Don't stress about losing your job. When one door closes, a new door will open. You'll look back on this time, and you'll be wiser for it. All the best.
I know this is not my usual videos, but I have been wanting to get this off my chest for so long now! I have not been myself lately and I wanted to be open and share my story with you guys. In the end I just hope my story can inspire you not to give up and even if you are pushed down, to fight that much more to get right back up. It is a shame that things like this happen to people all the time, and it is really disappointing, I would have never thought I would be going through this right now. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I want to thank everyone of you who have supported me and my channel, you have no idea how much you have helped even if you didn't know you did, because I don't know how I would be if I didn't have you guys and your support, and being able to share this to all you has really helped me get it all out and feel like I am not alone.
Also I love u so much no matter what happens an I wish I could see u right now and give u the biggest hug! Love you girl so remember I love u and your amazing and no one can bring u down! Love u💟💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
This actually angers me. THe mental health field is so filled with deranged screwed up people and THEY FIRE SOMEONE THATS so obviously caring and compassionate.
After being fired my depression was like nothing I ever thought I would feel. Thanks for sharing such a disappointing part of your life, videos like this help me feel less alone.
Likewise thanks for sharing this, it was said 3 years ago, but relevant to me now. Just laid off a two weeks ago and in a state of shock and depressions.
This just happned to me i had coworkers and my own manager turn on me , i was fired and devastated because lies were told and i could not do anything to prove they were lies. We live in a sick world to think people really do this
Ta'Nia Thomas much better now. I have since moved forward and have started a new job. Over time it gets easier and I have since come to terms with everything that happened. I know that I was innocent and they lost a really good employee. It’s true what they say. When one door closes another one opens.
This happened to me, I was partially in the wrong but the problem was not worth be fired over and it was due to lack of training and they all said it was .y fault for not asking.😤 These are grown people and I am 18 I was very uncomfortable with them blaming their lack of management on me.
@@cartrice2010 same. However, they said "social media posts" Didn't show me anything or allowed me to show them my feeds. Out of the blue my "team" started to isolate and unfollow me. Manager didn't tell me good morning for a month when walking pass. In the end, they all were against you for a while. Lol.
I believe that God is putting you on a different path. That place is not where you were meant to work any longer. He has a better plan for you, honey. He's probably going to take you on a journey that you did not expect, but it will be very rewarding. One day you will look back at this time and say, "Now I know why I lost that job, so I could have the job I have now, and I'm so happy." There are people in your future that you are meant to help, so God will place you in the right place at the right time. In the meantime, think BIG and apply for positions that may seem unattainable or out of your comfort zone. When it's the right job for you, God will make a way for you to have it! You may even have to move out of state, but it will be worth it.
@3 name changes allowed every 90 days. From the bible. "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
@3 name changes allowed every 90 days. You said God doesn't make plans for people and I just gave you a quote straight from the bible that thwarts that, and I don't know what you mean by "correct wording." The bible has different translations. Anyway, I get the feeling that anything I say you're just going to try and refute. I don't argue with people like that because its a waste of my time. My advice to you? Open a bible and learn more. Because if you think he doesn't have plans for people's lives or think he's not concerned with a career path, you don't know who God is.
fucking religious people have a retarded mind. So by what you're saying is that the business man that is firing people to have more revenue taxes, income and is only provinding temporary jobs to make more money at the same time that is is destroying families was ALSO A PLAN OF GOD? Religious ppl should be fired first because they meant another path... alright? FUCK OFF!
Girl, I have to say that I had a very similar experience. I am also 23 years old and a young professional in the business field. I started working for an engineering firm early on in my college career and I was able to climb the ladder as I was a hard worker, keep in mind that I worked with those in their 30's all the way up to their 50's. I was not liked by many because I was so young and moving up on a yearly basis. I was sweet to everyone and treated them with respect but got treated terribly by people who were my parents age. I couldn't understand how people could be so cruel to someone so much younger. After working there for 3 years, two older women made me look horrible in front of executives during a huge project. I was let go. I felt like my world was over, it made me look awful - I thought my supervisor knew better. I am now with a new company and I could not be happier. I am working with people my age who act like adults and who I have created friendships with. Stay strong!
Listen.I was bed ridden with situational depression just last week because I was fired from a simple, yet lucrative job. It was a blow to my self esteem, perspective and finances. I was evicted from my apartment, and had to move back home. I don't want to say misery loves company, but I felt so much better after watching this video. I realized that I'm not the only one in the world who may experience shitty situations. I understood that what happened afterward was of more importance. Your energy is illuminating, and it's inspiring to see someone so strong...so I decided to do the same. Truth and change are the only constants in this game! We must remain fluid. Thanks for uploading it.
+Lucius Luxe Thank you for your kind words! I am so sorry for what happened to you, it is horrible, I know how you feel! Keep your head up, better things will come for us even if we can't see it now :) xo
Hey Lucius and Nicole, I just came across this video and can't be more thankful for you guys opening about your situation. It's been 4 months since the same thing has happened to me, and I say 'same thing' because I am scared to even use the word, which is why I can relate to every word in this video. I finally feel that I have someone who knows how I feel and that I am not the only one. Nicole, if you happen to read my comment, I would love for us to talk more about it as I am still too scared to openly talk about how my experience changed me. Please let me know how I can reach out to you personally, but I understand if you don't want to talk about it anymore. I just think it would help to finally talk to someone who understands, since I am surrounded by people who don't. Anyway, before this sounds like I'm bragging too much, please let me know if I can reach out to you personally. In case you don't see this or don't wish to reply to this, I just want to say thank you for not being afraid to talk about this and being strong about it, that is how it should be, I wish I can eventually have the same mindset as you when you ended the video saying that you know you will get over this, because I am struggling to do so. Okay this is getting long, talk to you soon maybe, bye and take care
YOU ARE KIND YOU ARE STRONG YOU ARE COMPASSIONATE YOU HAVE HOPE FOR THE FUTURE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. They will never take that away from you, never. Head up! You are touching peoples lives everyday, and thats a powerful thing.
I'm so sorry. People shouldn't act like children. All I wanted to do when I was young girl was to grow up because I thought grown ups were so wonderful. I learned the truth the hard way. Thank you for sharing. Best wishes!
Wow....I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. People can be so cruel. There is better out there for you Nicole! God bless you,hun! The best is yet to come in your life!
It was meant for me to find this video because I just went through a very similar situation as you where I was let go. I to worked for a psychiatric facility as a nurse and after this happen I felt so depressed, ashamed, and fearful of how this termination would affect my future because I had never been terminated before and always excelled and got promoted at every job I have had including this one. You are a blessing and you story had definitely been a light in a very dark place for me so thank you for sharing your story.
Aww I am so sorry to hear that I can relate to you so much I know exactly how you feel! Keep your head up it just means better things are coming for you too
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Nicole, candice and I are sitting here in tears. You have the most amazing, selfless & inspiring soul with the biggest heart. We adore you so much for all your amazing qualities. You have such a passion for so many things and we can all see it. I know right now may feel like your breaking point, or like everything has just ended and hope is gone. You are meant to do BIGGER things! There is a reason for everything and we truly believe that this has happened for a reason and I know right now its hard to see it this way but good will come out of this. You have a heart of gold and that will get you so far. I can not believe this story and how screwed up it is that you were ever in this position. People can be so selfish that they go as far as making up awful stories to make themselves look better. You know what the truth is and that's all that matters. We love you so much. Keep working hard on youtube and doing what you love because you are already helping so many of us including candice and I by posting videos like this. You have so much natural beauty and I am so incredibly inspired by the lady you are. Never give up on believing in yourself because you have so many of us that are here supporting you. Thank you for sharing this with all of us although it must've been so difficult to do so. We are here for you always!
+QuincieandCandice awwwww! that honestly made me shed a tear! you two girls are amazing! Thank you so much for the support. Your support means the world to me you have no idea. It is so amazing to meet such genuine people on youtube and it is people like you that make me enjoy what I am doing. Thank you for always supporting me and I will always support you two girls as well, because you should be so proud of all your accomplishes thus far and you girls have such a bright future. Thank you for taking the time to watch this it means so much! I love you two so much! and I am happy I got to meet you two of youtube
its because you are so beautiful and young, and they saw how much success you were achieving and became jealous and had to rip it away from you because they felt sour. Im so sorry that happened to you i hope karma gets all of them
+Nicoletta xo Similar situation happened to me, I have been screwed over so many times before. I hope you learn from this though. I did! :D and what did I learn? that you must identify people that seek to do you harm and crush them before they crush you, I know it sounds primitive but it's either you or them. Human nature have not changed for shit since the stone age x)
Ganjakittens this just happened the boss and OM got so jealous of my performance that they used “an excuse” to let me go. I wasn’t so bitter since all they do was talk obscene stuff about their patients.
