I Spent $80,000 On My Prison Husband | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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WHEN Arrogrance spotted Zyion at a barbecue, she was smitten. Recalling the story to Love Don't Judge, she explained: "I was like, 'Who is that chocolate drop? I need him, I'm going to get him.'" And that's exactly what she did. The pair fell in love and married, but throughout their relationship, Zyion had spent time behind bars. He said: "By the time I'm done with this ankle bracelet, I've given the adult prison system 10 years of my life." During his most recent stint behind bars, Arrogrance doted on her man, spending over $80,000 on new clothes, cologne and lobster dinners. Documenting her life as a prison wife online, she encountered lots of negativity. Arrogrance admitted: "Social media is crazy. We have seen a lot of judgement. Basically, what do I get out of holding me down in prison? This guy said I was glorifying prison." While Zyion was in jail, the couple were allowed conjugal visits, which led to them conceiving their baby, who is due in a few months. With Zyion now out of prison, the couple are looking forward to the future, but Arrogrance's sister, Dorothy, still has reservations. Speaking about Zyion, Dorothy said: "I'm just going to ask him, what are you going to do for my sister? Is he going to take care of this kid? Is he going to be there for her? I think he's using her." Ignoring the judgement, Arrogrance concluded: "I just want to let people know, don't listen to outsiders. If you're happy, you're happy."
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5 years together and he doesn't know her age crazy 😢
Nope ,but I'm sure he knows how much is in her account 🤦🏽♀️🤣
Wow that’s crazy 5 yrs
Loll
Cause he don’t gaf and the fact that she sat there like it was nothing 😂
He was in prison for 4 years.
This is not a flex sis…not when you have 4 kids to support.
I was wondering if she had kids
Maybe she can afford it brah
Ikr
@@2011sliverdude😂4 kids and she's not a millionaire, she def doesn't have time for the foolery
Flex?
Bragging about spending $80,000 on a Black man while he’s incarcerated is not a flex as a Black woman. My GOD.
Better than spending it on BBL’s and grown children. At least she knows how to treat a man brokie
I spend my money on anything, except a criminal.
😢😢😢
@MalcolmLittle-pw9dz so promote hobosexual culture??? Lol . Y'all wild
@@MalcolmLittle-pw9dzhow about do neither. No bbl or prisoners 🙄
She spend $80,000 for a man she could’ve put that money towards her retirement.
Or her kids
Sadly with their influence on her kids, it's unlikely she'd need that 80k for any college funds.
What you said 💯. She also could have invested in stocks, mutual funds and a 529 college savings account for her children.
@@mrs.h2725 She graduated college so why would u assume her kids wouldn't go to college?
@@mrs.h2725 highly doubt hat though. Children don’t always “follow” their parents footsteps.
For example, I grew up middle class, both of my parents served in the military, never lived in low income housing/projects, etc and my brother still turned out to be a knucklehead. And my parents are still together!
He's fully checked out. He just there. Body language speaks volumes.
No, he's comfortable. He knows other woman are going to be taking care of him in his frequent jail visits. He probably has side chicks but he is never leaving her
@@thewrongshoesAs long as she keeps flipping the bill for this lousy LOSER!!! 🤦🙄
Oh, he would. For the next highest bider. Lol@@thewrongshoes
DOES!
He won't move on unless he finds a bigger dummy.
Are you kidding me? That’s her real name? 🤦🏼♀️
If they did she should change it.
I totally agree 🫤
It's right up there with "Tragedeigh" 😅
She should change her name...her parents stupid
Shes black...so i believe it 🤷🏾♂️
He found himself the perfect dummy
Perfect
Her mother set her up with that name 🤣🤣 that's just crazy
Word is that they're naming their twins Conceit and Insolence 😂
More like naive & gullible
Are you kidding me😀 seems like a whole family of felons🤔
Lmao
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She’s not glorifying prison she’s glorifying stupidity 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
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Lol
💯
I’d rather be single.
She’s single too. Unfortunately she just doesn’t realize it.
Exactly
@@addicted2love57And a foolish woman 🤦🙄
Being singles not that bad, plus a good portion of the 💸 you make will go towards you and your needs and wants 🙂
Lmao
“Caught another charge” … like it was a cold
😂
Hahahaha
😅😂😂😂
That's how jail birds talk.
