Why parents do this ? 💔🥺

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  • @Say_lalisa180
    @Say_lalisa180 ปีที่แล้ว +1397

    Let’s promise to not let our future kids suffer from what we are going through

    • @maeve8082
      @maeve8082 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      yes i was just thinking this…. i hope to have children one day and i cant imagine making them feel horrible about themselves and so unhappy and miserable. i want to make them feel like they can tell me anything and i want them to feel happy and supported but also know its okay to have bad days and take a rest day and be sad it doesnt mean that your weak. i want them to know their loved

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You should just decrease the percentage of punishment but don't nuglify it.
      They could also be influenced by others and are not always given free will as it could destroy their future.
      My father is a good person but he easily get angry.
      At first, I thought he didn't love me but soon realised to him I am more than his life so he didn't want me to face difficulties he is facing. That is why he gets angry.
      Don't judge others by just action but also it's motive and be happy and make others happy.

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@maeve8082true, don't punish them without knowing full truth about it

    • @FaBeL_eDiTzZ69
      @FaBeL_eDiTzZ69 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes I promise 😢

    • @Blackkitten2715
      @Blackkitten2715 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Never. I will never do it. I will let them be happy as much as I can. I will really protect them.

  • @juliadeblock
    @juliadeblock ปีที่แล้ว +2391

    They yell, they hurt, and yet they never apologized.

    • @axn__
      @axn__ ปีที่แล้ว +133

      and expect us to apologize ;)

    • @ZANABAH1010
      @ZANABAH1010 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      ​@@axn__fr🚬🗿

    • @ZANABAH1010
      @ZANABAH1010 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@anmolkaur6647 my mom doesn't even aplogize

    • @ish23_thv
      @ish23_thv ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Correct 😢😞

    • @JoeJennum
      @JoeJennum ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Correct

  • @reijelll
    @reijelll 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2356

    To the parents reading this
    After being scolded and hurt by you we may smile but remember every word you say to us remains printed in our minds forever...

    • @rash224
      @rash224 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      True

    • @Rukayejihaerin
      @Rukayejihaerin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      True

    • @raziaaltaf7862
      @raziaaltaf7862 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😊😅

    • @anafajaffer1926
      @anafajaffer1926 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      fr :(

    • @Blackkitten2715
      @Blackkitten2715 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      My eldr sister and mother planned to clean furniture and sister got a call so she went to take it. I went to help my mother becuase she is cleaning alone. I can't walk quickly because my leg was cut a little. She blamed me for it but she never told anything to my sister. It just happened now. Why did they do this to us? It is always like this. I really want to go somewhere so far far away.

  • @miriah_plays4024
    @miriah_plays4024 ปีที่แล้ว +503

    This made me cry the fact she told her feelings to her mother..I could never my parents would beat me because they never wanna know the truth but they hate it when I lie. I would literally have have meltdown bc of them and they would say " why you crying" After they yelled at me for the most dumb reason I am just so tried of it 😭😭

    • @valerieleyva2203
      @valerieleyva2203 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@Bye hey um I have the same issue I have a complicated relationship with my mom and she never understood me except for my dad who i lost and I tried so hard to make my mom happy but it still isn't enough but I hope whoever u are your don't alone in this world

    • @CriticalHit-y6l
      @CriticalHit-y6l ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@sanahussain5551 once I did tell them and what do u expect they made fun of me 😢

    • @shan-x4b
      @shan-x4b ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sanahussain left the chat

    • @johnatutahi9757
      @johnatutahi9757 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As a parent I can tell you most parents never start out like this. But over time we don't know we are starting to choose one child over the other one. Then we start thinking our favourite child will never lie to us. It's not till our children are older and they confront us about this , sometimes it takes years before we realise that they are right. For some parents it's too late to make amends with our children, which is sad 😢. But if you're parent is trying to change please except their changes and help them change. I'm finally in a great relationship with my children cause I changed my ways, and I accept the criticism that my children tell me . I have gotten the forgiveness of my children and I love them more ❤.

    • @rashidabegum4581
      @rashidabegum4581 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @johnatutahi9757 I wish all the parents be like u 😔

  • @kpop_for_life._.
    @kpop_for_life._. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2613

    This is me like when ever something happens my mom just compares me to my brother like whyyyy

  • @skzsbackdoor
    @skzsbackdoor ปีที่แล้ว +701

    It hurts so much when your own parents compare you to someone else😭🔪

    • @KamikazeButterfly20
      @KamikazeButterfly20 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's to make you better

    • @iadoptedseungmin
      @iadoptedseungmin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@KamikazeButterfly20bro wat it’s the opposite 😭.

