yes i was just thinking this…. i hope to have children one day and i cant imagine making them feel horrible about themselves and so unhappy and miserable. i want to make them feel like they can tell me anything and i want them to feel happy and supported but also know its okay to have bad days and take a rest day and be sad it doesnt mean that your weak. i want them to know their loved
You should just decrease the percentage of punishment but don't nuglify it. They could also be influenced by others and are not always given free will as it could destroy their future. My father is a good person but he easily get angry. At first, I thought he didn't love me but soon realised to him I am more than his life so he didn't want me to face difficulties he is facing. That is why he gets angry. Don't judge others by just action but also it's motive and be happy and make others happy.
To the parents reading this After being scolded and hurt by you we may smile but remember every word you say to us remains printed in our minds forever...
My eldr sister and mother planned to clean furniture and sister got a call so she went to take it. I went to help my mother becuase she is cleaning alone. I can't walk quickly because my leg was cut a little. She blamed me for it but she never told anything to my sister. It just happened now. Why did they do this to us? It is always like this. I really want to go somewhere so far far away.
This made me cry the fact she told her feelings to her mother..I could never my parents would beat me because they never wanna know the truth but they hate it when I lie. I would literally have have meltdown bc of them and they would say " why you crying" After they yelled at me for the most dumb reason I am just so tried of it 😭😭
@Bye hey um I have the same issue I have a complicated relationship with my mom and she never understood me except for my dad who i lost and I tried so hard to make my mom happy but it still isn't enough but I hope whoever u are your don't alone in this world
As a parent I can tell you most parents never start out like this. But over time we don't know we are starting to choose one child over the other one. Then we start thinking our favourite child will never lie to us. It's not till our children are older and they confront us about this , sometimes it takes years before we realise that they are right. For some parents it's too late to make amends with our children, which is sad 😢. But if you're parent is trying to change please except their changes and help them change. I'm finally in a great relationship with my children cause I changed my ways, and I accept the criticism that my children tell me . I have gotten the forgiveness of my children and I love them more ❤.
@@KamikazeButterfly20Yeah but they should understand the side effects. Comparing might reduce their child's confidence and feel imperfect and unwanted.
Ma bhi samaj sakti hu. Mera koi bhi bhai behen nahi ma ek aluad hu maa baap ki.Ase bhi is dard se abhi bhi ma guzar rahi hu.Allah sab kuch thik kar dega is barosa hi jee raha hu.
I was going through bad times in school and was depressed not knowing what to do, I did stupid things like hurting myself to relieve the stress. I was alone, none of my friends were beside me due to a misunderstanding and some stupid fake rumours, I couldn't bear it so I begged my parents to take me home. Later at home when I told my mom that my friends aren't talking to me, without even knowing the whole situation and the truth my mom said, “ it's probably your fault”...i was so hurt. Whatever I say is considered as talking back to them Whatever I do is considered selfish but when my other siblings do it they don't get called selfish When they wrong me and I try to defend myself by explaining but they say am talking back and showing bad behavior... Sometimes I wanna live like those kids who aren't close with their parents. I wanna run away sometimes
That's what always happen with me... I can feel u...😓 My mother always says that to me without even knowing what happened..... Why can't I ever spent MY FRUSTRATION, MY ANGER, MY SENTIMENTS BY TELLING SOMEONE...... Why do I always have to be the first one blamed for everything when it's my sister's fault..... Just why???
I feel u I have bad days in school and when I tell my parents about it they say tell a teacher and when I do it becomes worse then I told them again but they ignored it and then when I wanted to tell them about my personal problems I feel uncomfortable and bad
@@Sassy_as_always-ie7iw I know what it feels like to be blamed for your own and everyone else's behavior, without knowing what the other person did. I was and still am the unloved child, the scapegoat and the punching bag in my family. I am still struggling with depression since the last 5 years and my parents don't know about it. Everything is about them and their problems. When will they stop blaming me for everything? And they claim to be scared of me because I end up crying and yelling and not by the CID level questions they throw at me and treat me like a criminal. I really can't wait to permanently leave and disconnect with them forever. Peace.
"And then they say we treat our children equally wheather its girl or a boy" Which hurts more I can accept anything but not betrayal and a lie from my close one
My mom always makes me feel insecure. Here's a story. I was facing heavy hairfall due to extreme dieting. Now I started extreme dieting as in my class, some of the students made fun of my weight and this made me severely insecure. I was mentally suffering during that period. To ease my suffering, I would constantly go to my mom for reassurance that I won't go bald. But at one point she got irritated of me and started blaming me for dieting, she said that I deserved it so I must not complain. She never understood my pain of being called fat. After I became thin, my mom started to call me ugly. I am in tears right now as I am typing this. Doesn't she realise that I was being bullied and I was suffering? I just wanted some reassurance that everything will be fine. But she makes things worse.
Something similar for me. I have always had more body hair ,acne, and greasier hair, most of which were due to HER genes. She would constantly make fun of me for it. During my childhood, she would cut my hair to the lenth that SHE wants bc i "cant wash it properly" even though i was a small child who didn't know how to wash it. She would say my face is bumpy and ugly, that my face was fat. Then in the same breath she would complain that i don't eat and that i was "too skinny". She would constantly make fun of my body hair, especially my legs.
