but they are strong and independent...because they have to be. They probably made choices, chose the wrong people in their lives and now they have to operate that way. That's not a badge of honor...it's a pat on the back for TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY and taking care of their responsibilities.
It's about time that we as a collective group of women truly embrace our femininity and leave all negative attitudes at the door. The bad demeanors are really turning our men away from us.
@@uriandropov8039 We’re not every woman, so plenty are not “paying.”I wish a mayo would. But brother and I am assuming you are, what about the “brothers” that get rich 🤑 and y’all been BUYING Becky, Maria, and even an old Karen, Sue li, etc. etc. and minimum you all will have is a biracial person. Katt Williams spoke about the “funny looking” ones, he knows it and I know y’all do. Now that’s the truth and you all are projecting. It’s so many of you all that’s doing it that I don’t even have room to write out all the very famous names in the music and arts industry, football, basketball ball. That’s how you get all these biracials on the basketball team. RIGHT STEPH CURRY? Right NOW, even you all trying to talk Travis Hunter out of not being a “Simp” and getting with someone that absolutely DOES NOT love or care for him. But where is this talented young man getting his example from? Riiiiight, you OLD ninjas. Projection is real. So before you all say a Black woman is paying for mayo, you better look in the mirror. Cause you paying more. Way more. If you don’t get that, Oh well. ( And for a side note there’s nothing wrong with biracial people, but I had to bring that up because Black men often choose them for the wrong reason and many times they don’t deserve the mistreatment they sometimes receive from these same colorist Black men.” And furthermore I don’t know many Black American families that don’t have Biracial people somewhere in their lineage, including myself.
She told him right!!! Except for claiming to be "a white woman". It wasn't necessary! She could have and should have said the same thing as "a black woman" and let him know he misunderstood the memo regarding "the independent black woman".
No! No! No! Don't try to turn it around and make it some kind of deficiency in black women. Black women, keep on being who you are, the way you are, and don't change to try and fit someone else's narrative or what they think of you.
You are not entitled to a woman's number just because she's black..if you are not her type, there are literally millions of other women whose type you are. Get over yourself bro.
That doesn’t make her a divester. If that was true she probably would have taken him up on his offer. Btw she was using sarcasm because she peeked his leeching lingo. Let’s call a spade a spade.
No he basically said I don't want a gold digger in a round about way, she daid sorry I'm a gold digger in a round about way, then the interaction ended.
This is where I have to disagree with the TH-camr. White women were the ones who started strong and independent through FEMINISM. They were fighting during the Civil Rights Era to be strong and independent while the black women were fighting to be seen as human with rights along with the black men. Now today white women are still feminist and their men have never stopped taking care of them nor keep making videos calling their women out on their Feminist behavior. Yet in the black community black women never started this movement but SOME have said they are strong and independent. Yet they are the poster board for everyone to blame them for what they have said while letting white women slide for saying and actually being strong and independent. Yet no one talks about the white women in a negative light. So please stop taking about black women being strong and independent. Many of us never said it nor did we start it. Yet we all are lumped as being that way.
I told my daughter it’s best to be a strong independent black women. Especially when there are to many broke men out here who can barely read above a ninth grade level. 🤷🏽♂️
I totally get what you're saying because a husband is not promised to any of us. But please also tell them when the right man comes along, let him lead and her be submissive. The Bible speaks plain about the woman being the weaker vessel and also tells us our role❤.
Ying and Yang! Be soft when you need to, but be hard when you have to! It's A balancing act, one must master, in order to traverse through life! You can be both things at once, and do away with, at any time!
We need our strong black men! Black men, we love you and appreciate you. I see your struggles on a daily basis as I have two young black sons. Everyone in agreement gather here 👍🏾❤!
@uncannytheos2454 No, I think she checked him. She let him know that just because women are different, it doesn't mean that they are really that different!!!
Young lady, you make your Elder proud. I love how you handled that! We're ladies and friends deserve to be taken care of. We must not forget our Biblical submissive roles. Our men NEED our support, especially when he is a good man❤!