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me, I like to be compared with my bro . He is super hero for me. I want to surpass him in his studies as he is a genius to me.

    • @imrrai
      @imrrai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@KamikazeButterfly20Yeah but they should understand the side effects. Comparing might reduce their child's confidence and feel imperfect and unwanted.

    • @Rahulsingh.105
      @Rahulsingh.105 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly 💔🖤

  • @its.Tavishi
    @its.Tavishi ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Every child in the world deserve parents but some parents don't deserve a child...
    ~Someone great

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Vice a versa
      - someone greater great.

    • @EDITBYCXCX
      @EDITBYCXCX 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

    • @kmg651
      @kmg651 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right ✅️ 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻forever

  • @triggeredfan4613
    @triggeredfan4613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +918

    😢😢💔💔💔 it hurts a lot when parents don't understand u at that moment

    • @Oneville7395
      @Oneville7395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr it's just hurts so much

    • @Tiktokvideos_4u
      @Tiktokvideos_4u ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ikr my mom laughs

    • @_Sirens
      @_Sirens ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Tiktokvideos_4u same

    • @shwenczyb009
      @shwenczyb009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr it hurts a lot and they think they know me better that me just because I'm their flesh and blood

    • @jabakundu7324
      @jabakundu7324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It hurts very much 🥺

  • @OneTrue07
    @OneTrue07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    The fact I can feel it 🥲

    • @its.Tavishi
      @its.Tavishi ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stay strong you deserve much better...

    • @mehjabeinohi5114
      @mehjabeinohi5114 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ma bhi samaj sakti hu. Mera koi bhi bhai behen nahi ma ek aluad hu maa baap ki.Ase bhi is dard se abhi bhi ma guzar rahi hu.Allah sab kuch thik kar dega is barosa hi jee raha hu.

    • @GOJOEDIT-z4w
      @GOJOEDIT-z4w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It still hurts me when I remember my mother saying I shouldn't have given birth to you.

  • @Amarillialinzpink
    @Amarillialinzpink 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    The phrase "i get hurt too" was personal😭😭

  • @sumo7125
    @sumo7125 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I was going through bad times in school and was depressed not knowing what to do, I did stupid things like hurting myself to relieve the stress. I was alone, none of my friends were beside me due to a misunderstanding and some stupid fake rumours, I couldn't bear it so I begged my parents to take me home. Later at home when I told my mom that my friends aren't talking to me, without even knowing the whole situation and the truth my mom said, “ it's probably your fault”...i was so hurt.
    Whatever I say is considered as talking back to them
    Whatever I do is considered selfish but when my other siblings do it they don't get called selfish
    When they wrong me and I try to defend myself by explaining but they say am talking back and showing bad behavior... Sometimes I wanna live like those kids who aren't close with their parents. I wanna run away sometimes

    • @Arfxluvv
      @Arfxluvv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Usss

    • @Sassy_as_always-ie7iw
      @Sassy_as_always-ie7iw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's what always happen with me... I can feel u...😓
      My mother always says that to me without even knowing what happened..... Why can't I ever spent MY FRUSTRATION, MY ANGER, MY SENTIMENTS BY TELLING SOMEONE...... Why do I always have to be the first one blamed for everything when it's my sister's fault..... Just why???

    • @EDITBYCXCX
      @EDITBYCXCX 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel u I have bad days in school and when I tell my parents about it they say tell a teacher and when I do it becomes worse then I told them again but they ignored it and then when I wanted to tell them about my personal problems I feel uncomfortable and bad

    • @Coohearthaddict9804
      @Coohearthaddict9804 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You deserve better ❤😢

    • @loneweenie
      @loneweenie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Sassy_as_always-ie7iw I know what it feels like to be blamed for your own and everyone else's behavior, without knowing what the other person did. I was and still am the unloved child, the scapegoat and the punching bag in my family. I am still struggling with depression since the last 5 years and my parents don't know about it. Everything is about them and their problems. When will they stop blaming me for everything? And they claim to be scared of me because I end up crying and yelling and not by the CID level questions they throw at me and treat me like a criminal. I really can't wait to permanently leave and disconnect with them forever. Peace.

