Is there love in marriage? HT63 Drinking Library
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.ค. 2024
- Another friend recently got divorced.
According to the guy who had the affair, she made him feel in love;
And after catching up on "Imperfect Us" and "Queen of Tears,
I wonder, is there love in marriage?
Can't a marriage go on without love?
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A few days ago, we were walking to the office as a family of four. When we were waiting for the traffic light at the crossroads, Dashu asked, "Dad, why is it that only three floors in that building have little blue lights on and the rest of the floors don't? While we were waiting for the green light to come on, we thought of all sorts of reasons, and it was only when we looked back at the building while crossing the street that we realized it was a matter of angle, and that in fact the whole building had little blue lights.
Angle.
We are all playing our own roles, standing in our own positions.
So where do we stand in order to have the so-called truth?
To understand, to feel, to sympathize.
We all think we know love, but who really knows?
Who is qualified to comment on love or not love?
Who is really kind?
Who is really selfish?
Every character has a self that is not kind enough.
There is a selfish self.
There's the scheming self.
There's the jealous self.
There's the cowardly self.
There's the avoidant self.
We all have our self-righteous selves.
We all have our unappreciative selves.
There's the fear of loss.
In the end, it's because of death and passing away
It is only because of death and passing away that we begin to learn to know ourselves, what is the present moment, what is to be cherished, what is to be kind and to love.
We are learning throughout our lives.
Ting
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Many people have different expectations and imaginations about marriage. Some people think that marriage is the tomb of love, fearing the loss of freedom and romance; others expect to gain a sense of security and belonging through marriage.
But what is the true meaning of marriage? Through in-depth dialogues, the hosts share their unique views on love, marriage and life. It turns out that marriage is not just a union of two people, but also a journey of dialoguing with and understanding oneself. It is only through playing different roles and facing various tests in life that we can truly see ourselves and learn to love and be loved. This thought-provoking dialog leads the audience to explore the true meaning of marriage and find the code of happiness in life.
