What “work”? She’s straight. If her lesbian friend can’t accept that and can’t refrain from hitting on her then she’s a creep. You just don’t want to hear it or accept that anyone gay who tries to pressure a person, straight or gay, is a friggin creep- even if they’re a lesbian since you guys always try to act like it’s not completely creepy just because you’re women and not a man doing it. Your straight friend isn’t going to turn gay for you. Stop being a creep.
@karenneill9109 Yep! When I was a preteen, I went to a stand-up comedy place with some of my family. The people working there said it was completely family freindly. The guy on stage told the FILTHIEST jokes I've ever heard. It started out okay, and then he talked about his gf during sex, and he got into painful detail. She tells jokes while keeping it pg-13
OR the lesbian could be honest about her feelings instead of pretending to be a friend while secretly waiting for sthg to happen…. and complaining she’s in the friend zone. If the lesbian was a man in this scenario it would be more obvious to you maybe?
@@McBehrer I think the comedian was the first one making assumptions by saying “you’re causing her pain”… I was merely responding with an alternative assumption, which is just as valid. Or invalid in this case, because you’re right, nobody knows what’s really going on.
Well, Ashley Gavin’s comedy special caused my current partner to admit she has feelings for me. 🤷 So, ya know. Clearly Ashley Gavin is a match maker in disguise.
@@schoo9256 😂 super long story. Very short version: We were friends. We watched the special together and the special opened up conversations about what we like in sex. It was one of those “one thing led to another” situations. 😅
No matter how much she can roast somebody, she'll always ask and make sure everyone is comfortable, and it makes me so happy to see dude. I can see she's genuine
@@cristaltophat We met at work. I was a manager & he (formerly she) was looking for a second job. We worked together for a few months & really clicked "as friends" & I happened to need a place to live as he was looking for a roommate. I was dumb enough to think we were "just friends" despite cuddling together every night & spending every moment of every day together. He finally got the courage to admit he had feelings for me and I denied it for about two weeks before realizing we'd already been dating for six months.
The way you bring the audience into your set is what makes you great. I hope you find a way to keep that even when you go on to doing larger theaters. ❤
omg XDD the sheer number of newly self-discovered lesbians or lesbians-to-be unknowingly in the process who show up to your comedy shows never ceases to amaze me.
It kinda does have that energy but as a 55-year old lesbian who came out in 1984 at age 16, we DO have female friends who we aren’t attracted to or in love with. We CAN be just friends. I actually just got off the phone with my best friend who’ve I’ve been close friends with since junior high school. There is not one ounce of attraction there for me even though she is a very attractive woman. She’s just not my type. If we were the last two people on earth and she suddenly turned bi or gay, then I’d consider it but otherwise no, it’s really just a friendship.
I think you were a bit too on the nose there lol I can get worried sometimes when I see comedy rosts because I can't really see if the target is laughing too but seeing you stop when its needed really reassures me, I am going to enjoy your rosts even more now !
I love your shorts, but I am neurodivergent and sometimes I have trouble figuring out if it is okay to laugh. Shorts like this are so helpful, because now I know you care about your audience and take the steps needed to make sure everyone is okay and having a good time. 💜
people can be just friends, even if their sexuality would be compatible. Not every straight man is in love with every woman. Not every gay man is in love with every man. If I was at your show with a lesbian friend, and you just decided that I was in love with her, I would be upset for potentially making her uncomfortable and driving a wedge into our friendship
i keep thinking “oh gosh it would be terrifying to be be picked on at a show like that” but then i realized that everyone going to the shows knows the whole schtick and probably are hoping they will be picked on
Lol this is me and my friend. I have a huge crush on her, she’s so my type, both personality and physically. Except she’s straight and quite religious…
Oh no 😭 Bestie don’t do it. I’m not saying there’s no hope. Tons of LGBT people come out later in life because they were raised religious and they just can’t come to terms with it until later in life (I’m sure you know this already). But, I’m sure you also already know that she may very well just actually be straight and you’re setting yourself up for heartbreak :( You should find someone who is interested in women and specifically is interested in you back!! I’m positive you’re a lovely person who has so many wonderful things to offer to someone. Don’t waste all your time crushing on someone who’s either not ready for this right now or is never going to be because they’re really not LGBT. You deserve SO much better, and you know that 💖
Why did you befriend her in the first place though? I never understood this, if the person is someone you'd want to be with, don't become friends with them.
