OLA really disappointed me with this one. We encourage our husbands to see the doctor for Hypertension, diabetes, Cancer etc with no issues. Why is is suddenly considered an insult to encourage him to seek help with E.D? Mind you, these men will have no problem asking a woman to get help if she's having trouble concieving.
Aunty B… these is just the beginning cause there’s more issues to address. Most millennials and Gen Z KNOW a lot about modern sex styles and stuff more their parents. Another issue which we didn’t discuss is women marrying someone they know isn’t sexually compatible with them. These women are under PRESSURE to marry or biological clock is running out. Meaning, they have premarital sex and there an inadequate penial size issue( its cap when we say size doesn’t matter, it matters a lot to some women but they are embarrassed to admit it public…but the guy checks all other boxes… tribe, religion, family background, money, kindness, character etc… (whatever rocks her boat). She knows she is NOT feeling anything during sex but agrees to marry him just to become MRS and bear kids. In her mind and before God, she convinced herself she could cope. Her intentions towards the marriage was genuine but…. In this kind of marriage with time, the woman isn’t even feeling motivated to do anything cause it’s a wasteful endeavor for her. Gradually resentment sets in… Oral sex and toys may do some good but deep down she still wants the adequate penial instrument. She is even too embarrassed to tell her husband the problem cause his biology can’t solve it. Bottom line is they are not sexually compatible and they don’t want divorce. She lives with her secret pain and unmemorable sexless marriage.
If she really denied him for 8 years, ten she's divorced him in her heart. She is either hurt very deeply or doesn't enjoy it and has never truly enjoyed it. Women get tired of pretending to enjoy something that is absolutely not enjoyable for them. Most men. to be honest, have no idea how to be good lovers. When he walks out of the room right after sex, it is the worst feeling for a woman. You feel like a trash can, he just dumped his bodily trash, did not even care how you feel, and walks off. You feel used, dirty and not that different from a prostitute. IT FEELS LIKE RAPE.
Hello gorgeous AntyB. I de always gbadun all your educative programs. Thank you. ❤ That lady may be suffering from HSDD, desire desorder. This is persistent loss of interest in sex. Treatment is life style modification, education, sex therapy, pharmaco therapy and more Medically there is also hyper sexual desire disorder but the lady may be suffering from the hypo I look forward to the day I will finally call into your show Love you dear sis🥂
A man needs Sex 23 times a MONTH to be normal?!! Isn’t that almost every day! That is PURE EXAGERATION!! Billions of men all over the world don’t have sex 6 times a week and they are PERFECTLY NORMAL. Let’s not exaggerate or lie because we want to pass across a great message jor! Haba! LOL. Thanks for this vid tho. Some great insight shared🙂
I understand Ola’s perspective when he said a husband’s ED problem is a problem to both him and his spouse (I’ll add a faithful and loving spouse). Nevertheless, I agree with aunt B that the man MUST put his ego aside, admit he has a problem and work with his wife to fix or manage it.
Very great show and I liked how you tackled MOP for been distant and unrelated to the pains of those women with genuine complains. Its not easy to just find another husband especially when a women prefers a Nigerian man. She will have to face judgement for leaving her relationship and labeled a whore by his family and some of her own family members for having desires. Some tribes in Nigeria makes sexual pleasure for a woman a taboo. They think Sex is only for the man pleasure so, when he is done having sex YOU too should close shop. “How dare you have desires like a man”. Pastor Shola brought it hot hot and it gave the show a grand finale.
If you dont like plate licking don't do it. Don't let people talk you into doing what you don't want to do. The fact that other people like it does not make you to do something that after doing it you start regretting . Don't do something because others are doing it.
@blessed5482, It's not about others...nobody cares what you do in your bedroom. It's about your spouse and pleasing them! If they want it and you keep refusing then be ready for the consequences if they get it somewhere! Don't be a selfish lover...sex is to be enjoyed and people should leave to please one another despite your inhibitions!
I understand Ola’s perspective when he said a husband’s ED problem is a problem to both him and his spouse (I’ll add a faithful and loving spouse). Nevertheless, I agree with aunt B that the man MUST put his ego aside, admit he has a problem and work with his wife to fix or manage it.
OLA really disappointed me with this one. We encourage our husbands to see the doctor for Hypertension, diabetes, Cancer etc with no issues. Why is is suddenly considered an insult to encourage him to seek help with E.D? Mind you, these men will have no problem asking a woman to get help if she's having trouble concieving.
I wonder why Man of Prestige is SOOOOOOOOO triggered by this.