I catch that 2😂
She spent 80,000!!!! Could have invested in her children's future
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She certainly didn't earn the 80k as a supermodel😂
@@billsmith281corny
@@billsmith281What does that have to do with her being financially stable? She's not an ugly woman and she never gave the vibe that she thought she was all that. I wish I could see a picture of ole Bill😒
He picked her because she was spending the most money on him. Her family can see thru the nonsense.
He seems more proud of his rap sheet than his relationship.
He doesn't have to put in any effort and gets all the benefits no wonder why.
That’s how they all are
Her Mother Should be Ashamed of her self,Naming her Child that😢😢😢
Shame on the one who registered it cos they're supposed to know what they're fricking doing
@@vero9348In the US, there aren’t any restrictions in most states…
EXACTLY!!
Lmao !
Should’ve named her ignorant lol
They seem so proud of prison stories. 😂
It’s sickening
They really 😭. I'm gonna need WeTV to call all of them and cast them on the "Life After Lockup" and all those series 🌚😩.
This is just so disappointing. From her name. To him being proud of conceiving his child within a prison. To him being instititnalized and not knowing it. I feel bad for the life of the child.
Damn. I don’t even have 800 dollars to my name, much less 80k!!
McDonald's hiring
😂😂😂
Baby know your worth! He did the crime - you should have moved on and not paid a dime!
Bars!!!🔥🔥Truth!!
He didn’t even know how old she was
😂😂😂
This is sad. She could’ve been investing that 80,000 and seeing a return on her money. Instead she wasted it on this man who doesn’t seem invested. Sad.
Shes not arrogant enough to stay away from the tomfoorey 😢😢😢
Nawl BUMfoorey
😂🤣
Everything about this, even their names, is just sad 😭
Dumb
Exactly 💯
Literally broke my ankle 🏃♀️ to the comments
Bro was the commissary king
He hit the jackpot 😂
Who hurt you baby? Who hurt you? You are worth love by someone who’s not in and out of prison and taking care of a man
Her parents hurt her by calling her arrogance
She needs a new name to come out of the foolishness.
@@laurab1105 yep
Sad, how people feel and think To each is own..
He needs to grow up, stay out of crime and prison and support his wife and family……but I doubt any of that will happen.
Ikr cause he's used to her giving him money i see low self esteem on her part and down low user on his part ! 🤔
@@pambeam6555 Just look at the stuff they glorify.....
Responsibility is the black man’s kryptonite
Foreal 😒
Being a pick me woman comes with consequences.
She will be supporting him for the rest of his life.
She clearly doesn’t mind that.
She also seems very happy, very nonchalantly talking about how he is in and out of prison.
You’re doing great girl! 😂 do you!
The kids have a great example to look up to.
Why would anyone name their kid arrogance…..😮
I get the impression her mother heard the word and didn't know what it meant and just thought ìt sounded nice.
Like most of em@@missys.3038
That baby was conceived in prison that’s wild lmao how did you figure that was a good time to have a child with him? Girl…
Yup and the communities that live this lifestyle NEVER consider the kids. Everything revolves around them and their delusion. Like when I was born it made sense to have kids with someone who sells women's bodies and drugs. Even now that I'm grown the lifestyle don't make no damn sense to me 🙄🤦 I ran away so fast from that "subculture" as they like to call it
She seems Desperate for a man ! 🤔
Sigh! 🤦🏾 Some women just do too much. She is the masculine and he is the feminine. Let’s hope the times will reverse. She can’t be his Mama forever.
He will leave her.
It doesn't mean she is masculine and feminine, so many women have been lied to about that. Many women love doing acts of service in their feminity much like nurses "who takes care of". Men and women are supposed to provide for each other but in THIS situation no, they are not equally yoked
feminine doesnt mean being a criminal bum .stop insulting us
It would be more of a celebration if this was 3 years after he was released and talked about their progress. So many prison relationships work out because there is nothing else to do. After released, they are put to the test. Are you really committed? Will you work at turning your life around? How supportive are you at home? Does he really appreciate her holding him down or does he now resent it? Time reveals all. All the best to them though
This is so embarrassing, women like this make us look really bad!
My cousin in the same situation, except he's the one in prison for trying to kill someone , and his new girl been working 2 jobs to lower his prison sentence, she's wasting her time but to each there own .
@@SamSlugg456 who ?
They can do what they want, but this is ridiculous.