omg this reminds me when i found out my freshman year of high school my girl best friend of 4 years at the time had a crush on me. my 14 yr old self was flattered lmao but i felt bad rejecting her cuz shes my best friend of course. she ended up moving later that year. i miss her a ton, but we still keep in touch
My childhood best friend came out as gay when we kinda drifted apart in highschool, and I know I'm bisexual now. Looking back I can't really tell if wrestling, and playing dating characters was all that innocent lmao. Sexuality is a very complicated thing.. 🤣
Omg this feels like something that would happen to me cause people think my friend is gay for me without knowing and she’s straight and I’m pan so they call her stragget 💀
so who invited whom in this scenario? if it's the nominally straight friend i can ship it cause this might be her coming out if it's the gay friend... maybe your show made one of them see some sense lmao
I'm sorry but if your single lesbian friend brings you to a lesbian comedian show.... She's trying to tell you something 100%. Lmao I definitely think she was throwing hints her way
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Love that the lesbian good friend was like :"I don't care" which basically was the same as saying : Thanks for doing the work for me.
As a bottom, that sounded like "Oh no, if I say no then she is gonna know that I like her." And internally panic the whole week.
@@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426 agreed lol
Yup, that’s the “well, we’re gonna talk about it on the drive home now anyway. Go ahead and rip the rest of my heart out.”
What work? Her friend is straight, it's never going to happen.
What “work”? She’s straight. If her lesbian friend can’t accept that and can’t refrain from hitting on her then she’s a creep. You just don’t want to hear it or accept that anyone gay who tries to pressure a person, straight or gay, is a friggin creep- even if they’re a lesbian since you guys always try to act like it’s not completely creepy just because you’re women and not a man doing it.
Your straight friend isn’t going to turn gay for you. Stop being a creep.
That painful "yeah" from the single lesbian 😢😂
OK so I wasn’t the only one who heard it thank God!!!
I felt that ngl
I love how respectful she being of them not wanting to talk while also being f*cking hilarious. The going to uhaul in 6 months
She’s hilarious, and knows just how far to push without becoming nasty. Genius.
they consoled each other and fucked after the show
@karenneill9109 Yep! When I was a preteen, I went to a stand-up comedy place with some of my family. The people working there said it was completely family freindly. The guy on stage told the FILTHIEST jokes I've ever heard. It started out okay, and then he talked about his gf during sex, and he got into painful detail. She tells jokes while keeping it pg-13
oh when the eyebrows went up at the confirmation that the lesbian is single.
And the "I knew it" face when the other said she was also single. Priceless!
There is a term for this: Les be friends.
Les-be-honest, though...
Les-be-in-pain…
It wasn’t Les to be
Les should be FORK😊
I think you meant Les BI friends, ayyyy
I'll see my bi self out
Hey just wanted to give my opinion as a historian. I can confirm they are just really good friends.
Lmaoo
Maybe even room mates
@@victoriadiviesti8887 omg they were roommates 😂
Who lived together and adopted an orphan
Archaeologist here and I agree - they were roommates
“you’re causing her pain” 😭😭 real,, love your stuff, hilarious as always❤
OR the lesbian could be honest about her feelings instead of pretending to be a friend while secretly waiting for sthg to happen…. and complaining she’s in the friend zone. If the lesbian was a man in this scenario it would be more obvious to you maybe?