You nailed it! We as black women really need to evaluate how we come to our relationships with men. It can’t be all about me me and me. Relationships are partnerships. We need to learn to be positive functioning partners with our mates.
@@ImaniBelle-tu5nu My comments were directed to black women exclusively…not black men. We as women need to stop projecting when things are being addressed solely towards us. The example being my comment and your reaction via your response.
The Independent mantras for black women is hurtful. This idea makes them poor partners because women raised without a present father figure develop a sense of independence due to the perceived abandonment from their father. This abandonment issue is not healed because you chose to date white men.
Easy pickings for Brad. Brad seen a Black woman over the age of 25 with no wedding ring and knew off top if no one wifed her up it was because of her bad attitude. Brad knows most Black and African women worship him and have no standards and will tolerate the bare minimum when it comes to him.
Soooooo, basically Strong, Independent, Self-sufficient = Less financial and emotional responsibility …..The woman was using her critical thinking skills and reading beyond the surface level of the words he used and looking at the motivation behind what he said….. critical thinking is important NOTE: Never live your life cognizant of how others “perceive” you! Other perception of you WILL NEVER MATTER!
He thought if he said that, she would have been in agreement, but it backfired, but he going to find another one easy, its alot of black women that worship YT guys
Weird time period this why it's very important as black man to be in the household. The reason why I say that I never hear any other groups of women talking this divesting bullshit. You don't hear Native American women talking like that or Latinos. This why it's very important for the black man to be in the household teaching black history. The younger generation overall don't understand what it takes to be black in America. They don't understand the obstacles you gotta overcome and how strong you gotta be. How hard life is being black and alot of has to do with us as community sending out kids to public schools and allowing tye schools to take black history out of the mix but we gotta learn European history . Our community has become so water down and whitewash its such ashamed . Social media and technology has suck the community dry. Its like we are black but wanna be white and I really started paying attention to this around 2010 when black men started dressing like white boys. That was the start of the social media era. Back in the early 2000s I never heard the term divesting from a black woman. And to be honest it was a rear you seen them with some white dude in my high school or on the block let's keep 100% . Now you could say brothas started this bullshit but they wasn't going all in on Becky like that. Please don't get me started with the younger brothas in today's generation of blacks and the white girl. At some point we as community gotta hit the reset button on this bullshit word up.
The problem is that our people accepted Liberalism and Democrats. They have destroyed everything we have built through deceitful methods. Thats why your seeing what your seeing. They have introduced all the behaviors your saying all while others benefits from our struggles. Our dumb ass people don't see this for some reasons
You make a lot of valid points mate. Social media and the advancement of technology have deeply inhibited the cultural understanding of Blackness. The younger generation truly wants to believe in sameness and color blindness, but Becky and Brad are always going to be Becky and Brad. As they get older, they revert to their racial roots, while our black youngins (now older) end up confused, disillusioned, and dejected. It's not an easy road, as the great Uncle Bob sang. Also, I understand people express themselves in certain ways, but to me, using profanity in certain topics detracts from the key points. Happy new year to all.
@jagbrit3723 You are right about the profanity I tried to work on it but I slipped up . Maybe because at times I get so angry with my people. It seems like a slap in the face to the people that came before us basically . These people would tie brothas up to back of the car and drag them to death in the state of Mississippi for looking at a white woman in the 50s. And it's like none of that stuff never happened. Emmitt Till never happened this the part I don't understand about black people in 2024. But then they have the nerve to come at Latinos and Caribbeans over the hip-hop argument. Never hold the white man accountable for anything that's been done in this country.
