Stay-At-Home Girlfriend Faces Backlash On TikTok For Living Her Best Life
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
- A TikToker is getting a lot of heat online for calling herself a “stay-at-home” girlfriend who lives a pretty relaxed and lavish lifestyle. While she is definitely doing work around the house, if the relationship doesn’t work out, we are worried about her financial independence. Cenk Uygur and Ana Kasparian discuss on The Young Turks. Watch LIVE weekdays 6-8 pm ET. th-cam.com/users/the...
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"A 26-year-old self-proclaimed “stay-at-home girlfriend” has critcised followers who have questioned her lifestyle, after she revealed that she doesn’t make her own money and instead relies on her boyfriend’s income.
Rose, who goes by the username @rosedavisx on TikTok, frequently posts videos about her life as a “stay-at-home” girlfriend, as she claims that she is the one who takes care of the couple’s house daily while her partner goes to work.
In a video posted last month, she said that her partner “tells [her] stay home and enjoy [her] life and agrees to pay for [her] hair appointments, manicures & pedicures, lashes, botox, laser hair removal, clothes, and makeup”.
As for what her boyfriend does, she noted in the comments under one of her videos that her partner, Harry, is a “financial advisor, investor in companies, and owns real estate”.
In a clip posted earlier this month, Rose documented a “day in the life of a 26-year-old house wife / stay at home gf,” with the start of her day consisting of getting her eyelashes done, eating a few snacks, doing some stretches, and “cleaning the bathroom”."
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This lifestyle is the middle class American dream in the 50’s and 60’s when you only needed a one income family home
Yes! You're absolutely right. With stagnant wages, inflation, the income inequality, the overall economic disparity, the stay-at-home GF's lifestyle is today's upper middle class household with 2 full time working partners
It was a dream then too, a dream of privileged white people.
It's always been mine! No such luck...
She should be in fields working for the proletariat comrade.
@@MJW238 why you gotta be white to dream of this lifestyle? Jeez I'm a dude and I'd love to be comfortably coasting along without job worries or hassles. In my head I think every single person wants to use and get thru their jobs to achieve this comfort. So if your spouse or whatever wants to provide it and does, how does race come in? Or even sexuality, nor age, gender or religion. Take the living with ease scenario regardless, if you can make it happen.
Social media has made everyone think their opinions matter more than it does.
Hint: You got punked, they are jokes
Yea I’m
Not on there
Yeah, including yours. Your comment here is just as irrelevant as hers. Stop being dumb woman.
Some women work full time and still do what she does. She’s happy so let her be. Your 20s are the best time of your life. There are ppl who work their whole 20s like a dog and still have nothing to show for it.
I guess when little girls were told " you can be anything you want to be" , it did not include being a stay at home spouse. Not everyone woman has to be a corporate slave. Let her enjoy her life and let the haters (jealous) cry.
Right. It's much better to be a domestic slave and just hope he never gets violent or dumps you. Great plan.
@@rain3743 You have a sad mindset if that's all you think of when you hear stay at home wife
It's funny that nobody seems to recognize that growing a social media presence can turn into a way to support yourself if it gets big enough.
but how many people actually make a lot off that?
Ah well, if is the keyword. Most social media content creators won't last long. Even somewhat successful ones won't last long. Most will end up dead-ended at some point and have to change careers. Career changes happen all the time. Dead ends happen all the time.
It’s not unpaid labor. She is contributing to the household
Why is everybody worried about her life, yall mad cause she has what you don't
This was stupid
It’s not unpaid work. She is not paying rent and other expenses so she is being paid.
She probably has a rich daddy somewhere too.
@@ishy6875 I had the same thought
Who cares
@@woodlandgangsta3931 u did, which is why you let comment.
@@ishy6875 What I care about is yall minding your own business.
Why are people mad? Jealousy is a bad look.
"I'm worried about her future" the most insincere words I have heard in a while. It's hard for you to wrap your head around choices that are different from yours. Leave the girl alone. The woke crowd gets mad even if it were a stay at home wife who has a good thriving relationship with her spouse. It simply does not fit in with their world view.
"What if the relationship doesn't work out", What if you get fired from your job, what if you get hit by a bus, what is the sky falls tomorrow.. that no good reason to condemn this girl.
It's way easier to get a new job if you have been fired than if you never had a job.
I don't understand why you find this concern "insincere". You can't imagine people being sincerely concerned?
I'm a software engineer and I have been laid off multiple times.
That's why I:
- keep my resume current
- keep in touch with former coworkers
- maintain a savings account with enough balance to provide for my family for 3 months.
I think its the fact that she seems to be bragging about it online that pisses everyone off.
At least she's doing housework
Your famous celebs brag about their lifestyle but you still follow and like their pictures.
Hey, she wants to be a housewife. Her boyfriend wants her to be a housewife.
