My ex friend wanted me to download a tracking app so she could see if I was “actually doing something important” or “just at home ignoring her”. I asked if I could do the same thing and she said no, that’s an invasion of privacy. The friendship didn’t last much longer after that lol. Not as crazy as other people’s experiences but still weird af
Story 4 isn't remotely depicting a psychopath. That's highly reactive and dystegulated rage, not vindictive, callused, and cold apathetic profile you'd expect to see in real psychopaths.
Was an ex ,he still hits on me even now. We dated when i was 14 and he was 19. I am now 45 and been happily married for over 20 years. Hes been married 3 times and just was widowed and was trying to get me to go to her funeral with him...yup dude is a persistant creep.
My first ever same sex relationship was a nightmare. I was raised to be very homophobic from a bad home before getting adopted and my self image and social skills were in shambles. So I was afraid, confused, but REALLY liked one of my friends. Well I was perfect food for him. He was a narcissistic psychopath that loved collecting people and favors. I went through literal hell after the honeymoon phase, him using everything he'd learned about me to break me down, eventually tried to force himself on me knowing I was a survivor already, and then turned all our friends against me and had the audacity to tell another friend that caught on before me not to help me because I was his and he was teaching me a lesson. She ignored him. I healed, put my life mostly together, tried to warn our mutual friends but that backfired spectacularly. I then found out he convinced a very long time friend of mine to say I'd forced myself on HER. And I only found out end of 2022 about that so the prick still managed to weasel something into my life years later when I was in a state opposite side of the country The charm of these kinds of people can be completely absurd. They're like one way mirrors. Until you've seen the other side you have no idea what goes on behind their masks.
I'm female, I have a similar story. I wasn't gay in the slightest. I told her I was straight, was into men, never been to a pride parade (although I heard they were cool from gay coworkers) She knew this and kept pursuing me even after I said "no". It was *insane* how much effort she put into doing so. Gifts, letters, "please date me", yada, yada. Over and over and over again. And if I tried to leave the friendship, looking back now it's obvious, she would guilt trip me by saying she will be lonely or that she needed me around because her mom passed and she is sad. (In the moment I didn't see the manipulation though. I just felt bad for her. It didn't help our mutual friends were all like "aww, you can't leave your best friend" and "don't leave, you guys have such a great friendship." Anyways, it was like she had a one track mind, all she could think about, talk about, was how we should date, how great we would be as a couple, etc. Eventually I caved after a year of her pursuit, because well, she was my best friend, she said she loved me, and over time with all the effort she did I ended up developing feelings for her. (Only her though) So we dated for 6 months and things were great. Picturesque, a dream, yada yada. Then one day she suddenly flipped/turned 180'. She wouldn't answer my calls, was always late to our dates or didn't show up, gave me the silent treatment, etc. Turns out she was just playing with me for fun and already had somebody else lined up. I tried to warn that person but it didn't work. She already told them I was crazy/can't get over our friendship. I then tried to just hang around with our friends but they hated me too now for some reason and I didn't know why. Turns out my ex told them I had a habit of stealing and then she took one of my friend's laptops. Our mutual friends never trusted me after that and shut me out of our friend group. I've since found new friends. Btw yes, they are relentless and very sneaky. By the time you figure everything out they have already talked behind your back to others so you aren't believed by them.
@@specialtwice4975 It sucks to hear and a narcissists behavior only really becomes apparent once they're done with you. But we won't (hopefully) be duped again. As well-intentioned as warnings are most of their victims will not understand what has happened until too late. I hope you're feeling and doing better
10:33 that sounds like a genuine cry for help, it was a bare admittance of what he was experiencing and you rejected him. Can you have a little more compassion? There, but for the grace of God, go I. What if it were you, so lost and ill equipped in this world?