I'm so sorry about this Nicole. But you should really consider getting a lawyer or contacting someone who can help you with this. Feels like it was very unethical. And it's so ironic that an organization that helps clients out treats their employees like this. I'm so sorry but you know what Nicole better things will come to you!! Love you girl! Sending pos vibes. Thanks for sharing. 💕
This is absolutely heart breaking. I am so so sorry Nicole. I really feel for you and it makes me sad to see a friend so upset. Just remember even though the outcome really sucks, you stayed true to yourself and told the truth always. Unfortunately in the workforce there are MANY older people who act like they're in high school. My mom works with too many people like that. It makes me sick that this generation is constantly blamed for being immature and not acting grown up. Some people need to take a good hard look in the mirror. Love you Nicole! You're amazing and so passionate. ❤️❤️❤️
+Amanda Nicole DIY Thank you Amanda! xoxo! and I totally agree with that, we are always being put down for our generation and age, yet they do have to look in the mirror, people are quick to judge others but never themselves, many don't want to admit there faults. But thank you for always supporting girly, and I will always continue to support you as well ! so proud of everything you have accomplished
Of course! I'll always be here for you when you need it. I hope you're doing better! Awww thank you so much, you're the best! Love you too girl! ❤️❤️❤️
I am your age and couple of weeks ago i was in your situation. I had no job, i was with someone who was abusing me, did not have any money and had no place. Yet i persisted. I kept applying for the job i wanted, left the guy and now i am getting my own place. Life's not easy and NO THIS IS NOT THE END. APPLY for more jobs, i know its hard but this is JUST A PHASE. Life's hard but you are HARDER!keep going. At the end of the day you are worth more than working in a bad organisation. Persistence always wins so don't give up on your dream of working with people!Keep going at it.
This is so similar to a situation I dealt with. I was a social worker, and I was fired from my job. It was devastating. Luckily I found a new career and have never been happier. You are very brave for putting this video up....the emotion is really raw and real. Thanks for putting this up.
I've been fired two other times before and it's been in the field I want to do as well! I will not waste my money and I will not let this stop me from doing what I love! I try to see firings as a learning experience.
This is the first time I ever seen this video and it literally made me want to cry. I have a lump in my throat, because this is by far the most appalling thing I have ever, ever heard someone get fired for. Its so heartbreaking to know you had to lose the clients you cared for and a job you loved because of jealous, manipulative liars. Especially women much older than you!! DISGUSTING. I am so sorry! I know its over a year later and I'm sure you're okay at this point but I just want to say that you should be so proud of where you are now! :)
Dude, this sucks. The same thing happened to me at my auditing job. I feel like it's an ageist thing. I worked with people 15-20+ years older than me but no one liked me. I worked hard and efficiently. I was nice to everyone. I was going to buy my first car and I got fired in a second for something and until this day I have no idea why.
If she was a therapist...also in charge of people at that, she would have the means to get a lawyer. That is a very high paying job and lawyers are not that expensive. If she would, which she most likely would win, she would get the money back plus some.
@@geert574 thats my problem right now. I just got fired unjustly but I am worried about how I'm even going to pay rent ! So you're smart for commenting this...
That petty ass woman was obviously jealous of you because you were young, beautiful, and moving up in the company! Dont worry hun you will find better! I had a similar experience and it opened up the opportunity for me to get a better paying job and find something Im passionate about! I had to fight thru depression myself after I was terminated for my job as well and it was a hard 8 months following my termination for me to make ends meet for my son
Oh my god... This is absolutely ridiculous! I wish that there was something I could do to help. Through watching your videos, I feel like you are a friend. And this felt like I was watching a friend break apart into pieces. Depression has been a big part of my life and I completely understand what you're going through. Depression will literally cause you to not be able to get out of bed. And with the whole college thing, it SUCKS! When you get out of college it is so scary because you are literally on your own in this huge world! You have to find a job on your own and it is so hard because the world is so competitive now! You are An amazing person Nicole, and I am so happy you opened up this side. I can tell how passionate you are for helping people and not only by the story you have shared with us, but I can see it through your videos too. You are so passionate about your videos and about us and about teaching us things and giving us advice. Just remember I love you always 💗 xoxo
+Amber Greaves awww thanks girly! xo you are so sweet! thank you so much for your constant support ! and I am so proud of you as well and your channel keep it up girl you are doing a great job! thank you for always giving me sweet words and being so supportive it makes it so much easier for me to be strong and get through things like this that may come my way! I love ya girly! and HUGE COMPUTER HUG! you never know maybe one day we will be able to finally meet in person!
+Nicoletta xo ahhh you're the best. And you're so welcome!!! And that'd be amazing if we met someday! If you ever have a meet up anywhere near me you know I'll be there :)
I got fired about 30 minutes ago. I was so optimistic and what's crazy is the job isn't that hard but I started this job last Tuesday. I drive forklifts and this job actually pays well but the supervisors would leave without checking my scanner to make sure I was scanning the right labels. They would all be gone by 230 but I was scheduled for 330. Of course I felt dumb for making simple mistakes but I'm new. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF TRAINING IS THAT? I was doomed from the jump but I have an interview tomorrow morning. When we fail sometimes we dwell on it for too long. I was in a depression for years after I left the military. Feeling guilty for having mental problems and addictions. I no longer allow those things to conquer and control me. I had a breakdown at my job in 2008 but they didn't fire me and realized I was a decent person with a good work ethic. Don't give up. Value yourself and keep your head up. Don't allow failure or fear to stop you from getting what you want in life. Whether you're a crane operator, cna, or phlebotomist.
Thank you for sharing this! It helps to know that you are not the only one going through this, I honestly feel so much better and positive about my situation after reading this. It gives me hope :)
Some people That are a manager is from another store don't have no training at all they get rid of people Like changing clothes it's like every day there's always another person that's not their how can they keep a business when they ran out of employees that's my logic to the middle man Management.
I came across your video, I was fired from my job based on lies. I was left feeling sad, angry and depressed. Your video helped me in so many ways because everything that you were feeling is what I’m feeling now. I don’t know if you will read this comment since it’s from such an old post ; but thank you for sharing how you were feeling. This video got me through one of the worst and lowest moments of my life.
Babygirl, it's called hate. it's so beyond real and is all around you. It's going to be everywhere you go. Even the nicest people can be haters. You're beautiful smart and others twice your age does not like that. Your supervisor does not like that. Just remember "this to shall pass"; it will not stop the hate but it will dampen the issues, for you.
A very similar situation has just happened to me today and I was let go and I am so heartbroken and angry at the same time. It feels good to know I’m not the only one x
You seem so sweet. Sorry this happened to you, sounds like some of these co-workers are the ones who need the therapy 0_o Just keep doing you girl, the universe rewards honesty and determination not lying and deceitfulness. Hope you're feeling better :)
Karma will bite them in the ass. Trust me. I was threatened to be fired once because they thought I wasn't doing my job and I was actually pleading to them that I needed help (when I wasn't getting any). Guess what? That manager no longer works there, and I'm still employed but in a better department. Karma will come around and bite them. Just stay strong and move on.
chris gast nawww probably not. Bad people end up being the most successful because they are able to take out empathy in tough decisions. “Karma” is for the good people and the dumb people
Welcome to the so called adult world of work, where you can be a great employee, work really hard, be appreciated by people you work with and for, and suddenly, the higher ups you work for stab you in the back and smile in your face as they do it. How do I know about this? It's happened to me, as well as other people I've worked with. I know how angry you must be, but unfortunately, that kind of anger can destroy you. Know that you are in the profession you are in for a reason, and even though callous administrators may think it's great to spite you and humiliate you as a way of tearing you down, the people you helped and connected with appreciate you for who you are can help to sustain you in the future when you find work in your field again. It may take time, but it will happen again.
This is so close to home that I had to screenshot this... Because reading this helps so much to know I'm not alone. This happened to me today. I am praised every day at work for my ethic, and then I have the manager smiling at me and saying she's sorry but she has to terminate me based on something another worker said while the manager wasn't even there... Strange.
I can't believe what happened to you, this is so unfair. You're so strong for standing up for yourself this way though! You're so strong you can get through it and those people are gonna suffer.
it breaks my heart seeing you cry:( anyway, I know this was a year ago but things do get better, people just don't realize until they are a lot better. don't be depressed. you know there are 100k people behind to catch your back
wow i love this. i Went through a very similar situation to you and i feel for you so much. I also got fired with no reason/explanation and i KNEW 100% that i was working so hard and i felt like i was doing such a good job, always early, always working overtime, fully engaging with customers and co-workers, everything was perfect in my eyes. Just know that it gets better girl, what happened to you is not fair and you didn't deserve it. When people feel threatened by you they will do whatever they can do cut you down a few sizes, like you said you were the youngest person there and probably the most hard working! This was my healing process in the same situation. 1) acted like i didn't care and didn't need them anyway 2) self doubt/questioning own sanity. Why did i feel like i was doing such a good job if i wasn't?? 3) ANGER because i knew it wasn't fair and i knew i wasn't crazy 4) going back to the manager and explaining to him that it was unfair dismissal, standing up for myself. he actually apologised. I can tell you- everything changes when you find that new job! you will feel lost for a few months first. but when that new job comes around you will feel amazing again, and hopefully will be appreciated the way you deserve! This will validate everything- you really are a hard worker and you KNOW it! it can be hard sometimes when others don't see your brightness (or don't want to acknowledge it) . stay strong chikka, good things to come!