If they're happy about it, who cares what anyone else says?
Keep doing you, boo.
If genders were reversed, a lot of people would be attacking the guy
@@bigsquez and if we truly cared about personal freedom, we would be indifferent about someone’s personal life.
@@bigsquez And why would you reverse the genders? We are not the same. Men are not guaranteed to be the biological parent like women are. Men get destroyed in family court and barely get to see their kids. Don't be stupid, date a woman who is on your program. Womanists don't care about family, look at the divorce rates, they are not mothers, they just have a child.
@@bigsquez marry a billionaire
How other people live, as long as they're happy, is 100% fine with me. The annoying thing is her thinking anyone needs a video about her day. It's the equivalent of a CEO of a multi billion dollar company making a video saying:
"So I walked to my car and drove 15 miles. I parked in my usual spot. When I walked in the front door of my office I waved to the receptionist and asked her to hold my calls while I ate my poppyseed bagel with blueberry cream cheese. She said okay. Then I ate my bagel. Then I worked until lunchtime. After lunch, I went back to work. I went home at 3:00 because I felt like it.
Okay byeeee!"
See? Lame.
Sounds incredibly boring to be honest. Not a dream. My father always told me never to be financially dependent on someone else. Make your own coin.
You're jealous. And your father is stupid.
I don't see what's wrong with her being a "stay-at-home girlfriend."
She and her boyfriend both agree to this arrangement.
She just has to make sure she can get a job when she wants to.
Don't quit your job and do a bunch of unpaid work before you're actually married
@@Vasilia4
Actually, don't do any unpaid work at all....even after you're married....unless your spouse agrees to share the unpaid work to make it work.
Why be the only one that cleans the house and does the laundry when your partner obviously can share the work?
@@nedthumberland because she doesn't work. That's rge point of being a stay-at-home-wife
If she ever gets fired i'll hire her on the spot.
As she'll be the only applicant with actual housewife experience on her resume.
She will bring so much more of the qualities men look for than a working woman.
@@UnlistedAccount Sure. When she's 37 and single some millionaire is going to just sweep her up and marry her
As a stay-at-home boyfriend, you won't catch me hatin'. Do your thing, girl.
WTF is your problem with this? She's taking care of the house, shopping, doing laundry and cooking/baking. She's providing all these things without complaint and seems to be very happy. Why do you have any issue at all with this?
did you watch the entire video; if you had you would know that its not a problem with her personally, but more of a commentary on the dangers of depending on another persons finances instead of making sure YOU are financially independent incase the relationship goes sideways.
@@Discopuss Yeah staying with TYT for 20 years...sounds like Ana hates it. Kinda weird.
@@1369Stiles How many marriages goes sideways and women are left to start over and become independent. It happens everyday. Let people be free. We love projecting our miserable lives on others. Not every man is trash
@@1369Stiles It sounds like Anna's problem is she can't live that life.
@@williammatthews5422 so a little bit of jealousy is a bad thing?
also, she knows for a fact that if her marriage goes south, she can still feed, cloth, and shelter herself without looking to someone else to do it; which is the entire point.
Anna stop hating on this girl. Not all girls want to be boss babes
And most females don’t want to be boss babes… truth be told.
@@RodneyD fact
If you're upset about this, then you are the most miserable person alive and I hope you go see a therapist.
The only negative I can see is that she's not earning any contributions towards her social security. I was a stay-at-home mother who raised the children and boy did I get screwed over in my social security. I tried to make up for it in my later years with a good paying job, but it wasn't enough.
Being a Housewife is hard work actually, and it's honourable for both men and women who stay at home, while their partner makes income.
Being a stay-at-home is definitely not hard work. You can get most of the work done in a matter of 1-2 hours, compared to somebody who has to wake up every day at the same time to go and work 8 hours shifts. Nothing against stay-at-homes but to call it hard work is not true.
@@MonkeyDIvan exactly dude. I don't get this logic unless you are either living in a large house or if you have several kids with several hobbies/school activities etc etc then it would be more arguable, I've seen people suggest this being hard work while living a 800 SQ ft home with only 2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom, and 1 child and while having a robotic vacuum and a dishwasher lmao
Ana is right, you can’t depend on anyone for your financial stability.
especially the government
@@straightwhitemale966 whether you realize it or not, you have depended on the the government for your financial stability in many ways.
You dont do laundry every day, you dont grocery shop every day. Absolute bs lol. Ive cleaned the house, its not a full-time job, and if you say it is then youre grifting. If you have kids, then all that I said doesn't apply.
She is happy. Not hurting anyone. Why do people care. I think jelausy is part of it. Knowing this persons routine changes nothing in anyone's life. Plenty people would like to live like this, but mock it. Without knowing ger you cant really judge. Judging off 1 thing someone semi knows about her says a lot about mental capacity.
