I can guarantee that she wasn't offered support or help. Cps just saw those dollar signs. It is sad that she felt like she wasn't good enough to parent her own children.
She got pregnant and wanted to hold her son more than do drugs. Her emotion and wanting him to go somewhere better, you can tell she truly is a great person. She is so self aware. You can so see she really wants, need and DESERVES a better life!
You took the words right out of my mouth, she really does have the best I treat of her children at heart she knows she couldn’t give them the best life so she did what she had to do to give them a better shot at a good life, I get the numbing thing I have been sober since June 1st 2021 and I know all to well about numbing out pain and trauma.
@@teribarager2959 keep it up Teri, I’ve been battling my whole life too. I finally stopped drinking and smoking cigarettes back in 2019. I still have my demons but I’m glad to see you are fighting them as well.
This one hit me hard. Her self awareness, her love. I'm so sorry for where she came from, praying for healing and that one day she can find her way out of darkness 🙏🏽
I am proud of Whisper she gave her children to a great mother. I like the fact that Whisper didn’t hurt her children. This goes to show that children who were abused don’t have to become abuser. Don’t feel bad for feeling relieved about your mother’s death she was evil to you.
So many addicts are such loving people that were what I call like me “doomed from the womb” it’s so heartbreaking! My mom is a druggie and my dad was an alcoholic so I didn’t stand much of a chance but I am clean today for my second 10 year stretch after having had 10 years clean and relapsing after a divorce almost 10 years ago.
I’m so glad this was filmed in case her children ever see it so they can have a humanizing perspective of their mom and her story and especially how abundantly clear it is that she loved them. She stands out to me among the other interviews as intelligent and self aware and empathetic. Also, creative, had ambitious dreams at one point in spite of her upbringing. I wish someone would sponsor treatment for her.
When did you start letting people smoke crack on your interview. That's not cool some people come for motivation and to see a crackpipe could trigger your viewers. IJS not cool. Hope she gets the help she needs...
@@theresabrown5676 this video was her story! Not anyone else’s -crackpipe and all. And I’m not trying to be funny here, but don’t try to make maybe the only time in her life that she’s going to be truly heard about yourself.
@@memyselfi2005 you are so correct it is her story. Not nocking it. I was speaking on the drug use on camera and the triggers of viewers. Just my opinion
I watch quite a few of Marks interviews - this one made me cry. Please do a follow up with her Mark …… I know so many people are rooting for her. I am praying she will recover.
I felt the same. She is close to me in age and yet our lives took very different paths. As a mother, I feel her pain. I wish she had experienced better
@@Christchurchvegans same here, I'm 45 just like her and have had some similar problems....nowhere near the amount of trauma. She IS a warrior, deserves to have the chance to heal and become purposeful. it's enough for me to start praying again. Really hope she gets a chance
She is amazing. A survivor of massive developmental trauma and a narcissistic mother. I do not judge her one iota for the way she chooses to medicate her pain. I pray that she finds the way out of survival mode and into a gentler life surrounded by loving people.
“I knew she wasn’t meant for me, she was meant for Jaylon” 🥺❤️ very strong of her to realize the way she was living had no place for a baby & gave the kids to a good mother. I know that was probably a hard thing to swallow and admit.
Her pain is hard to watch. As an adoptive mom to 7 kiddos I make sure my kiddos know that their biological parents love and miss every day. No matter what you are still their mama and they need you just as much as they need each other and their adoptive family. No one can ever replace a biological parent. You are an amazing and selfless person to do what you did for your kids. It’s clear you love those babies. ❤️❤️❤️
You are a real good adoptive mother when you think of the pain that the biological mamas have!!! Not much of the atoptive mothers are that sensitive about this fact, altough it also means so much for the atoptive child(s)!! You are so great when you tell your kids every single day that there is also a biological mum out there who loves and miss their babies very much!!! Thank you so much for this!!! God bless you and your children 🌈🌟💖💐 P s. and their biological mamas...!!!
People don't turn out like this by their selves..this is what child abuse, neglect, and sexual abuse can do to people!!! If you see abuse happening to any child, report it ASAP!!!
Her pain is so real and my heart breaks for her. The fact that she wanted better for her kids speaks volumes about her sweet spirit. I hope she gets her life on track and finds happiness.
Agreed. A lot of these women either keep their kids with them on Skid Row or act like CPS did them a disservice by taking their kids. Families should be together when they can but that is no place for children. She did the right thing
I've never wanted an update on someone more than I do for her. What a beautiful soul... she deserves so much better but she was just handed shit cards. Ugh. I want to hug her.
I’m so glad that Whispers children have each other my siblings and I were put in different homes and it tore us up inside. I’m so greatful that now we are in each other’s life’s. Whisper know that what you did for your children was a very loving motherly thing to do
I’m so sorry that happened. When I fostered I hated hearing about siblings who were separated. I adopted all of my kiddos and thought my family was complete with my three. Then, late one night I got a call asking me to foster two girls who had been with me before. I knew they also had two new little brothers and my 1st question for the case worker was “where are the boys?” I was told they were trying to find another foster home to take them, assuming I wouldn’t take all 4. I let them know I was on my way to pick them ALL up. I now have 7 kiddos and my family is definitely complete. I can’t imagine how kiddos must feel when they are being taken from everyone and everything they know and then loose their siblings. The thought just kills me.