@@lililangtry1881
you're assuming that's actually what is happening. We have no way of knowing if that's even actually true
@@McBehrer I think the comedian was the first one making assumptions by saying “you’re causing her pain”… I was merely responding with an alternative assumption, which is just as valid. Or invalid in this case, because you’re right, nobody knows what’s really going on.
@@lililangtry1881 chill
@@damien678 Not angry at all buddy😊
and they were roommates…
Oh my ghod they were roommates😮
@@jazzyd596 I came here to say this but I knew in my heart it had already been said 😔✊
Lmaooo pop off queen you beat me to it 💕✨💅
@@sapphicalix lol, great minds think alike, slay queen 💅🏾✨🫶🏾💗
@@sapphicalix Same. I was reading comments while thinking about how to phrase it. Lesbian good friend just has that same energy
@@sapphicalix saaaaaaamr
Well, Ashley Gavin’s comedy special caused my current partner to admit she has feelings for me. 🤷 So, ya know. Clearly Ashley Gavin is a match maker in disguise.
I think i speak for everyone in the comments section when i say that you are required to give more details.
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@@schoo9256 😂 super long story. Very short version: We were friends. We watched the special together and the special opened up conversations about what we like in sex. It was one of those “one thing led to another” situations. 😅
@@musicftw711 that's AWESOME, conversations are important and sooooo is the other stuff too 😅
plot twist: this comment was left by one of the two "good friends" from this audience 😂🫶🏻🥲
"She might" damn they're already answering for each other. So codependent 😌
The most lesbian thing is realizing you are on a date halfway through
No matter how much she can roast somebody, she'll always ask and make sure everyone is comfortable, and it makes me so happy to see dude. I can see she's genuine
“YOU KNOW SHES IN LOVE WITH YOU RIGHT? YOU’RE CAUSING HER PAIN” I think that’s the funniest thing ever 😭
"Sexuality is very complicated"
The spaghetti noodle is straight until its hot and wet or something
I love this so much
💀💀💀
"hot and wet" 💀💀💀
'You're fidgeting, do you want me to stop' was everything 😭 ❤
The agonizing “yeah” from lesbian good friend LMFAO
I was the "straight" friend. We've been together now for six years.
If It’s okay ask, when did you meet and what was the event that brought you two together?
@@cristaltophat We met at work. I was a manager & he (formerly she) was looking for a second job. We worked together for a few months & really clicked "as friends" & I happened to need a place to live as he was looking for a roommate. I was dumb enough to think we were "just friends" despite cuddling together every night & spending every moment of every day together. He finally got the courage to admit he had feelings for me and I denied it for about two weeks before realizing we'd already been dating for six months.
@@courtneybrown516 aww, that is truly the sweetest story I’ve heard to date, thank you for sharing and wishing you two all the best☺️
Lesbian good friend is the new term 😂
are you gay orrr how did you get here? is gonna be my new pickup line 😂
Holy shit yes 😭
god you’re gorgeous
@@morighani Now kiss
@@CB-fq2ye same 😂
love that she’s respectful 💓
oh yeah, brunch is where the magic happens
I love that you actually checked to see if they were comfortable ♡
“Are you gay or how did you get here?” Is such a funny line out of context as if the gays just materialize at all of Ashleys shows
Just asked my cat “are you gay or how did you get here?” And it brought me much amusement
The way you bring the audience into your set is what makes you great. I hope you find a way to keep that even when you go on to doing larger theaters. ❤
Next time I need to confess to a girl, I'll just take her to Ashley's shows. She'll do it for me
ashley sounded so damn genuine, like actually sad when she was like “do you know she’s in love with you?”
"You're causing her pain" probably accurate 😭
The lesbians like “bro shut up I've been converting her for months and you’re blowing the mirage!!!”
