GIRL, GET UP! - How To Create A NEW VERSION Of Yourself In 2024! | Sarah Jakes Roberts
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On Today's Episode:
As women, many of us have lived lives with moments that bring us shame, fill our hearts with pain, bitterness, and resentment. The thing is, you don’t have to stay in that mental space with negative thoughts and beliefs that say you’re not worthy, you have no value, or that you’re unlovable. Sarah Jakes Roberts is a woman of faith that breaks the mold and dares to own her scars, be bold, and walk in the truth of all that she is, from every mistake that she no longer allows to define her. She joins me today to help you flip the toxicity of the life you may be holding onto on its head and redefine what it means to create a meal worth serving from your leftovers.
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SHOW NOTES:
Self Worth | Sarah defines her self-worth and share how her flaws add to her value [2:03]
Shame | Ashamed of her truth and deciding what to create with the “leftovers” [4:38]
Leftovers | Sarah exposes the hidden power of creating from what’s left after the struggle [6:30]
Poison | Sarah on purging the insecurities, fear, false confidence, and false positivity [8:06]
Living Divided | Denying part of your truth, avoiding the ruins, and missing your strength [10:14]
Negative Thoughts | How to look at the root of negative thoughts that echo insecurities [12:11]
Relationship Work | Bring value and purpose into the relationship with yourself [17:46]
Marriage | Sarah’s 1st marriage failing was a symptom and that she could do better [20:48]
Walking Away | Sarah on how to leave bad relationships & questions to ask yourself [24:47]
Incubate Hope | Creating an environment for hope to grow and starving your fears [27:16]
Toxic People | Instead of labeling people as toxic, see that we are all broken [28:28]
Being Hostile | Sarah shares how being petty takes energy and takes away from you [30:13]
Betrayal | Understanding what betrayal communicates to you and knowing it’s about you [34:01]
Inner Circle | Sarah on the value of knowing people’s value and intention for you [38:12]
Success | How success is obedience to the urge and nudge to manifest what’s within [45:27]
QUOTES:
“Self-worth is believing in the value that I bring when I come into a room or space.” [2:31]
“I had to really come to this space where I realized I don't feel smart, I don't feel worthy, I don't feel valuable. This is my truth. And as painful as that was to say, it was also liberating, because I took the whisper that was haunting me and taunting me throughout my life and finally gave it a voice.” [5:57]
“I had my own poison that my insecurities were constantly pumping into my veins that fear was constantly pumping into my veins. And I realized that as long as I was poisoned, I could only attract poison.” [8:16]
“fall more in love with you than you do with the potential outcome that you're achieving or looking to achieve.” [10:47]
“I realized that just because a thought comes my way doesn't mean I have to accept it. To accept the thought is to say, I'm going to allow this to now become a part of my truth.” [15:06]
“We're not qualified to be in a relationship until we realize what I need a person in my life for” [18:08]
“at the end of the day, it's love that leads us out of places of fear.” [25:03]
When we know that I am betraying myself to be in relationship with someone, then I have to ask myself, what am I receiving to them that is so valuable, that I am willing to betray myself?” [25:22]
“I spend so much mental real estate thinking about what I want to go wrong with someone that I don't have time to consider what I want to go well with my own spirit and soul.” [31:09]
“Not every person in your family can feed you. Not every person in your family can help you promote growth, and to create an environment for you to incubate hope. Some people are blowing your candle out while you're trying to get the flame going.” [38:23]
“The truth is, I'm afraid, but I'm going to dare to believe anyway. The truth is, I'm not qualified, but I'm gonna dare to go after it anyway.” [41:41]
More About Sarah: In 2017, Sarah launched Woman Evolve a ministry that focuses on incubating every woman to her fullness. Since its conception Woman Evolve has been successful at reaching and guiding thousands of women to awaken healing, wholeness, and love for themselves and others.
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Website: sarahjakesroberts.com/
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Podcast: www.womanevolve.com/podcast
What did you think of this inspiring guest??
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She is amazing!!
Gosh...I'll have to watch 4 more times to really break down the wisdom you both shared. What she said about self worth, the humanness of everyday feeling but deciding to be better etc. Totally packed and such a refreshing watch 😍
A reflection of Dad, and on the constant path of Perfection of her own self!
She is wise, I didn't know her but I am surprised in how she changed things on her favor. As a single mom trying to get in my feet on my singing career I found this interview inspiring and useful. Thanks to beautiful Sarah and Lisa for bringing this message to us. Love from Colombia.