  • @Ada437S
    @Ada437S 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    Sometimes i feel like my parents don’t deserve a daughter like me😭

    • @Ashriya21
      @Ashriya21 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel you😢

    • @ShobhaDixit-o4m
      @ShobhaDixit-o4m 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too 😢

    • @KashifKhan-mp6ec
      @KashifKhan-mp6ec 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Not every child deserves a bad parent ❌
      Not every parent deserves a child ✅

    • @akansharamteke6900
      @akansharamteke6900 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes i also feel this 😢😢😢

    • @durairajdurairaj3476
      @durairajdurairaj3476 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ofcourse me too😭

  • @Blackpink1-f4n
    @Blackpink1-f4n 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    "And then they say we treat our children equally wheather its girl or a boy"
    Which hurts more
    I can accept anything but not betrayal and a lie from my close one

  • @imrrai
    @imrrai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    My mom always makes me feel insecure. Here's a story. I was facing heavy hairfall due to extreme dieting. Now I started extreme dieting as in my class, some of the students made fun of my weight and this made me severely insecure. I was mentally suffering during that period. To ease my suffering, I would constantly go to my mom for reassurance that I won't go bald. But at one point she got irritated of me and started blaming me for dieting, she said that I deserved it so I must not complain. She never understood my pain of being called fat. After I became thin, my mom started to call me ugly. I am in tears right now as I am typing this. Doesn't she realise that I was being bullied and I was suffering? I just wanted some reassurance that everything will be fine. But she makes things worse.

    • @Harry_2003
      @Harry_2003 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Desi moms do this always 😢

    • @__nomithajames13
      @__nomithajames13 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm soo sorry for that🥺🫂

    • @R0ub1.
      @R0ub1. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Harry_2003yeah i fucking hate my parents

    • @eiraidkwhatelsetoput
      @eiraidkwhatelsetoput 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Something similar for me. I have always had more body hair ,acne, and greasier hair, most of which were due to HER genes. She would constantly make fun of me for it. During my childhood, she would cut my hair to the lenth that SHE wants bc i "cant wash it properly" even though i was a small child who didn't know how to wash it. She would say my face is bumpy and ugly, that my face was fat. Then in the same breath she would complain that i don't eat and that i was "too skinny". She would constantly make fun of my body hair, especially my legs.

    • @khushitrivedi3429
      @khushitrivedi3429 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dont worry guyss ...you're precious..don't let your angel inside you fade away becoz of someone who doesn't care about you

  • @Ishika817
    @Ishika817 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Parents..never understood me..they never knew anything about me..they thought they were good parents by being “strict”..but whoever go though that..I’m sorry..because of that..we hide who we really are..they..won’t understand me..and now..idc..since I know I can’t never make them proud..why not make myself proud?..

  • @viditanimmagadda4047
    @viditanimmagadda4047 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    It hurts a lot when your own parents compare you to others💔💔😔

    • @Bfromalphabetlore222
      @Bfromalphabetlore222 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's why I never wanted to make friends at school🤕

    • @manishapawar2045
      @manishapawar2045 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@Bfromalphabetlore222 same bro

  • @Cute_fushiguro
    @Cute_fushiguro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Promise me..
    In our future kids❤
    We be a good mom, we don't hurt or no one let hurt she/he
    We don't do that we see in our time... I wanna say u something----
    I have no friend or sister to say..
    I have a sister but she blind she doesn't walk..
    Im tpyingg this while crying..
    Don't treat our kids like how we treat 💔🙂

    • @s___akura
      @s___akura 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i promise this to my future children that they will never experience what their mom experienced growing up!

    • @Nigeriaisthegoat
      @Nigeriaisthegoat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I promised my future kids that I will never abuse or make them Feel bad. I will appreciate them

    • @qaisarabbas1176
      @qaisarabbas1176 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I promise 🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢

  • @mercury9576
    @mercury9576 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It hurts alot when your parents not only compare u to others kids but also to your own siblings like i was compared to my sister because she was good in studies and i was not. It really hurts alot when you are nothing but a disgrace in your parents eyes. My parents even told me that i should die because i was just weak in studies.

    • @everythingwillbeok...
      @everythingwillbeok... 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Girl I know no words can heal what u r going through but I wish one day u cry as much as it hurted, your bad memories becomes past and present becomes beautiful where u r surrounded by only loved ones. Stay strong love you❤️

  • @sadpie2104
    @sadpie2104 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I really feel the same but I can't fight for myself, my mom always scold me when I fight with my siblings even if I am the one who is hurt. I just literally hate when my parents talk about my siblings, that is why I cry all night when they are sleep.

    • @BTSarmy-xo6lo
      @BTSarmy-xo6lo ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i just hate my siblings bcz of many reasons and they say I'm only acting they don't know anything

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here. My mom favours my sister because she is much better than me in her opinion...
      But whenever I talk to her about it?
      I just overreact in her opinion.