Parents..never understood me..they never knew anything about me..they thought they were good parents by being “strict”..but whoever go though that..I’m sorry..because of that..we hide who we really are..they..won’t understand me..and now..idc..since I know I can’t never make them proud..why not make myself proud?..
Promise me.. In our future kids❤ We be a good mom, we don't hurt or no one let hurt she/he We don't do that we see in our time... I wanna say u something---- I have no friend or sister to say.. I have a sister but she blind she doesn't walk.. Im tpyingg this while crying.. Don't treat our kids like how we treat 💔🙂
It hurts alot when your parents not only compare u to others kids but also to your own siblings like i was compared to my sister because she was good in studies and i was not. It really hurts alot when you are nothing but a disgrace in your parents eyes. My parents even told me that i should die because i was just weak in studies.
Girl I know no words can heal what u r going through but I wish one day u cry as much as it hurted, your bad memories becomes past and present becomes beautiful where u r surrounded by only loved ones. Stay strong love you❤️
I really feel the same but I can't fight for myself, my mom always scold me when I fight with my siblings even if I am the one who is hurt. I just literally hate when my parents talk about my siblings, that is why I cry all night when they are sleep.
Same here. My mom favours my sister because she is much better than me in her opinion... But whenever I talk to her about it? I just overreact in her opinion.
Whenever I tell her that, she says I act like a victim (overreacting) in her mind... So yeah I stopped talking to her. She underestimates me and disrespects me
parents doesnt know us. They dont know that we give the best of us only for hearing a "im proud of you". They don't know our pain because we hide it with a smile. It hurts but we dont matter anyway so we have to keep on suffering
Lol you are taking these on completely different direction let's take these drama situation as real life if a mother had genius son and dumb trash daughter like these girl then way not the mother will like and love son more than daughter yeah but cursing and comparing your child with other is not a good thing but it is what it is
Scream at me but you can't hit me. You cannot harm this body. This body does not belong to you. It won't always be like this. I might walk away one day, mom. Then you can hit and break things that remind me of me and scream as much as you want.
This society hates when we say I think my parents do partiality between siblings, they did hurt my feelings, they don't understand me.... everyone says parents sacrifices their whole life they did this and that so u don't have any right to say so but let me tell you parents who grow their handicapped child on their own literally without expecting anything can be the real parents but some are really not...cuz they do everything for sure but in return they always expects success and if u don't become one then they really the worst people u have dealt with in ur life....some of u might be lucky enough to not go through all this but some of us really in tough time....we need to stay strong no matter what....
And this kdrama made me realise that u can make thousands of videos about abusive but parents will do what they want. And I am myself telling this things parents things are normal but in reality it hurts so stay strong that's all what we can so now
to parents again u really have to noy scold ur kids bc there crying they don't tell u bc parents accuse there children of stealing and being a mistake how much they cried they cried at home they cried at school they cried at the bathroom they cried bc of the scold they cried bc there hurt they cried bc ur choose the fav over them they cried to depression they cried to Friends they cried secretly they cried bc u fight with them they cried bc u hurt them they cried bc of u they cried bc u call them a failure they cried bc u grounded them for no reason they cried bc u care abt urself and there siblings instead of them they cried bc u don care abt them they cried bc strong emotions they cried bc of friends they cried bc of anxiety they cry bc u Don believe in them
Being the youngest of 4 siblings i completely understand. My mum is always telling me how shitty she got treated but shes doing it to me. She's only comforting my siblings
Me alsooooo idont have intrst on other group my dream is mbbs mrng mrng they started scolding me nd beaten meeeee to send me to clg even my dad🥺💔 beaten nd got angryyyyy i was brokeddddd stilll i love themmmmm but they dont understand my pain 😢they said ur wsteeeee urrrr karma for usssss nd saiddd dieee 😭😭😭😭
This is literally my whole life rn Idk why but as soon as she compared her to her brother tears started flowing out of my eyes as I remembered all the thousands of time she did this to me 😢
Hey I can understand your pain. I also get compared with the worst people sometimes. If they ever compare, please be confident and tell them that you don't want to be compared as you are one individual and you are unique.
I always hate this.. my mom always does this to me and compares me to other like, kids have emotions too! My mom seems to hate me only out of my siblings. She's always like " your sister can do better than you!" It hurts because your parents don't understand how you feel In that moment.