Amazing woman of impact ♥️♥️♥️
Never betray yourself for an external relationship. The longest relationship you will ever have is with yourself, treat it well.
Thank you true thanks
@@TheJanieLee ¹¹
This is beautiful
Yes love this❤️❤️❤️
Love this reminder! Thank you ♥️
A Toxic person doesn't mean they are evil, they just need healing. WoW moment 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏽
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That helped me so much to have compassion towards an ex instead of anger. It for sure started with anger but EVOLVED to compassion.. ahhh her thing is so catchy 😍😂
@@missstephyjane Oh bother..
@@ursamajor6347 BIngo 🎯
Eye-opening🙌🏿!
For me, it was " I deserve better, I deserve the best, there's nothing wrong with me"
In this month I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be
Right
@@royhill4439 qp1¹😊😊
@@royhill4439 I stand in agreement with you on this Amen and I claim this as well Hallelujah
Yes! I felt this! ❤
“A toxic person doesn’t mean they’re evil. It just means they need healing.” Wow 👏👏👏 that is deep!
This is wow
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I hope this isn't a satire comment 😂
Healing never ends.
I needed to hear this about my mother and maybe even father too. My mother keeps going back to bad relationships, I got tired of helping her but this reminded me
"Some people are trying to blow out your candle while you're still trying to get the flame going"
Wow...that one hit for me!
What a very powerful word. 👌💯 💥 Amen 🙏
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Why are we taught to put our mental health last? th-cam.com/video/50654LNrf1I/w-d-xo.html
She drops Diamonds
I will listen to this again. I believe y'all neglected to name the book and where it can be purchased.
"The truth is I'm afraid, but I'm going to dare to believe anyway... The truth is I'm not qualified, but I'm gonna dare to go after anyway". Thank you for this
Goosebumps!!
Daaam read this an instantly teared up..I be telling myself I don't have a reason to be sad but dam I'm sad. I don't want to be toxic but toxicity feels so good to me. Where do o start the healing journey? Should I be alone while healing?
@vius0013 When she said that, it resonated so deeply with me. That is the exact situation I am currently in, and its scary to believe in the positive that may happen because I am so afraid to fail. Fear of failure has kept me back for too many years of my life. I need to step out and take a chance on myself, despite not feeling qualified.
@@vrintige Absolutely! I'm on the same boat, let's dare to believe!
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A long as I am poison, I will attract poison. I needed this interview. Transformation is about authenticity and its hard to authentic when you've been holding and hiding it in for so long. This journey of purging the poison is hard, painful and full of tears but it has to be done. At 32, I am finally getting it done. - Church Girl in Recovery.
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@kylondaglaze Thank you for sharing your testimony. I am 54 years old and my life is parallel to Sarah Jakes Roberts and you. I am starting the transformation to live my authentic self. I hope all the best to you ❤.
Love this!
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This WOMAN . Came along WAY . Ladies we can and will over come every challenge and dark time. Every fear and every insecurity will come to a cease . Thank you lord for the story of Sarah my God. I know her parents , children and husband and Yahweh is proud of her . You go girl !
Success is Obedience. That’s powerful. Doing the inner work can get you so far in life. Sarah’s story is so beautiful and inspiring. It’s never about what they did it’s about how you respond to it to take care of yourself first. 💕
Yess thanks for sharing this I needed it 😊🙏🏾
Why are we taught to put our mental health last? th-cam.com/video/50654LNrf1I/w-d-xo.html
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“I can do better than this”..that was the conviction of the Holy Spirit
Amen 🙏🕊
AMEN
So simple and impactful!
Amen !!
God Really Changes People's Lives & Hearts !! She Mentioning What God Says About her, That She can do Better than this was a breathe of fresh air. It's a line that Comforts when hurt, from ex addicts, prostitutes, Gang members, Homeless etc. It Amazing To See What God Guided her To Be!!
"There is a version of you that you are yet to behold"❤
"At the end of the day, it's love that leads us out of places of fear." Wow. Thanks for this💜
" Scars added to my value." Powerful ♥️
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This hit deep to me as well❤
Scars are testimony of God's ability to heal deadly wounds🙌. Powerful
I almost didn’t click on this video. So glad I did. This was an amazing video. Loved all of it.
