Is Revenge Worth it? It Hurts You More Than You Think | Khutbah by Dr. Omar Suleiman

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  • In the process of seeking revenge, you might just become the person you hate. A look at how we can lose ourselves especially in the process of divorce or dispute, and end up on the wrong side of the equation of justice.
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  • @gerry6356
    @gerry6356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    I'm a Christian who greatly admires this man's wisdom. I look forward to hearing more.

    • @tempaccount7024
      @tempaccount7024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      may peace be upon you brother

    • @Tips_For_You_1-m
      @Tips_For_You_1-m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Peace me upon you brother 😇

    • @khaledAli_Tajwid
      @khaledAli_Tajwid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      apprendre le Tajwid.l'arabe et La prononciation des lettres arabes, de maniere facile dans ma chaine🤍

    • @anees123
      @anees123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jazakallah khair

    • @Canegy1990
      @Canegy1990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I can imagine that he would put the credit on the Prophet of Allah because of his humility. May Allah guide us all. The Quran and hadith are filled with such wisdoms

  • @kamariahkamis8356
    @kamariahkamis8356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I converse with a few people of Gaza. Their concern is to survive while bearing a bigger responsibility due to martyred family members. No word of revenge. They look forward to be rewarded by Allah. For peace and justice. Their Iman is so so strong.

    • @rukahazuki6650
      @rukahazuki6650 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I watched a video about a doctor who just came back from volunteering in Gaza also said the same thing too. They just want peace and living their life like normal people.

    • @khaledAli_Tajwid
      @khaledAli_Tajwid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      apprendre le Tajwid.l'arabe et La prononciation des lettres arabes, de maniere facile dans ma chaine🤍

  • @shahqatar
    @shahqatar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    A kind heart is highly highly appreciated in Islam. Despite having authority to take revenge. Our prophet is best example. However we learn so many hadith but the key part is missing if we don't have kind heart.

  • @HussainHussain-ck7zy
    @HussainHussain-ck7zy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    SHEIK OMAR SULEIMAN. A GIFT FROM ALLAH TO THIS UMMAH AND WORLD 🌎♥🙏❤💖💕🌎

    • @nazabbasi3844
      @nazabbasi3844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      اللهم امين يارب العالمين 🤲🏻

  • @maimounadiew3976
    @maimounadiew3976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Our teacher the Prophet Muhammad pbuh. Thanks for the reminder!

  • @suraiyakasim
    @suraiyakasim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Just when thoughts of anger and revenge have been on my mind , this morning I randomly read ayat 8 & 9 of surah mahida and then I stumble upon this khutbah - how Allah swt shows you the right way by calming your heart ♥️
    May Allah have mercy on all the shuhadas in Palestine , Lebanon &. Yemen - aameen

  • @michelleazway
    @michelleazway 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have so much hate and rage over the genocide in Gaza. Thank you for this wonderful reminder to not become what we hate.

  • @vlnero1966
    @vlnero1966 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I'm getting this as I am getting ready to sue my employer. May Allah make it easy for all of us.

    • @manofculture8026
      @manofculture8026 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We have every right in Islam to defend our legitimate interests.

  • @inesatt1313
    @inesatt1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Thank you,you are right the day of Judgment is punishment enough for the Wicked

  • @locadiakaskayi537
    @locadiakaskayi537 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I don't know what to say anymore I just want to see a free Palestine

    • @aimanismail4683
      @aimanismail4683 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Say Allah is sufficient for me ❤

    • @ayeshasabir1242
      @ayeshasabir1242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I truly understand… this genocide has truly changed my energy and life… I don’t know if it’s been for the best though. 😢

    • @Jonida1
      @Jonida1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too, they are in the most need than everyone else in this world. We are safe in our homes, they re strugling every minute. Keep them in your duas and prayer more than ever. Almighty Allah will accept soon InshAllah!

    • @khaledAli_Tajwid
      @khaledAli_Tajwid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      apprendre le Tajwid.l'arabe et La prononciation des lettres arabes, de maniere facile dans ma chaine🤍

  • @freesyria872
    @freesyria872 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Leave everything to Allah He will reward you for your sabr and the person who hurt you will regret

  • @aysecakir7097
    @aysecakir7097 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Elhamdülillah I'm a Muslim, and Islam is my religion.