they normally don't approach us like that in person that would have been a red flag for me either way i stay in my group though but let our sisters see how the world views us ....that's why i never scream im strong and independent im a feminine woman just like anyone else
Omg!!! Our Sister was trying to hold her frustration but the frustration broke through towards the end… 😔😞 I’m so sorry Sis. By the way I really don’t understand the whole Women being masculine, it’s absolutely ridiculous. I’m glad this didn’t work out tho, 👊🏾🫅🏾🦁🫅🏾🦁🇳🇬🇺🇸
In times past we were never allowed to be soft. Please, remember how we were left alone, for a variety of causes all socially engineered, to fend for ourselves in a world hostile as heck to us. We HAD to be strong and independent in order to somehow survive. Our community is slowly changing and with this women in our community may begin to soften as we're afforded care, love, safety and protection. 🙏🏿
I think she read this wrong. She put his issues on the shoulders of Black women - innocent Black women living their lives. This host placed that man's perceptions of us, stereotypes on us. Sad.
It is not our responsibility to convince people with backwards thinking of anything. Everyone wants to talk that "not by the color of your skin but by the content of you character" but don't want to actually walk the walk and it's mind boggling how you don't see that you're contributing to that wayward thinking by VALIDATING it. There is not valid about assuming the behavior of someone simply because of their phenotype. That's just as silly as making assumptions based on someone's eye color. It doesn't make any sense. Stop playing into that mess and encouraging others to do the same. That is THEIR problem, let's stop making it ours.
I disagree with the commentary. As a matter of fact, I need to stop watching this channel as I am growing out of it, but as a Black woman, I find myself being forced to be “independent,” “strong,” etc., not because I want to, but because I am forced to be. I am not boastful of this, but it is as if society doesn’t help Black women, and you don’t get to be feminine. Also, a lot of men take advantage of you with that softness that you speak of, so I completely disagree because that’s my experience.
If you get with him or date him you're own your own he will make your own life a living hell forever day and night and doesn't have anyone to blame but your self you putted your self there in that situation position or that jam you can't get out of.
Yes, she lost me at the chit chat. I don’t think she told him all that 💩 to his face, if at all. She would’ve got punched in the face. THEY don’t go to jail for assaulting sisters.
Yall better wake up, Too many times Brad already stated why he dealing with yall but he dont respect you having a hatred as divestors for your group, including the men..Most Brads deal with African women
I dont understand because it exactly what she said. She is not claiming strong and independent. There are some black women who are and its okay for thrm to be., but it's insulting to think all bw are like thar
People are blurring the lines of being Independent. It doesn't mean you don't want a man you just dont need a man. Codependency is unhealthy. Everybody should be independent so they can be good partners.
Unhealthy independence will lead to isolation. Over-reliance on self can result in social withdrawal and a lack of support networks, which are crucial for emotional well-being. Please explain the drawbacks of "codependency."
He was trying to mock and use her..
You're delusional
Those people are sneaky. They won't love you genuinely they are fixed on their fetishes.
That's the standard for white men and black women relatishiops😂😂😂. Keshia must pay for Brad, like Serena williams.
But like 98% of them fall for that crap.
Basically!
We also need to be taken care off👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Go into a comma, and then you would get taken care of.
Yall need to take care of yall ph hygiene 🤣🤣🤣🧬☣️🧫
You already know what he wanted. They've been doing that to b/w for years. Time to wake up!
Wait, all those degrees y'all got and are getting can't get any of you a job?
Proud of You Sis. Don’t allow Him to use You.
@@daphnesmith1764 huh??
A real black woman does not desire E L A P men anyways.
She's not even supposed to date them!!!
Stay away from them
And him if you are smart.
Just proved that they are well aware and watching these so calling strong and independent strong woman.
yep, wyte guys figured them out a long time ago.
but they are strong and independent...because they have to be. They probably made choices, chose the wrong people in their lives and now they have to operate that way. That's not a badge of honor...it's a pat on the back for TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY and taking care of their responsibilities.
@@soulanstreets222 being strong & independent is also an indicator of the inability to maintain healthy relationships with men.
They built they type through manipulation
Yep.....they know that, for them, Black women are an easy lick AND they don't have to be top of the line.