Iam an introvert and my parents don't understand or never tried to understand what is my personality type they just say that i am so sensitive and so weak mentally, they simply say i am behaving like Mentally (pagal) in their language, you are absolutely right exactly what i wanted/ expected from my parents they fight against each other everyday in front of me and if i try to protect my mother he shouts at me 😢
I can relate to that . My parents and relatives think that my introversion is a problem to be fixed and when I try to explain, they just call me crazy and never listen to me. 🙂
Ikr. I don't have any friends at school and they keep pushing me like "oh it's not too hard just talk" They don't even know how hard it is for me. (By any chance are u Punjabi Bcuz u said "pagal"? )
dude I'm actually crying for real😭, my mom acts like this too. I'm very sensitive when it comes to me getting yelled or shout at(I will instantly start crying once you tell or shout)
This is so true. Some of my friends parents I know alawyas say to not compare with others to their friends but always make their own kids feel low. My parents body shame me and tell me to get slimer yet when I try and try and succeed in something they say to make more effort. Like why...? Please don't be hard on childern, parents. And kids and kids who are my age, please don't let their words affect you... I know it will be hard but try and distract yourself. Show them and prove them that YOU are the best
They always say: Youngest one is the spoiled one and they have everything they want But with me? No it’s the opposite every time I get blamed for everything as I have an Asian parent they always blame me and I can’t defend myself cause I’m the youngest I’ve to respect orders even if I’m right and they’re wrong 😞😞
It's opposite in my house...my mom always blame me even when my Lil brother say something bad to me ...she reacts like he said nothing to me and laughs out loud
This girl is strong to cry in front of her parent I just pretend I have to use the bathroom or smth and cry there. It’s actually sad because our parents are supposed to be there for ANYTHING but sometimes they don’t even know what happening and just yell at you.
Today i made my mum cry... this was my first time seeing her tears. But she was alcoholic and abusive. She almost killed my big sister. So i tried to defend her but my mum started to beat me too. Idk why she cried
Still they say this is "descipline" like tf kind of discipline if you don't even know the situation your just immediately gonna shout without even hearing our reasons As a kid growing up with a mother who has favouritism over me and my siblings, i just kinda feel like "why am i living? Was a meant for this world?, did i do anything wrong to disappoint god and my mother?":(
This is for my parents : Please don't abuse me verbally all the time , it's not my fault all the time . Please believe me I m not that bad . Today I got beaten badly at home because I was crying after a heavy box fell on my left leg and she said me that why am i even born and badly abused me.
Exactly as a child you have to wait until adulthood to actually get a free life, sometimes which is sad because childhood is something you don't get back.
This is reality whenever i fo anything wrong she slways compares me with my eldest sister. When I say something she never talks me until i say sorry or beg to talk to me "WHY ALWAYS WE YOUNGEST SIBLINGS GET THIS TREATMENT" 😭😭😭
This reminds me of my own childhood as well... Constantly being compared to my elder sister and making me feel uncomfortable for existing under the same roof as her. So she would tell me to be nice to her and my sister, while being inconsiderate for my feelings...😢
I just want to say every parents please don't compare us we also have feelings It hurts us when you say this we don't react but when we remember it we broke every single second 😣😔😞
yes it is happening everyday with me I want to die because my brother lie to them that I beat him so my mom beat me for no reason and create severe fight and say that you should do all the household work all the time I am depressed I have noone by my side not even a single person she said that my brother is innocent and had not anything bad and he takes advantage of all this and play games all day long and he sleeps for even 6. hours in day and also 10 hours at night and if I sleep even for 1 hour she scolds me 😢 I am suffering a little too much please help😢
I was compared to my best friend everyday. She is the best but now coz of them saying she's better, im always so jealpus of her even if she did nothing wrong. God save us
Saddest thing You're parents love you they give you both money and time 😊❤ but they don't understand your feelings, they just keep you comparing with others they don't know what happens with you 😭😭😭😭
parents things what they does all are right bcz parents things they know everything but they actually do not know everything . every timrs my mom yell at me i have apologize bcz i got angry.😞
It hurt most because my own parents compare me with other child Why do every parent who want a perfect kid It's not even a day i am not beaten by them i literary have scars on my back
This is the most painful thing that's your parents compare you with anyone 😢😭 but now i don't care because it's me i know how my parents say me in past present and future😔 that's why i ignore them but i can't i don't know what can i do
This why child don't respect their parents 😢 never blame child blame parents if kid bad then it's cause parents But it's not mean that all parents like that ☺️
My parents compare me with my elder sissy.. I wish that they can see how much efforts i'm putting everyday to make them happy🙂 I hate u so damn much mom and dad..pls leave me..pls go away..💔
@@missstranger7697 same buddy...i'm also the youngest one. But now everything is good...don't wrry nothing is permanent so just be happy and don't let there words to hit u.❤ Just love yourself and be you🌸🥀
When u know how it feels Means you've gone through same situation Parents will never understand their kids they always compare their kids with others they think their reputation is more valuable more then their kids that's how many kids can get depressed Well u will get used to it cuz i did
I can relate to this .When my mom yells at me it is so hard not to cry, and if I do she will start calling me bad word like the b word and beat me up.I wish I can tell her how I feel to .She is so brave .
No but also it’s the feeling of guilt after you yell to your parents. Maturing is understanding they know what they are doing but they just can’t stop it because they probably have gone through it when they were younger too. Dont hate your parents for it they just want the best for you.