Yup! I have 12 brothers and sisters and only know 5 I wish my parents could see how beautiful they daughter turned out to be and how successful I am. They are both alive and I’ve tried to take care of them but they are stuck on the streets can’t nothing help but I still answer and listen to them yell and scream and drugs has made them bi polar and skitz
The crack pipe in her hand.That is so normal that it is no longer noticeable.This is not good. It will be very difficult for her to quit drugs. I wish her from the bottom of my heart that she can do it
I relate SO much to you! But I did fight CPS for my kids back. I've been clean since January 21 2016. I used for 15yrs. I thank God I made it out alive... My best friend Danielle relapsed Oct 30 2019 and overdosed. I felt the part about doing a little, there's no coming back in my soul. That's what keeps me clean. I can't leave my babies here without me. I pray you find peace and happiness.
You go girl I'm glad you're clean. But I know some people that still have that craving but then you look around and see what you have and did to get clean is what keeps you from not using.
This one made me cry. She has true motherly love. She gave them up for their well being and put their needs first by doing so. Shes had a real hard life and its hard to hear her mother did those things to her.
"I just wanted her to like me." Made me cry. I couldn't finish her story. It's too real. Too sad. No wonder she's where she's at. If someone could have been there for her when she was a kid imagine how different her life could be.
Truly incredibly vivid truth. Mark… you do such good work to show raw life and insecurities. You interact with folks so directly and try to stay on topic etc, so much you do to help these people.
I love whisper and pray she gets to see her kids and father one day. She deserves that peace, of her father telling her that he loves her, and her kids telling her they love her, forgive her, and thank her for making the decision to give them a better life than the one she had growing up. Her story breaks my heart. She deserves some brighter days, after all that darkness she’s been through 😔 I wish we, the public, could donate things to her like gift cards, encouragement cards, baskets filled with self care goodies, etc. so she can realize that there are people in the world that genuinely care about her and want her to get better.
Whisper’s authenticity moves me. She is so open and raw and real. Her good heart really shows. Definitely one of my favorite SWU interviewees that I’ve watched so far. Wishing her all the best. 💖
Whisper, 30 years is a long time to be in this much pain. Find your courage because you ARE a good woman! You never asked for any of the shit that came your way! You are worthy of everything beautiful!
😥💔💜 This was a good one. Thank you for opening up lady. It's obvious that most addicts lived a bad life & dealt with things they couldn't change or wasn't caused by themselves. I've seen it & experienced it.
I really had to hold back tears listening to her story. When you think you had it bad you see how someone had it worse 😔💔 I pray that her life turns all the way around & that she finds love peace and happiness 💖💛💚🧡💜💖💖💖💖
I couldn't hold them back..😢😢 I felt so much compassion for her that I just boo hoo'd. She is a beautiful individual in ALL adpects. I have so much respect for her and I Pray she gets clean and is able to see her babies. 🙏🏾❤️💯
My heart goes out to her. What a tragic story. She is a smart woman who is in incomprehensible pain. I am rooting for her to get help and one day have the peace she deserves
Thank you so much for being there for these beautiful people and letting them talk. As a recovering addict you don't even know just someone listening to your story and hearing us truly is what we need. Just someone there. So much respect to this channel.
I still see the little girl in her. She did good for her children. A good soul, this woman. I hope that she'll keep going so she get the chance to see her children again
Very heartbreaking..You can see the empathy and kindness this woman has..This is a cruel world to some...Blessings and thoughts of healing to you ma'am....May you soon be touched by the forceful pull of sobriety. ❤
She's in so much pain. Her eyes are empty of hope. I feel so bad for her, what she went through as a result of other people, compounded by her own addictions. What a tragedy, all of it. She deserves better.
I just want to tell whisper that I send love and respect to her and am so so deeply sorry for all the suffering she has endured. I hope better days are ahead for her. ♥️
She breaks my heart. She's so sad. Rehab & intense therapy could do wonders for her. I believe she has a good heart... She just needs to be shown love. 💔
If she was able to get clean and into recovery she would be an excellent recovery worker for others going through the same thing. She's obviously so intelligent and caring.
I've been wondering about Whisper! Good to see she's still around. Her old video was so sad, she really stuck in my head. She is a beautiful woman. Made hard choices for her children. 💞
Heartbreaking story. Never had a chance. Got high with her mother to make her like her. Thank you for helping her understand it really wasn’t her fault. This channel has been a life changer for me. Now no judgment only understanding. Thank you for your generosity and inspiring work. This needs to be a series for the world to see on Netflix or Hulu Perhaps, Amazon will get interested. You are doing phenomenal work, Mark!
I had a close relative who struggled with a heroin addiction most of their life. Through therapy and a spiritual understanding of the addiction, I have come to understand I hated watching the chase of them trying to get high. I truly loved the person. I also learned many addicts are brilliant people who are living as slaves to an unreachable high to keep themselves numb from a painful reality to them.