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非常認同ting說的，「婚姻裡面有愛，但不一定有愛情！」
因為有愛，讓彼此成為更好的人，這就是婚姻裡最棒的事情！
我的老公就是最了解我、最理解我、也最包容我的人，真的很感恩他的存在！
你很幸福
婚姻就是尋找一輩子的玩伴🤼有時候愛情不一定要得到😍看這對方幸福也是一種愛💞
很多婚姻里都沒有愛情，雖然殘忍，但是事實
几乎没有😂
好美的一句話：
愛是理解自己的過程！🎉🎉🎉
婚前的「還不錯」是因為看見了對方的好，婚後「不錯」是因為即便看到了不夠好的一面，還是能夠肯定原本的好，看到不完美的一面還是堅定的選擇彼此，才是昇華了的愛。
能夠這樣像朋友坦開聊婚姻的夫妻，真的很難得～祝福兩位更順心❤️
好喜歡這段對話，我跟先生也是兄弟之情XDDD 有在相處之間越來越懂得欣賞跟感恩這種兄弟之情XDD
13:43 聽起來婚姻感覺像釀酒🤣 剛開始會瘋狂冒泡，久了之後就會昇華為平靜～
多年後能不能釀成功也不一定哈哈（？
走進婚姻之後，是要開始消耗愛情還是開始培養愛情，不是一個人努力就可以，最困難的是兩個人即便感覺不到愛情都要堅持生活在一起，每一天，而很多新觀念告訴我們人不用委屈自己待在不快樂的關係裡，當你回答不出自己心裡的聲音：難道這輩子就要這樣過了嗎？離婚就會變成一種新的可能性
25:07秒在Hank說出的這段話，相信Ting是個對的人🥰字字句句充滿愛~
#曾經有
就像家人也曾經有親情
最後只剩下責任或斷捨離
十1
婚姻走到最後都會變成親情❤
結婚跟「上船」類似，在船上各種天氣、風浪，各種不易😂
你不上船一樣要面對各種天氣、風浪，各種不易XD
@@MillerCHIANG-io7rd 懂
真的說得好貼切啊！下不了船真的太刺激了！😂🎉❤️⋯⋯
在婚姻。當你要改變對方時就沒有愛 因為你自己愛的是你腦中想像的對方 而不是對方所需要 當你像把對方改變成你腦中的那個他時 就會產生衝突。 當初最愛對方的特質會變成你最恨的特質。 應該是不改變對方。改變自己 讓自己變更好 如果二人無法適應離開。直到接納自己好的一面 壞的一面吧。圓滿自己能付出愛。 有的人從工作找到成長自我。每個人從 人 事 物找自己
結尾很好😂
不問是因為太愛對方，但對於他對自己的愛並沒有信心，害怕事實是她不能承受的，所以寧願安於表面的平靜，這樣日子還能持續下去！但心中的鬼還是會不時跑出來質疑他們的愛，讓他對對方心生怨恨，但其實是恨自己不夠被愛。
我覺得昇華萃取這個說法很棒，表達了我心裡一樣的想法
互動好有趣，婷好美❤
ㄧ直被信任並相信著的美好平凡❤
這集好好笑
我沒辦法忘記那些相依為命的日子，這句話好感動。我能看見婚姻裡有愛
好美的情话
婚姻裡面可以沒有愛情但不能沒有愛，婚姻裡面沒有自由但可以自在
不愧是老師的兒子~
对我而言爱就是接纳一切，爱自己就是接纳自己，爱别人就是让其成为他自己。因此可以推导出，如果有一个至高的存在，那祂就是爱众生的，因为祂让我们可以成为自己。天地不仁？大爱并无私心而已。那“小”爱是什么？是这个世界开给人的药吧，只要还有爱的能力，就没有对抗不了的东西。
最後的人間清醒真的是笑到流淚
😂😂😂你們是兄弟之間的愛情真特別！但是很多人結婚之後愛情會昇華成多1點親情八還是有愛的成分，那就是大家會彼此關心對方的生活彼此出錢出力呀
😂😂😂😂
我跟我先生結婚時接近15年我們兩個人也有很大的變化都一起變胖，我頭髮變短他肚子變大，
有時候他開玩笑說我很像他的兄弟哈哈哈就是比較男孩子的個性😅😊😂😂😂
沒有愛情，剩下親情和責任。
這是什麼希臘女戰神跟耶穌的對談啊，笑死～～
愛是理解自己的過程 ... 懂！ 聽過最到位的愛是什麼❤
好刺激的內容😂😂
婚姻裡面，愛和情趣～～生活情趣～這個我喜歡
在關係裡，溝通好重要，要花時間、花力氣、花心思溝通…願意把自己在別人面前敞開，需要勇氣，等待和耐心～
所以最好的婚姻就是彼此之間最好的朋友，可以好好聊天，可以開得起玩笑增加不管心理上或是身理上的情趣！
但現實社會中，大部分的夫妻很少好好聊天
配上前幾集來聽蠻有感觸的
謝謝！
謝謝你🙏
🥰謝謝你們努力經營這個豐富的園地
笑死。。很喜歡你們的互動～只是英文字幕組有些翻譯不太對：‘）
爱情是什么？ 爱是什么？ 嫁给爱情，最后都会变成对家庭的责任和爱。 爱情中的激情是消纵即逝的。
一边听着你们的聊天 一边做家务 很安心！！像听两个朋友聊天那样
聽過大約進入婚姻的期許，是希望自己在對方需要簽相關急救的同意書時(生病的對方願意被急救的前提下)，自己是有法定資格簽下那份同意書的。
The more clearly you understand yourself and your emotions, the more you become a lover of what is.
很勇敢很坦白呢。
有愛情 只是不願意維繫
一開始一定是有，但柴米油鹽醬醋茶後，再加上不經營，不一起成長的話，那肯定就沒有愛了，這不是很正常
瑪榭真的第一名的內褲！超級舒服！而且真的感覺像在沒穿😍😍
在无我的状态下才会比较容易感受到他人
我聽得懂 聽得懂🤪🤣🤣🤣
婷婷hank～這一集我聽了超過5次了～～很多時候很盡力～但是已經過了一切都來不及了，怎麼辦～～？
愛是什麼～～～？我都覺得我愛別人比愛我自己更多～這樣該怎麼辦～
最後一句是我愛你的意思
婷問「他者」什麼是愛，這本身的行動和願力就是愛了；想去理解別人的心，付諸實行的行動（發問 )和 能觸得到的訪者。 每個訪問對談均是「愛」！這裡每一個留言也均是「愛」！
😢「不」太真實，即使沒有前任女，男女都會變「款」，例如變工作、變不健康、變個性、變經濟好壞、各種人際關係變化⋯
這一集的主題好危險‼️
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11:20 死亡宣言🤣🤣
听下来好像hank比较爱ting欸。ting想象中的爱情纯粹只是一种荷尔蒙分泌而已，是很狭窄定义的。如果都想要跟一个人一直走下去了，那不是爱还是什么呀？
我老公也都覺得我一定是個大器晚成的人，可是我就一直在焦慮著不知道我會成什麼大器😂
老公都不敢跟老婆說實話吧！
Enjoy
在賭裡面😂
男的跟gay不一定平淡啊🤣