not as much with abandonment.
I completely understand this! Abandonment is a big one for most, so you're not alone. Unfortunately I cannot give detailed information on YT, but if you haven't read my book, it may help with this. The thing that completely eradicated my own abandonment issues was truly understanding and remembering that I am the universe, and since I have created everything and am the only thing, I can never be abandoned because I cannot abandon myself.
That was very confirming my twin has not pursued me ever for casual sex. After we separated he stayed in runner energy The answer for me has been a shit tonne of meditation and breath work too. I got so hurt that I rannnnnn too!
Well, I must say the same as all the beautiful Twinflames here on your Chanel. Your work is absolutely amazing without false light and distortions. Sparkling out of your soul. Thanks a lot Alex. Much love to you and your Twin 💖✨💫💯
Regarding question number 5: so true. Me and my twin are both married. I tried to urge him telepathically to become lovers, but he resisted. I think he couldn’t casually date me. He is too afraid and also perhaps values me and himself more than that. After I have pushed this issue energetically, he liked a post on Linkedin with the following message: “I don't want to fight you, but please leave me. Because I have done nothing wrong to you. You can kill me if you want, kill me if you want, but I do not want to fight with you." When I saw this, I knew then and there that I had to pull back my chaser energy and that we will never be lovers😢.
Would it be possible to do a video on core wounds? This correlation of abandonment and being cheated on in the past by karmic relationships is interesting.
I totally get question 5 sometimes I was wishing he can just talk to me ,or even ask me for pictures well he never did .he never asked for something.they are too afraid
I can feel her emotions physically like when she’s emotionally upset my right side of my heart hurts for few seconds and if she cries I feel tears coming down my face
I value a lot of what comes through here, thank you Alexx. But the “I am the SOLE creator?” Nah. That’s too solopsistic for me. WE are the co-creators, generating with each other, in concert with forces of energy that move like rivers all around us-that’s what feels more real to me. We aren’t alone. We aren’t solely responsible for everything that happens. You’re responsible for meaning, though, I believe. And co creating. I’ve gotten more uncomfortable with the definitive tone here too, wondering if (and I know, I know, it’s obviously just your perspective!) for seekers who are here and are suffering, and hurting? Might be softer/more supportive to add an “I think” every once in a while. Ok. Off my soapbox. I DO love that you share your smart and experience-filled insights here, Alexx. All best✨🙏🏻
What I got from that was more like the idea that separation is an illusion, we are all parts of the same source, were all connected, and we all exist, an we also, being from the same source, created everything. Recognizing that you are the universe is not like thinking you alone exists and the rest are hallucinations of your mind, that's the ego, it is rather realizing that you, me, her, are all the same but separated by the ego...we still get to live as ego base being, we are still here on earth having a material life experience, but this is not what we truly are.
@@wearethesamenergy I understand that you do use examples of twin flames , I am just referring to the examples that aren’t ! Also would love to know how you experienced on the feeling level (your separations and union) thank you 🙏
I'm going to disagree with #5...DMs run, but they are drawn back. Kundalini sexual energy and just the need for another fix will bring them in. With this fix they can stay in that marriage, but once the Universe cuts it off with the DF (puts up that energetic wall), the karmic (marriage) relationship begins to unravel. I don't think the DM does it to hurt the DF, but he needs a hit of that divine love, while not being healed enough to stay around or leave his safety zone/marriage. The DF needs it too, helps trigger more growth. It's pretty standard for the DM to come in and out in the beginning. Not quite so much as implied in the question, but "energy recharge" is not uncommon in my personal experience and from other's I have connected with also on the TF journey.
Alexx! Thank you so much for this! Q2 really got me! I've been on this journey for 1.5 years and I would always meditate, envision, I telepathically talk to him etc. We're in separation and damn, didn't realize that some of this is 'chasing' I didn't know that! Thank you for clarifying, though I always had that sense of knowing in my visualizations etc -- would that still be 'chasing' if I envision with a solid knowing?
I'm glad it resonated! I used to talk to my Twin telepathically as well, but he started getting annoyed because it WAS chasing (I wasn't giving him the room in the 5D to sync with his 3D). Since you meditate, why don't you sit with yourself and ask your higher self whether you're energetically chasing or not? 🙏♥️
What I really want to know is why my twin is completely my type in attractiveness. Is this something that was fated, coincidence, or a test to make things more of a challenge?
I somehow think no one else is more attractive. I always thought this from the start and people see something completely different; but I’ve always liked guys that look like him. It was a strange thought after I realized our connection. I think he has the same opinions on my appearance aswell I’m not sure to my same extent.
It's so funny, because I've had a request to do a video on when you DON'T find your TF physically attractive. But you are correct. Twins are generally absolutely the Ego's perfect type.
Hi Alexx, i found you recently and have been listening to your content because its so powerfully enlightening. I will contact you for one on one, but wanted to say that hearing the “everything is pointless” made me cry since it has been something i am starting to realize/struggle with/accept, hopefully. Any advice on that front, so as not to fall into an existential crisis. Or would this be ego degradation? ❤ Thank you!