This woman is amazing♥️I feel for her and her pain. I’m wishing her sobriety, healing and happiness xox. She is just such a beautiful soul. This interview seemed to be so therapeutic and painful for her. She probably hasn’t had an opportunity to speak about her pain in a really long time!♥️♥️♥️Somebody please show this woman the way!
Oh my goodness, her talking about family being the most important thing… I just want to hug her, family is not supposed to destroy their children’s spirit. ❤️🥺❤️
Your honesty, insight and intelligence amazes me. "Without that foundation, how can you build?" Bad family sets us up for a dark and broken life. It makes everything so much more difficult, but please don't give up on yourself. I will keep you in my prayers.
What a good soul she is. I hope her children will see this and reunite with her when they’re old enough. Would be nice if she could live out the rest of her life and finally be loved back like she deserves
This poor woman is dying a slow death. She is dying of a broken heart. She never had a chance so she made sure her children did. I hope a blessing comes her way because she never had one.
Whisper, the magical words that came from ur mouth.."UNDER THE GRACE OF GOD,IM STILL HERE"WITH FAMILY BEING MOST IMPORTANT..!! GIRL,U(LIKE SO MANY)R WORTHY TO GET THAT LOVE.
Beautiful woman, despite her addiction. She is sweet and sensible and has been put into this terrible life by her mother, so sad :-( She uses - like so many addicts - not to feel the pain of her life. I hope that one day she will get clean and she can see her children again. I wish her good luck and wisdom.
She probably keeps in contact with her children as often as she can even though they're adopted by someone else now, from the way she speaks about them it sounds like she has some sort of contact (even if it isn't visits it may be calls, letters, etc.)
Whisper, you are so strong and real. To do what you did for your kids, is one of the hardest things a mom could ever do. And the love you have for them is incredible! I hope you can find peace and happiness in this life! You've suffered enough and deserve to see what we all see in you! I wish you the very best!
She is so smart, I pray one day, something will touch that spot deep inside her that will turn on the part where she can change and walk away from that life. She could teach people so much. She has so much to offer.
She will be in my deepest thoughts and prayers for healing, I see so much potential in her,I hope for the very best for her in the future Blessings be upon her. "For every struggle there's a way."
The most amazing thing about these interviews is that they are lucid for the most part and honest. They are so much more self-aware than many people you talk to.
What an amazing lady. She's got insight and she has dignity and she hasn't lost herself despite needing to numb the pain and hustle her whole life. She's done right by her children and she knows that's the most important thing. If her life ends tomorrow her scales are balanced for breaking the cycle for her two children and for ensuring that they have each other and aren't alone in the world. But I will cry if anything horrible should happen to Whisper. You deserve good things, Whisper.
That’s some real deep mother love there coming from this amazing woman who never got any from her own mother. What an incredible person and life story. I wish her only the best. God bless her.
She's a beautiful woman. Please tell her she is a champ and she broke the cycle of dysfunction. Remind her that She has done nothing wrong. She did the best she could with the poor information she got from her mother. But she is not her mother! My heart breaks for her because she is so pure and just can't see it.
It's amazing how everyone is essentially just cloaked in their experiences / circumstances. I'd be easy to judge someone who looks and sounds like an aged dope addict, but underneath a few layers we're all pretty much the same. Some people simply have more layers than others. I think it's a good thing that this channel gives the unfortunate a voice. Especially as they all have so much to say.
She really needs her children. She can kick this habit and see her kids. I can tell she really loves them. I don't believe in a lot of addicts but I believe in her. She can do it. She needs them. It hurts her so much to even talk about them. Women need their kids.
Whisper , you are a better mother and the mother who raised you! You should be so proud to know that. By your own self awareness and sacrifice you have provided a better life for your kids than the one you had or could provide for them . I’m so proud of you ! I will pray for you and please know that you have more to live for than drugs . You are a beautiful person .
I love this chick.... and I’ve watched a lot of these but she had me captivated with her story and I can see the beauty in her. It’s just the drugs that have robbed her of everything, without a good example, we could all end up that way.
First, you did right by your kids. Second, don’t feel bad, for not being sad about the woman who birthed you. She was a monster. I hope you and your kids reconnect. I also really hope that you get to see your dad again. You have it in you to do what you need to do Whisper. It’s plain to see that you are smart, loving, and a major fighter. I think you know you’re strong sis. I have a feeling that you don’t like to ask for help. But, sometimes you need to. There are a lot of people out there who be more than happy to help you, if you ask. You’ve got this Whisper. Take the leap. Xoxoxox
She is so beautiful. I feel so much love for her. I bow my head in prayer for these special people and the suffering they're carrying. ❤ I also question the integration phase after these interviews. So much emotion and history that is released that would otherwise be suppressed. This release can be traumatizing in itself and then do they go back to their circumstances with no container to process what was brought up in the interview? Perhaps Mark can answer this? I'd love to know
She’s so beautiful and smart. And she is gentle. Put her kids first so they could be safe. Se sad that the person who gave birth to her took her future away. Just so sad. I wish her peace.