IN REAL LIFE for example India...my parents used to shout at me and beat me rarely bcus even they were hurt by the fact that they shouted at me..ik whatever they r doing for me is for my future life...BUT NOW they NEVER BEAT ME....some parents r different while the others...idk..but im sure whatever ur parents r doing is for ur goodness only..idk about ur past so idk ur reality im just telling my reality-
They don't care, they dont feel guilty like her mom did, they just DON'T care. I pretend it never happened, I pretend to forget, I pretend to forgive. Its a cycle. And then I add reasons to not be like them, if I turn out like them I'd rather not have kids than to pass on this trauma.
This girl is like me my mom said your not my daughter when i asked her "stop your hurting me am i not your daughter too?" She said " your not my daughter And yesterday she said to me "Die"
i feel that so much i get compared to literally everyone around me. my sister and brothers especially. and i dont know why because if they would actually help me out with school instead of comparing me all the time maybe i wouldn't have that on B.
Let’s promise to not let our future kids suffer from what we are going through
yes i was just thinking this…. i hope to have children one day and i cant imagine making them feel horrible about themselves and so unhappy and miserable. i want to make them feel like they can tell me anything and i want them to feel happy and supported but also know its okay to have bad days and take a rest day and be sad it doesnt mean that your weak. i want them to know their loved
You should just decrease the percentage of punishment but don't nuglify it.
They could also be influenced by others and are not always given free will as it could destroy their future.
My father is a good person but he easily get angry.
At first, I thought he didn't love me but soon realised to him I am more than his life so he didn't want me to face difficulties he is facing. That is why he gets angry.
Don't judge others by just action but also it's motive and be happy and make others happy.
@@maeve8082true, don't punish them without knowing full truth about it
Yes I promise 😢
Never. I will never do it. I will let them be happy as much as I can. I will really protect them.
They yell, they hurt, and yet they never apologized.
and expect us to apologize ;)
@@axn__fr🚬🗿
@@anmolkaur6647 my mom doesn't even aplogize
Correct 😢😞
Correct
To the parents reading this
After being scolded and hurt by you we may smile but remember every word you say to us remains printed in our minds forever...
True
True
😊😅
fr :(
My eldr sister and mother planned to clean furniture and sister got a call so she went to take it. I went to help my mother becuase she is cleaning alone. I can't walk quickly because my leg was cut a little. She blamed me for it but she never told anything to my sister. It just happened now. Why did they do this to us? It is always like this. I really want to go somewhere so far far away.
This made me cry the fact she told her feelings to her mother..I could never my parents would beat me because they never wanna know the truth but they hate it when I lie. I would literally have have meltdown bc of them and they would say " why you crying" After they yelled at me for the most dumb reason I am just so tried of it 😭😭
@Bye hey um I have the same issue I have a complicated relationship with my mom and she never understood me except for my dad who i lost and I tried so hard to make my mom happy but it still isn't enough but I hope whoever u are your don't alone in this world
@@sanahussain5551 once I did tell them and what do u expect they made fun of me 😢
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As a parent I can tell you most parents never start out like this. But over time we don't know we are starting to choose one child over the other one. Then we start thinking our favourite child will never lie to us. It's not till our children are older and they confront us about this , sometimes it takes years before we realise that they are right. For some parents it's too late to make amends with our children, which is sad 😢. But if you're parent is trying to change please except their changes and help them change. I'm finally in a great relationship with my children cause I changed my ways, and I accept the criticism that my children tell me . I have gotten the forgiveness of my children and I love them more ❤.
@johnatutahi9757 I wish all the parents be like u 😔
This is me like when ever something happens my mom just compares me to my brother like whyyyy
Same 🥺
@@k-poplove609 😢
Yessss 🥺🥺🥺🥺
@Yass At3 I still love them tho
Yep same
It hurts so much when your own parents compare you to someone else😭🔪
That's to make you better
@@KamikazeButterfly20bro wat it’s the opposite 😭.
Me, I like to be compared with my bro . He is super hero for me. I want to surpass him in his studies as he is a genius to me.
@@KamikazeButterfly20Yeah but they should understand the side effects. Comparing might reduce their child's confidence and feel imperfect and unwanted.
Exactly 💔🖤
Every child in the world deserve parents but some parents don't deserve a child...
~Someone great
Vice a versa
- someone greater great.
Yes
Right ✅️ 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻forever
😢😢💔💔💔 it hurts a lot when parents don't understand u at that moment
Ikr it's just hurts so much
Ikr my mom laughs
@@Tiktokvideos_4u same
Fr it hurts a lot and they think they know me better that me just because I'm their flesh and blood
It hurts very much 🥺
The fact I can feel it 🥲
Stay strong you deserve much better...
Ma bhi samaj sakti hu. Mera koi bhi bhai behen nahi ma ek aluad hu maa baap ki.Ase bhi is dard se abhi bhi ma guzar rahi hu.Allah sab kuch thik kar dega is barosa hi jee raha hu.
It still hurts me when I remember my mother saying I shouldn't have given birth to you.
The phrase "i get hurt too" was personal😭😭
I was going through bad times in school and was depressed not knowing what to do, I did stupid things like hurting myself to relieve the stress. I was alone, none of my friends were beside me due to a misunderstanding and some stupid fake rumours, I couldn't bear it so I begged my parents to take me home. Later at home when I told my mom that my friends aren't talking to me, without even knowing the whole situation and the truth my mom said, “ it's probably your fault”...i was so hurt.