He found a female simp that is insecure, and he knows it.
Wow.. her name… 👀💀 her parents must have thought a lot of her when she was born.
😂and it turned out to be a lot of nothing
@@sesethuntaphane3933Well,she worked and went to college the same time and someone mentioned she has a cake business so I'm sure she's doing better than u! She can't help what her mom named her. Even with having that name, sis is still taking care of business. I don't agree with giving her man all that money but dissing her and saying she's nothing is wrong!
@tonitwitty9529 you clearly have emotional issues. I would advise you to seek sick counseling. It's not about her financial position or success. It's about her lame stupid decisions. Based on your comment, you clearly also struggle with some inferior complex. Yep, I diagnosed you without ever meeting. Go make money for yourself so that you may stop thinking everyone is struggling financially. Peace be upon you honeeyy
Should've named her stupid or fool or desperate maybe even wasteful and middle name should be Ignorant.
And then the sister to Dorthy???? Tf!!
The mom really said imma name my kid arrogance. Haha she real emotional 😅😂
The sisters are a year apart but look identical!
Where do these people make the money!? Same with all the plastic surgeries… what do they do for a living?
SCAM
She's got kids too. Insane
Drugs
This man can’t even obey the law and she really thinks he is going to obey marriage vows ? The jokes write themselves 🙃
It's baffling to me how a woman will spend money on a man in prison but wouldn't do the same for an every day hard working man who is free on the outside. I have heard this story many times.
They need to stop doing that because those guys don’t care about you been there done that and it’s sad you hold them down but when they get out they act like you don’t exist and it’s a waste of time keep your money girls don’t do it I’m telling you they don’t care
Many have dated regular guys too. They will take whoever gives them attention. I work with a woman who was dated all kinds of guys. She just wants the attention.
I am against spending money on a m a n free/locked up. Men should give and women 'receive.'
I mean was there something about this situation which said healthy?
I agree with you madboyreadynow28.
Good for them but let’s not make this a normal ladies! Set the standards higher!
@@SamSlugg456 the bar is set in hell for this lady
Nothing good about this.
He's not going to leave.. he's being KEPT and token care of. She should do better..but to each is own..
Cruel and unusual giving her that name🤦🏾♀️
All shes doing is financially supporting him and enabling his bad behaviors!!
Hes gonna have a trash job, cant buy or possess firearms, wont be able to rent a decent apt (without her)....she really can pick em 😂
That's old school thinking there are plenty of felons that have come out and have wonderful jobs and gotnthe firearms back
I had to click just because of her name 🤦🏽♀️
That name has me tight
Arrogance n Dorothy tf lol
I love her sister!! She should have traveled with her sister and found a man that can support himself. To each her own!
She's a giver he's a taker... There perfect for each other
Red flag "meet him at a bbq" she was the chaser never ends well. Good luck girl #Healingfromwithiniskey
It’s a weird world we live in. Just like how people deform their bodies to look like aliens. This is no different. Some people just love ‘struggle love’
This is embarrassing for a man to constantly b in and out of jail and they both glorifying it ,and the women look like she can b his mama
Dude got a boyfriend in there or on the low idk what dude want keep going back to that place
Right
Her sister seems like a great person to have in your corner, protective as hell. &, as for the couple…I got zero judgments. Love is love. & struggle has a way of strengthening a bond-forged in fire, as they say. I think they’re perfect for one another (not that my opinion matters, but I couldn’t help being at variance with all the negativity in this comment section). & they’re sharing their love with us…so why not give some back? I wish them all the happiness & success in the world. ♡
You're very pretty
@@Link_Skywalker007 Thank you very much :’)
Love your YT handle, by the way-Zelda (at least I’m assuming Link is a LoZ reference), Star Wars & Bond…a trifecta of some of the very best series in existence!
He’s proud of being in prison
Probably had a boyfriend there ! 🤔
@@pambeam6555more like a gf
Yeah but adding a kid to the situation is sad
I got my teeth knocked out men like that is not for me
I am happy you get out of that situation 💗
They will definitely hit you
Not smart at all... That money could of went on something better, she could of spent that on her kids or herself. She is his mother... when you pay for a man you never win.
Dang what kind of job she have to spend that kind of money lawddd lolololol
She probably used credit cards lol
Taxes, credit cards and other 😊
She actually has a cake business.