If you see this whisper, and no one has told you. I love you. I believe in you and have nothing put faith for you. I pray you heal your heart and soul. You didn't choose that life. And it's not your fault. I pray you find peace.
"He thinks he did something wrong" jesus christ woman. Hit me right in the gut. Remember when my mom just dipped and left us in an airport. I thought she didnt like me. My brother helped me a lot through that
"That baby wasn't meant for me..she was meant for her brother"... sad but makes so much sense. I wish you the very best whisper.. its never too late to start over baby.
I allowed myself to sob when she said that... less than that has broken people (having to put 2 kids into foster care/adoption). She could have given up. But she attributed a terrifying situation into a beautiful meaningful purpose🥰🥰🥰
@@mrdunnepoetryreallifetvuk1934 So sorry ... I had the sweetest Mom. I faired not too great in life without her. Hoping you were blessed in other ways. I ADORE children and to me the worst heartbreak is to imagine an innocent child in pain. The older l get the less sense the world makes to me. Sending you a hug , my friend.
Kate you're 🎯... It's the most foreign, disgusting thing; l couldn't even TELL you what l'd gladly do to one. And now we, thanks to Mark and others like him, the impact and damage. A nuclear blast is preferable... This lasts generations.
I forgive my mother. I aint seen her in like 25 years, but if she pops up, I'll hug her. She wont be my mom anymore, but I let go of that hate, you have to. Aint good for you
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This woman is pretty amazing. She came from trauma, lived in trauma but gave her children a chance. She's a warrior.
I hope her kids are doing well . So heartbreaking 😭
I can guarantee that she wasn't offered support or help. Cps just saw those dollar signs. It is sad that she felt like she wasn't good enough to parent her own children.
It's terrible how easily the right to live with dignity is shadowed by dollar signs.
I’m not sure a warrior is what I’d call her.
@@livewithnick what you'd call her is your business. Thanks for sharing your opinion though 👍
She got pregnant and wanted to hold her son more than do drugs. Her emotion and wanting him to go somewhere better, you can tell she truly is a great person. She is so self aware. You can so see she really wants, need and DESERVES a better life!
You took the words right out of my mouth, she really does have the best I treat of her children at heart she knows she couldn’t give them the best life so she did what she had to do to give them a better shot at a good life, I get the numbing thing I have been sober since June 1st 2021 and I know all to well about numbing out pain and trauma.
@@teribarager2959 I'm reading that your sober and that's awesome please stay that way life gets so much better GB.
@@teribarager2959 keep it up Teri, I’ve been battling my whole life too. I finally stopped drinking and smoking cigarettes back in 2019. I still have my demons but I’m glad to see you are fighting them as well.
I couldn’t have said it any better!! My heart hurts for her
It’s so sad to see a life wasted because of bad parenting. She didn’t have a chance . 😞
This one hit me hard. Her self awareness, her love. I'm so sorry for where she came from, praying for healing and that one day she can find her way out of darkness 🙏🏽
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Amen.....
I don't think she had much self awareness at all. She was talking to a mystery person in her head and I bet that person was her mother.
I am proud of Whisper she gave her children to a great mother. I like the fact that Whisper didn’t hurt her children. This goes to show that children who were abused don’t have to become abuser. Don’t feel bad for feeling relieved about your mother’s death she was evil to you.
I burst out crying so hard when she said she voluntarily gave up custody of her baby
She's got her father's genes..I definitely understand this lady..yes l see her intelligence and good 💙 heart.
@Shay Bae yea thanks for explaining, no one got that.
@@KasumovMedia And a Merry Christmas to you!
But she did hurt her children. I felt so sorry for her little boy who was screaming that he will be good just so that he can be with his real mom.
She's so broken and still has a better heart then a lot of people. God bless her and I hope she can see her father and her children again.
exactly with all she's been thru to this day it's sad she had to go thru all that
I just started to comment the exact same thing #GreatMindsThinkAlike
Amen!!
Amen! You took the words out my mouth!
So many addicts are such loving people that were what I call like me “doomed from the womb” it’s so heartbreaking! My mom is a druggie and my dad was an alcoholic so I didn’t stand much of a chance but I am clean today for my second 10 year stretch after having had 10 years clean and relapsing after a divorce almost 10 years ago.
Slay Missy!
You are a hero.
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Society needs to treat them with compassion, and medical treatments, and financial support, not prison sentences
I’m so glad this was filmed in case her children ever see it so they can have a humanizing perspective of their mom and her story and especially how abundantly clear it is that she loved them. She stands out to me among the other interviews as intelligent and self aware and empathetic. Also, creative, had ambitious dreams at one point in spite of her upbringing. I wish someone would sponsor treatment for her.
She reminds me of myself I feel her pain and choices that were made for her with no say from her you can make it I did💕
When did you start letting people smoke crack on your interview. That's not cool some people come for motivation and to see a crackpipe could trigger your viewers. IJS not cool. Hope she gets the help she needs...
@@theresabrown5676 this video was her story! Not anyone else’s -crackpipe and all.
And I’m not trying to be funny here, but don’t try to make maybe the only time in her life that she’s going to be truly heard about yourself.