It's about time that we as a collective group of women truly embrace our femininity and leave all negative attitudes at the door. The bad demeanors are really turning our men away from us.
good luck with that one.
It's never going to happen. Popular culture always associates with the Black Community. Traditional values are frowned upon.
@@alexandrialegette5114 VERY TRUE!!
I bet you typed this with a Obama phone
@@alexandrialegette5114 ✨💎✨🙌🏾✨💎✨ You better say it! 🎊🎉🍾🏝️
Good for her, Respect ❤.
I live in Miami. These divestors are paying for Brad. In the end, they will never be Mrs. Cartwright.
Exactly.Brad is not marrying them in droves.Although they're paying for him. So many women put the D in desperate.Smh
There are lots of Carribbean women in Florida....the FBA community is not like that, lol😅
True
@@uriandropov8039 We’re not every woman, so plenty are not “paying.”I wish a mayo would. But brother and I am assuming you are, what about the “brothers” that get rich 🤑 and y’all been BUYING Becky, Maria, and even an old Karen, Sue li, etc. etc. and minimum you all will have is a biracial person. Katt Williams spoke about the “funny looking” ones, he knows it and I know y’all do. Now that’s the truth and you all are projecting. It’s so many of you all that’s doing it that I don’t even have room to write out all the very famous names in the music and arts industry, football, basketball ball. That’s how you get all these biracials on the basketball team. RIGHT STEPH CURRY? Right NOW, even you all trying to talk Travis Hunter out of not being a “Simp” and getting with someone that absolutely DOES NOT love or care for him. But where is this talented young man getting his example from? Riiiiight, you OLD ninjas. Projection is real. So before you all say a Black woman is paying for mayo, you better look in the mirror. Cause you paying more. Way more. If you don’t get that, Oh well. ( And for a side note there’s nothing wrong with biracial people, but I had to bring that up because Black men often choose them for the wrong reason and many times they don’t deserve the mistreatment they sometimes receive from these same colorist Black men.” And furthermore I don’t know many Black American families that don’t have Biracial people somewhere in their lineage, including myself.
😂😂😂😂
Don't talk to strangers of any kind!
🤔
@IAmAlmightyGod True! I Agree not talking to strangers
Great job sis, stay with your brothers
We don't want her 😂
Most these divestors are paying for Brads lifestyles
And they get triggered when they see a Black man with a Non Black woman!
100 percent true.
I know a BW who had a semi
Homeless scoundrel handle her business affairs....he robbed her
Ain't this the truth and that's just pathetic
💯💯
She kept it 💯.
No she didn't she's just capping
@@philvalantine8853proof?
Don't date him. He will drain you ❤.
Or unalive
She told him right!!! Except for claiming to be "a white woman". It wasn't necessary! She could have and should have said the same thing as "a black woman" and let him know he misunderstood the memo regarding "the independent black woman".
Nailed it. Softness and interdependence is not exclusive to Becky.
Agreed 💯
Respect for, and to this Sister that is in this dialogue, and thank you Miss Demetra Kaye for your commentary as well 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
No! No! No!
Don't try to turn it around and make it some kind of deficiency in black women. Black women, keep on being who you are, the way you are, and don't change to try and fit someone else's narrative or what they think of you.
ABSOLUTELY 💯 💯 💯 I guess he thought we were pushovers? He doesn't know us at all😂😂😂😂
No he know it's just easy.
GOOD!
I have never been strong and Independent!
You probably are you just don't realize it.
@@reviewlady2897 💎🙌🏾💎That’s a good thing. God didn’t create strong & independent. Wypipo created that mess.
That's because you've probably been ran through by the "Pookies and Ray Ray's"
A divester like this would not even give a brother her number. I do not even know why she came on social media to complain.
You are not entitled to a woman's number just because she's black..if you are not her type, there are literally millions of other women whose type you are. Get over yourself bro.
@@soulanstreets222 I did not say that and you know it. We both know that a lot of divesters look down on black men and think white men can do no harm.