Ego Degradation in some part for sure. But I want to make sure you're all right and not feeling hopeless. I look forward to speaking with you in the future! 💜🙏
I feel like I found your channel at the perfect time because things are resonating nicely. I do have a question though but I think I already know the answer lol. Do you think it's a sign that someone is your twin if you don't even feel the need to ask that question? I feel like I know who my twin is and I've always had that knowing but in the past I did do certain things from the ego and to get their attention but I don't anymore. Ultimately though, they were the one that made me want to change for myself. It's like seeing my own reflection through them was very bitter but also productive in terms of growth.
I know of a twin flame chaser in separation who is a plus size lady and her runner TF is involved with a thin lady Karmic 3rd party situation. He use to be a bit bigger but lost weight before the separation with his TF. The karmic 3rd party wouldn't have paid him a single look if he wasn't attractive. But yeah could that be the case of it being a reflection/mirror of her own inner thing like you said in answer #10? If that is the case does that mean they will never be reunited unless she loses wight? Which would be bad due to the fact that the chaser is on the shorter side so can't lose all that much weight because of IBM. Or does it mean that although on the surface she comes across confidant regardless of her weight, inside she isn't completely, she just needs to become really confidant?
If every time you are about to visualize or fantasize, you begin questioning whether it's going to lead to a negative headspace, that will quickly turn into an Egoic carousel in which you are perpetually overthinking everything. And we don't want that! 🙂 All I was saying is that on an energetic level, if we're talking about innately KNOWING something vs wanting/doubting it, knowing will win every time when it comes to actually manifesting things. But I've been wanting to do a video on this topic for a long time, so thank you for the push! 🙏
There is no point...to anything. But if you are driven by purpose and point and need them for everything, you are allowing the Ego to be in full control, and my content will be very difficult for you to vibe with.
@@wearethesamenergy ok so how do you feel about the analogy that life is supposed to be a video game/simulation and to just experience life as one ? I’ve found that I have detached from the TF and I’m more interested in your content about spirituality as a whole. And how to navigate life after awakening ? That’s the big question. Also I just bought your book!
I love the question of how to navigate life after awakening. I call it "bridging the 3D and the 5D" which is on my list of videos to do. Technically, life is a simulation created by the Ego. And thank you for purchasing my book. I think the first few chapters especially will speak to you.
@@wearethesamenergy so I’ve come across the idea of life being a simulation and i thought that being “I AM” equaled solipsism (Neville Goddard’s Everyone is You Pushed Out concept) and that everyone is just a projection from within “you”. I was very ungrounded and thought my ego could just manipulate reality how I please (i.e. “manifesting”) and that didn’t work out at all the way I thought. The only conclusion I can come up with is that reality cannot be manipulated as your Ego chooses. There’s a pre destined path that you must follow that was created before the ego was reincarnated and wavering off that path won’t work.
I find solipsism to be an important concept, but the innate problem with it is that it is an Egoic concept. It's that nothing exists outside of the mind, and while that is true (to the mind), it is not true in regards to energy. Nothing exists outside of energy. The mind itself is energy. Thoughts are energy. And you are correct, nothing can be manifested with Ego; I talk about this in my two manifestation videos
You can absolutely have a form of awakening with a Karmic because they're teaching you lessons! The next two weeks of videos explain the Soul Family in more detail, so def check them out! ♥️
You started to answer one question, but I was hoping that you would go further. What if you are currently in a twin flame connection, but are not romantically involved? My Divine masculine and I are still very close, but after several separations we have not resumed a romantic relationship. I don't know whether you believe that all twin flames are meant to be in union in this lifetime, or if you believe that soulmates are sometimes the more appropriate choice, but as I have no idea when our lessons will be learned or if we will reunite in that way in this lifetime, am I to remain unattached, without the joy of a relationship? I would like to be in union with him, but believe that he still has a serious karmic relationship to deal with before that could even be considered. I'd love it if you would answer this question either here or in a future video. By the way, I just found you and am Loving your videos thus far!
@@wearethesamenergy Do you believe twin flames are always intended for romantic union, or is it appropriate to explore soul mate relationships when your DM is in denial or with a karmic?
Hi ,, I'm a new subscriberand I wanted to ask You a question? I am an Impath and I just started this twin flame journey that came out of the blueand in my opinion, it seems more difficult because I sense and I could see into the futureso. My question is how do I bring balance Between the twin flame Connection and me being an impact. Sensing, almost the thing that he does and it's annoying at times Beautiful, but annoying., Please help😭😭
Are you an actual Empath or do you just have incredibly prominent clair senses? You may want to watch some videos on my Intuition playlist, because they talk about a lot of things regarding this.
Hi there, I have a Question; of we are all the dame consciousness and we are all one, how are twin flames more one than you and I are one? Or, how is it that we (TFs) are one soul but then again we are all one? This is the one thing I still have a hard time understanding.