@Chica same here! Then I had a gentle nudge in spirit. Must've been our intuition on point!💯🙏🏽💫
SAME. BEAUTIFUL TALK. xoxo
Same!!! I thought I was going to listen to music on the way home 😭
SAME!! FEEL SO LUCKY❤
Me too!!! I'm so happy I did so eye opening ❤
Hi Thanks for sharing this great tips that was extremely helpful. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you kimaya 🙌
I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
Sarah Jakes is a phenomenal women. I loved this interview sooooo many hidden gems!
In this month I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be
“There is a version of me that I am yet to behold.” - I felt that! 💯
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I cried😢
Wow I did to 😭❤️
Me too. As a matter of fact so much of me I am yet to embrace 😭
Me too
I called myself a single mom but then one day stopped saying this because although I might be raising my son without his father being present, I am a mom and I needed to stop bringing that negative connotation to it.
Same here!
Me too! I stopped going to a church group called ‘single parents’ only because I needed to remove that labelling! I am whole!
Me too honey you’re not alone
Remember that child you call fatherless actually has a Father. Our Father who art in Heaven, is always there and always present for every single child ❤️
Same
This story is for me and so many more. I got pregnant at 13, I feel like I am not smart and that I am not able to get passed where I am. I want so much to move to my next step in business. I love this story so much, thank you.
Stay strong girl. People project a lot of insecurities on to teen mothers. I have done it in the past, before I realize I was insecure about my own sexual history. And now? I've been told by my doctors not have children due to medical issues. And there is a big part of me that wishes I gotten pregnant when I was younger and had my health. But it was my biggest fear at the time.
You're valued. Stay strong.
You have this, just keep moving forward! Never stop going
Hey Love 🥰. You don't need ro be smart, you just need to be able to learn. Learn the skill that the Lord is guiding you towards. If you don't know what that is, consider something that you're already good at or have a natural love for. Start a YTube channel,; learn how to trade options; consider an ibc (infinite banking concept) insurance policy for yourself and your babe. God will provide 🙏🏾
Yes I can understand I had my son at 13 the stares the words the thoughts I felt like I was nothing now I can say with pride yes I had a kid at 13 and I wouldn’t trade him for anything… you can and you will get there just keep going 🙏🏾
Don't be discouraged...your child is your blessing and your motivation to be and do greater things in life. Take care of your child and yourself, don't let others opinions define you, you define your life and God has a purpose and plan for you. ♥
" Our need to be a HERO will make us drown in someone else's pool of Poison". That alone is so much to unpack. I thank God for this woman's ability to be so transparent.
Well I’m a man and your words touched my heart and I cried because your story inspired me to continue to be the good man I know I am in the darkest moments of my life path right now. Thank you so much for your story and beautiful advice. 💜🦋
A Goodman is hard to find.i hope u heal soonest.
@@telmaagbortabi4052 Thank You !
Why are we taught to put our mental health last
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@@nicolejackson8384 Thank You Nicole & I will pray for you and your situation!!! I’m giving you Self Love, Inner Peace in all Aspects and Light. Keep shining because you are the light that walks in the darkness. People will always be attracted to you for you are a Earth Angel meant to be on Earth to heal the people you come in contact with. Stay strong and thank you again for your kind words and sharing your story. Remember, it’s just a story and your are the pencil to your story. You are in control of your story. Keep writing love. Stay beautiful 💜❤️🌻😏
God will visit you and make you whole. Be strong bro. God bless u
I betrayed myself and then got betrayed. Now my son is paying the price for my mistake. Most days it’s hard for me to get out of bed. I’m highly educated but I’m not where I want to be financially. This interview was so helpful. I have to face my poison.
I hope you feel better
I've been through it. It's just me and my daughter doing this thing called life. But with God all things are possible. I've been through the trenches. Hold onto God and he will see you through. I had depression for 4 years then God snatched me out of it. Self care, praying, crying, worshiping and therapy and reading his word helped me so much. I can also recommend Sarah Jake's Podcast Women evolve it helped me with my self-care journey. It's refreshing, Youthful and fun... God Bless your are not alone
You sound like me. This video resonated with me so much. Seeing your message shook me because I am highly educated, with others saying I have much to offer, yet......We will come to fully understand our value and move in it so that our children suffer less and we all thrive. Be well and easy with yourself. Your child needs you, they chose you as their mommy.
I am glad it touched you. Keep moving.. their is another version of you!
I hope everything gets better. Good luck on your journey x
"A toxic person doesn't mean they're bad, it just means they need healing."
She is saying everything we know but its hits differently because she lives it, there is an element of sincerity in her words.