@@soulanstreets222Isn't it the sisters who are telling BM to be loyal to BW ?
That doesn’t make her a divester. If that was true she probably would have taken him up on his offer. Btw she was using sarcasm because she peeked his leeching lingo. Let’s call a spade a spade.
@@soulanstreets222is that what he said🤡🤦🏾♂️ read to understand
She trolled him basically 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
No he basically said I don't want a gold digger in a round about way, she daid sorry I'm a gold digger in a round about way, then the interaction ended.
@@zachmasters7397 So you don't get it! OK 👌 👍
@@zachmasters7397 So you don't get it... OK 👌 👍
Got him good!😅
@@zachmasters7397no he sounded like the gold digger and she played smart. Go back to those ww. BW are not muling for him!
This is where I have to disagree with the TH-camr. White women were the ones who started strong and independent through FEMINISM. They were fighting during the Civil Rights Era to be strong and independent while the black women were fighting to be seen as human with rights along with the black men. Now today white women are still feminist and their men have never stopped taking care of them nor keep making videos calling their women out on their Feminist behavior. Yet in the black community black women never started this movement but SOME have said they are strong and independent. Yet they are the poster board for everyone to blame them for what they have said while letting white women slide for saying and actually being strong and independent. Yet no one talks about the white women in a negative light. So please stop taking about black women being strong and independent. Many of us never said it nor did we start it. Yet we all are lumped as being that way.
“If black men get the right to vote and not black women it would be worst than bondage.” Sojourner Truth on behalf of the white feminist movement
“If bm get the right to vote and not bw, it would be worst than bondage.” Sojourner Truth
“If bm get the right to vote and not bw it would be worst than bondage.” Sojourner Truth
Mya Angelou had a Brad husband
Feminism started the white women, food stamps started the black women.
I'm 46 from the south and was raised to be traditional and will stay traditional ❤ !!!
I identify as a bird today 😂 and tomorrow, a tulip!!
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😅😂😅😂😅
Can’t lie I like the tulip.
Laughs
I told my daughter it’s best to be a strong independent black women. Especially when there are to many broke men out here who can barely read above a ninth grade level. 🤷🏽♂️
I totally get what you're saying because a husband is not promised to any of us. But please also tell them when the right man comes along, let him lead and her be submissive. The Bible speaks plain about the woman being the weaker vessel and also tells us our role❤.
Good on you sis, stay on this side
We want you . ..
The understanding is most people are chasing a dream
The black Brothers are very proud of you, sister. You are very brilliant, and i like the way you catch up to his trick.
It ain't no we, she still dating wm
@holdthelpodcast Like seriously, and how did you know she's dating wm? However, we black people are still proud of her 😂😂
@augustineSamai-y2q Speak for yourself!
@@augustineSamai-y2q She said that she exchanged numbers with the humanoid.
@@holdthelpodcastBM still dating WW, worry about your same genders decisions.
Ying and Yang! Be soft when you need to, but be hard when you have to! It's A balancing act, one must master, in order to traverse through life! You can be both things at once, and do away with, at any time!
We need our strong black men! Black men, we love you and appreciate you. I see your struggles on a daily basis as I have two young black sons. Everyone in agreement gather here 👍🏾❤!
Very good sista proud of you sweet sister ❤️ 💕 💗 💖
I LLLLLLOVE THAT SHE CHECKED HIM🤣🤣🤣
He got the right one that time she would have took him for the ride of his life 😂😂😂😂
She didnt check him. If anything she made a fool of herself by posting that video online
@uncannytheos2454 No, I think she checked him. She let him know that just because women are different, it doesn't mean that they are really that different!!!
Exactly
Young lady, you make your Elder proud. I love how you handled that! We're ladies and friends deserve to be taken care of. We must not forget our Biblical submissive roles. Our men NEED our support, especially when he is a good man❤!
As Wendy Williams used to say “THATS THE KILLA !!”😂😂😂
You nailed it! We as black women really need to evaluate how we come to our relationships with men.
