I had a very toxic friend that I would repeatedly try to make peace with and it just ended up being a relationship where I constantly walked on eggshells around them and received a lot of emotional abuse from. If they can't take any responsibility for their own actions, and again get defensive when confronted about their behavior and how it was inappropriate or hurtful, then they either won't change or are not even close to being ready to change. That shouldn't fall on your shoulders. Your boundaries are perfectly valid and your other friends should respect that as well. If they feel they need to reach out to him, let them do it themselves. You have been more than kind to even reach out to him at all after that. Sometimes the best thing that you can do for someone is to hold them accountable for their own actions. Maybe it will hold a mirror up to show him he needs to take care of his own demons. You are very brave for standing up to him when you were feeling threatened and you have a great heart! I wish you to best! 😊
Hi Colleen! First, I am so sorry that you had to deal with a friend like that. I don’t think we talk about abusive friendships and warning signs in platonic relationships. Thank you so much for your reassurance and for telling me your story. I hope you are taking the time to heal from that person. You are very brave for surviving that. I really appreciate your comment, and it’s giving me more peace about the situation 💜 thank you again, and I wish you the best, too!!
I am so proud of you for standing up to 'Chad'! Especially when you were feeling so anxious. You are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. I had a bit of a Chad at my previous job and I wish I had the guts to call him out like you did! 🙃 if I had my time again I definitely would!
I’m sorry you had your own “Chad.” It’s so hard to stand up for them because it’s always a scary /uncomfortable situation. I’m glad you are doing okay now and he’s at your old job! 💜
I love your heart. The world needs more people like you. In my opinion you are doing what a good leader does. You stood up for others in your group and yet you still reached out to him and showed kindness. I really love your ASMR style and the light brushing of the microphone is very soothing. The pace at which you talk is perfect. I’m glad I found your channel. I would love to hear more about your life. ❤️❤️
Thank you for such a beautiful compliment, Steve’!! 🥺 it truly meant a lot. I hope to continue growing as a person every single day. Thank you for watching and for your comment! I hope to post more about my life soon!! 💜
I wouldn’t worry at all! He didn’t seem to worry about anyone at the time and even after so wash your hands of it and move on! If you see him in the halls smile and keep moving
What a cool job! I would be interested in a video about how you came to work in the position, such as how and when you learned Japanese, how you chose that job, what age group you teach. I am fully enthraled! Only if you are comfortable of course, I just think it sounds so neat!
Ah!! I’m so happy you said that because I’m releasing my next video about my job! I would love to do more videos about it though! Thank you for being interested 💜🥰
Also as a Jewish person that has experienced a lot of micro aggressions, thank you for standing up for your friend, even if it was super hard for you. It’s nice to feel like someone has your back in those situations. :)
Hi! I am SO SO sorry if you can hear the tree cutter in the background 💀, it stops in a few minutes. I if you can’t stand it, I’m sorry and next week I’ll be back with a true crime video! 💜
I think you did the right thing and did all you could. He really sounds toxic and we all know toxic people tend to be like a cycle that repeats itself.
ah thank you Rachel!! and you are so right. I don't want to get into the habit of expecting a toxic dude to change. We all know that can be miserable! :(
always something to remember as an empathetic person, even though you care alot about how people feel...it is the other persons actions that got them in this position. im glad you put your foot down. you were only defending yourself and your friend and you didnt say anything defensive. its not just on you!
I love this video. Standing up for yourself is so important and I all ways beat myself up afterwards when I let too much slide. Please keep up the great work
I love how slow you whisper and the fluffy mic cover with the brushing. Honestly you could even go slightly slower. Could you please tell more of your drama stories? I love being entertained and relaxed while I do chores haha
I think you handled the situation in an excellent brave way! You should be proud of yourself :) reacting calmly to a childhood trauma and standing up for yourself even if you feel scared is huge. I think he's just coming up with excuses to make the whole thing "your fault" instead of taking responsibility for his own actions. If you chase after him it might just affirm that to him too, you know? If you feel preassure from others in the group, I'd express that it simply dosent feel comfortable since he blocked you. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾
I love your whispered pace! If it gets too fast I have trouble understanding anyways. I just found your channel and was drawn by the gossip video. I don't like true crime anymore because I realized that falling asleep to that was starting to depress me, so YES more gossip and life adventures would be amazing!! I love the positivity of your adventures and the connection to the real life issues, so keep them coming! Thank you so much!