@@memyselfi2005 you are so correct it is her story. Not nocking it. I was speaking on the drug use on camera and the triggers of viewers. Just my opinion
@@theresabrown5676 be safe and take care. Best wishes to you
I watch quite a few of Marks interviews - this one made me cry. Please do a follow up with her Mark …… I know so many people are rooting for her. I am praying she will recover.
Yes, same. She has a strong heart, I can feel it.
@CARTERMADE 86 so did I. I would try not to but it didn’t work.
Come on beautiful lady let them demons go you got this please God help her amen
I felt the same. She is close to me in age and yet our lives took very different paths. As a mother, I feel her pain. I wish she had experienced better
@@Christchurchvegans same here, I'm 45 just like her and have had some similar problems....nowhere near the amount of trauma. She IS a warrior, deserves to have the chance to heal and become purposeful. it's enough for me to start praying again. Really hope she gets a chance
She is amazing. A survivor of massive developmental trauma and a narcissistic mother. I do not judge her one iota for the way she chooses to medicate her pain. I pray that she finds the way out of survival mode and into a gentler life surrounded by loving people.
“I knew she wasn’t meant for me, she was meant for Jaylon” 🥺❤️ very strong of her to realize the way she was living had no place for a baby & gave the kids to a good mother. I know that was probably a hard thing to swallow and admit.
Needed to tie her tubes. Ridiculous
Her motherly instinct kicked in considering her own mothers didn't! 😔
Her pain is hard to watch. As an adoptive mom to 7 kiddos I make sure my kiddos know that their biological parents love and miss every day.
No matter what you are still their mama and they need you just as much as they need each other and their adoptive family. No one can ever replace a biological parent. You are an amazing and selfless person to do what you did for your kids. It’s clear you love those babies. ❤️❤️❤️
You are a real good adoptive mother when you think of the pain that the biological mamas have!!!
Not much of the atoptive mothers are that sensitive about this fact, altough it also means so much for the atoptive child(s)!!
You are so great when you tell your kids every single day that there is also a biological mum out there who loves and miss their babies very much!!!
Thank you so much for this!!!
God bless you and your children 🌈🌟💖💐
P s. and their biological mamas...!!!
@@MaMa-uj4pp Thanks! I have to remind my self that my best day (adopting my kiddos) was someone’s worst day.
@@bridgettmoody1475 ❤️💔🤝🙏💔❤️
I love you for this words....
Love this!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. Thank you for adopting children who need additional stability and LOVE❤. Thank you for your sacrifices!!❤
Wow...you are truly GOLD!
She might be one of the most articulate aware addicts I've ever seen rooting for you whisper
People don't turn out like this by their selves..this is what child abuse, neglect, and sexual abuse can do to people!!! If you see abuse happening to any child, report it ASAP!!!
This beautiful woman was robbed of her childhood by her own mother. Her mother had no soul or heart. 😢
Good morning beautiful lady ❤️
@@cindyfitzgerald4500 Good morning pretty lady. I hope u have this day off to rest or enjoy ur family.
I would say her mom had a damaged childhood.
Broken people break people. Cycle of disfunction .
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And then she did it to her son- over drugs!!! She so proud of making so much money over drug sales.
@@tomkeppler1717 speak for yourself
Her pain is so real and my heart breaks for her. The fact that she wanted better for her kids speaks volumes about her sweet spirit. I hope she gets her life on track and finds happiness.
Agreed. A lot of these women either keep their kids with them on Skid Row or act like CPS did them a disservice by taking their kids. Families should be together when they can but that is no place for children. She did the right thing
Girl , you touched my heart , you re such a good woman . you had no choice as a child, but you gave the best to your children . You're an angel .
I like her a lot. She’s smart and still has her wits about her.
And she has a kind sole. My heart aches for her.
She deserves so much better.
I've never wanted an update on someone more than I do for her. What a beautiful soul... she deserves so much better but she was just handed shit cards. Ugh. I want to hug her.
I’m so glad that Whispers children have each other my siblings and I were put in different homes and it tore us up inside. I’m so greatful that now we are in each other’s life’s. Whisper know that what you did for your children was a very loving motherly thing to do
I’m so sorry that happened. When I fostered I hated hearing about siblings who were separated. I adopted all of my kiddos and thought my family was complete with my three. Then, late one night I got a call asking me to foster two girls who had been with me before. I knew they also had two new little brothers and my 1st question for the case worker was “where are the boys?” I was told they were trying to find another foster home to take them, assuming I wouldn’t take all 4. I let them know I was on my way to pick them ALL up. I now have 7 kiddos and my family is definitely complete.
I can’t imagine how kiddos must feel when they are being taken from everyone and everything they know and then loose their siblings. The thought just kills me.