Twin Flames are no different than anyone else. The thing that makes them seem different is the ability for the Higher Self to puncture through the Ego and remember that we are the universe when we encounter them. Twin Flames are an absolute recognition of yourself as the universe. That's it. A twin flame does not have the same soul as you because there is no such thing as a Soul. You can watch my videos "Twin Flames," "The Purpose of Twin Flames," and "No one understands Twin Flames."
question for the next one! how do we *see* our twin flames? there’s someone i believe to by mine, and there’s a glow about them. or possibly it’s like they’re in HD in a low quality world. there is definitely ~something~ different about them to me, even if i can’t explain it. thanks :)
I am relatively new to your channel and try to grasp and comprehend as much as possible! I have a question: Does the twin flame always come in the form of a romantic partner? Could he/ she appear as a mother, son or friend manifestation? ❤
Will you do a video on ego degradation some time? I went through one after meeting her and I was just assaulted by all my childhood traumas out of the blue. It sent me into a panic and I don't know how I didn't end up in the hospital like you. Now that my dark night of the soul is stabilizing, I don't really have an identity anymore. I feel so empty like a blank canvas. It is kind of terrifying and peaceful at the same time. I don't know what is ahead..
I know that feeling so well; not having an identity. It's really scary, but it's just the mind, thankfully. Tell me what you'd like me to touch on specifically. I do have a video on the thirteen signs of Ego Degradation 🙏🙏
@@wearethesamenergy Oh I couldn't find that video. Unless you're talking about your ascension symptoms one? Honestly, you can just talk about your experience in detail regarding what you went through because it is quite a scary process for people who are not aware of what is going on. Especially the disassociation, the void state. As long as you're comfortable with it ofcourse. You're quite raw and unfiltered so it would be a good video no matter what you choose to talk about.
@@User98681 I'm doing better. I had to give up all bad habits. Smoking, drinking, once in a while party drugs. My body no longer tolerates them. Have been learning to meditate and detaching from thoughts. Its tough in a different way hanging out with friends while they are drinking etc. I do miss how fun life was before this sometimes, but ultimately I feel like a new person rebuilding their life, but this time consciously with how it should be.
Mam my twin is married to someone else, he is not having good relationship with her, we both have been seeing angel numbers, signs and synchronicity from universe, but he always push me for physical relationship, how can i recognize he is my real twinflame or false
Can it be a twin flame if we knew each-other only for 4 months and he was my boss and we did not have anything happening between us, only an attraction.. and he discarded me after I called out on old survival mode workplace structures and models and he did not validate me when I called out my colleague's narcissistic abuse. And sometimes he hurt me with the same triggers as I experienced from caregivers and adults when I was a child. Thank you if you can answer what you think even though the q&a is over 🙂
@@wearethesamenergy oh maaaan so I met many karmics and narcissists and no twin.. 😀 may I be in the dark night of the soul anyway? I feel like I am, like I am on a spiritual journey with a purpose anyway... Thank you
You absolutely ARE on a spiritual journey ALWAYS! For you are the universe manifested in physical form. Karmics show and teach you many lessons...they serve a purpose. 🙏💜
I’m sorry to ask but…why did you went to hospital 14 years ago because of your ego degradation? What happened? Can you explain more about your history? Because I feel many symptoms and I feel brutally alone and no one could understand. Can you touch this point? Thank you so much 😌
Pls help me understanding this…I dont even know if this journey is true for me or a refuge for my unhealthy attachment issues? Feels so strongly the former not the mind the feeling with all the above which means it true then and feels like losing game idk i am so exhausted and lost and hope and not hope and feel this intense need to be with him and feel pathetic also cause if i would want him why would i feel pathetic about this feeling then means I actually dont want him dont like him and i am pretending and he cant be this and maybe my ego and mind is super hard to crack but ig he came to just trigger a bit and leave and make me aware of it not like tf’s fix it cause it sure seems like that been months and months now and still after separation the same so what does that mean? And maybe all this is is just another heartbreak and i dont even want him i am just obsessing cause i am in the habit of it ig and about union and never being together idk all for this or nothing? But how does it matter .. if thats all that matters then again its isnt true thats it.. Everyone says they feel signs and energies and know that this person is their tf in the depths and depths of their heart and i keep saying idk cause the answer is no because yes would be simple and idk is because its no but i can’t accept that doesn’t change the fact that it stands true that isnt tho and i dont even think i had signs or depth of connection or feeling on oneness with and without him with myself and the knowing idk what to even say about that and if i cant shake the feeling about him not being my tf with all the above just states it right? Idk if he is my ego physical type or not too…?
What is it when you have mental conversations with your twin, in your mind and even sometimes verbally having a real back and forth conversation. Is this a real thing or just something made up?
Okay but something does not add up. If they step back and want to have something casual it is karmic because a TF wouldn't want to manipulate or mistreat you but if they cheat they are still a twin flame??
Ok I guess he is not . He came to visit me after a year and he wanted to have sex but only that . He doesn’t have a partner. And he said I should date someone else. But what about all the synchronicities and the repeated numbers I keep seeing ? I stopped chasing him two weeks ago after this last time he said “ is not worth it just to come here for sex” that was after a year we met . Anyway I am now focus in healing my childhood wounds so I honestly don’t care about him anymore. Although I am always thinking about him :/
It sounds like a Karmic relationship - incredibly powerful, still! You may want to watch my videos "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "The 3 Signs You Should Pay Attention To," and I will have one out next week on Karmic Relationships specifically.