This whole conversation did so much for my mental health 😪🙌🏽
🍎❤️🌹🐞👠 PROVERBS 31 Woman
Hunny yes, speaking of perspective 🥀🌹🙏🏾
Yes I agree I needed to hear this, I thank God for this.
💖💖💖🇿🇦 Sisi
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Sarah is by far one of the most vulnerable, beautiful and soulful guests on Women of Impact.
I loved the conversation, thank you, Lisa and, of course, the whole team for making it happen.
Aww love that you loved it! ❤️🙏
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I'll keep in touch over there...
Why are we taught to put our mental health last? th-cam.com/video/50654LNrf1I/w-d-xo.html
"You can be honest without being brutal because at the end of the day, there's a person connected to it." 💜💛
Her sermon on TH-cam called “Girl, get up” woke something up inside of me when nothing else could when I was going through depression. She speaks with unapologetically with WISDOM. That is why I’m watching this now.
Same here. When I feel down that’s what I listen to.!! It’s okay to feel down, because when we get up, we get up stronger!!
YESS!!
Same here!
Me too. I been working on my purpose ever since
What's her TH-cam channel name ❤
"what meal are you going to create with the leftovers" I'm still stuck on this. I'm so grateful for the gift Sarah has honestly. She's always able to bring the gift of her full consciousness to every conversation, It's inspiring. I'm looking forward to recreating magic with my leftovers Sarah. Thank you so much!!!
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Hi Ella
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this is one of the best women of impact interviews ever done! sarah’s authenticity and openness and power moves me to make changes I need (with my leftovers 😝)
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A major turning point was when I realized I accepted every thought that came my way ! I started separating myself from the thoughts of others and listening to my own.❤ and whenever negative thoughts came I said either out loud or to myself thank you for trying to protect to me And I’m ok , I’m going a different way now.
Every year I grow older, I realize more and more that what others say is not believeable. not only is it just their opinion, it is build on nonsense.
Preach cause that last line IS TRUE TO THE T. Built on nonsense they dont even follow.@@littlemissy8356
Sarah is such a masterpiece! The world needs to hear more of what this women has spoken.😍
I AM A MASTERPIECE AND A WORK-IN-PROGRESS AT THE SAME TIME. WORTHY WITH ALL MY SCARS.
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As a teen mom (got pregnant at 12), this interview was very powerful and inspiring. Currently writing my book and building on my motivation speaking endeavor!!! Great interview!!
Keep going! 😁
Can’t wait to to read it!
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Wow you are so strong 💪 I got pregnant not planned at 14 and had my son by 15 you are amazing love ❤️ May God bless you
12?!???????? WTF!! 😳😳😳 Godamn!! That’s NOT even a teen mom, that’s straight up p***philia!😡 How evil. Your parents really need their asses kicked for letting that happen .The person who impregnated you should be arrested. Including your parents if they were complicit in that happening. Seriously sue the sick person who caused that to happen. A 12yo is not at fault in any case!! Praying you continue to rise/heal from such a trauma! 💗✨
I’m already crying from the first words and I’m only 4 mins in! Oh this is going to be life changing! Thank you universe for this flow of guidance you have given to me. You know my needs. Ase
Two high value women right here! Sarah Jakes Roberts has been my mentor for the last few years and I’ve transformed as a person, glory to God but He is speaking through you as a tool. Lisa I’m new to your channel but you have some beautiful energy too ~ I always leave y’all’s presence feeling inspired.
“Not everyone in your family can feed you.” 💖
I am overwhelmed with hope after watching this interview. Thank you Pastor SJR! 🙏🏻
Every cell of my body was alert throughout this interview - that spoke to me sentence after sentence! What a phenomenal and inspiring woman. Never been one to go follow up on the book but this time I’m called to! Thank you so much for putting this out into the world 🌎
Love that! So glad you enjoyed the episode ❤️
WOW!!!! I'm going to dare leaving my Eyes and Heart open because there is another ME that I WANT to BEHOLD!!!!! NOT to achieved but to BEHOLD!!!
What a powerful statement!!!! I humbly Thank You for this message. May the Good Lord Bless you Woman of God!!!! ❣️💐❣️💃🥰🌞🔥💐🎉
What's the name of the book
So inspiring. I still share this video with everyone that I care about.