Sorry to hear you had to deal with that. I was around toxic people like that for a long time and gave them chance after chance and it never changed. Once I dissociated I learned alot about surrounding yourself with people you know and trust is best. Co workers especially.
For some reason, I watched all your other videos first and saved this one for last! You're an excellent storyteller, and yes.. share your life with us! I think you did the best you could with what you had at the time. I'm a therapist, and I work with a lot of the adult children of abusive/addicted parents, and no matter how far you are from the trauma, anytime you experience something or someone like chad, it's probably going to trigger you. It's very common when somebody does something embarrassing or dysregulating for a social group, like he did, for him to try to scapegoat one person, and that person is going to be you. You can't control if you decides to isolate himself. I appreciate that you're concerned about his well-being, but his actions are his alone. Also worth noting is that you could invite him back into the group if you wanted to, but still ignore him. The two are not mutually exclusive. You are hands down my new favorite asmrtist. I love your speaking style and how relatable you are. You have a strong sense of intuition. You'll do what is right for you and the group! Just know that you can't make everyone happy, and that's not your job, either! ❤️
I love your whisper and even, consistent energy. Chad was heading to self destruct before he even met you and it would have been something different if not that. but it was important for you that you stood up and you should feel proud. And proud of being calm. If you and your approach could not intervene no one would be able and your and the groups mental health is more important. He will bring everyone down and the ghosting etc is an act meant to get attention and be the victim and he is not. I thought the story was going to end with him being asked to leave ald and I think it still will. Please keep a very neutral distance and encourage others to make their own choice and respect yours. It’s why you are in a leadership position and will continue to be. Loved the video and the story time thank you ❤️❤️❤️ take care of you
Ah, thank you so so much, Alexandra!! I was so worried my energy was too chaotic and fast in this video. Also, thank you for being so sweet about the situation. I want to have compassion always but I sometimes need people to tell me when it’s time to let go! I will continue to be a neutral, positive force in the group. Thank you so much for watching and commenting! Wishing you a wonderful night 💜💜🥺
@@sarahasmr7067 anytime! I am so glad you resisted the “everything’s fine it’s ok” pull that happens from a fearful family (IMO). It’s hard to break that cycle of avoiding boundary setting to “keep the peace” esp in a group. I picture Chad as one of those guys who likes to use his size and body language to silently scare people and I cannot stand that. If you have to tell me you are joking, then it’s not a joke is how I see it. ❤️❤️
You are really interesting, don't over think it, you will capture everyone's attention, 4 years is so long, keep talking about yourself. I'm not trying to tell you what you already know. Just excited and enjoying.
Please continue doing what you’re doing. It’s very relaxing and your stories are fascinating. I used to teach English in Korea. I can relate lol. And I prefer to avoid chaotic people.
I'm currently binging all your videos. I think you're awesome at this. Your job sounds so interesting! Couldn't have been easy when covid hit and everyone packed up and went home :( Chad sounds like a bit of a tosser if I'm honest. Shame as you seemed to have a good vibe going on at first. I like the sound of Kenzie. She sounds fun. I'm glad you have some good friends there. Thank you for an awesome video and for being so raw and open about your past. You should make your rambles a bit of a series. People love a bit of gossip 😆
aw thank you so much!! and you have such great advice!! I will totally be careful of him! So strange because I've been spotting him more recently after this video! And I would love to do more gossip videos!! thank you for the suggestions!