Question 5- oh give me a break. So not a flame!!! Thanks for snapping that person out of their narrative. So many vloggers try to support fake flame paradigms. Even when a divine masculine finally 'chases' you its not even that pushy- its more like they are standing there available for you zero push- and you chase them in that stance or you just stand there with them.
Exact same behaviour as my twin. He has only been pushy in the beginning, now he mostly just runs. The most is being available for me for a chat. I am so Happy when that happens. When he is brave enough😂 to stand in front of me. I must terrify him😅.
Found out my person cheated on me last summer just recently, while she was travelling. From when I could remember I was always worried about being cheated on. When I was in my 20s I travelled quite extensively and was with my share of girls who were in relationships, and also was a 3rd person in a relationship for a long period in university. Pretty confident in saying self worth is my lesson in this life, and living from fear. You really do a great job at hitting some important points.
These are very intelligent and honest video. Years ago I watched twin flame videos that kept telling me "reunion is coming reunion is coming" I waited years and it never came. Almost completely wasting my child bearing years. I like no BS advice.
I think it's a *wonderful* way to try to transcend the Ego - by looking at *it* with a sense of humor. "Oh, look what my Ego is trying to do today!" By doing this, you can usually stop your negative Ego in its tracks.
So true about a twin flame runner not wanting to scar you. My TF is an asshole and a clueless one at that. He ran to a distant cousin, but wanted me to remain as a friend. Nope. As I understand now, he really did not want to hurt me. In any other type of relationship I would have acted with anger, cursed him out, and erased him forever from my life. Learning about twin flames has made a huge difference.
I love your presentation style, its honest, authentic and selfless
I'm glad the videos are resonating!
I’ve been on this journey a while now, and I am in a good place. I rarely seek out TF stuff, because I have pretty much all of the answers, but you popped into my feed the other day. Your content is very refreshing and resonates totally with me. Thank you!
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same same! I rarely even connect anymore with twin flame material - been there done that! Moving on BUT this channel showed up and I was intrigued. It's amazing how the universe continues to deepen my knowing and awareness on this journey. This channel was exactly what I needed, and has allowed for a deepening of my understanding of the universal oneness and an ever deeper level of surrender. It's a very high level transmission. Thank you!
@graspingthewind I'm so glad they're resonating with you!
I love your channel and the detailed explanations you bring forward around the TF journey. Your videos help me a lot to navigate through the separation process I am currently at with my TF, as well as my spiritual awakening.
Thank you so much, can't wait for the next TF lesson!! 😊🤗✨️
Greetings from Serbia! 🙏🦋✨️
Serbia! 😍 Thanks for reaching out! I'm so glad my videos are resonating with you, and all of my highest vibrations to you during your separation! 🙏
They truly do, thank you once again! 🙏🌹🦋
I have one question if you could help me understand this, is it possible for the 'chaser'(DF) to get involved with a 3rd party situation during the separation process and while detaching from her TF?
What happends to the TF union or even the reunion process if this 3rd party brings in more than just a karmic connection...hope all of these made any sense 😊
Thank you! 😊🌹
Just because something is labeled a "third party situation" doesn't mean it's innately "bad." Each Twin is allowed and able to do whatever they want regarding other people. A lot of Twins choose to be with a Soulmate instead of their Twin because it's much easier and safer feeling. I'll make a video on this at some point, thank you 🙂
@@wearethesamenergy Cannot wait for it, thank you so much! 🤗🌹❤️🦋
Number 5 I can’t speak for this question but I can promise you I got into this type of thing when I meet my twin much to my embarrassment I’ve know him for 10 years now . Separating , triggering on and off. Third energy moments of bliss the whole thing . But is it right what we did no. Triggering is hell . In this journey I did not know who he was a first I was so lonely . That was until he glowed with white light and I heard his voice in my head
Been waiting for this….
#NotDisappointed
Amazing job with an excellent delivery. Thank you so much for your efforts. Love hearing your insights on this journey. I kinda feel like you should write a book or something… Just sayin’
Keep being awesome.
😂😂😂 I am writing a book! Thank you so much for your words, and I'm so happy my videos resonate on your journey 🙏🙏♥️
@@wearethesamenergy Ah, you best hurry with da book. Got a whole pot of coffee ready for when it goes on sale. 😆
Glad you had the inspiration to do so. Think it will do well.
Hahaha, you've made me laugh a lot this morning, so thank you!
Wow! Thank you for your insight. I’ve been messaging you on instagram and all of your responses are incredibly helpful.
I can’t wait to read your book when it’s published.
My comforting takeaway from listening is always…
trust in the universe.. as in trust your higher self.. it helps so much.
Thanks from New Zealand x
Yes, Lori! 🙏🙏♥️
I have been unable to find you/her on instagram. Can anyone help?
