I got 2 hugs the other day from a coworker that we always joke around with each other. She was like “do you need a hug?” I guess she could since how low I was feeling. It was a few seconds and just tight enough. First real human contact moment I’ve had in at least a year. Almost made me tear up. Felt like someone could see pass the mask I keep up and they cared
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
@@icysnow57cold64I feel the entire opposite, the other way around. The reason why it works for platonic relationships is because you aren’t down each others throats at every little thing. Apply that same principle to a spouse, it’ll work out. In platonic relationships you think you truly know them but you really don’t because you’re not as close as you would be with a spouse. Not saying don’t get close to your spouse but don’t shoot each other down the throat for every little thing like you wouldn’t in a platonic relationship. Romantic relationships are supposed to be enhanced platonic relationships. What I mean by that is that romantic relationships are very similar to that of a platonic relationship only difference is that romantic relationships you are intimate together. Your romantic partner is supposed to be your best friend. Your partner in crime.
@@jennyjenjen_420 Well in my opinion, it just seems that platonic relationships seem more real than romantic relationships do. From my experience, platonic relationships seem to be a lot more intimate and comfortable than romantic relationships are. Most people seem to be a lot more comfortable around their platonic best friends than they are around their romantic partners or spouses. And in my experience, it seems that people tend to trust their platonic best friends more than their romantic partners.
i did get a hug from a crush whom was not interested in me. but he was leaving the company, he actually had the courage to ask me for a hug despite i was well known for saying no to hugs. I initially pulled back but he teased me insisting it. So i said yes since he was my crush. He wrapped his arms around me and pulled me towards him and hugged me really tight and i felt being loved at that moment. And then, within that hug, he pulled me in the second time totally against his chest turning it into a romantic hug. I froze. As he released me, he greeted me with his signature smile. He sure created a long-lasting precious memory that i recalled once in awhile before his departure despite being rejected.
Hugs are so powerful & a reflection of what You give, its not just about throwing Your arms around someone, it's expressing the loving energy, so many of us wait for it before giving it, its not a judgmental thing, You gotta just give it to receive it
Twaneva3460, ""handshake hug" is also the "Paratrooper Hug;" learned this from my Uncle who was in the 11th Airborne, & made two combat jumps over WW2 Japanese-occupied Philippines.
For strictly rated "'G" reasons, being a guy, it really makes my day when a female anywhere from 3 years old to 80 gives me a long, good hug. It just makes me feel good and happy all day.
I am frightened of hugs. I always believe an alterior reason is afoot for the hug. Paranoia is an ugly thing. However, at least I realise there is likely paranoia involved, at least from a analytical point of view. However, to me, it feels as if there really is some sort of alternative reason for giving that hug.
@@indridcold8433i identify. I came from a violent family, and carry a deep fear of touch, some therapists call it "tactile defensive". I'm a recovering alcoholic, and in program many share hugs. I wouldn't call it paranoia, that's a disservice. Some of us are hypervigilant
@@tommac21 Each hug is given with a mission, to get your guard down. This could be to get your guard down for benevolent reasons. However, far more likely, the hug may be given for nefarious reasons. I would rather err in the side of caution and keep others away from me. For every person that may have a good intention for me, there are likely well over 1000 people with bad intentions. I do not even know one person with benevolent intentions for me. I know nobody. Thus, nobody could possibly have good I tensions towards me. The intentions they must have are either indifference or bad intentions towards me. Thus, hugs must be rejected.
1. 0:43 long hug 2. 1:11 polite hug 3. 1:36 the back hug 4. 1:55 the tight hug 5. 2:21 the bear hug 6. 2:54 the quick hug 7. 3:21 the friend hug 8. 3:41 the hug around the waist 9. 4:01 the slow dance hug 10. 4:25 the eye hug 11. 4:47 the side hug
What if you're co worker gives u a Long bear hugged, and u really don't know them or her, she gives u a long bear hugged and you really don't know her?
Simple things not only, but I also do them unintentionally. Because, when you love someone no matter what it is, It's the genuine love and faith only you can see in their eyes.
A few years ago I saw a old friend I hadn't seen for a couple of years . Before she left she gave me a long tight hug. That hug has stayed with me. I still think about it and her.
I've been someone who always likes the feeling Hugs. Hugs has helped me during times like: when I'm sad, someone has hurt me emotionally, after a bad day, Hugs help me clam down. I always loved give friends who I trust and who know me well hugs just to tell them that I love them and that I appreciate them and they also give me a hug in return. Most people who know me knows that how I communicate that they mean the world to me and I also mean the world to them. Cuz they will know who to get a Hug from.
