The Courage To Be Kind in Today's Cruel World

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  • @hazie3375
    @hazie3375  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    If you're seeing this comment, then I’d like to share something very important. I know this is unusual and a lot to ask, but I need your help. Please bear with me for a moment. If you're not interested, feel free to ignore this comment and enjoy the video.
    Recently, a friend of mine opened up and told me that someone very close to him is going through an extremely tough time. This person has been working endlessly, handling physically demanding night shifts as a production operator, just trying to get by. My friend said this person had brought it up before, but things have taken a turn for the worse. His health has been getting worse, and he’s worried if he can even afford to eat. He’s barely scraping by, becoming more and more fragile each day. On top of that, his paycheck has been delayed for two weeks now. My friend met up with him to give him lunch since he couldn’t even afford it himself.
    Ever since then, my friend has been helping him financially, but he can’t keep doing it for much longer. The worst part is, this person has no family left, no parents, no close relatives. He’s all alone, with no one else to turn to. He’s reached his lowest point. My friend has been searching for ways to help, trying to find resources or extra jobs he could take, but so far, no one has been able to help him. I’m sharing this because his situation has gotten so dire that I couldn’t just turn a blind eye.
    I know I’m not in a position to ask much from you, but if you're able to help, even iin the smallest way, it would mean the world to him. Whether it's a donation, sharing this post, or just sending kind words, anything helps.
    We’ve set up a PayPal account (Hikari Tenshi) to receive donations, we used PayPal since platforms like GoFundMe is not available in our country, and so he can get back on his feet while looking for more stable work. My friend is using his other PayPal account as to protect his own privacy. I would love to share a photo of him to authenticate this story, but he's not comfortable with that, so I can't provide one. The best I can offer is a screenshot of my conversation with my friend, which explains everything. I hope that’s enough for now.
    I understand if this feels like a big ask. Please know that every bit of help, whether it’s a donation, a share, or just kind words, will make a huge difference. I will do my best to provide updates regarding to the people that donated and be transparent as possible. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.
    UPDATE: First of all, Thank you all so much for contributing for my friend's cause! However, PayPal has decided to- limit my friend's account. We've refunded most of the donations but we've found another platform, Ko-Fi. For those still interested donating, I've placed the link below!
    Ko-Fi: ko-fi.com/hazie
    Pics: imgur.com/a/RsJQZ4l

    • @imranaydin7107
      @imranaydin7107 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      i hope your friend gets better. i wish i could help but paypal is blocked on my country and my wallet only has 3 dollars, best of luck

    • @hikaritenshi2825
      @hikaritenshi2825 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hello everyone, I'm the person who set up the paypal account. Massive thanks to Hazie for everything! Like what Hazie said, my friend really needs help. I just find it disgusting that for all of his hardwork and loyalty is being repaid by this. To the people who did, really, you guys just don't realize how much a dollar donation right about now. We talked to various people and people but no help was given.
      It really puts into perspective just how hard it is to have truly lost financial stability and that the people who could only help are scarce, even some people who you considered friends. Again, thank you for reading up until this point and may you forgive my shamelessness for putting a request like this. Please continue giving Hazie his more than deserved support!

    • @stalepens4462
      @stalepens4462 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Thank you for the love and care put into this work of yours. Please take care and tell your friends to stay strong. Love you guys♥️Please take care, you'll be in my prayers🙏

    • @TapaniLastellar
      @TapaniLastellar 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      best of wishes to your friend 🙏

    • @comradewyvern1150
      @comradewyvern1150 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It may not be much, but I am praying for your dear friend.
      I wish only the best and thank you for reaching out and being so kind to him.

  • @locket-7714
    @locket-7714 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +135

    thats crazy that line "dont wait for an angel be someone elses angel" almost made me tear up

  • @8kuji
    @8kuji 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +323

    If I had someone like Nijika in my life I'd be the richest man on earth. BUT, what if I can be the Nijika in someone else's life.