It can’t be all about me me and me.
Relationships are partnerships. We need to learn to be positive functioning partners with our mates.
Oh please tell that to bm.
@@ImaniBelle-tu5nu She didn't say anything about black men. Why are you mentioning us? How are your relationships with men our problem?
Relationships are non existent. Love is a myth.
@@ImaniBelle-tu5nu
My comments were directed to black women exclusively…not black men.
We as women need to stop projecting when things are being addressed solely towards us. The example being my comment and your reaction via your response.
@@DievestorsNeverLearn Exactly! Spot on! 🎯💯👌🏾
Kudos to that Sister she went flip mode on Brad 😮😅😅😅
There’s no way possible y’all gonna catch me with a w girl, I wouldn’t even feel comfortable walking down the street 😂😂
He would’ve never even gotten my number…I value my life!! 😒😑 B1
Me too😂😂😂😂😂. They are freaking psycho
Don't want to end up on Runaway Slave 2.0 on TH-cam
😂😂😂. What she said!!!
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
The Independent
mantras for black women is hurtful. This idea makes them poor partners because women raised without a present father figure develop a sense of independence due to the perceived abandonment from their father. This abandonment issue is not healed because you chose to date white men.
great comment.
With or without a daddy figure, I think blk women should be strong
BS. It is great to have a self sufficient partner in your life , just in case you ever need help.
Tell him to find his own no thanks
WHERE did all that hatred GO?
Easy pickings for Brad. Brad seen a Black woman over the age of 25 with no wedding ring and knew off top if no one wifed her up it was because of her bad attitude. Brad knows most Black and African women worship him and have no standards and will tolerate the bare minimum when it comes to him.
So why tell us about it.??
Because you need to know why some men are approaching you!
Keep going nobody forced you to click on this then watch and comment. Ridiculous jealousy.
@@curtismoore2730 WHY BOTHER WATCHING?
Exactly
It's for black women who seek whyte acceptance. We brothers aren't included.
They proud of the men leading in all SA statistics in America
It's not what you get out of the relationship, but what you put into it.
Soooooo, basically Strong, Independent, Self-sufficient = Less financial and emotional responsibility …..The woman was using her critical thinking skills and reading beyond the surface level of the words he used and looking at the motivation behind what he said….. critical thinking is important
NOTE: Never live your life cognizant of how others “perceive” you! Other perception of you WILL NEVER MATTER!
Yassss! That part!
I must use this!
I am a strong,independent and can do for myself.However, that does not nigate any man from being a man.He still has to be a man and do his part
Negate. Just doing my part as a man. 😒
Absolutely
@doretteolivera2963 There is no such thing as a strong and independent woman. Now stop bragging about being an adult.
Precisely
@@doretteolivera2963 Ditto. 🤷🏿♂️
He thought if he said that, she would have been in agreement, but it backfired, but he going to find another one easy, its alot of black women that worship YT guys
Great Commentary, So True.. Thank You 🙏🏽
Weird time period this why it's very important as black man to be in the household. The reason why I say that I never hear any other groups of women talking this divesting bullshit. You don't hear Native American women talking like that or Latinos. This why it's very important for the black man to be in the household teaching black history. The younger generation overall don't understand what it takes to be black in America. They don't understand the obstacles you gotta overcome and how strong you gotta be. How hard life is being black and alot of has to do with us as community sending out kids to public schools and allowing tye schools to take black history out of the mix but we gotta learn European history . Our community has become so water down and whitewash its such ashamed . Social media and technology has suck the community dry. Its like we are black but wanna be white and I really started paying attention to this around 2010 when black men started dressing like white boys. That was the start of the social media era. Back in the early 2000s I never heard the term divesting from a black woman. And to be honest it was a rear you seen them with some white dude in my high school or on the block let's keep 100% . Now you could say brothas started this bullshit but they wasn't going all in on Becky like that. Please don't get me started with the younger brothas in today's generation of blacks and the white girl. At some point we as community gotta hit the reset button on this bullshit word up.