    • @Harry_2003
      @Harry_2003 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She never blame my brother when he say something bad about me...she shouts on me only

  • @Reveus_e
    @Reveus_e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    In reality 😅if we cry they get angry or don’t care.Then we stops crying ultimately leading to depression

  • @maddy.is.kinda.cool.
    @maddy.is.kinda.cool. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Ok but I’m was crying before and now I can’t stop 😭
    Oops- got a tear drop on my phone

    • @its.Tavishi
      @its.Tavishi ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am just like you and that's why we should have waterproof phones 😂😂✌🏻✌🏻

    • @farwasardar
      @farwasardar ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Remember whatever terrible is happening right now will be just some memories after some time so dont be depressed and be happy

  • @roshnipouchepparadjou2513
    @roshnipouchepparadjou2513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    Its is abusive in kdrama and world ......but in India its common that parents beat kids even for small things that doesn't matter....

    • @ONKYYU
      @ONKYYU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same

    • @bhumigole7480
      @bhumigole7480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      *Cause for them*
      Comparison is motivation
      Abuse is a lesson to children so that they won't do mistake again
      👏🏻👏🏻

    • @roshnipouchepparadjou2513
      @roshnipouchepparadjou2513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@bhumigole7480 I cant understand whether you're supporting me .... Or ?

    • @bhumigole7480
      @bhumigole7480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@roshnipouchepparadjou2513 I am saying for them means our parents think this not me

    • @roshnipouchepparadjou2513
      @roshnipouchepparadjou2513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@bhumigole7480 yeah ...so sad !

  • @Kim_tae-697
    @Kim_tae-697 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Outside smile inside crying in pain "iam relatable to this video mom never understands me 💔

  • @Tiatiiiiiiia
    @Tiatiiiiiiia ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I wish i could also say this to my mom : (

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Whenever I tell her that, she says I act like a victim (overreacting) in her mind... So yeah I stopped talking to her. She underestimates me and disrespects me

    • @EvalinnTomasi-lo1hc
      @EvalinnTomasi-lo1hc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I SPEAK UP FOR MYSELF ONE DAY AND SHE HIT ME MORE :( SO I STOPED :( CUZ IT HURTS :(

    • @R0ub1.
      @R0ub1. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EvalinnTomasi-lo1hcspeak up for yourself more, dont let her make you a puppet, tho it might hurt stay strong

  • @Monchy_moon
    @Monchy_moon ปีที่แล้ว +13

    parents doesnt know us. They dont know that we give the best of us only for hearing a "im proud of you". They don't know our pain because we hide it with a smile. It hurts but we dont matter anyway so we have to keep on suffering

  • @odd_onee
    @odd_onee ปีที่แล้ว +18

    it hurts to see how a woman hates another woman. Doesn't matter if it is our mother 😣

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Especially since we live in a world where women have poor treatment, because of patriarchy.

    • @Kkskrog
      @Kkskrog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol you are taking these on completely different direction let's take these drama situation as real life if a mother had genius son and dumb trash daughter like these girl then way not the mother will like and love son more than daughter yeah but cursing and comparing your child with other is not a good thing but it is what it is

  • @anupriyakarthikeyan9211
    @anupriyakarthikeyan9211 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I would never compare my future kid bc i know how that feels🙃

  • @Kim._taenniee
    @Kim._taenniee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    This happens in every time every year every days to me

    • @tokyomanjirogang--
      @tokyomanjirogang-- ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can fell it 😢

    • @zooMonalicom
      @zooMonalicom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey lady take care of yourself.
      You know after disturbing your mental health no one cares they will treat you as a mental

  • @Annie_Jaime
    @Annie_Jaime ปีที่แล้ว +39

    " I AM NOT afraid ANYMORE MAKES U SURE"😭
    *I JUST WANTED UR LOVE FOR FREE..... YOU CAN SEE ME GETTING BORED..*

  • @then1hal
    @then1hal 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Scream at me but you can't hit me. You cannot harm this body. This body does not belong to you. It won't always be like this. I might walk away one day, mom. Then you can hit and break things that remind me of me and scream as much as you want.