Ive been diagnosed with BPD (borderline psychopath disorder) in my teens. Mostly its impulse control that I suffer from. Example, in high school this bully three times my size thought it would be a laugh riot by kicking my back so I beat him with a chair. I got jumped multiple times in my life and i would drive my finger into their eyes, bite chunks off their arms, try to crush their windpipe and soon no one tried to jump me. Recently wae a a video game theme bar and this man was bothering me and my wife because he felt that my wife could do better so I smashed his face into my food and calmly told him to apologize and leave. The man was terrified. My therapist helped me a lot, my impulse control is somewhat manageable, but its difficult. Picturing what you want to do before doing the opposite does help
@@cierramcdowell4381 The term BPD is used for both borderline personality disorder and psychopathy this is because both belong to the same cluster of personality disorders, but differ greatly from each other. One can be treated with medication, the other since it's a personality trait requires intense multimodal therapy, behavior skills training, and recognizing the important roles in my daily life such as family, school, peers, and the community. Learning to have empathy, sympathize, and understand other people's emotions. It's like you're always on the outside looking in. It can be a bit daunting to relate, reading people's emotions constantly so you know how to react in certain situations.
Tbh it wasn’t the worst, he was aware of his own capabilities being diagnosed and did his best to be responsible from a social stance, reasoning “why would I weave a web of manipulations if it would only take a few bad moves to disgrace me?” He did martial arts to take out anger, worked to make sure he made no extreme manipulations. He lied and played himself up frequently but only in slight, non-meaningful ways. One thing he taught me to do well though was read people, that guy knew exactly how people ticked and what strings to pull, while I only picked up a few of the manipulation tactics, it was the discernment of others I really took to. I want to meet up again with him sometime, even if it is just to catch up.
I dated a guy for a few days back in the 90s who later had a "suicide pact" with his later gf. He killed her, made some superficial cuts on his throat and called 911. He dated my friend too. This was in Iowa. He got more for selling LSD than he did murder.
Not me, but one story that comes to mind was one of my sisters' ex "friends" is/was a psychopath or sociopath (not sure which). Outside of being just an abusive person, she was a pyro, tried to paint her family in a bad light (I've met them, they are awesome), was a total attention seeker, and straight up told my sister she wanted to k*ll her. Closet my family has come to talking to her in years was finding she worked as a waitress at this one restaurant we frequent and her inviting herself to a new years party my family was hosting because he parents and sister were there and she wanted to "reconnect." Fortunately, that was the last time we interacted with her, and that was 2 years ago now. My sister had another "friend" at the same time who was just emotionally abusive. Good news for everyone involved is that trio no longer speaks, and i haven't heard anything bad from that restaurant, nothing but good news, in fact.
Just remember, these are the horror stories. Pleanty of people with psychopathic tendencies or trates or who are full psychopathics are normal people who have trouble understanding emotions, theirs or others, but who aren't out to hurt people.
So I'm probs gonna be on some kinda watchlist but I was the psychopath friend I started to talk about cannibalism and its history my friend left the room when I got to the infant parts
The guy who assaulted the girl or tried to when he said "do it with her body" if she died i threw up in my mouth because that is necrophilia which is another fuck up on the list
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I love how alive you sound, most channels use AI or just read a script, you actually sound human.
He is human.
I agree.. I hate those robotic voices.
We Swear.@@superslacker87
My ex friend wanted me to download a tracking app so she could see if I was “actually doing something important” or “just at home ignoring her”. I asked if I could do the same thing and she said no, that’s an invasion of privacy. The friendship didn’t last much longer after that lol. Not as crazy as other people’s experiences but still weird af
Story 4 isn't remotely depicting a psychopath. That's highly reactive and dystegulated rage, not vindictive, callused, and cold apathetic profile you'd expect to see in real psychopaths.
I think the guy talking about his sociopathic friend who totally manipulates him and is more than likely an empath. On a frightening level.😮
Was an ex ,he still hits on me even now. We dated when i was 14 and he was 19. I am now 45 and been happily married for over 20 years. Hes been married 3 times and just was widowed and was trying to get me to go to her funeral with him...yup dude is a persistant creep.