Did u hear her say she works and went to college? That's how ppl make money. A lot of comments are surprised about her having money and I think they think all black ppl are poor
@@tonitwitty9529 listen I work and have several degrees and cnt even buy a man that kind of stuff lolol but I think it’s beautiful that a woman can show appreciation to her man but oweee 80k tho lawddd must be nice lolol
Kid gonna be named Abromination
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I wish I could meet somebody that would love me in the way she loves him!!! That’s so amazing and she is so giving!!!
Well, this guy is very lucky. Hope he is able to find a career and go straight.
Straight is not an option behind bars
@@channel08He's obviously a shameless LOSER!!! 🙄 and she's a fool!! 🤦
I ain’t see no chemistry between them 😢
“Fresh outta prison, didn’t know what an emoji was”
He got cologne she got bath and body works.. and a sweater with a man with his mouth wide open and she got a comforter set of the struggle wedding day.. yea im hating real bad
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This is so sad 😭
I would not date a person in jail .
Her name is Dorothy…HER NAME IS ARROGANCE! 😅😅😅
You name your kid like her parents named her.what do you expect is gonna happen?🤦🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
I try not to judge these story but…man.
He doesn’t know your age.
He’s with you and then gets incarcerated again all while you’re taking care of your children, school and working. You buy him all these outfits and cologne. Paying for phone calls. Driving to the prison which is time consuming and costly (gas).
And then he really makes sure to secured his spot by getting you pregnant. In this video all I see is her giving giving giving. Him taking, taking and taking. And calling it “we are a team”.
She thinks it’s cute being a prison wife. And thinks he sister is jealous. She’s just thinking with her head. So… what is he bringing tot he table and giving to her? Thats what I want to see her talk about.
SMH this is what happens when you place looks and good bedroom tricks before everything else.
Looks where?! Lmao
@@erinnicole477🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@erinnicole477Agree 💯 he's a minus D" 🤣😂 "Cellblock D!!!"
He doesn't have to step up because she makes it easy for him. A man who doesn't provide is absolutely NOT ATTRACTIVE in my book
Why does he keep getting in trouble? Like dude!
He ghey!!!
Sister is Dorothy but a year later comes arrogance lol
He’ll be gone within a year of the baby being born
I just want so much more for us 🤦🏿♀️
He going with the flow it's written all over his face.
But......why? There are so many men out there who aren't in prison?
Women love bad boys nice guys usually finish last
@@zziz6137 more like they know that person will not leave them because of all the money she spent on him she knows he will owe her if he left
@@2000firegirl there is no guarantee that someone won't leave no matter how much you spend, if they don't leave they still can be cheating
He has a boyfriend in jail that he needs to share his time with😢
Damn this is too sad
He is the type that would not change. She gonna be stuck raising that baby and the rest of her kids by herself. He is going back to jail. This is crazy.😅
Who names their kid "Arrogant"?
"Hi I'm Arrogant!"
He has a man in there because he seems to like prison because he keeps going back...thats messed up he doesnt care that he is leaving everything on her
I mean, what can you expect ? She's proud. And that's why he'll always afford to mess up because she can afford it. keep overdrafting your precious life, girl . Kudos to you, sis😂
Why would he let her spend that much on him!? If she has kids too , I’d be like save it for us when we he gets out .. and I’m so confused with her name 😅
and 80.000 where what and HOW?? he held you back sweetheart!! sorry and he don’t love himself because i would of told her to hold that money until we get out so we can really enjoy it!! cause what the hell you doing with it in jail except getting fat off commissary
His body language says it all for me
Her name speaks volume, and I’m not surprised by her decisions
He’s definitely using her. I hope she gets to walk away with her life. And he looks like he despises her sister. The desperation is unsettling.
That dude is beyond irritated with his sister in law. He didn’t look her way not once.
Why u men love going back and forth a prison so. I hope he love you and not for the money.
It's probably all knows. No one showed him anything else probably
I REALLY HOPE YOU PUT MORE THAN 80K towards YOUR KIDS EDUCATION!
And with all the colognes she got him and getting him out of prison he still gonna cheat on her
Between her name and her spending 80,000 dollars on this dude I'm all the way stressed out
He knows he got him a fool. She will be supporting/spending him for the rest of his life.
Her kids better have a trust fund 😂
Wtf? Ppl r geting stupid everyday