Absolutely not, it's time to walk away from WS black women.
The problem is that our people accepted Liberalism and Democrats. They have destroyed everything we have built through deceitful methods. Thats why your seeing what your seeing. They have introduced all the behaviors your saying all while others benefits from our struggles. Our dumb ass people don't see this for some reasons
You make a lot of valid points mate. Social media and the advancement of technology have deeply inhibited the cultural understanding of Blackness. The younger generation truly wants to believe in sameness and color blindness, but Becky and Brad are always going to be Becky and Brad. As they get older, they revert to their racial roots, while our black youngins (now older) end up confused, disillusioned, and dejected. It's not an easy road, as the great Uncle Bob sang. Also, I understand people express themselves in certain ways, but to me, using profanity in certain topics detracts from the key points. Happy new year to all.
@jagbrit3723 You are right about the profanity I tried to work on it but I slipped up . Maybe because at times I get so angry with my people. It seems like a slap in the face to the people that came before us basically . These people would tie brothas up to back of the car and drag them to death in the state of Mississippi for looking at a white woman in the 50s. And it's like none of that stuff never happened. Emmitt Till never happened this the part I don't understand about black people in 2024. But then they have the nerve to come at Latinos and Caribbeans over the hip-hop argument. Never hold the white man accountable for anything that's been done in this country.
they normally don't approach us like that in person that would have been a red flag for me either way i stay in my group though but let our sisters see how the world views us ....that's why i never scream im strong and independent im a feminine woman just like anyone else
Omg!!! Our Sister was trying to hold her frustration but the frustration broke through towards the end… 😔😞
I’m so sorry Sis.
By the way I really don’t understand the whole Women being masculine, it’s absolutely ridiculous.
I’m glad this didn’t work out tho, 👊🏾🫅🏾🦁🫅🏾🦁🇳🇬🇺🇸
She has a point! Beware!
Something seems very 📴 with her here.
In times past we were never allowed to be soft. Please, remember how we were left alone, for a variety of causes all socially engineered, to fend for ourselves in a world hostile as heck to us. We HAD to be strong and independent in order to somehow survive. Our community is slowly changing and with this women in our community may begin to soften as we're afforded care, love, safety and protection. 🙏🏿
Who cares who he wants to date? He want a cookie 🍪? Next…
😂😂😂
Deadass💀
@HB-yk4ut Most black women care about who their wyte gods want to date.
you missed it sister denitra, black women is all over the internet praising white men thats why he came at her....
I am proud of her. SMART
I think she read this wrong. She put his issues on the shoulders of Black women - innocent Black women living their lives. This host placed that man's perceptions of us, stereotypes on us. Sad.
Great analogy sis ❤
It is not our responsibility to convince people with backwards thinking of anything. Everyone wants to talk that "not by the color of your skin but by the content of you character" but don't want to actually walk the walk and it's mind boggling how you don't see that you're contributing to that wayward thinking by VALIDATING it. There is not valid about assuming the behavior of someone simply because of their phenotype. That's just as silly as making assumptions based on someone's eye color. It doesn't make any sense.
Stop playing into that mess and encouraging others to do the same. That is THEIR problem, let's stop making it ours.
Yes sis say it again 👏 🙌 I will teach my daughter not be a ride or die or to invest in anyone who not invest in you.
I don’t blame her…
So if black women say that they don't need a man, why is he trying to be her man?
If you get with him the 🤣 joke is on you better wake the hell up and smell the coffee ☕ immediately this ain't no game 🎯 or no joke 🤣 at all.
I dont think she's lying about identifying as a whyte woman lmaooo. All jokes has some truth in it.
She didn’t tell him that to his face, especially not knowing him. Let’s remember no whyte man will ever do jail time for assaulting black women!!! 🙄
So does this mean their not all
Strong & independent black women
🤔 What happened 2 i don't need no
Man 🤔😂🤔😂🤔😂🤔😂🤔😂🤔
Everybody has to know this why?