I appreciate this Q&A session. Many relevant questions answered. For myself, the one about being cheated on in past connections as well as by my TF, was a huge one. I had figured out that one my biggest wounds and lessons centered on abandonment, as that began with my mother abandoning me on all levels at the age of 4; and my father on all levels except basic needs. Of course, cheating has continued to follow me all throughout my life. I am well aware of this, have done some work; but do not know how to eradicate this fear completely. If you have any suggestions, I very much appreciate hearing them. I ain’t getting any younger. lol I have been more successful with some of my healing work. Not as much with abandonment.
I completely understand this! Abandonment is a big one for most, so you're not alone. Unfortunately I cannot give detailed information on YT, but if you haven't read my book, it may help with this. The thing that completely eradicated my own abandonment issues was truly understanding and remembering that I am the universe, and since I have created everything and am the only thing, I can never be abandoned because I cannot abandon myself.
That was very confirming my twin has not pursued me ever for casual sex. After we separated he stayed in runner energy
The answer for me has been a shit tonne of meditation and breath work too.
I got so hurt that I rannnnnn too!
Well, I must say the same as all the beautiful Twinflames here on your Chanel. Your work is absolutely amazing without false light and distortions. Sparkling out of your soul. Thanks a lot Alex. Much love to you and your Twin 💖✨💫💯
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Regarding question number 5: so true. Me and my twin are both married. I tried to urge him telepathically to become lovers, but he resisted. I think he couldn’t casually date me. He is too afraid and also perhaps values me and himself more than that.
After I have pushed this issue energetically, he liked a post on Linkedin with the following message: “I don't want to fight you, but please leave me. Because I have done nothing wrong to you. You can kill me if you want, kill me if you want, but I do not want to fight with you."
When I saw this, I knew then and there that I had to pull back my chaser energy and that we will never be lovers😢.
Would it be possible to do a video on core wounds? This correlation of abandonment and being cheated on in the past by karmic relationships is interesting.
Love that, yes! 🙏
I totally get question 5 sometimes I was wishing he can just talk to me ,or even ask me for pictures well he never did .he never asked for something.they are too afraid
I can feel her emotions physically like when she’s emotionally upset my right side of my heart hurts for few seconds and if she cries I feel tears coming down my face
Thanks!
A billion for this information in your message, my love 💓!
I value a lot of what comes through here, thank you Alexx. But the “I am the SOLE creator?” Nah. That’s too solopsistic for me. WE are the co-creators, generating with each other, in concert with forces of energy that move like rivers all around us-that’s what feels more real to me. We aren’t alone. We aren’t solely responsible for everything that happens. You’re responsible for meaning, though, I believe. And co creating. I’ve gotten more uncomfortable with the definitive tone here too, wondering if (and I know, I know, it’s obviously just your perspective!) for seekers who are here and are suffering, and hurting? Might be softer/more supportive to add an “I think” every once in a while. Ok. Off my soapbox. I DO love that you share your smart and experience-filled insights here, Alexx. All best✨🙏🏻
Solipsism states that everything outside of the mind cannot be know and is false. I'm stating that the MIND is false in and of itself.
What I got from that was more like the idea that separation is an illusion, we are all parts of the same source, were all connected, and we all exist, an we also, being from the same source, created everything. Recognizing that you are the universe is not like thinking you alone exists and the rest are hallucinations of your mind, that's the ego, it is rather realizing that you, me, her, are all the same but separated by the ego...we still get to live as ego base being, we are still here on earth having a material life experience, but this is not what we truly are.
I would so prefer examples of twin flame 🦋✨
Examples of Twin Flames? I give examples of things regarding Twins in most of my TF videos.
@@wearethesamenergy I understand that you do use examples of twin flames , I am just referring to the examples that aren’t ! Also would love to know how you experienced on the feeling level (your separations and union) thank you 🙏
So great this information Thankyou ❤
I'm glad it resonated 🙏
I'm going to disagree with #5...DMs run, but they are drawn back. Kundalini sexual energy and just the need for another fix will bring them in. With this fix they can stay in that marriage, but once the Universe cuts it off with the DF (puts up that energetic wall), the karmic (marriage) relationship begins to unravel. I don't think the DM does it to hurt the DF, but he needs a hit of that divine love, while not being healed enough to stay around or leave his safety zone/marriage. The DF needs it too, helps trigger more growth. It's pretty standard for the DM to come in and out in the beginning. Not quite so much as implied in the question, but "energy recharge" is not uncommon in my personal experience and from other's I have connected with also on the TF journey.
I want to know that do we get married to our twin flames?…or should we ?
Alexx! Thank you so much for this! Q2 really got me! I've been on this journey for 1.5 years and I would always meditate, envision, I telepathically talk to him etc. We're in separation and damn, didn't realize that some of this is 'chasing' I didn't know that! Thank you for clarifying, though I always had that sense of knowing in my visualizations etc -- would that still be 'chasing' if I envision with a solid knowing?