I went to a class reunion recently. I was hugged by 2 or 3 women in the first half hour at their request. I saw a women/classmate that I see every reunion and we occasionally will see each other in group get-togethers in between. I decided that for a change, I might as well take the initiative. I went in for a hug and she turned sideways and put one hand around my upper arm. I smiled and said, "No, let's have a real hug, like an embrace." She actually got huffy and said that no, she wasn't going to do that. She then marched off. That was our 55th class reunion. I am 73 and back in the day, hugging was not a thing. Consequently, I have given it thought over the years. First, hugging is the act of entering someone else's space. This makes it tricky. Since the huggers generally are friends or at least know each other, there's usually not much in the way of an "ask". That creates more problems than it solves. In all likelihood, my days of initiating a hug are now over. I will allow myself to be hugged, but I'm not going the other way and asking for a hug.
Sometimes the type of hug can be used to determine where a person stands with the other person in terms of the perceived level of friendship. That's especially true with two people who have not seen each other in a while.
I miss my mother’s, they were the best hugs ever ! Could literally run into her chest at the end of the school term and feel so loved. R.I.P mspa mum ❤
#13. The Pet Hug. When the cat or dog or other household critter sits on your lap, and suddenly life seems ever so slightly better. Prolonged pet hugs have a stronger effect. If hugging your cat... mind the claws.
Anyone still watching this in 2024... lonely, depressed and needs hug.... don't be afraid to ask someone... absolutely anybody. Others empathy does exist and people do also understand and are going through some negative bs in their lives and probably would like a hug to tbh....think about that. Stay blessed peeps
I used to be hugged regularly as a child up until the age of 9 years. The hugs stopped there. There were no hugs through the remaining childhood years and teenage years. It was at the end of a work day during a mid autumn's eve that I received my first, and currently only, adult hug at the age of 26 years of age. It was an unexpected hug that I received from a female coworker of the time. She asked if I would accompany her to her vehicle. She spoke to me about her home life and her preferences in life as we walked to her vehicle. It seemed she parked very far away from the main entry way. When we arrived at her vehicle, she pulled me into her and gave me a tight hug as she placed her head on my chest, near my shoulder. I think it triggered the fight or flight genetic response to being touched, I guess. I chose to remain silent and let her finish the hug. I had no appropriate response to the hug because I had no prior reference to being hugged as an adult. I simply let it happen. It rather made an impression because I remember it was a Friday's eve of early October. The autumn leaves were drifting about. The colours of the leaves and the dusk were incredible. It was 21 degrees centigrade. I can not say it was a comfortable feeling. There was a lot of confusion, a bit of fear, and a lot of wonderment as to her possible motive. Maybe there was an underlying nefarious reason for her unprompted familiarity. I had to stay on guard out of self protection. The following work days she seemed friendly to an excess with me. I concluded there must have been something she was trying to obtain from me. Thus, I simply continued my work silently, exchanging the occasional polite greetings and felicitations. It seemed she would go out of her normal routine to greet me and spread what appeared to be cheer. But, she never communicated verbal intent for her unprompted familiarity with me. The months passed and it appeared that she became wise to the fact that I was rather suspicious of her behavior. Her overly amicable behavior became subdued, gradually declining back to the behavioral baseline that preceded her unexpected hug. It is never bad decision to be weary of those around you. One never knows what intent others have for us. Be careful.
@@cup001-w3m It is very unlikely she liked me. I am extremely quiet and let nobody really know me. I believe she was trying to get my guard down so she could use me for some unpleasant reason. Even if I were a great looking guy, which I am not, there is no way anybody could consider me for amicable or amorous relationships. I keep my distance.
@@Yumemi_Riamu Yes, it is my time to practice written English. At work, there are some diagrams and schematics that are only available in English. I often translate those documents into French or Spanish for the workers more comfortable with French or Spanish.
12: the jump hug, where you run up to someone and jump into there arms and they swing you around while having there arms around your waist and you have your arms around there neck. (Aka #1 best hug)
Aphrodite....I've no idea what kind of hug we're sharing...it just always feels amazing and perks me up. Like the world melts and nothing else matters in that moment. I feel so clingy because I keep wanting it.
so i was on my own in this new town for graduate school, and it was a stressful full-time program. There was one time when i told one of my classmates about how i felt depressed and had no desire to eat, and he gave me a tight bear hug. On the last day of our 1st year, another one of my classmates gave me a tight bear hug as farewell, since we'd be scattered throughout different cities for clinical. These hugs really took some stress out of me.
I was at church and after the worship songs, we would greet each other. There was a woman there who I didn't know well, but she was roommates with 2 of my friends, one of which also went to the same church. I did not know if this woman liked me or I was just a friend of her roommates. She had recently moved into the area, so I had met her, but didn't know her well. I thought she was cool and wanted to have a friendship with her, not just having her roommates as mutual friends. So, when we greeted each other during this service, she stuck out her hand for me to shake. I was cool with that. I went to shake her hand and she laughed and gave me a hug. Then, I knew that even though we didn't know each other well, she valued me as a friend, or at least, a potential friend and not just a friend of her roommates. It also told me that she probably felt that I valued her as an individual and not just a friend of friends.