Whatever I say is considered as talking back to them
Whatever I do is considered selfish but when my other siblings do it they don't get called selfish
When they wrong me and I try to defend myself by explaining but they say am talking back and showing bad behavior... Sometimes I wanna live like those kids who aren't close with their parents. I wanna run away sometimes
Usss
That's what always happen with me... I can feel u...😓
My mother always says that to me without even knowing what happened..... Why can't I ever spent MY FRUSTRATION, MY ANGER, MY SENTIMENTS BY TELLING SOMEONE...... Why do I always have to be the first one blamed for everything when it's my sister's fault..... Just why???
I feel u I have bad days in school and when I tell my parents about it they say tell a teacher and when I do it becomes worse then I told them again but they ignored it and then when I wanted to tell them about my personal problems I feel uncomfortable and bad
You deserve better ❤😢
@@Sassy_as_always-ie7iw I know what it feels like to be blamed for your own and everyone else's behavior, without knowing what the other person did. I was and still am the unloved child, the scapegoat and the punching bag in my family. I am still struggling with depression since the last 5 years and my parents don't know about it. Everything is about them and their problems. When will they stop blaming me for everything? And they claim to be scared of me because I end up crying and yelling and not by the CID level questions they throw at me and treat me like a criminal. I really can't wait to permanently leave and disconnect with them forever. Peace.
Sometimes i feel like my parents don’t deserve a daughter like me😭
I feel you😢
Me too 😢
Not every child deserves a bad parent ❌
Not every parent deserves a child ✅
yes i also feel this 😢😢😢
Ofcourse me too😭
"And then they say we treat our children equally wheather its girl or a boy"
Which hurts more
I can accept anything but not betrayal and a lie from my close one
My mom always makes me feel insecure. Here's a story. I was facing heavy hairfall due to extreme dieting. Now I started extreme dieting as in my class, some of the students made fun of my weight and this made me severely insecure. I was mentally suffering during that period. To ease my suffering, I would constantly go to my mom for reassurance that I won't go bald. But at one point she got irritated of me and started blaming me for dieting, she said that I deserved it so I must not complain. She never understood my pain of being called fat. After I became thin, my mom started to call me ugly. I am in tears right now as I am typing this. Doesn't she realise that I was being bullied and I was suffering? I just wanted some reassurance that everything will be fine. But she makes things worse.
Desi moms do this always 😢
I'm soo sorry for that🥺🫂
@@Harry_2003yeah i fucking hate my parents
Something similar for me. I have always had more body hair ,acne, and greasier hair, most of which were due to HER genes. She would constantly make fun of me for it. During my childhood, she would cut my hair to the lenth that SHE wants bc i "cant wash it properly" even though i was a small child who didn't know how to wash it. She would say my face is bumpy and ugly, that my face was fat. Then in the same breath she would complain that i don't eat and that i was "too skinny". She would constantly make fun of my body hair, especially my legs.
Dont worry guyss ...you're precious..don't let your angel inside you fade away becoz of someone who doesn't care about you
Parents..never understood me..they never knew anything about me..they thought they were good parents by being “strict”..but whoever go though that..I’m sorry..because of that..we hide who we really are..they..won’t understand me..and now..idc..since I know I can’t never make them proud..why not make myself proud?..
Exactly. Move on and let go.
yahh
It hurts a lot when your own parents compare you to others💔💔😔
That's why I never wanted to make friends at school🤕
@@Bfromalphabetlore222 same bro
Promise me..
In our future kids❤
We be a good mom, we don't hurt or no one let hurt she/he
We don't do that we see in our time... I wanna say u something----
I have no friend or sister to say..
I have a sister but she blind she doesn't walk..
Im tpyingg this while crying..
Don't treat our kids like how we treat 💔🙂
i promise this to my future children that they will never experience what their mom experienced growing up!
I promised my future kids that I will never abuse or make them Feel bad. I will appreciate them
I promise 🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢
It hurts alot when your parents not only compare u to others kids but also to your own siblings like i was compared to my sister because she was good in studies and i was not. It really hurts alot when you are nothing but a disgrace in your parents eyes. My parents even told me that i should die because i was just weak in studies.
Girl I know no words can heal what u r going through but I wish one day u cry as much as it hurted, your bad memories becomes past and present becomes beautiful where u r surrounded by only loved ones. Stay strong love you❤️
I really feel the same but I can't fight for myself, my mom always scold me when I fight with my siblings even if I am the one who is hurt. I just literally hate when my parents talk about my siblings, that is why I cry all night when they are sleep.
i just hate my siblings bcz of many reasons and they say I'm only acting they don't know anything
Same here. My mom favours my sister because she is much better than me in her opinion...
But whenever I talk to her about it?
I just overreact in her opinion.