  • @akshitasingh9261
    @akshitasingh9261 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This scene is describing my life 😭😭 it hurts and they don't even apologize 😞

    • @ObeAmaechi-dd4fx
      @ObeAmaechi-dd4fx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can please tell me the name

  • @everythingwillbeok...
    @everythingwillbeok... 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This society hates when we say I think my parents do partiality between siblings, they did hurt my feelings, they don't understand me.... everyone says parents sacrifices their whole life they did this and that so u don't have any right to say so but let me tell you parents who grow their handicapped child on their own literally without expecting anything can be the real parents but some are really not...cuz they do everything for sure but in return they always expects success and if u don't become one then they really the worst people u have dealt with in ur life....some of u might be lucky enough to not go through all this but some of us really in tough time....we need to stay strong no matter what....

  • @Roseviolet9884
    @Roseviolet9884 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Parents Don’t know what kids feel😢

    • @Zhuine_dontmindme
      @Zhuine_dontmindme 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes I thought they are kids before how come they still don't understand

    • @R0ub1.
      @R0ub1. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Zhuine_dontmindmeidk?!

    • @dhanu4552
      @dhanu4552 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I feel very bad when this all are happening with me 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

    • @Roseviolet9884
      @Roseviolet9884 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dhanu4552 fr

    • @Roseviolet9884
      @Roseviolet9884 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Zhuine_dontmindmetrue it’s sad how they yell at us and we try not to cry like sometimes my mom yells at me

  • @aric4118
    @aric4118 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The "I get hurt too" gets me every time

  • @ilove_toeat
    @ilove_toeat ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If anyone wants to know the k drama it's called "strong woman do-bong-soon"

  • @rinasaha3755
    @rinasaha3755 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    And this kdrama made me realise that u can make thousands of videos about abusive but parents will do what they want. And I am myself telling this things parents things are normal but in reality it hurts so stay strong that's all what we can so now

  • @ferdinandmina6626
    @ferdinandmina6626 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    to parents again
    u really have to noy scold ur kids bc there crying they don't tell u bc parents accuse there children of stealing and being a mistake
    how much they cried
    they cried at home
    they cried at school
    they cried at the bathroom
    they cried bc of the scold
    they cried bc there hurt
    they cried bc ur choose the fav over them
    they cried to depression
    they cried to Friends
    they cried secretly
    they cried bc u fight with them
    they cried bc u hurt them
    they cried bc of u
    they cried bc u call them a failure
    they cried bc u grounded them for no reason
    they cried bc u care abt urself and there siblings instead of them
    they cried bc u don care abt them
    they cried bc strong emotions
    they cried bc of friends
    they cried bc of anxiety
    they cry bc u Don believe in them

    • @Zhuine_dontmindme
      @Zhuine_dontmindme 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow I wanna send this to my parents but I know they'll hit me

  • @itz_zooey
    @itz_zooey ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When only some people understand......it hurts when you understand :(

    • @nithya-l9b
      @nithya-l9b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i am here

  • @luvv23
    @luvv23 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This is just like me. They don't understand me and always teasing me and compare me with my friend and my brother. 😭

  • @itsnotzainabb
    @itsnotzainabb ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Being the youngest of 4 siblings i completely understand. My mum is always telling me how shitty she got treated but shes doing it to me. She's only comforting my siblings

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Similar situation. She used to be a little better to my older sister, but she treated me worse because I was the youngest scapegoat in the family.

    • @elifmeryem4652
      @elifmeryem4652 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      finally someone who knows the truth about the lie that „youngest child is the favorite“ is not real : (

  • @RANEEEMMMMM
    @RANEEEMMMMM ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Watching this made me cry because it’s happened to me but I didn’t have the words to fight back

    • @ZANABAH1010
      @ZANABAH1010 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      whats the kdrama name pls?

    • @jyothijoo9897
      @jyothijoo9897 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me alsooooo idont have intrst on other group my dream is mbbs mrng mrng they started scolding me nd beaten meeeee to send me to clg even my dad🥺💔 beaten nd got angryyyyy i was brokeddddd stilll i love themmmmm but they dont understand my pain 😢they said ur wsteeeee urrrr karma for usssss nd saiddd dieee 😭😭😭😭

    • @jancyv.j4968
      @jancyv.j4968 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ZANABAH1010
      Strong women do bong song

    • @jancyv.j4968
      @jancyv.j4968 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Strong women do bong soon

    • @JsjsI-em6op
      @JsjsI-em6op 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jancyv.j4968episode??

  • @ruqaiyaghole8325
    @ruqaiyaghole8325 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is literally my whole life rn
    Idk why but as soon as she compared her to her brother tears started flowing out of my eyes as I remembered all the thousands of time she did this to me 😢

    • @imrrai
      @imrrai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey I can understand your pain. I also get compared with the worst people sometimes. If they ever compare, please be confident and tell them that you don't want to be compared as you are one individual and you are unique.