Omg i just want to reach out and give u a hug, this story reminded me so much of my own. I've never seen such a lack of professionalism like i have seen in the mental care facilities. MY situation really put me in a mad mood to because i was recently let go of a position that i really loved and had so much passion for. I was working with adults with autism for about 2.5 years a with a switch in management had my luck turned. I feel in love with my residents who were adults with autism and had my job taken away because of 2 very hypocritical too face staff. Staff who would collect the most petty things and use them against me in the review with the director that eventually got me to loose my position. Please dont feel bad i see the passion in your eyes. You deserve a far better positon and its true bad things happen to good people and these things happen to us in order for us to grow. This story really touched me cause i felt like it was alot like my own. I was working with alot of college aged very catty girls and once they don't like you they sabotige you until you quit or you get fired. I'am very sad to have to leave my job to because i loved my resident but your passion and your geniune ways will get you so far in life I promise. In a way I'am glad to see what that company stands for because it tells me they don't deserve good hard working employees. Those 2 girls can have that job in which they always complain about and i know god has better opportunites waiting for me.
Honestly, this is truly a blessing in disguise. Most of your ex co workers are just jealous because when they look at you and see how successful and young you are, they realize that they are just unhappy with themselves. Don't let negative people bring you down like that. You're an extremely strong girl with a huge heart and you have a bright future. Thank you for posting this video!
I LOVE this video. I love how open and vulnerable you are. I lost my job today myself. It was entirely out of my control because of the manipulation and lies. Anyway, this video helped me feel ok with my emotions about the situation. It's ok to be devastated. It's ok to cry. Its ok to feel everything that you are feeling. I am curious to know how everything turned out with you. I noticed this was published in 2015. I hope you are doing well. Thank you so very much for posting this video. Thank you so much for being open and sharing your feels with all of us. Thank you so very much.
Nicole I am in the same field as you and I know how hard it is to work with individuals with mental illness . I also know how depressing it could be working in this field and having co-workers that are suppose to "help" others as their profession and yet do these childish things. I wish you nothing but the best !! God bless you and keep on moving forward
You are so strong Nic! Your videos no matter how short or long bring me up. Becuase sincerely I am the same I feel like I have everything planned for myself but so many people tell me that I can't or I shouldn't. I personally fell in depression (bc of a family issues) when I was 11-14. And was on medication. I had never been as low. Although I had already started going to a therapist ever since I was 6. I had to go through sooo much at such a young age. And for that reason I found my passion just like my many therapist I went to (becuase I was always the new kid in school, moving every year) I want to help others specifically children whom I will push to remind them that even if their family doesn't believe in them it's always gonna be okay and one day they will grow up and they will strive and bloom. They will become so much more and go to high places. Despite thus, I learned that although we all have obstacles we can get through them and remember it's not always easy... and if it's hard your doing it right girl we are all here for you❤️️ we love you💟 Ps: a lot of us would really enjoy a video maybe explain all the things tips and advice things you'd recommend (programs or classes) you should take and do to get a psychologist degree please!!!🤓
I am going through the same bullshit at my job, they randomly suspended me and said they are investigating some complaints about my work but I know it's just an excuse to get rid of me because I don't agree w/ the ways they treat workers like scum! hang in there!
Oh wow... I'm getting mad just listening to this retelling. That situation is actually freaking ridiculous and I'm sorry that happened because you seem like a sweet person :(.
Sorry to hear this. I want everyone to know that that kind of people, unfortunately, is just available everywhere. You don’t have to make any mistakes to get those negative vibes around you or to get let go of. This is the world we live in. Just please, never blame yourself for being such a good worker. Hold your head up high no matter what happens.
I've only watched this video for 2 minutes and I'm already getting excited! The fact that you mentioned that you got a psychology degree gave me the chills because I want to study that field. I'm only 14 but that's what I truly want and the fact that I found a TH-camr who did that is amazing. Anyway I can't grab a snack (I'm fasting) but I'll watch this whole video and I'm really excited. I'm sure it's gonna be amazing :)
I have to give you major props for opening up about your situation. I know what it's like to be wrongly punished over something, especially something that other people did and received no consequences for it. and when you started talking about the college degree thing, and not being able to get a job, I just couldn't agree more. I see so many people doing NOTHING with their degree because they can't find a job. Sometimes I feel like going through college is useless because there's always that chance that you won't find anything in your field. And then you've wasted thousands of dollars and four years of your life for absolutely nothing. This really is a tough time in your life, I'm 21 and I feel like things have never been harder. Just trying to figure myself out and figure out how to get where I want to be in life.
Girl I'm in the EXACT same situation as you right now. I'm alone. Almost unemployed. I got bullied until ingot fired. I'm so sorry this happened to you but it's a good feeling knowing I'm not alone and neither are you ❤️❤️ thanks for sharing, I definitely just subscribed :)
Thank you for sharing your story. I went through something similar, where I bought a new car and had plans when I lost it without warning. Dealing with depression and shame, and your video is helping me through this difficult time.
I'm so sorry this happened. If I were you, I'd sue. I can't believe that even if something DID happen to you (an assault), they would treat you the way they did. It's victim-blaming and it's disgusting. It's unfortunate that some women are so insecure and unhappy that they bring others down.
same thing happened to me the girl was jealous. worse happened to me actually. girls are evil and sick and jealous mentally ill . god takes care of those who do evil to u you are absolutely beautiful dont worry you are absolutely beautiful you are a HUMAN ANGEL GOD BLESS YOU BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
N, I'm sad to say this, but I'm glad you learned this "corporate lesson" now, instead of watching it happen to your hardworking friends when you're in your 40s. I'm so sorry you were terminated, but I've seen this many times before. It doesn't seem to matter that you were amazing at your job & that clients liked you, etc. If "corporate" sees you as a "problem person" (i.e. Managers/supervisors have to spend time "dealing with" even remotely negative situations that involve you), your behavior will eventually be watched, documented and any necessary actions will be taken that could lead to your termination. Unfortunately, harmony in the workplace is valued more than excellent/hard work. Supervisors would rather employ an easygoing, cooperative, everybody likes him/her idiot than a stellar employee who co-workers may not always get along with. And it does not matter that it's not your fault. "Corporate" doesn't have time for people who rock the boat. Again I'm so sorry this happened.
That story is so unfortunate. That's too bad. I was interrogated at a job before for something I did not do and it was horrible, but it wasn't a job I was passionate about so I can only imagine yours was 10 times worse. I didn't know you studied psychology. I did too. There are good things to come :)
this made me so sad! you seem like such a wonderful, selfless person who doesn't deserve something like this. you're such an inspiration, thank you for being you!
Thank you so much... 4 years after you posted this video really helped me. A few weeks ago I was let go from a job that gave 7 years to and they fired me the night I came back from a funeral. I still feel like I have been hit by a truck. Hopefully I can get through this. Thank you for being so open and honest! Ur a great person and keep going!!
Just watched your video and wanted to thank you for sharing your story. I had very toxic coworkers at my previous job and it still baffles me how people can be so petty and mean. Best of luck :)
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve always felt so alone due to PTSD and depression and it sucks. I’m sorry you went through this, it’s really hard to deal with. I hope you feel better!
That is crazy, nobody should go through any of that! I know that you can get through it!!! Stay strong, and be happy. We are all glad that you care about people and your honest about yourself, good luck!
You really need to fight this in court Hun! That is so wrong! I'm so sorry this happened to you. Just know that you are so mature and are going to be so much more successful than those old hags that decided they were going to ruin your life! I don't understand why bad things happen to good people. 😔
SMH... I'm in tears because nearly the same thing happened to me about 3 months ago!! Our stories are so similar and I am so sorry to hear your story! You're so strong for posting this on TH-cam. I've thought about doing the same but way to afraid to be that vulnerable. You're an angel and you've got a new subbie!
i love you girl! stay strong I know exactly how you feel about the job, I've had a similar experience and I have mental health issues so it means a lot you want to help♥
+Nicoletta xo ♥♥♥ I just know the exact pain you're going through. when I got "letgo" from my job it was also because I was a manager & others were jealous. when I got fired I seriously begged to please stay and cried since it was all I had & now I haven't had any luck with a new job & had to give up we everything because I'm so broke, so I know how heartbreaking it is :( it made my depression about 100xs worse, but know that we love you!
Stephanie loveless I am so so so sorry that happened to you, that is horrible and it is not right I will have you in my prayers and hope nothing but the best for you!