Yup! I have 12 brothers and sisters and only know 5 I wish my parents could see how beautiful they daughter turned out to be and how successful I am. They are both alive and I’ve tried to take care of them but they are stuck on the streets can’t nothing help but I still answer and listen to them yell and scream and drugs has made them bi polar and skitz
@@bridgettmoody1475 omg thank you for that💛💛💛💛
I'm very sorry you went through that Cindy! Sending you much love 😘
@@therosarylady oh thank you hon but now we are all reunited and are very close. Sending you love my dear sister ❤️
This one actually made me cry . I hope she finds her happiness 🤍
The crack pipe in her hand.That is so normal that it is no longer noticeable.This is not good. It will be very difficult for her to quit drugs. I wish her from the bottom of my heart that she can do it
That's the first thing I noticed about her. Wonder if she will ever put it down. Enough is enough
I relate SO much to you! But I did fight CPS for my kids back. I've been clean since January 21 2016. I used for 15yrs. I thank God I made it out alive... My best friend Danielle relapsed Oct 30 2019 and overdosed. I felt the part about doing a little, there's no coming back in my soul. That's what keeps me clean. I can't leave my babies here without me.
I pray you find peace and happiness.
God bless🥺💓💓
i’m so proud of you
Blessings to you and your children.Youre lucky to have each other... Wishing you only the best❤️
You go girl I'm glad you're clean. But I know some people that still have that craving but then you look around and see what you have and did to get clean is what keeps you from not using.
Blessings to you always🙏💜
Had me sobbing, I pray this lady finds help to overcome the trauma of her past so she can have quality time with her children 🙏🏻
She did the right thing for her kids. I hope she finds peace with that. 🙏
This one made me cry. She has true motherly love. She gave them up for their well being and put their needs first by doing so. Shes had a real hard life and its hard to hear her mother did those things to her.
The adoption story is bittersweet but beautiful, siblings staying together is super important
"I just wanted her to like me." Made me cry. I couldn't finish her story. It's too real. Too sad. No wonder she's where she's at. If someone could have been there for her when she was a kid imagine how different her life could be.
Truly incredibly vivid truth. Mark… you do such good work to show raw life and insecurities.
You interact with folks so directly and try to stay on topic etc, so much you do to help these people.
She is very wise. Her mother gave her such a disadvantage to life, so sad
I am not so sure it’s wisdom. Seems like it’s more like self preservation.
I love whisper and pray she gets to see her kids and father one day. She deserves that peace, of her father telling her that he loves her, and her kids telling her they love her, forgive her, and thank her for making the decision to give them a better life than the one she had growing up. Her story breaks my heart. She deserves some brighter days, after all that darkness she’s been through 😔 I wish we, the public, could donate things to her like gift cards, encouragement cards, baskets filled with self care goodies, etc. so she can realize that there are people in the world that genuinely care about her and want her to get better.
Whisper’s authenticity moves me. She is so open and raw and real. Her good heart really shows. Definitely one of my favorite SWU interviewees that I’ve watched so far. Wishing her all the best. 💖
Whisper, 30 years is a long time to be in this much pain. Find your courage because you ARE a good woman! You never asked for any of the shit that came your way! You are worthy of everything beautiful!
The fact that she was relieved when she heard about her mother passing away says it all.
That’s how I felt when my dad died.
😥💔💜 This was a good one.
Thank you for opening up lady.
It's obvious that most addicts lived a bad life & dealt with things they couldn't change or wasn't caused by themselves.
I've seen it & experienced it.
There is something about her, something special. She was extremely honest, she looked extremely sad and so tired.
Dear Lord help her find a way 🙏
I really had to hold back tears listening to her story. When you think you had it bad you see how someone had it worse 😔💔 I pray that her life turns all the way around & that she finds love peace and happiness 💖💛💚🧡💜💖💖💖💖
I couldn't hold them back..😢😢 I felt so much compassion for her that I just boo hoo'd. She is a beautiful individual in ALL adpects. I have so much respect for her and I Pray she gets clean and is able to see her babies. 🙏🏾❤️💯
My heart goes out to her. What a tragic story. She is a smart woman who is in incomprehensible pain. I am rooting for her to get help and one day have the peace she deserves
Thank you so much for being there for these beautiful people and letting them talk. As a recovering addict you don't even know just someone listening to your story and hearing us truly is what we need. Just someone there. So much respect to this channel.
I still see the little girl in her. She did good for her children. A good soul, this woman. I hope that she'll keep going so she get the chance to see her children again
One of the most hard-hitting interviews I've watched ever, and I've watched a lot of Mark's content. I hope she's doing better now.
-Your mom wasn't bad, she was an addict
-So am I, but I wouldn't sell my kids
She sold her daughter out there for drugs.
Right i get drugs make u do fucked up shit but that doesn't excuse the trama
Same here never crossed my mind
@@lynnhexler-haan3357 Whisper's mother sold her. Watch the whole interview.
Yea a few minutes in she says her mom was her pimp when she was 13
This woman is so incredibly selfless and caring…god bless her
Her pain as a mom is really hard to watch. I feel it. She has a good heart.❤️💔
Very heartbreaking..You can see the empathy and kindness this woman has..This is a cruel world to some...Blessings and thoughts of healing to you ma'am....May you soon be touched by the forceful pull of sobriety. ❤
“But I’m getting tired” so powerful. So sad. So unbelievably tragic. Praying for you Angel.
She's in so much pain. Her eyes are empty of hope. I feel so bad for her, what she went through as a result of other people, compounded by her own addictions. What a tragedy, all of it. She deserves better.