    • @ruqaiyaghole8325
      @ruqaiyaghole8325 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@imrrai if I said that , I would get a nice slipper thrown at my face and then she will say " it's for you to improve and we only want your best"

  • @wingsofatlantis
    @wingsofatlantis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve got a Korean mother. No idea if they’re just hardwired to compare and overestimate, but I feel this.

  • @Sykeita
    @Sykeita ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I always hate this.. my mom always does this to me and compares me to other like, kids have emotions too! My mom seems to hate me only out of my siblings. She's always like " your sister can do better than you!" It hurts because your parents don't understand how you feel In that moment.

  • @qaisarabbas1176
    @qaisarabbas1176 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've never comment on a sad video but I still want to say that when she said "I get hurt too" I almost died crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Doraemon_07342
    @Doraemon_07342 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This made me cry,it happens with me all time.

  • @dharmmalhotra523
    @dharmmalhotra523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Iam an introvert and my parents don't understand or never tried to understand what is my personality type they just say that i am so sensitive and so weak mentally, they simply say i am behaving like Mentally (pagal) in their language,
    you are absolutely right
    exactly what i wanted/ expected from my parents they fight against each other everyday in front of me and if i try to protect my mother he shouts at me 😢

    • @ShobhaDixit-o4m
      @ShobhaDixit-o4m 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can relate to that . My parents and relatives think that my introversion is a problem to be fixed and when I try to explain, they just call me crazy and never listen to me. 🙂

    • @AyeshaShahid-hd3ju
      @AyeshaShahid-hd3ju 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ikr. I don't have any friends at school and they keep pushing me like "oh it's not too hard just talk"
      They don't even know how hard it is for me.
      (By any chance are u Punjabi
      Bcuz u said "pagal"? )

  • @cherrylandfics7243
    @cherrylandfics7243 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    dude I'm actually crying for real😭, my mom acts like this too. I'm very sensitive when it comes to me getting yelled or shout at(I will instantly start crying once you tell or shout)

  • @rajendrachougule4035
    @rajendrachougule4035 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can feel her pain ❤️‍🩹💔

  • @MangoSalt
    @MangoSalt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Parents are supposed to help you in life, not make it harder
    -A wise person once said

  • @BangtanbyTodoro
    @BangtanbyTodoro 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so true. Some of my friends parents I know alawyas say to not compare with others to their friends but always make their own kids feel low.
    My parents body shame me and tell me to get slimer yet when I try and try and succeed in something they say to make more effort. Like why...? Please don't be hard on childern, parents. And kids and kids who are my age, please don't let their words affect you...
    I know it will be hard but try and distract yourself. Show them and prove them that YOU are the best

  • @BTSarmygirl-pb6zh
    @BTSarmygirl-pb6zh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yes it's true 💯🥺😢✨❣️💜so let's promise to not let our future kids suffer from what we are going through okk😊✨👍❣️✌️😎💜

  • @MasoomaTawakuli-zt8vh
    @MasoomaTawakuli-zt8vh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They always say:
    Youngest one is the spoiled one and they have everything they want
    But with me?
    No it’s the opposite every time I get blamed for everything as I have an Asian parent they always blame me and I can’t defend myself cause I’m the youngest I’ve to respect orders even if I’m right and they’re wrong 😞😞

    • @Harry_2003
      @Harry_2003 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's opposite in my house...my mom always blame me even when my Lil brother say something bad to me ...she reacts like he said nothing to me and laughs out loud

  • @darling_woozi
    @darling_woozi ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This girl is strong to cry in front of her parent I just pretend I have to use the bathroom or smth and cry there. It’s actually sad because our parents are supposed to be there for ANYTHING but sometimes they don’t even know what happening and just yell at you.

  • @GangaLimbu-j1c
    @GangaLimbu-j1c 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Today i made my mum cry... this was my first time seeing her tears. But she was alcoholic and abusive. She almost killed my big sister. So i tried to defend her but my mum started to beat me too. Idk why she cried

  • @leiftbell6309
    @leiftbell6309 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Now I don’t feel sad but instead I feel ashame. Ashame that the society is this way!