I'm glad it resonated! I used to talk to my Twin telepathically as well, but he started getting annoyed because it WAS chasing (I wasn't giving him the room in the 5D to sync with his 3D). Since you meditate, why don't you sit with yourself and ask your higher self whether you're energetically chasing or not? 🙏♥️
What I really want to know is why my twin is completely my type in attractiveness. Is this something that was fated, coincidence, or a test to make things more of a challenge?
I somehow think no one else is more attractive. I always thought this from the start and people see something completely different; but I’ve always liked guys that look like him. It was a strange thought after I realized our connection. I think he has the same opinions on my appearance aswell I’m not sure to my same extent.
It's so funny, because I've had a request to do a video on when you DON'T find your TF physically attractive. But you are correct. Twins are generally absolutely the Ego's perfect type.
Hi Alexx, i found you recently and have been listening to your content because its so powerfully enlightening. I will contact you for one on one, but wanted to say that hearing the “everything is pointless” made me cry since it has been something i am starting to realize/struggle with/accept, hopefully. Any advice on that front, so as not to fall into an existential crisis. Or would this be ego degradation? ❤
Thank you!
Ego Degradation in some part for sure. But I want to make sure you're all right and not feeling hopeless. I look forward to speaking with you in the future! 💜🙏
I feel like I found your channel at the perfect time because things are resonating nicely. I do have a question though but I think I already know the answer lol. Do you think it's a sign that someone is your twin if you don't even feel the need to ask that question? I feel like I know who my twin is and I've always had that knowing but in the past I did do certain things from the ego and to get their attention but I don't anymore. Ultimately though, they were the one that made me want to change for myself. It's like seeing my own reflection through them was very bitter but also productive in terms of growth.
As you said, you already know the answer! 🙏
I doubt if we are twins.. some signals are very the same and sometimes I waver.. but somehow I feel he is my twin .. we are really like ice & fire ..
"What are Karmic Relationships?," "Twin Flames versus Karmics," "Twin Flames: Look at the Macro," "Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation."
How long was it between first meeting and 3D union with your twin?
A bit over 2 years
I know of a twin flame chaser in separation who is a plus size lady and her runner TF is involved with a thin lady Karmic 3rd party situation. He use to be a bit bigger but lost weight before the separation with his TF. The karmic 3rd party wouldn't have paid him a single look if he wasn't attractive. But yeah could that be the case of it being a reflection/mirror of her own inner thing like you said in answer #10? If that is the case does that mean they will never be reunited unless she loses wight? Which would be bad due to the fact that the chaser is on the shorter side so can't lose all that much weight because of IBM. Or does it mean that although on the surface she comes across confidant regardless of her weight, inside she isn't completely, she just needs to become really confidant?
These are all constructs of the Ego
#2. ... So am I understanding that you're saying don't "fantasize" or visualize if it's going to lead to an anxious let down (chaser energy)?
If every time you are about to visualize or fantasize, you begin questioning whether it's going to lead to a negative headspace, that will quickly turn into an Egoic carousel in which you are perpetually overthinking everything. And we don't want that! 🙂 All I was saying is that on an energetic level, if we're talking about innately KNOWING something vs wanting/doubting it, knowing will win every time when it comes to actually manifesting things. But I've been wanting to do a video on this topic for a long time, so thank you for the push! 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy thank you!
I have seen some TH-cam clips of your tf. Is that his channel?
He doesn't have a channel, he just posted some shorts about my book, I think.
@@wearethesamenergy oh I see. I got excited seeing his videos. But looking forward to hear more from your tf perspective. 😀
@@itsmepearly607 We have a Patreon where we discuss all TF things together.
Can you make a video explaining the purpose of realizing you are the universe ? What are you supposed to do with that knowledge ? Whats the point?
There is no point...to anything. But if you are driven by purpose and point and need them for everything, you are allowing the Ego to be in full control, and my content will be very difficult for you to vibe with.
@@wearethesamenergy ok so how do you feel about the analogy that life is supposed to be a video game/simulation and to just experience life as one ?
I’ve found that I have detached from the TF and I’m more interested in your content about spirituality as a whole. And how to navigate life after awakening ? That’s the big question.
Also I just bought your book!
I love the question of how to navigate life after awakening. I call it "bridging the 3D and the 5D" which is on my list of videos to do. Technically, life is a simulation created by the Ego. And thank you for purchasing my book. I think the first few chapters especially will speak to you.
@@wearethesamenergy so I’ve come across the idea of life being a simulation and i thought that being “I AM” equaled solipsism (Neville Goddard’s Everyone is You Pushed Out concept) and that everyone is just a projection from within “you”. I was very ungrounded and thought my ego could just manipulate reality how I please (i.e. “manifesting”) and that didn’t work out at all the way I thought. The only conclusion I can come up with is that reality cannot be manipulated as your Ego chooses. There’s a pre destined path that you must follow that was created before the ego was reincarnated and wavering off that path won’t work.
I find solipsism to be an important concept, but the innate problem with it is that it is an Egoic concept. It's that nothing exists outside of the mind, and while that is true (to the mind), it is not true in regards to energy. Nothing exists outside of energy. The mind itself is energy. Thoughts are energy. And you are correct, nothing can be manifested with Ego; I talk about this in my two manifestation videos
Thank you for the video. I have a question can you have a kundalini activation and a heart center awakening with a karmic?