Don't be scared of confrontation. Think of it as a conversation instead of a confrontation. If you come at it correctly, it's never as bad as you think. And make sure it's a situation worth bringing up (not just petty stuff) you don't seem petty tho lol . Love your vids 😊😊😊
My dear Sarah, first of all i am so sorry for what you went through as a child/teenager. That is obviously what triggers your fear and i can relate... My dad used to drink heavily and i have needed to work a lot with myself, to be able to tolerate people getting drunk or people getting angry when i am around. Please know that your comment only hurt him because it felt true to him. Otherwise it wouldn't have touched him. You handled everything perfectly so far. You are a very considerate human being. I dont think you are responsible for him cutting everyone out. He obviously has his own demons and i dont see him staying for long anyways.
I’m so so sorry that you can relate, too. It’s such a scary, isolating feeling and I’m glad you took the time to heal as much as you could. It’s so painful. But, thank you so much for your reassurance and reaching out 💜 I feel a bit better about the whole thing. Wishing you peace!
I’m a Canadian and please let me tell you he is not a good representation of who we are as a multicultural country. You young lady,should be very proud of yourself for standing up for what is right in such a non confrontational way. Like someone else mentioned wash your hands of him and do it guilt free. You offered him a kind caring safe group to be a part of and he thanked you with disrespect and chaos of you and your friends. You have nothing more to think about on that matter. You seem like an exceptional young woman 💖
Just now gotten to the end of the vid. #1 you did nothing wrong. Sounds like you have been a damn good leader so far. #2 the man is antisemitic, I don't know how much empathy he deserves. #3 it isn't your job to keep everyone together. There is only so much you can do as a leader, others also need to play their part. If he is ghosting you his actions are speaking for him. If others want you to build a bridge perhaps explain that you have tried and he has ghosted you but maybe one of them could try. And if you do bump into him - smile, wave and leave! Sorry if that all sounds bossy lol its just I have known guys like him and it makes me so angry that he has made you feel that way! Sending all the love and good vibes your way 🥰
Hi Steph! Thank you so incredibly much for your advice. It really helps me to have perspective like that, and you don’t come off as bossy at all. I think hateful people are not good to be friends with, but it was definitely a difficult position to be in! Also, your smile and wave comment made me laugh so thank you 😂💜 I will be using that! Thank you again for being so kind and saying all of that, steph! Its so so sweet of you. I hope you have a wonderful night!!
@@sarahasmr7067 you're welcome! I put myself in your shoes and it isn't easy especially when everyone else is on your case! Hope the situation gets sorted ☺
You did nothing wrong, this man has issues, & I wouldn't want to or have anything else to do with him (outside of being civil when we have to cross paths)!
A person that has an addiction will always try to blame someone else for their “short comings”. You did the correct thing in calling him out and should be proud of yourself for your convictions. Chad sounds very immature and may just need some guidance. He may come back around on his own.
Although I don't feel like it us your responsibility at that point to keep him in the group, I understand the pressure you are putting on yourself. Perhaps there is a way to have one of the others reach out to him(voluntarily) to set up a third party contact system since he is obviously too immature to talk to you directly. That would allow information to be passed and a contact to be established while keeping distance for both of your sakes.
Also......just a quick side note..... You like true crime (obviously) you've obviously read a lot of crime stories. We all know that the initial reaction of Chad once he was confronted is his true self. Stay away from him Sarah. People like that are dangerous. Don't worry about his mental health regarding being isolated from the group. He chose his path and he sounds like he could easily turn in situations He's chaotic and not in control of his emotions. You may want to be a good leader but don't willingly put yourself in his presence. He's trouble.
Lol, that made me laugh 😂 he certainly did not! And thank you for saying that!! And pig does not have a name yet! We will have to think of some names! 💜
“Chad” has issues that don’t pertain to you. I wouldn’t stress about it. He has to seek the help that he needs before addressing anything with you. Let go and let God.
Sounds like chad has a bipolar disorder because he gets mad very easily. It runs in my family so sadly my whole family is like this. I try my best to avoid anyone with anger issues because it traumatized me! Hopefully he can just learn how to focus on his personality and working on his drinking problem.