  • @supertechnicalgamer6993
    @supertechnicalgamer6993 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Parents who compare their child to others miss out their appreciating their unique gifts of talents😢
    Please don't compare your child with others😔

  • @crxaes
    @crxaes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Still they say this is "descipline" like tf kind of discipline if you don't even know the situation your just immediately gonna shout without even hearing our reasons
    As a kid growing up with a mother who has favouritism over me and my siblings, i just kinda feel like "why am i living? Was a meant for this world?, did i do anything wrong to disappoint god and my mother?":(

  • @sophiabonilla6401
    @sophiabonilla6401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That’s one of the saddest things that happen in k drama when they cry and poor girl

  • @Isha_ray
    @Isha_ray 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is for my parents :
    Please don't abuse me verbally all the time , it's not my fault all the time . Please believe me I m not that bad .
    Today I got beaten badly at home because I was crying after a heavy box fell on my left leg and she said me that why am i even born and badly abused me.

  • @Laiba968art
    @Laiba968art ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Parents never understand they just compare😢

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly as a child you have to wait until adulthood to actually get a free life, sometimes which is sad because childhood is something you don't get back.

  • @Carleigh-b8w
    @Carleigh-b8w 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    kids deserve parents, parents don't deserve kids

  • @babitaagrawal730
    @babitaagrawal730 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is reality whenever i fo anything wrong she slways compares me with my eldest sister. When I say something she never talks me until i say sorry or beg to talk to me "WHY ALWAYS WE YOUNGEST SIBLINGS GET THIS TREATMENT" 😭😭😭

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว

      This reminds me of my own childhood as well...
      Constantly being compared to my elder sister and making me feel uncomfortable for existing under the same roof as her. So she would tell me to be nice to her and my sister, while being inconsiderate for my feelings...😢

  • @coleendonre6983
    @coleendonre6983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if only parents could truly do when they say "I love you both equally".

  • @yeosang1999
    @yeosang1999 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    in the morning i cry a lot,
    Sometimes parent's never deserve childs,

  • @Coco_cookie788
    @Coco_cookie788 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just want to say every parents please don't compare us we also have feelings It hurts us when you say this we don't react but when we remember it we broke every single second 😣😔😞

  • @shwenczyb009
    @shwenczyb009 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And yet , I'm my culture NO MATTER WHAT, respect parents
    It's a blessing of God
    I was told even no matter what they do

  • @minusharma6623
    @minusharma6623 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Sometimes it's better to keep silent
    than you tell others what you FEEL
    Because it will hurt, when your parents don't Understand you 😢😢
    ~ unknown

  • @xwolfminionx
    @xwolfminionx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Mama wolf is here for any who feels like their parents pick favorites i will love you with open arms

  • @Not_QuQu
    @Not_QuQu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Imagine saying HURTFUL things to your child and still thinking that they would still love you.

    • @kanchanmaurya3446
      @kanchanmaurya3446 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes it is happening everyday with me I want to die because my brother lie to them that I beat him so my mom beat me for no reason and create severe fight and say that you should do all the household work all the time I am depressed I have noone by my side not even a single person she said that my brother is innocent and had not anything bad and he takes advantage of all this and play games all day long and he sleeps for even 6. hours in day and also 10 hours at night and if I sleep even for 1 hour she scolds me 😢 I am suffering a little too much please help😢

  • @anandmohansingh279
    @anandmohansingh279 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was compared to my best friend everyday. She is the best but now coz of them saying she's better, im always so jealpus of her even if she did nothing wrong. God save us

  • @Black_Queens.4
    @Black_Queens.4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Saddest thing You're parents love you they give you both money and time 😊❤ but they don't understand your feelings, they just keep you comparing with others
    they don't know what happens with you 😭😭😭😭

  • @irine_sultana
    @irine_sultana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    parents things what they does all are right bcz parents things they know everything but they actually do not know everything .
    every timrs my mom yell at me i have apologize bcz i got angry.😞

  • @tokyomanjirogang--
    @tokyomanjirogang-- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It hurt most because my own parents compare me with other child
    Why do every parent who want a perfect kid
    It's not even a day i am not beaten by them i literary have scars on my back

    • @tokyomanjirogang--
      @tokyomanjirogang-- ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And only my cousin brother cousin sister big mom and big dad loves me

  • @predator_mass
    @predator_mass ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the most painful thing that's your parents compare you with anyone 😢😭 but now i don't care because it's me i know how my parents say me in past present and future😔 that's why i ignore them but i can't i don't know what can i do

  • @mdsaeedrazvi3868
    @mdsaeedrazvi3868 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Literally I am crying after watching this video 😭❤️‍🩹

  • @kimkpopstan789
    @kimkpopstan789 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This why child don't respect their parents 😢 never blame child blame parents if kid bad then it's cause parents
    But it's not mean that all parents like that ☺️

  • @DazaiOsamu-kj8ik
    @DazaiOsamu-kj8ik ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can feel her pain

  • @Roopa.09
    @Roopa.09 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My parents compare me with my elder sissy..
    I wish that they can see how much efforts i'm putting everyday to make them happy🙂
    I hate u so damn much mom and dad..pls leave me..pls go away..💔

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was the same situation with you. I was the younger one being compared to the older one...