She never blame my brother when he say something bad about me...she shouts on me only
In reality 😅if we cry they get angry or don’t care.Then we stops crying ultimately leading to depression
Ok but I’m was crying before and now I can’t stop 😭
Oops- got a tear drop on my phone
I am just like you and that's why we should have waterproof phones 😂😂✌🏻✌🏻
Remember whatever terrible is happening right now will be just some memories after some time so dont be depressed and be happy
Its is abusive in kdrama and world ......but in India its common that parents beat kids even for small things that doesn't matter....
Same
*Cause for them*
Comparison is motivation
Abuse is a lesson to children so that they won't do mistake again
👏🏻👏🏻
@@bhumigole7480 I cant understand whether you're supporting me .... Or ?
@@roshnipouchepparadjou2513 I am saying for them means our parents think this not me
@@bhumigole7480 yeah ...so sad !
"Outside smile inside crying in pain "iam relatable to this video mom never understands me 💔
I wish i could also say this to my mom : (
Whenever I tell her that, she says I act like a victim (overreacting) in her mind... So yeah I stopped talking to her. She underestimates me and disrespects me
I SPEAK UP FOR MYSELF ONE DAY AND SHE HIT ME MORE :( SO I STOPED :( CUZ IT HURTS :(
@@EvalinnTomasi-lo1hcspeak up for yourself more, dont let her make you a puppet, tho it might hurt stay strong
parents doesnt know us. They dont know that we give the best of us only for hearing a "im proud of you". They don't know our pain because we hide it with a smile. It hurts but we dont matter anyway so we have to keep on suffering
it hurts to see how a woman hates another woman. Doesn't matter if it is our mother 😣
Especially since we live in a world where women have poor treatment, because of patriarchy.
Lol you are taking these on completely different direction let's take these drama situation as real life if a mother had genius son and dumb trash daughter like these girl then way not the mother will like and love son more than daughter yeah but cursing and comparing your child with other is not a good thing but it is what it is
I would never compare my future kid bc i know how that feels🙃
Absolutely....me too
same
Wait till you grow up
Same because i know how it fell
Break the cycle by not having a kid
This happens in every time every year every days to me
I can fell it 😢
Hey lady take care of yourself.
You know after disturbing your mental health no one cares they will treat you as a mental
" I AM NOT afraid ANYMORE MAKES U SURE"😭
*I JUST WANTED UR LOVE FOR FREE..... YOU CAN SEE ME GETTING BORED..*
Scream at me but you can't hit me. You cannot harm this body. This body does not belong to you. It won't always be like this. I might walk away one day, mom. Then you can hit and break things that remind me of me and scream as much as you want.
This scene is describing my life 😭😭 it hurts and they don't even apologize 😞
Can please tell me the name
This society hates when we say I think my parents do partiality between siblings, they did hurt my feelings, they don't understand me.... everyone says parents sacrifices their whole life they did this and that so u don't have any right to say so but let me tell you parents who grow their handicapped child on their own literally without expecting anything can be the real parents but some are really not...cuz they do everything for sure but in return they always expects success and if u don't become one then they really the worst people u have dealt with in ur life....some of u might be lucky enough to not go through all this but some of us really in tough time....we need to stay strong no matter what....
Parents Don’t know what kids feel😢
Yes I thought they are kids before how come they still don't understand
@@Zhuine_dontmindmeidk?!
I feel very bad when this all are happening with me 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
@@dhanu4552 fr
@@Zhuine_dontmindmetrue it’s sad how they yell at us and we try not to cry like sometimes my mom yells at me
The "I get hurt too" gets me every time
If anyone wants to know the k drama it's called "strong woman do-bong-soon"
And this kdrama made me realise that u can make thousands of videos about abusive but parents will do what they want. And I am myself telling this things parents things are normal but in reality it hurts so stay strong that's all what we can so now
Facts, exactly!
Can you please say name of this kdrama
Whats the name of the k-drama?
to parents again
u really have to noy scold ur kids bc there crying they don't tell u bc parents accuse there children of stealing and being a mistake
how much they cried
they cried at home
they cried at school
they cried at the bathroom
they cried bc of the scold
they cried bc there hurt
they cried bc ur choose the fav over them
they cried to depression
they cried to Friends
they cried secretly
they cried bc u fight with them
they cried bc u hurt them
they cried bc of u
they cried bc u call them a failure
they cried bc u grounded them for no reason
they cried bc u care abt urself and there siblings instead of them
they cried bc u don care abt them
they cried bc strong emotions
they cried bc of friends
they cried bc of anxiety
they cry bc u Don believe in them
Wow I wanna send this to my parents but I know they'll hit me
When only some people understand......it hurts when you understand :(
i am here
This is just like me. They don't understand me and always teasing me and compare me with my friend and my brother. 😭
prob what happened to them
Being the youngest of 4 siblings i completely understand. My mum is always telling me how shitty she got treated but shes doing it to me. She's only comforting my siblings
Similar situation. She used to be a little better to my older sister, but she treated me worse because I was the youngest scapegoat in the family.
finally someone who knows the truth about the lie that „youngest child is the favorite“ is not real : (
Watching this made me cry because it’s happened to me but I didn’t have the words to fight back
whats the kdrama name pls?