    • @oneshotter2145
      @oneshotter2145 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

      I remember seeing post where somebody put a picture of nijka to the wall with a text saying "Be your own Nijika"

    • @8kuji
      @8kuji 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      @oneshotter2145 relatable. I need that poster or picture or whatever myself. Like the do it for her thing in Simpsons but with Nijika posters around it all

    • @niicespiice
      @niicespiice 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      what does this mean

    • @cauearamaki7321
      @cauearamaki7321 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I've been someone's nijika for way too long

    • @PoisonProductions_
      @PoisonProductions_ 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      you should, its great.

  • @cynopago635
    @cynopago635 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    “It just takes one bad day” ❌
    “It just takes one good day” ✅

  • @RWR785
    @RWR785 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +109

    Every reason to be a villain but still chose to be a hero

    • @Skorge88-gk1nq
      @Skorge88-gk1nq 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Spiderman lore:

    • @bigby5850
      @bigby5850 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Bars

    • @justiceiria869
      @justiceiria869 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Shadow the hedgehog in a nutshell.

  • @patrxaa5182
    @patrxaa5182 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    When I watched the show, it was clear to me what kind of persons Bocchi and Ryo were, especially since I am introvert myself they were easy to get for me. But I couldn't quite put a finger on the extroverts. I think your video describes it really well.

  • @Gold--
    @Gold-- 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    i needed that pep talk.After everything that happened in my life, and seeing how the world is towards me, I still remained being kind but I question it sometimes cause how come the internet has to be so cruel and awful? there was a time whre it was so much nicer. we have to be the change we want and we shouldnt stop being kind. if we submit to darkness we will have a harder time finding light. for me, the only way I kept staying kind was not changing the way i am out of spite for what happened to me.

  • @keweima5586
    @keweima5586 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    those are some very subtle details of nijika's consideration for other's feelings.

  • @RWR785
    @RWR785 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Everyone on their villain arc meanwhile spider-man in his hero arc:

    • @trainenthusiast5199
      @trainenthusiast5199 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      "I'm just your friendly neighborhood Spider-Man. And that's okay."

  • @soramoto4885
    @soramoto4885 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    When I visited Little Tokyo in LA, there was a Bocci the Rock gachapon machine. I really wanted Bocchi but instead I got two Nijikas in a row. At first I wasn't pleased.
    But after watching this video it feels like the universe is saying something to me with those two Nijikas.

  • @officiaGamingcat
    @officiaGamingcat 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    If person like her exist in this world, then I have no regret becoming a UN peacemaker after this

  • @shibbiso4105
    @shibbiso4105 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    this video came up to me at the right time, thank you.
    i just went through a break up where i was being overly empathetic to someone who was constantly abusing me and taking advantage of my kindness.
    i was pleasing someone else and forgot my own self, and this reminded me that i need to be like Nijika, and not Kita.
    we all all needto help eachother, and it's okay to be a little selfish, but let's not forget ourselves in the process. thank you for making this video.❤

    • @hazie3375
      @hazie3375  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I'm really touched to hear that this video helped you out. I'm sorry that you had to go through all that and I wish to leave you with a few words, If I may. I don't know how it feels but it must be confusing, isn't it? Entrusting and giving all parts of yourself to someone you loved without ever seeing what they were doing to you. And now you're left wondering how you should feel, to mourn the lost relationship, or to feel relieved that they're gone? But regardless, I'll say this: don't stop yourself from feeling all the emotions that this situation brought to you. I know confronting these feelings is scary and painful but keeping it to yourself wouldn't help you either. Don't be afraid to let it out and surround yourself with people who will listen to you, but most of all, as you said, don't forget about yourself. You got this, we'll all move forward ❤.

  • @turnip3475
    @turnip3475 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Who is Nijika? For the blind, she is vision. For the hungry, she is the chef. For the thirsty, she is water. If Nijika thinks, I agree. If Nijika speaks, I'm listening. If Nijika has a million fans, I am one of them. If Nijika has ten fans, I am one of them. If Nijika has only one fan, that is me. If Nijika has no fans, I no longer exist. If the whole world is against Nijika, I am against the whole world. I will love Nijika until my very last breath.