    • @Roopa.09
      @Roopa.09 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@missstranger7697 same buddy...i'm also the youngest one.
      But now everything is good...don't wrry nothing is permanent so just be happy and don't let there words to hit u.❤
      Just love yourself and be you🌸🥀

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Roopa.09 Same for you😊😇

  • @poojanalawade6283
    @poojanalawade6283 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every child deserves a parent but not all perents deserve a child
    -a wise person -

  • @Cardboard333
    @Cardboard333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Our parents think we are bad even though, we arent.

  • @saishapandey6673
    @saishapandey6673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it's heartbreaking man they never understood us and when they finally did it's too late💔

  • @ikijadayschoolsurulere2238
    @ikijadayschoolsurulere2238 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why did this make me cry????

  • @Urvi.babbe.03
    @Urvi.babbe.03 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My mother is with me physically not mentally
    She doesn't how i am she just don't want me she really don't want me 🥺🥺🥺😭

  • @mahKoreandudes
    @mahKoreandudes ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When u know how it feels
    Means you've gone through same situation
    Parents will never understand their kids they always compare their kids with others they think their reputation is more valuable more then their kids that's how many kids can get depressed
    Well u will get used to it cuz i did

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also got used to it. I don't expect from my mother or my sister, because I have a negative reaction from them. I do things solo.

  • @rashidabegum4581
    @rashidabegum4581 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They are never appreciated by ur success they will just compare u with other siblings or cousins I know the pain 😭🥺

  • @Strawberrymilks729
    @Strawberrymilks729 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate to this .When my mom yells at me it is so hard not to cry, and if I do she will start calling me bad word like the b word and beat me up.I wish I can tell her how I feel to .She is so brave .

  • @jayaraj8761
    @jayaraj8761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mother was jealous of her daughter's powers since she lost hers

  • @zhimonia
    @zhimonia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This made me cry as I'm also going through the same

  • @g0sh1t
    @g0sh1t ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some parents can be cruel. My parents took my voice down because of rumors. Today I cannot communicate orally, only through sign language.

  • @Elif-fu9zv
    @Elif-fu9zv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No but also it’s the feeling of guilt after you yell to your parents. Maturing is understanding they know what they are doing but they just can’t stop it because they probably have gone through it when they were younger too. Dont hate your parents for it they just want the best for you.

  • @Emily_McRae
    @Emily_McRae ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me cry!😢

  • @TypicalAsian-
    @TypicalAsian- 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hurts even more going through broken hearts and mental problems.

  • @whoareyou7428
    @whoareyou7428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    IN REAL LIFE for example India...my parents used to shout at me and beat me rarely bcus even they were hurt by the fact that they shouted at me..ik whatever they r doing for me is for my future life...BUT NOW they NEVER BEAT ME....some parents r different while the others...idk..but im sure whatever ur parents r doing is for ur goodness only..idk about ur past so idk ur reality im just telling my reality-

    • @meghavizala2476
      @meghavizala2476 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But what hurt it is they never praise you never it always feel like its not enough its not

  • @editorjen8909
    @editorjen8909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    l love you editor 💖👍

  • @JeonPrincess_2578
    @JeonPrincess_2578 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One thing for me…
    Whether I’m not in the mood, I shouldn’t be like normal kids. I’m only meant to have the emotions they want me to have.

  • @BlackSky_111
    @BlackSky_111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Especially desi parents do this things to theyr kids...

  • @mohsinaattar9810
    @mohsinaattar9810 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They don't care, they dont feel guilty like her mom did, they just DON'T care. I pretend it never happened, I pretend to forget, I pretend to forgive. Its a cycle.
    And then I add reasons to not be like them, if I turn out like them I'd rather not have kids than to pass on this trauma.

  • @COUPLESBLACKPINK
    @COUPLESBLACKPINK ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This girl is like me my mom said your not my daughter when i asked her "stop your hurting me am i not your daughter too?" She said " your not my daughter
    And yesterday she said to me "Die"

  • @MXRINETHERIAN
    @MXRINETHERIAN ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i feel that so much i get compared to literally everyone around me. my sister and brothers especially. and i dont know why because if they would actually help me out with school instead of comparing me all the time maybe i wouldn't have that on B.