You can absolutely have a form of awakening with a Karmic because they're teaching you lessons! The next two weeks of videos explain the Soul Family in more detail, so def check them out! ♥️
Thank you ❤
You started to answer one question, but I was hoping that you would go further. What if you are currently in a twin flame connection, but are not romantically involved? My Divine masculine and I are still very close, but after several separations we have not resumed a romantic relationship. I don't know whether you believe that all twin flames are meant to be in union in this lifetime, or if you believe that soulmates are sometimes the more appropriate choice, but as I have no idea when our lessons will be learned or if we will reunite in that way in this lifetime, am I to remain unattached, without the joy of a relationship? I would like to be in union with him, but believe that he still has a serious karmic relationship to deal with before that could even be considered. I'd love it if you would answer this question either here or in a future video. By the way, I just found you and am Loving your videos thus far!
I will make a video regarding this. Can you boil your question down to one line?
@@wearethesamenergy Do you believe twin flames are always intended for romantic union, or is it appropriate to explore soul mate relationships when your DM is in denial or with a karmic?
Got it, will answer
Hi ,, I'm a new subscriberand I wanted to ask You a question? I am an Impath and I just started this twin flame journey that came out of the blueand in my opinion, it seems more difficult because I sense and I could see into the futureso. My question is how do I bring balance
Between the twin flame Connection and me being an impact. Sensing, almost the thing that he does and it's annoying at times
Beautiful, but annoying., Please help😭😭
Are you an actual Empath or do you just have incredibly prominent clair senses? You may want to watch some videos on my Intuition playlist, because they talk about a lot of things regarding this.
What if you're doubting if that person is your twin flame
I'll actually add this to my request list.
Do you have a video that describes push energy? I’d love to know more. Is that chasing energy? Is push / pull related to attraction .. like a magnet?
I will be making a video on this on a few weeks 🙂
Hi there,
I have a Question; of we are all the dame consciousness and we are all one, how are twin flames more one than you and I are one?
Or, how is it that we (TFs) are one soul but then again we are all one?
This is the one thing I still have a hard time understanding.
Twin Flames are no different than anyone else. The thing that makes them seem different is the ability for the Higher Self to puncture through the Ego and remember that we are the universe when we encounter them. Twin Flames are an absolute recognition of yourself as the universe. That's it. A twin flame does not have the same soul as you because there is no such thing as a Soul. You can watch my videos "Twin Flames," "The Purpose of Twin Flames," and "No one understands Twin Flames."
I am at a point that I wonder if I still like my TF...? I am doing fine. Or is this happening right before union?
You may want to watch my video "Twin Flame Separation (an important message)" 🙏
question for the next one!
how do we *see* our twin flames? there’s someone i believe to by mine, and there’s a glow about them. or possibly it’s like they’re in HD in a low quality world. there is definitely ~something~ different about them to me, even if i can’t explain it. thanks :)
Do you see auras generally?
@@wearethesamenergy not at all!
Well I'd say that's very awesome that you're seeing this person's aura!! 💜
Hey! could you explain divine timing?
It's on my list. I also talk about it in my book a lot
I am relatively new to your channel and try to grasp and comprehend as much as possible! I have a question: Does the twin flame always come in the form of a romantic partner? Could he/ she appear as a mother, son or friend manifestation? ❤
Hi! A Twin is ALWAYS a romantic partner. If it's a parent, friend, or child, it's either a Karmic, Soulmate, or Soulmate + Karmic
Will you do a video on ego degradation some time? I went through one after meeting her and I was just assaulted by all my childhood traumas out of the blue. It sent me into a panic and I don't know how I didn't end up in the hospital like you. Now that my dark night of the soul is stabilizing, I don't really have an identity anymore. I feel so empty like a blank canvas. It is kind of terrifying and peaceful at the same time.
I don't know what is ahead..
I know that feeling so well; not having an identity. It's really scary, but it's just the mind, thankfully. Tell me what you'd like me to touch on specifically. I do have a video on the thirteen signs of Ego Degradation 🙏🙏
@@wearethesamenergy Oh I couldn't find that video. Unless you're talking about your ascension symptoms one? Honestly, you can just talk about your experience in detail regarding what you went through because it is quite a scary process for people who are not aware of what is going on. Especially the disassociation, the void state. As long as you're comfortable with it ofcourse. You're quite raw and unfiltered so it would be a good video no matter what you choose to talk about.
Got it! ♥️
How are you doing 1 year later? I’m in the same position now.
@@User98681 I'm doing better. I had to give up all bad habits. Smoking, drinking, once in a while party drugs. My body no longer tolerates them. Have been learning to meditate and detaching from thoughts. Its tough in a different way hanging out with friends while they are drinking etc. I do miss how fun life was before this sometimes, but ultimately I feel like a new person rebuilding their life, but this time consciously with how it should be.
How can we know when the runner starts to push?
Push what?