I cry at every single one. I can’t be hugged without physically or internally crying Edit: please don’t make me the bad guy here, but I’ve lost all reason to care. I have very little to live for now, and it’d be better to share your stories with those you love rather than me. Have a nice one.
The worst hug is an unwanted hug, Someone once gave me a long bear hug and wouldn’t let me go and it was creepy. Even when I tried to take a step back the person didn’t let go, it was so odd and awkward
Me who searched how does it feel to be hugged Edit: guys, i just got a girlfrien and really, it feels incredible to be hugged. I wish you the best of luck to find someone who loves you. Stay strong 💪 Edit: we broke off a few weeks ago...it was nice tho
i gave my friend a gift for the holidays and he asked to give me a hug (it was a nice fairly long hug, no more than 10secs) i think i was literally holding onto him...i definitely did hold him close tho i really needed that hug :)
Hugs, especially from a woman or a girl, are my gifts, and are more worth than all the money in the world. Perhaps they are not sexually stimulating, they feel as sweet like sweet-sounding music. My favorite hug is a long and tight hug. It is the greatest reward that could happen to me.
For female friends or family, the bear hug and for male friends, the bump hug. The bear hug for me is more out of love for that person and the bump hug is more to show respect and that we’re cool.
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I give bear hugs to my younger siblings to hear the air leave their mouth and also to my partner because I don't know how else to release my excitement and affection to him.
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my fav is not here, it is when a guy is like holding my arms? i don't know how to explain but i'll try my best. yk, when a guy is hugging you (he is usually taller) and he puts his head on your shoulder and his left hand is holding your right arm and his right hand is holding your left arm? i am not sure if you know what i am talking about but it's something like this (just very tight hug like in "Tangled" 🤷♀🤷♀)
0:23 was the greatest one. I knew a female co-worker that happily said "Happy Valentine's Day!" Then I said it back to her. Then she reached her arms out and said "Come give me a hug!" And we did! 💙💖 Also, she knows i have a girlfriend.
This video has a lot of helpful tips on variations of the hugs I misinterpreted as there meaning ,thank you for the clarification. I have not been with a woman in 35 years and a lot of things have changed.
I am the side hug type ! lol well nice video and I so agree eyes are the window of the soul ! My dad bear hugged everyone and his musician friends and coworkers said they would have a sore neck after his hugs ! 🎦
Hi Sandile, I hope you are well and happy. Greetings from Ireland. I like hugs too - it’s very comforting. I would hate to see someone take advantage of you. Be careful of people offering help and assistance as things are not always what they seem. So think twice before you give a complete stranger your WhatsApp number. Best wishes for a lovely day 😊🙏 Michael
All HUGs 💁🏻♀️ I’ve always been a Hugger at any stage of meeting anyone! I truly believe in Heart Hugs as well! My grandmother none stop would tell me that my hugs are healing! As a mom, always made sure my kiddos had some type of skin to skin contact hugs rather my hand on theirs or on their spin or on their neck to reconnect to our natural bond from when they grew, developed inside my womb. Most times I can immediately know when a person needs a hug without exchanging words! Hugs are crucial for human nature! Sometimes when I feel someone near me that needs a hug but they are reserved, I will gently ask them do they need a hug and often time they say yes or just lean into for the hug and they appear happier or better afterwards. The same thing for a simple smile can make someone’s day! lol! Other times I will notice someone is a bit down or serious or lost in thought… I will tell them: You dropped something… person turns to look around and then look at me confused… I then immediately tell them Their Smile AND then that person Smiles walks away with joy! 😊
I think of a long hug as when you are saying goodbye to someone and won't see them again for a while. It's like you don't want to let them go. Or it can be comforting for someone going through a tough time, particularly between two women. What girl hasn't given a police hug when she doesn't want a guy to think she has stronger feelings for him than she really does? Especially, if she knows he really likes her. Gotta create A LOT of space between her waisted and his. Maybe pat his back a couple times so he doesn't feel too bad. It's meant to send a message without being a jerk and I think guys usually get it loud and clear.
Body language of over shoulder, under arm hugs slightly underrated, apart from height of respective subjects. Free hugs best, ie not just free of charge but free if inhibition by hugger/huggee.
The best hugs ive had where almost 2 yrs ago. From my high school crush that I'd not seen in 30 yrs. Too bad he ghosted me 5 months later. Not been hugged since. Very very sad. 😢
Number 4 and 5 are my favorites but my favorite of all the hugs is a long and tight hug, i love those hugs so much ❤❤. These video is helpfull, very helpful
My guy best friend hugged me before leaving for summer break and told me “take care of yourself” while hugging me tight then left and said “ik u will miss me”
@@Lana50500 in my opinion as a guy, then yes he probably does, but is unsure how you feel about him….why not tell him he was right, you did miss him and see how he responds. ( would you like him to be your partner, rather than friend? ) it’s just as hard for us guys to know how you women feel about us you know.