My first ever same sex relationship was a nightmare. I was raised to be very homophobic from a bad home before getting adopted and my self image and social skills were in shambles. So I was afraid, confused, but REALLY liked one of my friends.
Well I was perfect food for him. He was a narcissistic psychopath that loved collecting people and favors. I went through literal hell after the honeymoon phase, him using everything he'd learned about me to break me down, eventually tried to force himself on me knowing I was a survivor already, and then turned all our friends against me and had the audacity to tell another friend that caught on before me not to help me because I was his and he was teaching me a lesson.
She ignored him. I healed, put my life mostly together, tried to warn our mutual friends but that backfired spectacularly. I then found out he convinced a very long time friend of mine to say I'd forced myself on HER. And I only found out end of 2022 about that so the prick still managed to weasel something into my life years later when I was in a state opposite side of the country
The charm of these kinds of people can be completely absurd. They're like one way mirrors. Until you've seen the other side you have no idea what goes on behind their masks.
Those narcissist men act like vicious old women. They don't see it though
I'm female, I have a similar story.
I wasn't gay in the slightest. I told her I was straight, was into men, never been to a pride parade (although I heard they were cool from gay coworkers)
She knew this and kept pursuing me even after I said "no".
It was *insane* how much effort she put into doing so.
Gifts, letters, "please date me", yada, yada.
Over and over and over again.
And if I tried to leave the friendship, looking back now it's obvious, she would guilt trip me by saying she will be lonely or that she needed me around because her mom passed and she is sad.
(In the moment I didn't see the manipulation though. I just felt bad for her. It didn't help our mutual friends were all like "aww, you can't leave your best friend" and "don't leave, you guys have such a great friendship."
Anyways, it was like she had a one track mind, all she could think about, talk about, was how we should date, how great we would be as a couple, etc.
Eventually I caved after a year of her pursuit, because well, she was my best friend, she said she loved me, and over time with all the effort she did I ended up developing feelings for her. (Only her though)
So we dated for 6 months and things were great. Picturesque, a dream, yada yada.
Then one day she suddenly flipped/turned 180'.
She wouldn't answer my calls, was always late to our dates or didn't show up, gave me the silent treatment, etc.
Turns out she was just playing with me for fun and already had somebody else lined up.
I tried to warn that person but it didn't work. She already told them I was crazy/can't get over our friendship.
I then tried to just hang around with our friends but they hated me too now for some reason and I didn't know why.
Turns out my ex told them I had a habit of stealing and then she took one of my friend's laptops.
Our mutual friends never trusted me after that and shut me out of our friend group.
I've since found new friends.
Btw yes, they are relentless and very sneaky. By the time you figure everything out they have already talked behind your back to others so you aren't believed by them.
@@specialtwice4975 It sucks to hear and a narcissists behavior only really becomes apparent once they're done with you. But we won't (hopefully) be duped again. As well-intentioned as warnings are most of their victims will not understand what has happened until too late.
I hope you're feeling and doing better
10:33 that sounds like a genuine cry for help, it was a bare admittance of what he was experiencing and you rejected him. Can you have a little more compassion? There, but for the grace of God, go I. What if it were you, so lost and ill equipped in this world?
Ive been diagnosed with BPD (borderline psychopath disorder) in my teens. Mostly its impulse control that I suffer from. Example, in high school this bully three times my size thought it would be a laugh riot by kicking my back so I beat him with a chair. I got jumped multiple times in my life and i would drive my finger into their eyes, bite chunks off their arms, try to crush their windpipe and soon no one tried to jump me. Recently wae a a video game theme bar and this man was bothering me and my wife because he felt that my wife could do better so I smashed his face into my food and calmly told him to apologize and leave. The man was terrified. My therapist helped me a lot, my impulse control is somewhat manageable, but its difficult. Picturing what you want to do before doing the opposite does help
Yhea man if you say so ...
Borderline Psychopath Disorder isn't an actual medical diagnosis. Bpd usually stands for Borderline personality disorder, did you mean that?