Hi girly, I'm also a psychology major who loves youtube! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this, people are so rude and instead of lifting up others, they just feel threatened. Especially disappointing for people to act like this when they are in a helping field. Keep your chin up girl, you're such an inspiration! xo
+Nicoletta I have recently been in your situation and I was actually bullied and discriminated against. I had 2 jobs and lost them due to jealousy as well. I am 21 and I completely understand how you feel. It's been 5 months and I'm still fighting them and currently suing both companies and you should do. Stay strong. X
Stay strong girl! I cannot believe that happened to you! Caddy coworkers who make accusations like that will get what's coming to them. I hope your previous place of work sees this video and realizes the mistake they made by firing such a sweet and hardworking employee!!
I sure hope so. If this happened to me I would immediately consult with an attorney, it's just sick that they would be able fire someone without grounds like that
@@MrGaryg20047 every state except Montana is "at will," however, an employer cant fire someone because or gender, race, religion, or disability. Or old age. I think she could have made a case for gender discrimination- especially if the male in the "fight" wasn't fired.
That's absolutely awful. Adults are supposed to be role models. As you said, you will get passed this. You'll get through it, and make a better out of something else
I was working at a job that I really loved. it was perfect. I was able to take off whenever I wanted 14 days in advanced, take partial days, etc. well one day I went to dinner with my family and I ate something at gave me an allergic reaction. I ended up in the hospital for 5 days. I called my boss and told him I was hospitalized and he said it was OK. Day 5 before being released from the hospital, I didn't go to work because I wasn't discharged. I didn't call my boss and when I showed up Monday for work in was told I was suspended, I then was called by HR. The next day I showed up to work and was fired. I was heart broken and devastated. I was depressed for about 2 weeks. I can't find any other job that I like or that is comparable so I had to go back into the military on another deployment. I still cannot find work so I have to re deploy and my wife is not happy about it at all. thanks for sharing your story.
misterludakris I live in a right to work state and apparently they don't need a reason to fire. I am from NYC so the southern states work differently. I ended up getting hired back on just recently because the new HR manager was my old boss and said that I shouldn't have been fired from the jump so it's all good now.
I have no idea about where you're from but in Australia we have a law against unfair dismissal. You need to look into the laws concerning your area and employment. This would be a strong case in a court of law and you really deserve so much better. ❤
When I can say how I HEAVILY I relate to you! I’m so young working for a company with much older staff and they would treat me the same way and it triggered the depression that I never knew I had... thanks for sharing. Helps to know I’m not alone in this and that there isn’t anything wrong with me, but with them. They need healing. You are strong ❤️
I’m really sorry. I’m going through the same thing you are. You deserve so much more...just remember: it is so much better being you than those miserable, boring people.
I came here from Clancy and my gosh you are such a beautiful & kind hearted person. I can't imagine how much you have gone through, I barely "know" you and I couldn't believe how disgusting that organization acted. Keep your head up, build your empire & don't let anyone dull your sparkle. You are a beautiful person & know you're the better and more mature person.
This has happened to me soooo many times, I'm a male who has worked in numerous factories. People are so unhappy in their jobs that they destroy other peoples lives and careers because they dont want to leave themselves. Its hard to trust people in work
I'm so sorry that you have to go through all this nonsense and I love how you are still trying to help others even though you yourself are struggling. This video seriously brought a tear to my eye. Although I have never been in a situation like this, you made me feel like I was in your shoes and really brought my attention to the cruelty in the work world. You are better than those people and they will realize that soon enough. I really hope this video shows people what is happening to hard working people, like you, behind closed doors every day. Sadly, this will always be an issue in our society and jealousy had no boundaries but what's important is that you know who you are as a person and continue to chase your dreams. I know what you're going through right now is heartbreaking, but when you look at this in a few years and see what you've overcome, you will be so proud of yourself. The organization you worked for will eventually realize what an amazing person they've lost, but it will be too late. You are a lot better than them, there's no doubt about it! Just remember, there will always be jealousy, even outside of work, and they only thing you can do is stay strong. I hope this video brings out awareness about this social issue and, most importantly, I hope you continue to be your amazing self after all this nonsense. People like you are hard to find... someone who loves their job so much and really puts everything they've got into their work. Just remember, whenever you need someone to talk to, you will always have your Nicolettes here for you! I love you so much and I can't wait to see yo happy and smiling again!! Much love
that is absolutely disgusting and disheartening. for one: if they truly thought this womens story was true and you were assulted the fact they didnt involve police is ridiculous. they clearly have no regard for your actual well being. i am so glad you shared this story.
Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about it. Be strong, Nicolette! God will bless you on your journey on a new job. No problem on the long video, u r a very hard worker, stay true to yourself and do what you love!!!
What happen to you, will happen at some point in live. So you're lucky it happened when you're young. But if not, it will happen in the future. That is what called office politics. If you're into working in office, you have to be guarded. This lesson will help you in the future. Trust me!
Honey, I'm so, so sorry that this happened to you. I found your video by searching "I was fired," because I was fired as well today, a day before my birthday, for something out of my control, too. I really just wanted to find some people sharing their experience how they have dealt with this sort of crisis, but I was so touched by your story. It really is terrible that grown adults, people we've been raised to respect as our elders and look towards for guidance or even as mentors, can behave so childishly and so unprofessionally. We just have to see these setbacks for the lessons they are. Even though you've done nothing wrong, I still believe that this is a necessary time to reflect and ask yourself some important questions, such as: Was this a healthy environment for me? Do I need to further examine the stress of this job and its workload's effect on my health? I truly feel that everything happens for a reason, no matter how shitty we feel in the moment. After we express the necessary emotions, I think it's imperative that we then look within and find a way to make this disappointment an opportunity to move on to better things. You seem like such a smart, beautiful, and kind young woman with such a passion for helping others. You're going to get through this, though I'm sure you already have, and they're going to be at a loss without you. Staying strong and being successful is the best revenge.
I know how you feel. I was fired from my job on last Monday also. It wasn't even a good reason either. But I live in sc so the laws say employers don't have to have a reason to fire someone. They can fire you for any reason basically. Now I really don't know what to do, I really need my job.
Wtf I just don't get why if alledgely you were the victim of an assult done by your co-worker why it was you who got fired? Don't they have cameras in there? What proofs do they have other than "someone told us". If your side of the story is true, I hope you get a lawyer because they obviously did not handle the situation as they should have.
Oh my, I am so sorry this happened to you... I am a social worker and worked with clients who had psychiatric problems as well. You do get very attatched to them and I can tell you are truly passionate about them and your job. But the loss is on them, they have lost a beautiful and passionate employee over no reason... But you will get up, other opportunities will come up for you. I think you have great personality and I am sure you will only grow stronger from this experience. Wish you all the best!
I got fired today and ended up watching this. My situation was totally different, but somehow I felt better by watching this. Here’s to better days.
Same it sucks
My boss fired with out any notice and said I am rude. I dont understand ?
Don't stress about losing your job. When one door closes, a new door will open. You'll look back on this time, and you'll be wiser for it. All the best.
Just got fired last night and I can’t tell you how blindsided and depressed I am. I feel so worthless and embarrassed and don’t know what to do.
I know this is not my usual videos, but I have been wanting to get this off my chest for so long now! I have not been myself lately and I wanted to be open and share my story with you guys. In the end I just hope my story can inspire you not to give up and even if you are pushed down, to fight that much more to get right back up. It is a shame that things like this happen to people all the time, and it is really disappointing, I would have never thought I would be going through this right now. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I want to thank everyone of you who have supported me and my channel, you have no idea how much you have helped even if you didn't know you did, because I don't know how I would be if I didn't have you guys and your support, and being able to share this to all you has really helped me get it all out and feel like I am not alone.
Aww 😪 keep your head up 😊
I feel so sorry for u! Keep your head up high😭😥😢😢
Also I love u so much no matter what happens an I wish I could see u right now and give u the biggest hug! Love you girl so remember I love u and your amazing and no one can bring u down! Love u💟💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
You were destined to do much BIGGER THINGS! I love you,I'm sorry you got fired. They lost a great worker
+Nicoletta xo have you heard of neurotherapy? It works better than any medication on the entire planet
This actually angers me. THe mental health field is so filled with deranged screwed up people and THEY FIRE SOMEONE THATS so obviously caring and compassionate.
+lambchopxoxo My dad works in mental health. It's amazing how cold some of his co-workers are.
+Ashley Dufault kkk78ew8w8 e3
After being fired my depression was like nothing I ever thought I would feel. Thanks for sharing such a disappointing part of your life, videos like this help me feel less alone.
Likewise thanks for sharing this, it was said 3 years ago, but relevant to me now. Just laid off a two weeks ago and in a state of shock and depressions.
@@finn3102 Keep going! You will find a company that appreciates you.
@@nyawilson7393 Thanks beautiful! Appreciate it!.
This just happned to me i had coworkers and my own manager turn on me , i was fired and devastated because lies were told and i could not do anything to prove they were lies. We live in a sick world to think people really do this
This happened to me on Friday. I was devastated. They let me go based on “Hear Say”.
@@cartrice2010 Same. How are you coping?
Ta'Nia Thomas much better now. I have since moved forward and have started a new job. Over time it gets easier and I have since come to terms with everything that happened. I know that I was innocent and they lost a really good employee. It’s true what they say. When one door closes another one opens.