Me alsooooo idont have intrst on other group my dream is mbbs mrng mrng they started scolding me nd beaten meeeee to send me to clg even my dad🥺💔 beaten nd got angryyyyy i was brokeddddd stilll i love themmmmm but they dont understand my pain 😢they said ur wsteeeee urrrr karma for usssss nd saiddd dieee 😭😭😭😭
@@ZANABAH1010
Strong women do bong song
Strong women do bong soon
@@jancyv.j4968episode??
This is literally my whole life rn
Idk why but as soon as she compared her to her brother tears started flowing out of my eyes as I remembered all the thousands of time she did this to me 😢
Hey I can understand your pain. I also get compared with the worst people sometimes. If they ever compare, please be confident and tell them that you don't want to be compared as you are one individual and you are unique.
@@imrrai if I said that , I would get a nice slipper thrown at my face and then she will say " it's for you to improve and we only want your best"
I’ve got a Korean mother. No idea if they’re just hardwired to compare and overestimate, but I feel this.
I always hate this.. my mom always does this to me and compares me to other like, kids have emotions too! My mom seems to hate me only out of my siblings. She's always like " your sister can do better than you!" It hurts because your parents don't understand how you feel In that moment.
I've never comment on a sad video but I still want to say that when she said "I get hurt too" I almost died crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This made me cry,it happens with me all time.
Iam an introvert and my parents don't understand or never tried to understand what is my personality type they just say that i am so sensitive and so weak mentally, they simply say i am behaving like Mentally (pagal) in their language,
you are absolutely right
exactly what i wanted/ expected from my parents they fight against each other everyday in front of me and if i try to protect my mother he shouts at me 😢
I can relate to that . My parents and relatives think that my introversion is a problem to be fixed and when I try to explain, they just call me crazy and never listen to me. 🙂
Ikr. I don't have any friends at school and they keep pushing me like "oh it's not too hard just talk"
They don't even know how hard it is for me.
(By any chance are u Punjabi
Bcuz u said "pagal"? )
dude I'm actually crying for real😭, my mom acts like this too. I'm very sensitive when it comes to me getting yelled or shout at(I will instantly start crying once you tell or shout)
I can feel her pain ❤️🩹💔
Parents are supposed to help you in life, not make it harder
-A wise person once said
This is so true. Some of my friends parents I know alawyas say to not compare with others to their friends but always make their own kids feel low.
My parents body shame me and tell me to get slimer yet when I try and try and succeed in something they say to make more effort. Like why...? Please don't be hard on childern, parents. And kids and kids who are my age, please don't let their words affect you...
I know it will be hard but try and distract yourself. Show them and prove them that YOU are the best
Yes it's true 💯🥺😢✨❣️💜so let's promise to not let our future kids suffer from what we are going through okk😊✨👍❣️✌️😎💜
They always say:
Youngest one is the spoiled one and they have everything they want
But with me?
No it’s the opposite every time I get blamed for everything as I have an Asian parent they always blame me and I can’t defend myself cause I’m the youngest I’ve to respect orders even if I’m right and they’re wrong 😞😞
It's opposite in my house...my mom always blame me even when my Lil brother say something bad to me ...she reacts like he said nothing to me and laughs out loud
This girl is strong to cry in front of her parent I just pretend I have to use the bathroom or smth and cry there. It’s actually sad because our parents are supposed to be there for ANYTHING but sometimes they don’t even know what happening and just yell at you.
Today i made my mum cry... this was my first time seeing her tears. But she was alcoholic and abusive. She almost killed my big sister. So i tried to defend her but my mum started to beat me too. Idk why she cried
Now I don’t feel sad but instead I feel ashame. Ashame that the society is this way!
Parents who compare their child to others miss out their appreciating their unique gifts of talents😢
Please don't compare your child with others😔
Still they say this is "descipline" like tf kind of discipline if you don't even know the situation your just immediately gonna shout without even hearing our reasons
As a kid growing up with a mother who has favouritism over me and my siblings, i just kinda feel like "why am i living? Was a meant for this world?, did i do anything wrong to disappoint god and my mother?":(
That’s one of the saddest things that happen in k drama when they cry and poor girl
This is for my parents :
Please don't abuse me verbally all the time , it's not my fault all the time . Please believe me I m not that bad .
Today I got beaten badly at home because I was crying after a heavy box fell on my left leg and she said me that why am i even born and badly abused me.
Parents never understand they just compare😢
Exactly as a child you have to wait until adulthood to actually get a free life, sometimes which is sad because childhood is something you don't get back.
kids deserve parents, parents don't deserve kids
This is reality whenever i fo anything wrong she slways compares me with my eldest sister. When I say something she never talks me until i say sorry or beg to talk to me "WHY ALWAYS WE YOUNGEST SIBLINGS GET THIS TREATMENT" 😭😭😭
This reminds me of my own childhood as well...