What type of hug is your favorite? Let us know in the comments.
it is long hug
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Tight hug
A long hug and a tight hug, because I miss someone on my journey. The sweetest thing I would do is to wish them good luck.
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12. Pillow Hug.. when you are not getting any hugs and watching this video while hugging your pillow 🤗😬
are you okay?
@@williamthompson4568 no
@@williamthompson4568 lol no
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Oh my god..... You got me man... It's for single people
Sometimes, A hug can be more powerful than thousands of words...
But more often, it can spread disease and get people's guards down for an attack. Times have changed, not fr the better.
The problem about hugging is most people in thai culture perceive it as this only for couple already married.
Very True!
@@LogeshwaranM Keep your guard up when you allow someone to hug you. Be careful.
@@indridcold8433 just some feel good hug won’t effect us! You have to be careful who you let to hug you! 🙂
I really love tight and long hugs❤ They're just worth it.❤❤
I went to the doctor today and was having a bad day and the sweet old nurse gave me a hug & I needed it.. 👍
Best. Nurse. Ever
I got 2 hugs the other day from a coworker that we always joke around with each other. She was like “do you need a hug?” I guess she could since how low I was feeling. It was a few seconds and just tight enough. First real human contact moment I’ve had in at least a year. Almost made me tear up. Felt like someone could see pass the mask I keep up and they cared
If I could hug you, I definitely would.
Sadly, I haven’t had any contact/hugs for more than 4 years or more
@@ashtonmalla3645sending you a virtual hug 😊
Wow in a year !!!! Do you stay far away from family and friends sending you hugs buddy
@@ashtonmalla36454 years😢😢 sending you plenty of hugs
When my crush and I really hugged for the first time, the beauty of it was that we didn't immediately let go, we just held on
I hope that happens to me real soon. We're long overdue for our first hug.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
couldnt agree more @@icysnow57cold64
@@icysnow57cold64I feel the entire opposite, the other way around. The reason why it works for platonic relationships is because you aren’t down each others throats at every little thing. Apply that same principle to a spouse, it’ll work out. In platonic relationships you think you truly know them but you really don’t because you’re not as close as you would be with a spouse. Not saying don’t get close to your spouse but don’t shoot each other down the throat for every little thing like you wouldn’t in a platonic relationship. Romantic relationships are supposed to be enhanced platonic relationships. What I mean by that is that romantic relationships are very similar to that of a platonic relationship only difference is that romantic relationships you are intimate together. Your romantic partner is supposed to be your best friend. Your partner in crime.
@@jennyjenjen_420 Well in my opinion, it just seems that platonic relationships seem more real than romantic relationships do. From my experience, platonic relationships seem to be a lot more intimate and comfortable than romantic relationships are. Most people seem to be a lot more comfortable around their platonic best friends than they are around their romantic partners or spouses. And in my experience, it seems that people tend to trust their platonic best friends more than their romantic partners.
I'm a person who loves to receive and give hugs, and I typically give tight hugs to all my friends and family!
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i did get a hug from a crush whom was not interested in me. but he was leaving the company, he actually had the courage to ask me for a hug despite i was well known for saying no to hugs. I initially pulled back but he teased me insisting it. So i said yes since he was my crush. He wrapped his arms around me and pulled me towards him and hugged me really tight and i felt being loved at that moment. And then, within that hug, he pulled me in the second time totally against his chest turning it into a romantic hug. I froze. As he released me, he greeted me with his signature smile. He sure created a long-lasting precious memory that i recalled once in awhile before his departure despite being rejected.
Ouch this hits me hard😢
I always wanted to be hugged for a very long time from a person who truly cares for me no matter what I am
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Hugs are so powerful & a reflection of what You give, its not just about throwing Your arms around someone, it's expressing the loving energy, so many of us wait for it before giving it, its not a judgmental thing, You gotta just give it to receive it
11. Handshake hug - typically an urban thing
12. Pro wrestler hug - each person has one hand over the shoulder
Me and my best friends brother that’s like kinds my friend we do the handshake hug
Yes the handshake 🤝 hug conveys Closeness & Joy without any sexuality 🥰👍
Twaneva3460, ""handshake hug" is also the "Paratrooper Hug;" learned this from my Uncle who was in the 11th Airborne, & made two combat jumps over WW2 Japanese-occupied Philippines.
I'm not a big talks a lot Mum's Boy ; I will say that the most gratifying and fulfilling content feeling of letting me know .
I'll never let go ; ..
I like to do the tight hug. I get a lot of compliments because of it. People that are struggling in life appreciate those.
For strictly rated "'G" reasons, being a guy, it really makes my day when a female anywhere from 3 years old to 80 gives me a long, good hug. It just makes me feel good and happy all day.