This happened to me, I was partially in the wrong but the problem was not worth be fired over and it was due to lack of training and they all said it was .y fault for not asking.😤 These are grown people and I am 18 I was very uncomfortable with them blaming their lack of management on me.
@@cartrice2010 same. However, they said "social media posts" Didn't show me anything or allowed me to show them my feeds. Out of the blue my "team" started to isolate and unfollow me. Manager didn't tell me good morning for a month when walking pass. In the end, they all were against you for a while. Lol.
I believe that God is putting you on a different path. That place is not where you were meant to work any longer. He has a better plan for you, honey. He's probably going to take you on a journey that you did not expect, but it will be very rewarding. One day you will look back at this time and say, "Now I know why I lost that job, so I could have the job I have now, and I'm so happy." There are people in your future that you are meant to help, so God will place you in the right place at the right time. In the meantime, think BIG and apply for positions that may seem unattainable or out of your comfort zone. When it's the right job for you, God will make a way for you to have it! You may even have to move out of state, but it will be worth it.
Mr. EAS why?
@3 name changes allowed every 90 days. Actually God does have plans for people. Where did you hear that he doesn't?
@3 name changes allowed every 90 days. From the bible.
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Jeremiah 29:11
@3 name changes allowed every 90 days. You said God doesn't make plans for people and I just gave you a quote straight from the bible that thwarts that, and I don't know what you mean by "correct wording." The bible has different translations.
Anyway, I get the feeling that anything I say you're just going to try and refute. I don't argue with people like that because its a waste of my time. My advice to you? Open a bible and learn more. Because if you think he doesn't have plans for people's lives or think he's not concerned with a career path, you don't know who God is.
fucking religious people have a retarded mind. So by what you're saying is that the business man that is firing people to have more revenue taxes, income and is only provinding temporary jobs to make more money at the same time that is is destroying families was ALSO A PLAN OF GOD? Religious ppl should be fired first because they meant another path... alright? FUCK OFF!
Girl, I have to say that I had a very similar experience. I am also 23 years old and a young professional in the business field. I started working for an engineering firm early on in my college career and I was able to climb the ladder as I was a hard worker, keep in mind that I worked with those in their 30's all the way up to their 50's. I was not liked by many because I was so young and moving up on a yearly basis. I was sweet to everyone and treated them with respect but got treated terribly by people who were my parents age. I couldn't understand how people could be so cruel to someone so much younger. After working there for 3 years, two older women made me look horrible in front of executives during a huge project. I was let go. I felt like my world was over, it made me look awful - I thought my supervisor knew better. I am now with a new company and I could not be happier. I am working with people my age who act like adults and who I have created friendships with. Stay strong!
Irony when the older staffs dont show gd examples to younger staffs
Listen.I was bed ridden with situational depression just last week because I was fired from a simple, yet lucrative job. It was a blow to my self esteem, perspective and finances. I was evicted from my apartment, and had to move back home. I don't want to say misery loves company, but I felt so much better after watching this video. I realized that I'm not the only one in the world who may experience shitty situations. I understood that what happened afterward was of more importance. Your energy is illuminating, and it's inspiring to see someone so strong...so I decided to do the same. Truth and change are the only constants in this game! We must remain fluid. Thanks for uploading it.
+Lucius Luxe Thank you for your kind words! I am so sorry for what happened to you, it is horrible, I know how you feel! Keep your head up, better things will come for us even if we can't see it now :) xo
Hey Lucius and Nicole, I just came across this video and can't be more thankful for you guys opening about your situation. It's been 4 months since the same thing has happened to me, and I say 'same thing' because I am scared to even use the word, which is why I can relate to every word in this video. I finally feel that I have someone who knows how I feel and that I am not the only one. Nicole, if you happen to read my comment, I would love for us to talk more about it as I am still too scared to openly talk about how my experience changed me. Please let me know how I can reach out to you personally, but I understand if you don't want to talk about it anymore. I just think it would help to finally talk to someone who understands, since I am surrounded by people who don't. Anyway, before this sounds like I'm bragging too much, please let me know if I can reach out to you personally. In case you don't see this or don't wish to reply to this, I just want to say thank you for not being afraid to talk about this and being strong about it, that is how it should be, I wish I can eventually have the same mindset as you when you ended the video saying that you know you will get over this, because I am struggling to do so. Okay this is getting long, talk to you soon maybe, bye and take care
YOU ARE KIND
YOU ARE STRONG
YOU ARE COMPASSIONATE
YOU HAVE HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT.
They will never take that away from you, never.
Head up! You are touching peoples lives everyday, and thats a powerful thing.
I'm so sorry. People shouldn't act like children. All I wanted to do when I was young girl was to grow up because I thought grown ups were so wonderful. I learned the truth the hard way. Thank you for sharing. Best wishes!
So true
So true.....my current situation
Wow....I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. People can be so cruel. There is better out there for you Nicole! God bless you,hun! The best is yet to come in your life!
+Crystal W Aw thank you so much Crystal ! that means a lot made me smile so thank you for that! xo
It was meant for me to find this video because I just went through a very similar situation as you where I was let go. I to worked for a psychiatric facility as a nurse and after this happen I felt so depressed, ashamed, and fearful of how this termination would affect my future because I had never been terminated before and always excelled and got promoted at every job I have had including this one. You are a blessing and you story had definitely been a light in a very dark place for me so thank you for sharing your story.
Aww I am so sorry to hear that I can relate to you so much I know exactly how you feel! Keep your head up it just means better things are coming for you too
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Adre White that may be the single most retarded thing I have ever heard.
Nicole, candice and I are sitting here in tears. You have the most amazing, selfless & inspiring soul with the biggest heart. We adore you so much for all your amazing qualities. You have such a passion for so many things and we can all see it. I know right now may feel like your breaking point, or like everything has just ended and hope is gone. You are meant to do BIGGER things! There is a reason for everything and we truly believe that this has happened for a reason and I know right now its hard to see it this way but good will come out of this. You have a heart of gold and that will get you so far. I can not believe this story and how screwed up it is that you were ever in this position. People can be so selfish that they go as far as making up awful stories to make themselves look better. You know what the truth is and that's all that matters. We love you so much. Keep working hard on youtube and doing what you love because you are already helping so many of us including candice and I by posting videos like this. You have so much natural beauty and I am so incredibly inspired by the lady you are. Never give up on believing in yourself because you have so many of us that are here supporting you. Thank you for sharing this with all of us although it must've been so difficult to do so. We are here for you always!
+QuincieandCandice awwwww! that honestly made me shed a tear! you two girls are amazing! Thank you so much for the support. Your support means the world to me you have no idea. It is so amazing to meet such genuine people on youtube and it is people like you that make me enjoy what I am doing. Thank you for always supporting me and I will always support you two girls as well, because you should be so proud of all your accomplishes thus far and you girls have such a bright future. Thank you for taking the time to watch this it means so much! I love you two so much! and I am happy I got to meet you two of youtube
its because you are so beautiful and young, and they saw how much success you were achieving and became jealous and had to rip it away from you because they felt sour. Im so sorry that happened to you i hope karma gets all of them
+Ganjakittens awww thank you that is so sweet! that honestly means so much ! thank you for that you are a beautiful person
+Nicoletta xo Similar situation happened to me, I have been screwed over so many times before. I hope you learn from this though. I did! :D and what did I learn? that you must identify people that seek to do you harm and crush them before they crush you, I know it sounds primitive but it's either you or them. Human nature have not changed for shit since the stone age x)
+Anton Härjerud the same happened to me what exactly should I do?
Ganjakittens this just happened the boss and OM got so jealous of my performance that they used “an excuse” to let me go. I wasn’t so bitter since all they do was talk obscene stuff about their patients.
I'm so sorry about this Nicole. But you should really consider getting a lawyer or contacting someone who can help you with this. Feels like it was very unethical. And it's so ironic that an organization that helps clients out treats their employees like this. I'm so sorry but you know what Nicole better things will come to you!! Love you girl! Sending pos vibes. Thanks for sharing. 💕
I so agree! You should absolutely contact a lawyer.
+AleLovesYouu01 I agree! There has to be something legally wrong with this... She got fired because they thought someone hit her? WTF?
+AleLovesYouu01 I was thinking the same thing...
Agree. Was there due process even?