Chad just wants people to pursue him. What a loser. Ignore him. If he wants to be ignorant, oh well. If you see him, nod your head and keep it going. Don't be scared of the possiblity of someone gaslighting you. And let him isolate himself. He sounds like he doesn't take sound advice.
Do you have a supervisor that you trust that you can speak to about this situation? It scares me that this man drinks and is easily angered and lives in the same building as you. I admire your courage, wisdom and leadership.
Honestly I feel like Kenzie is also the bad guy in this situation. Her willingness to let things go and allow him to behave that way proves she is NOT stronger than you.
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I had a very toxic friend that I would repeatedly try to make peace with and it just ended up being a relationship where I constantly walked on eggshells around them and received a lot of emotional abuse from. If they can't take any responsibility for their own actions, and again get defensive when confronted about their behavior and how it was inappropriate or hurtful, then they either won't change or are not even close to being ready to change. That shouldn't fall on your shoulders. Your boundaries are perfectly valid and your other friends should respect that as well. If they feel they need to reach out to him, let them do it themselves. You have been more than kind to even reach out to him at all after that. Sometimes the best thing that you can do for someone is to hold them accountable for their own actions. Maybe it will hold a mirror up to show him he needs to take care of his own demons.
You are very brave for standing up to him when you were feeling threatened and you have a great heart! I wish you to best! 😊
Hi Colleen! First, I am so sorry that you had to deal with a friend like that. I don’t think we talk about abusive friendships and warning signs in platonic relationships. Thank you so much for your reassurance and for telling me your story. I hope you are taking the time to heal from that person. You are very brave for surviving that. I really appreciate your comment, and it’s giving me more peace about the situation 💜 thank you again, and I wish you the best, too!!
> toxic
> friend
Why do you keep toxic people around that close??
I am so proud of you for standing up to 'Chad'! Especially when you were feeling so anxious. You are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. I had a bit of a Chad at my previous job and I wish I had the guts to call him out like you did! 🙃 if I had my time again I definitely would!
I’m sorry you had your own “Chad.” It’s so hard to stand up for them because it’s always a scary /uncomfortable situation. I’m glad you are doing okay now and he’s at your old job! 💜
I love your heart. The world needs more people like you. In my opinion you are doing what a good leader does. You stood up for others in your group and yet you still reached out to him and showed kindness. I really love your ASMR style and the light brushing of the microphone is very soothing. The pace at which you talk is perfect. I’m glad I found your channel. I would love to hear more about your life. ❤️❤️
Thank you for such a beautiful compliment, Steve’!! 🥺 it truly meant a lot. I hope to continue growing as a person every single day. Thank you for watching and for your comment! I hope to post more about my life soon!! 💜
You did the exact right thing. You are strong... I give you a standing ovation!
I wouldn’t worry at all! He didn’t seem to worry about anyone at the time and even after so wash your hands of it and move on! If you see him in the halls smile and keep moving
Thank you Danielle!! Ill definitely try to do that! Have a lovely night 💜
What a cool job! I would be interested in a video about how you came to work in the position, such as how and when you learned Japanese, how you chose that job, what age group you teach. I am fully enthraled! Only if you are comfortable of course, I just think it sounds so neat!
Ah!! I’m so happy you said that because I’m releasing my next video about my job! I would love to do more videos about it though! Thank you for being interested 💜🥰
Also as a Jewish person that has experienced a lot of micro aggressions, thank you for standing up for your friend, even if it was super hard for you. It’s nice to feel like someone has your back in those situations. :)
Good for you for standing up when you were facing a very real trauma from your childhood. You should be quite proud.
Hi! I am SO SO sorry if you can hear the tree cutter in the background 💀, it stops in a few minutes. I if you can’t stand it, I’m sorry and next week I’ll be back with a true crime video! 💜
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@@peterpeter.4806 happy valentines! Hope it was a good one! Thank you! 💜
I lovvvve how restrained your whisper is, if that’s the right word. Subscribed bc I love hearing stories in that type of “true” whisper+clicky-ness💜
I love the video!!! And it’s so cool that you teach English in Japan! Would love to hear more stories about your time there please!