Woman Evolve - have to say I prefer the interview just because it was so impactful! but this book has more stuff inside so.. also check it out! I guess it assumes you believe it God, but if you can get past the God/Bible references then you’re onto a good one
This is beautiful… as an RN dealing with toxic patients and people with addictions for 12 hours a day is tough and it’s been killing me slowly eating away at my spirits. I don’t want to quit my career I worked so hard to acquire (15 years off/on) but my self care lacking and it’s carving away at me 😔
I’ve had this book on a shelf since it was released. I never “had time” to read it. This interview, her words are so on time for me right now. I’m so grateful to God for speaking to me through this woman. It’s time to speak life over myself and purge this poison. I dare to become the woman God called and created me to be. ❤
Same here - l dare to become the person Almighty God created me to be and to walk in his fullness, Amen.❤❤🎉
Trying to collect all my leftovers to make myself better
“You expect from other people what you already believe in yourself!” Believing in self is hard when you’ve been torn down your whole life. All it takes is for you to believe in yourself! What a revelation that can just go over someone’s head. Needed this. ♥️♥️
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The devil exists in our mind. Gotta recognize it and start letting it pass you by, give it a name, start meditating to silence your mind. Its alot of work but you are sooo worth it, you gotta fight for your life!
Why are we taught to put our mental health last?
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I am 61 years old , but this got me I dear to believe , there’s something for me , my life changed when I started listening and watching the jakes family thank god for them
The greatest empowerment every woman should have is being empowered financially and mentally. This way you will be at the top of your food chain. Being finally free is one thing every woman should be looking after. I wasn't financial free until my 40’s and I’m still in my 40’s, bought my second house already, earn on a monthly basis via my investment and got 5 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing in the financial market is a grand choice I made. Great video! Thanks for sharing!
Very inspiring! I love this.
I hope to own a home one day. not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious already and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips will be appreciated.
@@emmaemily7308 investing requires higher knowledge. I invest across the top markets but not by myself tho. i follow the guidelines of Alexandra Diana Jose. you might have heard of her.. I can correctly say she’s worth her salt as a investment advisor as her diversification skills are top notch/ I say because i see that in her results as my portfolio grows by averages of 30 to 5O% on a monthly basis, unlike i can say for my IRA which has just been trudging along. my portfolio just mirrors what her place and not just on some particular industries of my choosing.
@@alyciagordon3447 please how do i get in touch with her
Impressive. Would you mind sharing some more details. I’d like to have a talk with her.
@@emmaemily7308 She is easy to find , make a quick research of her on the internet with her name Alexandra Diana Jose . She works with anyone independent of their location.
Alexandra is the best in this space, I'm happy to come across these recommendations. I have worked with her and I can testify to her servi¢es. I am very impressed with the thoroughness and professionalism of the investment diligence packages she provides, and the return in all cases has been very positive with returns sometimes exceeding the initial plans.
I've been in a low place and "the leftovers" hit me in a good way!! Love her analogies. I love to cook and make yummy unexpected dishes with leftovers in the kitchen..I'm going to rethink my personal leftovers and see what I can cook up in my reality..and oh, I'm so a pebble in the shoe girl! Loved her honesty. Wonderful Wonderful. Thank you!
Haha! “I hope they scrape their knee” 😉 Cook up a storm! 🙌❤️
I agree ! Her metaphor really struck a chord with me
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I love hearing how Sarah learned to confront the lies she was believing about herself, that were becoming her reality, and choose to start believing the real truth about who she is and was created to be. So grateful for her transparency and grace to share her story!
I'm not here often to reply and talk with you, add me on Google Hangout, austinzhang032@gmail.com
I'll keep in touch over there...
Why are we taught to put our mental health last? th-cam.com/video/50654LNrf1I/w-d-xo.html
When Sarah said “my scars added to my value” 😭😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It's a process. We always see the end result and not the times in between. That's why it's so important for these conversations to be held early in life (school).
That part on incubating hope. 🤯 And when she talking about limiting access to people who may be blowing your candle out whenever you’re trying to get it started. 🤯🤯🤯🤯
God is using her testimony for his kingdom! God bless her so much for she has learned so much and how to reflect and control. I can relate, it's hard. God is good!
I was feeling so low today and came across this video!! I need this today; thank you ❤
"Some people are trying to blow your candle out while your trying to keep the flame going." A word!