^^ Yes! I love hugs but they are mostly random
I am frightened of hugs. I always believe an alterior reason is afoot for the hug. Paranoia is an ugly thing. However, at least I realise there is likely paranoia involved, at least from a analytical point of view. However, to me, it feels as if there really is some sort of alternative reason for giving that hug.
Yes but each one doesn't have a different meaning
@@indridcold8433i identify. I came from a violent family, and carry a deep fear of touch, some therapists call it "tactile defensive". I'm a recovering alcoholic, and in program many share hugs. I wouldn't call it paranoia, that's a disservice. Some of us are hypervigilant
@@tommac21 Each hug is given with a mission, to get your guard down. This could be to get your guard down for benevolent reasons. However, far more likely, the hug may be given for nefarious reasons. I would rather err in the side of caution and keep others away from me. For every person that may have a good intention for me, there are likely well over 1000 people with bad intentions. I do not even know one person with benevolent intentions for me. I know nobody. Thus, nobody could possibly have good I tensions towards me. The intentions they must have are either indifference or bad intentions towards me. Thus, hugs must be rejected.
1. 0:43 long hug
2. 1:11 polite hug
3. 1:36 the back hug
4. 1:55 the tight hug
5. 2:21 the bear hug
6. 2:54 the quick hug
7. 3:21 the friend hug
8. 3:41 the hug around the waist
9. 4:01 the slow dance hug
10. 4:25 the eye hug
11. 4:47 the side hug
You forgot what they meant!! 😁
@@kristyperry6846 😂😂u have to be curious to watch it all the to the end
@@eltonmtemeri7442 just joshing ya
Yeah
What if you're co worker gives u a Long bear hugged, and u really don't know them or her, she gives u a long bear hugged and you really don't know her?
I love long tight hugssss, they’re heartwarming and even better romantically 🥴
True💙
Same. I even do it with a friend who I actually rather consider a sort of big sister. It’s just really good for the hard things I’m facing
Simple things not only, but I also do them unintentionally. Because, when you love someone no matter what it is, It's the genuine love and faith only you can see in their eyes.
A few years ago I saw a old friend I hadn't seen for a couple of years . Before she left she gave me a long tight hug. That hug has stayed with me. I still think about it and her.
I've been someone who always likes the feeling Hugs. Hugs has helped me during times like: when I'm sad, someone has hurt me emotionally, after a bad day, Hugs help me clam down. I always loved give friends who I trust and who know me well hugs just to tell them that I love them and that I appreciate them and they also give me a hug in return. Most people who know me knows that how I communicate that they mean the world to me and I also mean the world to them. Cuz they will know who to get a Hug from.
I went to a class reunion recently. I was hugged by 2 or 3 women in the first half hour at their request. I saw a women/classmate that I see every reunion and we occasionally will see each other in group get-togethers in between. I decided that for a change, I might as well take the initiative. I went in for a hug and she turned sideways and put one hand around my upper arm. I smiled and said, "No, let's have a real hug, like an embrace." She actually got huffy and said that no, she wasn't going to do that. She then marched off. That was our 55th class reunion. I am 73 and back in the day, hugging was not a thing. Consequently, I have given it thought over the years. First, hugging is the act of entering someone else's space. This makes it tricky. Since the huggers generally are friends or at least know each other, there's usually not much in the way of an "ask". That creates more problems than it solves. In all likelihood, my days of initiating a hug are now over. I will allow myself to be hugged, but I'm not going the other way and asking for a hug.
Sometimes the type of hug can be used to determine where a person stands with the other person in terms of the perceived level of friendship. That's especially true with two people who have not seen each other in a while.
She had the problem. Don't make it your problem.
I’ve never had a tight, full body hug. And that’s exactly the hug I want from the person I like. I feel like it could solve a lot of problems
If I could give you that, I would
same...
@@hannahsage how sweet😢
I never thought about this types all.... but surely one day I will receive that from my one of the person whom now I am thinking 😮😶😶😶😶
Long tight hugs are a salve for the spirit.
I do back hugs the most, it very much sums up how I feel when I’m with my close friends!
I love the long and tight hug, it makes me feel comfortable
I love my mother's hug ❤️❤️
so sweet
I miss my mother’s, they were the best hugs ever ! Could literally run into her chest at the end of the school term and feel so loved. R.I.P mspa mum ❤
@@preciousoutwesigav5867💔💔
I love the friendship hug especially the facial pressing on the side I love that so much
#13. The Pet Hug. When the cat or dog or other household critter sits on your lap, and suddenly life seems ever so slightly better. Prolonged pet hugs have a stronger effect. If hugging your cat... mind the claws.
My old cat used to sleep in my lap
Anyone still watching this in 2024... lonely, depressed and needs hug.... don't be afraid to ask someone... absolutely anybody. Others empathy does exist and people do also understand and are going through some negative bs in their lives and probably would like a hug to tbh....think about that. Stay blessed peeps
Am here going through the toughest time in my entire life,I just need an encouraging hug.