Thank you so much, Renee!! And will do! I would love to do more story times!! I hope you have a wonderful night! :)
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I think you did the right thing and did all you could. He really sounds toxic and we all know toxic people tend to be like a cycle that repeats itself.
ah thank you Rachel!! and you are so right. I don't want to get into the habit of expecting a toxic dude to change. We all know that can be miserable! :(
always something to remember as an empathetic person, even though you care alot about how people feel...it is the other persons actions that got them in this position. im glad you put your foot down. you were only defending yourself and your friend and you didnt say anything defensive. its not just on you!
I love this video. Standing up for yourself is so important and I all ways beat myself up afterwards when I let too much slide. Please keep up the great work
Your whispers are great! Can’t wait for your future videos! ☺️
I love how slow you whisper and the fluffy mic cover with the brushing. Honestly you could even go slightly slower. Could you please tell more of your drama stories? I love being entertained and relaxed while I do chores haha
I think you handled the situation in an excellent brave way! You should be proud of yourself :) reacting calmly to a childhood trauma and standing up for yourself even if you feel scared is huge. I think he's just coming up with excuses to make the whole thing "your fault" instead of taking responsibility for his own actions. If you chase after him it might just affirm that to him too, you know? If you feel preassure from others in the group, I'd express that it simply dosent feel comfortable since he blocked you. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾
I love your whispered pace! If it gets too fast I have trouble understanding anyways. I just found your channel and was drawn by the gossip video. I don't like true crime anymore because I realized that falling asleep to that was starting to depress me, so YES more gossip and life adventures would be amazing!! I love the positivity of your adventures and the connection to the real life issues, so keep them coming! Thank you so much!
Sorry to hear you had to deal with that. I was around toxic people like that for a long time and gave them chance after chance and it never changed. Once I dissociated I learned alot about surrounding yourself with people you know and trust is best. Co workers especially.
For some reason, I watched all your other videos first and saved this one for last! You're an excellent storyteller, and yes.. share your life with us! I think you did the best you could with what you had at the time. I'm a therapist, and I work with a lot of the adult children of abusive/addicted parents, and no matter how far you are from the trauma, anytime you experience something or someone like chad, it's probably going to trigger you. It's very common when somebody does something embarrassing or dysregulating for a social group, like he did, for him to try to scapegoat one person, and that person is going to be you. You can't control if you decides to isolate himself. I appreciate that you're concerned about his well-being, but his actions are his alone. Also worth noting is that you could invite him back into the group if you wanted to, but still ignore him. The two are not mutually exclusive.
You are hands down my new favorite asmrtist. I love your speaking style and how relatable you are. You have a strong sense of intuition. You'll do what is right for you and the group! Just know that you can't make everyone happy, and that's not your job, either! ❤️
I love your whisper and even, consistent energy. Chad was heading to self destruct before he even met you and it would have been something different if not that. but it was important for you that you stood up and you should feel proud. And proud of being calm. If you and your approach could not intervene no one would be able and your and the groups mental health is more important. He will bring everyone down and the ghosting etc is an act meant to get attention and be the victim and he is not. I thought the story was going to end with him being asked to leave ald and I think it still will. Please keep a very neutral distance and encourage others to make their own choice and respect yours. It’s why you are in a leadership position and will continue to be. Loved the video and the story time thank you ❤️❤️❤️ take care of you
Ah, thank you so so much, Alexandra!! I was so worried my energy was too chaotic and fast in this video. Also, thank you for being so sweet about the situation. I want to have compassion always but I sometimes need people to tell me when it’s time to let go! I will continue to be a neutral, positive force in the group. Thank you so much for watching and commenting! Wishing you a wonderful night 💜💜🥺
@@sarahasmr7067 anytime! I am so glad you resisted the “everything’s fine it’s ok” pull that happens from a fearful family (IMO). It’s hard to break that cycle of avoiding boundary setting to “keep the peace” esp in a group. I picture Chad as one of those guys who likes to use his size and body language to silently scare people and I cannot stand that. If you have to tell me you are joking, then it’s not a joke is how I see it. ❤️❤️
Oh and your whispering was perfectly paced , i dont think it should be faster...☺️🙏💖
You are really interesting, don't over think it, you will capture everyone's attention, 4 years is so long, keep talking about yourself. I'm not trying to tell you what you already know. Just excited and enjoying.