Bruised heels still crush serpents' head
Love this! 👏🏻👏🏻
2:51 My scars added to my value, not subtracted from it
4:33 I wanted to pile other things on top of my truth because then maybe the truth that stings won’t sting anymore
6:06 I can’t change things, but I got to decide what I want to do with my leftovers
12:09 Taking inventory and identifying the roots of the insecurities that echo in your head
25:33 Incubate your hopes and starve your fears
27:44 You cannot pour into me because you are still so poisonous yourself, but what I can do for you is to wish you the best while move into spaces and environments where I can allow myself to edify and have sustenance
36:53 Not every person in your family can help you grow and incubate your hope. Categorize them properly on who in your family is qualified to give you advice on this part of your life
40:02 You got to dare to believe
41:50 A dare is a permission for it to not be easy
43:11 I’m not daring you to become a billionaire; only that you show up
WOW What meal do I want to create with my leftovers!!! powerful
Such wisdom❤
Thank you for taking these notes I have screen shot them & will read them as much as I can. ❤️
Thank you!
Wow, I love this
This spoke to me on so many levels! I am at the point in life where I want better and I know that I can do BETTTER!🙏🏾
“My heart is broken but am gonna dare to love again!” #powerful
May God be you healer 🙏 Watch him trasform your life 🙏❤️praying for you
Weit for Mr right don't give up
Ever since I first heard her story, I've always tried to imagine how one person can go through that!
But look at her now💥🥰
Her story is truly inspiring.
Thank you for sharing.
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She is from a rich family....and Sarah is quite smart......thanks to her long-term husband.
"My scars added to my value and did not subtract from my value." Powerful point of view!
I literally had my own incident with CPS where I was wrongfully accused of Neglect during an abusive relationship and it affected my entire career direction.
I am so thankful to hear that story. 💞💞
Omg! What a wisdom! A friend referred me to this video following my own current journey! This should be a daily mantra because the wisdom in this video was beyond comprehension! I loveeeeeeed every single words and so much emotional maturity! Your experiences and trauma truly are your tools of resilience.
This woman changed my life.. I'm still working on myself ND believing that there's a version of me that I'm yet to behold ♥️
She's a real G
“The leftovers are where the Glory is”🙌🏽🙌🏽
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You can never go wrong with Sarah. Girl Get Up got me through a tough time. I thank God and you for that sermon 🙏
That makes the 2 of us 🙌🏾😇
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Oh my goodness, sisters! I also remember Girl Get Up!! Girl Get Up should be a movement, tbh!!!
Sarah dropped TOO many heavy gems in this one - I’m trying to catch them all! Girl, you DID that! This can save someone’s life 💎💕🙏🏽
Lisa you are an amazing host. This is the first time that i watch you and you instantly come as a genuine, down to earth, real person who is genuinely listening with her heart and is involving herself deeply in the topic.
"Our strength is in our ruins", "you need to fall in love with all of you more than you're in love with the outcome or achievements". I'm getting emotional watching this because it speaks to me on such a deep level and is so relevant to my present experience. Much love to both of you for helping others in their healing journey❤🙏
Let’s get HEALED so we can help others HEAL🥰❤️
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Amen 🙏🏾👐
I love this, I got pregnant @ 16 I instantly told my mom even though I was TERRIFIED, but I knew I needed her atm. She called me all types of bitches and h*es which I was far from. When my sister found out image told me how I was dumb asf . Basically I had no one in my corner ESPECIALLY the two women I had in my life. That changed me forever, I got pregnant again and instantly got an abortion because I couldn’t bare that experience again. From that I unknowingly developed in my head I’m not fit to be a mom, I’m lesser than them because I got pregnant. Now being 27 years I’m more gentle with myself. I constantly reassure myself I could be an excellent mom by how I nurture and treat myself. Thank you for this. I will watch this every morning to remind myself it will be okay because I will make it okay ❤
Light and love to you ❤️. I am proud of you and I pray you keep getting better.
I’m so sorry they treated you so horribly and handed you the lies they believed. No matter what getting pregnant is a natural function and women have been ending pregnancies to help people who need to end their pregnancy since the dawn of human history. But treating a teenager counting on them for love and care and support in that despicable way with those horrible lies is incredibly twisted and wrong. I do not envy them the reckoning they will have in the afterlife for that horrifying behavior towards you.
You are a glory, always have been, always will be. May you feel, experience, and express the kindness and acceptance you have always deserved.
"My scars added to my value rather than subtracting from it" ❤ #boom
Love this vid‼️ My Fav Takeaways
1. Scars added to my Value🖤
2. The power is in the leftovers✨
3. To accept a thought means your going to allow it to become part of your truth, you do not have to accept every thought/comment/judgment that comes your way😉
4. The comments that sting the worst echos an insecurity I already have🤯
5. If you know someone who is in a toxic relationship love them, do not judge, love brings people out of fear🖤
6. A toxic person doesn’t mean they’re evil it just means they need healing💔
7. We are all students in this classroom called life some may need more help then others🖤
8. Start by saying “ I can do better then this”
What are your fav takeaways?! Let me know
Thanks for sharing this.