Because they proceed to comment about it.
You cant silence black women deal with it uncle T
@@k.lorraineShut your trap 🤣🤣🤣
They see you as a sucka. Don’t a be one. Nothing wrong with a 50/50 partnership
Jealous?
🛏️🔧‘ing will NOT SAVE YOU. Find a BROTHA. Trust they will treat you with actual love and respect.
We don't want no woman who another race can have within 10 words from hello..black men find out about her past, don't trust these women for nothing.
Ms. D. Kaye🎯 they are walking tall and talking spicy😂
Brad dun lost his damn mind wtf.
Identify how you want. Even though my bank account disagrees I identify as a billionaire and I need the government to help with my transition.
I disagree with the commentary. As a matter of fact, I need to stop watching this channel as I am growing out of it, but as a Black woman, I find myself being forced to be “independent,” “strong,” etc., not because I want to, but because I am forced to be. I am not boastful of this, but it is as if society doesn’t help Black women, and you don’t get to be feminine. Also, a lot of men take advantage of you with that softness that you speak of, so I completely disagree because that’s my experience.
I can relate to what this young lady is saying not anything I would say, but I can relate
nah. definitely sides with the lady on the date. The people perception of beauty is rigged right along with strong and independent nonsense.
If you get with him or date him you're own your own he will make your own life a living hell forever day and night and doesn't have anyone to blame but your self you putted your self there in that situation position or that jam you can't get out of.
I agree with you!
Why she take his number he not a brother.
Yes, she lost me at the chit chat. I don’t think she told him all that 💩 to his face, if at all. She would’ve got punched in the face. THEY don’t go to jail for assaulting sisters.
Shitz I am in the thinking that it's the opposite.
That's Candice Owens broke down 👎 twin sister them two have the same connection with brad and Chad.
Yall better wake up, Too many times Brad already stated why he dealing with yall but he dont respect you having a hatred as divestors for your group, including the men..Most Brads deal with African women
Black women are African women!
Most Africans are also WS. Wyte males know that.
I REALLY don't care
🤣🤣🤣 she wanted to get treated like ms. Cartwright but unfortunately YOU RE NOT MS CARTWRIGHT
It doesn’t matter! We don’t want C L E A R MEN
We don’t want E L A P MEN.
Who wants to be like them?not me!!
❤🌹 She is pretty.
She played herself. Besides this one side if story. For all we know the convo went totally different but she only heard what she wanted to hear.
As opposed to paying for Tyrone and pay his child support .....
You can identify with whatever you like but it doesn't mean you will get the same treatment as what you identify with 😂
He must love and appreciate you , not lust fantastic for short time … don’t be foolish young lady😮
Him I'm feeling like a cat today
Hey beautiful, u hitting with that truth again
But that's a complement. To be strong and independent.
Why do I care about this
We don't care who she date.
🙄
Forest vs trees. Host commentary!
Well actually ya do! Why you here then sucka, WHY ARE YOU HERE?!?!? 😂
I love this show
She is beautiful!
Pure fabrication young lady 😃. Totally, unrealistic.
I dont understand because it exactly what she said. She is not claiming strong and independent. There are some black women who are and its okay for thrm to be., but it's insulting to think all bw are like thar
People are blurring the lines of being Independent. It doesn't mean you don't want a man you just dont need a man. Codependency is unhealthy. Everybody should be independent so they can be good partners.
Unhealthy independence will lead to isolation. Over-reliance on self can result in social withdrawal and a lack of support networks, which are crucial for emotional well-being. Please explain the drawbacks of "codependency."
The most R thing i've ever heard
you just want to define things in a way that is more convenient for women.
@@strangefruit9867 Google it.
@@jondo3817 Your understanding is that of a child. Reread my comment.
Brad gonna do you just like pookie now??
He’s going to end up LONELY WITH NOBODY