No I really appreciate it!! Thank you so much 😢 I’ll try to tell more stories! I’m so glad you think that way 💕
I loved this video! Would love it if you did more story time/ rambling about your experience in Japan it seems so interesting!!!
Please continue doing what you’re doing. It’s very relaxing and your stories are fascinating. I used to teach English in Korea. I can relate lol. And I prefer to avoid chaotic people.
You’re an amazing storyteller! Hoping for more videos from you. Please be sure to update us on this situation.
I love your whispers. More. More. Cool job.
I'm currently binging all your videos. I think you're awesome at this. Your job sounds so interesting! Couldn't have been easy when covid hit and everyone packed up and went home :(
Chad sounds like a bit of a tosser if I'm honest. Shame as you seemed to have a good vibe going on at first.
I like the sound of Kenzie. She sounds fun. I'm glad you have some good friends there.
Thank you for an awesome video and for being so raw and open about your past.
You should make your rambles a bit of a series. People love a bit of gossip 😆
aw thank you so much!! and you have such great advice!! I will totally be careful of him! So strange because I've been spotting him more recently after this video! And I would love to do more gossip videos!! thank you for the suggestions!
Don't be scared of confrontation. Think of it as a conversation instead of a confrontation.
If you come at it correctly, it's never as bad as you think. And make sure it's a situation worth bringing up (not just petty stuff) you don't seem petty tho lol . Love your vids 😊😊😊
So excited for this video! And super excited for the true crime! Youve absolutely smashed it so far!! 1k + views!! 🧡
Thank you so much, Jaz 💜 I’m so sorry about the audio in this video! I hope to do well in the next one!! Have a wonderful night and hope you enjoy 😊 💕
My dear Sarah, first of all i am so sorry for what you went through as a child/teenager. That is obviously what triggers your fear and i can relate... My dad used to drink heavily and i have needed to work a lot with myself, to be able to tolerate people getting drunk or people getting angry when i am around. Please know that your comment only hurt him because it felt true to him. Otherwise it wouldn't have touched him. You handled everything perfectly so far. You are a very considerate human being. I dont think you are responsible for him cutting everyone out. He obviously has his own demons and i dont see him staying for long anyways.
I’m so so sorry that you can relate, too. It’s such a scary, isolating feeling and I’m glad you took the time to heal as much as you could. It’s so painful. But, thank you so much for your reassurance and reaching out 💜 I feel a bit better about the whole thing. Wishing you peace!
Sorry that happened to you when you tried to get people together. Hope you’re doing well now and thank you for the video 😊
thank you so much, Nick!! I appreciate it. I'm doing okay now, and I hope you are having a great night as well! :)
You seem so sweet and kind
Abousetly love your ASMR 🥰
Thank you Loki!! You are so kind 💕
You're super cool! please please keep making videos!!
Aw thank you so much!! I appreciate the support!! And I hope to do a good job in the next video!! 💜
I’m a Canadian and please let me tell you he is not a good representation of who we are as a multicultural country.
You young lady,should be very proud of yourself for standing up for what is right in such a non confrontational way. Like someone else mentioned wash your hands of him and do it guilt free. You offered him a kind caring safe group to be a part of and he thanked you with disrespect and chaos of you and your friends. You have nothing more to think about on that matter. You seem like an exceptional young woman 💖
im going back watching all your videos! i want to be your friend !! you seem like a good friend!