My heart aches for this woman. For all that she has been through, she’s compassionate and loving. Praying for goodness in her life.
this one made me cry. i really pray that her life turns around and she can get clean🥺🙏
I just want to tell whisper that I send love and respect to her and am so so deeply sorry for all the suffering she has endured. I hope better days are ahead for her. ♥️
She breaks my heart. She's so sad. Rehab & intense therapy could do wonders for her. I believe she has a good heart... She just needs to be shown love. 💔
If she was able to get clean and into recovery she would be an excellent recovery worker for others going through the same thing. She's obviously so intelligent and caring.
@@powderandpaint14 Yes. She is intelligent and caring.
These videos… they leave me speechless and feeling extra grateful..
She still has her emotions. Some heroin addicts dont care about loosing their kids. They dont care about anything. But she does.
I’m so rooting for her and I will be praying for her, I really hope she comes back on. God please bless Whisper!
This 1 made me cry. Praying for your strength Whisper
I've been wondering about Whisper! Good to see she's still around. Her old video was so sad, she really stuck in my head. She is a beautiful woman. Made hard choices for her children. 💞
wow when she said family is the most important thing ... felt that ... praying for her and her health
Heartbreaking story. Never had a chance. Got high with her mother to make her like her. Thank you for helping her understand it really wasn’t her fault. This channel has been a life changer for me. Now no judgment only understanding. Thank you for your generosity and inspiring work. This needs to be a series for the world to see on Netflix or Hulu Perhaps, Amazon will get interested. You are doing phenomenal work, Mark!
I had a close relative who struggled with a heroin addiction most of their life. Through therapy and a spiritual understanding of the addiction, I have come to understand I hated watching the chase of them trying to get high. I truly loved the person. I also learned many addicts are brilliant people who are living as slaves to an unreachable high to keep themselves numb from a painful reality to them.
This woman is amazing♥️I feel for her and her pain. I’m wishing her sobriety, healing and happiness xox. She is just such a beautiful soul. This interview seemed to be so therapeutic and painful for her. She probably hasn’t had an opportunity to speak about her pain in a really long time!♥️♥️♥️Somebody please show this woman the way!
My heart goes out to this woman. That story about her son. God damn... that moved me. So selfless.
Oh my goodness, her talking about family being the most important thing… I just want to hug her, family is not supposed to destroy their children’s spirit. ❤️🥺❤️
I love her. She is articulate and intelligent. I hope one day she could be reunited with her children and her lovely father. Stay strong Whisper
Your honesty, insight and intelligence amazes me. "Without that foundation, how can you build?" Bad family sets us up for a dark and broken life. It makes everything so much more difficult, but please don't give up on yourself. I will keep you in my prayers.
What a good soul she is. I hope her children will see this and reunite with her when they’re old enough. Would be nice if she could live out the rest of her life and finally be loved back like she deserves
This poor woman is dying a slow death. She is dying of a broken heart. She never had a chance so she made
sure her children did. I hope a blessing comes her way because she never had one.
Products of our environment..very sad story...she actually has some morals and still feels...
she has a neck tattoo...
@@monamoansalot anyone with a neck tattoo has no morals and self-respect and that includes YOU.
@@monamoansalot get no neck tattoo and not be judge.
@@monamoansalot You would care and you show that by even replying to my comment in the first place.
@@thebrideof seems like care very much. you must have neck tattoos.
Whisper, the magical words that came from ur mouth.."UNDER THE GRACE OF GOD,IM STILL HERE"WITH FAMILY BEING MOST IMPORTANT..!! GIRL,U(LIKE SO MANY)R WORTHY TO GET THAT LOVE.
I was thinking the very same thing at the time she said and at that same time reading your comment!!
Beautiful woman, despite her addiction.
She is sweet and sensible and has been put into this terrible life by her mother, so sad :-(
She uses - like so many addicts - not to feel the pain of her life.
I hope that one day she will get clean and she can see her children again.
I wish her good luck and wisdom.
She probably keeps in contact with her children as often as she can even though they're adopted by someone else now, from the way she speaks about them it sounds like she has some sort of contact (even if it isn't visits it may be calls, letters, etc.)
I’m proud of everyone speaking up and talking about their past, my blessings and preyers are with her
Whisper, you are so strong and real. To do what you did for your kids, is one of the hardest things a mom could ever do. And the love you have for them is incredible! I hope you can find peace and happiness in this life! You've suffered enough and deserve to see what we all see in you! I wish you the very best!
I'm sorry for your pain.
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I don't comment often but Whisper, I hope you get better soon you're an amazing person with a big heart
She is so smart, I pray one day, something will touch that spot deep inside her that will turn on the part where she can change and walk away from that life. She could teach people so much. She has so much to offer.
She will be in my deepest thoughts and prayers for healing, I see so much potential in her,I hope for the very best for her in the future Blessings be upon her. "For every struggle there's a way."
The most amazing thing about these interviews is that they are lucid for the most part and honest. They are so much more self-aware than many people you talk to.