Why are so many people triggered that this woman chooses to be a stay at home girlfriend when clearly her man has no problem with it?
Jealousy.
of course he has no problem with it, he has everything he wants without any commitment so he can dump her as soon as he gets tired of her.......she on the other hand wants to be married, she calls herself a wife
@@lacee7494 We have no idea what his commitment is.
Anna is just pissed she doesn’t have the same option this lady does. Modern women of today are the most free and financially independent in history….yet they are the most depressed. I’ve listened to hundreds of calls from women on Kevin Samuels show and it didn’t matter how successful they were, when he asked the right questions, they all wanted the same deal this stay at home girlfriend has and would give up everything they worked for to get that deal from a high value man. There’s nothing wrong with that. The problem is that those women had no clue what a man that they wanted, wanted from them. If he asked them what they wanted in a man they had a list a mile long. If he asked what the man got in return, you couldn’t write it on the back of a stamp.
You’re right..
That’s a privilege that most women don’t have. That’s why they’re really mad.
I agree with Ana. I've heard too many stories of middle aged women being left homeless after a break up. It's a big issue in Australia. The women who were of a different generation. This woman is free to do as she wants but I think financial independence is so important for everyone. Especially women who have different pressures than men. E.g. my cousins husband is a dr and my cousin is a stay at home mum currently on maternity leave raising the 3 kids. She basically told me she isn't that career driven and doesn't care if she never goes back to work (she is a teacher). I think that's dangerous. If they break up, she will have to start over again.
Everything has a risk! Just have to know if it’s worth taking😉
@@ckantrel1977 Giving up financial independence and a career is personally a risk I would never take. That's just me though. I grew up poor, I know what it's like to have nothing.
She will be fine. If things don't work out I'm sure she will find another. I once tried the stay at home bit once for a girlfriend who made more than me. I hated it and the work waa tedious and exhausting. I'm now happily married and chores are done together. I love washing dishes with my wife.
She's 26 now. If they break up in 10 years she will not find another high paying man who wants to take care of her
She sounds like a personal assistant (or unpaid intern) with benefits. You go girl.
I’m 38, 4 kids…. I’ve done it all. Been a stay at home mom. Been a single mom working 3 jobs. I was with ex for 13 years and he left me high and dry. With NOTHING. Turn the lights out on me and the kids and I was back at square one with 4 babies. I struggled and struggled. Now I’m married. And I stay home with my youngest being 9 because two of my kids have disabilities and because my whole house depends on me to, whether they realize it/ admit it or not. I still can’t get my house clean as I want it, the kids still think they don’t have enough time with me. So no boo- I ain’t getting a job. I literally can’t. And life changes faster than you even realize it. So although I would love to have a career, I’m still needed at home. Good luck to everyone. Be happy
@@thealternative9580 what spare time? I barely have time to comment in the comment section. I should be sleeping
Ouch! So I became Disabled in 2014 and not being able to work has been really hard for me. Thankfully I have an amazing husband who makes enough to financially support us and I have thrown myself into a stay-at-home wife role like I'm being paid for it. Our house is clean, I cook 2 times a day 6 days a week, I take care of our dog like she is a pampered baby. Because 1, I want my husband to know that I appreciate what he does for us, and 2, I want to take pride in something I do. BUT still not being able to work, to financially contribute to our household makes me incredibly sad. No one should make fun of someone who is a stay-at-home *edit* not saying you guys were making fun in this video but it just struck a cord
Please TRY to separate your own very justifiable situation from the grossly lazy dumb fcuks in videos like this - they CAN work and thus CAN contribute to society. That they chose not to is beyond disgusting.
Most moms come from work to do all that work after a brutal shift. Laundry, vacuuming, and mopping are all taxing work.
Becoming a homemaker is not an easy job. Homemakers don't get paid and won't get a degree from the work. A rare thing in today's society where most people are self-interested and won't do anything unless they monetarily or educationally benefit from it somehow.
Unpaid?! Housing, food, clothes, travel, etc. Hellooooooo
Anna seems like such a hater. She's being extremely pessimistic and very negative. "You're not even married so, when YOU decide to leave him you can't take half." Like WTF is this garbage she's spewing? How's about if more people spent half as much time of being the best person for the type of partner they're trying to attract they can have this too if they desire.
It's honestly REALLY simple to make yourself seem indespencible to your partner where they feel like they can't live without you and you can secure that ring/ wife. Just insert yourself into their lives and do things that they don't want to do. Men say this ALL the time. They want a woman that cooks, cleans, does laundry, ect. Then go above and beyond that. Prep their food for work. Book their trips. Get their clothes ready.
Men: become the best provider and protector you can be, do the laborious jobs like trash and yard work. Fill her tank with gas ect.
It can go both ways too.