@@cierramcdowell4381 The term BPD is used for both borderline personality disorder and psychopathy this is because both belong to the same cluster of personality disorders, but differ greatly from each other. One can be treated with medication, the other since it's a personality trait requires intense multimodal therapy, behavior skills training, and recognizing the important roles in my daily life such as family, school, peers, and the community. Learning to have empathy, sympathize, and understand other people's emotions. It's like you're always on the outside looking in. It can be a bit daunting to relate, reading people's emotions constantly so you know how to react in certain situations.
@@victorcampudoni2682I believe you are what you claim to be just based off of your two comments here, you know what you’re experiencing
I just imagined that last one and that’s literally so real of you
Story 3 : I hope that kid is locked up where he won't harm anyone person or animal!
Tbh it wasn’t the worst, he was aware of his own capabilities being diagnosed and did his best to be responsible from a social stance, reasoning “why would I weave a web of manipulations if it would only take a few bad moves to disgrace me?” He did martial arts to take out anger, worked to make sure he made no extreme manipulations. He lied and played himself up frequently but only in slight, non-meaningful ways. One thing he taught me to do well though was read people, that guy knew exactly how people ticked and what strings to pull, while I only picked up a few of the manipulation tactics, it was the discernment of others I really took to. I want to meet up again with him sometime, even if it is just to catch up.
he has returned…
Great friends!…. Just never cross them!…. Lifelong friends!…. 🦉
These stories make me I'm glad that I know how to lock and load!
Most disturbing part is I agree with most of what the story 29 guy said
I dated a guy for a few days back in the 90s who later had a "suicide pact" with his later gf. He killed her, made some superficial cuts on his throat and called 911. He dated my friend too. This was in Iowa. He got more for selling LSD than he did murder.
Not me, but one story that comes to mind was one of my sisters' ex "friends" is/was a psychopath or sociopath (not sure which). Outside of being just an abusive person, she was a pyro, tried to paint her family in a bad light (I've met them, they are awesome), was a total attention seeker, and straight up told my sister she wanted to k*ll her. Closet my family has come to talking to her in years was finding she worked as a waitress at this one restaurant we frequent and her inviting herself to a new years party my family was hosting because he parents and sister were there and she wanted to "reconnect." Fortunately, that was the last time we interacted with her, and that was 2 years ago now. My sister had another "friend" at the same time who was just emotionally abusive. Good news for everyone involved is that trio no longer speaks, and i haven't heard anything bad from that restaurant, nothing but good news, in fact.
Some people are wild 😮
Yehh no. Most of these stories do not describe sociopaths. The inability to care is not synonymous with being deliberately malicious.
Just remember, these are the horror stories. Pleanty of people with psychopathic tendencies or trates or who are full psychopathics are normal people who have trouble understanding emotions, theirs or others, but who aren't out to hurt people.
My mom’s old friend, she has a son. He cut the butt out of a webkins so he could r word it . Then unalived our cat and kept torchering it
So I'm probs gonna be on some kinda watchlist but I was the psychopath friend I started to talk about cannibalism and its history my friend left the room when I got to the infant parts
27:25 (Story 37)
Trigger Warning since that was in the actual video for some reason
The guy who assaulted the girl or tried to when he said "do it with her body" if she died i threw up in my mouth because that is necrophilia which is another fuck up on the list
Mostly Facts, you make me feel like a 80yr old sometimes
I think my sister may be a sociopath after watching this.... ⛳
I personally think you’re wrong about the last story. I think OP is NTA
What game is this?
Sea of thieves, xbox, pc, and ps5 on april 30th 👍
Not friends. But my parents are.
That Cop shouldnt have been reprimanded for firing his gun like that? Its just a "Desk Pop" everyone does it!
*Y'know its bad when they say serious at the beginning*
That’s true
These are from reddit. When an asker says "serious", it means they want serious/sober answers, and not goofy/trolling/sarcastic replies.
@@ledam2654 Ik
First. its joever.
Second!