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This touched my heart. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You inspire me everyday! Hope everything is better now. XOXO
This is absolutely heart breaking. I am so so sorry Nicole. I really feel for you and it makes me sad to see a friend so upset. Just remember even though the outcome really sucks, you stayed true to yourself and told the truth always. Unfortunately in the workforce there are MANY older people who act like they're in high school. My mom works with too many people like that. It makes me sick that this generation is constantly blamed for being immature and not acting grown up. Some people need to take a good hard look in the mirror. Love you Nicole! You're amazing and so passionate. ❤️❤️❤️
+Amanda Nicole DIY Thank you Amanda! xoxo! and I totally agree with that, we are always being put down for our generation and age, yet they do have to look in the mirror, people are quick to judge others but never themselves, many don't want to admit there faults. But thank you for always supporting girly, and I will always continue to support you as well ! so proud of everything you have accomplished
Of course! I'll always be here for you when you need it. I hope you're doing better! Awww thank you so much, you're the best! Love you too girl! ❤️❤️❤️
I am your age and couple of weeks ago i was in your situation. I had no job, i was with someone who was abusing me, did not have any money and had no place. Yet i persisted. I kept applying for the job i wanted, left the guy and now i am getting my own place. Life's not easy and NO THIS IS NOT THE END. APPLY for more jobs, i know its hard but this is JUST A PHASE. Life's hard but you are HARDER!keep going. At the end of the day you are worth more than working in a bad organisation.
Persistence always wins so don't give up on your dream of working with people!Keep going at it.
Yeah I'm in my late 20s & I don't have no job ehiter but I still lived my parents!
This is so similar to a situation I dealt with. I was a social worker, and I was fired from my job. It was devastating. Luckily I found a new career and have never been happier. You are very brave for putting this video up....the emotion is really raw and real. Thanks for putting this up.
I've been fired two other times before and it's been in the field I want to do as well! I will not waste my money and I will not let this stop me from doing what I love! I try to see firings as a learning experience.
This is the first time I ever seen this video and it literally made me want to cry. I have a lump in my throat, because this is by far the most appalling thing I have ever, ever heard someone get fired for. Its so heartbreaking to know you had to lose the clients you cared for and a job you loved because of jealous, manipulative liars. Especially women much older than you!! DISGUSTING. I am so sorry! I know its over a year later and I'm sure you're okay at this point but I just want to say that you should be so proud of where you are now! :)
Dude, this sucks. The same thing happened to me at my auditing job. I feel like it's an ageist thing. I worked with people 15-20+ years older than me but no one liked me. I worked hard and efficiently. I was nice to everyone. I was going to buy my first car and I got fired in a second for something and until this day I have no idea why.
I have one word for you.... Lawsuit. Wrongful dismissal. Get an attorney. Your reputation is on the line.
with what money? lol
If she was a therapist...also in charge of people at that, she would have the means to get a lawyer. That is a very high paying job and lawyers are not that expensive. If she would, which she most likely would win, she would get the money back plus some.
@Wes Pic but you have to pay attorneys. So that's gonna be challenging.
@@geert574 thats my problem right now. I just got fired unjustly but I am worried about how I'm even going to pay rent ! So you're smart for commenting this...
That petty ass woman was obviously jealous of you because you were young, beautiful, and moving up in the company! Dont worry hun you will find better! I had a similar experience and it opened up the opportunity for me to get a better paying job and find something Im passionate about! I had to fight thru depression myself after I was terminated for my job as well and it was a hard 8 months following my termination for me to make ends meet for my son
I know it's cliche but just remember when a door closes another one opens !
Oh my god... This is absolutely ridiculous! I wish that there was something I could do to help. Through watching your videos, I feel like you are a friend. And this felt like I was watching a friend break apart into pieces. Depression has been a big part of my life and I completely understand what you're going through. Depression will literally cause you to not be able to get out of bed. And with the whole college thing, it SUCKS! When you get out of college it is so scary because you are literally on your own in this huge world! You have to find a job on your own and it is so hard because the world is so competitive now! You are An amazing person Nicole, and I am so happy you opened up this side. I can tell how passionate you are for helping people and not only by the story you have shared with us, but I can see it through your videos too. You are so passionate about your videos and about us and about teaching us things and giving us advice. Just remember I love you always 💗 xoxo
Ugh I wish I could give you a real life hug, but instead here is a computer hug girl! Haha ❤️❤️❤️
+Amber Greaves awww thanks girly! xo you are so sweet! thank you so much for your constant support ! and I am so proud of you as well and your channel keep it up girl you are doing a great job! thank you for always giving me sweet words and being so supportive it makes it so much easier for me to be strong and get through things like this that may come my way! I love ya girly! and HUGE COMPUTER HUG! you never know maybe one day we will be able to finally meet in person!
+Nicoletta xo ahhh you're the best. And you're so welcome!!! And that'd be amazing if we met someday! If you ever have a meet up anywhere near me you know I'll be there :)
I got fired about 30 minutes ago. I was so optimistic and what's crazy is the job isn't that hard but I started this job last Tuesday. I drive forklifts and this job actually pays well but the supervisors would leave without checking my scanner to make sure I was scanning the right labels. They would all be gone by 230 but I was scheduled for 330. Of course I felt dumb for making simple mistakes but I'm new. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF TRAINING IS THAT? I was doomed from the jump but I have an interview tomorrow morning. When we fail sometimes we dwell on it for too long. I was in a depression for years after I left the military. Feeling guilty for having mental problems and addictions. I no longer allow those things to conquer and control me. I had a breakdown at my job in 2008 but they didn't fire me and realized I was a decent person with a good work ethic. Don't give up. Value yourself and keep your head up. Don't allow failure or fear to stop you from getting what you want in life. Whether you're a crane operator, cna, or phlebotomist.
Thank you for sharing this! It helps to know that you are not the only one going through this, I honestly feel so much better and positive about my situation after reading this. It gives me hope :)
@@sumedhahore4928 same here!
Some people That are a manager is from another store don't have no training at all they get rid of people Like changing clothes it's like every day there's always another person that's not their how can they keep a business when they ran out of employees that's my logic to the middle man Management.
I came across your video, I was fired from my job based on lies. I was left feeling sad, angry and depressed. Your video helped me in so many ways because everything that you were feeling is what I’m feeling now. I don’t know if you will read this comment since it’s from such an old post ; but thank you for sharing how you were feeling. This video got me through one of the worst and lowest moments of my life.
You seem like such a lovely person. How could someone be so cruel. Much love to you babe. Stay the strong beautiful women you are xxxxxx
Babygirl, it's called hate. it's so beyond real and is all around you. It's going to be everywhere you go. Even the nicest people can be haters. You're beautiful smart and others twice your age does not like that. Your supervisor does not like that. Just remember "this to shall pass"; it will not stop the hate but it will dampen the issues, for you.
A very similar situation has just happened to me today and I was let go and I am so heartbroken and angry at the same time. It feels good to know I’m not the only one x
You seem so sweet. Sorry this happened to you, sounds like some of these co-workers are the ones who need the therapy 0_o Just keep doing you girl, the universe rewards honesty and determination not lying and deceitfulness. Hope you're feeling better :)
Karma will bite them in the ass. Trust me. I was threatened to be fired once because they thought I wasn't doing my job and I was actually pleading to them that I needed help (when I wasn't getting any). Guess what? That manager no longer works there, and I'm still employed but in a better department. Karma will come around and bite them. Just stay strong and move on.
chris gast nawww probably not. Bad people end up being the most successful because they are able to take out empathy in tough decisions.
“Karma” is for the good people and the dumb people
@@lumanate1493 That's not true at all.
Welcome to the so called adult world of work, where you can be a great employee, work really hard, be appreciated by people you work with and for, and suddenly, the higher ups you work for stab you in the back and smile in your face as they do it. How do I know about this? It's happened to me, as well as other people I've worked with. I know how angry you must be, but unfortunately, that kind of anger can destroy you. Know that you are in the profession you are in for a reason, and even though callous administrators may think it's great to spite you and humiliate you as a way of tearing you down, the people you helped and connected with appreciate you for who you are can help to sustain you in the future when you find work in your field again. It may take time, but it will happen again.
This is so close to home that I had to screenshot this... Because reading this helps so much to know I'm not alone. This happened to me today. I am praised every day at work for my ethic, and then I have the manager smiling at me and saying she's sorry but she has to terminate me based on something another worker said while the manager wasn't even there... Strange.
Jealousy, Seniority, Money, Society . 4 words
Welp, liked that you shared your story, relatable, stay strong!
I can't believe what happened to you, this is so unfair. You're so strong for standing up for yourself this way though! You're so strong you can get through it and those people are gonna suffer.
it breaks my heart seeing you cry:( anyway, I know this was a year ago but things do get better, people just don't realize until they are a lot better. don't be depressed. you know there are 100k people behind to catch your back
wow i love this. i Went through a very similar situation to you and i feel for you so much. I also got fired with no reason/explanation and i KNEW 100% that i was working so hard and i felt like i was doing such a good job, always early, always working overtime, fully engaging with customers and co-workers, everything was perfect in my eyes. Just know that it gets better girl, what happened to you is not fair and you didn't deserve it. When people feel threatened by you they will do whatever they can do cut you down a few sizes, like you said you were the youngest person there and probably the most hard working! This was my healing process in the same situation. 1) acted like i didn't care and didn't need them anyway 2) self doubt/questioning own sanity. Why did i feel like i was doing such a good job if i wasn't?? 3) ANGER because i knew it wasn't fair and i knew i wasn't crazy 4) going back to the manager and explaining to him that it was unfair dismissal, standing up for myself. he actually apologised. I can tell you- everything changes when you find that new job! you will feel lost for a few months first. but when that new job comes around you will feel amazing again, and hopefully will be appreciated the way you deserve! This will validate everything- you really are a hard worker and you KNOW it! it can be hard sometimes when others don't see your brightness (or don't want to acknowledge it) . stay strong chikka, good things to come!