Just now gotten to the end of the vid. #1 you did nothing wrong. Sounds like you have been a damn good leader so far. #2 the man is antisemitic, I don't know how much empathy he deserves. #3 it isn't your job to keep everyone together. There is only so much you can do as a leader, others also need to play their part. If he is ghosting you his actions are speaking for him. If others want you to build a bridge perhaps explain that you have tried and he has ghosted you but maybe one of them could try. And if you do bump into him - smile, wave and leave!
Sorry if that all sounds bossy lol its just I have known guys like him and it makes me so angry that he has made you feel that way! Sending all the love and good vibes your way 🥰
Hi Steph! Thank you so incredibly much for your advice. It really helps me to have perspective like that, and you don’t come off as bossy at all. I think hateful people are not good to be friends with, but it was definitely a difficult position to be in! Also, your smile and wave comment made me laugh so thank you 😂💜 I will be using that!
Thank you again for being so kind and saying all of that, steph! Its so so sweet of you. I hope you have a wonderful night!!
@@sarahasmr7067 you're welcome! I put myself in your shoes and it isn't easy especially when everyone else is on your case! Hope the situation gets sorted ☺
You did nothing wrong, this man has issues, & I wouldn't want to or have anything else to do with him (outside of being civil when we have to cross paths)!
A person that has an addiction will always try to blame someone else for their “short comings”. You did the correct thing in calling him out and should be proud of yourself for your convictions. Chad sounds very immature and may just need some guidance. He may come back around on his own.
It’s clear to see that alpha Chad was seriously jealous of the size of that Jewish candle. What a disgusting person he is.
I hope your having fun in Japan and love the video
Hi Joshua! I’m having a great time despite odd situations 😅 thank you for commenting! I’ll post happier videos in the future about Japan!
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Chad got anger issues
Although I don't feel like it us your responsibility at that point to keep him in the group, I understand the pressure you are putting on yourself. Perhaps there is a way to have one of the others reach out to him(voluntarily) to set up a third party contact system since he is obviously too immature to talk to you directly. That would allow information to be passed and a contact to be established while keeping distance for both of your sakes.
Hi can you do a match lighting video please?
You are such a sweetheart
Also......just a quick side note..... You like true crime (obviously) you've obviously read a lot of crime stories. We all know that the initial reaction of Chad once he was confronted is his true self.
Stay away from him Sarah. People like that are dangerous. Don't worry about his mental health regarding being isolated from the group. He chose his path and he sounds like he could easily turn in situations
He's chaotic and not in control of his emotions. You may want to be a good leader but don't willingly put yourself in his presence. He's trouble.
Chad did not pass the vibe check 😬 Awesome video, Sarah! What’s the pig’s name?
Lol, that made me laugh 😂 he certainly did not! And thank you for saying that!! And pig does not have a name yet! We will have to think of some names! 💜
Also don't force yourself to be his friend especially if you're legit scared
Thank you for commenting your advice as well! 💜 hope you have a wonderful night!
@@sarahasmr7067 hope you do as well 💙
Miss you. hope all is well 😊😊😊😊😊
“Chad” has issues that don’t pertain to you. I wouldn’t stress about it. He has to seek the help that he needs before addressing anything with you. Let go and let God.
Sounds like chad has a bipolar disorder because he gets mad very easily. It runs in my family so sadly my whole family is like this. I try my best to avoid anyone with anger issues because it traumatized me! Hopefully he can just learn how to focus on his personality and working on his drinking problem.
Banter? Sounds like low self esteem
Chad just wants people to pursue him. What a loser. Ignore him. If he wants to be ignorant, oh well. If you see him, nod your head and keep it going.
Don't be scared of the possiblity of someone gaslighting you.
And let him isolate himself. He sounds like he doesn't take sound advice.
The only I would suggest is pray on it in your private time. Ask God to show you what to do when the time comes.
Xoxo
Do you have a supervisor that you trust that you can speak to about this situation? It scares me that this man drinks and is easily angered and lives in the same building as you. I admire your courage, wisdom and leadership.
Honestly I feel like Kenzie is also the bad guy in this situation. Her willingness to let things go and allow him to behave that way proves she is NOT stronger than you.