As a bi woman with lots of "good"/close straight female friends I can confirm I am in love with all of them 🥰 no friends for us, ONLY LOVE 🤣
I can hear the packing tape and U-Haul already
Sappho and her "good" friend 😂
I need an update from them in a few months
They'll have started dated, moved in, got a cat, one of them cheats, they break up and are still living together lol
All within the span of a month 😅
YOU ARE CAUSING HER PAIN lol
The face expressions are SERIOUSLY everything man 🥲😂
Ashley had me at "... Are you gay or how did you get here?" 😂
“You’re causing her pain!” 😭😂
the head rub was perfect timing
“Who’s this with you?” “Oh uh yes this is my side lesbian. My boyfriends at home and so I brought her”
if i was the lesbian good friend id have to hurl myself into the sun
I like that she noticed she was fidgeting & offered to stop! Shows she’s good at making jokes, but also making sure everyone else is having fun too
Asks if she wants her to stop talking to her "yes she might"
Casually continues to talk to her 😂
Ashley took her opportunity to give that lesbian an in lmao
omg XDD the sheer number of newly self-discovered lesbians or lesbians-to-be unknowingly in the process who show up to your comedy shows never ceases to amaze me.
This reminds me of when my gay band director said “my dearest friend” to my other band director who is “straight”
"Do you want me to stop talking to you?"
"Sexuality is a very complicated thing-"
😂😂
I appreciate how she'll roast people, but when she can tell they're uncomfortable, she checks in if it's okay to keep going.
That “yeah” was so painful lmfao😭😭😭😭
This is a top notch comedian ❤
I have never been this early, but this is hilarious
doesn't this have the same energy as "a man and a woman can never be just friends"?
Thank you for someone for finally pointjng it out! Lol. It does have that same energy IMO but maybe since its more jokey its ok?
exactly :/
It kinda does have that energy but as a 55-year old lesbian who came out in 1984 at age 16, we DO have female friends who we aren’t attracted to or in love with. We CAN be just friends. I actually just got off the phone with my best friend who’ve I’ve been close friends with since junior high school. There is not one ounce of attraction there for me even though she is a very attractive woman. She’s just not my type. If we were the last two people on earth and she suddenly turned bi or gay, then I’d consider it but otherwise no, it’s really just a friendship.
i would literally burst into tears and fucking die
Oh you know... they were friends, very good friends...😏
I love the "do you want me to stop talking to you" "yea, she might" and she just like can't stop 😂😂😂
She probably hit the nail right on the head and that’s why they didn’t feel comfortable talking anymore lol
The straight single girl knows what she is doing.
I think you were a bit too on the nose there lol
I can get worried sometimes when I see comedy rosts because I can't really see if the target is laughing too but seeing you stop when its needed really reassures me, I am going to enjoy your rosts even more now !
Ashley:Are you gay? Or how did you get here?
Me:.. I... drove?
lmao Ashley literally toying with people lives now 😭
I love your shorts, but I am neurodivergent and sometimes I have trouble figuring out if it is okay to laugh. Shorts like this are so helpful, because now I know you care about your audience and take the steps needed to make sure everyone is okay and having a good time. 💜
historians will say they were "roommates"
Nah they will say they were “lesbian and “straight” “good friends”
“are you gay or.. how did u get here?”
i love how ashley is jus like “if u found me AND came to see a show , ain’t no way ur a straight” & tbh it’s gotta be tru~
I love that you asked if they wanted you to stop talking about them.
Can we just have a compilation of her saying
DO YOU KNOW SHE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU
people can be just friends, even if their sexuality would be compatible.
Not every straight man is in love with every woman. Not every gay man is in love with every man.
If I was at your show with a lesbian friend, and you just decided that I was in love with her, I would be upset for potentially making her uncomfortable and driving a wedge into our friendship
THIS
exactly!!!
“Marinette is a very good friend😊”
i appreciate that you ask if your being to much. We love a bad bitch who respects boundaries 👏👏👏
"do you know she's in love with you??"