I used to be hugged regularly as a child up until the age of 9 years. The hugs stopped there. There were no hugs through the remaining childhood years and teenage years. It was at the end of a work day during a mid autumn's eve that I received my first, and currently only, adult hug at the age of 26 years of age. It was an unexpected hug that I received from a female coworker of the time. She asked if I would accompany her to her vehicle. She spoke to me about her home life and her preferences in life as we walked to her vehicle. It seemed she parked very far away from the main entry way. When we arrived at her vehicle, she pulled me into her and gave me a tight hug as she placed her head on my chest, near my shoulder. I think it triggered the fight or flight genetic response to being touched, I guess. I chose to remain silent and let her finish the hug. I had no appropriate response to the hug because I had no prior reference to being hugged as an adult. I simply let it happen. It rather made an impression because I remember it was a Friday's eve of early October. The autumn leaves were drifting about. The colours of the leaves and the dusk were incredible. It was 21 degrees centigrade. I can not say it was a comfortable feeling. There was a lot of confusion, a bit of fear, and a lot of wonderment as to her possible motive. Maybe there was an underlying nefarious reason for her unprompted familiarity. I had to stay on guard out of self protection. The following work days she seemed friendly to an excess with me. I concluded there must have been something she was trying to obtain from me. Thus, I simply continued my work silently, exchanging the occasional polite greetings and felicitations. It seemed she would go out of her normal routine to greet me and spread what appeared to be cheer. But, she never communicated verbal intent for her unprompted familiarity with me. The months passed and it appeared that she became wise to the fact that I was rather suspicious of her behavior. Her overly amicable behavior became subdued, gradually declining back to the behavioral baseline that preceded her unexpected hug.
It is never bad decision to be weary of those around you. One never knows what intent others have for us. Be careful.
🤣🤣Or maybe she just liked you
@@cup001-w3m It is very unlikely she liked me. I am extremely quiet and let nobody really know me. I believe she was trying to get my guard down so she could use me for some unpleasant reason. Even if I were a great looking guy, which I am not, there is no way anybody could consider me for amicable or amorous relationships. I keep my distance.
did you just write a short novel in a comment section 😭
My guy she probably liked you 💀
@@Yumemi_Riamu Yes, it is my time to practice written English. At work, there are some diagrams and schematics that are only available in English. I often translate those documents into French or Spanish for the workers more comfortable with French or Spanish.
My grand daughter sometimes gives me long hugs especially if she is down about something. Its very heart warming to me and it makes her feel safe.
12: the jump hug, where you run up to someone and jump into there arms and they swing you around while having there arms around your waist and you have your arms around there neck. (Aka #1 best hug)
Aphrodite....I've no idea what kind of hug we're sharing...it just always feels amazing and perks me up. Like the world melts and nothing else matters in that moment. I feel so clingy because I keep wanting it.
I , SALUTE YOU ! ! ! We're being led to believe that EVERY couple is mixed race ! Thank you for the honesty !
so i was on my own in this new town for graduate school, and it was a stressful full-time program. There was one time when i told one of my classmates about how i felt depressed and had no desire to eat, and he gave me a tight bear hug. On the last day of our 1st year, another one of my classmates gave me a tight bear hug as farewell, since we'd be scattered throughout different cities for clinical. These hugs really took some stress out of me.
Thank you for sharing this
My Favorite Is The Long Hug!!
Self Hug...
Usually doing this to relax my neck and shoulder muscles, after finishing my work.
It works for me in a nice way... 😜
Hugging yourself is not normal
@@olnifem8 That's sad to hear
@@olnifem8It’s ok to do that! I sometimes do that!
Hugs are great healers. 🫂
I agree
Agreed 💯
😊😊😊
I'm 80 years old, I've never heard such true words, thank you for sharing them.
You're very welcome
I miss Christmas party. I told her, beautiful teenage girl gave me hug.
I will never forget it.
I love you brooke ❤❤❤❤❤
#23 The Motorcycle Hug. You get so excited you jump on your bike, grabbing the handlebars firmly and never let go 😂
So helpful. Im so thankful for this video because I have a hard time understanding social cues and this will help me out so much
I was at church and after the worship songs, we would greet each other. There was a woman there who I didn't know well, but she was roommates with 2 of my friends, one of which also went to the same church. I did not know if this woman liked me or I was just a friend of her roommates. She had recently moved into the area, so I had met her, but didn't know her well. I thought she was cool and wanted to have a friendship with her, not just having her roommates as mutual friends. So, when we greeted each other during this service, she stuck out her hand for me to shake. I was cool with that. I went to shake her hand and she laughed and gave me a hug. Then, I knew that even though we didn't know each other well, she valued me as a friend, or at least, a potential friend and not just a friend of her roommates. It also told me that she probably felt that I valued her as an individual and not just a friend of friends.
this is so underrated
Men I now this
13. Gratitude hugs/appreciative hugs are my favorite
I cry at every single one. I can’t be hugged without physically or internally crying
Edit: please don’t make me the bad guy here, but I’ve lost all reason to care. I have very little to live for now, and it’d be better to share your stories with those you love rather than me. Have a nice one.