Constantly being compared to my elder sister and making me feel uncomfortable for existing under the same roof as her. So she would tell me to be nice to her and my sister, while being inconsiderate for my feelings...😢
if only parents could truly do when they say "I love you both equally".
in the morning i cry a lot,
Sometimes parent's never deserve childs,
I just want to say every parents please don't compare us we also have feelings It hurts us when you say this we don't react but when we remember it we broke every single second 😣😔😞
And yet , I'm my culture NO MATTER WHAT, respect parents
It's a blessing of God
I was told even no matter what they do
"Sometimes it's better to keep silent
than you tell others what you FEEL
Because it will hurt, when your parents don't Understand you 😢😢
~ unknown
Mama wolf is here for any who feels like their parents pick favorites i will love you with open arms
Awwh ty
Love me pls
Well tysm because I definitely needed this
😭😭
Imagine saying HURTFUL things to your child and still thinking that they would still love you.
yes it is happening everyday with me I want to die because my brother lie to them that I beat him so my mom beat me for no reason and create severe fight and say that you should do all the household work all the time I am depressed I have noone by my side not even a single person she said that my brother is innocent and had not anything bad and he takes advantage of all this and play games all day long and he sleeps for even 6. hours in day and also 10 hours at night and if I sleep even for 1 hour she scolds me 😢 I am suffering a little too much please help😢
I was compared to my best friend everyday. She is the best but now coz of them saying she's better, im always so jealpus of her even if she did nothing wrong. God save us
Saddest thing You're parents love you they give you both money and time 😊❤ but they don't understand your feelings, they just keep you comparing with others
they don't know what happens with you 😭😭😭😭
parents things what they does all are right bcz parents things they know everything but they actually do not know everything .
every timrs my mom yell at me i have apologize bcz i got angry.😞
It hurt most because my own parents compare me with other child
Why do every parent who want a perfect kid
It's not even a day i am not beaten by them i literary have scars on my back
And only my cousin brother cousin sister big mom and big dad loves me
This is the most painful thing that's your parents compare you with anyone 😢😭 but now i don't care because it's me i know how my parents say me in past present and future😔 that's why i ignore them but i can't i don't know what can i do
Literally I am crying after watching this video 😭❤️🩹
This why child don't respect their parents 😢 never blame child blame parents if kid bad then it's cause parents
But it's not mean that all parents like that ☺️
True
I can feel her pain
My parents compare me with my elder sissy..
I wish that they can see how much efforts i'm putting everyday to make them happy🙂
I hate u so damn much mom and dad..pls leave me..pls go away..💔
I was the same situation with you. I was the younger one being compared to the older one...
@@missstranger7697 same buddy...i'm also the youngest one.
But now everything is good...don't wrry nothing is permanent so just be happy and don't let there words to hit u.❤
Just love yourself and be you🌸🥀
@@Roopa.09 Same for you😊😇
Every child deserves a parent but not all perents deserve a child
-a wise person -
Our parents think we are bad even though, we arent.
it's heartbreaking man they never understood us and when they finally did it's too late💔
Why did this make me cry????
My mother is with me physically not mentally
She doesn't how i am she just don't want me she really don't want me 🥺🥺🥺😭
When u know how it feels
Means you've gone through same situation
Parents will never understand their kids they always compare their kids with others they think their reputation is more valuable more then their kids that's how many kids can get depressed
Well u will get used to it cuz i did
I also got used to it. I don't expect from my mother or my sister, because I have a negative reaction from them. I do things solo.
They are never appreciated by ur success they will just compare u with other siblings or cousins I know the pain 😭🥺
I can relate to this .When my mom yells at me it is so hard not to cry, and if I do she will start calling me bad word like the b word and beat me up.I wish I can tell her how I feel to .She is so brave .
Mother was jealous of her daughter's powers since she lost hers
This made me cry as I'm also going through the same
Some parents can be cruel. My parents took my voice down because of rumors. Today I cannot communicate orally, only through sign language.
No but also it’s the feeling of guilt after you yell to your parents. Maturing is understanding they know what they are doing but they just can’t stop it because they probably have gone through it when they were younger too. Dont hate your parents for it they just want the best for you.
This made me cry!😢
Hurts even more going through broken hearts and mental problems.
IN REAL LIFE for example India...my parents used to shout at me and beat me rarely bcus even they were hurt by the fact that they shouted at me..ik whatever they r doing for me is for my future life...BUT NOW they NEVER BEAT ME....some parents r different while the others...idk..but im sure whatever ur parents r doing is for ur goodness only..idk about ur past so idk ur reality im just telling my reality-
But what hurt it is they never praise you never it always feel like its not enough its not
l love you editor 💖👍
One thing for me…
Whether I’m not in the mood, I shouldn’t be like normal kids. I’m only meant to have the emotions they want me to have.
Especially desi parents do this things to theyr kids...
They don't care, they dont feel guilty like her mom did, they just DON'T care. I pretend it never happened, I pretend to forget, I pretend to forgive. Its a cycle.
And then I add reasons to not be like them, if I turn out like them I'd rather not have kids than to pass on this trauma.
This girl is like me my mom said your not my daughter when i asked her "stop your hurting me am i not your daughter too?" She said " your not my daughter
And yesterday she said to me "Die"
My mom asked my to die too
i feel that so much i get compared to literally everyone around me. my sister and brothers especially. and i dont know why because if they would actually help me out with school instead of comparing me all the time maybe i wouldn't have that on B.