What an amazing lady. She's got insight and she has dignity and she hasn't lost herself despite needing to numb the pain and hustle her whole life. She's done right by her children and she knows that's the most important thing. If her life ends tomorrow her scales are balanced for breaking the cycle for her two children and for ensuring that they have each other and aren't alone in the world. But I will cry if anything horrible should happen to Whisper. You deserve good things, Whisper.
She's very likable. Thank you for this interview. Prayers going up for Whisper
That’s some real deep mother love there coming from this amazing woman who never got any from her own mother. What an incredible person and life story. I wish her only the best. God bless her.
This is a truly beautiful and intelligent woman, who has been so unselfish with her children , God bless her !
She's a beautiful woman. Please tell her she is a champ and she broke the cycle of dysfunction. Remind her that She has done nothing wrong. She did the best she could with the poor information she got from her mother. But she is not her mother! My heart breaks for her because she is so pure and just can't see it.
Omg this poor woman…. ❤️❤️❤️ We need a updates about her please 💕💕💕
She’s so intelligent and charismatic. A unique woman. I hope she finds peace.
It's amazing how everyone is essentially just cloaked in their experiences / circumstances. I'd be easy to judge someone who looks and sounds like an aged dope addict, but underneath a few layers we're all pretty much the same. Some people simply have more layers than others.
I think it's a good thing that this channel gives the unfortunate a voice. Especially as they all have so much to say.
She really needs her children. She can kick this habit and see her kids. I can tell she really loves them. I don't believe in a lot of addicts but I believe in her. She can do it. She needs them. It hurts her so much to even talk about them. Women need their kids.
Whisper , you are a better mother and the mother who raised you! You should be so proud to know that. By your own self awareness and sacrifice you have provided a better life for your kids than the one you had or could provide for them . I’m so proud of you ! I will pray for you and please know that you have more to live for than drugs . You are a beautiful person .
I love this chick.... and I’ve watched a lot of these but she had me captivated with her story and I can see the beauty in her. It’s just the drugs that have robbed her of everything, without a good example, we could all end up that way.
She’s really smart, well spoken and filled with such potential. I’m sending her all the good vibes in the world.
You can see that she is a very intelligent human. Sad that she had no support in her upbringing.
This was a tear jerker.
I feel so much pain in her heart.
We are all one.
Your pain is my pain.
God I'm so sorry for her .
She’s so much better than what she gives herself. What a loss to the community. She’s such a good soul
First, you did right by your kids. Second, don’t feel bad, for not being sad about the woman who birthed you. She was a monster. I hope you and your kids reconnect. I also really hope that you get to see your dad again. You have it in you to do what you need to do Whisper. It’s plain to see that you are smart, loving, and a major fighter. I think you know you’re strong sis. I have a feeling that you don’t like to ask for help. But, sometimes you need to. There are a lot of people out there who be more than happy to help you, if you ask. You’ve got this Whisper. Take the leap. Xoxoxox
She is so beautiful. I feel so much love for her. I bow my head in prayer for these special people and the suffering they're carrying. ❤
I also question the integration phase after these interviews. So much emotion and history that is released that would otherwise be suppressed. This release can be traumatizing in itself and then do they go back to their circumstances with no container to process what was brought up in the interview? Perhaps Mark can answer this? I'd love to know
She’s so beautiful and smart. And she is gentle. Put her kids first so they could be safe. Se sad that the person who gave birth to her took her future away. Just so sad. I wish her peace.
If you see this whisper, and no one has told you. I love you. I believe in you and have nothing put faith for you. I pray you heal your heart and soul. You didn't choose that life. And it's not your fault. I pray you find peace.
She loves her children so much which is why she let them go. She is strong, stronger than most of us could be 💔
"He thinks he did something wrong" jesus christ woman. Hit me right in the gut. Remember when my mom just dipped and left us in an airport. I thought she didnt like me. My brother helped me a lot through that
"That baby wasn't meant for me..she was meant for her brother"... sad but makes so much sense. I wish you the very best whisper.. its never too late to start over baby.
Right never say never.
I allowed myself to sob when she said that... less than that has broken people (having to put 2 kids into foster care/adoption). She could have given up. But she attributed a terrifying situation into a beautiful meaningful purpose🥰🥰🥰
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As a child of adoption, I will be forever grateful to my birth mother for making the selfless decision to give me a better life. ❤
Some people should burn in hell for what they do to their children. Poor Whisper never had a chance with a mother like that.
💯 my mother is pure evil..
@@mrdunnepoetryreallifetvuk1934 So sorry ... I had the sweetest Mom. I faired not too great in life without her. Hoping you were blessed in other ways. I ADORE children and to me the worst heartbreak is to imagine an innocent child in pain. The older l get the less sense the world makes to me. Sending you a hug , my friend.
Kate you're 🎯... It's the most foreign, disgusting thing; l couldn't even TELL you what l'd gladly do to one. And now we, thanks to Mark and others like him, the impact and damage. A nuclear blast is preferable... This lasts generations.
My faith says they will! And i know its wrong but i pray they do 😔
I forgive my mother. I aint seen her in like 25 years, but if she pops up, I'll hug her. She wont be my mom anymore, but I let go of that hate, you have to. Aint good for you