Damn
Awwww 😪
@@jordanlemnah771 nah, thanks.
@@fudgeoff842 no
@r thanks I guess
Tight ang back hug love it so much ....!!!
The worst hug is an unwanted hug, Someone once gave me a long bear hug and wouldn’t let me go and it was creepy. Even when I tried to take a step back the person didn’t let go, it was so odd and awkward
😂😂 oh wow.
I agree thats why I don't hug anymore and I used to be a hugger
Thats weird
I can relate to this
Did they say "I knew it was you Fredo?"
I'm waiting for the long "I love you and I've missed you" hug from a special girl and I'll be saying the same thing right back to her.
Wow! #Longcyberhug
I hope you got it.
My favorite is the TIGHT HUG. This is the way we Hug in my close family ❤
Lol I went to get a hug from my crush and it was so weird I didn't know what I was doing 😂
If most people are be honest then most of us did this at least 1 time or another.
You brave
So my crush is one year older than me
I have a friend name Ella. I love to hug her and it feels like there is a special spot in her arms made just for me
Watching all those hugs. I want a hug , any hug will do 🤗😔
Me who searched how does it feel to be hugged
Edit: guys, i just got a girlfrien and really, it feels incredible to be hugged. I wish you the best of luck to find someone who loves you. Stay strong 💪
Edit: we broke off a few weeks ago...it was nice tho
If the hug comes the person of the opposite sex, then great. If it comes from the person of the same sex, salute!
@@captainkeyboard1007 yea...
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If any video on TH-cam deserves a nice long "AWWWWW", it's this one. 🙂
I love how all the clips I’m seeing make me and the people I sent this to feel more single every clip 😂
i gave my friend a gift for the holidays and he asked to give me a hug (it was a nice fairly long hug, no more than 10secs)
i think i was literally holding onto him...i definitely did hold him close tho
i really needed that hug :)
Very good hug, I know how its felt.
My friend gave me hug, I will never forget its, I love you brooke. ❤❤❤
GREAT VIDEO THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟 DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜
Thanks for watching!
Hugs, especially from a woman or a girl, are my gifts, and are more worth than all the money in the world. Perhaps they are not sexually stimulating, they feel as sweet like sweet-sounding music. My favorite hug is a long and tight hug. It is the greatest reward that could happen to me.
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Me too, gentle but Long and sweet like someone really cares about me.
I like a soft and gentle hugs but if it was my boyfriend , I would never let him go😂🦋🦋🦋🦋🌹🌹🌹💘💘💘👄
I just like hugs, the close hugs feel so good 👍😊😊💐
Beautiful video!💕🙏🌹
Thanks for visiting
For female friends or family, the bear hug and for male friends, the bump hug. The bear hug for me is more out of love for that person and the bump hug is more to show respect and that we’re cool.
Don't you love your guy friends?
@@srdjanrikic978 of course I do. The bump hug shows that as well
you should give your male friends the bear hug more often
I got a hug in 2016, 2007, 1996, and 1985. I got a compliment in 2007 as well. Men remember these things forever.
Didn't know there were types.
Sounds like you've got a timeless collection of hugs and compliments, each carrying its own special memory!
Love the Bear hug 🤗
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Na so, so, romantic hug i dey hear since 😂, na wa o😂
I give bear hugs to my younger siblings to hear the air leave their mouth and also to my partner because I don't know how else to release my excitement and affection to him.
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Hello ,I just stumbled upon over this video by chance. Great video indeed. Thx for sharing. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. Cheers. P.S.Subbed2 🙌🏼🎅🏼🎄
Thank you for the kind words! Happy Holidays to you too!
my fav is not here, it is when a guy is like holding my arms? i don't know how to explain but i'll try my best.
yk, when a guy is hugging you (he is usually taller) and he puts his head on your shoulder and his left hand is holding your right arm and his right hand is holding your left arm? i am not sure if you know what i am talking about but it's something like this (just very tight hug like in "Tangled" 🤷♀🤷♀)
Ma favorite is
Back , waist, n eye to eye plus the slow dance 😌
My Favorite Hug 🤗 As A Friend 🤗❤️
0:23 was the greatest one. I knew a female co-worker that happily said "Happy Valentine's Day!" Then I said it back to her. Then she reached her arms out and said "Come give me a hug!" And we did! 💙💖 Also, she knows i have a girlfriend.