  • @candicecole19
    @candicecole19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “O creator of heavens and the earth! You are my protector in this world and in the Hereafter. Cause me to die a Muslim and join me with the righteous.” (Quran 12:101) 🤍

  • @sumaaami925
    @sumaaami925 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Allahumma Ameen! Jazakallahukhairan Sheikh Omar.

  • @futumsadik3383
    @futumsadik3383 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Allahumma Aameena Yaa Rabbil Aarameen....We continue seeking ALLAH'S Mercy, guidance to His straight path and a free Palestine... Jazakum Llaahu Khair

  • @ferozfersheikh5957
    @ferozfersheikh5957 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Aameen.. keep motivating us.. jazak Allahu khairan kaseeran ya Dr Omar Suleiman

  • @rahilyas254
    @rahilyas254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Don’t be oppressed or oppressors
    Subhanallah!

  • @peacemaker7380
    @peacemaker7380 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Definitely, Netanyahu and zionists must not be our teachers. I hope we will manage to keep our high moral and follow Quran and sunnah, examples of our beloved Prophet Muhammed peace and blessings of Allah SWT be upon him.

  • @DidiDa-v9l
    @DidiDa-v9l หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is hard to hold onto your humanity. Suffering leads to two paths: becoming an abuser or becoming a believer. I didnt want to hear this but I needed to. Brilliant talk.

  • @Amalhirad320
    @Amalhirad320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Alahuma Amiin jasakumuallah sheikh Omar

  • @limanawabzada
    @limanawabzada 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jazaka allahu khairan Imam

  • @bibihussain1990
    @bibihussain1990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Allahamdo lillah ❤

  • @AndreasHofmann46
    @AndreasHofmann46 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised

    • @markPwilliams
      @markPwilliams 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.

    • @AndreasHofmann46
      @AndreasHofmann46 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?

    • @markPwilliams
      @markPwilliams 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

    • @AndreasHofmann46
      @AndreasHofmann46 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.

    • @cutedevil786
      @cutedevil786 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a bot lol

  • @VictoriousDrucilla
    @VictoriousDrucilla 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ameen 🤲🏿

    • @teddycabana
      @teddycabana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      R u a sister?

    • @khaledAli_Tajwid
      @khaledAli_Tajwid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      apprendre le Tajwid.l'arabe et La prononciation des lettres arabes, de maniere facile dans ma chaine🤍

    • @teddycabana
      @teddycabana หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@khaledAli_Tajwidجزاك الله خيرا اخي .. صلاة الابراهيميه شيخ طارق يوتيوب درب اليقين و محمد حجازي استغفار ❤
      Do istighfar all day even if you are not sinning for accepted duaas

    • @teddycabana
      @teddycabana หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please change your picture sister or brother that is very inappropriate

  • @IB-bj2pe
    @IB-bj2pe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Heartfelt speech of justice instead of revenge needs to be established. Disagree with the marriage analysis of both sides to blame. Some cases are 💯 to 0 fault. There are abusive partners and sharia laws give a lot of protection. No system gives those rights. Whats wrong with society is the inheritance laws. And in divorce cases is worst. Justice and freedom for Palestine 🇵🇸 and those divorce cases where one party is wrongfully oppressed and left to suffer from mistreatment. Not to compare the two as identical but living in fear for your life is the same death sentence🤲🏼

  • @aquariusa2421
    @aquariusa2421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    SubhanAllah.

  • @مهنىالسرحان
    @مهنىالسرحان 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jzakallahkiran, and may allah reward you…

  • @Glory.Be.To.Allah_swt
    @Glory.Be.To.Allah_swt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jazakallahu khoir, Shiekh Omar... thank you for recognising and acknowledging our thoughts and feelings as we watch in horror the cruelty of isrhell. Muslims are blessed with Islam and iman.. we are angry at isrhell, but when their soldiers die, we feel sad for them too. We're appalled that their rabbi are advocating genocide. Please have talks with their rabbi.. they're still using Amalek's passage to justify killing Palestinian children and using 'God's chosen people' status to claim God is punishing Americans with hurricanes for trying to cut ties with them.

  • @eminetun
    @eminetun หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome lecture, may Allah bless Omar.

