Queer Woman Comes Out At 47 To Little Fanfare. “I’m Just Who I Am. And Now I Have A Girlfriend.”

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  • @gramps2matt
    @gramps2matt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This has to be one of the most self affirming, uplifting, comfortable videos in this series yet. You really get the sense anyone would enjoy chatting with Elizabeth and feel like you've known each other your entire life.

  • @janegnoix1359
    @janegnoix1359 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I came out to myself as bisexual at the age 27 in October of last year, I'm still 27.I'm turning 28 in August. I came out to 11 important people in my life and i feel pretty dam good about it.Thank you Elizabeth for sharing your story.

  • @sarahmccoy1941
    @sarahmccoy1941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Self discovery. Sometimes it comes early in life and sometimes it comes later.
    The process is often slowed down by family and friends.
    But finding out who we are and where we fit is essential, if we are going to be happy.

  • @mikomiko762
    @mikomiko762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Finaly, finaly i found uplifting video. Just mentaly healthy gay women talking about her self. No drama, no overthinking analyses . Thank you.

  • @VickyGeagan
    @VickyGeagan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am of Elizabeth's generation. I can really relate. I came out as an older person to. I am now being myself and it just feels so right. I just need to meet Mr. right.

  • @TerrangirlSketo
    @TerrangirlSketo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh this feels so relatable. I realized I am gay just 6 months ago, when I fell in love with a woman, and I am 52.

  • @newavatar2947
    @newavatar2947 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Coming out as bi each and every day becoming more visible.Im a 45 year old man.There is no turning back now.

  • @chokinonashes61
    @chokinonashes61 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For me, it's the person who I find attractive, whether it's a woman or a man.
    I brought up my daughters in the same way, both of them have same sex relationships, but my youngest, who is 18, just going to university, identifies as bisexual, while my eldest has a long-term boyfriend.

  • @bodoorgeest
    @bodoorgeest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She is dropdead gorgeous..

  • @marquamfurniture
    @marquamfurniture 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    So cute!! (And oh, those dimples!)

  • @kendurrant5595
    @kendurrant5595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You and I have led the same lives. I was married very young and fell pregnant. While raising my son I lost all interest in sex with my husband. I also had this feeling about other females. After I divorced I met a beautiful woman. I realized I was sexually attracted to her.We are now in a heavenly relationship. Thanks for the video, all my love, Kate xxxxx

  • @staceyriegelhaupt2564
    @staceyriegelhaupt2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this video it makes me hopeful for myself.

  • @girlinterrupted2625
    @girlinterrupted2625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve been married for almost 20 yrs and have had some sexual relationships with women and 2 that felt like they could have been more. I was never brave enough to fully let go of my husband. I’m comfortable in the fact that he’s always here. It’s weird because he’s always known I like women but he won’t throw me away.🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @AliceP.
    @AliceP. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's such an amazing story to listen to. My own story couldn't be more different than hers, 'cause I'm 28 and I kind of always knew about my sexuality, 'been having relationships with women throughout my teens, but what I liked is how she was open to the possibilities, faced her own doubts and fears... Downloaded the app, went to the date, kissed the girl... Me, at 28, fully aware of what I like, still get caught up sometimes on such ridiculous things and end up not doing what I want.

  • @livabak5106
    @livabak5106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    im an 11 year old lesbian don't say its a phase bc its not it has been here for 3 years now

  • @Mishy82193
    @Mishy82193 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 29 and my gf is 40. We're our first time gf's lol. Both figuring out together & enjoying and learning every bit of it. There's alot of support then there's the people who are family that are probably the most confused because we decided to come out so late in our lives so we must not be legit this is just feelings and it will pass. It's been tough but we love each other very much and want to be together

  • @steevoridgeline
    @steevoridgeline ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i had to listen it again ❤☀

  • @rc5chi539
    @rc5chi539 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's kind of funny that you just described how every man/woman has felt with the nervousness and realization that hey, I think I'm really attracted to someone ( of the same sex) you know is off limits and " maybe" this is more than just a coincidence and is it possible I might be, OMG Gay?.

