My husband and I of 12 years also got engaged and then married within 2 years of first meeting. You definitely know if they are the right one or not pretty quickly.
My husband and I met in highschool. Not at school but at the grocery store. I bought balloons and the string came off and my balloons flew away getting stuck on the sign he seen was 6ft 3 and got them for me. We knew in a month. So we decided to not be together. We were kids and didn't want the wonder of what if to ruin our relationship when we were 40. We got back together at 19 because we realized we didn't care about "experiencing life" anymore. Lol. We've been married 15 years stronger than ever and it's never been weak. When you know you know and I stand by it. Lol.
Congratulations 🎉 the first year my husband and I were together we got pregnant, bought a house, adopted a dog and our son was born. We literally started dating in April and our son was born that next April lol people thought we were crazy and moving too quickly. Literally everyone in our life told us it wasn’t going to work out. 8 years later we’re still going strong and happier than ever. - I don’t recommend doing things the way we did it because it was hard… but I just like to trust that people know what they’re doing and instead of being a critic I personally just like to support people.
Accept a piece of advice from one whom is old? Never go to bed angry with one another. Sit down. Talk. Talk all night if it is necessary. The best relationship is of two people who openly communicate and are willing to sit down and talk about what made them angry. If you bottle it up, it will just make things worse. Be the couple that are willing to talk openly with each other. If you do, we will never see that breakup video.
Not getting married implies a "someone better might come along" attitude, which isn't going to ever produce a long-term fulfilling partnership. Makes it far easier in difficult times to say "Oh it wasn't really that serious anyways, we weren't married or anything" Playing marriage without the commitment is only going to result in heartache and potentially broken families. Make true commitments and work out the problems, it's worth it.
Lol lots of unhappy married people in the comments. Why are y'all so angry? Getting married doesn't make you more "adult" or "better" than other people who choose to enter into other important contracts (like home ownership). Some people want to have the option to freely choose their partner every day rather than put themselves in a position where they feel obligated to choose one another under the duress of legal consequences. That said, if you are gonna own a home together, it's probs smart to protect yourselves by drafting a legally enforceable cohabitation agreement. My boyfriend and I have been together for a decade and co-own a home together. Many of our friends have been married multiple times during that decade. Many of our friends are in unhappy marriages and feel trapped due to kids and the consequences of divorce. Choose your own bliss, man.
I bought a house with my fiancee 6 months into dating. I keep the house if we ever divorce, I also keep the animals. But we are doing great and I don't regret it! We have lived in the house for over a year now.
My very first thought before you even said it was you would both be living in an apartment anyway, paying rent and neither one of you would have anything to show for it after you left. At least if you take the time to make renovations, you'll end up with a beautiful home that if worse comes to worse, something happens. You can sell and split the profit when you leave. Agree on who keeps it. Make a guest house so that and they still live together but separately until either one of you moves on to their next place in life ❤ That way joint custody of the pooch won't be so hard
Why do people have to get married? I mean weddings are big waste of money anyways. Spending money on a home makes more sense than spending money on a dress you will never wear again. Marriage really doesn't change anything. If they are happy then be happy the way you are.
Oaky so you can mortgage together but can't sign a piece of paper that says your married. The content will be great. All reasons to get married. This girl.
Me and my boyfriend did the same thing! It’s always smart to invest in your future, and as long as you are both on the title you are both doing just that whether you end up getting married or not.
Don’t get married because your dad said to, get married, because God said to. (like you’re literally pretending to be married.) Read 1 corinthians 6 (Sounds like you guys know better) But at the end of the day, it is your life…it’s also your choice where you want to spend eternity❤
You’re both leaving the door open to someone better. Stop being dumb and commit to each other. It’s a partnership and not a fucking Disney movie. Get married and start having kids. Children are what make life meaningful. Notice I said meaningful and not happy. Being happy is for simpletons, raising a family and being successful is what serious adults do. Good luck.
Not everyone wants or needs to be having children. Just because someones not having kids doesn't mean their life is without meaning. This should be common since
You don't want to commit to a marriage but you'll commit to a 30 year mortgage together. Makes total sense
Welcome to the United States of America
WELCOME TO MISSOURI
Ouch 😂
“Whatever if we breakup the content will be great”😂😂😂😂😂
Buying a house together is as hard or harder to get out of than a marriage... This is giving play stupid games win stupid prizes...
Harder. Definitely.
The only way to easily get out of a shared house, is through divorce.
The Red flag was actually at the end of the video when your boyfriend agreed it was a mistake.
He's joking
@@addison8426he’s not joming
my sister dated him too he sucked
That was the only right answer
@@addison8426 usually truth behind jokes
My parents got engaged after 3 months you dont have to date forever to know if they are the one.
My husband and I of 12 years also got engaged and then married within 2 years of first meeting. You definitely know if they are the right one or not pretty quickly.