  • @nehasiddiqui6194
    @nehasiddiqui6194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    MashaAllah ❤

  • @speakjustly
    @speakjustly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Allah bless you

  • @Meccabestplace
    @Meccabestplace 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Allah❤

  • @suraiyakasim
    @suraiyakasim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can someone please share where I can find this Hadith in writing ?

  • @jamesgund007
    @jamesgund007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What about if we keep letting things slide we may lose ties of kinship? Some of us men have to cut off our parents and siblings to keep a "happy wife, happy life"?

  • @IBMonaLuv
    @IBMonaLuv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ameen ameen ameen

  • @N4nii.
    @N4nii. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @AwakenedIslam
    @AwakenedIslam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    اللهم صلي على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم انك حميد مجيد وبارك على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما باركت علي ابراهيم وعلي ءال ابراهيم انك حميد مجيد 🩷🧡💙❤️💜❤️‍🩹☪️🩵🇵🇸☝️🤲🍇💚🤍

  • @sofiamahmoud7088
    @sofiamahmoud7088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Subhan Allah

  • @ettyxcbyrcburcbtxcfhcdtyurt
    @ettyxcbyrcburcbtxcfhcdtyurt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this one is iffy ngl, safe to assume only baseline common denominator scenarios benefit from this. for my personal struggle journey, it would be unislamic to toleratw and not reconfront and prosecute

  • @DiomaDieme-p3e
    @DiomaDieme-p3e หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amine

  • @manofberry
    @manofberry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Allahu Akbar

  • @Life-bt9yo
    @Life-bt9yo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

  • @nazajalal8094
    @nazajalal8094 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhamduriallah

  • @anas_al_gaferee
    @anas_al_gaferee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sofiamahmoud7088
    @sofiamahmoud7088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aminnn

  • @DuncanDennis-y4t
    @DuncanDennis-y4t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    340 Stefan Cliffs

  • @aminatullahabdullah6001
    @aminatullahabdullah6001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    لا اله اللا الله

  • @YakoKose
    @YakoKose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤🙏

  • @ayshasideekacader9375
    @ayshasideekacader9375 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Out of sheer inquisity I like to know, if your husband has cheated all your life and finally you find proof to nail him, and you kick him out of your house initially but forgive him not once but twice on two separate affairs with evidence. And you apologise for the way you reacted and he never does even though he is the guilty party and you give him another chance for the hundredth time and he take you for granted and you finally ask him for divorce with so much hesitation and he refuses to give it to you. Please let me know what I am supposed to do. We have been separated for the last 8 months.

    • @umulsabaah5492
      @umulsabaah5492 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😔do you make tahujjud? Begging Allah for a solution? If you do, in sha Allah wa Allahu Alim, Allah will show you what to do. May Allah subhana wa ta'ala continue to have mercy on you and your family. Making dua.

  • @Abdihakim_hu20
    @Abdihakim_hu20 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Assalamualaikum dear brothers and sisters

  • @ak_athariyyah
    @ak_athariyyah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We do not need revenge upon Israelis or Jews due to their actions now and over 70 years. Revenge is not establishing justice nor is it a means to establish peace and prosperity.
    The prophet established justice during the conquest of Mecca despite having the chance to go for revenge. In his establishing justice and not revenge the Meccans became Muslim. They then went on to help the prophet achieve victory with their wealth and blood in the Battle of Hunayan. This helped to establish Islam and the Muslims as the ultimate power in Arabia at the time of the prophet. This allowed Islam to spread through Arabia with ease during a time of peace.
    So we just want the Israelis to give the Palestinians justice and fairness which now most be extended to over Muslim lands they are indiscriminately bombing. However we do not want this at their expense we are still willing to give the Israeli Jews their rights and justice.
    Maybe those Israelis against the Palestinians and the Lebanese if they granted the people true freedom and their was peace and no revenge they may enter into Islam. As finally dawah could spread in that region. Dawah needs peace free of revenge to be successful.

  • @sofiamahmoud7088
    @sofiamahmoud7088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Selelaaleiweselem

  • @jrabiya95
    @jrabiya95 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Free Palestine 🇯🇴

  • @sofiamahmoud7088
    @sofiamahmoud7088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aminnn

  • @HarishAnsari-iy4ud
    @HarishAnsari-iy4ud 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