Omg i just want to reach out and give u a hug, this story reminded me so much of my own. I've never seen such a lack of professionalism like i have seen in the mental care facilities. MY situation really put me in a mad mood to because i was recently let go of a position that i really loved and had so much passion for. I was working with adults with autism for about 2.5 years a with a switch in management had my luck turned. I feel in love with my residents who were adults with autism and had my job taken away because of 2 very hypocritical too face staff. Staff who would collect the most petty things and use them against me in the review with the director that eventually got me to loose my position. Please dont feel bad i see the passion in your eyes. You deserve a far better positon and its true bad things happen to good people and these things happen to us in order for us to grow. This story really touched me cause i felt like it was alot like my own. I was working with alot of college aged very catty girls and once they don't like you they sabotige you until you quit or you get fired. I'am very sad to have to leave my job to because i loved my resident but your passion and your geniune ways will get you so far in life I promise. In a way I'am glad to see what that company stands for because it tells me they don't deserve good hard working employees. Those 2 girls can have that job in which they always complain about and i know god has better opportunites waiting for me.
Honestly, this is truly a blessing in disguise. Most of your ex co workers are just jealous because when they look at you and see how successful and young you are, they realize that they are just unhappy with themselves. Don't let negative people bring you down like that. You're an extremely strong girl with a huge heart and you have a bright future. Thank you for posting this video!
I LOVE this video. I love how open and vulnerable you are. I lost my job today myself. It was entirely out of my control because of the manipulation and lies. Anyway, this video helped me feel ok with my emotions about the situation. It's ok to be devastated. It's ok to cry. Its ok to feel everything that you are feeling. I am curious to know how everything turned out with you. I noticed this was published in 2015. I hope you are doing well. Thank you so very much for posting this video. Thank you so much for being open and sharing your feels with all of us. Thank you so very much.
Nicole I am in the same field as you and I know how hard it is to work with individuals with mental illness . I also know how depressing it could be working in this field and having co-workers that are suppose to "help" others as their profession and yet do these childish things. I wish you nothing but the best !! God bless you and keep on moving forward
+Maria Villalobos Thank you so much love! I know it is crazy to me, that is amazing to know we work in the same field! Good for you love
I'm so sorry that this happened to you! You will find a new job and they will treat you so much better!!
You are so strong Nic! Your videos no matter how short or long bring me up. Becuase sincerely I am the same I feel like I have everything planned for myself but so many people tell me that I can't or I shouldn't. I personally fell in depression (bc of a family issues) when I was 11-14. And was on medication. I had never been as low. Although I had already started going to a therapist ever since I was 6. I had to go through sooo much at such a young age. And for that reason I found my passion just like my many therapist I went to (becuase I was always the new kid in school, moving every year) I want to help others specifically children whom I will push to remind them that even if their family doesn't believe in them it's always gonna be okay and one day they will grow up and they will strive and bloom. They will become so much more and go to high places. Despite thus, I learned that although we all have obstacles we can get through them and remember it's not always easy... and if it's hard your doing it right girl we are all here for you❤️️ we love you💟
Ps: a lot of us would really enjoy a video maybe explain all the things tips and advice things you'd recommend (programs or classes) you should take and do to get a psychologist degree please!!!🤓
I am going through the same bullshit at my job, they randomly suspended me and said they are investigating some complaints about my work but I know it's just an excuse to get rid of me because I don't agree w/ the ways they treat workers like scum! hang in there!
Happened to me Friday. I've been wallowing in self-pity. This video really let me know I'm not alone.
Oh wow... I'm getting mad just listening to this retelling. That situation is actually freaking ridiculous and I'm sorry that happened because you seem like a sweet person :(.
Sorry to hear this. I want everyone to know that that kind of people, unfortunately, is just available everywhere. You don’t have to make any mistakes to get those negative vibes around you or to get let go of.
This is the world we live in. Just please, never blame yourself for being such a good worker. Hold your head up high no matter what happens.
I've only watched this video for 2 minutes and I'm already getting excited! The fact that you mentioned that you got a psychology degree gave me the chills because I want to study that field. I'm only 14 but that's what I truly want and the fact that I found a TH-camr who did that is amazing. Anyway I can't grab a snack (I'm fasting) but I'll watch this whole video and I'm really excited. I'm sure it's gonna be amazing :)
I have to give you major props for opening up about your situation. I know what it's like to be wrongly punished over something, especially something that other people did and received no consequences for it. and when you started talking about the college degree thing, and not being able to get a job, I just couldn't agree more. I see so many people doing NOTHING with their degree because they can't find a job. Sometimes I feel like going through college is useless because there's always that chance that you won't find anything in your field. And then you've wasted thousands of dollars and four years of your life for absolutely nothing. This really is a tough time in your life, I'm 21 and I feel like things have never been harder. Just trying to figure myself out and figure out how to get where I want to be in life.
+LiveLoveActively But as you basically said, THINGS ALWAYS GET BETTER
Girl I'm in the EXACT same situation as you right now. I'm alone. Almost unemployed. I got bullied until ingot fired. I'm so sorry this happened to you but it's a good feeling knowing I'm not alone and neither are you ❤️❤️ thanks for sharing, I definitely just subscribed :)
Thank you for sharing your story. I went through something similar, where I bought a new car and had plans when I lost it without warning. Dealing with depression and shame, and your video is helping me through this difficult time.
I'm so sorry this happened. If I were you, I'd sue. I can't believe that even if something DID happen to you (an assault), they would treat you the way they did. It's victim-blaming and it's disgusting. It's unfortunate that some women are so insecure and unhappy that they bring others down.
Thank you so much for this. This took a lot of courage and it definitely helped me.
same thing happened to me the girl was jealous. worse happened to me actually. girls are evil and sick and jealous mentally ill . god takes care of those who do evil to u you are absolutely beautiful dont worry you are absolutely beautiful you are a HUMAN ANGEL GOD BLESS YOU BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
You seem so sweet and give off such a positive vibe of character. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. People can be so horrible.
N, I'm sad to say this, but I'm glad you learned this "corporate lesson" now, instead of watching it happen to your hardworking friends when you're in your 40s. I'm so sorry you were terminated, but I've seen this many times before. It doesn't seem to matter that you were amazing at your job & that clients liked you, etc. If "corporate" sees you as a "problem person" (i.e. Managers/supervisors have to spend time "dealing with" even remotely negative situations that involve you), your behavior will eventually be watched, documented and any necessary actions will be taken that could lead to your termination. Unfortunately, harmony in the workplace is valued more than excellent/hard work. Supervisors would rather employ an easygoing, cooperative, everybody likes him/her idiot than a stellar employee who co-workers may not always get along with. And it does not matter that it's not your fault. "Corporate" doesn't have time for people who rock the boat. Again I'm so sorry this happened.
This was beautifully written and a hard truth-pill to swallow.
exactly!
I just got fired today. This sounds exactly like my situation. Heart is hurting hard but I’m trying to cope
When this happens, you have to look at it as a blessing. God has something bigger and better in the future for you.
That story is so unfortunate. That's too bad. I was interrogated at a job before for something I did not do and it was horrible, but it wasn't a job I was passionate about so I can only imagine yours was 10 times worse. I didn't know you studied psychology. I did too. There are good things to come :)
+savannahandstuff Thanks Savannah ! that means so much to me and it is so unfortunate that happens to people so ridiculous!
Omg this so not fair, don't worry you don't need them, stay so strong it's their loss not yours💕💕
girl I got you. This helped me so much.
Thank you this helped me so much too
this made me so sad! you seem like such a wonderful, selfless person who doesn't deserve something like this. you're such an inspiration, thank you for being you!
In my country, you can sue the female coworker for slander. I'm so, so sorry Nicoletta. This is your company's loss.
Thank you so much... 4 years after you posted this video really helped me. A few weeks ago I was let go from a job that gave 7 years to and they fired me the night I came back from a funeral. I still feel like I have been hit by a truck. Hopefully I can get through this. Thank you for being so open and honest! Ur a great person and keep going!!
thanks for sharing your story, i got fired 15 days ago and this makes me feel not so alone!
I cannot believe that mature employees would act like teenagers in the work place, that is simply unethical! Stay Strong
Just watched your video and wanted to thank you for sharing your story. I had very toxic coworkers at my previous job and it still baffles me how people can be so petty and mean. Best of luck :)
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve always felt so alone due to PTSD and depression and it sucks. I’m sorry you went through this, it’s really hard to deal with. I hope you feel better!
Stay Strong Nicoletta! I love you!!
That is crazy, nobody should go through any of that! I know that you can get through it!!! Stay strong, and be happy. We are all glad that you care about people and your honest about yourself, good luck!