Weldon Anty B, you are doing a great job. God bless you.
Aunty B… these is just the beginning cause there’s more issues to address.
Most millennials and Gen Z KNOW a lot about modern sex styles and stuff more their parents. Another issue which we didn’t discuss is women marrying someone they know isn’t sexually compatible with them. These women are under PRESSURE to marry or biological clock is running out.
Meaning, they have premarital sex and there an inadequate penial size issue( its cap when we say size doesn’t matter, it matters a lot to some women but they are embarrassed to admit it public…but the guy checks all other boxes… tribe, religion, family background, money, kindness, character etc… (whatever rocks her boat). She knows she is NOT feeling anything during sex but agrees to marry him just to become MRS and bear kids. In her mind and before God, she convinced herself she could cope. Her intentions towards the marriage was genuine but….
In this kind of marriage with time, the woman isn’t even feeling motivated to do anything cause it’s a wasteful endeavor for her. Gradually resentment sets in…
Oral sex and toys may do some good but deep down she still wants the adequate penial instrument. She is even too embarrassed to tell her husband the problem cause his biology can’t solve it.
Bottom line is they are not sexually compatible and they don’t want divorce. She lives with her secret pain and unmemorable sexless marriage.
If she really denied him for 8 years, ten she's divorced him in her heart. She is either hurt very deeply or doesn't enjoy it and has never truly enjoyed it. Women get tired of pretending to enjoy something that is absolutely not enjoyable for them. Most men. to be honest, have no idea how to be good lovers. When he walks out of the room right after sex, it is the worst feeling for a woman. You feel like a trash can, he just dumped his bodily trash, did not even care how you feel, and walks off. You feel used, dirty and not that different from a prostitute. IT FEELS LIKE RAPE.
Aunty B is struggling not to laugh 😆
Asexual people exist, they just need to find each other.
Pastor thank you for that lesson - daily meeting, monthly, yearly .... Beautiful
Hello gorgeous AntyB. I de always gbadun all your educative programs. Thank you. ❤
That lady may be suffering from HSDD, desire desorder. This is persistent loss of interest in sex. Treatment is life style modification, education, sex therapy, pharmaco therapy and more
Medically there is also hyper sexual desire disorder but the lady may be suffering from the hypo
I look forward to the day I will finally call into your show
Love you dear sis🥂
A man needs Sex 23 times a MONTH to be normal?!! Isn’t that almost every day! That is PURE EXAGERATION!! Billions of men all over the world don’t have sex 6 times a week and they are PERFECTLY NORMAL. Let’s not exaggerate or lie because we want to pass across a great message jor! Haba! LOL. Thanks for this vid tho. Some great insight shared🙂
Very interesting topic❤
I understand Ola’s perspective when he said a husband’s ED problem is a problem to both him and his spouse (I’ll add a faithful and loving spouse).
Nevertheless, I agree with aunt B that the man MUST put his ego aside, admit he has a problem and work with his wife to fix or manage it.
Very great show and I liked how you tackled MOP for been distant and unrelated to the pains of those women with genuine complains.
Its not easy to just find another husband especially when a women prefers a Nigerian man. She will have to face judgement for leaving her relationship and labeled a whore by his family and some of her own family members for having desires. Some tribes in Nigeria makes sexual pleasure for a woman a taboo. They think Sex is only for the man pleasure so, when he is done having sex YOU too should close shop. “How dare you have desires like a man”.
Pastor Shola brought it hot hot and it gave the show a grand finale.
Ola is officially annoying today😂😂😂
Hi
Kai.. is Ola disrespectful or what? His reaction to the ED issue was terrible
If you dont like plate licking don't do it. Don't let people talk you into doing what you don't want to do. The fact that other people like it does not make you to do something that after doing it you start regretting . Don't do something because others are doing it.
@blessed5482, It's not about others...nobody cares what you do in your bedroom. It's about your spouse and pleasing them! If they want it and you keep refusing then be ready for the consequences if they get it somewhere!
Don't be a selfish lover...sex is to be enjoyed and people should leave to please one another despite your inhibitions!
@@ObodoOyinboTv007totally agree with you Aunty B, sex is to be enjoyed by both gender. It is not a male transmitted pleasure bikonu😅
If you don't like to do plate licking then don't expect lollipop licking. No time
I understand Ola’s perspective when he said a husband’s ED problem is a problem to both him and his spouse (I’ll add a faithful and loving spouse). Nevertheless, I agree with aunt B that the man MUST put his ego aside, admit he has a problem and work with his wife to fix or manage it.