  • @InK_DeD
    @InK_DeD 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This made be almost cry a tiny bit while I was in a public space cause this made me realize I was a bit of a pushover, and I need to work on that stuff

  • @handlebar4520
    @handlebar4520 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    there's a reason people like nijika only exist in anime and fiction

    • @masodu
      @masodu 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Nah, I’ve had some friends like this

  • @figard9855
    @figard9855 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This video is so good and real, I wanted to write an essay in the comments😭

    • @hazie3375
      @hazie3375  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you! And feel free to do so, I'm sure people would resonate with what you will write.

  • @underfrag_
    @underfrag_ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    lwk didnt realize how great of a character nijika was. banger video underrated asf

  • @DisplayName-n8u
    @DisplayName-n8u 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The problem is simple, everyone always abuses my kindness (or maybe if I even have one) and so I can't find any good friends

  • @foonotfooduwu8129
    @foonotfooduwu8129 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This channel is such a hidden gem

  • @nimity
    @nimity 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    No way is this a long form hopecore channel inspired by anime and manga?!? Subbed

  • @FalwI-rj6ym
    @FalwI-rj6ym 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Bro just made me question my life values through bocchi the rock ;-; wow

  • @TapaniLastellar
    @TapaniLastellar 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The dorito angel I still remember vividly to this day~
    I also like your choice of music here

  • @vvvflan
    @vvvflan 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    this video is so important to me, it made me realize things and i wish to be like nijika more. great video :)

  • @HaterExclusively
    @HaterExclusively 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    On the journey to teach myself compassion.

  • @Skorge88-gk1nq
    @Skorge88-gk1nq 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Every morning I wake up with my [Nijika Picture] and try to be like her, my favorite deredere

  • @arthurduarte-m6m
    @arthurduarte-m6m 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She´s so precious S2

  • @fallenangelcrimson
    @fallenangelcrimson 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    try to smile as they devour our youth

  • @externiter
    @externiter 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Damn.

  • @Soroush-f8v
    @Soroush-f8v 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was beautiful ngl

  • @zifebort8245
    @zifebort8245 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    and the one that is both kind and nice is ryuiichi from gakuen babysitter:3

  • @celanvaril6200
    @celanvaril6200 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No one has enemy in this life thorfinn...

  • @deego237
    @deego237 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    PROTECT NIJIKA AT ALL COSTS BOIS, HER SMILE SHALL NOT FADE!

  • @FlamHam
    @FlamHam 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is peak

  • @gabrielkim2301
    @gabrielkim2301 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful

  • @stalepens4462
    @stalepens4462 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Based hope inspiring video.🌷

  • @Wannabe-EdgeLord-Kami
    @Wannabe-EdgeLord-Kami 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    0:26 they don’t exist

  • @hidd3n_
    @hidd3n_ 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    💛

  • @TheAveragist-n2j
    @TheAveragist-n2j 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

  • @KitannaColumbine
    @KitannaColumbine 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I want to be her

  • @ohw5306
    @ohw5306 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cantanpro4205
    @cantanpro4205 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Spoiler..

  • @handlebar4520
    @handlebar4520 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    0:20 POV you live in a liberal western society:

    • @Observer-f5k
      @Observer-f5k 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      aren't liberal suppose to be larping as nice-wimpy-soy-soft-cuck-beta while conservative are the hard men who don't take political correct polite society and tell you how it really suppose to be and give you harsh treatment to get you ready for the world like some sort of shock therapy like if my father watched this show he probably would have hated it and made a statement about how brutally and physically beating bocchi would've solved everything because that's where the old school tough parenting is at and not this wimpy modern liberal parenting of encouraging your kids to do as they want

  • @hikaritenshi2825
    @hikaritenshi2825 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    7 views in 12 minutes, Hazie has truly fallen off 😭😭😭

    • @hazie3375
      @hazie3375  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      🙂