I was stay-at-home mom. 4 kids. I made life work for everybody. for 32 years. We didn't break up. He DIED. He left me with nothing. Sure. my fault. I should have been more pro-active with exactly how our finances were set up and that I had some coverage and protection. He hid the finances from me. I trusted he was arranging things with love of family as priority. Nope. Behind the scenes he was all about himself. I was left with nothing. and no job skills. life has been hell.
My wife is a stay at home mom. Why is being a stay at home anything something to look down upon? Why is the partner “expected” to work outside of the home? Why is it a thing to have to work? What is wrong with being a stay at home person? Our child is thrilled to have his mom at home with him. People have been conditioned to feel they have to work. If one partner has the ability to support the other then great.
It's because we are in the ahe of equal rights..why do men have ro woek while women stay at home
@@007GoldenLion Well daycare is over $1k a month for one kid, sometimes it just makes sense. And she did carry his babies so what’s the problem? Just bc you don’t wanna take care of your family, doesn’t mean other men won’t.
They are not married and do not have kids, your story is VERY different
What we have here are a bunch of miserable people projecting their lives and thought processes on others. There's nothing wrong with a stay at home mom, dad, girlfriend, etc. Do what works for you as long as you are genuine
@@007GoldenLion Go to work. I will stay at home if you are bringing home at least 250,000 minimum. We don't want your gonad to get all bent out of shape
To me is this woman is basically a housewife. Something that used to be normal and they're treating it like she's Bigfoot or something. Other than not being married believe it or not people used to be able to live on one income with one person working to bring the money and the other person working to take care of the house and kids. People now are so sold on working twice as hard to get less than half as much they actually think this is freakish behavior.
It was normal because wifes could not vote and has to live submissive shitty lives and were often unhappy and trapped in shitty marriages and could not even divorse. It was't good at all.
Nothing wrong with it. But no need for a Rose tinted incel view.
Found the misogynist conservative. Let me guess, you're also a cishet whlte Christian man too?
@@cegesh1459
Lolol... Lololol... Lolololol... You called the other guy an incel... Lolololol...!!
She's living a retired life exactly what most to all of us are working for lol to bash this girl is idiotic
Yeah men do it to. I was a single Dad working, cleaning, cooking, and raising a daughter with anorexia. My ex was there but not reliable. My daughter chose to live with me especially when she was fighting anorexia. She is fine now, is 23 with two degrees and a masters degree in Sociology from Tulane working with people with addictions.
It used to be called a happy marriage. My parents enjoyed it for 75 years :)
Before housing got too expensive even with two wage earners...
they are not married
@@lacee7494 common-law at a point.
Wow I thought she lived rent-free in just one apartment. Then I came to the comment section.
She keeps a home and is a content creator. She’s in love, happy and living a comfortable, fulfilling life. THAT’S what pisses people off, that she has all those things and that she loves her life. Wealth inequality is a real problem in this country and a lot of bitter folks out there are blaming all the wrong people
I agree that wealth inequality is the real problem, but also found it interesting that a supposedly left wing channel was only interested in the woman's individual agency, and ignored wider situation and structural economic factors of the society she lives it.
@@semperterra3235 The vast majority of their show is about that.
It's hardly an accomplishment. It's mundane.
@@roddyboethius1722 that’s ok, they don’t need your validation
I'm a stay-at-home boyfriend, though I do work a little bit from home.
Not all women are feminist, that said as long as her and her man are happy, whats the big deal?
she wants him to marry her, she calls herself wife even though they are not married
@@lacee7494 Well she needs to lean on him more to marry her or make a choice to stay or leave.
Wait… I’m pretty sure her job is creating content. I’m guessing she films and does editing and stuff. It’s kinda like she’s pretending to not have a job while successfully tricking you into believing she doesn’t actually have one when in fact she’s a content creator who has found a different route to gain an audience, and her being someone controversial and making it on the news is just more validation that she’s so good at her JOB, that you somehow can’t see that she has one (which is good for her business for you to remain unaware of the nuanced changes occurring within the spectrum of the entire entertainment industry).
People… she has a job.
Think about it.
Lol so next time I do laundry, I can record it and I guess it’s a job? You’re a moron
Unless her boyfriend plans on marrying her, she's not in a great position in case something happens to him or he just decides to break up. Worse if this relationship goes on for several years this way. Even marriage is no guarantee if you work in your spouses business(es) without the benefit of having your name on the biz or any biz accounts at all, and no social security credits being applied. That happened to me. After nearly 25 years of being in that marriage, which was also abusive, I left and had to start over from scratch. There wasn't even alimony. We divided the non-business assets, and he kept the entire business to continue working. I had to find a way to work in my 40's and have only half the normal time to try to make social security for myself. Always have Plan B, her plan is not a good plan.