  • @johnfigula
    @johnfigula 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came out to myself at 61,so content about it. I don't have the courage to come out to my wife or family members. I do regret I never told my mother before she passed away

  • @sunshine1287
    @sunshine1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for posting. I really enjoyed hearing your story. I can relate in a lot of ways.

  • @nohemipalafox3201
    @nohemipalafox3201 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The story of my life!!!

  • @beratberat1917
    @beratberat1917 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What a cute woman :)))

  • @donna9489
    @donna9489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bravo to you! 👏

  • @hiimain7932
    @hiimain7932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is it just me?? I find her cute and those dimples. 🥰

  • @louisedewit6047
    @louisedewit6047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am 44 and also come out this year.I was married 2 with men but never worked out.

  • @carschmn
    @carschmn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol the chamber of commerce is an interesting place to meet people.

    • @greenmue
      @greenmue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      carschmn Right?! What was I thinking. 🤣

    • @katerineella274
      @katerineella274 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was planning something like this...

  • @mariatolis4529
    @mariatolis4529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You for sharing. I came out at 24 in 2004 I had boyfriend who happened to be gay. I’m now 41.

  • @denniskaaihue3560
    @denniskaaihue3560 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing.. time is no one friend...every moment is life... every thing we do in time and life is our purpose.... happy moments, happy times , happy me FREEDOM!!!!!

  • @steevoridgeline
    @steevoridgeline ปีที่แล้ว

    wow ! What a beautiful statement ! i feel connected to that story like... i'm shocked almost 😄 speaks a lot about myself to myself right now... 🤷🏻‍♂ thanks to this channel! i subscribed! superbe concept that i was hoping to find ! ❤❤

  • @balticstain7150
    @balticstain7150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hiya iam enjoying your story it's so lovely to hear . I actually came out very late as crossdresser iam 60years old married 32years i have a daughter 24 . We both come from church upbringing's which my crossdressing even harder because my wife won't except it because of her spiritual beliefs...

  • @MarvBear
    @MarvBear 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are beautiful!

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think she may be bisexual.

  • @excxmoody
    @excxmoody 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Makes no sense I can come out in early high school yet years later I lose my parental rights for no good enough reason. These videos have helped a lot since that happening.

    • @ciobalina7445
      @ciobalina7445 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry that happened. Did you lose your parental rights because you’re gay?

  • @mustie3682
    @mustie3682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

  • @bean1077
    @bean1077 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just airing my thoughts, I'm not judgmental but actually struggling myself...
    First one... What if Christianity is real and this is Satan's way of leading you down the wrong path? Away from what God wanted?
    Second one:what if being gay is natures way of controlling childbirth numbers?
    Third one: what if sticking to and reading the bible does help you combat feelings toward the same sex?
    Just thinking of different things, don't mean offense by it (I'm also autistic so trying to understand things)

  • @balticstain7150
    @balticstain7150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hiya i love your story just beautiful. 💖

  • @TRANSMETALGIRL
    @TRANSMETALGIRL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I going to come out as well because I do not identify with any of those labels and never been married to the opposite or same sex but I`m not asexual,bisexual or pansexual let alone(not) gay or straight and I have accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour and I`m a Gnostic Christian but I just don`t care for those identities myself because they are not of me and my identity is in Christ/God/Holy Spirit alone and I like being who I`m and if I find someone who feels the same way regardless of sex/gender of that individual then I will find some interest in that person and hopefully hook up but nothing in this world is guaranteed when seeking love and relationships but relationship with Father/Son/Holy Spirit is and that goes way beyond the human romantic and sexual variety but is totally Divine,Transcendent, and Spiritual! But what I`m saying is this that you can be proud and to be free to be who you are and let me do the same as well because I could careless and Thank you!

  • @brucegruben140
    @brucegruben140 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s not cute it destroys families. Your husband is on top of the world right now.You made a commitment and blew it now u might change again.