What to Do When You're Stuck In A Bad Marriage
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
- What do you do if you’re already married to a fool like Nabal? In other words, what if you’re relationship entrapment is not about a potential relationship in the future, what if you lay down at night, look at every day, have dinner with someone you don’t like, someone who don’t enjoy being with, and someone who make life flat out miserable? Sadly, many people find themselves in relationships like this today, so we’re going to look at what to do if you’re stuck in a bad marriage.
My God!!!! I came across this video several weeks ago and it got my attention but I didn’t have the time to watch it, so I saved it to watch later. Unfortunately I completely forgot about it. However, I was just led to listen to some inspirational videos I had saved, after which this one started playing! I could not believe what I was hearing! I could completely relate to every single thing he talked about! This is God because I have been dealing with these issues. The message about some people being bound by tradition and binary thinking are spot on for me. Oh my God! This is all a revelation, and I now have closure and feel free to embark on my plans. This is amazing! God knows exactly what I’ve been struggling with in my thinking, and led me to listen to this, after which I have peace in my mind. Hallelujah! Thank you so much pastor!!
I needed this! I feel like you spoke to me. Thank you!
Finally!!! It is true. When a spouse hardenes their heart and refuses to change, they also reject God. It is time to move on
I agree
Yes, I think he is speaking about abuse and neglect for the most part. For example, if your spouse is constantly choosing other things over you, hurting you physically or mentally every day, and after prayer( and counseling if possible) their heart is still so hardened...that is a sure sign right there.
The struggle is real right now, thank you for this sermon.
I'm not putting up with this any longer
This year something has got to change
Omg, I can't talk I just want to cry, pray for me please, please, please
THIS year, something has to change!
Thank you for this message! Amen!
That was such an interesting topic I needed to hear that that was such a blessing & it was such a helpful topic
I am not going to put up any longer!
I cannot talk to my husband about literally anything without him claiming I’m attacking him. He blames and shames me constantly- sometimes in passive aggressive ways and most times outright. But he is not abusive and is an excellent father so I don’t want to end things but I also can’t be happy around him? What do I do?
Thank you for this message
This year 2024
This year, something has got to change!! Amen
This message doesn’t sit well with my spirit……
Is it not worth listening too
I agree. Mine either
I felt the same. I came here hoping to save my marriage 😢
Is Pastor Coates divorced? Pastor Coates also supports same sex marriage. He has an unconventional interpretation of the Bible. I wonder how he can be so sure he’s right and the majority of Christian theologians are wrong. I respect his transparency but the sermon feels off to me. How about love your wife like Christ does the church? There are some relationships you cannot “divorce.” Should we “divorce” or abandon our kids too? I have felt like I hated my wife one moment and loved her the next. I am committed to all of my spouse. I don’t just love the parts that make me happy. I love all of her and will NEVER stop believing that God will make us both better people.
@@Mrs.T305Check out the book “Sacred Marriage” by Gary L. Thomas. It provides Biblical Based advice re getting through the difficulties associated with marriage. EVERY marriage has challenges. Every spouse has unlovable aspects but what is love if it cannot endure the irritation and pain caused by those we claim to love.
What if its not bad but its not necessarily good either?
Yes! That’s what I’m thinking! What if I’m the spouse who has a hardened heart ♥️?
I really don’t have authority to be correcting you Pastor but please read the word again, learn what Christ says about marriage and how he responds to the questions posed by the Pharisees. Divorce is not allowed and God views divorce and remarriage as adultery.
I definitely see why you would say this and to a point I agree. However, when it comes to abuse that will not stop, that is not what God wants. The spouse who has chosen to be an abuser has betrayed their spouse. If after (Christian) therapy and communication it does not improve and when the abuser refuses to let Jesus take control, it can't be that God approves of staying in that situation. Through prayer and trust in Jesus, he will give a way out when if it is His will. The Lord does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Tim 1:7 Someone in an abusive relationship lives in fear, lives in feeling weak, lives in a clouded mind. I am in a very sad situation right now and praying every day and doing marriage counseling. My husband needs to go to Jesus as I encourage it all the time, filling our house with sermons and Christian music. He has to work on it too, just like me. Jesus will provide me a way out if that is His will. Praise Jesus that he is my ultimate protector. I wish you well in your Christian walk 🙏🏻.
Thank you Lord for releasing me through this powerful message. May God bless you.
What a great message.
It’s sad but this is sooooo true 😌
This year something is going to change
Wow, what a sermon! Glad to have heard it…
Thank you for speaking the truth...pray for me please...
Yesss, for me too please
This year something has to change
I don’t feel trapped anymore! Hallelujah 🎉🎉🎉
i cant wait for my blessing on the other side
Amen 🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️
I just can’t wait for my blessing on the other side!!
This year
Something has to change God knows Lord deliver me🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I ain’t putting up with this stuff any more. I deserve better
Not putting up with this anymore
I will not put up with this mess anymore
God give me clarity
Yes
May husband left and took all money pray I move forward after 38 years
Amen
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Do not watch this is not biblical..... Open up your bibles please!
I agree
That means everyone is doomed. Most people are divorced and remarried .