I'm sorry to hear. I believe the reason why everybody works today. Lots of husbands are cheap bastards and will try to screw their wives out. In my state even if your name isn't on the business you are entitled to money if you worked for it. It's just harder to get. The other issue is many businesses don't report their full income and a forensic accountant is needed to expose it which is expensive. And if your name is on the business then the IRS could come after you for back taxes if exposed. Good luck to you.
There are many ways to prevent being codependent and or left economically vulnerable by an lost partnership. Its true that even today many people have a hard time remaining cautious about over committing economically(and psychologically) for the sake of relationship roles and customs. Actually in todays economy, having a financial "sponsor" like this can give someone in this position great advantages and opportunities to leverage "free" time to enhance their lives and pursue myriad prospective interests. Its just as possible for a "bread winner" to get used by a charlatan posing as a lover but secretly advancing their own education/career interests only until they can leave like a thief in the night.
Personal fiscal security in this era is more about leveraging/aligning interests, skill/talents, education, and information with viable pursuits, networks, and organizations than just climbing an industry ladder. Its no longer limited to geography, commuting, or jockeying for the biggest desk in an office...though these remain clear avenues of success for some.
I'm sorry you've endured an abusive and economically stifling life experience. I hope you have gained strength from surviving your journey and earned a great level of respect for having discovered more of what you are capable of accomplishing on your own behalf as a human being in this fierce world.
I tend to idealize partners supporting each others growth and refinement both as individuals and teammates and respecting the fact that healthy balances are almost always work in progress. I guess it'd be easier if people and their world didnt ever change/age but thats not the reality we know and love.
This, right here. She's not earning her retirement.
They don’t even have to break up for her life to be turned upside down. What if he was in a car accident and died? Then what happens to her?
@Brandon Rittenhouse sure, but she has no skills and does she have a degree?
Men paying all the bills and women not working is literally how our country use to work lol worked out for those women
Absolutely!
No it didn't work out. That's why women fought so hard to have their working rights. Many got abused daily and still lived with the abusers bc they didn’t have any income coming in. I don't really mind if both of them are okay with their life style I mean each their own, as long as as she is happy but the questio remains what if the relationship doesn't work it ???
@@uma_kageyama actually no lol I want you research anti feminist and the anti suffrage movement. Women did not band together it was a handful of women. The majority of women were happy with their arrangement. Older women aren’t the ones filling for divorce. Those women stay happily married. Abuse was highly exaggerated and not much evidence to suggest most women even encountered it.
@@9doggie12 thank God to those handful of women that we have our working rights today. So many women can dream of becoming something. Yes older women never filled for divorce bc they are looked down upon by society and they were taught from young age that no matter how much they disrespect you, you should always remain at your husband’s house this is where your respect lies and these elderly grandmothers are the one who encourages their grand daughters to be independent bc they never want the humiliation they went through their daughter goes through the same thing. Let me ask what is easy ? Spending years on studies and search for job or finding a rich man. Let me tell you finding a rich man is easier than that especially if you are pretty enough but then why so many women choosing to work instead of being a house gf ??? It’s simple It’s for respect and freedom, so they can leave without worry when things gets tough. Men or women in relationship or not everyone should have their financial freedom. Also one thing, how about you start see women as human instead of "women", you guys have this idea that women are some different creatures not human. If you guys start seeing women as a human instead of some other creature things will get easier to understand.
@@uma_kageyama no the actual reason older women didn’t file for divorce was because they were not narcissistic. Marriage isn’t about you marriage is about family community and the people around you. Women today divorce because they are bored. That literally is a top 5 reason women have cited for filling. Number one is money. No abuse not cheating. You paint men as abusers and monster and you wanna lecture me about humanity ? Men took good care of their wives and loved them unconditionally. I asked all my great grandmothers why they never got remarried all of them said after grandpa died I couldn’t love anyone else. These women loved their husbands and families. Women today are way more narcissistic and don’t even value being a mother. Being a mom makes you less of a person. You think a woman’s only valuable if she’s working a job making someone else rich.
I have been working my whole life and if I had a person offer for me to not work who I was also in love with, to take care of the house to make his life better- I am all in. We live in a society of jaded haters. We work because we need to. Not often because we want to, even if we end up in a job we want.
I don't know I'm retired military. I took one year off and it drove me mad. Had to get a teaching job so I wouldn't go insane Lol
@@travisstutz6072 haha I hear ya. I Am an endlessly single lady and work my life away so it’s all about perspective. Either way, I am sure this couple is happy with their arrangement
not having to pay rent or for food or for anything is not unpaid work.
Havens no! Im not stay at home yet, paying off my own debt cuz well its mine. Anyway , hubby is a truck driver and hes hardly home. So i have all the house work to do his mountain of clothes, and i may have spoiled him a bit. I was dirt floor poor.