Scars added to my value.
It's never about what they did its about how you respond to it,take care of yourself first
@@winniebethwanjiru3460 Take care too bae thanks a lot
May God bless you always🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you!!!
"there is a version of you that you have yet to behold" 41:15 She starts breaking down what it means to take a Dare and this hit me so hard I can't put it into words! It even left Lisa speechless. Replayed this at least 5 times and counting
Yeah that part got me...I completely broke down
I just cry and cry when she talk about the Dare....hit me so hard.
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I cried during that part
I cried my eyes out. So powerful!!
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. So proud of you girl!! Deep🙏🏾 God bless you
This is the very first time I've viewed this site and so excited to see my prayers answered from my requests to God. "Heavenly Father please raise up young people to stand as leaders for the generations now and yet to come." This young lady is such an aspiration to humanity identifying, addressing and presenting the emotions, dichotomy, and generational spirits that actually cause our people to walk defeated. She is added to my prayer list and I will continue to pray for the Young Jakes-Roberts- an Awesome Woman of God. I am honored she is a woman unafraid to share her vulnerability and identify God's strength He supplies for her to rise and step-out of real life budding violent defense mechanisms onto solid platforms that lead to healthy choices.
"Success is obedience" not validation!!!! That hit home for me! I feel like I have permission all of a sudden to do anything I put my mind to! Thank you Sarah and Lisa #mindblown🤯
Yes obedience is better than sacrifice
"Sometimes you're gonna feel a little crazy but you're gonna have to start talking back to yourself." Love this! Great reminder
As a young woman currently on her journey to determine her strength, I appreciate this conversation so much, it's the kind of wisdom I need. Sarah Jakes-Roberts is such a phenomenal woman, she is spitting fire and her words have lit my soul. 🔥🥺 I am so glad that I have discovered her now because her words are exactly the kind of empowerment I need in my life rn.
This message is timely and inspiring. Thank you for "daring me to become someone who produces their idea and sees it down to the finish line." Thank you for daring me to "become!" Double thank you for "Success is becoming obedient to what is in you, obey the nudge."
I can't get enough of this interview. I'm currently struggling to get out of a mental and emotional pit, so this interview is very uplifting. Looking back, it was during my moments of greatest weakness that I realized strength in strange places I didn't even know I had. This too SHALL PASS.
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I wish you peace and motivation. I know how you feel ❤️
Wow. "The relationship was just a symptom and not a disease. It was a symptom of my insecurity that started long before I met that person"
I also relate with this. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
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Wow, the quote from “ Splendour in the Grass” Walt Whitman.
“Rather find strength in what remains “
Beautiful message through the rain. Thank you
effective financial management made me rich and it is all you need if you want to build a strong financial future tomorrow. I started with 1000USD, 3 years ago I invested in a diversified stock market and fast forward to now I am worth 500000USD and am currently finishing my 8 unit apartments. I'm only 35 years old. Diversified stock investments have always proven to be very profitable, especially with the help of experts.
I'm really impressed. At 35, i was worth a little over $200,000 from * in the stock market. But what you've done with your *finances* and numbers you worth, is pure genius.
*Investing* in diversified stocks is a real hustle that has made me . I have two active stock portfolios and hope to create a third, which will increase my total return on earnings to over 120000USD
You have done well. It's people like you who set the benchmark for people like us to know that achieving financial stability and transition of status from being comfortable to wealthy is possible with the right *investment* plan.
I'm curious, is *investing* in a diversified stock *market* a pretty lucrative venture? Can you share how you achieved these figures?
@@torkwaskipolischez8484Experience plays a key role when *investing* in diversified *stock markets*, which is why I have Rachel Hilda, whose experience has greatly helped me persevere in the diversified *stock market*. For three years she helped me grow my portfolio using her diversified knowledge of the financial *market*.