My husband and I met in highschool. Not at school but at the grocery store. I bought balloons and the string came off and my balloons flew away getting stuck on the sign he seen was 6ft 3 and got them for me. We knew in a month. So we decided to not be together. We were kids and didn't want the wonder of what if to ruin our relationship when we were 40. We got back together at 19 because we realized we didn't care about "experiencing life" anymore. Lol. We've been married 15 years stronger than ever and it's never been weak. When you know you know and I stand by it. Lol.
Congratulations 🎉
the first year my husband and I were together we got pregnant, bought a house, adopted a dog and our son was born. We literally started dating in April and our son was born that next April lol people thought we were crazy and moving too quickly. Literally everyone in our life told us it wasn’t going to work out. 8 years later we’re still going strong and happier than ever. - I don’t recommend doing things the way we did it because it was hard… but I just like to trust that people know what they’re doing and instead of being a critic I personally just like to support people.
Accept a piece of advice from one whom is old?
Never go to bed angry with one another.
Sit down.
Talk.
Talk all night if it is necessary.
The best relationship is of two people who openly communicate and are willing to sit down and talk about what made them angry.
If you bottle it up, it will just make things worse.
Be the couple that are willing to talk openly with each other. If you do, we will never see that breakup video.
Not getting married implies a "someone better might come along" attitude, which isn't going to ever produce a long-term fulfilling partnership. Makes it far easier in difficult times to say "Oh it wasn't really that serious anyways, we weren't married or anything" Playing marriage without the commitment is only going to result in heartache and potentially broken families. Make true commitments and work out the problems, it's worth it.
I married my sweetheart within a year. Our first year married was horrible really but we are doing fine now
Lol lots of unhappy married people in the comments. Why are y'all so angry? Getting married doesn't make you more "adult" or "better" than other people who choose to enter into other important contracts (like home ownership). Some people want to have the option to freely choose their partner every day rather than put themselves in a position where they feel obligated to choose one another under the duress of legal consequences. That said, if you are gonna own a home together, it's probs smart to protect yourselves by drafting a legally enforceable cohabitation agreement. My boyfriend and I have been together for a decade and co-own a home together. Many of our friends have been married multiple times during that decade. Many of our friends are in unhappy marriages and feel trapped due to kids and the consequences of divorce. Choose your own bliss, man.
my parents met and got married in less than a year!
My man and I rented our first home together 8 months into dating. . . Still happy AF to have eachother 12+ yrs later. When you know, you know.
My mum and dad got together and married in 8 months. They got engaged after 5 months... they've been together 40 years! When you know you know!
I'm angry with that burnt pizza
I got married within a year we are at 17 years of marriage now
I bought a house with my fiancee 6 months into dating. I keep the house if we ever divorce, I also keep the animals. But we are doing great and I don't regret it! We have lived in the house for over a year now.
Get married if you’re gonna live this way
All I really wanna know is how y’all were able to afford a house honestly. You both look pretty young. 24 at most.
get married. stop fooling around. dating for a year is plenty
my mom tells us all the time she would rather us live with someone before marriage and have to freedom to just break up with no legal action
My very first thought before you even said it was you would both be living in an apartment anyway, paying rent and neither one of you would have anything to show for it after you left. At least if you take the time to make renovations, you'll end up with a beautiful home that if worse comes to worse, something happens. You can sell and split the profit when you leave. Agree on who keeps it. Make a guest house so that and they still live together but separately until either one of you moves on to their next place in life ❤ That way joint custody of the pooch won't be so hard
YOLO !! You only live once! Enjoy life!
Listen to your dad.
Dude its ok, you can always sell and get your money back, you can't get the money back for rent
Sanity is for normal people
Why do people have to get married? I mean weddings are big waste of money anyways. Spending money on a home makes more sense than spending money on a dress you will never wear again. Marriage really doesn't change anything. If they are happy then be happy the way you are.
Oaky so you can mortgage together but can't sign a piece of paper that says your married. The content will be great. All reasons to get married. This girl.
Your the one who chose to Stay together or break up
Idk maybe u might be maybe u might not😊😅
Me and my boyfriend did the same thing! It’s always smart to invest in your future, and as long as you are both on the title you are both doing just that whether you end up getting married or not.
YOLO!
Do what makes you happy. Tbh i think dating sucks. I prefer to be alone.
It does suck and being alone is AWESOME
Get married
Your parents must be disappointed.
Yea crazy for trying to take his dog when it was his in the first place like how much do women want to tear down
Cringe
This is what's wrong with this world
Don’t get married because your dad said to, get married, because God said to. (like you’re literally pretending to be married.) Read 1 corinthians 6
(Sounds like you guys know better)
But at the end of the day, it is your life…it’s also your choice where you want to spend eternity❤
You’re both leaving the door open to someone better. Stop being dumb and commit to each other. It’s a partnership and not a fucking Disney movie. Get married and start having kids. Children are what make life meaningful. Notice I said meaningful and not happy. Being happy is for simpletons, raising a family and being successful is what serious adults do. Good luck.
Agreed. I'm tired of all these "grown" people playing house.
What? What does a government certificate have to do with someone's ability to commit to a partnership?
Not everyone wants or needs to be having children. Just because someones not having kids doesn't mean their life is without meaning. This should be common since