4:29 Ana Kasparian explains why men don’t marry anymore.
exactly...it doesnt benefit us
mgtow
My wife is a stay at home wife. Knowing i am coming home to a clean house and food already cooked, makes it worth going to work everyday and dealing with the everyday B.S. of the rest of the world .
So you like people that work for you
@@fredandre3415 ?????... Everyone works for themselves or for other people .. what is your point ?
I agree...better plan for both parties...if the $$ is there.
they are not married
The only reason why this girl is getting hate is because her haters are jealous of her and the fact that their boyfriends are probably losers and hers isn’t and she chose a good boyfriend and they didn’t. “What happens when you split up”. What kind of fool gets into a relationship with someone they’re going to split up with? Good for her for making good choices. My wife was younger than her when she became a stay at home housewife and our oldest daughter was also younger than this girl when she became a stay at home housewife. I see nothing wrong with this.
they are NOT married, big difference
@@lacee7494 not yet. Maybe they want to get married and he’s just waiting until he graduates with his MBA, which could take a lot of time away from wedding planning. My wife and I lived together before we got married and she stayed home.
@@lacee7494 There's no difference when dealing with genuine people but if your motive is half if things go sour then you probably shouldn't get married to begin with. What's interesting is you guys pretending to know this young lady back ground. Her family could be wealthy not that it matter. The take away here is mind your own business
Not getting paid? She’s living a good life. I work full time, and don’t have half of what she has, and can’t travel like she does. I’m sure she’ll figure it out if that time comes if they ever split.
She is getting paid. Her expenses are paid for in exchange for her being the homemaker
@@bookofeli4867 Exactly!
What do you mean unpaid? She has her living expenses paid for
If she had to earn her own living I very much doubt she'd be anything like half as well off as she is now.
Job interview tip: Have a gap? Lie. They lie about your job obligations, moving up potential, hours, security, benefits, environment.
Why do you care? If she’s happy than good for her. It’s none of your business
Why does anyone care?? It’s their lives to live. If it doesn’t work, then she moves on and figures it out. People make their own choices in life. That fact that people get upset over someone else’s life style is insane! Take care of your own yard before worrying about someone else’s.
Facts. If I had the opportunity to be a stay at home dog mom, I’d take it in a heartbeat!
You're making a very reductive statement, there's a conversation to have about how things might go south, and she'll not have a dime to her name. You shouldn't stay financially dependent on anyone, and I hope she has her own money or some sort of degree incase she needs to leave.
Enough said
@@ishy6875 There are million of married women that are now divorce and still don't have a dime so try again. You don't know her background. She may come from money. That's why people should mind there own business...especially women. Yall are the worst
@@ishy6875 Why does it matter? It’s her choice, not anyone else’s. She was just talking about her day. Why do others feel it’s their place to tell her everything she’s doing wrong.
If it works for them and she isn’t judging others for not being like her, then let it ride
I agree she may need to get a job in the future. I was a stay-at-home mom and when I went looking for a job I was asked,what did you do for the past seven years. Laundry, cooking,cleaning, sewing and so much more. They didn't consider that work.😕 But if you had someone come to your house to do those things $$$🤑
People can be weird. I clean my place all the time, and I deserve just as much of a paycheck as any housecleaner.
The problem is they are asking you for relvent work experience, if your applying to work as nanny I am sure your experience as mom would be considered relvent.... life is unfair that way.
I stay home.. My husband works and makes extremely good money. Our kids are grown and i am a lazy person who watches TV all day.. I do not cook but I clean. This is the life I wanted after raising 6 children. Just to take each day and procrastinate..
Unfortunately, she has no idea just how many of us had the same thought.... "we won't" yet still did split up.
lives change, people change, circumstances change, desires change.
That’s not an issue if you get to know the person and make sure you want a future with them and want to get married and have a family together before you start a relationship with them and make good choices. I married my high school sweetheart who is also they only person I’ve been in a romantic relationship with and honestly, it was pretty easy. I didn’t ask her out until I was sure I wanted to marry her and have a family with her.
@@johnmartin4641 if this guy wanted a long term relationship with her he would ask her to marry him
@@lacee7494 it’s possible he went back to school to get his MBA and is waiting until he graduates. If he didn’t want a long term relationship with her, then I doubt he would be ok with her not working and paying for everything for her.
“She’s got a dream life”. Leave it at that maybe consider having that lifestyle for yourself. It’s possible.
“It’s unpaid work”. She’s literally exchanging her work and time for food, shelter, and all the amenities she wants. She’s well paid
And he can get another one, just like her, when she ages a bit. Happens all the time. This is why women worked hard to get financial independence.
@Rain thats a losers mindset to have. This type of mindset in the western that destroys the dynamics of relationships today. If that was the case it wouldn’t still be working in other countries that don’t adopt this mindset and are still traditional.