@@wearethesamenergy Push towards my energy. I think she is because now I want to do the running and don't think I want anything to do with my D.M.
When you have come into union with the self, the runner feels it and begins chasing. If your want a consult with me, you can book on my website 🙏
Mam my twin is married to someone else, he is not having good relationship with her, we both have been seeing angel numbers, signs and synchronicity from universe, but he always push me for physical relationship, how can i recognize he is my real twinflame or false
"Twin Flame versus Karmic"
OMG I love you and love the way you explain everything accordingly. No other videos take time to break down everything
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If we all are the same, isn’t everyone our soulmate or twin flame?
There are a few members within the Soul Family and then non-Soul Family members. It all comes down to how the Ego perceives the energy
Can it be a twin flame if we knew each-other only for 4 months and he was my boss and we did not have anything happening between us, only an attraction.. and he discarded me after I called out on old survival mode workplace structures and models and he did not validate me when I called out my colleague's narcissistic abuse. And sometimes he hurt me with the same triggers as I experienced from caregivers and adults when I was a child. Thank you if you can answer what you think even though the q&a is over 🙂
That's a Karmic 🙂
@@wearethesamenergy oh maaaan so I met many karmics and narcissists and no twin.. 😀 may I be in the dark night of the soul anyway? I feel like I am, like I am on a spiritual journey with a purpose anyway... Thank you
You absolutely ARE on a spiritual journey ALWAYS! For you are the universe manifested in physical form. Karmics show and teach you many lessons...they serve a purpose. 🙏💜
I’m sorry to ask but…why did you went to hospital 14 years ago because of your ego degradation? What happened? Can you explain more about your history? Because I feel many symptoms and I feel brutally alone and no one could understand. Can you touch this point? Thank you so much 😌
If you feel like you need help, Joana, please seek help from a professional and not a TH-cam channel.
@@wearethesamenergy no I don’t need help. I feel ok. I just wanted to understand what happened to you.
Pls help me understanding this…I dont even know if this journey is true for me or a refuge for my unhealthy attachment issues? Feels so strongly the former not the mind the feeling with all the above which means it true then and feels like losing game idk i am so exhausted and lost and hope and not hope and feel this intense need to be with him and feel pathetic also cause if i would want him why would i feel pathetic about this feeling then means I actually dont want him dont like him and i am pretending and he cant be this and maybe my ego and mind is super hard to crack but ig he came to just trigger a bit and leave and make me aware of it not like tf’s fix it cause it sure seems like that been months and months now and still after separation the same so what does that mean? And maybe all this is is just another heartbreak and i dont even want him i am just obsessing cause i am in the habit of it ig and about union and never being together idk all for this or nothing? But how does it matter .. if thats all that matters then again its isnt true thats it.. Everyone says they feel signs and energies and know that this person is their tf in the depths and depths of their heart and i keep saying idk cause the answer is no because yes would be simple and idk is because its no but i can’t accept that doesn’t change the fact that it stands true that isnt tho and i dont even think i had signs or depth of connection or feeling on oneness with and without him with myself and the knowing idk what to even say about that and if i cant shake the feeling about him not being my tf with all the above just states it right? Idk if he is my ego physical type or not too…?
What if your Twin has passed/transitioned?
This is on my list of videos to do 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy thank you. I will look forward to that.
What is it when you have mental conversations with your twin, in your mind and even sometimes verbally having a real back and forth conversation. Is this a real thing or just something made up?
Can be "real," can be clairaudience, can be Ego.
Is 3D union with your twin flame inevitable?
Absolutely not
Okay but something does not add up. If they step back and want to have something casual it is karmic because a TF wouldn't want to manipulate or mistreat you but if they cheat they are still a twin flame??
I don't know what you're specifically referring to
Ok I guess he is not . He came to visit me after a year and he wanted to have sex but only that . He doesn’t have a partner. And he said I should date someone else. But what about all the synchronicities and the repeated numbers I keep seeing ?
I stopped chasing him two weeks ago after this last time he said “ is not worth it just to come here for sex” that was after a year we met . Anyway I am now focus in healing my childhood wounds so I honestly don’t care about him anymore. Although I am always thinking about him :/
It sounds like a Karmic relationship - incredibly powerful, still! You may want to watch my videos "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "The 3 Signs You Should Pay Attention To," and I will have one out next week on Karmic Relationships specifically.
My twin talked alott on watsapp about lust etc
Only when we were really together he was even afraid to kiss me hihi
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Question 5- oh give me a break. So not a flame!!! Thanks for snapping that person out of their narrative. So many vloggers try to support fake flame paradigms. Even when a divine masculine finally 'chases' you its not even that pushy- its more like they are standing there available for you zero push- and you chase them in that stance or you just stand there with them.
I've missed you on here! 🙂
Exact same behaviour as my twin. He has only been pushy in the beginning, now he mostly just runs. The most is being available for me for a chat. I am so Happy when that happens. When he is brave enough😂 to stand in front of me. I must terrify him😅.
I though that he doesnt want me, he refused me altough there was huge attraction on both sides. I didnt understand till now.. thanks
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