Watching This made me realise I really need a hug
This video has a lot of helpful tips on variations of the hugs I misinterpreted as there meaning ,thank you for the clarification. I have not been with a woman in 35 years and a lot of things have changed.
You are so welcome!
A hug is just a hug as time goes bye!
I love long hugs with close friends. There is no better way to connect with their hearts.
I do the tight hug and the bear hug to my bestie each day is that bad- I also sometimes hug her that tight that she can't breathe- I'm bad I know
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Never . Tight hug and Bear hug are the best type of hugs . Hug your best friend , brother , sister , parents more , cuz tomorrow isn't promised
woooooo i got you
@@kakalimukhopadhyay15yearsa48 🙌
Hugs from friends make my day.
I am the side hug type ! lol well nice video and I so agree eyes are the window of the soul ! My dad bear hugged everyone and his musician friends and coworkers said they would have a sore neck after his hugs ! 🎦
My favourites are long hug, back hug and tight hug🤗🤗
Very interesting!
Thank you
I love long and tight hugs especially when girls hug you like that cuz those hugs make me feel more comfortable and at ease
Hi Sandile, I hope you are well and happy. Greetings from Ireland. I like hugs too - it’s very comforting. I would hate to see someone take advantage of you. Be careful of people offering help and assistance as things are not always what they seem. So think twice before you give a complete stranger your WhatsApp number. Best wishes for a lovely day 😊🙏 Michael
I like the surprise hug where the person doesn't see you come in and do it. Unfortunately the strangers I give it to are not big fans of it.
Like it bro👍
Thank you
I hug my family. That's it.
Every other hug is phony to me and is usually done for show.
All HUGs 💁🏻♀️ I’ve always been a Hugger at any stage of meeting anyone! I truly believe in Heart Hugs as well! My grandmother none stop would tell me that my hugs are healing! As a mom, always made sure my kiddos had some type of skin to skin contact hugs rather my hand on theirs or on their spin or on their neck to reconnect to our natural bond from when they grew, developed inside my womb. Most times I can immediately know when a person needs a hug without exchanging words! Hugs are crucial for human nature! Sometimes when I feel someone near me that needs a hug but they are reserved, I will gently ask them do they need a hug and often time they say yes or just lean into for the hug and they appear happier or better afterwards. The same thing for a simple smile can make someone’s day! lol! Other times I will notice someone is a bit down or serious or lost in thought… I will tell them: You dropped something… person turns to look around and then look at me confused… I then immediately tell them Their Smile AND then that person Smiles walks away with joy! 😊
If you are attracted to someone, and they give you a side hug, it's the worst feeling in the world.
very best explanation
Thank you
The bear hug is my favorite.
🌿 No...no...no...its not my favorite....!!
We are all different, which is a good thing.
Useful info
Thanks for liking
I think of a long hug as when you are saying goodbye to someone and won't see them again for a while. It's like you don't want to let them go. Or it can be comforting for someone going through a tough time, particularly between two women.
What girl hasn't given a police hug when she doesn't want a guy to think she has stronger feelings for him than she really does? Especially, if she knows he really likes her. Gotta create A LOT of space between her waisted and his. Maybe pat his back a couple times so he doesn't feel too bad. It's meant to send a message without being a jerk and I think guys usually get it loud and clear.
I love hugs, both hugging and being hugged
No 12 : the single hug..this is where u hug your pillow and sleep
Hugs are emotionally fulfilling makes us 💓 care more
Body language of over shoulder, under arm hugs slightly underrated, apart from height of respective subjects. Free hugs best, ie not just free of charge but free if inhibition by hugger/huggee.
The best hugs ive had where almost 2 yrs ago. From my high school crush that I'd not seen in 30 yrs. Too bad he ghosted me 5 months later. Not been hugged since. Very very sad. 😢
I don't remember the last time I was given a hug
Number 4 and 5 are my favorites but my favorite of all the hugs is a long and tight hug, i love those hugs so much ❤❤. These video is helpfull, very helpful
My guy best friend hugged me before leaving for summer break and told me “take care of yourself” while hugging me tight then left and said “ik u will miss me”
He likes you lots…..and wanted to tell you. ( did you miss him ? )
@@stuartlincoln1303 I do miss him but does he like me more than best friends?
@@Lana50500 in my opinion as a guy, then yes he probably does, but is unsure how you feel about him….why not tell him he was right, you did miss him and see how he responds. ( would you like him to be your partner, rather than friend? ) it’s just as hard for us guys to know how you women feel about us you know.
@@stuartlincoln1303 I will tell him after the summer break that I missed him and then I will tell you what he says
@@Lana50500 I hope it works out, how you want it to ~ Good luck 🤞
4:36 that’s hella awkward I can’t do it 😂
Even TH-cam knows I need a hug.
thanks for the 11 tips
No problem!
@@SuccessFormulas 🙂
I like the one where you look into each other’s eyes and kiss and hug