@@Dondada2368 whose to say that it is working?
@@AlecArtComics whose to say that is not
@@rain3743 The fact is that women are the ones who file for divorce 80% of the time. This narrative that it's the men who leave is a lie.
I dunno. Girlfriend doing more than most wives. She's doing more than what most sugar daddies get. Good for her. She's earning her keep. And they're not even married. I wish her the best. She's a keeper. If it doesn't work out, her choice. Leave her alone. She's honorable and loyal. Something to be said for that.
I have personal experience with this. I was in a relationship with a wealthy older man from 20 to 30. I kept the place tidy cooked and worked on my art. When hit 30 I got dumped and eventually replaced by a 19 year old. I'm having to go back to college and am severely financially disadvantage with zero credit score and no employment history. If I could take it all back I would.
Why didn’t he marry you?
Personally, it sounds dumb that you didn’t push for marriage. Your current predicament would be very different.
Served you right for mooching off someone else’s wealth.
@@freudianslip2192 Women don’t decide on marriage, especially broke ones.
It hurts to see someone living your dream.
I was a housewife for the first two years of my marriage. It was not a dream. I prefer to work full time.
@@fuhgetabatit1051 what made you return to work?
@@availableusername9101 probably boredom
This. For some people this is their dream. So they're online trying to talk her out of her spot and into some shit job in a shit economy. Also there is an assumption her career would be wallstreet banker or something and not cashier at Walmart. Shes white and speaks well and is attractive and people assume she has the skills for some high powered job. Most of the women mad about this would trade places and leave their jobs they hate in a heartbeat
Let's be clear, she probably makes more money with TikTok than we do with our 42h a week Job.
If she loves it nothing else matters.
A lot of men avoid women with this type of mindset today which is why so many women are single and not married. Already concerned with taking half of his property when “she leaves him you know”.
Wow Ann said the quiet part out loud: Mary him and take half🤫
I was just saying that this is a clear example of toxic femininity, They're not even married and she's already talking about it's not working out her taking half his money
ann is such a gold digger.
just putting on the record. I will be a house husband. I cook and do the dishes.
Haha, it's great.
As long as your married.
I would say if you are stay at home gf, have yourself a work from home gig or a small business, just to have some emergency savings
Until she cheated on you and ask you to move out, and then you have no income.
Don't forget vacuuming, sweeping, dusting, washing windows, making beds, scrubbing tubs and toilets, grocery shopping and laundry. And that's just if you don't have kids.
@@rewer LOL Oh but I am used to that :)
@@TheCaptaininsaino oh I am very tidy :)
So she is a stay at home housewife (just not married
What's the problem here?
Absolutely nothing …..there is just no security . Girlfriend isn’t always a permanent arrangement
@@thewrongshoes We keep hearing that 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce, so that's not necessarily a permanent arrangement either.
She is apparently OK with the arrangement and has full confidence in her boyfriend.
I really think that Anna's ideology led her to question this particular choice ( and thereby dismiss the agency of this young woman) that might not have happened if she had made some other life choice.
@@donmac7780 if she was married she wouldn’t be leaving with nothing as she would be as an ex-girlfriend. If she was your daughter would you say thing ? Or would you be concerned about her future
@@donmac7780 Yes, but when marriages end, there's normally financial recompense for whichever partner has less money.
@@thewrongshoes I'm assuming that this is an American couple. In most states, palimony or common-law status are a thing.
Her life, her choice, agreed by both partners. What is the issue?
If things don't work out.. What does she put on a resume?
@@pwnagraphic690 Good point, and hopefully something she will seriously consider. But, ultimately, her choice yes?
@@brendahollis1524 I think that was iterated multiple times during this video actually
Exactly. She's not the only one. My sister was a stay-at-home mom he whole life. Once her kids were in high school she got a job at a dental clinic. It isn't a prestigious job, but a job nonetheless. Cenk and Ana are worried about her being able to transition to a white collar job. I'm sure she'll be fine.
I'm a stay at home boyfriend, my girlfriend also has a son so I instead refer to myself as a stay at home dad.
It has its pros and cons just as every decision in life does, but it's fulfilling!
Me and a friend worked on cars I was in my early 40s at the time. He was in his early 50s at the time. He finally married his long time girlfriend. And she had a kid. He became a stay-at-home dad. He raises the child. We both were getting hosed by the dealership at the time. And I remember when he did this, how happy I was for him. A rich wife isn't bad either.
We all know women who served this role only to be dumped with near nothing. But sometimes they come out ahead and sometimes the relationships last. Be optimistic and be prepared. Life can be unpredictable.
We all know married women who served this role only to be divorced with nothing. Same difference.
She’s a homemaker, zero shame in it.