You really need to fight this in court Hun! That is so wrong! I'm so sorry this happened to you. Just know that you are so mature and are going to be so much more successful than those old hags that decided they were going to ruin your life! I don't understand why bad things happen to good people. 😔
SMH... I'm in tears because nearly the same thing happened to me about 3 months ago!! Our stories are so similar and I am so sorry to hear your story! You're so strong for posting this on TH-cam. I've thought about doing the same but way to afraid to be that vulnerable. You're an angel and you've got a new subbie!
i love you girl! stay strong I know exactly how you feel about the job, I've had a similar experience and I have mental health issues so it means a lot you want to help♥
+Stephanie loveless you are amazing Stephanie don't forget it! thank you for the support it means the world!
+Nicoletta xo ♥♥♥ I just know the exact pain you're going through. when I got "letgo" from my job it was also because I was a manager & others were jealous. when I got fired I seriously begged to please stay and cried since it was all I had & now I haven't had any luck with a new job & had to give up we everything because I'm so broke, so I know how heartbreaking it is :( it made my depression about 100xs worse, but know that we love you!
Stephanie loveless I am so so so sorry that happened to you, that is horrible and it is not right I will have you in my prayers and hope nothing but the best for you!
+Nicoletta xo you too love you are such a sweet & caring person! & I got your back♥♥ you're such an inspiration thank you for making this video.
Hi girly, I'm also a psychology major who loves youtube! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this, people are so rude and instead of lifting up others, they just feel threatened. Especially disappointing for people to act like this when they are in a helping field. Keep your chin up girl, you're such an inspiration! xo
+Nicoletta I have recently been in your situation and I was actually bullied and discriminated against. I had 2 jobs and lost them due to jealousy as well. I am 21 and I completely understand how you feel. It's been 5 months and I'm still fighting them and currently suing both companies and you should do. Stay strong. X
Stay strong girl! I cannot believe that happened to you! Caddy coworkers who make accusations like that will get what's coming to them. I hope your previous place of work sees this video and realizes the mistake they made by firing such a sweet and hardworking employee!!
get a lawyer!!! This is B.S!!! How ridiculous, they can't get away with this!!
I sure hope so. If this happened to me I would immediately consult with an attorney, it's just sick that they would be able fire someone without grounds like that
Richelle D agreed
Welcome to the real world.
It depends on what State you live in and there are at will employment laws like California has
@@MrGaryg20047 every state except Montana is "at will," however, an employer cant fire someone because or gender, race, religion, or disability. Or old age. I think she could have made a case for gender discrimination- especially if the male in the "fight" wasn't fired.
That's absolutely awful. Adults are supposed to be role models. As you said, you will get passed this. You'll get through it, and make a better out of something else
I was working at a job that I really loved. it was perfect. I was able to take off whenever I wanted 14 days in advanced, take partial days, etc. well one day I went to dinner with my family and I ate something at gave me an allergic reaction. I ended up in the hospital for 5 days. I called my boss and told him I was hospitalized and he said it was OK. Day 5 before being released from the hospital, I didn't go to work because I wasn't discharged. I didn't call my boss and when I showed up Monday for work in was told I was suspended, I then was called by HR. The next day I showed up to work and was fired. I was heart broken and devastated. I was depressed for about 2 weeks. I can't find any other job that I like or that is comparable so I had to go back into the military on another deployment. I still cannot find work so I have to re deploy and my wife is not happy about it at all. thanks for sharing your story.
misterludakris I am wondering why this poor young girl and this man didn't sue. They would have won!!!!!
misterludakris I live in a right to work state and apparently they don't need a reason to fire. I am from NYC so the southern states work differently. I ended up getting hired back on just recently because the new HR manager was my old boss and said that I shouldn't have been fired from the jump so it's all good now.
El_Boriqueño91 how is it going?
So sorry to hear this. Many people don't understand how bullying in the workforce is on the rise.
I have no idea about where you're from but in Australia we have a law against unfair dismissal. You need to look into the laws concerning your area and employment. This would be a strong case in a court of law and you really deserve so much better. ❤
When I can say how I HEAVILY I relate to you! I’m so young working for a company with much older staff and they would treat me the same way and it triggered the depression that I never knew I had... thanks for sharing. Helps to know I’m not alone in this and that there isn’t anything wrong with me, but with them. They need healing. You are strong ❤️
I just got fired for the first time in my entire life three days ago. Wow, this feeling sucks....
I’m really sorry. I’m going through the same thing you are. You deserve so much more...just remember: it is so much better being you than those miserable, boring people.
you should really claim unfair dismissal against them
Chan completely unrealistic if you’re not in a high level position
@@lumanate1493 not true. Shut up.
L Vega then you’ve obviously never worked in the real world before. Life isn’t fair. The lower level workers always get shit on its called life.
I came here from Clancy and my gosh you are such a beautiful & kind hearted person. I can't imagine how much you have gone through, I barely "know" you and I couldn't believe how disgusting that organization acted. Keep your head up, build your empire & don't let anyone dull your sparkle. You are a beautiful person & know you're the better and more mature person.
This has happened to me soooo many times, I'm a male who has worked in numerous factories. People are so unhappy in their jobs that they destroy other peoples lives and careers because they dont want to leave themselves. Its hard to trust people in work
I'm so sorry that you have to go through all this nonsense and I love how you are still trying to help others even though you yourself are struggling. This video seriously brought a tear to my eye. Although I have never been in a situation like this, you made me feel like I was in your shoes and really brought my attention to the cruelty in the work world. You are better than those people and they will realize that soon enough. I really hope this video shows people what is happening to hard working people, like you, behind closed doors every day. Sadly, this will always be an issue in our society and jealousy had no boundaries but what's important is that you know who you are as a person and continue to chase your dreams. I know what you're going through right now is heartbreaking, but when you look at this in a few years and see what you've overcome, you will be so proud of yourself. The organization you worked for will eventually realize what an amazing person they've lost, but it will be too late. You are a lot better than them, there's no doubt about it! Just remember, there will always be jealousy, even outside of work, and they only thing you can do is stay strong. I hope this video brings out awareness about this social issue and, most importantly, I hope you continue to be your amazing self after all this nonsense. People like you are hard to find... someone who loves their job so much and really puts everything they've got into their work. Just remember, whenever you need someone to talk to, you will always have your Nicolettes here for you! I love you so much and I can't wait to see yo happy and smiling again!! Much love
that is absolutely disgusting and disheartening. for one: if they truly thought this womens story was true and you were assulted the fact they didnt involve police is ridiculous. they clearly have no regard for your actual well being. i am so glad you shared this story.
Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about it. Be strong, Nicolette! God will bless you on your journey on a new job. No problem on the long video, u r a very hard worker, stay true to yourself and do what you love!!!
What happen to you, will happen at some point in live. So you're lucky it happened when you're young. But if not, it will happen in the future. That is what called office politics. If you're into working in office, you have to be guarded. This lesson will help you in the future. Trust me!
Honey, I'm so, so sorry that this happened to you. I found your video by searching "I was fired," because I was fired as well today, a day before my birthday, for something out of my control, too. I really just wanted to find some people sharing their experience how they have dealt with this sort of crisis, but I was so touched by your story.
It really is terrible that grown adults, people we've been raised to respect as our elders and look towards for guidance or even as mentors, can behave so childishly and so unprofessionally. We just have to see these setbacks for the lessons they are. Even though you've done nothing wrong, I still believe that this is a necessary time to reflect and ask yourself some important questions, such as: Was this a healthy environment for me? Do I need to further examine the stress of this job and its workload's effect on my health? I truly feel that everything happens for a reason, no matter how shitty we feel in the moment. After we express the necessary emotions, I think it's imperative that we then look within and find a way to make this disappointment an opportunity to move on to better things.
You seem like such a smart, beautiful, and kind young woman with such a passion for helping others. You're going to get through this, though I'm sure you already have, and they're going to be at a loss without you. Staying strong and being successful is the best revenge.
I know how you feel. I was fired from my job on last Monday also. It wasn't even a good reason either. But I live in sc so the laws say employers don't have to have a reason to fire someone. They can fire you for any reason basically. Now I really don't know what to do, I really need my job.
In the USA what's makes up any different from china
I admire your honesty. You're very brave to open yourself up to scorn and ridicule just for being vulnerable. Thanks for posting.
omg :( stay strong love! xoxo
+BlissfulBrii Thanks girly mean a lot! xo
you are awesome! stay strong!!
Wtf I just don't get why if alledgely you were the victim of an assult done by your co-worker why it was you who got fired? Don't they have cameras in there? What proofs do they have other than "someone told us". If your side of the story is true, I hope you get a lawyer because they obviously did not handle the situation as they should have.
Oh my, I am so sorry this happened to you... I am a social worker and worked with clients who had psychiatric problems as well. You do get very attatched to them and I can tell you are truly passionate about them and your job. But the loss is on them, they have lost a beautiful and passionate employee over no reason... But you will get up, other opportunities will come up for you. I think you have great personality and I am sure you will only grow stronger from this experience. Wish you all the best!