I wish I had a lesbian good friend
Exposing her!!! Hahaha so accurate tho
i keep thinking “oh gosh it would be terrifying to be be picked on at a show like that” but then i realized that everyone going to the shows knows the whole schtick and probably are hoping they will be picked on
not necessarily, I'm sure there's enough people going here for the first time not expecting this
“Do you know she’s in love with you?”
“Do you know you’re causing her pain”
😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
Lol this is me and my friend. I have a huge crush on her, she’s so my type, both personality and physically. Except she’s straight and quite religious…
Oh no 😭
Bestie don’t do it. I’m not saying there’s no hope. Tons of LGBT people come out later in life because they were raised religious and they just can’t come to terms with it until later in life (I’m sure you know this already).
But, I’m sure you also already know that she may very well just actually be straight and you’re setting yourself up for heartbreak :(
You should find someone who is interested in women and specifically is interested in you back!! I’m positive you’re a lovely person who has so many wonderful things to offer to someone.
Don’t waste all your time crushing on someone who’s either not ready for this right now or is never going to be because they’re really not LGBT. You deserve SO much better, and you know that 💖
Why did you befriend her in the first place though? I never understood this, if the person is someone you'd want to be with, don't become friends with them.
Historians will say they were best friends.
Actually sisters..
I was drinking water and I spit it all out from laughing so hard 🤣
"Sexuality is a completed thing-" that's the first thing my mom said to me when I came out
Reminds me of one of Ashley’s videos with the two besties that were together for 25 years 💀 “They were friends.. they were dear, dear friends” 😂
Lesbian: yes i was in love with her but i wasnt expecting to be called out on it tonight
omg this reminds me when i found out my freshman year of high school my girl best friend of 4 years at the time had a crush on me. my 14 yr old self was flattered lmao but i felt bad rejecting her cuz shes my best friend of course. she ended up moving later that year. i miss her a ton, but we still keep in touch
They'll be living together again in no time!
I can't believe I'm gonna see you in September! I'm so excited! It's gonna be surreal.
“I see that ur fidgeting” marry me
My childhood best friend came out as gay when we kinda drifted apart in highschool, and I know I'm bisexual now. Looking back I can't really tell if wrestling, and playing dating characters was all that innocent lmao. Sexuality is a very complicated thing.. 🤣
I love your sense of humour 😂
Omg this feels like something that would happen to me cause people think my friend is gay for me without knowing and she’s straight and I’m pan so they call her stragget 💀
"Are you gay or, how did you get here?" Lmao
not the gay bird and the bees talk💀
They probably had a long talk on the way home
maybe she has a lesbian bad friend too you never know
so who invited whom in this scenario?
if it's the nominally straight friend i can ship it cause this might be her coming out
if it's the gay friend... maybe your show made one of them see some sense lmao
Either way is good honestly 😂
or maybe they're actually just friends and Ashley was wrong?
@@McBehrer Actually one of them commented a bit higher up and told that it ended up correct
@@NaeniaNightingale Wait! One of the actual girls from the video confirmed Ashley's joke hit home??? That's so cool! 🤣💜
This girls comedy reaches EVERYONE LOL I love her
"are you gay or how did you get here?" i drove.
I'm sorry but if your single lesbian friend brings you to a lesbian comedian show.... She's trying to tell you something 100%. Lmao I definitely think she was throwing hints her way
Nah, I go to kink and bdsm shows with my friends, and we have 0 interest in getting together. People are capable of just being friends.
My lesbian good friend 😂😂😂😂
Lol this is so ridiculously true with lesbians and gay men though 😂
I(F) need to go to one of Ashley's show with my best friend(M) (who I've liked for years and he knows) to have her play matchmaker
Ashley is the BEST wingman.
This is actually hilarious, even though they are just friends 😂
I actually found Gab’s channel bc she was playing Amnesia Rebirth so this was sorta nostalgic even tho it wasn’t that long ago lol💞💞