This! My mom is a stay at home mom and people have no idea how much work goes into it! She's a housekeeper, chef, babysitter, gardener, nurse (if someone gets sick), all wrapped up into one
@@hareemqureshi822 not buying it. I have to do all that and work.
Fun fact I got laid off a year ago but already had a new job lined up to start in august…got a severance and decided to take the summer off. After about a month I was miserable and bored; I applaud people that can keep life interesting without working but it’s just not me 🤷🏻♀️
Did you travel? You said take the summer off, did you stay home or local?
@@bellad1063 I did not travel…I live in Philadelphia so there is plenty to do and a beach close by, but with a limited income it was important to me to be careful with spending.
How come no one in the comments ever asked "What if he loses his job and has trouble getting back to the same financial situation he's currently in"
I just believe its better to be self efficient especially in America today where the cost of living is higher than ever.
And with that said, as an American, you can choose to live your life the way you wish.
My wife is a stay at home wife because ailments. Also a study was done if a house wife w/2 kids should have a salary of 35000 per year this was about 15 years ago
Damn .... Jealousy does not look good on u at all
I wasn’t part of the workforce for a decade because I was hit and run over by a car, and suffered some fairly awful injuries. It is tough getting back into it, especially if you are disabled. You aren’t taken seriously or treated humanely
The TRUTH is most women these days would give their left arm to be able to stay at home like her, and not work at a “job.” I admire her, I’ve been trying to get out of the rat race and would love the opportunity to be a homemaker while also pursuing my purpose in life. Jobs take so much masculine energy and drain the life out of women, this is why we our out of balance and the divorce rates are high. When you don’t have time to take care of your feminine being, it throws everything off🙏🏾
good for you...but I think everybody should make this decission for themselves. Also, your argument for "higher divorce rates" is rather shallow. Pretty sure that being dependent on a bread winning partner, and maybe have to cope with an unhappy existence is not as healthy as being able to simply seperate without having to fear for your very existence. Divorce rates are high for a multitude of reasons, yours might even being one of them, but definitely only one among many.
I suspect you are underestimating most women's desire to keep both their arms.
These Stay-At-Home-Girlfriends are great !
I'm totally going to get one of those; since my wife goes out and works, I'm sure they'll get along great.
Nothing wrong with this lifestyle as long as they have an agreement.
Its not unpaid if she's getting free rent and food. Lots of ppl live like this. Hopefully she's saving money though.
If she’s happy and her man is happy …good for them. Honestly, good for them! 👍
House work is still work. The lazy rich are the only ones who can afford to pay someone to clean for them.
So she's a "maid with benefits".
I Must admit, this old school brand of foreplay is something we seek out.
People hating on her are jealous loveless buffoons. I've been a stay-at-home dad while my wife worked I loved it I got to enjoy my kids and create a lifetime bond. Housework is not easy at all and it never ends. Nowadays my kids are older and both me and my wife work full time. We now split the housework between me, her, and the kids it's a hassle coming home tired and then cleaning and doing chores. I don't hate this chick 1 bit she's living her best life.
Honestly, I assume mostly highly educated professional women are concerned. Most men don't care. I work in Human Resources. In one instance, a stay at home mom had a huge gap in her resume. I questioned her about this. Obviously, she stated that she took care of her children for years. I advised her that child care is considered work. So, she put that on her resume.
I have zero problem with that lady and her choices-they seem happy. But why would anyone watch that tiktok? It’s so aggressively boring.
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I was divorced @ 32 after marrying @ 25 so that comment really caught my attention. And yes, going back to the work force after being a stay at home wife was BRUTAL. So many snide comments and judgement. Especially from women interviewing, but men were rude as well. So to the stay at home husbands or wives.....please reconsider at least getting a part time job. Please 😔😞 I mean unless you're wealthy it's going to be a terrible terrible experience building your life back up.
They're jealous.
@@mE-zx7pt but they are the people you want to hire you, it is hard get a job when the person interviewing you is treating you like that
My husband was the bread winner until he got sick. Our roles changed and I just completed my Master of Social Work in 2020 at the age of 49. I have to still due to laundry luckily he cooks and so does my son when I work
The argument was that she does a lot of laundry. How hard is it to put laundry in the machine, put in a pod and turn it on? Also, unpaid work is a dumb argument. Don't you have to cook, do laundry etc whether you are in a relationship or not? You don't get paid to take care of your personal needs.
Your money, you can decide your arrangement with your significant other. Don't like it? Make more money.
So... she takes care of the house...? She's not making money but she's still bringing value to the household.
I agree with Anna that this doesn't help her future but she still is contributing.
Yup, that coffee jar didn't fill itself.
@@semperterra3235 mundane work is still work even though you choose to look down on those who do it.
PPL attacking her are just jealous............
As an European, my take on this is that she is more secure in her arrangement than most US middle clasa workers...
it doesn't matter what you do. good or bad there will always be the people who will criticise