"Confronting the lies I believe about myself" really landed with me. Beautiful interview
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I'm going to dare to show up in my whole life with my broken pieces. Jesus hear my prayers
"When I am betraying myself to be in relationship with someone else, I have to ask myself what is so valuable that I an receiving from him that I am betraying myself?!"👀🧐🤔
Really much needed right now as I start over with my life after leaving a toxic relationship
I pray you keep moving. I left a toxic relationship of 25 years. I had 5 kids, no job, and no savings. Hadn't worked for 20 years and didn't know how I was going to make it, but God.…God overwhelmed me with His grace. Things didn't happen immediately, but over time. Without a college degree I went from being a part time receptionist to becoming the Executive Director at my agency. My children are still my priority and yet I have been able to not only survive, but thrive. There's no other explanation but God. He is faithful. I chose to trust Him over my circumstances. He is my provider. Keep moving and trusting Him and you will see. It may not be easy, but it will be more than worth it to have the peace and true (real) joy that comes from being close to Him. Knock down everything that draws you from Him and the toxic relationships will cease. We can't worship 2 masters.
"Just because a thought comes my way doesnt mean I have to accept it, accepting it means Im making it my truth"! Sarah's analogies are very POWERFUL. GOD BLESS this woman of GOD.
Light and blessings to everyone, life is about problem solving your get thru any trial and tribulation keep GOD first!
This girl is a QUEEN. She literally helped me see blockages within myself that have kept me stuck for years, just from her vulnerability. So powerful.
"There is a version of you that you are yet to behold". " Scars added to my value." Powerful ️.
What a profound interview! “Dare to become and not to go and get.”
What's this mean exactly?
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For a woman who falls into the belief that she isn’t smart in her weak times, she is so well and beautifully spoken. I love that she doesn’t fall into “traditional” ministries and she is a powerful role model.
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Wow I cried when she said betrayal makes you think that anything you do is no longer valid. And that’s exactly how I’ve been feeling for years! I never understood why I didn’t believe in myself anymore, if I had an opinion and someone didn’t agree I would automatically think I’m wrong, I stopped expressing myself and would much rather have people think for me, or get my ideas from other people bc I didn’t think ANYTHING I did was no longer valid , I tried to get everyone to like me causing me to portray this fake version of myself all because I’ve been betrayed by people who I thought were “closest” to me. This video helped me know that you are the creator of your own life! She really spoke volumes and I will be buying this book ASAP
I reasonate with what you just said going through it now, God bless praying for you and things get better for you 💖
I loved hearing Sarah's perspective, "All the power is in the leftovers", we use what we have left to begin something new. Thank you for this beautiful insight.
I’m beyond blessed by this interview. I could write on and on about what I resonate with but it would be a diary. So thank you for this interview 🙏🏾
Success is obedience... Not allowing what's in you to die within you... Wow... Goosebumps.
I'm watching this right now.. and it's very touching OMG!
I'm going through self improvement process right now and it's my very beginning (still struggling a looooott!) I'm 28 years old (and I feel I'm late at everything and ashamed 🤦🏽♀️).. and I have so many insecurities and I'm soooo afraid of letting go and getting over my old relationship that consumed me so much. My small business is falling apart, family issues 🤦🏽♀️ and didn't finish my degree... now I feel guilty of entering that relationship and im left with a child and sometimes I regret that.. but deeply inside me I know my child is all I have right now and love her with passion, so I have to raise up for her and be a better person and a better mom.. so I'm committed to work on everything that would make me get over this whole mess and see the kind of women I'll become..🙏🏽 I pray to the Lord to go along with me in this process.. thanks a lot to those who take their time to share, lead and heal people on TH-cam.. thanks Sara and lisa for this inspiring interview 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Keep praying to the Lord always. Read his word daily and stay faithful love. We got this!!! you're loved 💕 I love you and most importantly Jesus loves you!! Hallelujah
I’m in the same situation, the only thing that helps me is relying on God and trusting that it will all workout. After all, I’ve gone through a lot of hard stuff and made it out.
I just want you to know that everything will be okay. Once You put God first just trust in him and I promise you you’ll see your breakthrough.
Thank you for sharing your situation. I feel very similar & it helps to know I am not the only one. I will pray for the both of us tonight.
Baby you got this! I'm encouraged by your awareness! You go and be the greatest version of yourself 🤎
Her honesty is incredible.
In this month I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be in Jesus name
This whole conversation🔥🔥🔥 love listening to it again and again cos I need to work on myself to love myself
Me too 😢....you can't offer what you don't have🫂🇰🇪
SJR, always speaks at the core of my heart, my favourite TH-cam pastor, friend, counselor, teacher I haven't met, but her impact in my life is palpable. God bless you pastor Sarah.
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Amen! Those negative voices were placed there! We don’t put them there ourselves! People can destroy you if you allow it! Don’t allow it!
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Kudos to all the women striving for Greatness